ABOUT 'BLACK LOVE'... | The Slumflower Hour podcast

[@DrPositivelyKai]

“This is about me preferring my happiness.”

[@rosellesigsbert8128]

I'm 19 and I made friends with an older white lady (39) who watches your videos, she recommended your channel and said you have so many words of wisdom that she wished she heard at my age and I have been watching all your videos ever since... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL YOUR HELP MAMA. Thankfully, all my choices/ decisions have been guided by your advice and it has allowed me to bypass a lot of unnecessary time wasting. Sending you lots of love always xx

[@everythingeverything3505]

After years of dating majority black men and observing black males for years, I have decided it is healthier and safer for black women to date outside our race than inside our race and that is sad. Sad but true.

[@Msimportant1111]

I agree even Hispanic cultures as well I am being opened

[@onlineonlineaccount2368]

@everythingeverything3505 i feel the same way with bw. For observing them many years i notice many have low self esteem, self hatred, very obessed with racial comparison between themself and other groups of women. I also notice many have very deep misandrist views and mentally and intelectually not well developed. They brush people under one carpet but complain about racism and discrimination. Its better for alot young self respecting and intelligent BM to date women who value and respect them...sadly majority of bw are not. It is what is .

[@TheShamuraja]

@@everythingeverything3505 "Familiarity breeds contempt" Also applies to dating from the similar culture or language group.

[@Aggy38447]

It’s crazy how y’all will say things like this & y’all will get away with overgeneralising black men, but then when ppl say the exact same thing about black women y’all start crying victim. Just like how y’all did with the Andrew Shulcz situation

[@easthustler3937]

Then when Black men date White women you’re the first to call them ‘sell-outs’ or ‘coons’, smh. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@tinachristine4573]

Thank you for such a nuanced take on this topic that black women have decided to latch onto for dear life 🙄. I left black men alone in 2012 and I've never looked back.

[@Svga0006]

Justice for Lipglosss😩🙏🏽 they booed her n she was right!!

[@gailainsley6939]

36:45 Girl. Not me being a ‘Canary wharf aesthetic’ blcxxx woman and dating yt men. I feel called out 😅😅

[@cm203]

Chidera baby you ate with this one

[@SA-su7kq]

Here here!! To all of it.

[@Msimportant1111]

Innerstand what she saying as a dark skinned black women I need to open my Options ❤ and give other races a chance!!

[@dairybeary]

You respectfully need a call thing so we can chime in and add to this because this a gold

[@buhhhla222]

Omg STOPP that would be perfect

[@earneyyy]

damn I would have loooooved to be on the pod! I live in Germany and wheeeeeew when it comes to dating....this episode was POWERFUL!

[@SpaceBaby-dg7jb]

oh you ate so bad

[@Kayla-kd8ov]

you said a word. Black love strangely doesn't include black women

[@outlets878]

She sounds like someone who's giving up. I get it, Black love isn't easy and when blk men see there's no good sister they'll hopefully wise up. But I don't see that happening for this generation. Maybe the next

[@mr_knowitall]

There won't be a next generation with this trajectory.

[@cm203]

It’s not giving up, its simply facing the reality that a lot of black women suffer at the hands of black men in one way or another and there’s more love and appreciation elsewhere 🤷🏾‍♀️ black men take black women for granted. So they can keep the snow bunnies and racially ambiguous babes

[@viciousreasoning504]

Likewisee

[@doshpits]

7:25 way to moralize appreciating being a novelty to some yt men and rationalizing their fetishistic fixations on black features lol

[@svlrji]

Congratulations on all these big words. Did you hear her demoralize the fetishization of mixed race and white women by black men? She’s simply stating to each his own but Black women are going where they’re loved outrageously.