WRAP AND CHAT WITH ME | LIFE UPDATE

[@ACharmingAbode]

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[@lindacrews9340]

Hi Leslie, I think I need a Psychoanalyst. I’m trying to get rid of my night sweats and I think they are related to my dreams. I’m usually at work and there is always too much to get done. I guess I’ll see who is available here. ❤

[@marilynfdavis891]

@@lindacrews9340 - Linda, remember “you do not get paid enough to be that stressed”! Living life is not about having the life sucked out of you over a job! Make the choice to not take your work home with you. Enjoy your Christmas time with family.

[@terismedley7467]

As heartbreaking as dementia is, sometimes it provides comic relief. My very sweet mother-in-law (who was my seventh grade Sunday School teacher in 1967) has dementia and needs around-the-clock care. My amazing husband and his brothers are providing that care to keep her in her home. Bear in mind, she doesn't know she's still in her home, but she is. A couple of months ago this 93 year old woman told my husband she's thinking about having a baby. He asked her why she would want to do that, to which she replied, "Well, I'm not getting any younger!" These are the moments that make us smile!

[@allheartandsong]

That is so sweet and funny❤ I was a caregiver and I went from being do sad for the person to cracking up at times but the things they would say. Write those down and have a laugh. She would want to make you smile.❤

[@jessicar173]

And she ain’t lying! 😂

[@kimmclean9933]

I got my grandma a doll and she loved to hold and cuddle it. ❤

[@carlotacox]

Thank you for sharing. Anyone who says anything ugly to you should have to walk a mile in your shoes! I think you do an amazing job of taking care of Jason while taking care of your business and your own health. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!

[@LynnAbles-n9k]

Leslie this is the first time I have ever commented on any social media platform. I enjoy your content on the home decor, cooking, life updates etc but to be honest what draws me in is your sweet spirit. It's the smile and giggles mixed in with the honesty and tears. I know what we see is just a very tiny glimpse of your life and I am grateful that you and Jason are able to share it. It's an example to those of us also trying to navigate through life. I am walking through the darkest storm of my life as we lost our daughter in a car accident on Chritmas Eve 2022. She was 7 months pregnant with her first baby. Our world is completely shattered. It may sound silly, but when I watch your posts, it makes me think that maybe someday I will be able to add a smile or a giggle back in with my tears. I just wanted you to know what you are doing and the way you are doing it is a testimony to others. Thank you

[@jenniesmith6999]

God bless you for sharing this. The pain you must feel is unimaginable to me, I wish there was a way to lighten your burden. I am holding you in my heart.

[@tracyfield4238]

You deserve peace, my heart goes out to you

[@jensheedy]

No words. Just a longing for the Home that will somehow make right all the tragic wrongs on this earth.

[@annanorth7997]

It makes me sad that your parents didn't live long enough to see the amazing woman you are. I've been in the caregiver role multiple times. Recently, when my husband had a major heart attack. It can be a lonely journey. Sending love❤

[@creativemair]

You are so right. It is a lonely journey!

[@isabellavalencia8026]

Can we all just appreciate this precious woman?!?! Side note, you have the most beautiful hair!!!!

[@creativemair]

You took the words right out of my mouth -- her hair is so gorgeous!!!!! She is gorgeous! So sad they have to go through this at their young age!

[@stargalaxyuniverse761]

So many people don’t really understand how much you protect Jason. We are not seeing how bad it is and do not understand how hard it is for you caring for you both. Hugs.

[@nikkigramling8193]

Nobody understands the journey that you’re on unless they are on the same journey. I’ve been watching your channel for years and enjoyed it so much. You’re just full of great ideas. But when I heard about Jason’s diagnosis, it resonated so much with me. My husband also has dementia. It started in 2012 but didn’t get the verdict of what was happening until 2017. I am not a caregiver, wish I was. I put my husband into assisted care in 2022 and Jan 2023 he went into Memory Care. He’s in a very small facility and they take wonderful care of him. The point of my post is, now how do I take care of myself? I have no idea and no money because of the cost of my husband’s facility. But I have become happy and joyful with the help of new grandchildren and therapy. I’ve also learned how to depend on faith as opposed to prayer. My day starts with prayer and then I give that day’s issue to God knowing that I have to depend that God’s Will prevail. I’ve become so peaceful in my thoughts. I take each day and know that my best is yet to come. God bless you, you’re in my prayers💗💗💗

[@sallybraswell5751]

I have followed y’all for years. My husband passed away last year the day after Thanksgiving. We were both 71. I was his caregiver for 8 years until the last month of his life when he was in hospice. I have felt everything and every emotion you go thru. Like Jason, my husband was brilliant. He was on the team that designed the software for the Space Shuttle. He retired from The Army Corp after decades as an engineer. He was a very talented musician. He was just wonderful. It was heartbreaking to see him just deteriorate in front of my eyes. He also did some hoarding and once upon a time he was meticulous. I too, received comments. People would often tell me he doesn’t seem that bad. My reply was always the same. I would smile and simply say you don’t live with him. Saying all of this to say, you are in my thoughts and prayers. ❤️😊❤️

[@creativemair]

I just love a couple of Christmas cards I have received, and the person says "I hope all is well with you and (spouse)." These are people who know my husband has Alzheimer's and I am his caretaker -- Of course all is NOT well!!!!!!!

[@judyfrazier2462]

You guys have been on my prayer list for a couple of years. I say your names each morning. I always pray for God to give you wisdow, Leslie to take the best care of Jason as long as you can in your home, I pray for God to give you strength and be able to control your own health.

[@veronicat.martinez4222]

Leslie, continue to be strong. Keep the faith 🙏 and know that God is working on you and Jason's healing. As humans, we want to be in control, but things get easier when we stop trying to do God's work. Trust in him, know he loves you both so very much. I will join you in praying for a confirmed diagnosis for Jason so you can get some peace. But know this, everyone who watches you knows and sees the love, care, devotion, and protection that you have for Jay. He's got a fierce advocate in you, and no one could ask for better than you. P.S. On a lighter note... Your hair is just beautiful. 😊

[@dianneduvarney2684]

Leslie, I will sit and listen to anything you want to share, just as I do for several close friends. You have my ears and my heart. And my prayers. We may be thousands of miles apart physically, but at this moment it is just you and me, together, sharing life’s burdens and joys.

[@jaclynmoylan1905]

My continued prayers are with you and Jason. YOU my dear are an inspiration to many. The way you care for your husband is very admirable.

[@sandiweishaupt8483]

Leslie, you are such a rare person who has so much love to share and are such a strong and faith filled woman. May God wrap his arms around you and Jason.❤

[@lesliebakerowen9244]

So genuine and real about your life. Thank you.

[@Maalin.]

Despite everything and balancing life, family, your health, Jason's health etc.. You are a rockstar Leslie ❤ 🙏

[@KCallaAK]

I would want to know Leslie too... it's been 6 years. There is nothing wrong with wanting to know. It's also the nurse in you. God Bless.

[@erica_0612]

I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents at such young ages. It sounds like you’ve found a good doctor who listens and is all about being proactive. That’s wonderful. You are such a beautiful person both inside and out, and an amazing partner and caregiver. Not having a diagnosis is so hard. My son went 8 years without one. I knew something was wrong, but no doctors could tell me what it was. So I understand wanting to repeat testing.

[@judithkoveleskie7476]

Thanks for the update. Those of us who cared for our spouses understand completely and love you.

[@Run-es3xh]

Leslie, we should be thanking you for the blessing you give us each week when we watch you. Merry Christmas.

[@jemmapugh5632]

❤❤❤ the deep sadness you are feeling is palpable, I wish I could climb through the screen and give you a hug ❤❤❤

[@amielawhorn3537]

I started watching you and Jason a few years ago. I was drawn in because you are a nurse as am I . Now I am watching to hear things again for a different reason. Last yr my mom had to have knee surgery.. you probably know where I am going with this. My sweet bubbly great hugger and talker and artist and baker , crafter and home designer and xray technologist at the same hospital for 48 yrs.. came out of her surgery with full blown vascular dementia. Never did I ever think my mom would go down this path. I figured with our family it would be cancer. I couldn’t even be with her before her surgery because I was in the hospital in Chicago and she was 3 hrs away. By the time I got to see her she was already at the rehab for her knee but in memory care. On top of all this my brother and sister did and made all decisions without me. I have some major health and life change things (not for the good) happening right now and I don’t know how to handle all of this. I am listening while typing this and I can’t take Nsaids anymore either. I was taking a LOT of Motrin for my back that needed surgery but I just couldn’t stop life at that time for surgery. But i e night at the beginning if my night shift in the ED.. everyone was telling me that I look gray. I said well I have been dizzy when I stand up. You know us nurses.. well then they made me get checked in. After getting settled in my room I went to use the washroom. All blood. After I was taken for EGD in the morning the Dr found 4 ulcers squirting .. my iron saturation was in the dumps at 2%. So PLEASE if you know you have ulcers…don’t think that … oh I will just take 2 it won’t hurt. I don’t want you to go thru that. Wow. I didn’t mean to ramble.. I am going to finish listening to you and watch you wrap gifts.

[@evercuriousmichelle]

Surgery triggered my grandmother’s dementia as well. It was not a complication we had even considered, sending hugs!

[@ChaiLatte13]

Surgery triggered my father's dementia. It was really traumatic for us as a family.

[@jessicar173]

@@evercuriousmichelleunfortunately, anesthesia has that effect post surgery. It’s sad.

[@moeyruth8056]

My 97 year old mother was in the hospital last January for 7 days and came out with some type of dementia. The doctors held out little hope. My siblings wanted to put her directly into a nursing home but I fought it. I kept hope that she would come out of it. She was bad for about 3 months, and all of the sudden, she was better. About 80% back to her old self. 1 year later doing well, just a little more frail. I am so grateful to have my mom back.

[@franceskloos1297]

Anyone who says anything ugly should walk a mile in your shoes, you are always so pleasant and charming. Enjoy your grandkids and your family for Christmas, grandkids are such a blessing!! Have a very Merry Christmas!!🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄

[@aram4516]

Leslie you are an incredible and inspiring woman! Thank you for being real ❣❣❣

[@mikkibates7854]

Bless you and your family. Having faith in the long HARD journeys makes a difference. It also is NOT a panacea. Your willingness to share some hard stuff is a gift to so many. Thank you.

[@darlenesmith7680]

You are such a special soul. I sincerely pray your Christmas is full of soulful joy and love bc you deserve nothing less and much more! Jason is very blessed to have you in his corner,not only as his caretaker,advocate but wife, and best friend, too. Merry Christmas. Sending you hugs and love. 🙏❤️❤️🙏

[@jwsodypop]

You are doing an amazing job keeping everything going and taking care of Jason, your health, and two KZbin channels, plus having family time. I’ve been a caregiver and your feelings are valid and real. There were so many days I just wanted to be the daughter again. I can’t even imagine the emotional turmoil between being the caregiver and being a wife. Sending gentle hugs for a peaceful holiday season.

[@terriconrad4612]

No one has a right to tell you what to do about anything. You are living this…. They are not. I’m proud of you that you are standing up for yourself and for Jason. So much I could say…. But just know that you are loved by many!!! That’s all. I pray this upcoming year is one of strength…. Courage… encouragement…. And hope. HE is our hope!! Much love!!

[@gracesimplified3860]

Oh man I feel you. As a caretaker, I don’t have the luxury of being sick. Whenever my energy dips everything falls apart. 🙏 for maintaining your health. I don’t know how you are able to keep positive. You really are a bright light.

[@kelleymcfadden9675]

You have the cutest, down to earth personality! I love watching you talk. Thank you for putting yourself and Jason out there (I use his meat rub mix alot. I have it labeled 'Jason's Rub' ☺️). I know it takes a lot to be that vulnerable, but I know you do it to try to help others that may be going through difficult situations. You've been an encouragement to me as I help my husband care for his parents who are both living with us now and can't hardly do anything for themselves. One has dementia and the other a stroke, so it is very exhausting and challenging to say the least, but my husband does not want them in a nursing home after he saw how they treated his dad while he was in there for recovery. The best way I can encourage you is to remember that the Lord is coming back very soon and it will all be over and we get to spend eternity in bliss with our Saviour, no more suffering. Each day is one more day closer to that. I will pray for you to stay healthy so you can continue doing what you do best. Your reward is waiting. Please tell Jason thank you for allowing us to follow along in his journey. I know so much more goes on behind the scenes we will never see nor need to. Some things just need to stay private. God bless you both and hope your family has a lovely Christmas and Happy New Year!

[@susanriesz1920]

My nephew had cancer 9 years ago that is in remission but has had lymph node swelling and many,.many sinus infections and colds. After repeated treatments, blood tests, biopsies and multiple doctors looking to find out why, he was diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder. He is also on weekly infusions that he gives himself through four small needles in his abdomen. This will be for the rest of his life. My prayers will include you too in this life altering journey to keep you both healthy and.alive!

[@lindag1372]

"We just need to TRUST in Him" powerful and beautiful words. God in His permissive will allows us to go thru things we cannot control. Thank You for being an inspiration. I too am an RN with a husband who is in a similar situation as Jason. Having to take over finances is the hardest. I hate dealing with the money stuff the insurances etc. But there is no other choice. I pray for strength and have said my FIAT to Gods Will.

[@tinapope7603]

Leslie, thank you for being so raw and honest. As much as I wish all our lives were sunshine and roses, it’s just not! I’m praying for you and Jason. May GOD lay his healing hand on you both. Our family is going through something unimaginable. We are just trying to survive. May the good LORD give us all strength, comfort and peace ❤

[@paulaleeper3668]

You were talking along and not wrapping. I didn’t even notice it because I was so engrossed in your conversation. ❤

[@carriehrdlichka9579]

Leslie please take care of yourself. You do have your hands full. Your an awesome wife to Jason. Prayers to you and your family.🙏

[@deborahjobe7841]

Oh my, where do I start. I was diagnosed with dementia 4 years ago via Mayo Clinic with a diagnosis dementia change from Washington University. It is more common than you think for dementia diagnosis type to change. I am in awe of your grace, compassion, faith in our Lord, bright smile and ALL you do for Jason as his care partner. I served on the National Alzheimer’s Early Stage Advisory Group, various interviews and articles and currently serve on the Persons with AFTD Advisory Council for the AFTD Association . I believe this is God’s next journey for me. There is more I would like to share and also how your videos help me to look and appreciate my care partner, my hubby’s point of view but do not want to clutter your site. I would to be able to share more from aPLWD and also gain a better understanding of what my husband deals with daily. God bless you, take care of yourself as well and a blessed Merry Christmas!

[@sueepling7280]

Retired trauma nurse here, and I was a 24/7 caregiver for my Mom through her 3rd and 4th stroke. Hardest job I ever had because you don't ever get to "go home" and leave it all behind. It definitely takes a toll on the caregiver. Keeping you and Jason in my prayers, I hope you find peace and joy in 2025

[@patwilkinson2182]

Leslie, my thoughts are with you and Jason. You are so considered with Jason's well being while sometimes sacrificing your own. 🙏 that you continue to find the help and support. 🙏❤️🎄

[@jojozep7820]

Thousands of hugs, loads of strength and buckets of peace being sent your way. Take care x

[@deniluhoffman]

In my caregivers support group I have found that most loved ones come to the realization that knowing exactly what type of dementia they have is not going to change anything! Also, most times even if the exact dementia is known, treatment isn't really different in the end. I totally see your dilemma. Especially because you are a nurse. My situation is different as my parents, both, are in their late 80"s. I thank God everyday for their doctors that keep them on their right meds. Them being in good moods is a gift from God! So much easier to watch over them. Blessings to you both..

[@MsElaine1027]

Een caregiver since 2008. What a blessing to be with loved ones…and what a burden. I told my hubby today I have to stop being everyone’s listening ear. 😂I have to start protecting myself and my emotions. I feel so sad you are going through this. May God bless you with strength and courage.Hugs from a fellow Christian!

[@cindygehrke5249]

Thank you for sharing. I’m my stroke survivor husband’s caregiver. Hardest part is “helpful” relatives and friends advice. I’ve learned to trust my own instincts. Therapy helped us get through the first 2 years, but now we just live our lives and accept, not always trying to make improvements. Blessed for what we have. Prayers for you Leslie and Jason. ❤

[@cindygehrke5249]

Also: YES, to more decluttering and organizing videos!

[@bridgettecampeau2770]

We share that we lost our parents young. I lost my Mom when I was 13 and my Dad when I was 19. I lost my Dad to lung cancer. I think it is a good idea to do testing to help with early detection. You remind me of myself in that I am a positive person (as best I can) even when life throws curveballs. I enjoy watching you because you are real and share your experiences. ❤

[@jtdavis4411]

Leslie we pray for you and Jason both. I took care of my Grandmother with Dementia, I cannot image having to deal with my husband abd all that entails. Lifting you up always.

[@SuesanScheetz]

Hi Leslie, I just want to send you a big hug!! I hope you have a special and delightful Christmas. You are the best wife, mother and grandmother never doubt that! Merry Christmas and New Year to you and Jason!!🎄⛄🎅🍾🥂❤️

[@maxinebellows741]

Your videos are always great! And I was a caregiver for 10 years for my parents as well as my husband 10 years later. IT IS SO DIFFICULT! My heart goes out to you!

[@lindabirkes-lance8915]

Leslie, there are times that you are talking that I just wish I could pop up to KC and hug you. You have so much on your plate and you do so much to try to keep it all together. For the four years my husband dealt with cancer and for the 12 years since he passed, I have continued to repeat Jeremiah 29:11. During your moments of doubt, remember God's promise to us. "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you, Jason, and your family.

[@terraranch1459]

You are an absolute Angel and a breath of fresh air. I’m praying for you. Being a caretaker plus being sick is hard! Hugs ❤

[@neversaynever22]

You are a joy to watch. Your energy and laughter and humor and positivity glow. How you handle everything is truly amazing. You are a superwoman. Thank you for being you.

[@carolekellypearce1667]

Leslie, I wish I lived close to you to give you a big hug!❤ You are so brave! I understand your pain, having gone through it myself with my husband. I pray God will give you wisdom and strength to get through this. I also hope your church has surrounded you with love and prayers. ❤️🙏

[@cindyjackson5627]

I feel the same way! I'd love to give Leslie a break. I think both she & Jason are precious.

[@lanaritter9410]

Merry Christmas and Abundant Blessings for 2025!!!❤

[@taraschmidheini4674]

😘😘😘😘😘 Les, I dont think you realize how impactful you are to the people in your life, especially your subscribers. You are not fake in any way, so real. Youre teaching many how to navigate " life" with grace. You are definitely a woman to be admired indeed, & I just want to say thank you for being our friend! I pray & wosh the very best for you in every area of your life! 🩷🦌

[@beebee588]

You are such a wonderful person, I’m so glad you finally got a diagnosis for yourself. Just keep being the wonderful person you are!!

[@MultiLadybug72]

God Bless you both and your family. You are a better caretaker than I am. I have a tendency to get angry about having to do everything instead of being thankful that I am ABLE to do everything so we can continue living on our own.

[@teresa65watson]

Good for you telling people not to give advice. 👍 You do what's best for you. ❤ God bless you and your family. Merry Christmas ✝️ Praying for God's blessings. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️

[@amyberg1413]

Great update Leslie. You are doing a fantastic job-jobs!!! Caregiving is exhausting, stressful and leaves little time for other things, but you seem to be a master of all trades! I have a few years on you and went through the caregiver phase with 3 family members, now heading into a new chapter of caregiving. I am enjoying my free time at the moment working part time and volunteering. One of the things that got me through and you seem to have mastered, is being grateful. God bless you and your family. Merry Christmas and may 2025 bring you joy, health and peace!

[@cynthiahogue7724]

I know absolutely nothing about dementia but I do believe that knowledge is power and I understand your need for answers. I so admire what you are doing in sharing your journey with Jason. Like you said, “God is good” and He has a plan. You must be helping so many others with your honest sharing. Thank you for sharing your life with us. ❤

[@kristinesmith1655]

Thank you for the update on you and your family. My husband and Jason seem similar in many aspects of his dementia journey. I recently went back and watched all the videos you've shared about your families journey. My husband refuses to get a diagnosis, so I'm doing this alone. His family is mostly unaware of the situation because he does not want them to know. I took early retirement (at 54) so I could be home with him. I appreciate you so much. Your channel has been a great support and reminds me that I'm not crazy, even if sometimes it feels that way. I completely understand your comment about wanting to be a wife instead of a caregiver. It sure gets lonely sometimes, even though I'm not physically alone. My husband hordes all things automotive. We have a two car garage, a storage shed, rented storage unit, and a small bedroom in the house with clean, mostly organized parts and such. Did I mention the 7 vehicles in our driveway. Several in different states of rebuild. Sometimes, you just have to laugh and know you'll deal with it later. God bless you and your family. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas, and may 2025 bring you lots of laughter and joy. ❤

[@cynthiafisher9907]

I’m sorry your husband is so unwilling to get diagnosed and treated. My father-in-law is the same way, it’s really hard for me to understand. If I was the wife, I would force the issue, I think, even if just to have some support! My heart goes out to you!

[@kristinesmith1655]

@cynthiafisher9907 Thank you for your reply. I'm sorry your father-in-law is experiencing the same issues. It can be a really rough experience. As far as forcing someone to do something they do not want to, you made me laugh. He's an adult, still has a mind of his own (even if I don't understand it), and angry Ron is not someone anyone wants to be around. I find choosing my battles is important. If when he is further along on this journey and I have to be the proverbial, "bad guy in his eyes," I will. However, until that time comes, I will take it one day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time. On a good day, we can discuss a few things, up to the point when he gets overwhelmed, upset, and done with the conversation, which seems to happen a lot faster than it used to. Happy holidays to you and yours. Take care.

[@rhondadavis1483]

@@cynthiafisher9907I’m sorry but the one sentence about “you would force things” is unrealistic and rude. You do not understand dementia and the many stages. What exactly would you do? How would you force things? I was a nurse for years in memory care units and I know that most, if not all, ppl refuse to go get help bc they are scared and confused. And only “being forgetful”. But anger is one of the first signs of denial…after depression. And depression itself causes anger in an otherwise calm person. A spouse and family are also in denial for awhile. What’s “normal” grumpiness from getting older bc of pain, and what’s dementia? It’s very hard to tell. Also, what’s normal forgetfulness Vs dementia??? Finances and insurance, or lack of, can also play a part. I pray you won’t have to go thru these things at all…but if you do, that someone wouldn’t judge you for how you are at being the spouse/caregiver and having to make the decisions. It’s a very lonely struggle.

[@rhondadavis1483]

@@kristinesmith1655please know you do have support, even if it’s from a nurse that understands. Most ppl don’t until they are going thru it. You were nice in your comment. But the nurse in me came out to the rude comment of the other person. Merry Christmas and I hope it’s peaceful.

[@kristinesmith1655]

@rhondadavis1483 Thank you. Honestly, initially, I thought it was funny and maybe a little rude. However, I prefer to give others the benefit of the doubt. Maybe in her marriage, that would work. Mine, not so much. He's a very strong-willed man, lol. He randomly bites my head off at any given moment, some days. Sometimes, it makes me cry as I get my feelings hurt, but later, when he's calm, he has no clue what he did or why I'm upset. So we just move on with our day, and I remind myself that it's not the man I married but an imposter invading his mind and demeanor. I love him so very much. Merry Christmas! May you and your family be blessed with laughter and joy. ❤️

[@sharondinwiddie308]

Much love and prayers, Leslie. I was my husband’s caregiver. When you said you just want to be a wife, I about lost it. Oh, how I feel you. God bless and Merry Christmas to you and your family. 🎄❤️

[@CarolynNichols-o2o]

You are an AMAZING & BEAUTIFUL (both inside & out) lady. I will keep you & Jason in my prayers. I have worked with people with dementia (including. my brother, who did have Alzheimer’s) and I wasn’t sick so I am in awe of all you do. God bless and help you through these difficult times.

[@simplecountryliving7555]

You certainly have a lot on your plate. I know what it’s like to be a caretaker. It’s a different situation but still worrisome and stressful. Thanks for the update on both of you. It’s always great to get updates on both of your health issues. It’s so hard to take care of someone when you’re not feeling well

[@janamarek]

It is so hard losing a spouse while they are still here. I hope you are able to get plenty of support for yourself because it is draining to be a caregiver. You are doing a great job.

[@FaithAndJustice1]

You are such a sweet girl & a Blessing. God Bless you, Jason & your precious family. Continue to trust & lean on God. He’s at His strongest when we are at our weakest. He’s got this! You are amazing & with God, ALL THINGS SRE POSSIBLE! Go God! Xo🙏🤙❤️🥰🎄

[@jenniferwilson2918]

Such an inspiring woman! Anybody who tries to give unsolicited advice when they haven’t walked in your shoes is completely thoughtless!! Keep shining your light! Jesus shines thru you!

[@taraharper3999]

Thank you for the update! My heart goes out to you. Lifting you up in prayer! While I don’t pretend to understand what you’re walking through, I do know what a TBI did to my dad, and the dementia he experienced. We are coming up on two years now that Jesus brought him home. It’s a rough road, Thank you for being such a bright light! 💕🙏🏼

[@PatriotMomof5]

God Bless You. What a LOAD you carry. My sister-in-law is on hospice. She has a very complicated diagnosis. She has an ileostomy and recently had to stop getting infusions because they’re just too hard on her body. It’s very hard to watch waste away. It’s been difficult on my brother, this has been a 10 to 15-year-old journey and it’s been really bad the last 5-8 years. it’s hard to know how to encourage them but listening to you gives me encouragement that any little thing that I can do to make the load a little bit lighter is appreciated by them. May the Lord give you wisdom and grace and strength and courage to walk down this very difficult journey. One day this will be distant memory when we are all in heaven, our heavenly father with perfect minds and bodies!! 🎄🎁💗

[@trinapemberton]

Merry Christmas to you and Jason. Prayers for you each day Leslie. I’m your age and also a former nurse. I have been in chronic pain since my youngest daughter was 6mo old. She just turned 18 last month. Because I was going to be losing half my Dissability once my daughter was 18, I became a host home provider for my developmentally disabled uncle to supplement my income a couple years ago. I’m able to do that legally without losing my Dissability but because rent got so high when I went to move (to have an extra bedroom for him) I ended up having to get a Second Gentleman once my son moved out to combat the price of increased rent. I know it doesn’t compare to taking care of your husband. I do however understand the non stop caregiver role and it doesn’t matter if I am hurting or sick, you don’t get a day off. All that to say my heart goes out to you Leslie. Even without dealing with mood swings or bad behavior that they can’t control, it honestly sucks just hearing the same story on repeat. I usually just smile and nod my head but if I do say you just told me that and they say “oh” and start the same story all over again…. Lol. Anyways if you read this I sound like I’m trying to make this about me, I guess I’m just trying to empathize with you. Prayers going up sweet lady!

[@lornabarrett5388]

Hi Leslie, the previous comments have pretty much covered everything that I would say. So I am going to just tell you that I think you are just cute as a button and I love your laughing and your honesty. I have followed you a long time on your journey and have been grateful for the support it has given me . Our Divine God Shines out in your smile. Have a happy Christmas holiday.

[@sharanlesmeister5548]

Leslie, even though you are on this difficult journey, you are such an inspiration to all. You always have that beautiful smile on your face even when you are hurting inside. I love you and pray for you and Jason. I'm so blessed to call you my friend!

[@DH-bm1qx]

I started following you a few years ago when I was dealing with my husband's dementia in Kansas. I was searching for help in Kansas and somehow found you. My husband has since passed and I still occassionally check to see how you are doing. You are in good care at KU, that is where we went. I will pray about it with you. God will see you through this journey, he has been so faithful to me and I know he will also be faithful to you and Jason.

[@olgabombard6277]

Oh my gosh Leslie, I don't know how you do it all. I can only imagine what you are going through. Sending you a big bear hug. Feliz Navidad to you and Jason!

[@marylawson4492]

I understand everything you are talking about when it comes to the feels of dementia with your husband. It’s been 3 years, since his passing. I’m still dealing with the things that I went through as a caregiver. I know I need counseling. You are beautiful and amazing and I continue to pray for you. Without God, I would never had made it.

[@LindaBaker-l1b]

Precious Leslie, you are the bravest, most selfless and admirable person ever. I adore your channel no matter what your content is. I think that most of us are drawn to your beautiful spirit, honesty, and your heart of gold. I will be praying that your new medicine works perfectly for you. Also that God will fill you with peace and reassurance as never before and give you divine guidance in your decisions for Jason. God bless you, Leslie

[@emmasgrandma1]

God Bless You. He has His hand on you and He is listening to you. ❤

[@leslietheby5597]

Leslie, I love your videos and I am praying for you and Jason. I am praying God will show the way to deal with the health struggles you both have. Enjoy what you can in this Christmas season, none of us know what tomorrow may bring.

[@MaryNewnham]

God Bless you, Jason and your family ❤🙏🙏🙏

[@JohnArgent-z7q]

Leslie, I hear you! I feel the same pain. Dad has vascular dementia he’s now in care home, today i visited and I can see the changes now more clearly. His moods were becoming unmanageable, he was being nasty, he’s on anti psychotics now olanzapine as well as antidepressants. This dementia journey is hard, I’m an only child and there’s literally no one else in our family. I’m kinda sick of explaining what dementia dad has to people and even friends can annoy me when they give advice or say “well that’s what dementia is” when they don’t really have a clue. All I want to say that I came across your videos last year and they made me feel less lonely and were eye openers. Yours and Jason’s approach and videos helped me. Thank you. Hang in there Leslie, enjoy your Christmas and let’s hope 2025 is a stronger year for us all. Merry Christmas 😊

[@kanditallant6740]

Thank you for sharing. Love watching your videos. I admire how well you have taken care of Jason. ❤

[@LindaVolker-k7y]

Yes, Leslie, on the lumbar puncture. We need to know where we are on the map of any journey and those kind of results are pins on the map. Knowledge is so valuable in care giving. My sister and I are finding that in the differences between when our stepmom will let us go with her too doctor appointments, and when she insists on still taking herself. And then she talks about things that are wrong with her that she told the doctor about that we’ve never heard about, etc., etc. So what we know can help our person out so much! You stick to your guns and ignore the mean people!❤❤❤❤

[@helensmith3917]

The VA hospital wanted to do another lumbar puncture and MRI, but I declined them as it is not going to change his brain cancer and unknown dementia diagnosis. I just don't want to put my hubby through more testing, and the way that some doctors talk to him is not great 😢 I still think you should do a book, on decorating and recipes, you have such great ideas 😊

[@rebecca12628]

Your strength moving forward each day is an inspiration. You are in my prayers. God is in your story, and he isn't funished yet. Thanks for all the wonderful content you make.

[@LittleladyChelle]

Thank you sharing. Prayers you get some answers. You’re an incredible wife and caregiver! 💜

[@dchat30]

I understand what he is going through with his memory. I had a Brain Aneurysm. And my short term and some of my long term memory is really bad, it is so bad that my husband and kids have to go to the doctor with me. To let them know if any changes have occurred. And it got so bad that my husband had to take off work for the past year to watch over me. I pray every day that I don't get any worse. So I pray for everyone who is going through this. I want to thank you for everything you do. God Bless you both 🙏🙏🙏

[@lweaver979]

Thank you Leslie for sharing! Thsnk you for being a testimony to the Lord's faithfulness in the tough things! My father in law had brain bleeds and it changed him. May the Lord be your strength as you care for Jason. Jolynne

[@heidishumblehome2178]

Great video Leslie. I’m sure your subscribers like to be updated with your health as well as Jason’s. You always maintain a positive attitude, although privately I’m sure it’s hard. People don’t often ask how the caregiver is. You bear the brunt of all of it really. It’s nice you are close to your daughter and grandkid(s)? Keep you busy and distracted. You are in my prayers! ❤

[@barbb.7028]

Leslie, thanks for the updates. I appreciate your honesty. I'm thankful that you are a believer and can tell God everything. He's always there for you and Jason and your family. Praying that your 2025 will be blessed.

[@palmbergdj]

God bless you. I’m praying for you in your times of frustration about caring for Jason. I started following you and seeing you and Jason interact in such cute ways a couple years ago. Blessed new year.

[@Patricia-xd9rd]

You are wonderful! Your beautiful smile, happy, helpful attitude while attending someone you love deeply, who looks like your beloved husband, who no longer responds emotionally like the man you choose as your life mate is very difficult. What you do every minute of everyday is admirable & beyond understanding by others that have not experienced A Long Goodbye. Bless you. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@marilynanderson7792]

It’s been awhile since I’ve watched your channel, I also have a husband who is in the early stages of dementia, and know how hard it can be to slowly loose the person we have been with and loved for years. I spent some time thinking about your statement that when people tell you “they don’t think he has changed that much” how stupid that was, my first thought was “that was a little harsh” but then I thought NO, that kind of statement must be very hurtful and frustrating because if it was me I would feel so non validating, that what I was dealing with was either not real or exaggerated. Thank you for sharing and I’m so glad you got the help you were needing for your health issues, I hope you know how admired you are by so many for your courageous efforts to handle all you have been given. May you continue to be blessed and supported by your loving Savior.

[@krissy012p]

I really appreciate this update, Leslie. I'm praying for answers, and if no answers, complete peace that the Lord has Jason and He has you, and He will carry you both to the end. Another test may be annoying and/or difficult in the moment, but maybe he wouldn't even remember taking it afterward. May the Lord continue to strengthen you to be a caregiver and give you rest as you need it.

[@carrolldizney9167]

You are so wise, insightful, and understanding. Thank you for sharing that with us❤️

[@coreys8740]

YES! Even if he has no change. That's STILL news that can help! Absolutely. You're a nurse and he's SOOOO lucky to have a nurse for a wife/caregiver. You can interpret things that the rest of us cannot. Leslie you are a caregiver for TWO people!!!! Jason AND yourself. You have to be the strongest you can be in order to take care of him. Lovely couple and I wish you didn't have to deal with all of this.

[@wendyshoup8539]

I'm so sorry you're going through so many stressful times! Chronic illness is hard enough, for sure. I have lupus and fibromyalgia as well as sjögren's. Then on to of your illness, Jason's dementia! I am praying for your and Jason as well as your whole family. Thank you for sharing your life updates with us. Sending love!❤

[@dixieseymour5041]

More power to you, prayers to you and Jason. I and my niece are going through this with my sister, her mother and it is forever a roller coaster! Totally get it, and wow the part about the stupid coming out of others that just don't get it and family in denial!!! Prayers!😊🙏🙏🙏

[@karinday6128]

Do you know what a blessing you and Jason are? I’m so grateful for you both and want the best for you Cheering you on !!

[@susangerik87]

I so love your realness! Thank you for your honesty; it’s so refreshing.

[@AN-tt5jy]

From one caregiver to another. Thank you for this. (Cyber hug). 🧡

[@kathy3817]

I seriously understand everything you are going through. I like you want to know exactly what he has. He had every test there is. I wish you lived close so we could talk. Life for us has changed so much. Unfortunately, I had to place my husband in memory care. I want my old life back! My husband never understood what his diagnosis was. Just know that you are not alone. ❤️❤️

[@judyfry9902]

You are the best! The strength in you faith and your life it takes to be the person you are is amazing! Love you and Jason.

[@pattyallen5313]

Leslie, BLESS YOU for all you do and all you are !!!! You are such a precious Christian sister and I PRAY for a SPIRIT of PEACE to flood your heart & soul as you walk through these days with your dear Jason. GOD bless you & MERRY CHRISTMAS - OUR SAVIOR IS BORN !!!!! ❤🙏🏼