About To Be A Dad At 22 And It Scares Me!

[@vane12685]

I love how he doesnt judge. Just starts on ok here is what you need to do...

[@AwkwardAnnual]

VanéRivas - me too. It is a big part of why I enjoy listening. He has such a kind heart it really inspires me :)

[@vane12685]

@vincentrich - Banned But Not Forgotten I disagree. Children add much more to your life than they keep you from. What is keeping him back is all this debt at such a young age.

[@Waterbender72]

Tired of people in the comments shaming the caller for having a kid at 22. By the way he’s concerned, it was probably unplanned (as many pregnancies are). He’s smart enough to ask Dave for help and living frugally (ex: living with parents temporarily, paying off debts, accepting he needs to work more), which is probably unlike half the people in the comments currently that just load up their credit cards. Props to this guy, he’ll be a great father

[@b.elijahakinola8819]

I respect the young man.

[@murderouskitten2577]

i am father of two ,32yo and still i think i am not ready to be father . It is ok to be scared to be a dad , that means you take it seriously . And best of luck to the new family .

[@TheGoodOldNas]

Murderous Kitten that’s great man, raise them well!

[@RhinoXpress]

Yeah but a lot of times if the guy is scared to be a father, than more times than not, he'll end up leaving and doesn't want to man up and face the responsibility of being a father. You're an exception and there isn't a lot of examples of guys like you sadly being scared of being a dad, but man up and still father their child. so good job on your part for manning up and excepting your responsibilities.

[@callielang-mangram4239]

I love how Dave is soo calm with this young man and honestly happy about t baby. Dave gave real wise fatherly advise.

[@matthewroberts4698]

Completely agree. Fatherly advice

[@ChrisInvests]

I don't think anyone truly says they're 100% ready to be a parent 🤷‍♂️

[@murderouskitten2577]

i fully agree.

[@HarleyPebley]

My buddy's oldest child is 30 and has number four on the way. He's not too worried about it. That's probably about as prepared as one can get.

[@greeneyedmonster7806]

When you're fully ready...it's too late!

[@RhinoXpress]

You can't be 100% ready for anything in life. Having a kid is no exception.

[@Simon-oy7kf]

I do

[@MyNameIsCorey]

My son is five I remember being terrified becoming a dad and being responsible for another life. My one full time job at the time didn't cover child care so i got a second job delivering pizzas then realized I'll make more tips and not kill my car doing valet at the local casino. I made enough in tips to cover daycare and take truck driving lessons to get my CDL fast forward five yrs to today I have a great career that pays great, day care is over I'm almost debt free and the kid is still in one piece lol you'll be alright you can do it

[@zuzaninha]

Well done!

[@adreichau873]

👌🏼true hero

[@AaronHernandez-xv4qh]

I’m 26 and had my first a year ago. It’s hard but rewarding. Just do what you gotta do and keep things light.

[@ethandowler4669]

I had my first kids (twin girls) at 22 by choice, and it’s been tough, but I have to say I wouldn’t do it any other way. So many great blessings from having kids. just be ready to put in the work!

[@richardcarlson8272]

I’m not questioning why you wanted kids, cause I do think people should have kids. However why would you want kids at 22 that’s insane

[@Triptoons]

Fear is great motivation fuel

[@olganova3058]

Unless it paralyses you :D

[@SpeshialKae]

Being scared is okay. Yes 22 is young but despite what these comments may lead you to believe..taking the first steps towards getting your finances together means you’re in a better mindset than a lot of the 30somethings I know. I wish you two the best. Good luck!

[@lyricalqueen100]

Kym W. Thanks for being a breath of fresh air in this negative, judgmental comment section. People act like their perfect. Life happens and many wealthy people were in these positions, even Dave.

[@SpeshialKae]

Christina G. I agree. I believe in positivity and focusing on the future. The baby is coming now. There’s no point of telling him what he should’ve done. Half of these people probably weren’t even thinking about financial freedom at 22 so I think he’ll be okay.

[@Christine-777]

Congratulations, Jacob! This advice from Dave is SOLID. Go for it, son! Much love and excitement from Texas. 🥰💕

[@clair233]

Get a second job now, get in a new routine, you'll all get into a schedule, speaking from experience

[@Spaceysgurl]

I never cried cuz my dad worked 2,3 jobs for us to have things. My mom mommed and had a job. My dad killed himself working to provide for the family. I am truly blessed to know what hard work can do.

[@awsomevidguy1]

Me and this guy have the same story thats awesome. 45k a year IS enough and i was out of a job for a month as well this is weord its like listening to my story! Im 23 now and everything worked out great just keep working those hours and keep pushing to learn and it will work out!

[@scorpion8rage]

Good for you! I hope it does work out as well for this guy.

[@Natalia-oj6mm]

David doesn’t stop to surprise me. I thought he was gonna go off!!! Instead he gave him the advise of a father, some tough love and words of encouragement at the end.

[@joshuawebb3337]

So true about the TV. Or phones for most nowadays. Whenever I get that feeling like I'm burning the candle at both ends and spread so thin I'm gonna burn out. I take a media fast for a week. Its amazing how much free time that gives me. I go from burning out with not enough time in the day to trying to figure out what new project I wanna try now with all this free time, lol

[@ludwigvonmiseswasright4380]

OMG! So true about turn the TV off! I'm a single mom, and it feels like there isn't enough of me to go around. When I'm tired info turn in the TV, and always regret it the next day. I feel as if wasted the evening, because I did!

[@scorpion8rage]

Put the TV in a room you don't use or hardly use... or is uncomfortable for you to use.

[@Prince-fn7ff]

Being scared is great bro! You can do this.

[@KrystalToddCPA]

You will never be "ready" to have a kid! Financially it can be overwhelming but it is possible. When creating a budget, also be sure to factor in unexpected expenses. My daughter had a medical situation that ended up costing me THOUSANDS of dollars. So planning is a must!

[@jayritchie6596]

Jacob sounds like such a great guy. I bet he does great - loads of sense and energy.

[@rchavez5056]

Hopefully he is married.

[@scorpion8rage]

Sounds like a loser BUT .. hopefully he pulls it together. Maybe the kid will get him to turn his life around.

[@erickim3710]

I watched a lot of Dave Ramsey show episodes, and I think this one is definitely my favorite one. It covers all the basic necessities and has a great story from the caller.

[@pormoua3771]

Dave: *asks a simple yes or no question* Typical caller: "let me answer that by telling you my whole life story" Dave: "Am I a joke to you?"

[@Light-vu6ws]

You know that’s not what happened in this call, right?

[@edgehodl4832]

@@Light-vu6ws actually it did happen in this call, thanksfully, dave stopped the caller before he went on with his whole life story

[@justinechamelle9535]

Every. Single. Caller.

[@MiMiOrt]

😂😂😂

[@NicholasNiko17]

@@edgehodl4832 It didn't happen. He just wanted to tell him that he does not pay any utilities/rent...

[@InspireDosez]

If you are a young father and are in a situation like this, just work as much as possible you can do it, trust me

[@israelboakes6710]

Easy for you to say with your big mansion

[@israelboakes6710]

And your big power company

[@HA-Humam]

To be scared and worried means you are a responsible parent , when I had my first baby born i was scared to death I didn’t know what to do and how my future is going to be , by time naturally you’ll live with it I’m a father of two beautiful kids now.

[@lms2379]

Dave is so lovingly paternal.

[@shialourdes7547]

Dave congratulating a 22-year-old expecting a kid like it's a good thing. This guy should be enjoying his 20s not becoming an unplanned father. Typical Dave.

[@views-ve5kb]

ktbffh 57 Amen!

[@melzerzvlogz6027]

Since when did we consider a twenty-two-year-old a kid? This guy is well over 18. He is younger than most but the majority of people typically have their first child when they're in their twenties.

[@richardcarlson8272]

@Transistor Jump it depends on when in your 20’s you’re talking about. 28-29 decent time to have a kid. 20,21,22 very bad time to have a kid. Not saying it can’t work but it’s is not smart that young

[@foreverreading23]

I was born when my dad was 44. First time for him too !! He told me he was terrified even though he was married and ready in life. He told me children make your life for the better (for him at least). I honestly don’t think anyone is totally ready in life to become a parent but when it happens, you get to it. Good luck to you Jacob! Do your best:)

[@kontwo]

My son's almost 15 and I still think I could do better. He said many times though that he is okay not feeling missing out on anything even if I got separated from his dad!

[@SilentPlayer1999]

Caller: *I make $45K in california with a baby on the way* Me: How can you afford that whatsoever? Caller: *I live with my parents* Well thats makes sense at least.

[@Dis_is_fine]

I was surprised to find out that not even in expensive cities in the US do people live with their parents. Back in my country almost everyone I know only moved out of their home when they got married, which allowed them to have enough saved to buy a house. Thought it was like that everywhere

[@d_chatz8353]

Believe it or not people live on less than that with kids. Crazy huh

[@tez_foe4382]

@@Dis_is_fine , No Hun, Different Cultures

[@harrisonwintergreen1147]

This 'Cali is so expensive' thing is irritating. It's a BIG state. Bay Area is stupid expensive. Indio, Lakeport or Victorville not so much

[@scorpion8rage]

@@Dis_is_fine Don't let things like this fool you. Most younger people now are staying at home even after university.

[@richardramfire3971]

Love this call. Ramsey’s advice was Holden as usual. Lately I’ve become guilty of watching television or playing with my phone instead of paying attention to the kids.

[@roxannegordon6162]

My boyfriend married at 18, became a dad at 19, had 2 more kids over the next few years, now at 70 he has children in their 50s, and grandchildren in their 20s. Unfortunately his wife died about 4 years ago. Otherwise the marriage would still be chugging along. He does say he was a bit too fast......but that's how it all played out.

[@cgasucks]

Life was simpler back then...and it was normal for people to have kids that young.

[@JK20239]

@@cgasucks didn't cost as much either.

[@scorpion8rage]

Different world back then. Better world

[@sunset6010]

2 BIG $ SAVERS : 1) Breastfeed 2) CLOTH diapers Buy disposable diapers as an EXCEPTION

[@scorpion8rage]

Yeah sure.. with these entitled brat women now? Forget it. Tax payers pay for the diapers AND the formula.

[@Jeff-xy7fv]

He's $35k in debt. He should have thought about that before he put it in her. Just saying. And they are WAY too young to get married, much less having babies.

[@jmr9735]

What he should have done isn't really the point anymore. He was asking how he can move forward now. Be glad he's wanting to get help.

[@Jeff-xy7fv]

@@jmr9735 Yes, that's true. The comment was mainly meant for others the same age, before they do something foolish.

[@SuperSaiyanKrillin]

35k in debt is hardly a death sentence

[@scorpion8rage]

$35K debt by age 22 .. still lives with his parents... didn't have a job until very recently. It's all a death sentence *unless* he makes some MAJOR changes.

[@Jeff-xy7fv]

@@scorpion8rage He's married, and his wife is pregnant. He doesn't have his own place?

[@willie.j4098]

I am 22 and I am scared to have a gf, and this guy have a kid already

[@dracod9897]

Deadass bro

[@sarahlabbe9779]

Meanwhile I'm 21, have good money habits, doing baby step 5, (but renting) and I wouldn't see myself taking care of a kid... To each their own, I hope that guy keeps his spirits up and is prepared to work hard. & Congratulations to him btw

[@StephonGittens24]

You doing the steps first and then the baby? Lol Sounds like a gd plan. Keep it up

[@sarahlabbe9779]

@@StephonGittens24 Baby steps before a baby steps in is the way to go I think, thanks

[@scorpion8rage]

Good for you... you'll be a rare bird if you don't have any kids by 24... and be able to select from a higher brand of male for your actual mate. Congrats!

[@sarahlabbe9779]

@@scorpion8rage Wow, you should try visiting other countries, no kid by 24 is almost a standard... (or that's around the age people start to have kids) And that implies I want a male and offsprings

[@scorpion8rage]

@@sarahlabbe9779 I was talking about in the US... but true.. I took for granted you were American since you were watching DAVE RAMSEY .. but ok, you're not. I guess you wouldn't be such a rare bird in your own country then. That's good news! Always good to see areas where women are still keeping themselves more moral.

[@anthonykence9954]

He is not the first 22 year old to do something stupid. He is young he has his work cut out for him. Sleepless nights here we come. You have to be strong now baby is coming

[@Simon-oy7kf]

Why would you want a baby at 20? You're just throwing you life right out the window!

[@cameronfletcher8905]

Just found out I’m gunna be a dad today and I’m 19… yeah it’s young but I’m on an apprenticeship as an electrician and I will make things work… time to become a man

[@lesterthecollector]

Keep working hard cam

[@godisgood7565]

Hell yeah brother

[@miguelreyes2600]

Wow , we’re same person in different universes , about to be a Dad 21, apprentice electrician

[@jmonte5896]

should have wrapped it up.

[@EllieofAzeroth]

I love his smile when he hears this guy is going to be a father :)

[@RacersRUS69]

I wanna be friends with Dave he is a genuine genius and extremely down to earth

[@LucyWonglondonbody2body]

I am 38 and still too scared to be a parent

[@juancuellar1561]

I'm 23 about to be a dad too!!

[@kurosaki0001000]

congrats, im 26 and just had a kid. i spend most of my time working and studying. but when im home, i aint watching hbo. im playing with my little girl

[@juancuellar1561]

Shout out to all the future fathers from out here in Houston TX. I'm praying to the lord my wife is healthy throughout the pregnancy and I pray I'll be a father that can teach my child all the important life lessons I know from my own experiences. It's a scary feeling knowing lm responsible for a human.

[@thecattermat]

can't imagine being that young and having a kid. good luck

[@juancuellar1561]

@@thecattermat imagine the 16 year olds I knew in high school getting knocked up, with guys who walk out.. thanks I need it

[@yallknowwhoiam7036]

Lol bruh learn to pull out

[@thisisnotok2100]

I'm 21, my wife is giving birth in less than a month, and I'm a little scared. My job is all commission, basically feast-or-famine, even when I'm rich I'm broke.

[@ChrisMFlorida]

Deliver pizzas

[@-_Dhaliwal_-]

Why have a kid you can't really afford?

[@scorpion8rage]

Go get a trade!

[@Waterbender72]

You may want to consider finding a different job that is salary, and quitting your current one once you do. Not sure what Dave Ramsey would say, I think you should Pick up some side hustles (like Uber) and saving up as much as possible (like maybe 3-6 months of living expenses). Good luck dude and congrats on the baby

[@cjscjs1064]

Don't feast save that money for when there's famine.

[@NoDebtButLove]

I remember when my wife told me we were pregnant with out first... boy it kept me up at night and made me work tirelessly haha. You will be just fine sir! :)

[@Ayat_Ali]

I love your username hahah

[@RealLifeMoney]

Like Dave said it should scare you, a good amount haha. I’m not at that point yet but the steps Dave laid out made lots of sense at a good pace. Congrats to the new family :)

[@Richard-yy8tn]

I would be scared too. Thank god for family.

[@JK20239]

Im scared too. He moved from texas to California...lol

[@CerronPritchett]

Tom Leykis would have said why did you do that. You should have been going to school and getting an education at 22 you’re to young.

[@mysticaltyger2009]

He would've been right about that.

[@ZaydenJayy]

So glad I seen this. I’m 25 years old went from 70k in debt to 18k. Just had my son and took a new job offer, I’ll be gone 44 hours a week but will be making 80-100k. Plan on doing this until he’s 4 years old and my wife should be done with school and be a nurse. Then I will find a job that doesn’t require a lot of time so I can be with my kids more and be heavily involved in their sporting (I am a former college athlete so sports are everything to me )

[@DanielIles]

There are so many crazy expenses as a parent. The only way to budget is to have an extra 20% of expected expenses set aside too.

[@s.on.y]

Love this one Dave

[@ReddingRed]

"You and your wife"? The 20-year-old girl is not his wife.

[@JK20239]

Baby mamma....

[@scorpion8rage]

Baby mama drama

[@BriefCarBreakdown]

Could be..

[@brysoncherry9884]

I assume only if she planned to use it as manipulation. Married+pregnant=one two punch.

[@VanFelo]

Having a kid before 30 is like leaving a party after 21:00

[@ivarlosna6516]

What?

[@fleskenialation]

@@ivarlosna6516 leaving a party at 9pm

[@ivarlosna6516]

@@fleskenialation The pm makes no sense, 21:00 did make sense in that I understood the time. However, parties usually don't START until after 21:00, so his sentence made little sense.

[@fleskenialation]

@@ivarlosna6516 yes, the joke was that you have no fun. It's like shooting yourself in the foot.

[@fleskenialation]

@@ivarlosna6516 not saying I agree, but that's what he meant

[@xslayr03]

Should have wrapped that willy up before you decided to stuff her egg mcmuffin

[@ChrisMFlorida]

Gold 😂

[@pieadapter3615]

What if that kid grows up to be America's next billionaire... either way it's worthwhile investment

[@israelboakes6710]

I remember working 17 hour days which is illegal where I'm from and had 2 jobs. Couldn't save it. Lost everything. Now losing my kids. I was 22 when my son was born too. Hope he's doing better than me

[@Ivy285]

It's simple. If you don't want to be a father, use protection. Don't be stupid and then call Dave to bail you out.

[@Nuffydeus]

spaciousgalaqxy calling Dave is a smart choice. Quit calling people stupid.

[@mysticaltyger2009]

I don't think he was calling for some kind of bailout. I think he just needed some focus and encouragement.

[@caramelkidd]

No worries, Jacob. Just put the debt up for adoption.

[@GoldAndSilver988]

I'm 55 and in a financial/career/health situation that not even Dave would have an answer for.

[@scorpion8rage]

Every situation has a solution ... it's just that sometimes we don't *like* that solution.

[@GoldAndSilver988]

@@scorpion8rage There's always the grave.

[@scorpion8rage]

@@GoldAndSilver988 I knew you would go there. 🤣 🤣 🤣 But I'm sure there are other solutions you just don't care to hear.

[@GoldAndSilver988]

@@scorpion8rage It's always easy for those who aren't in a certain person's situation to offer solutions.

[@scorpion8rage]

@@GoldAndSilver988 Yes, because they're using logic instead of emotion. Which is what you should try to do also. There are always excuses... when it comes to emotions.

[@DianaCarolinaGirl22]

She's 20 and he's 22 having a baby and they're in debt....that's NOT so awesome if you ask me!!!!

[@ChrisMFlorida]

For real

[@grod805]

Some people will never consider an abortion

[@Schoondogg]

grod805 Murdering a child you created isn’t and shouldn’t be an option

[@grod805]

@@Schoondogg if you're not ready. 23 is pretty young

[@wk3820]

On the other hand, responsibility can make people grow up fast. Look at the Greatest Generation.

[@wk3820]

Anybody who thinks they are ready for parenting is fooling themselves. Every day with every child is a fresh challenge, but it is rewarding like nothing else. And every now and then you have a day when you think you must be doing alright.

[@joshuawebb3337]

Change can be scary. And the guys whole world is about to change. Long run it's a change for the better being a father. For most anyway.

[@blackcaptainfalcon3441]

A vasectomy is reversible.........I know what I'm doing

[@scorpion8rage]

Go for it.

[@justinechamelle9535]

He said wife like they’re married 😭 in this generation, I doubt they’re married. Especially if he’s living with his parents, kid is only 22 having a kid!

[@martell8560]

Justine Chamelle it was a shotgun wedding

[@ReddingRed]

I thought the same thing! Dave assumed or was being sarcastic!!

[@Berenicear]

Right

[@grizzlybear2702]

Way to young for kids at 22

[@scorpion8rage]

Don't get why it's ok that almost every girl has a kid by 22 but when it's a guy all of a sudden it's "way too young" or a big crime.....

[@GamingTaylor]

Scariest thing to me about having kids is being able to afford kids.

[@MiMiOrt]

I'm 35 and petrified of having a baby.

[@scorpion8rage]

You're smart.

[@views-ve5kb]

I don't know what is so cool about being a dad at 22 years old.

[@michaeltoland5170]

Let him speak Dave 😂

[@Fruice_Lee]

I love listening to Dave's advice. How come alot of Americans have multiple credit cards, do they not look at your credit history/bank statements when you apply for your second, third etc..... ??

[@scorpion8rage]

No, they just look at your income... with excitement. 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@taemac10]

I like this man alot!!!

[@dpborn2721]

I bet he figured being home watching tv would be ok as long as the kid is at home too. Might as well go to work youngin if that’s what you’re going to do.

[@edgehodl4832]

Why some people for a simple yes or no question go on to tell their whole life story?

[@scorpion8rage]

Self-centered people do this.

[@lesterthecollector]

Would love to hear an update from this man

[@mino_7667]

im 19 and in college. I love her and I know im going to be there for my kid, but im scared. I have a job I can work full time to support them but im not sure what else to do. I’m not even thinking about school. I need help.

[@ThistleKing]

Who would move from Texas to california...

[@mysticaltyger2009]

Someone who lives with their folks for free.

[@scorpion8rage]

An idiot... which is exactly and obviously what this kid is. But he has time ... to one day grow up.

[@daejonmoody3304]

Scorpion the kid will be fine

[@scorpion8rage]

@@daejonmoody3304 We can always hope, yes!

[@misterjay4236]

If you plan on having biological kids, I think it is ideal to start having biological kids somewhere in-between 25 years and 34 years of age. That is the generally age frame where people have been out of school for quite a while, developed significant work experience, and are generally more financial stable than young adults at ages 18 to 24, possibly financially stable enough to have kids; but they are also not too old and their biological child is less likely to have any developmental, mental, or physical problems than biological children of parents who are at least 35 years old. But if people want to have biological kids as young adults (like the kid in the video) or wait until later in life to have kids, then that's their choice.

[@statham5388]

Myself and wife had 3 kids In that exact time frame first at 26 and last 34 and to be honest we still felt young enough and we're barely ready, but I think you never are ready no matter what age

[@dorian2112]

the every dollar app is not all that. tried it for a few months and the carryover to the new month sux. got rid of it.

[@jolenethiessen357]

I live in a world where babies are always a good thing. You will be okay with a heart and mindset like that. We're parents 5 times over, and it's scary every. single. time. It's sometimes tough financially, but as long as we keep our sight on the long-game and our priorities, it works out.

[@scorpion8rage]

I've never been to that world.

[@adamalvi4494]

So make better decisions

[@auntyuber5127]

Babies having babies....tragic

[@scorpion8rage]

22 isn't bad. Most start around 14/15 .. now *THAT* is babies having babies.

[@auntyuber5127]

@Transistor Jump Conserning permanent hard core decisions, it truly is.

[@auntyuber5127]

@Transistor Jump It is hard core since most get it wrong with dire consequences.

[@scorpion8rage]

Anyone who thinks having a baby isn't a permanent hardcore decision is either still a baby themselves or just completely mindless. Obviously having a child is probably *the* most permanent and hardcore decision a person can make!

[@scorpion8rage]

@Transistor Jump I agree .. which is why I don't insult people over these things. Reality is reality though.. just like saying: "Someone who steps in front of a moving train is either slow-minded or suicidal". That's not an insult, just a reality.

[@dogan6070]

( automated message) 'Incoming transmission from Mr Dave ."

[@Playmakerrob]

I’m 23 and my girlfriend let me know she’s pregnant. She wants me to work while she takes care of the kid at home I’m fine with that. It’s just very hard to make money out here for myself so now doing it for another life form will be tough. But I won’t stop for my future kid.

[@H1storybr3akdown]

Get into sals If you aren’t already

[@masterchief5437]

I just found out my wife is pregnant :) am Christian but still feeling scared. But God will get me through.

[@zerrotiii7135]

I just found out imma be a dad and I’m not ready at all I’m shitting my self fr

[@XxhimynameiscynxX]

Well at least he is not 16 lol

[@scorpion8rage]

Or 13 .. like my brother. 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@MSanz-jc2bg]

@@scorpion8rage what,thats crazy.

[@israelboakes6710]

I wonder what Dave would've told me. We were the same age but our parents were 100s of kilometers away. I wish I knew what I know now...

[@idbountyhunter]

The second mouse gets the cheese.

[@AN-tp4rs]

People are so selfish for having babies before they’re financially well off.

[@JK20239]

I'm 30, single and no kids. Its all about choices...

[@scorpion8rage]

Absolutely agree... but then again I think most people just have kids as an afterthought of screwing. Most aren't operating on the higher levels of thought you seem to be.

[@Jeff-xy7fv]

The problem with this guy is that he was doing his thinking south of the belt buckle, rather than north.

[@patricklioneljonson2747]

This was me two years ago.

[@pneron2032]

All of the bad situations are just dumb errors. I think you don't have to be a genius, you just have to avoid the big boo boos.

[@carojames6776]

Good luck.

[@wichaelmeston1492]

Having a kid is not as scary as marrying someone tho.. You’d be a fool to tell me wrong!

[@sarahlabbe9779]

You can divorce, have pre-nup and post-nup contracts... you can't just make another person un-exist after bringing them to the world... that's a mistake / a mess you're stuck with for over a decade, should you change your mind.

[@dominicankid1001]

It didnt scare you when you was inside. Be a real dude man. You deff not going to die because a baby.

[@rchavez5056]

I don't think he is scared for himself, but the well being of the child.

[@liveontheclassics]

Pretty young to have a kid at 22 and hes in debt. That's dumb.

[@mrgilmore6953]

It's only young because today democraps want adolescents to be 50 years old

[@Wangste002]

Is anyone ever ready to be a father?

[@richardcarlson8272]

I’m not sure about 100% ready, but it’s better to be prepared. Having a kid in your early 20’s is just not smart. Better to wait till about 30 when you’re hopefully out of debt have a house and have a wife. Here you’re prepared but still maybe not a 100% ready but in good shape to have a kid

[@yayyareaa2997]

Good luck bud lol

[@cincinnatislider]

Hey dude. I was in your shoes. I killed it. Hit me up.

[@GardenerEarthGuy]

Deliver the baby at home and save $20,000.... He's got family support, that helps major - bet he makes it.

[@mrcausey]

Really? Why not? I have been a father since I was a 22 yo.

[@nickre96988]

It scares me *gooood*

[@tropicalwaves777]

I am father of 4 four and married.....love my family but business in Jamaica how we survive....🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹

[@cgasucks]

Yah mon..

[@MrTmenzo]

@@cgasucks lol

[@zouk-uo9dn]

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