addressing the drama

i did a little reflecting over the weekend after the flood of attention i received, and wanted to share some open/honest thoughts ❤️
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0:00 addressing the drama
0:21 i have no agenda
0:45 pride in myself
1:39 shock and surprise
2:20 i fell off and have never been happier
3:28 an important decision
4:10 this is enough
4:27 how i know they love me
4:45 a final reminder
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Have a great week everyone x

[@ConnorFranta]

i did a little reflecting over the weekend and wanted to share some thoughts ❤

[@gabrielcastaneda9700]

You are literally the one KZbinr I’d aspire to be like just a guy living his life. With his plants and possible future cat. Also we need more cooking with Connor videos.

[@beeziess]

ily king

[@pogdancer98]

Love watching you grow as a human. Been here since the beginning and it’s been a pleasure watching you live your actual best life

[@atlpro05]

well said :)

[@user-ut1rg1xz3m]

BTW found out what happened. Love your Tictok Reply to the person in question! High five Franta!!

[@izrhunt]

our unproblematic king since 2014

[@adamautumn2329]

*Unproblematic queen* 💅

[@DarayaVahu]

Responding to someone who just mentioned in passing that he is boring (it's just truth, no need to get offended) that they are nothing, nothing but Joey's ex is harsh as fcuk

[@ThatFunnyGuyXx]

Yea…. Connor is very problematic…. Where have you been?

[@DarayaVahu]

@@ThatFunnyGuyXx I'm here since he did videos in college, did not said very problematic, just that he can be mean outside of his yt channel but it's overlooked coz he cute

[@lovehumanity5172]

@@DarayaVahui agree that calling someone that randomly isn’t nice but context is also important. daniel’s been subtweeting him and talking about him for over a decade. in his tiktok video he also replied to many comments boasting about how he was proud of his comments and just being ‘honest’ - the problem is that ‘being honest’ isn’t a guise for just being rude, which he’s been doing for years now. in this case, connor stood up for himself and responded to someone who was continuously trash talking him and calling him irrelevant…when he himself doesn’t have any legs to stand on.

[@fynniboi]

unbothered. moisturized. happy. in my lane. focused. flourishing.

[@theodoesthings]

thisssss !!! 🫶🫡

[@finclec]

No, seriously, gonna use this in real life

[@K.C-2049]

chomk. (and it's a picture of a fat tiger in a lake lol that meme is all i can think of when I see this.)

[@6239jimmy]

Clearly bothered otherwise he wouldn’t have flinched, yet he’s here making a full ass video

[@fynniboi]

@@6239jimmy i hope you have a good day jimmy :) do something nice for yourself!

[@alwaysprocrastinating355]

it's funny how people think that having a calm and wholesome personality equates to being boring but then i remember that some people aren't secure in themselves and constantly need drama or artifice to feel important - connor on the other hand has always been genuine and kind which makes me appreciate him so much and this response was perfect

[@jaziybabe]

What happened?

[@flaurelmusic]

@@jaziybabe Daniel Preda, (Joey Graceffa's ex) called Connor "boring" in a video on Joey's channel.

[@alwaysprocrastinating355]

@@flaurelmusic yup! and connor had a mini clap back moment

[@youdecidewhatmynameis3549]

Wholesome is not a personality trait…

[@jaziybabe]

@@flaurelmusic obviously I didn’t see the video, but Daniel has a tendency to have a dry/sarcastic/roasting sense of humor and just kind of says stuff like that a lot. I wouldn’t take it too personally lol I agree that Connor’s response was perfect. Let it roll off, Queen, you’re doing great ✨

[@labibarithika5099]

you quite literally encompass peace

[@ConnorFranta]

that's the goal 🥹

[@moonamigi]

Not even mentioning the person's name to give them attention or energy is so mature

[@BrunaChaves09]

even though he didnt mention lol can you tell me who it is and whats going on? im unaware of the drama and im confused as heck

[@therynn]

@@BrunaChaves09joey graceffa posted a video with daniel where they had to answer questions or eat a gross food. daniel had to answer a question on who he was jealous of while they were dating. daniel said in the beginning of their relationship that he was jealous of connor, but then found out that connor was “boring” and that he had nothing to worry about. and now we’re here lol

[@flaurelmusic]

@@BrunaChaves09 Daniel Preda, (Joey Graceffa's ex) called Connor "boring" in a video on Joey's KZbin channel. He also made hateful comments about Connor on TikTok when replying back to Connor fans.

[@beebeedeeie]

making a whole video for them but is too puss to name drop. it gives hes been having this hate for so long. Just someones boyfriend like think about it

[@BrunaChaves09]

thank you guys xx

[@melissanicole6345]

I think your response was perfect, simple and to the point. You served and ate, as you always have the past 12 years. Been a fan for 9 years now ❤️

[@ConnorFranta]

❤❤❤

[@rimazahmed5814]

Oh I jumped at this notification

[@Pandaliciousness]

Same

[@hungtran-gq7jf]

Sammeee!!!

[@ConnorFranta]

hope you didn't fall

[@flaurelmusic]

Lol same

[@CausticCandy]

“Kept my moral integrity” you really genuinely have, been subscribed over a decade and you’ve really remained such a chill person.

[@KTHubley]

I’ll admit, I’ve been a subscriber for many years but have not watched your content much in the last few years. Your presence is incredibly peaceful, and I am SO happy to see you so calm and content. I’m looking forward to keeping up with your content, because I feel like it’s exactly what I need moving into my 30s!! Keep doing you, Connor ❤️ Much love!!

[@ConnorFranta]

happy to have you whenever you feel drawn to being here ❤

[@Mindlesskutters]

You've always been kind and deserving of the fame that you've got you live a comfortable life in your own lane as everyone else should respect

[@ConnorFranta]

and, i love my little life 😭

[@kydkacani]

@@ConnorFranta HAIIII think i like this little life, this liitlle life

[@jodybibard7293]

well you're not as popular as before in term of views, etc. but you're clearly still vivid in people's heart & that's why the whole internet showed you that big wave of love in that moment. At the end of the day, what's matter is the imprint you leave in people's heart. Yours is the kindness, authenticity, peacefulness, positivity that soothe a lot of hearts. you're clearly a comfort person for a whole generation of people including me. Maybe people are not showing up like before everytime you upload a video but that doesn't mean they don't care about you anymore. the proof is there. We will always care about you as you permeated our hearts & we're just happy to see you thriving and being happy ;)

[@ConnorFranta]

yeah alright i'll have a little cry at 8am (this is really nice, thank you)

[@jodybibard7293]

@@ConnorFranta Also i'm a 1990 baby & i started watching your videos in 2014 so it's been ten years & i feel like i grew up at the same time as you. In terms of mental health, 2016 was a really hard time for me & your vids & book helped me a lot! today i'm in such a positive place in my life (trying my best aha!!). I feel like you accompanied me in my little life journey (still doing it) so thank u for that :') love u

[@tommys.c.8450]

connor! i just love how mature and grateful you've become over the decade; what a great character arc of you

[@ConnorFranta]

tysm 🥹

[@andrewdru6704]

I simply could not said this better! @tommys.c.8450 Connor wishing you all the best.

[@allanhan4007]

"i feel as though i have kept my moral integrity. i feel as though i am similar person to the person that i was when i started this journey. and i never let it get to my head." having followed you for 10 years (holy shit), it's incredible how true this statement is and why you always have been and still are my role model. also talking about how you're at peace with who you are now, how you arrived here, and how you handle attention is the perfect response to "you're boring"

[@kyqueenn]

I’m glad Connor was one of my fav KZbinrs growing up. The signed books I got were worth it & I love the growth I see now too. So happy for him 💗

[@ConnorFranta]

thanks for being here ❤

[@ethanlivemere1162]

You haven't "fallen off", you've grown. And so have I, over the 8 or so years I've been watching you. So somehow it seemed like your videos always evolved alongside me to be just the kind of videos I needed at that point in my life ❤

[@lululovescatsverymuch]

From most KZbinrs I've been following when I was a teen (2014ish), you have remained as one of the few I can count on my hand that I still follow and listen to this day. What I love most about you is that you stay authentic to yourself, have a clear moral compass and don't shy away from speaking up for marginalized people. Keep doing you and being awesome 😎

[@alyaputri6180]

oh honey im SAT when i saw the notification

[@franciscagurrolaaguilar425]

I'd rather follow a chill unproblematic creator than someone who still lives in the past and brings it up for drama and relvance- we're too old to be behaving that way and we don't need more drama in life. Love your work Connor, and i look forward to your videos that always soothe and settle my heart 💜

[@alehanun9]

its such a treasure to watch you grow through your videos for more than ten years now and it just surprises me how someone could ever call you boring. its always been a blast to listen to whatever you have to say and see whatever you want to share!! keep being you, you’re such a beautiful human being. love you always!!

[@lauramunoz4947]

at one of the most caothic times in my life, one of the very few things i had to remind myself that a simple and more quiet life is not something to run away from were your videos. your genuine calm and kind energy truly have made me a better person and to see that you’re still the same, all this years after i have been able to get that peace for myself is truly amazing. thank you for being who you are

[@AnnaPhoebe28]

can’t lie i feel very proud to support someone like you who encourages that inner peace and unbotheredness, it’s so so refreshing and whenever i see your content its always a gentle reminder that i need to be kinder to myself, so thank you

[@ElizabethNicoleSchwartz]

I clicked on this maybe a little too fast. But you're an icon for your reaction Connor. You don't deserve people being rude to you like that.

[@bunnycakes2305]

I had some old nostalgic feels hit me hard and decided to go look at KZbinrs I grew up watching and it's so uplifting to see that you're still living genuinely and happily.

[@isabelleb-l2699]

I'm so glad that you managed to survive the insane popularity youtube can offer. The fact that so many others either peaked and went commercial or just quit KZbin entirely shows how hard it can be and you remaining true to yourself is just so beautiful. Thank you for your videos♥️

[@paridhiagrawal4859]

This was such a mature and perfect reaction to the whole situation. A reminder of why I've always gravitated to your thoughts!

[@ConnorFranta]

this is very kind, thank you!

[@juanislibfo]

It is so refreshing to still come back to your videos and feel the same calmness and comfort in them. I remember reading your book “A Work in Progress” years ago and am so proud to see how far you’ve come. Thanks Connor for always being there and showing everyone what kindness is ❤️

[@RZTree]

I'm quite pleased to be able to say I have no idea what "drama" prompted this, but I had been thinking about you this past month, and thinking how grateful I am to have found such a good role model so early in my life. Even to this day, you continue to make me feel secure in my decision to protect my personal peace by rarely using social media. Thank you for being true to yourself all these years.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

The way someone I know and I had front row seats for this on Twitter. My day was brighter. Also, you’re ICONIC, CONNOR FRANTA ❤

[@IdeasBeforeBed]

As a small creator, it’s really nice to hear about your journey. I get so happy when I get a comment more than a like because it feels nice to hear from community. I don’t think I want to be in any level of fame you once were tbh it looked scary sometimes, but where you are now are goals. Literally just living your best life and creating art is truly the dream

[@petermerrill6507]

Honestly, watching you over the years has been a joy. From helping me gain confidence to come out to just being a calming presence thank you Connor!

[@runa_7022]

ur such a calm, peaceful person, it makes me feel so ... cozy when i watch ur content, thanks for being u king!

[@user-zi2hc3yb9l]

You quite literally radiate so much peace and kindness.. it's beautiful and so rare these days..so thank you kind sir for making my day with this beautiful massage❤❤❤❤❤

[@rebeccahamm6522]

Love you so much Connor! Also love the aesthetic of your videos! ❤️ people are just upset that you aren’t in drama or start it. Support you always love! :)

[@naimish4875]

so happy for you and the life you've built, connor. sending lots of love x

[@txylorvanek]

ive been watching your content since i was like 12 and I am almost 23 now, thank you for giving us the most cozy and warm content!!!

[@Annnna97]

I came into this expecting tea, and I’m leaving it feeling inspired. Connor is truly a class act.

[@bbmasady]

10 years after and I’m still here because you’re really worth it

[@akira_thequeen]

Girl, your energy is everything ❤ I love this message and your vibe 😭 thank you for being a humble king

[@velvettwine]

been here since 2016 and i your videos never fail to put a smile on my face. I love that they're chill as they are. They're pretty to watch and nice to listen to and just feel like such a positive reminder that life is good, i treasure them dearly

[@LightKnight14]

Been following for ages, honestly I just really like that you post your life just as it is. You live. You garden, you cook, you take photos, sometimes you talk about important topics... I don't mean this in a parasocial way, but it's like catching up with a friend periodically. Keep doing you Connor!

[@ConnorFranta]

that's a very kind observation, thank you for seeing me

[@tcfoxdude]

Joey and Connor were friends way before they became big KZbin stars. And i think it’s their friendship that Daniel was always jealous of.

[@Octobris]

Daniel is a pretty judgemental person in general.

[@abbie2684]

connor your way of looking at life has always inspired me. your photography, poems and videos were always there to help calm me in loud messy life and for that i thank u

[@meredithfroehlich8353]

So happy to see you being kind to yourself and taking the time to do what is best for you, while continuing to grow. I hope to be at that place someday, you inspire me!

[@crazymay1000]

I get happy when I see people I grew up watching living the life they love.

[@marcellobevilacqua522]

A video title I thought I’d never see on this lovely peaceful channel of love

[@haananah]

I’ve been a subscriber for proabably a decade now and I don’t watch every video you upload anymore. BUT when I do you leave me with such calmness! I’m so happy that you still post videos and it makes me so happy seeing you so calm and happy!

[@cutieme435]

i still have ur books a work in progress and note to self and they have helped me through some of the hardest times growing up and im so happy to see you living life 🤍 much love connor and heres to more peaceful days! ☺️

[@d.g.5468]

This was so mature. I loved it

[@kierstyn.g]

I’m glad you’re living your best peaceful life this video was so sweet and a great unproblematic way to put the drama to rest ❤

[@ConnorFranta]

❤❤❤

[@betti8980]

i have followed your journey for over a decade. you are such an inspiring human being and if anyone doesn't see that - that's on them honestly ♥♥

[@annathompson3034]

I love how you handled this. I have been subscribed since I was a teenager (I’m in my mid 20s now) and have always loved how serene, kind, and unproblematic you are. I crave inner peace. It’s refreshing to see an influencer who pops out of the wood work every now and then to spread peace, joy, and wisdom, instead of screeching and saying outrageous or hateful things all the time in order to get more attention. Keep doing what you’re doing.

[@alexandre_sa]

Oh my boy... How, how, how? How can you continue to be completely flawless in every step and every career choice you make? Seriously... Those who like you already know and have realized, over the years, that your path is not something "meticulously planned" or something that you have to strive for or "follow a pre-made plan" by yourself or by some marketing team... it's very clear that you're just being you, in every moment. And yet, just by being who you are, you are able to create a brilliant, unblemished career, without any shadow or period to be "erased, forgotten or ignored" by those who love and admire you. And that is precisely why we love and admire you, every day, all these years. Anyone who feels or has felt insecure around you is because they created some monster in their head, not because you did anything wrong. And anyone who directs negativity towards you will end up swimming alone in their own sea of ​​unhappiness while you move on, flying and making your sun shine and make our sky bluer. Your parents did a great job when it came to raising you. You did a great job in your reach to be a worthy human being with great character, who only serves as an example for others, whether through the difficult periods you have already gone through, through the joy you radiate and through the creativity you share. You are brilliant. Nothing less than that. And I love and admire every little part of you, all these days, since the first day I came across one of your videos online. Congratulations. Success IS your path. ❤

[@ConnorFranta]

this is genuinely one of the kindest comments i have ever received, wow. thank you for your words ❤

[@rafia7190]

hehe

[@imAoKay87]

Casual viewer here. You’ve always felt like a breath of fresh air on this app. Keep doin you!

[@lenabean2938]

I thank you so much for this, it reminds me that there is 0 need to partake in drama and as long as you stay genuine and true to your self, nothing can shake you and that really makes for the most peaceful and fulfilled life. Truely the world needs more people like you ❤

[@danielleadams8066]

I have been a fan for so long and while a few years ago I watched every video I have become a much more casual follower, checking in on videos every now and then. I always love seeing your Instagram posts and stories and seeing the cool things you are doing. It feel like seeing an old friend living their best life.

[@calamitystrikes]

I honestly love the direction you’ve taken as of lately. You’re very encouraging and inspiring to me to not only pursue what I want to do, but also to enjoy the simple moments in life. Who cares if you’ve “fallen off”? It feels more intimate this way. Thank you! Also not to be creepy but are you in a different part of your house or did you move? Something about the layout looks different lol.

[@ConnorFranta]

"intimate" is such a nice way to describe it! there's less pressure and more freedom here now :')

[@nefuko]

Your video's are so relaxing for me! I don't know if it is because of your voice or your calm personality or both! It is always a nice little break when I watch a video of yours. ❤

[@ConnorFranta]

❤!

[@seeyouuagainn]

you’re voice is so calming 🤍 I’m so proud of you and how you delivered this. Sending you love!

[@DeltonValentine]

I literally had to Google what the drama. I guess I'm happily 'boring' too Connor. I think people don't recognize a peaceful life anymore. It's sad for them. I hope Daniel gets the help he needs. He's obviously hurting and lashes out.

[@Sebvstian]

Connor, there hasn’t been a person that inspires me the way you do. I truly try to mold my life to be as peaceful and kind as yours. Thank you for that 🤍

[@ConnorFranta]

that's so kind of you to see 🥹

[@melsenwesky9315]

been a subscriber since 2016 and haven't seen much from you in the past few years, but your energy and editing style is still so chill and refreshing and i'm so glad to hear you're doing well :) thanks for sharing, much love 💚

[@SaraBaird]

Connor you’ve always been so calm & relaxed & I love that about you. Your art portrays how content you are 🩷 you’re an inspiration!

[@ricstappen]

loving this vibe 🥰

[@kribusjoe]

Only Mr Franta can get away with posting a video titled "addressing the drama" without actually addressing said drama 🤭 This was just a perfect respons. So unproblematic and wholesome ❤

[@makennasmith8986]

So well said. You are such a genuine & kind person 🫶 wishing you all the love.

[@deliwoman3720]

The gratitude and self-awareness in this video are perfect examples of the type of person you are. I’m so happy to have been a part of your community since 2014!! 💕💕

[@icedoatm1lklatte]

love you so big connor

[@Jam3s17]

Never clicked so fast!!! Love you Connor ❤❤

[@stayskyehigh]

I’m so happy to see the way you’ve grown over the years yet remained the same good person. Focusing on your wellbeing and who you want to be/what you want to do is so healthy and some of the folks I used to watch here took very different paths so this was heartwarming! I hope you have a long happy future filled with bright moments and hope ❤

[@gabbywills98]

I adore the videos you put out, generally keeping the peace and being rlly humble about things 🧡 Much love from the UK!

[@ibrahimsambou538]

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR HIS MOMENT TURN IT UP

[@erickmartinez5549]

we so quick with the chisme

[@_corbz]

THIS is what we stay subbed for!!! To keep this same goodness, this same energy of a thankful peaceful spirit. I'm so happy that you're around.

[@henrymathews3671]

Clock that tea…⏰☕️

[@TheGabbieShow]

The thing is it's not "falling off" it's MOVING ON. Posting content online will ALWAYS be a part of it, but it's not the main focus of life. A lot of people can't comprehend letting "fame" go because they've never had it.

[@mikaelabarnes4262]

you continue to just do your own thing and vibe and that's what i have always loved about you !! you allow people into your lives but you never allow them to take your peace and that's so fucking important, i am so glad you are thriving 🤍

[@-J-A-]

Have been watching you since you first started on KZbin, and will continue to support you in whatever journey(s) life takes you on 🌱

[@h-7636]

i still have my common culture posters on my wall(along with many other old merch lol)! i love the new, calm and peaceful era of this channel. so glad i grew up watching you and when i watch your videos now, it genuinely feels like im catching up with a good friend :3

[@teejayy2130]

Whatever the drama was you managed it beautifully.

[@TheDivyaSawant]

I love that you were my favorite youtuber back then and now you have evolved into an even more amazing person!!!

[@alinasophie_d]

You're videos are so, so comforting! Thank you for continuing to make them ❤

[@ConnorFranta]

thank you for watching them! :)

[@visforvicky]

@AmazingPhil said that he would water your plants what do you think about it

[@ConnorFranta]

fine but not too much

[@morgansanders6587]

team conner always

[@rfghukko]

Seeing you grow since 2014 (and growing up with you) has been amazing, and I’m genuinely proud of the person you’ve become. I love the art you create, and the values you have. You embody everything that I want to cultivate in myself as well ❤️ ly Connor

[@TaylorMackenz1e]

I follow and support the people I do online because I like them and connect with their creativity I felt that way in 2014 and I still do now with both your books still on my shelf, i have no expectation of creators other than to be themselves as that is quite literally what I am there to support. Thrive on Con 💚

[@AngelDustLulu]

Hii little sunshine Connie!

[@ConnorFranta]

hi ☀🥹

[@PokhrajRoy.]

1:05 Rosanna Pansino, iJustine, Tyler Oakley, you and a few others have been consistently awesome.

[@ConnorFranta]

can confirm, they are all the most lovely human beings

[@aflyingfinn]

being proud of who you are and continuing to grow is!!! the most important thing!!! wishing you all the best in the world connor

[@444thebetter]

i’m proud of how far you’ve come king. over the last decade you’ve been one of the ppl I’ve always had the pleasure of checking in with because of the peace and positivity you exude. keep doing well

[@jessisdoingherbest]

luv our boring king ✨

[@AngelDustLulu]

Where’s that sweater from? So cute!

[@ConnorFranta]

vintage calvin klein cashmere - via ebay :)

[@AmandaaRose]

We love you Connor!! Always protect your peace. That should be the striving goal ❤️

[@merpda]

i used to watch you all the time and it’s honestly great to see you’re doing so well! thriving kinggg

[@turtleboi11037]

never clicked SO FAST

[@adristein84]

You are one of the least problematic people to ever exist so it’s crazy that you even have to make a video like this. You also gained your followers through content whereas your current bully gained attention by dating a popular content creator and struggles to stay relevant after breaking up. Keep doing what you’re doing and live your awesome life

[@imjosetta]

ur videos have always brought me the utmost comfort and have made me feel better on some of my worst days. please never stop creating

[@Bruncleboxtop]

Connor your videos honestly have just feel like a breath of fresh air. Your videos are soothing and bring a sense of peace. Drama and crassness isn't always needed and you are the person to prove it.

[@dubon9999]

This is why it is important that we Gay men have our own spaces to talk about affairs that affect us and connect with other Gay men; in the same way that straight men and women have their own spaces, and straight men and women must respect Gay spaces and respect our differences 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ At the end, all straight people must understand that we are different and respect Gay spaces and Gay men 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@adriannajane]

The way Daniel talked about hooking up with Joey on valentine's day while putting Joey down was so gross. I would rather be seen as a boring person to someone rather than someone that's cruel or mean. Daniel comes off so toxic and insecure.

[@BsophieeeB]

And not just that, Daniel belittled Joey all the way through that video. I'm not even a fan, but I don't think anyone deserves that kind of treatment