It's not only men who get addicted to drugs and alcohol in Thailand. I spent over a decade partying on cheap booze here. I managed to stop a few years ago. Now I use my sober time rescuing animals and running my shelter.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Hey Michelle, sounds great I wish you the best of luck
@Michelle-rf1nf2 жыл бұрын
@@ThairishTimes Thank you. If you like cats and dogs come visit sometime. We're in Ban Phe Rayong.
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! You are an inspiration! My wife and I sometimes find abandoned animals and re-home them. We recently found 3 kittens and hooked them up with new families...
@keithpetch81962 жыл бұрын
Yes have seen that well done !!!
@ThailandThomas2 жыл бұрын
Pete my feeling is most of the people that have problems with addiction in Thailand were fxxk up before they got to Thailand. Thailand can bring out the worst in a person if not careful.
@destinationsroadslesstraveled2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree some really messed-up foreigners here. Not good for Thailand and they make all foreigners look bad.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
100% Thomas
@kingmaafa1202 жыл бұрын
Facts
@happycook67372 жыл бұрын
Yes! Often this is what happens. Addiction is progressive so maybe when they were younger they just drank/drugged on the weekends but as people progress in addiction they are chasing their original high and it takes more and more because the dopamine centres in their brains have been hijacked. Terribly sad!
@craigchislett712 жыл бұрын
agree with you Thomas! it's mostly young backpackers looking for an extreme out. this I've seen with my own eyes.
@ariefraiser1402 жыл бұрын
For a lot of Westerners, moving to Thailand automatically upgrades their financial lifestyle. Things they couldn't do or experience in their country due to money and having to work long hours for relatively little pay when you factor in the cost of living can now be had for a salary of as little as $2000 per month and less work per week. Thailand is like hitting the lottery. But like getting a lot of money in the lottery, Thailand doesn't change who you are; it reveals who you are.
@mountaintruth1deeds5332 жыл бұрын
Well said and valid for several situations in life.
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
That's the fault of the Western people for deliberately making everything so prohibitively expensive and forcing extreme poverty on their own people. Personally, I was homeless in America, moved to Southeast Asia, and now I have a great home, and a family. If that had been possible in America, there would have been no reason to escape. I could have spent all my money on dope in either country... I should note that I've never even visited Koh Samui, Pattaya, Phuket, etc. That type of place doesn't interest me, so I haven't met many "bad farrang", mostly responsible adults who moved here for a better quality of life...
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
Definitely. I plan to go to Thailand and I won't lie, I was going to scoop me up some Pain Pills when I want to catch a buzz, because I am not a big alcohol drinker at all. I'd choose other things besides alcohol any day of the week. I find alcohol to be more of a pain than just popping a few pills, because alcohol taste bad, especially hard alcohol/liquor in my opinion and it fills your stomach like food too. I'd rather just take some tasteless pills and catch a nice little buzz in like 30-45 minutes, but I am not facing depression or anything so I usually don't end up physically dependent on it
@spicysalsaking7912 жыл бұрын
Getting pain pills isn't easy to do in Thailand. Perhaps you're thinking of Cambodia?
@ariefraiser1402 жыл бұрын
@@spicysalsaking791 I'm not sure what you're referring to. I didn't address anything concerning pain pills in my initial post.
@roybaht2 жыл бұрын
Thailand is a libertarian paradise. It’s a place where westerners can experience more freedom than they can in their home countries. The flip side of the coin here is that people who do not have self-control often find their way to ruin. Good video Pete! 👍👍👍
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
well said Roy, I didn't see you on Paddy's Day
@roybaht2 жыл бұрын
@@ThairishTimes Yeah, things got complicated. 🤣 But I'll be at Scruffy Murphy's this Thursday night, March 24. If you're free, stop by. I'll be buying pints left and right. 😉
@gusyates18392 жыл бұрын
No good for people with untreated ADHD.
@greatone73142 жыл бұрын
@@roybaht Are you British?
@terintiaflavius33492 жыл бұрын
You should use libertine not libertarian. Degeneracy is not liberty
@ericzellershow2 жыл бұрын
Life lessons included! This episode should be mandatory viewing on the plane ride over for any foreigner flying to Thailand for the first time.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Cheers mate
@mrdacusthenavigator49892 жыл бұрын
It's a discussion that needs serious attention. When you're in a foreign country where your money goes far, and you have a lot of free time, having an addiction spells disaster. This happens a lot for those w/ alcohol issues. Unfortunately, many end up homeless. Again, definitely a topic that needs highlighting for potential expats
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I felt I should shed light on a topic that isn’t often discussed
@destinationsroadslesstraveled2 жыл бұрын
Zero hobbies besides drinking and bar girls for the men not sure what the women do with their free time.
@BrassLock2 жыл бұрын
@@destinationsroadslesstraveled Interesting question. I met several at "University of the 3rd Age" type classes such as Urban Watercolour Art, History of Chiang Mai, Poetry & Creative Writing etc, and see that they form friendships quickly, share ideas/discussions and arrange followup meetings/lunch dates readily, without the need for alcohol. Guys tend to be task-based, and after class will jump in the car and do the next task. Socialising without alcohol and enjoying leisure time/hobbies requires a less pressured attitude that's hard to acquire after a lifetime of job deadlines, but is possible.
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
I have the opposite experience. I was a heavy drinker in America, as a direct result of the stress and unhappiness there. I quit smoking and cut down on drinking in Thailand. It's really up to the individual - anyway if you wanna be a drunk, it's cheaper in Eastern Europe...
@grahammurray74262 жыл бұрын
@@BennieTarrMusic exactly beer not that cheap in bkk phuket etc if all you want to do is get hammered go vietnam cambodia and many other places
@mangoking7872 жыл бұрын
Hello Pete, addiction is a serious business all over the world. Well it happened to one of my cousins. The mother told her son, when I go you do not have to work. You will be a millionaire. What happened when his mother passed away, he was a millionaire. But it took him just over 2 years to finish everything his mother left him. When he passed away. He died on the road and the people he knew had to rack up some money for his funeral. He was only 50 years old. We all should understand that we have a hidden talent, and we got to find it to better our lives. I thought I married a great woman, but it turned out she was a devil in disguise. That is now history, because my heart is now in Thailand. Take care, stay safe. Thank you.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Jeez what a tragic story!!
@davlon742 жыл бұрын
Been here 17 years. First 8 years spent being an alcoholic, smoking 40 a day. However my Dad had always kept drumming this message into me over the years: "Son, whatever you are like at 40 years old, you will likely be for the rest of your life". The subliminal programming worked as at age 39 I got it together and haven't looked back. These days my addictions are staying fit and healthy; the benefit that comes with that kind of addiction is you can pull normal Thai girls and integrate with decent people.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
well done to you for turning your life around. Upwards and onwards
@graguitar64932 жыл бұрын
The 40 reference is pretty spot on. I lost my big love 3 months after I turned 40. After a year of depression I got into prostitution back home in Australia. It went from 1 hooker a month to 2 a week pretty quickly. I then went to Pattaya for the first time in 2015. Over the next 5 years I ended up spending around 3 months a year here. As soon as I turned 50 last year I moved here. I'm so addicted to Thai hookers that i am forcing myself out of Pattaya but only to bang saray so I can curb my addiction to just 2 days a week instead of everyday. I can't see myself stopping altogether though.
@1990-t1j2 жыл бұрын
Well said, David.
@le.mister.j2 жыл бұрын
absolutely, my friend. congrats on your turnaround. there are consequences for moving like that at any age. as one starts getting up there in age, it's really time to pivot. for all intents and purposes, soon as you touch down, hit the ground running in the right direction. like you said, when you are truly tapped in and in your lane, good folk want to rock with you.
@michaelmccreery81922 жыл бұрын
If only it was that easy
@raekeepsitreal2 жыл бұрын
Deep gratitude for this video. My dad died from an overdose in Thailand in 1994. The second story you told sounded eerily similar to my dad’s.. 💔
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
Wow, tragic! What did he overdose on if you don't mind me asking??
@easemailboxes2 жыл бұрын
Hi, more should be shown about this. I had a good friend of mine shot by police near Phuket around that time. He was a drug addict. Thanks to Thaksins war on drugs. Very sad times.
@robertmaddelena5302 жыл бұрын
Thanks for shedding light on a tough subject . It easy to drink it's hard to avoid the scene. I try limit it to two beers a month.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Robert ☺️✊🏻
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
I disagree, but then again I am not really a fan of alcohol. I'd rather smoke some cannabis and pop some pills every now and then, then drink any day of the week
@ian-wu2bb2 жыл бұрын
Good one Pete. I have my own demons had I have been in Thialand in my 20,s I would have either been dead or sitting in a prision until today. However none of that happened and I have a wonderful wife and a wonderful life today.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Nice one Ian, you turned it around. Fair play
@ericdelevinquiere99022 жыл бұрын
You have managed to tackle a difficult subject without being judgmental, keep it up, you definitely have talent and that is regardless of where you are in the world!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Eric, I appreciate that
@adamstainer46372 жыл бұрын
Great video. I was a pretty big drinker before I went to Thailand. Going there turned me into an alcoholic. When you're on a 3 month holiday it's pretty easy to end up drinking every day. There's always something going on and you kinda feel like your missing out if you're not out every night. Just the little things like ordering a beer with lunch. If you're eating at restaurants every day, it's so easy to just say "Go on then, I'll have a Leo" especially if other people at the table order alcohol too. If you're hung over drinking can actually perk you up. As crazy and dangerous as that sounds. It's a vicious circle. I went cold turkey and quit in January 2020, but 5 days later I had a seizure from withdrawal. That scared the hell out of me and I'll never go back to drinking every day. It's so reckless and far to many people are unaware of the damage it can cause and how hard it can be to quit in the future. Thank you for making this video. It's super important to spread awareness on addiction. Hopefully people in their 20's will see this and realize what can happen down the line. You may just save a few lives while you're at it too. Keep up the good work :)
@adamstainer46372 жыл бұрын
p.s it's vital to seek help when trying to quit. You need to take vitamin B supplements, as alcoholics are deprived of vitamin B. It's also very important o gradually reduce your intake and not just go cold turkey. It's a very dangerous thing to do, and you will end up having a seizure like me or getting delirious tremors. Always seek professional help. It's totally worth doing.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this mate. All the best to you . It takes courage to do what you did. Keep fighting
@TWCH2 жыл бұрын
@@adamstainer4637 Years ago (80s) I took a withdrawing drunk to the emergency room of Kings County Hospital in Brooklyn NY. It was (is?) an inner city hospital. There were people with stab wounds and other nasty injuries in the crowded waiting room. I thought we'd be there for hours. They took him in right away and admitted him. The doctor told me severe alcohol withdrawal can be life threatening. I never forgot that.
@hualaanbaaching-ching15272 жыл бұрын
Can absolutely relate. And is there any better time to drink beer than when we're hungover? As one famous philosopher once said, it can turn hell to heaven in 15 minutes. :)
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
I actually drink very significantly LESS than I did in AmeriKKKa... And I quit smoking in Thailand too... Lower stress levels (or more properly stated: different, more manageable types of stress), a good wife, and stable employment made all the difference...
@Simon-vt1zp2 жыл бұрын
Good one Pete. So nice to see your parents instilled such kind and accepting attitude in you man. None of us know what around the Corner. I myself did a couple of weeks in rehab years ago ( Alcohol ). I was so scared who I would meet in there. I was surprised ! A Barrister , an older lady who worked in a bank. A nice old guy that had lost his wife…..Etc We are all human. Thanks for showing a full spectrum of life on here Pete 🙏👍
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Cheers Simon and well done to you for getting help. Alcohol gets people from all walks of life. I feel sorry for the old guy who lost his wife 😔
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
Lol you must have really lived an innocent life if you think addiction is just for the bottom feeders in life. Anybody can be an addict lol, addiction doesn't discriminate at all
@JonnyElk2 жыл бұрын
Another great video Pete! Keeping it real and telling it like it is! (Not jumping around saying how great everything is …. not that any KZbinrs do that!). Love your content. Stay cool out there!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jonny☺️☺️☺️
@noneyabizness72882 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pete. Just so people are aware there is really good recovery meetings in Bangkok and Chiang Mai as well as other cities as well. You don't have to do it alone and you can surround yourself with others who have stopped and are living happy, fulfilled lives.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Very well said 🙏🙏🙏
@lilmixdboy2 жыл бұрын
My stomach is wrecked for life because of drinking every day. The sad part is I never get drunk. I just sip so slowly. I'm always in 100% control and coherent Now my body is paying for it
@enoehtgambino8986 Жыл бұрын
Awesome video bro appreciate the advice keep up the good work 👍
@Slingingtea Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful video. Wonderful cinematography! Great shots! Story’s like that remind me why it’s probably a good thing I didn’t stay in Thailand. I love your vidéos! Thanks for sharing! Much love from Canada!
@ThairishTimes Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, glad you enjoyed it
@JBWanders732 жыл бұрын
Really good video Pete... my best mate here, an Irishman, had a long battle with addiction. He went to the 'vomit temple' and promised a monk he wouldn't drink for 2 years. He kept to his word and lasted exactly two years; but the very next day he had a grand old drink up. The problem was also that, during said two years, he got addicted to pain killers, Xanax and other tablets... it did not end well, unfortunately. I lost my best mate just over five years ago and he left behind three young boys. During the entire period, he worked seven days a week, but that's another story. Good luck to you - the interviews are very good!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Poor fella, what a terribly sad story. Thanks for sharing that JB
@PaulWalliswriter2 жыл бұрын
@@ThairishTimes he was a dear friend of mine.
@JBWanders732 жыл бұрын
@@PaulWalliswriter He was one in a million Paul... take care bud
@stephenlynch17912 жыл бұрын
Another top video Pete , never been an addict myself but have lost a few friends to Booze and Drugs and its heartbreaking , glad to see the city getting busier .
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Getting busier by the week Stephen, I predict January 2023 tourism numbers will be up near pre-covid times
@michael-lt2lf2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful advice. Addiction: It's almost always ever not anything else than being on your own and not liking it. No one to love, care for and thereby feel one's one life is worth something
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
Yes, exactly. People caused this situation... Then the people blame a substance - the substance does not do anything, the people did it to their own.
@Hoxton662 жыл бұрын
I have a mate in Pattaya jail 10 years, because hes addiction, and a different mate who's the owner of a rehabilitation program in Thailand called hope rehab, And a few people I know became alcoholics, I'm grateful there are na a AA meeting in Thailand too.
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
How did he end up in Jail for 10 years? Did he get caught with drugs or what??
@Molloy19512 жыл бұрын
This one was my fav video of yours so far. Well done!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much ☺️☺️
@BangkokVoiceCoach2 жыл бұрын
Great video. A good balance of content and visuals. Bangkok looks stunning. And I liked the reference to Ryan and little Otis.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Niall, I enjoyed filming this one
@dannowestiedanflarty69902 жыл бұрын
Good video as always, as a person who's suffered with addiction problems previously I can see how thailand just like anywhere else with cheap drink drugs sex etc can be bad news ,for me to have seen alot of non thais homeless with addiction problems in pattaya /bkk is a crazy scene ,to think you go to paradise and end up like that sad...(i was the one that thanked you and your lady for your content at terminal 21 yesterday,gonna leave a link for AA THAILAND if you don't mind 🙏🏻
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Hi Danno, nice seeing you yesterday. Sure leave a link and i’ll pin it to the top of the comment section
@lgv40653 ай бұрын
I love travel and story days!!! You should do them more often.
@connielinz8792 жыл бұрын
Great vlog!! Great advice!! We never know what the future holds for us. Hope you enjoyed your cup of tea when you got home 🍵🫖
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Oh I enjoyed my cup of tea that day Connie thanks for watching
@Mozzermarr102 жыл бұрын
Your right near Jack's bar I think. great vid on addiction. I think Thailand is an easy place for people to go mental, as I've seen it loads of times.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Not too far, about a 10minute walk
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
People were already mental before they arrived in Thailand. You can't expect to go to Thailand where the biggest thing to do there is party, (well at least that's why most people go there) and not have your shit straight before you went, because you have a high chance of going back home with a problem
@joemann21782 жыл бұрын
Good wisdom Pete. Many can't resist the lures of the bar scene in tourist areas. But you only have to see the beaches early in the morning with people drinking beer to see a sad sight. Not a place to be, you can be miserable and lost in paradise too.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Joe, that’s well said
@tobetb Жыл бұрын
i got into a lil trouble on Valium in Vietnam, only took a week or two for the addiction to form...not even noticeable until i didn't have val one night... kicking it was a week or two of crippling severe anxiety and darkest darkest depression....scary stuff.... got to be super careful with SE Asian freedoms...
@leroyjackman92752 жыл бұрын
Just come across your channel. Love your contents and the you deliver your information. You got a good sense of humour and I sense you are a man of humility which goes a long way in my book. Keep up the good work.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Leroy
@BrassLock2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you retrieved your camera. . . we need it for your next video 🤩. Thanks for your stories and fascinating scenes & backdrops. I used to love travelling on the fast ferries all the way to Nontaburi years ago, but never used the smaller Klong boats; they look like a similarly enjoyable adventure in beautiful weather.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
check out the smaller klong boats next time Dav they're great and really zip around
@keef65862 жыл бұрын
Great vlog Pete on a subject very close to my heart and I think you covered it very well. It’s a very deep subject where many people will have many different opinions but the advice you gave re location and who you mix with are sound. Sadly in my case it meant losing contact with some close family and making choices which were heartbreaking. I have spent a lot of time reading and learning about addiction and could talk for hours about it. As for the availability of drugs like Xanax and Valium. I always found them very easily attainable in pharmacies in Pattaya. Not so in the rural areas. No one should ever look down on anyone who is in a less fortunate situation than yourself. As someone once said to me, anyone could be one piece of bad news away from being in their shoes. Best wishes.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Keef, you’re last sentence is so true and is very humbling. Nobody’s perfect so we shouldn’t judge
@StephenOshea2 жыл бұрын
great video thanks for posting
@elvarwinston2 жыл бұрын
"You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with" This one is very true!
@anguslaing66112 жыл бұрын
Great Video mate! Hope you get your 10K Subs soon!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Angus, so close now
@mickvallantine25232 жыл бұрын
nice one Pete, interesting that your parents broached the subject about never thinking you were any better than an addict because you never know whats around the next corner. Fortunately for me I too am able to keep myself in check. Great show loved the way you intergrated the tour also, Cheers
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Yes I suppose it was a lesson in humility they were teaching me. Glad you liked the tour more to come Mick
@joakimgasslander36222 жыл бұрын
Great energy in your vlog and you certainly contribute to a better world. Keep your fantastic energy and work up and the world will be a happier place. Well done 👍
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much 🙏🙏🙏
@DozaDeCulturaGenerala2 жыл бұрын
Hey, sir! What you use for filming?
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
This was shot using the Sony FDRX 3000
@DozaDeCulturaGenerala2 жыл бұрын
@@ThairishTimes Wow, pretty good stabilization, nice cinematic shots in this one. Thank you so much!
@srgba2442 жыл бұрын
Great topic, Pete! 10K. Almost done!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
So close mate
@pogump2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting video again Pete,and I can relate to one of the addictions that you mentioned,if I tell you that I newer done drugs,never smoked,and very very careful with alcohol,I guess you can figure out what my addiction was,I had two older sister of witch the oldest one (six years older then me)while she was alive had tried any kind of drugs that you could find here in Sweden,and that made her pass away 6-7 year’s ago,so I never point finger on people with any kind of addictions,all the best to you Pete :) :) :)
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing that and best of luck to you. At least you’re well aware of what your addiction is, many aren’t
@unelectedbureaucrat20032 жыл бұрын
Lady boys?
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
If someone points the finger at someone because they have an addiction then I would just ignore them, because it's not very intelligent, very misinformed with no experience being around anyone with an addiction and very very immature. If someone is like that you should be shaking your head at them, not letting them irritate you
@louisbecke23482 жыл бұрын
I've been retired in the Philippines nearly 20 years. The local VFW use to be called God's waiting room. So many retire here and think they can party just like their younger years. Big difference between visiting Thailand and living there same as here. The body cannot sustain such an attack of alcohol, bad food and women. Usually about 2 years from arriving here and their dead. Another name on the chalk board.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Yes, the older we get the more we need to take care of out health and the vices you mentioned can lead to an early grave fast if people go overboard
@happycook67372 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking of retirement. Why did you pick Philippines over Thailand? Is there a compelling reason?
@ubon112 жыл бұрын
I’m retired USAF, thinking about retiring in Angeles. But I had a supervisor who retired there and drank himself to death after about 10 years living AC. So I know if I retire there, I’m going to need to find things to do, but what is there except chasing women and drinking San Miguel? That is why I have been hesitant to move there, lack of things to do to keep me occupied, plus I enjoy working as I’m a defense contractor now. But eventually, I will retire and split my time between Thailand and Angeles.
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
There is plenty of healthy food, fresh fruit drinks, and monogamy here too. It's up to the individual.
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
@@ubon11 Get a hobby! Learn to play an instrument, study the language, buy a motorcycle and go for adventures away from the city... Avoid tourist traps and big cities. It's up to you. With all due respect, I have noticed that military vets tend to have a difficult time with personal responsibility - they're so used to the routine and being a small part of a huge machine. I lived in Alaska for five years and saw plenty of well-paid army boys end up broke or dead... Just be a man and have some self respect.
@martinhodgins16772 жыл бұрын
Another great vlog Pete. I cannot relate to this quite as much (i.e as badly) as I normally can to your vlogs. Thank God I never had the drug bug. Drink was bad enough! Thank God I gave it up. But it is a very serious concern for many westerners. Kudos on your work.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Cheers Martin, yes it’s a sad story over here for some foreigners. Hope you’re keeping well
@martinhodgins16772 жыл бұрын
"Divil a bother" Pete, as they say.
@4KChillVibes.2 жыл бұрын
i totally agree with moving away from the party scene to not let yourself fall in to the routine of just meeting other expats down the pub. i plan to try and retire or spend some of my retirement in thailand and have decided to look at other cities or places than my usual haunts maybe Hua Hin, Samui, or somewhere similar, not to have the party on your doorstep but do have the availability for a few on a saturday night or something.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
try Koh Chang out. It's got a very chilled vibe and there are some really cool expats there
@jonhobson35922 жыл бұрын
Keep disciplined I’d say , and not live right near everything … great views on the travels ..
@happycook67372 жыл бұрын
Expats either get into trouble there with alcohol/drugs OR they hook up with a Thai wife that ruins them financially and breaks their heart!!? Especially happens to middle aged men who get a young Thai wife. These young women are in it for the money because otherwise they wouldn't look twice at a middle aged man.
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
Avoid tourist traps and big cities. There are plenty of very nice, quiet places to live in Thailand...
@smilergrogan14522 жыл бұрын
A good friend of my father and mine, ended up at the 'bottom of the stairs' in Pattaya. He had more sense than you could imagine, but cheap booze and temptation still dragged him down. RIP my mate, see you in Valhalla.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
RIP to the poor fella
@chriszimmer62272 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your stream.... i need your help ... Chris from Germany ( the one who contacted you by mail)
@robertjanak10262 жыл бұрын
Great video Pete. I really love the city tour & story theme! I think you're on to something there. Do another one, when it lends itself....
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Cheers Robert, I enjoyed filming this i’ll do some more in the future for sure
@rollingrock59162 жыл бұрын
New subscriber from the States. Great video answered alot of questions. Temples look amazing. An Irish🇮🇪American 🇺🇸
@frankoseven2 жыл бұрын
Nice video, interesting topic. I was in the restaurant at the end of the street you mentioned with Dan and Lyn. It's nice there, good view and nice food.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Nice one Frank, I must check it out
@eleanorclarke20552 жыл бұрын
Great video, enjoyed it very much, interesting topic and added bonus of a look around Bangkok, 10,000 coming very soon!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Eleanor, I can nearly touch 10k now
@graerindley63122 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. 32 years of frequent traveling to Bangkok and I didn't know that I could have simply caught a canal boat from the sukhumvit area to the all the older areas near the chao phrya river. 😀
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Yep the canal is so efficient beats all the traffic and is super fast
@sidborirak33262 жыл бұрын
Fantastic Thailand content. Thank you so much.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome Sid
@matthewgreen90622 жыл бұрын
Good video , you speak a lot of sense 👍
@kevindockery51822 жыл бұрын
Loved it , I was wondering if someone would cover this topic .I thank you for your transparency. I hope to visit Ireland I heard it is beautiful.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kevin, Ireland is a stunningly beautiful country. I suggest you go there during summer though. Try a Guinness too 🇮🇪😉
@nunebkk49292 жыл бұрын
Loving the talk and walk , my lovely hubby 🤌🏽🍀💚 😉😉
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Wifey
@faithzzzzzzz2 жыл бұрын
I do enjoy your channel. Happy, real and informative. keep it up!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ben
@keithpetch81962 жыл бұрын
Good talk bro people need to hear that . I have been coming to Thailand since 1980 I live in Nong Song Hong north Thailand . I have seen so many get lost In what you have talked about and ruin their lives and others close to them . I watch you every now and then but this talk made me subscribe great work.
@davidheaslip44132 жыл бұрын
Loved the street art in this one Pete . I am trying to become an illustrator myself . I believe that addictions , some how ease the pain . It becomes a lethal concoction when you mix the lifestyle out here ,, sadly . I gave up alcohol 3 and a half year ago . Don"t miss the stuff.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Best of luck with becoming an illustrator David. Sounds very interesting. That’s a long time off alcohol, you’re better off well done
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
Addiction is ultimately self medicating at the end of the day. I have tried almost every drug in America, even heroin and meth but I never got addicted because I wasn't dealing with any personal issues and I would also not do those drugs for more than 2-3 days at a time because they are very addicting, especially Heroin, you will have tiny withdrawals nothing major at all but you will sweat a little bit and feel a bit bummed out if you do Heroin for more than 2 days at a time and that's a recipe for disaster if you are depressed and feeling negative; if I felt a bit bummed just from 3 days use of doing it all day, I can only imagine that feeling being amplified if you are already depressed, you may well become dependent on the drug(s)
@Stevo80132 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the 10K well deserved 👍🇹🇭🇮🇪 best channel on KZbin by a long way, next stop 15K.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much Steven. You've been here from the start mate much appreciated
@matt-eq6ms2 жыл бұрын
I have had a on off valium addiction starting in Asia ten years back mixing it with alcohol . Wish I never tried prescription drugs . First started taking them on over night trains and buses with other backpackers loved the feeling of being wavy for weeks on end ,maybe to much !!! I can tell you now the withdrawals are brutal mini seizures , bounce back anxiety ,heart palpitations, sleepless nights , depression, complete blackouts trembles, the list goes on . You very quickly start not seeing the beauty of the wonderful place of Asia. Believe me I have seen hundreds of lost souls!!!! On a brighter note back to thailand in December for a month with my partner and our new born but this time to hit the fitness gyms . Fantastic blogs I will be subscribing x
@yanoftheworld2 жыл бұрын
Nice one Pete, some wise words there. Some great shots as well, colours were popping!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks mate☺️☺️
@seamus97502 жыл бұрын
Almost on the 10k Pete...loving your range of subjects...
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Seamus, within touching distance now
@bengullett60552 жыл бұрын
Very good video mate nice one 👍👍
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ben
@trevoraindow24402 жыл бұрын
Great video with good info. Been saying pretty much the same myself about adiction and the effects people go through either end of such... also the way we all differ and what the future beholds.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
thanks Trevor
@AlvoLong2 жыл бұрын
Whilst it’s good to “retire young” in Thailand, we really need an active routine to keep away from idleness and the monster it can turn into if not contained. Thanks for the great topic & for keeping it real.
@destinationsroadslesstraveled2 жыл бұрын
Maybe learn to speak Thai?
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
For sure and YT has been a fantastic way to keep me busy and meeting new people. Sport is another alternative or anything that gets you up and about and away from drugs. Learning Thai is also a great one
@drdavinsky2 жыл бұрын
I retired at 29 here. It’s awesome
@leetimcke79632 жыл бұрын
I've only just discovered your channel,it's pretty good , keep up the good work fella 👍
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lee🙏🙏
@mickmarkwick22632 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos so interesting!!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Mick
@ivanjarlov17982 жыл бұрын
Well done brother. Great to watch and learn. I really appreciate what you do.
@Co12cast2 жыл бұрын
Hello,I’m new to your channel and your broadcast was fantastic! The information,the scenery,such a great video.Keep up the good work,stay safe and enjoy yourself.✌🏿
@angusdesire2 жыл бұрын
Legendary Sparks lead guitarist Adrian Fisher died an alcoholic in Thailand back in 2001. He played on Kimono My House and Propaganda, Sparks' two greatest albums. That searing blues lead in 'Thank God it's not Christmas' always makes me sad and melancholic.
@suedodd79892 жыл бұрын
Hi Pete what area would you suggest for a 1 month stay in Bangkok for good access to mrt and trains for sightseeing.thanks Sue
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sue, I recomend the Phrom Pong area. It's centrally located with access to the BTS skytrain and you're not far from the MRT too
@suedodd79892 жыл бұрын
@@ThairishTimes thank you
@gertdrok2 жыл бұрын
Nice and Interesting vlog. I agree and have the same experience as you with Addiction Farang in Bangkok. Pete, for this Vlog from 19 minutes, it takes you a 5 hour day travel by boat and walking to make this Video ? Now I understand it is a lot of work to make a Vlog. 🙏
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Yes Gert I left home at 10:30 am and arrived back at 5pm but I wanted to show different locations that I hadn’t been to in awhile and I took my time. So for me it was a cool day especially the boat trip but yes it would have been easier to put the camera on the table and talk for 15mins but that’s a bit boring. I like editing and creating a nice video
@jamesabroad85892 жыл бұрын
Great vlog Pete, know many who've had issues including myself. Still in love with your sony.😁😁
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks James, it sure is common over here. Sony is still going strong
@EasternDreamer6152 жыл бұрын
Hey Pete, this video is super important. Some guys simply can't handle the freedom of living in a place like Bangkok. You really have to be strong on setting your own limits. I got the drinking out of my system before turning legal age in the US and I'm glad I did because the bar scene is not appealing to me. I find hangovers to be even worse than normal in the Bangkok heat.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Ohh you’re right BKK hangovers take you to the brink. It’s a combination of intense light, heat, noise and smells as you tentatively negotiate the city streets. It sounds like you do it the right way though
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
It's way worse in the freezing cold.
@rickoleary99752 жыл бұрын
Very wise commentary about addiction and its manifestations in Bangkok. This is a good presentation.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rick
@okiethais50152 жыл бұрын
Excellent, and appreciate your work.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks🙏🙏🙏
@dorteandersen5262 жыл бұрын
Great video thanks for share Pete😀👍
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Dorte
@dennismckeown58632 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your channel and content always look forward to the next video.
@paulseoighemcgee57722 жыл бұрын
Well done ! Great docu work !
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Paul
@masterofthecranium2 жыл бұрын
Some great shots you got in that vid. I love that canal and river loop. Sad topic, people with even slight addictive personalities need to be wary in Thailand. Many pitfalls and probably not the support network someone might have at home. It's a jungle out there!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
That’s it. It IS a jungle out there. I remember someone telling me that whatever your vice is Thailand will push you to your limit
@masterofthecranium2 жыл бұрын
@@ThairishTimes "Beware! Beware! The forest of sin, none come out but many go in!" 😄 I'm not religious or anything but that Roald Dahl quote always makes me think of the darker side of Thailand.
@agentm832 жыл бұрын
I recently had surgery here in Canada. They sent me home from the hospital with a Tramadol prescription. I stopped taking it pretty early on because I didn't like how spaced out it made me, very potent stuff.
@theasianjaywalker44552 жыл бұрын
I liked it when I was sent home with a prescription because it did NOT space me out, not at all and I felt less 'spaced out' than on Advils or that horrifying Oxycontin thing that definitely made me trip balls to space. Tramadol, by comparison was as if I just felt less pain but was totally sober-minded, physically felt good, energy, good dexterity, balance etc. I don't know that it's very potent and it actually is, deliberately made 'less potent' which (so the doc told me) it has certain molecular modifications so its literally, physically less potent on the human brain. hence a 'pseudo-opiate', NOT a 'full opiate' if you will.
@illwitness2 жыл бұрын
Broke my leg 18 months ago and was on it for a while. I absolutely loved how it made me feel but was aware just how addictive it is. Could slowly feel it latching on me and I knew I had to cut it off. Dangerous stuff!
@theasianjaywalker44552 жыл бұрын
@@illwitness If you really believe that then you have already informed your health system that YOU are very dangerous to yourself if given pain relievers as you latch onto the feelings it gives you. So that YOU don't get pain medication and can suffer through the pain while 99% of the others who don't have your addiction weakness can use them and not suffer in pain nor anything else after the broken bones heal and they go back to normal lives. I mean, you got to have that benefit but be sure to notify your doctor you can't handle pain meds and in any future chronic pain you don't want relief and will suffer through it without meds. Right? You did report yourself and your danger to yourself yes?
@illwitness2 жыл бұрын
@@theasianjaywalker4455 Jay,..take it easy yeah? Relax! I’m not addicted I’m not prostituting my self or robbing anyone. I just simply said I liked how it made me feel and I stopped. Easy!
@theasianjaywalker44552 жыл бұрын
@@illwitness calm down, I'm not accusing you of anything. I just said some thing about some things you described about yourself. You stopped after you healed up. Soo... used as prescribed it helped you and then you simply stopped taking them. Hmm so you... simply didn't take them anymore. That's all.
@pigedehekkan2 жыл бұрын
Addiction is always a tragedy no matter where it is and what it is. I know people with gambling and drug addictions, and some of them have ruined their lives. Had a fantastic buddy in Bangkok that wasn't really an addict, but loved to party and used too much at one occasion and unfortunately he didn't make it.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
terribly sad. RIP
@SeanClarke2 жыл бұрын
Great tour of Bangkok. I've lived here for 14 years and love it.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
It’s a fantastic city. That’s for sure
@tenpole412 жыл бұрын
Addiction is like depression it sneaks up on you. Grief is the same. You dont realise until you are up to your neck. People dont talk anymore they see it as a sign of weakness. Facebook etc doesnt help watching people living such perfect lives.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Yep social media doesn’t help but a lot of it is just fake
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
Nobody has their shit straight at all dude. Nobody on this Earth has a perfect life, we are constantly learning and growing as humans and to grow means you lived lower than before you grew and changed. Always remember that buddy.
@williamhartz87072 жыл бұрын
I lived in “party town” Pattaya for 15 years but I was working full time 20 minutes away. In the evenings I’d hit the gym and when you’re a “fitness addict” you definitely stay away from excessive drinking and go to sleep at a reasonable hour. Hanging out at bars never matched my kind of socializing.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like your did it right Bill. Exercise is a great way to keep people on the straight and narrow and if you can do it in Pattaya you can do it anywhere
@blenderconch2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Loha Prasat looks amazing 🤩 I'll try to pay it a visit when I have some free time. I love the Thai temples. Have you been to Wat Pariwat? I recommend it, if you want to see a very out of the ordinary temple.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
I love it. One of my first youtube videos was filmed at Wat Pariwat
@scottg34562 жыл бұрын
Great topic to cover and especially agree with your point of being careful who you chose to surround yourself with. Thailand can be your best friend, but it can also be your worst enemy.
@mountaintruth1deeds5332 жыл бұрын
Really well done, and a healthy side of truth, subbed.
@ThaiGuyKerry Жыл бұрын
What happened to a map of your connections? I thought you would show us where to get the good stuff.
@joewalton60562 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Pete!!!
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Joe
@christianhilburger50262 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the Video. Like to add that Thailand has a big 12-Step fellowship. For anyone struggling with addition they are easy to find online (NA; AA; etc.).
@robertfrancis31412 жыл бұрын
Well you hit your 10k. Next stop 15k. Good vid. Addiction sucks. Going thru my own struggle with booze right now. You said it right. A social drinker and then something bad happens in your life and it’s easy to turn to alcohol for that temporary relief. Always just makes it worse afterward. I need to get it in order before I move over there.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks mate, i’m delighted we hit 10k. I wish you the best of luck quitting the booze🙏🙏🙏🙏
@leejones32192 жыл бұрын
I like to look in the bars early in the morning and see who’s there. It’s a misery parade. I just think, Thank God it’s not me today as I have had a few unpleasant withdraws. The one time that made me finally get control was a 21 hour flight at 38,000 feet with the alcohol shakes after a four day binder in Bangkok.
@leejones32192 жыл бұрын
@Parfootery Ha, I was a passenger, not the Pilot.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
I hope so 😂😂😂😂
@GlobalDrifter10002 жыл бұрын
I have taken 100 mg per day for chronic pain. Never been high, never wanted more.
@livinginphuketthailand2 жыл бұрын
Great video mate.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mike
@tanchye17202 жыл бұрын
In my earlier days to Thailand, I once saw a old westerner collecting beer bottles into his cart late one evening from my hotel window, to be sold, probably. Sad to witness this. Looks like a homeless guy. Have been to Thailand countless time now, not addiction 😂, but I know what you meant by ‘addictions’. I am sponsoring a Thai farmer boy in his education at Rangsit University now. Another way to find meaning in Thailand, maybe. I speak Thai quite fluently now, read & write some too. 🙏
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Well done for sponsoring someone and giving them a leg up in life
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
My mom and I recycled cans in New York for 5¢ in the 1980's... The cans still only pay 5¢ today, although the money is worth much less (and the modern machines reject a LOT of the cans due to crappy barcode scanners)... Talk about preying on those who need the money most. It's a good thing to recycle in Thailand too! Even if you don't need money, it's good for the environment and gives you a bit of exercise.
@ThePeacePlant2 жыл бұрын
Wow that's crazy, someone really has to be bad off to find theirself homeless in a third world country and not your country you called home your whole life
@NickyDunn2 жыл бұрын
Hiya, nice walkabout. Thank you for the tour. Have a great week.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nicky you too ☺️☺️☺️
@NickyDunn2 жыл бұрын
@@ThairishTimes Thank you
@mobpsy15262 жыл бұрын
As you mentioned in another video, it is key to have a project/goal/mission when you are in Thailand. Maybe no other place on earth, that can fill emptiness with pure hedonism like thailand.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I agree 100% and this is why I do YT
@jbtravel57532 жыл бұрын
New subscriber. Great content mate, very original.
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much, we have to keep it real on Thairish Times
@kimlove57602 жыл бұрын
@@ThairishTimes KEEP IT REAL??????????? COME ON!!!!
@tg2132 жыл бұрын
remember the old line the Irish would have conquered the world but for Irish whiskey. lived in Thailand during the end of the Vietnam war. drugs were widely available and inexpensive. the us military had started random drug tests. it was called operation golden flow. they painted feet on the floor where you’d stand and had you urinate. in front of a bored sergeant. kept us out of trouble. how can i communicate to you in a more discreet way than public comments? great job on your channel. tim
@ThairishTimes2 жыл бұрын
here’s my email Tim thairishtimes@gmail.com sounds like you’ve got some stories