Enneagram Types Seduce You

[@joyrobinsonmusic]

4 here... the fact that you put Waitress lyrics in... pure gold.

[@AbbeyHowe]

THANK YOU FOR NOTICING THIS YOU WIN COMMENTS

[@rebeccahorne9487]

I like how this makes it perfectly clear why 5 and 1 can work so well together.

[@Logansaurus01]

Type 8s, Tsunderes to their very core. I love it

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂

[@KendrixTermina]

that was my same exact thought Tsundere: 8 yandere: 2 Genki girl: 7 Kuudere : 5 Proper Class President: 1 Honor Student: 3 Ordinary Childhood Friend: 6 (a more counterphobic 6 could also be tsundere) Gothic Lolita/ Dark Magical girl: 4 The typical anime protag who can't seem to make anything happen despite being surrounded by all these cute girls: 9

[@torsasafat7397]

thank you, love you too

[@neonsky595]

Fairly old term, but I like it.

[@ibelieveinyou1696]

I can't bring myself to watch it without laughing out loud and thinking about Bakugou from My Hero Academia. Nerd!

[@fernandadealencar1158]

I don’t know about the other 4s, but playing a song that I really like both to set the mood and to show a little bit of my soul is my classical move

[@antonioalcantara3164]

Same same same! (another 4)

[@JacqueArmijo]

I don't do this anymore because I feel like it's too obvious

[@gabriellagrey4163]

Classic lmao

[@daniellelittle17]

Type 9 here, it is so accurate. So awkwardly accurate!!

[@AbbeyHowe]

hehe awkward and endearing!!

[@zeal2645]

Me a 9w1 never talking to them at all 😂😂

[@Jae_C_]

Too often realized I'd crossed the line from making a legit sentence to pure babbling & just trailing off. 😶👀

[@veyarain82]

Honestly, gets my attention and makes me feel cautiously hopeful.

[@mydogisoscarthegrouch]

Type 8: yes. If I can't insult you, I can't seduce you 🤣

[@peachesandpoets]

I'm a 4w5 dating an 8w7 and when we first met I just wanted to get as far away from him as possible lmfao. It wasn't until later when he told me he's been flirting with me and I was like um that was flirting?! I thought you wanted to fight I was getting ready to beat your ass what the hell?

[@morgansilva2092]

Lol The 9 bit is spot on! I had no game when single. Thankfully my hubby thinks my awkwardness is cute. Lol

[@oneeyedpeet2056]

I don't think a 9 can get a relationship with someone who doesn't think their awkwardness is cute 😂

[@ThruVision]

Type 6 had me on the flooorr... it's so good to know I'm not the only one who thinks this way :')

[@AbbeyHowe]

hehehe

[@nancynicole5590]

I'm a Type 2 married to a Type 5. We have twin boys. This made me laugh so much! 😆

[@kittykat17avenged]

I’m also a type 2 & my bf is a type 5. At first it was hard since our communication styles are So so different, but we balance each other out really well.

[@sparrowhawk5673]

​@@kittykat17avengedBecause your from two different worlds is what makes it so super interesting for the 5. Yet because you (2s) are so overly active and big on being social and 5s are more like a fly on the wall. I wanted to ask don't 2s just get bored in their marriage? The honeymoon phase is over and feel like not getting the most out of it as if with another ?? I ask for my own sake.

[@arrobatic]

4, 9 and 1: adorable 7, 8, 3 and 6: awkward 2 and 5: they aren't flirtatious

[@sophielorenz411]

I loved the format of your content in this video! Love the mystery previews in the beginning and the random order you presented the types. And as always, spot on with your Type 4s.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Glad you enjoyed it! Trying something new 😊

[@annamolly6]

It's funny, I'm a 4 through and through. And yet I found myself relating almost as much to Type 8's flirting style. Right up until they said "You're cute." Would never be that forward right away. But I will be playfully mean if I'm comfortable and there's an obvious mutual attraction.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thanks for sharing!

[@LilacSnowBun]

Same. And I do get punchie.

[@KendrixTermina]

I all the Reactive types can be a little bit Like That

[@lonihoots_author]

4 here... why do I feel a little attacked?! Haha! Loved every second of if!

[@sara.the.muggle]

I'm a 4w5, and my husband is a 1w2. We have fun 😂 We've been together for 12 years. Deep, meaningful talks at 1am, and deep cleaning on Saturdays at 8am. As long as he doesn't touch my books, my mugs, or my random vintage decorations, we're good 🤣🥰

[@AbbeyHowe]

This is amazing. Congrats to you both for 12 years!! 🎉

[@jessica9043]

aww thats so cute😂 im a 4w5 too and this sounds like goals 😁

[@hayleym3054]

Minus the last little bit about rose and jack that’s kind of how I talk to anyone I find slightly interesting. -a four

[@quinintheclouds]

same hat

[@quinintheclouds]

although the garlic pun 7 made is also a mood

[@masonreeves4775]

As an 8 I don't know what the whole first half of that depiction was, but the last sentence was very accurate.

[@criotene]

Agreed

[@AMoniqueOcampo]

Me, who hasn't been in a relationship in years: "Okay, so just let me know if you like Hadestown, Hamilton, wanna dive deep into the philosophy behind our favorite shows like The Good Place, and love cosplaying and going to conventions. If you don't love Taylor Swift (and Buffy) as much as I do, what is your childhood trauma?!

[@AbbeyHowe]

100% the not liking Taylor Swift is a red flag 😂

[@whitneypoitevint1011]

I need to know your number!!! We should be friends 😊

[@elphieofkiamoko]

My 4w5 butt feeling super called out by both the yearning for soulful connections of the 4 and the utter discomfort of the 5? No, neeeeever

[@angelainglismusic]

Type 1, here, and my boyfriend is a Type 8. Yes, that's me: pretty straight forward and practical. Thanks for affirming for me that when my Type 8 boyfriend "razzes" me (which he does regularly) it's his way of showing affection.

[@AbbeyHowe]

razzle is a great word for it 😂

[@criotene]

As an 8, I can confirm.

[@LesleySalman]

I call it - giving you sh!t lol

[@angelainglismusic]

@@AbbeyHowe Right? razz /raz/ INFORMAL•NORTH AMERICAN verb tease (someone) playfully. "his co-workers razz him about it"

[@angelainglismusic]

@@LesleySalman That works too :)

[@KendrixTermina]

Also, this reminds me of that one date that ended like: "Those nerd facts about languages were very interesting but I didn't rly feel much romantic sparks" That was pretty devastating. The thing is that I myself am very attracted to/super weak for ppl that make interesting conversations (especially if they make me think about things in a wholly new way) so I'm acting based on that, but ovsly there's no one strategy that works on all people.

[@mama2meditate375]

Type 6 is 100%, totally felt more comfortable dating someone I was already friends with and knew well. Married 10 years now 😊

[@MsSOwen]

Late to the party but I'm a 5 married to a 7 and it's easy to see how our opposite types of weird can work with the spontaneous, talkative one and me making sure things don't get too out of hand but enjoying the weird mix of her knowing my comfort zone and, when needed, pushing my comfort zone out with our adventures lol

[@jfish032]

OMG TO NAILED THIS ONE 👏👏👏 well DONE!!!!!! THE 8 was absolutely spot on.

[@cnet9008]

The 5... Oh my goodness, you nailed it. I remember looking at my boyfriend with starry eyes and getting hypnotised by all those facts and statistics. Its no wonder really, I was always addicted to my computer so it was like having it brought to life when I met my mate.

[@mathybtn4160]

Type 4 would win my heart for the Waitress reference alone 🥰

[@Avionne_Parris]

Type 1 here and yup, spot on Abbey! And acts of service is my secondary love language to boot. Thanks for making me smile :-)

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thanks for the sweet comment, Avionne!! ♥️

[@rhyswestbury763]

BRILLIANT! As a type seven, concocting a plan from a dash of spontaneity and a fresh hint of word play is my JAM & I spread it on thick, yowwww - see what I did there?! 🌟⭐️ You STAR!

[@Farah95]

My fiance is a type one and I can surly tell you, this is so accurate. He will do little gestures to show he cares. Me being a type 5, i must say that it is very difficult to show affection. But i will go out of my way by giving my fiance information that no one asked for 😅

[@mwatson4970]

This is so true! Also, as a 5w4, my wing would share interesting things like songs for them to show i care which is in line with the kuudere 5.

[@erosier]

Omg my boyfriend is a 5 and he is the biggest information sharer. I never ask for it but I see him doing it and just appreciate that it’s his thing ☺️ and I’m a 1 and I do the gestures!!

[@writingmelody]

I’m a 6w5, and my forever boyfriend is a 7w8 and this is very accurate for us 😂

[@MJ-iw9ud]

9w1 here and this is actually super spot on. super awkward but also always ready to give the people i like help with whatever they need as long as I can be around em.

[@dianarusnov292]

"I want you to pull me close and never let go" All the 4s already knew it was them 🤣

[@Sokka-r9x]

Type 5 is so funny Makes me think if Amy ft Big Bang.

[@joshuaschaller4400]

As a personality chameleon type 3, I relate so hard to this

[@elenamanolopoulos]

But literally every 7 I've ever met literally makes that sound she makes at 1:36 in conversation and it always startles me- but it's kind of cute. 5w4

[@malena6276]

Im 7 and I have to confess that I have to make that sound at least once a day xd

[@radiyhakhatun1041]

That moment when you're a 5 and you think of Amy from Big Bang Theory.

[@HighFiveFriend]

Hahaha! I loved her!

[@radiyhakhatun1041]

@@HighFiveFriend me 2.

[@brandoncheever1897]

Type 9 is too accurate... I hate it. I get so awkward. It's actually extremely painful.

[@AbbeyHowe]

it's endearing though.

[@freddierivera2848]

Type 5 Yes.

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

Type 7 conundrum- let’s have fun together, but omg what if bringing it up ruins everything! 😫

[@AbbeyHowe]

the true conundrum

[@coachmr.ice717]

Hope you are feeling better abbey! We all need a mental health break sometimes. Type 7 here- love the let’s go explore stuff.

[@Dietskittles]

I’ve been told I’m very direct, but when it comes to romance, all I can do is beat around the bush. It’s honestly pretty frustrating. I have no problem striking up a conversation and planning times to hang out, I just don’t want to make them uncomfortable by pursuing them openly. Weird 9w8 logic, I guess.

[@Vibrant_Ambers]

Same, unfortunately 😭

[@marishaten7399]

Haha I am such a 7 when it comes to dating, perhaps with a hint of 4. I get all these crazy ideas..."let's skip work tomorrow and..." is my favourite way to start a sentence 😂

[@malena6276]

This is so accurate

[@catplantASMR]

omg i've been seen! beach house is my favorite band and this is EXACTLY what I would do as a 4 ^____^

[@paulmatson661]

Wow...this was way too much sexiness to handle before my first cup of coffee. This 9 needs another nap to recover. Spot-on as always, Abbey! 🤣🔥😍

[@This_Holy_Chaos]

Haha, type 5 married to a type 1 for almost 18 years. We have 7 babies, so apparently you put the focus right where it needed to be 😂😂😂

[@gwynethstewart5746]

HAHASHAHAHAHHAHAAA 7 here, hardcore relate. Suggesting TONS of plans and being sooo goofy

[@saloni.sharma]

as a 5 i can confirm that i'd throw around random fascinating facts to build any kind of connection whatsoever, romantic or otherwise and then question the other person if they're getting the vibe or conneciton lol.

[@DariusLong]

I love jacket type 1 was wearing, So cool! And myth by Beach House was my ring tone last year, lol

[@traviscummings9178]

As a Type 6, I can definitely appreciate driving to a view over the city and just doing nothing. Either that or sitting down with a good book

[@KendrixTermina]

This is a very good video. The sketches have always been some of your best content so I'd love to see more videos like this.

[@termitesc.aardwolf3644]

Enneagram 5: They don't.

[@beybrain7896]

😂

[@zchularoceribfjan]

Well, I'm a 5 with a dominant sexual instinctual variant - I like sex, and I have no qualms about letting people know that 😁🥰. Not all 5s are as nerdy as you think ✌🏻.

[@rebeccahorne9487]

Speak for yourself! I flaunted my knowledge of Hebrew grammar and Viking fiber arts and scored a cute wife.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Other 5s? Weigh in here. 👀

[@Someguy8047]

@@AbbeyHowe I'm too embarrassed to say how my early conversations went. I still cringe about it.

[@lillykatoke1270]

(9) pretty sure I’ve actually said, “ I hope we both have fun” Like agh! How to get past this impass!

[@samanthaxwalker]

That ten year friendship, though. 🥴

[@AbbyNicole2]

Omg, type 1 here and the 1 is exactly how I am. Like, exactly 😂

[@AbbeyHowe]

yesss love that

[@Imaginarie]

This was hilarious, loved it!

[@AbbeyHowe]

yay!

[@Scarlettx90]

My brain had not processed the type # in the corner yet, but as soon as 4 started, immediate thought was "oh, that's me" lol these were perfect!

[@Free_2_live]

Omg the way it finishes😂

[@haleygriffis3140]

Oof. I’m a 5w4…and that was painful to watch… any other fives just say nothing cause they’re afraid it’ll come out like that? 😂

[@LunaFreiheit]

A guess the type would be fun 😂 I was expecting that When I saw The ??? At the beggining

[@LevicMix]

Okay, i'm a 4 but if anyone ever romantically approached me the way the 6 was speaking...i would just melt. I'd be so flattered. But like deep flattery that transcends the surface level. Like dang...to be known like that would be so wonderful. Guess i gotta find myself a 6!

[@mwatson4970]

Really great video, Abbey! I love your enneagram content best and the new format and mix is fun.

[@Rian-jj7lx]

confirming this is so accurate as a 9 dating a 6!!!! for both of us LOL

[@lindabillson4361]

Gotta have a cozy sweater

[@AbbeyHowe]

it's a necessity

[@emilymenjivar6138]

Two here. I’m really good at cuddles. Like really good. 🥰

[@drishyaphuel]

Lmao 5w4's stuck between soulful quest and solid proofs :P

[@CRFSUIGENERIS]

😂😂😂 spot on! I’m like that as well. Love your wording. So accurate!

[@TheMikoShivae]

I watched this video and felt like I was a one. I took the test and that's what I got. xD

[@drishyaphuel]

I loved this Abby, keep them coming

[@CastIronBabe]

Love it!!!! :). You are so fun to watch!!

[@awesometomrom129]

AS A FIVE WHO HAS STRONG WINGS 4 AND 6 😭 IM JUST GONNA WALK OUT 💀

[@jfish032]

🤗🤗🤗 you are loved!

[@jfish032]

I'M A 2 😃

[@awesometomrom129]

@@jfish032 THAT EXPLAINS UR PREVIOUS REPLY 🕴. THANKYOU U ARE NEEDED SO PLEASE TAKE CARE OF URSELF.

[@archicode4426]

That's not really how 5 do things but, yeah we kind of do... my strategy is clumsy with brain... nice to meet you :-)

[@antonioalcantara3164]

welp, this video really made me want to be in love so bad hahaha nailed it with type 4, loved this :D

[@Poetic_theater]

God I am a enneagram 1 and I currently am crushing on a 4 and what was in the video for 4s felt way too familiar (•////•) btw you were pretty dang accurate when it came to us 1s but personally for me I'm not *that* straightforward because I have a lack of self-confidence but you would absolutely be completely accurate if I were more self-confident

[@KKTanaa]

You absolutely nailed Type 4 😭

[@riaruame6183]

I'm sorry, as a type 8, uh. Type 1 was very impressive 👏 god I love these videos, thanks so much for doing them!

[@binkao2938]

Lmao 9 is so accurate

[@mianawoods8965]

I'm a nine and that was 100 percent correct

[@fernandoprioredealmeida3948]

I’m a 5, and I also would love have twins

[@nathallymerida2369]

I feel so attacked… as a three. Yes I will brag about my GPA I am so sorry 😭

[@LilacSnowBun]

Thank you, Abbey! I love your work 🌷🌷🌷

[@jmsl910]

abbey, you are olympic level adorable!

[@atnoc8738]

Omg... the 5 awkwardness, i feel exposed...

[@favlcas]

I'm a 3 and I feel personally attacked.

[@twlahue]

Awesome

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thanks Tom!

[@nateq]

Wow you really made 5s look awkward 😂

[@susanwright1931]

I am an awkward 5. It was pretty close actually. Lol on the 5th date because I wouldn’t talk that much until then! 🤣 my husband says he has no clue how we made it so long because our first date I literally said maybe 5 words, all of which probably came from a book. 🤣🤣

[@veronicachavez7794]

@@susanwright1931 I’m an awkward 5 as well. Which enneagram is your husband?

[@susanwright1931]

@@veronicachavez7794 I can not figure him out so I have no clue. I do know he is definitely not a 5. He loves to “people” and be in groups. I am gonna try to get him to take a quiz but I don’t know that he is just one number. I would love to have someone talk to him and figure it out for me. I think he is several all in one. Lol

[@dagnabit27851]

Before I knew the types, I was sold on type 1. If we both like each other let's just do something about it. 🤣🤣🤣

[@AbbeyHowe]

exactly!!

[@messyconnor583]

Haha that is SO accurate!😂 I am a type 9.😂

[@Zero-xb3ie]

as an 8 whos love language is affectionately bullying ppl i love............... yeah.........

[@kaitlynbrinkerhoff9465]

I’m a 5 wing 4 and those two combined explain me to a t

[@ilikericepudding5575]

As a 9 I would be VERY confuse with type 8.

[@TheFarter29]

THE ONE WAS TOOOOOO REALLL I am EXACTLY like that

[@AbbeyHowe]

HAHAHAHA

[@KindHarmony]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 So funny Abbey!! ❤

[@chemtrooper1]

5w6 here. You’re observation is 97.84% accurate, plus or minus .54%.😉. Married to a fellow 5 and this is how we acted😂. Ok I’m going back to my hermitage now…

[@FlashBangBANGz]

Damn 6 is smooth

[@despaahana]

Oh my gosh The five went right to a reproduction fact lol I'm more of the vibe person it's really hard guys usually aren't very good about catching vibes

[@CosmicDeath]

Ruh roh - time to update from Enn. 6 to Enn. 8 based on what I've seen in this video!! Ugh.. my poor boyfriend... Bahaha

[@AbbeyHowe]

hehehehe

[@asricikita]

As an introverted 8w9, I don’t think I can relate to this 😅

[@Dzkhadouj]

Type 6 2:55 😉

[@tyleremery7088]

My fiancée and I are both 9w1 but those 9 examples just made me cringe lol.

[@kaylamorgan4855]

This video is evidence that I am a 9w1 instead of a 1w9. Forever alone. ^_^' Waiting for a 7 to just barrel headlong through all my barriers.

[@CareFreeCommuting]

Hahaha you got me putting on Beach House today

[@AbbeyHowe]

YES BEST OUTCOME OF THIS VIDEO

[@CareFreeCommuting]

@@AbbeyHowe agreed.

[@purplemind93]

Lol on type 5 Abbey xD