Acceptance

[@Stephieandcheech]

Praise you Jesus for bringing into your priesthood such a wonderful holy priest Fr Mike. Please always bless him in all his ministries in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Lord, may we have more priests such as Fr Mike. Amen.

[@bcfriardoyle7697]

So beautifully worded-

[@grainne19]

Agreed what a guy!

[@LUCKYBROOKS]

As the saying goes, '' If we do not deal with reality we will always be confused and unhappy.''

[@svetlanabarrow6026]

In what way we should “deal” with reality? And in what circumstances?

[@paulet990]

My husband had that book and so I read it for the first time as an adult woman, and really enjoyed it. Stories of overcoming adversity, especially in the beautiful wilderness, speak to me. Yet here I am, nearing 60, and have found myself floundering after the death of my disabled twin sister. I retired at 57-1/2 to spend more time with her, then a year later she died suddenly, possibly of suicide. The pain and loss are completely new to me, despite having had a father and two brothers pass away years earlier. Now, six months later, I am left not knowing my purpose, dealing with arthritis that makes my hobbies difficult, and feel stuck. I have been leaning on God a lot yet there are too many days where I feel frozen. Maybe I should re-read "Hatchet." I know God loves me, I know at some point I need to move forward. I really enjoy Fr. Mike's talks. His energy and words are inspiring.

[@nicholasbishop6731]

Self-acceptance and accepting of our circumstances. This is indeed, the lesson.

[@daybo6855]

Thank you just what I needed to hear. Perfect way to start my day with acceptance I am who I am won't change for the world

[@jimmchugh1278]

Great talk as usual. I also like the reference to the book and the story. I'll have to get that one 4 some of my grandchildren. Thank you again for the Schmitz for your wonderful presentations.

[@mistyviolet3825]

@@jimmchugh1278 Were you able to get the books? What’s the title? I want to order

[@leelashley6956]

Amen ! I just was saying my night prayers and started to weep about my loneliness after a two year friendship has ended . Acceptance blow me away ! Praise the Lord

[@frannyleyden7988]

Very hard, I hope things are better for you now.

[@hopeh4289]

You are a blessing for many! 🤗💕🙏🏼

[@juang8360]

Father I can not begin to tell you how much I needed to hear those exact same words. It is almost unsettling how your words describe how I have been feeling and rejecting my situation lately. It is weird. But also very very comforting. Thank you and keep up the good work. The internet is a tough "place", but you never know how much you can help someone in need you don't even know.

[@bmw1725]

Yeah weird. What a "coincidence" *cough* holly spirit *cough* :p

[@jessnutpeanut8842]

Juan G I was literally moments away from commenting this myself! I guess God knows what we both need at this moment. I wish you luck in your struggles.

[@osogirl64]

Fr. Mike, just wanted you to know that I really enjoy your commentaries. So much so that I've subscribed to your podcasts. I love the fact that you make it fun and relevant. Oh, and by the way, I'm Jewish!

[@LittleBigzach]

Every time I watch these videos Fr. Mike does, I want to immediately go make a Eucharistic Holy Hour. Darn you limits of space and time!

[@CoDSedare]

Zachary Taylor Spiritual Holy Hour. Take 2 minutes and place your self in the presence of God and rest in his peace and serenity, for he is outside time and those two minutes could mean more then a planned and a distracted Holy Hour. Say a spiritual communion and then, in your minds eye, kneel before the throne of God. Not the same but still a great way to spend time with God. Cheers!

[@Beanbag777]

+Zachary Taylor Thanks that gave me a good Chuckle :)

[@jgabuten8868]

Is it a mystery that God created us with space and time. All things we do are quantifiable and measurable including our sins but when God was incarnated, suffered, died, resurrected. It changed the whole meaning of time and space. It opened the gates of heaven for the past, present and future. In the end, what matters is the journey to salvation, it maybe long, tedious and narrow but it's worth the wait with Jesus on our side, the magisterium, the deposit of faith and the sacraments. Blessed are we as Catholics!!! We are not orphans for we receive the most precious body and blood of Jesus in Holy Communion and see Him in the Blessed Sacrament. We also see Jesus in every single body and soul we meet in space and time

[@jgabuten8868]

1)Acknowledging God as your creator for He created us not only according to His image and also out of great Love 2)When we commit sin and admitting it WITH REMORSE, we reconcile our sins to Him out of LOVE and not of fear. 3)ALWAYS BE THANKFUL, in Gratitude even in bad times (Job). 4)Ask and you will receive. Seek (kingdom) and you will find. All these and and ask for the grace to be docile to the Holy Spirit. .

[@mariachijazmin3970]

Father Mike your are helping me heal my broken heart and come closer to God and now the Catholic church. I will be starting my RCIA classes this fall of 2021.

[@theclapaolini4322]

Father it is good and useful when your talk about virtues that we need to practice day after day WE DO NEED THIS WORLD WIDE. AGREE ?????

[@ellastefanescu6289]

you teach people to love themselves just like they are, you teach people to love themselves and not punish themselves for what they are, but to move forward!!!!....loving yourself is the key of growing!

[@caryulmer5578]

ella stefanescu Well said.

[@susannebrule3160]

You nailed it.

[@nancymaewi]

Thank you Father for this video. In a couple of weeks I am having my first anniversary of my dear husband's passing. Oh, how angry I was, I couldn't accept he was gone, he's not coming back. No matter how hard I prayed, wished, pouted, screamed, it couldn't change the fact he was gone. Just like that. There are so many things I have learned over this past year--how much God loves me, how much my husband wants me to be ok and move forward. In many ways, I have, but his bag still hangs on the chair, with his car keys and wallet, ready to go. His clothes hanging in the closet. I'm still waiting. I will start praying now to God to ask him to help me accept, and live my life. Thank you again.

[@michaelhudecek2778]

I'm so sorry!'! Michael

[@leamarie6039]

❤

[@gill426]

I can relate...my father's bed is still the way he left it. His clothes still hang in the wardrobe, his jacket is still on the coat rack. It's not been a year yet. But I can relate. Blessings and strength to you too.

[@paulalarcon321]

Stay strong please and let's always pray for our loved ones who passed.

[@ericstevens2586]

@@paulalarcon321 lost my fiancee July the 13th, lost everything we had, house truck her family stole a lot of my stuff ..AND suffered a nervous breakdown. ON TOP OF ALL THAT! It's hard for me still to sleep good...but you know what? I know for a fact that God has not forsaken me and neither has Jesus. Christ...they have just changed the story a little bit..

[@colleenhoffman2817]

Thank you Fr Mike! I have been struggling really bad today with a very serious situation. I have been praying about it but feel so far away from God. I needed to see this! Thank God for you and what you do!

[@AlejandroGarcia-ek3uy]

Thank you, father Mike. God bless you.

[@pootprancia1956]

This is so good father, so good. I've been struggling to accept myself ever since I started loosing my hair, along with it I lost my girlfriend, my family is broken and it feels like I am still stuck at the bottom of the society. But I don't give up in prayer and never will I. It is not an easy and may take time, but I know the day will come that I have already accepted myself and thinking about that fills my heart with delight. God bless you.

[@Alexa-kb7fl]

Bless you Fr. Mike and may God be praised for creating you - you can’t imagine how much your talks mean to me and how they are helping me - this is just what I needed to hear. I wish I could adopt you. I am including you in my daily prayers and mass intentions. You are so precious.

[@petergarcia8225]

Thanks Father Mike.

[@aramolazaran]

Thank you Father for this message. I can’t begin to explain how touched I am by your words of wisdom. I am at a crossroads in my life right now and everything changed very suddenly and your message helped me realized not only am I not accepting the situation and therefore not moving forward, I am also praying for the wrong things. May God help me from now on discover who I am in the midst of my mom’s sickness and where I am supposed to go from here. Thank you again. All the best.

[@jenniefer.gabriella]

Praise God! What a change it made in my life just listening to this video... I'm glad you spoke about acceptance Fr... Tired of running away from situations and this video just helped me to accept the situation the way it is and grow with confidence... Thank you

[@12mountain]

I love coming back to these videos and re-experiencing their wisdom all over again. Thank you Fr. Mike for the profound way you illuminate God's wisdom to all who watch these videos.

[@mistyviolet3825]

Yes I’ve saved this one and replaying it now

[@melodie9109]

This message is so needed right now. Thank you Fr Mike. You have no idea the lives you touch and change for the better. God bless you.

[@Pangetmaggitara]

Thank you Fr. Mike. I always watch your videos both when I'm happy or sad. This is a perfect video for someone experiencing a heartache!

[@melissasalazar1436]

Easier said than done, Father Mike, but it's so true.

[@margarethhuapcent1270]

Thank you Fray Mike. I'm crying of happiness much time rejoicing my soul, understanding many creativity and i see what you talk😇😇😇👼

[@luzluz4916]

Your energy is so contagious. Thank you for dedicating your life to Jesus and humanity.🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊

[@blairerwin8061]

The timing of this message is awesome. God is good.

[@annelim1784]

Thank you father Mike! God bless! 🙏🏼😇

[@nickcurran3712]

it took me a long to realize that i will always have chronic pain and will be physically ill. it also took me a long time to accept that i am not me tally well. but with God's grace i have learned to offer that up and unite my suffering to Jesus' passion and pray for others' conversion and for the holy souls in purgatory.

[@f.oliver8078]

Thank you, as always, Father. This and the video on the meaning of suffering are such a powerful duo.

[@maldinarius1162]

Oh Father, if only all life’s challenges could be solved in 6 minute podcasts. Changing one’s heart often requires struggle, time, and yes, even tears. A significant change isn’t a switch that can be flipped and all is suddenly better. The angst and tears aren’t always denial or pity, but a part of the meaningful human process of change itself as we work through it.

[@pattiraithel5412]

Such a powerful message, we can work to be the best person we can be, but somethings we do have to accept certain situations and move forword. Love your videos, keep it up!

[@kiki7670]

Thank you for this message Fr Mike. As usual, it resonates with a part of my life. I recently realized and accepted some brokenness in my life, and have taken steps that will help me towards healing.

[@davidwhiteboy2053]

Reminds me of a quote on acceptance (without needless judgment) by Marcus Aurelius: "Is your cucumber bitter? Throw it out. Are there briars in your path? Turn aside and walk elsewhere. That is enough. Do not go on and say, 'Why were things of this sort ever brought into the world?'."

[@svetlanabarrow6026]

What about evil? Never question it’s existence as well?

[@davidwhiteboy2053]

@@svetlanabarrow6026 It is not so much a matter of not questioning its existence, but of not bemoaning the fact that evil exists and is simply a fact of reality in this world. Thus, the key would be to focus on what can be done to overcome that evil or mitigate it, which is more effective and efficient than falling into despair over the fact that it exists or spending energy on that.

[@svetlanabarrow6026]

I was referring to last sentence of original comment. But if you so insisting tell me how to fight external evil like for example slavery and abuse?

[@elib3elib3]

Love this. So very true Fr Mike. What a different world it would be if more people accepted themselves and the fact that God loves them just the way they are. 💕

[@susannebrule3160]

What a great podcast. Thank you Father, just what I needed to here.

[@mistyviolet3825]

This is a good one! One that I keep repeating so it’ll all sink in….. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@johnnysigma5279]

Thank you Lord Jesus christ. And Thank Fr. Mike for this video.

[@Sir-Mighty-Mike]

Great message! Somehow the word of God always seems to find you when you need it the most!

[@TheMidwestbear]

This videos make me feel so much better. They come to me and tell me what I need to hear at the right time. Thank you.

[@agathasoares9454]

God knows I needed this message. Thank you so much Fr. Mike 🙏 God bless you 🙏

[@ilija_b]

In this very moment, I needed this.

[@reginaclaire4680]

woah ty! ty for explaining the difference between resignation and acceptance.

[@ariel62426]

Okay i accept that the Lord sent you, Fr. Schmitz, to me today. Alleluia! Thank you for your wisdom.

[@shellyb6071]

I needed to hear this. Thank you so much father mike.

[@beatricearizaga7078]

My son is going through severe heartache and this will be good advice for him to move on. Thank you

[@martyrrt]

“And Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -some fact about my life -unacceptable to me . I can find no serenity until I accept that person place or thing or situation is being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. - Anonymous

[@svetlanabarrow6026]

Even abuse?

[@4LovePeace]

Awareness, Acceptance, Action. 🦋

[@jeshan0659]

This is such a powerful message! Thank you for this Fr. Mike !

[@francesmorales1094]

Bravo!!!! Great explanation of “acceptance”.

[@ifhollick]

I love Romano Guardini, gonna go open “The Lord” right now. Read it if you want some preaching straight out of the Gospel! One of my favorite books! Thanks Fr Mike.

[@signlanguage7624]

What book is he quoting father Romano from in this video, do you know the name?

[@ifhollick]

Not sure. There’s this one book called “stages of life” that might have the quote mentioned but may not be translated into English yet. I’ve read some of his “meditations on the Mass”. I like his “The Lord” as mentioned. Or it could be in his “Spirit of the Liturgy.”

[@TheChio116]

Again! You hit the spot!! Bulls eye!!! Que Barbaro mi Hermano!! God bless you!

[@davidsmythe7645]

This is coming at just the right point in my life

[@frannyleyden7988]

Very good. I notice this was 6 years ago! Very true, especially now!!

[@paulkelly4828]

And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation - some fact of my life - unacceptable to me. I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.

[@jenniemaldonado4839]

Thanks be to God, for our priests 🙏🏻❤️

[@whibraen2750]

amen - the faithful ones

[@alondragriffith2116]

Ahhhhhhhhh the Holy Spirit just hit me with a semi truck. Thank you Fr. Mike for being the wonderful instrument of God.

[@susancinek5803]

Here it is 4 years after this was posted, and yet, the power and love of Christ ministered to me right where I am today. It is the truth that sets us free. The truth is I can trust in God with my whole heart even when my strength is so little, and my hope is so small I have a big loving, powerful God who loved me so much, even when I am at my worst, that He would die for me. That is a handhold for me. Thank you Father Schmitz for living your life to help lead others to our amazing God.

[@aidaruilova140]

Beautiful reminder of God's unconditional love! I so needed this. Thank you!!

[@vivianf8029]

'for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.' ie you r made right for God.

[@noradsouza3673]

Wow! You are so convincing! What a beautiful advise. Thank you from Canada.

[@shannonabeywardena7323]

Thanks, Father Mike!!

[@petergarcia8225]

From my past experiences, I believe God challenges and molds us to be the person we are meant to be. To live and be wise, strong and be as honorable as he is for we are a part of him.

[@dailybread300]

That was so beautifully said.

[@stevencullen6453]

Thanks for sharing my Catholic group is reading father Romano guardini's book the virtues that lead you closer to God great post

[@jacquelinefitzgerald1168]

Wow.... simply wow!!!

[@Johnmomoworld]

Fr. I must say , this video is made for me. your words touched me and thank you.

[@user-or1ye3iz6d]

Father Mike is so adorable in his silly moments at the beginning of each video. I adore that part of him. He reminds me of my older brother who has that similar silly sense of humor. He's made me laugh since the day I was born. 😂💜

[@bernadettevischjager4896]

Fr Mike Schmitz , your sister is so right . My mother used to say the same thing to us when we were kids and we are nine siblings. Nothing like going back to basics

[@raymondross7410]

Tears Fr. Mike, knowing God loves me though every trial and tribulation in my life, and that he forgives all of us no matter who you are or what you are. Thank you dear God for giving your son for us. And thank you God for letting me find Fr. Mike who is teaching me and others the way to you. Thank you Fr. Mike for all you do. 🕆

[@florastephaniepathianatan4899]

Father, it must have been a calling that I scroll through all of your videos and choose to listen to this video. I just needed to hear those words right at this moment. I am so grateful that I came across this piece of words. All I have to do is accept myself and the situation that I had been. Thank you father. Thank you Jesus.

[@johnclapp4516]

I really needed this video so much as it's a concept I've really struggled with recently feeling like I'm living two lives as a latter-day saint who is in love with the Eucharist and many Catholic teachings. It's this lack of acceptance of my situation that has made me angry at God at times, my lack of patience in his timing and humility to accept His will that has brought nothing but strife. You through Christ's truth have brought me to a greater sense of peace and hope in the midst of all these things. Thank you Fr. Schmitz!

[@Liam.ng2727]

I wish the videos have Vietnamese closed captions because I really want to share the wonderful preaches with my family, friends, and people in my country

[@LaineeTheCatWallace]

Thank you so much, Sir. Exactly what I needed to hear.

[@susiefromomaha]

This is excellent Fr. Mike. Thank you so much. It has blessed and helped me a great deal right at this 'broken' and sometimes scary and daunting time in my life. Thank you!

[@carlosburge8887]

I needed to hear this right now. Thank you Father Mike. ❤

[@paulmcgorian5712]

Self acceptance isnt that hard . Its to accept that others hate your guts thats difficult . But you still have to accept this . All because love gives one the freedom not to love .

[@whibraen2750]

Love never fails- God's agape true Love...His Love is eternal

[@loriclark9555]

Thank you for this. I have a lot of trouble with this even though I believe it. I heard it taught one time as similar to GPS. If we don't allow the device to know where we currently are, it will never be able to help us navigate to where we need to go. Furthermore, the device never criticizes us for where we are- it's just a fact. Now, if only I could remember this whenever I want to fight with reality!

[@michellemigone7739]

Andrea, the author is Romano Guardini!

[@michaelhudecek2778]

Father thank you for this! You are wonderful! May God bless you and your family always! Michael

[@ellenterry8222]

YOU ARE GREAT AS WELL AS FUNNY!!!!!!!!

[@amandareynolds2749]

In the spirit of the prayer mentioned in the video: I accept that I have severe mental illness, that is the the truth regardless of how much I wish it were not so. That is not the end of the truth, though- i also accept that God loves me very much and is giving me everything I need to be a saint. It is so easy to despair but today I choose faith instead.

[@whibraen2750]

take one day at a time- be kind to yourself

[@svetlanabarrow6026]

People who are suffering serious abuse for long time develop mental problems, and then it becomes even more easier to abuse them further because nobody will take their complaints seriously.

[@amandamiller8189]

Wonderfully helpful video, Father! Thanks!

[@rachelroeber7159]

Exactly what I needed. Thank you

[@marygaworski6192]

Thank you, Fr. Mike. I needed to hear this today!

[@danolson6476]

I cannot like this enough! So comforting.

[@kcc9878]

Thank you Fr. Mike, God bless you!

[@MrJijack]

Does this mean we shouldn't change ourselves for the better and just accept who we are? How do we know what to accept and what we can change?

[@Johnbastian25]

+MrJijack I think he means, accept who you are at that present state, but always be striving for holiness and perfection. You live in a universe where there is time, so keep moving forward - but don't reject reality, don't reject your present state and situation, accept it, but at the same time, strive to be better. It's a trichotomy between past, present, and future: - Learn from your past - Accept the present - Always strive for holiness and betterment as you push into the future.

[@Nyx773]

​@@Johnbastian25 Thank you for the good explanation. However, "striving for ... perfection" can be damaging to the psyche because it is impossible. "Striving to be better" is achievable.

[@marylynch951]

Thank you father Mike I nèeded to hear this God bless you and protect you You are so special

[@martelena12]

Thank you father Mike, God bless you

[@roniquebreaux-jordan594]

timely...thank you...so happy to see that when anyone leaves you...this is what happens...my sons and I will be fine...

[@marianagarza4190]

This really touched me. Needed this

[@AscensionPresents]

That's awesome. So glad, Mariana!

[@marjoriejulian8434]

Thanks God. I found this video at the right time. 😇

[@deborahgaston8420]

Thanks so much Father Mike God bless u always

[@supersaiyajingodfirestar4457]

O.O WOW you really got through me with this one, you really made me think. Because of this video, I realize that I accept myself for who I am, that I will never change no matter what. Thank you Father Mike. :-)

[@rachelmoore5079]

Thank you, could you do a long super in depth video on this 🙏💖 ☘️ 🧚‍♀️

[@archmdc370]

This is one of your best discussions I've heard. Thank you so much, Fr. Mike. Shared on FB as well.

[@tanyaschuman4887]

Thank you for sharing this awesome insight into acceptance 😊📿

[@Mystblueangel]

Yes!

[@julialopes5054]

The people who disliked it were seeing upside down

[@debbievenske1930]

Thank you.