FEARING MEN | The Slumflower Hour podcast

[@lisasiawild5816]

It’s important to note in this conversation about whether or not rich men are abusive that men who are abusive seek out a woman who will accept abuse. If you are scared and scarred they will sniff it out. Realizing your power is the antidote. Educating yourself is the antidote. Become someone that smells like self love and deserving rather than fear and despair.

[@naa_bapps]

Oh my.. just last night, I was musing to myself that "all men are 'guilty' until proven innocent"🤭

[@PixiePollen-z2w]

Yes had to be said - the voices! I have feared my own company in the past & used men as a distraction but now finally finding peace being single! Thanks for another amazing episode. Life changing 🙏🏽

[@GrungeGalactica]

your videos enhance that friday feelin. Thanks for sharing the winsdom.

[@tragimelody]

Much needed episode! I have a hard time setting boundaries with men and I want to change that. Due to my upbringing, a lot of interactions with men (not just those I like) make me feel like I'm being held hostage and like I NEED to fawn in order to survive... Which leads to oversharing most of the time and leaves me angry and disgusted with myself afterward...

[@Datb2]

Same sister

[@LifeofAkos]

Yess the fawning response feels automatic. Goes to show our bodies/mind know we're in danger but we haven't accepted that yet

[@PastelsHaven-channel]

Please give us an episode where you teach us how to ask for money, examples and scenario 🤲

[@annekafoi7338]

Been waiting!!!

[@nicole.andrea.10]

Thank you for reminding us to not tell men about our living situation!! I just had a man ask me last night and I avoided the question because I intuitively knew it was a sketchy question to ask... I don't know you like that man.

[@Cosmiccreative1]

Heard you on Madame Joyce’s podcast. Your channel is refreshing & authentic & I’m here to stay 💯🫶🏼 love it here!! 💕💕🫶🏼🥰

[@Theemillennialdiva]

As you go down the “I’ve done the…” list I’m like check check check yup time to get in alignment with the life I want !

[@subhadradas4036]

Off topic buuuut Just got 2 of your books and find myself reading them in the way in which u speak in your podcast lol anyone else?

[@oldchannel-x5y]

Love this, very true and similar concept to what comes into therapy sessions 😊 we date at the level of our self concept

[@sunlight8299]

Chidera you recently spoke at Oxford and there is a case of a suicide after a man (Alexander Rogers) was cancelled. I think it is very important to hear a feminist spin on this case. It is difficult as the victim has not spoken out and this is a case of he said she said. However I think it is important to hear that women should not back down even in a case like this. You are right this is a war for transformation of the way we as women are treated.

[@HappinessTheBrand]

That second phone hack is PENG

[@AndreaCano-qc6yw]

this one was really accurated and usefull sisters

[@sunlight8299]

Gold and diamonds is this one but no one was hurt except the predators

[@Lolita_iconic]

Always put out the perception that your parents and siblings are heavily involved in your life. Predators love a woman with troubled family relationships 😂

[@CinematicGriotCollective]

She is hilarious! Maniacal

[@Bigmadam_ti]

This episode is so empowering 👌