Actually…you aren’t entitled to the details 🤨

[@Sarah_Grant]

Nosey Rosey....

[@siiriparkss]

I'm going to start using this lmao, my mom's dog's name is Rosie!

[@Sarah_Grant]

@@siiriparkss 😄😄😄

[@alyssakanonno7362]

​@@siiriparkssmy dog is rosie too 😂

[@Sarah_Grant]

Oh, I got a 📌....😜

[@diamondjim7560]

Sounds like the type of person that loves initiating a gossip chain once she gets the “juicy” details. That way she becomes the go-to person for information and, as we know, information is power. She gets power over others.

[@adaliaalvarez7269]

You are entitled to a response, Karen (which you received)...you are NOT entitled to an explanation!

[@Dove96]

Well said

[@dmgrosas]

Why do these “Nosey Nellies” trigger me?!?

[@nikitatavernitilitvynova]

One of my highschool teachers said it best: "Asking is licit. Answering is a courtesy." it's not illegal to ask someone something. But you're not owed a response nor for it to be nice. Sure it's best to not be rude but at the same time it's not illegal to be rude. It's just shitty behaviour.

[@KrisBarber-f8y]

Was in high school and asked to be excused to go to the bathroom. The teacher (male) stated that I could wait until the class ended. When I insisted that I could not wait, he insisted on knowing "just why is this so important?" So I told him that I was on my period, that I was bleeding heavily and I needed to change my pad so I would not bleed all over the classroom desk. Never asked for details again.

[@darkb4light06]

"I'm entitled.." That right there says it all. Bish, my life is nunya.

[@jenniferlangton1262]

I tend to make people regret the question with absurd details. Explosive diarrhea, projectile vomiting, etc

[@TheMissPoovey]

Anal stitches.. works every time.

[@Yaya2214CJ]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ceasewatercolorarts]

The key word she kept saying was "entitled". The stylist also could just say "it was a private matter" which means "nunyadamnbizness"

[@phastinemoon]

I cheered when Siiri responded with “no”, without even letting her get a word in.

[@kristentaylor5359]

I can believe this. No idea why people feel they're entitled to ask personal details.

[@MaggieBer]

honestly at that point i would be half tempted to give them the most gruesome story i could come up with.. (like detached limbs, head rolling, intestines sprayed out ) just to absolutely traumatize her. and if she said to stop, i would say "nono you are totally ENTITLED to know!!" and keep on going. then i would be scared it would happen for real cause "i called it" 😅

[@sharroon7574]

I made the mistake of asking a friend how one of their other friends had died and it turned out to be so much worse then you can imagine and I totally regret asking, so yup you have something there.

[@tinkeramma]

​@sharroon7574 I've found that deaths are either anticipated or traumatic, sometimes both. Traumatic deaths are usually gruesome and often suicides. In general, it seems the less people say about how a death happened, the less I actually want to know. These days, I'm more likely to ask if a death was expected than how it happened if I ask anything at all.

[@trenae77]

I’ve had our beautician cancel last minute a few times in the past. My usual response is ‘is everyone ok, and do you need me to pray for anything in particular?’ Whatever she chose to respond was what worked for her. She knew I was praying for her regardless.

[@hayleypetkusfamily8578]

This is so gosh darn sweet and wholesome 🥹 we need more souls like yours on this earth!

[@trenae77]

@@hayleypetkusfamily8578 thank you!

[@amyaccount7935]

I'm not a religious person, but I could cry by the thoughtfullness of this! So sweet and nice❤

[@vikkiledgard8483]

Chance to get religion in there, then 😉

[@trenae77]

@@vikkiledgard8483 no need to ‘get religion’.

[@jessieh9127]

Damn that reader's story! I'm glad she put her foot down and told her off - and in a nice way even though Karen was being so insistently insensitive

[@Ginger57]

I struggle with severe chronic fatigue. Woke up one day, appt day, with debilitating fatigue, my body said not today. I called my stylist and told her. I offered to pay for her time. She said No, that isn't necessary. You just feel better and Call me when youre better. Ive been going to her for 10+ years🧡💇‍♀️🌷

[@jos.4276]

Your channel should be used as an example for people who have trouble setting boundaries. Well done,

[@kittygxrl]

Exactly what I was thinking ❤

[@debbiethomas3687]

Wow! Where do these people get off thinking someone else's private life is their business? I'm glad she was given the facts of life and the ultimatum. Not sure I would have been quite so patient.

[@samanthaaiello]

My dad ended up in the hospital two years ago, and we almost lost him. I decided to share a muted version of that info with my patients as I rescheduled them because I wanted to share that info. We have a lot of mutual back-and-forth chatting when they are with me, so I felt comfortable sharing it as I rescheduled them. However, I didn’t share as much with newer people, and I certainly would never assume I had to share. Nor would they assume I had to share. No one is entitled to my personal emergencies. ‘I had an emergency,’ is more than enough explanation. I feel so bad for the follower’s experience. No one should be pressured like that.

[@Z.A.M.1359]

It can be frustrating, but I'm also super grateful that the management team at my job is so consistent about not sharing any details as to why people are absent or no longer working with us. We can get a vague, "family emergency" or a "yes, they should be returning to work." It's frustrating when you want the tea, but I'm also glad they're reminding us to keep our gossiping in check as well as respecting everyone's privacy.

[@DianEnglish56]

No one is Entitled to know your personal business. Wow! So glad she got told off!

[@Chain_Curse]

I think the only resonable question the client could’ve asked was “is everyone okay?” And if the stylist says they don’t wanna talk about it, then that IT! End of the conversation! Hair talk time!

[@tortillachips3911]

YEP

[@ZombieMinion1992]

Hope the OP’s family is ok. Life can be a ride. 😢

[@bridgetwolsey7033]

I've always understood when my stylist has had to reschedule. It's her business and if she feels comfortable telling me that's great if not it's her business. She is amazing at her career and such a great owner. So proud to see how far she's come.

[@tinkeramma]

It's so easy to be flexible with someone who is also flexible with you!

[@tinkeramma]

I should add... I do ask my stylist personal questions, but she's also one of my closest friends. And if she tried giving me a nunya answer, I'd move on.

[@MsBlackhawk69]

"I feel like I'm entitled" Yup, you're entitled to walk out the door. It's called a personal life for a reason.

[@susanlewis1875]

You may think this is entertainment. I think it's valuable education on human and business interaction. Great job.

[@terminallyonlinezillennial]

It's like she didn't know that it's inappropriate to ask for the intimate details of workers personal lives

[@lauraelliott6909]

Yes, the client may be required to give the general reason for a cancelation, such as "illness" or "car problems", but the stylist is not going to be asking for a diagnosis, a doctor's note, or a work order for repairs. That's the same level reason as "family emergency."

[@lilitpatchwork]

Ah yes. You are definitely entitled to my trauma. Doesn't matter that a family emergency almost always means someone is very very sick or dead that you care about, naaaaaaaaah. it won't hurt you to just talk about, you're obviously over it cuz you're back at work. People really baffle me

[@chrysanthemumspark5547]

Yes!!! Boundary setting AND enforcing like a QUEEN

[@blueturtle3623]

I'm immunoweird. Not immunocompromised exactly, but I do have a medical condition that causes my body to struggle to fight off literally anything. My work is typically pretty good about it, especially considering I work at a daycare which might as well be an infectious disease lab. But sometimes, a doctor's note isn't enough for my boss. At which point, I go into a disgusting amount of detail about exactly what is happening. "I threw up so hard i popped blood vessels all over my face, it was everything in my stomach and I looked like a monster. I got it in my hair, on my shirt, everywhere. It was a bile and breakfast special."

[@avril.227]

So sorry. I hope you have access to some help with that - hang in there

[@judycroteau482]

Good for you! I had a male boss who used to insist on knowing the details about why I took my sick days, since it was “inconvenient for him”. I would shut down his curiosity real quick by saying “it was female issues and exactly how detailed did he want/need me to share”. Funnily enough, he really did not need me to explain further. Btw, he was the VP of HR and a lawyer at the time and really should have known better. His asking me that sort of stuff was a legal issue just waiting to be escalated. Idiot boss! He soon learnt to be careful when he asked me personal questions because I would tell him whether he really wanted to know or not. 😜

[@sandy_carpetsthesecond5013]

Yeah, it's kinda like that with me, but instead of having a hard time fighting off everything, I have all-seasonal allergies, and for some reason, I become prone to lung infections and colds when it's winter. So I'm basically perpetually sick. It's fun.

[@libertyordeath8338]

I would say “I hope everything is ok.” and leave it at that. What’s with people like that???

[@AzureSkii.Kismet]

Siiri these videos are really crazy that people have the audacity to think that they are entitled to every detail of your life cause you are their stylist 🤔😤🤨

[@sebastianmaker6798]

Ugh, this made me gag. I can't imagine asking people about a family emergency. It almost always means that someone is severely injured or died. It's basic manners not to ask that kind of stuff.

[@audreym3908]

I had my hairstylist cancel on me a couple of times, mostly it was due to her getting sick or something with her daughter/family and I was completely ok not knowing the reason and told her to get better or hope everything is fine with her family. At my spa we do knod of need to know the reason with in the same day so that we're paid for the missing session and do charge them if the reason is they forgot or something, but we don't charge them if they got covid or it was an emergency situation.

[@Indyghurl]

Love love love the take it or leave it response

[@breej69]

WOW! Just WOW!!!

[@LucindaCalabrese]

The horror the audacious person must have felt when she heard last appointment 👌

[@kathrinsides2838]

I understand that being in the chair at the salon is kind of a place where women open up about their lives, but everyone has a right to privacy, especially the professionals who provide the services we are paying for. Over the years, I have developed a relationship with the women who I have had work on my hair, and I did learn about their lives, but I only learned what they were willing to share with me. And they only learned what I was willing to share with them. Regardless of how much you like each other, it’s still a professional relationship, and while they may be great listeners, they aren’t therapists, & their lives aren’t fodder up for discussion unless they choose to share.

[@tinkeramma]

My stylist is also one of my best friends. It's never been just a professional relationship. I'd still respect her obviously not wanting to share.

[@Selfcareiskey]

" the patience I thought you"😂😂😂😂❤

[@cooltigergirl14]

Those glasses look so pretty 🤩

[@chriscooper654]

Wow. Just, wow. No, Karen, you ain't entitled to any details of your service-provider's personal affairs. Dog on a stick!

[@thrumylenns2207]

The strange audacity of people

[@Hammingitupable]

I love that my clients respect my space and understand. And some of them I'm close enough to that eventually they find out what happened. However, they are not entitled to a full explanation. I love this video so much. I have a hard time setting boundaries and I love seeing positive examples of people who do. But can we address that you look good with every hair color?

[@darkdaygirl]

Good. For. You! Boundaries, honey! You have every right to keep your personal business your own!

[@emelmc]

I love those set boundaries! We do not need to share intimate details. Especially if the family emergency picks at the pain around this situation.

[@okhoward1942]

“It’s just, I feel like I’m entitled-“ “I got that”

[@ella_cinder4361]

It's the "NOYB" kind of emergency

[@colorfulbeauty3003]

I feel like society is all about power and control. Take back your power. No means no always. Have boundaries.

[@Princessofthedrk]

Are those those cat glasses I recently saw an ad for? I think I saw it on Reddit. Also, I was cringing the whole time and kind of had to look away once she started the "I deserve to know!"

[@kcanded]

As soon as you think you're 'entitled' to something, you're wrong.

[@lauvalhallaprincess1]

Siiri, with all due respect please please please drop that individual as a customer/client; they do NOT deserve anything and most certainly NOT entitled to any family/personal matters. And primarily, you do NOT deserve that treatment/behavior from anyone!! A family emergency is your business and you do NOT have to explain to anyone, anything!! I hope all is well and I wish you and your family endless blessings; I send prayers also ❤❤

[@Shea333-n3k]

What is it about some people that they can’t understand it’s called “personal business “ for a reason. Facebook, Instagram and TikTok have so many people brainwashed into thinking everybody should know everybody else’s business.

[@bsouthmama3010]

Jeezus. family EMERGENCY. Self explanatory. No more details warranted. And no, you don’t deserve ANYTHING MORE

[@zukostryder]

An emergency is an EMERGENCYYYYYY 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️🫥

[@grantrule6593]

Great Video Siri

[@siiriparkss]

thanks for watching!!

[@MsAubrey]

The proper response is, “Thanks so much for hooking me up today. I truly hope that whatever happened the other day is better. I’m sorry you had a family emergency.”

[@k2000589]

If I called my stylist and cancelled for a "family emergency" they would not demand details and I know Siiri wouldn't either

[@momcat2223]

I am impressed the stylist 1) let Nosy Nancy go on as long as she did and 2) didn't fire Miss Nosy - with no service today - when she wouldn't drop it. Srsly. The most I would _ever_ consider doing is asking if I could add someone to my prayer list. Not even in what regard, just a name, cuz the Man I'm talking to already knows the deets.

[@missaniebananie6473]

The only appropriate statements that should follow “I had a family emergency” from a client would be silence, or something like “I am sorry you had to deal with that, I hope everything is okay” period

[@toscatattertail9813]

No ONE is entitled to the personal medical or other family details. It's unprofessional to share and Unrealistic for the client to expect a non-family member to share as well. I was a Certified ASL Interpreter for 40 years, i rarely cancelled on a client whether i was doing Private contract work or was properly hired by a business or educational setting. I also Never shared personal details it's none-of-their-business....unless it effects their "Business"

[@MM_Sheehan]

Siiri is getting salty. I am here for it.

[@c.barrett5114]

I think the beautician deserves to give just as much detail as the customer is required to give when they cancel and avoid the cancellation fee. I definitely understand as someone who is nosy asking but as soon as I can see she is uncomfortable with the question I wouldn't push it. This was ridiculous, although firing her as a client might be too far, a warning first maybe if she didn't drop it.

[@cristinal3055]

We don't got time for all that, grow up, and get your "adult" self together!

[@spirolina7742]

Hey. What are the glittery things around your eyes? They're soo pretty❤what brand is that or is it a eyeliner stick

[@keithjones7037]

The kind of family emergency that's none of your business.

[@c.barrett5114]

I understand asking, there is nothing wrong with being curious but you don't get to demand an answer she isn't comfortable giving

[@ronnieferguson9337]

FACTS!

[@BigMama_21]

Client NO You Don’t Deserve Nor Are You Entitled Private Detail Heck No !!!

[@serenastar9760]

I actually have a good story that you could do Sirri. So it was in school and I was doing this little girls hair and we had to lighten her hair first we were doing a purple streak in her hair and it was a Saturday and super busy and this little girls hair was taking a while cuz we had to lighten it and we had to add the colour afterwards well this grandmother was getting so mad that it was taking forever that while we weee waiting to rinse her hair out cuz we only had 2 sinks the grandmother was just getting so frustrated and mad at me cuz I couldn’t rinse her out yet cuz I was waiting for my turn she was just so inpatient (oh don’t forget that this grandmother said she was a hairstylist in the past and saying it shouldn’t take this long) (dude if she was a hairstylist she would understand that hair takes time) and then when we were done rinsing she wouldn’t let me dry the little girls hair and when she left to pay she screamed at teacher on duty cursing 🤬 and left a whole bunch of money cuz she just wanted to get out of there it was crazy PLEASE USE THIS STORY

[@debleary3241]

Entitled? Hey, hun, there's the door. Ta!

[@colleennikstenas4921]

No one is entitled to personal details of your life. Period.

[@MarnaDR]

Get rid of this Karen!

[@kuuttinen]

I hope this isn't nosey, but I always wondered where did you get the name Siiri? I've never seen that name outside Finland🤔

[@lauraelliott6909]

I think she said her mom knew a Finnish woman by that name, if I'm remembering correctly.

[@JamieCormier]

No one is entitled to your business. Family emergency is already more information than she needed. She wasn’t able to work that day. That’s all the info needed.

[@erinhutson5548]

Wow. 1, where’s the compassion? And 2, why would you want to piss off your stylist, much less make her uncomfortable? Ain’t no way!

[@hellskells26]

Yeah service industry doesn’t equal servant industry

[@Idontwant1]

I would have told you won’t be doing her hair any longer, so she should go. A family emergency was enough of an excuse. She isn’t your boss.

[@clarkem.5269]

She’s just nosy and looking for an excuse 😂

[@RedRuneblade_Alt]

Karen sucks pushing like that but can we talk about how nice it is that she has a boss who understands a family emergency, or any kind of necessary unplanned emergency? And she doesn't have to humiliate herself begging for the time off for circumstances beyond her control?

[@littlemissunshine7846]

No that's not your business that's a personal response she had a family emergency that's where it stops

[@iamwindchakra]

Bye Felicia.

[@Nonbinarylez]

Wow

[@samanthalopez8346]

You have to become a parent’ as well as a stylist. People don’t know how to act

[@lorianncostello531]

Nosy af!

[@adelleleone]

Oh, man. No. Never entitled to intimate details. But, if it had been the situation where the salin actually did force you to say more than family emergency, then yeah, by all means, equal treatments. This doesn't seem like one of those situations though. Seems more like being nosey and trying to justify it. Lol

[@Yaya2214CJ]

None of your business Karen. She isn't required to tell you anything else. Don't like it, leave. End of story

[@jenniferbyork690]

😮😮😮

[@katehardwick4283]

Why is her nose brown?