i have both and its madness in my head, i make a schedual yet i can never keep it…
@PhoenixDreamz1 Жыл бұрын
Same
@funkyfresh2053 Жыл бұрын
Same, also just found out it's very likely that i have dyslexia lol
@MrFriend97 Жыл бұрын
@@funkyfresh2053 i wish you goodluck its hard to coop with it all when you just find it out. so i wish you well and lots of luck and love.
@ambriaashley3383 Жыл бұрын
@@MrFriend97 Good luck to you! I know it gets hard, but you are a very strong person.
@sammy_beeps_88 Жыл бұрын
WHY CAN I RELATE OH YA I HAVE BOTH *casually flops over and dies to to brain over load*
@typicallyusual6984 Жыл бұрын
As a person with ADHD and not autism, I DO NOT LOVE UNFAMILIARITY *runs back to bed screaming*
@user-km3ve7nh7m Жыл бұрын
SAMEEEEE
@typicallyusual6984 Жыл бұрын
@@user-km3ve7nh7m I just like working on my hundred hobbies by hyperfocusing in the comfort of my own home
@MS-tt7df Жыл бұрын
Same here 😂
@marshmallow4646 Жыл бұрын
I don't like unfamiliarity either but sometimes it makes me focus and function more, but that wears off after two weeks and I start breaking down if I can't get comfortable or return to my comfort after 2 weeks
@beckyholt2531 Жыл бұрын
Same, I hate going places spontaneously. Maybe it's because of my anxiety lol.
@lolcakekakelol4 ай бұрын
I have both. Which means that I paradoxically plan my day rigorously, but can never follow plans; hate surprises and uncertainty, but become depressed and restless on a repetitive and structured schedule. On top of that, I’m quite ambitious, but very unstable in my passions and productivity. It’s like I’m two different people at once, and words can’t describe how exhausting it is to accommodate and reconcile these different aspects of myself on a daily basis.
@ejw12342 ай бұрын
to be honest, even reading your explanation felt exhausting. I'm saying that with love, trying to figure out if my daughter is dealing with this at 7.
@PuffTasticАй бұрын
this... resonated with me a lot.. but I'm only being diagnosed with autism and they don't think I have adhd.. maybe that's something to contest in future
@SKumar-hm1rnАй бұрын
Hi! I can't thank you enough for being a familiar voice. I'm the exact same as you and I gaslight myself so much into believing I'm faking my AuDHD because I'm not time blind and overplan. Thank you so much for showing that some AuDHD people can be like this too!
@kimberlyerzsebetАй бұрын
this is me!! I know this feeling, Its so overwhelming.
@jacobsss5827Ай бұрын
Haha, that's totally me. Maybe I should diagnose myself
@peanbean19734 ай бұрын
I have adhd and my friend has autism. This is spot on and we make a great team. He is completely unhinged and doesn't know social bounds like normal and I just love every bit of it. He supports my drive for spontaneous ideas amd adventures and pushes me to lead us to do them because he knows no bounds anyways. He's the only guy who actually listens to me. Takes my insanity serious. And sees it as possible. Than we together make it possible. Others don't believe in him sometimes because he's slow. But I know he just needs time to process. Cause like me we require a lot of information. All the information. When diving into a new adventure. We've started a food truck together even! Nobody took us seriously until we actually did it.
@mandyvanzanen4 ай бұрын
This is the world’s cutest comment. 😍
@Jas2314-bp4hi2 ай бұрын
Omg I'm so glad what is the truck called??
@A0tistic_g0blin2 ай бұрын
Same im autistic and my bestie has adhd
@Raiish9112 ай бұрын
This was me with my bestie and we’re married now lol
@michelifig6356Ай бұрын
@@Raiish911gorgeous! Congrats
@aceywacey_ Жыл бұрын
having both is a nightmare- i cant explain how much i want a schedule but never follow it 💀💀💀
@evlyevii Жыл бұрын
FR SAME
@hana_stars Жыл бұрын
I like your pfp also I hope life is treating you well
@imanepink Жыл бұрын
I don't have ADHD but same...
@majkq2251 Жыл бұрын
Samee
@livi_raine Жыл бұрын
OMG SAME
@HannahIrene71910 ай бұрын
Ah yes, the time honored AuDHD tradition of meticulously planning a schedule just to not be able to follow it and then give myself massive amounts of anxiety by not having a structured day. 👍
@pinkqqq9 ай бұрын
Literally couldn’t even wake up on time for my schedule OR do everything on time, but at least I got everything done 😭 probably not gonna stick with schedules
@FriedTendi9 ай бұрын
@@pinkqqqsolution plan your schedule for you not wanting to wake up and stuff I set an alarm for 9:00 a.m. when I usually sleep through it or half wake up and just silence it
@anarchyandempires54528 ай бұрын
It's fine I'll do the dishes after this, I will only play this game for 10 minutes. 4 hours later, Hell yeah I'm finally a full-blown freestar ranger! Wait ...... Was I supposed to do something? Oh yeah the dishes, It's fine I'll just start the vanguard questline and do them after the intro. 34 hours later: wow this game is really cool but why the hell am I so hungry I could have sworn I just ate a few minutes ago Wait Wait I forgot the damn dishes!!
@erikburzinski82488 ай бұрын
@@anarchyandempires5452agreed do things at first though and dont let the other voices distract you
@michaellayman69218 ай бұрын
I'm just full on retarted like ADHD crack head energy and I'm a adrenaline junky so yeah
@Cinnamorxll6 ай бұрын
I have ADHD and my sister has Autism, this video is very accurate as me and my sister, despite having different a diagnosis, relate to each other a lot because of similar patterns and difficulties
@matsv2015 ай бұрын
Having both is clearly the superior option
@arthurcoppola83035 ай бұрын
Take your time make a decision God bless you both😊
@BeowulfandMelody4 ай бұрын
Both me and my younger brother have both. We connect in a way I feel like a lot of neurotypicals wouldn't understand or would cock their head at if they watched us being siblings and bonding. Like, we recently beat portal two together and it was great to bond but sometimes we'd snap and scream lol Normally the screaming didn't last long and I made a wise crack or smth 😂 We can connect even tho we don't have super similar interests, we both like info dumping, can understand different over stimulation, and can understand eachothers ADHD talk (my ADHD brain does a lot of thinking but it's so hard to translate my thoughts that're jumbled with ADHD into actual English, coherent words and sentences. Especially if I have a brain fart or forget a word that's pretty vital to explaining what I'm trying to say lol
@melanieaguilar88504 ай бұрын
I have ADHD and my God brother has autism and we understand each other because well most people don't understand us and people say I might also have autism so I might have to see that
@CatMan_993 ай бұрын
sam about me and my sis
@lilliputianlilyАй бұрын
As a person with ADHD and Asperger, when I was young, I really can’t read social skills. But then after my undergraduate studies, I started to be a mind reader and read through everyone’s gestures I was a messy and inattentive person And now a very orderly and hyper focused person
@jackeriksen67534 күн бұрын
The term Asperger is phased out and is a part of ASD now. Important to note that the younger generation often refer to Autism as anywhere on the ASD, not as "classic" autism that was often seen as very severe.
@lilliputianlily3 күн бұрын
@@jackeriksen6753 I know but frankly it doesn’t mean the two are the same even DSM-5 list them both as autism Even they list Asperger like this doesn’t mean they are correct, the clinical manifestations are completely different
@Jae-by3hf3 күн бұрын
@@jackeriksen6753people can call their condition whatever they want! Stop policing people, with your “education” it is so invalidating!
@andycaruso94197 ай бұрын
the fact you can have both feels like a crime, my brain feels criminal
@BeowulfandMelody4 ай бұрын
Frrr Like, my parents keep telling me to write down what homework I have instead of keeping it in my mind... My ADHD doesn't wanna hyper focus on that cause, ew. My autism has always remembered (sorta) what hw I have and I can't just randomly switch
@vexayen16754 ай бұрын
I'm diagnosed with neither but express both 😎 what happened here please someone explain cuz otherwise I'm just going to remain overwhelmed and confused because I feel completely isolated
@BeowulfandMelody4 ай бұрын
@@vexayen1675 get diagnosed 🤷♀️
@stayforeverandarmy7484 ай бұрын
OmG same, it's like I'm crazy sometimes
@vexayen16754 ай бұрын
@@BeowulfandMelody I just feel like it's an inconvenience to everyone else to attempt that and even so, with what? I don't even know where to start :(
@KitTheAnkafolk Жыл бұрын
I have both, life is constantly a struggle between “wow that looks fun!” & “for the love of the gods just keep something consistent”
@eldin.phoenix_mustdie Жыл бұрын
Same
@justineglickman Жыл бұрын
Same. I'm like "OOOH WOW THAT LOOKS SO FUN and there's no way I'm doing it. Nope"
@elliehensey7691 Жыл бұрын
Same, gotta try not to overdo it on either front to be ok, balance ay
@kebble8136 Жыл бұрын
and then we question ourselves wondering why we say we’re gonna do something then forget about it just to remember it a day later then going “eh nvm sounds boring now” THEN proceeding to backtrack deciding it isn’t boring. A harsh circle, I JUST WANT A DAMN MOMENT OF DEDICATION FOR MORE THAN A WEEK.
@Curlyteacher537 Жыл бұрын
Preach!
@nathanfortier74784 ай бұрын
I'm diagnosed with autism and have suspected adhd (according to online tests, these videos, my friends and one of my specialists). It is insanely hard to manage, sometimes my adhd and autism will agree and other times they disagree and shit hits the fan in my head. Like, my autism will require a certain routine to be done but, I will get stuck in an adhd scrolling paralysis made worse by the added anxiety from not doing my routine cause by my autism. Other times, I'll get a hyperfixation on something that happens to calm my autism so, in that case, my adhd is helping my autism. It gets confusing and I've had friends tell me that they wished they knew what happens in my head for only 5 minutes but, when I explain how my head works, they get lost within 2 minutes and wonder how I survive 😅
@clOwnmaggotzАй бұрын
i have both of them and it’s crazy- craving order and routine yet never being able to keep a routine, going from very understimulated to very overstimulated, sometimes wanting to try new things but then changing my mind last minute, trying to plan stuff but failing, etc.
@A.RavioliАй бұрын
I feel that, I got diagnosed with both as well, two month ago (big relive life up until now wasn't really a life). Reading things like that really helps to not feel alone. Reading symptoms of ADHD or Autism was confusing, because some of them can't really coexist. That makes it really hard to understand myself and everything is just very overwhelming. Hope you are alright and i wish you the best.
@clOwnmaggotzАй бұрын
@@A.Ravioli thank you so much
@thebadmime4800 Жыл бұрын
Try having both XD I plan super detailed and end up being time blind, love spontaneity but don't want to leave my room - and social ques are my worst nightmare as I hyper fixate on expressions and body language. No one gets when I'm joking or I'm serious. That's fun
@SkullMama89 Жыл бұрын
This. All of this. When I was working, people would have a hard time figuring out if I was joking around or not unless they knew me better. I tend to go along with some things as if I was serious about it and that would make people think that I was actually serious.
@cyberneticangel50 Жыл бұрын
I have both too sadly no one even know I had Autism until a few years ago so everyone just thought I was crazy
@aidenflame1576 Жыл бұрын
THIS. ALL OF THIS. THIS IS WHY I THINK I HAVE BOTH. IVE HEARD ITS NOT THT UNCOMMON TO HAVE BOTH but i was only diagnosed with adhd ;*; i swear i havw bothhhhh
@thebadmime4800 Жыл бұрын
It is actually very common to have "stacked" mental disorders or behavioral health issues. You CAN have Autism, ADHD/ADD, Bipolar disorder, Major Depresssion, Anxiety, and PTSD-C (using myself as a reference). **** PTSD-C is a "nurture over nature" disorder, so it's not something you are born with. But as labels are, I know these exist inside of me- and in order to move on I've accepted them as apart of me. I don't let them interfere as much as I can with what I can do work-wise. At some point I might do a reddit post about my brain. Who knows? Or I'll just forget I even commented back LOL
@thebadmime4800 Жыл бұрын
@@cyberneticangel50 can I ask if you are a female? (I am female) - females have different signs of Autism than males do, because we have a "social mask" to fit in (or try to fit in) with others it makes it SUPER hard to properly diagnose. It's actually a whole thing to research on because it is THAT different.
@misjuiceefroot10 ай бұрын
Diagnosed 2 weeks ago at 37. It’s been life changing to realize that all these things I’ve struggled with all my life are real. I’m not making excuses, lazy, moody, or imagining things.
@tiggerdcat10 ай бұрын
Same here, though I'm a bit older. All the times my parents were like, sit still, settle down, why can't you focus on one thing? No, this is definitely a discipline problem (Proceeds to spank the living hell outta me)! She's an actual genius! My daughter is just naturally gifted. (And then several years later, after putting me through 27 random talent classes and gifted programs, which I did do well at, but burnt out after) why didn't you live up to your potential? You had so much going for you! You're *SUCH*... a *DISAPPOINTMENT*! And they wonder why I joined the Air Force, married, and moved across the country from them.
@Super-Mario-Evan122710 ай бұрын
@@tiggerdcatTHE LAST SENTENCE LMAO
@tiggerdcat10 ай бұрын
@@Super-Mario-Evan1227 All at the age of 10! Lol, I joke, I joke... I was 11. I'm kidding, I was actually 22 when I joined the Air Force, so I got called mom or grandma in my flight, but it's fine. Everyone, well, almost everyone, looked to me for guidance, as if I had some secret knowledge they didn't have, when in reality we were all in the same sinking boat with a cartoon like cork in the boat hole. All it took was a good pull and that boat started gurgling its way to the slimy, trash filled bottom of the icky ravine that was basic training. 1 chick was jealous of me, for some reason, and pushed me down the stairs (2 flights of concrete stairs, 16 steps each, just polished to a pristine shine by yours truly... the irony) and got me excused from PT for the rest of training, all I had to do was suffer a life changing shoulder injury! 🙃 I honestly could have skadooed out of there after that, as the injury was one that is cause for dismissal, if the doctor wrote it down as such. He asked me "How... *into* the service are you? Because this could be your ticket home, if you wanted it to be". Thanks, but no thanks! I worked too hard to get here just to go home? Nope. So he wrote it down as some other shoulder malady and I'm still suffering today! 😁 It's actuality the AF that eventually moved me where I am, 2000 miles away from my parents, which is closer that I'd been in a while, honestly, since I'd been overseas in places unmentionable (as in, you mention, we reserve the right to undo your existence) for quite a while beforehand. That's where I owied my entire right side via big bada boom 💥. But that's a whole different conversation inandofitself. Ahhh ha! You see that? That was the info dumping they mentioned in the video. Which was that, the ADHD or the Autism, I can't remember. Ah well, have a great day, fantastic tomorrow, and a truly amazing rest of your life. In the meantime, here's some words to reflect on: "I do not envy the headache you'll have when you wake up. Until then, sleep well, and dream of large women!" - The Man in Black (I'm truly sorry, I haven't slept well in over a week. Actually, take out the word "well". I just haven't slept!)
@cartersessal455110 ай бұрын
How do you mean you're not making excuses? Can you give a couple of examples? I'm making excuses the whole time, at least I think I do. But I suspect to have both autism and ADHD
@tiggerdcat10 ай бұрын
@@LeonSKennedy7777 There's always gonna be some people looking for medications for reasons other than prescribed, however, to say we've been diagnosed at such an older age for "the drugs" is absolute horseshit! I'm not taking any meds for it, I just needed help adjusting my lifestyle and figuring out how it's going to affect my treatment of my other ailments. I have no interest in any medications, other than what I've already had to take for things I've been treated for over the last... well, let's just say for several years, and I don't even want to take those, but I kinda need to. Getting blown nearly half to hell by an IED will do that to you.
@menviolentlymakingout4 ай бұрын
Sometimes having AuDHD can feel like "Ik this shiny new thing looks sick, and there's no reason you shouldn't try it out, but wouldn't you rather enjoy this old burnt out thing you already know about? Besides, new things are unfamiliar and they suck"
@NightWoodOwl5 ай бұрын
Every day, I'm getting more and more sure I have adhd and this is really concreting that
@cottoneyejoe52414 ай бұрын
With that pattern of colors in your pfp, I’m pretty certain your father doesn’t like you.
@Aweirdperson-zx5jr18 күн бұрын
I have autism, my mom ignores that all the time 😅
@initial_mark6084 Жыл бұрын
i have both and it’s a struggle. i have little routines that i don’t like to change (like sitting in the same seat on the bus or the exact same spot in a hallway every day for lunch), but i also hate making daily plans. like, i don’t want to plan out my entire day, because i won’t stick to it.
@spiritualelement757 Жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much
@MissMatched Жыл бұрын
I do this aswell I use to get so irrationally upset if someone took my spot i didn’t realize ppl didn’t do that until i got older!
@jjcrow007 Жыл бұрын
This 👆 THIS RIGHT HERE
@Andianco10 ай бұрын
Yep, definitely yep.
@cassettegirl9928 Жыл бұрын
As someone with both, it feels like the two are constantly fighting each other inside my mind. Sometimes I like to make a schedule, sometimes I want to go somewhere spontaneously, sometimes I hyperfocus but sometimes I get distracted… it’s really a wild card.
@Plushtonium11 ай бұрын
FR its like the angel and devil on the cartoon characters shoulders
@Imjgwentworth10 ай бұрын
Same
@lauren-puppytails10 ай бұрын
I feel you. We must stay strong!!!
@Mr.Bob-Gray10 ай бұрын
frr its chaotic
@ava468910 ай бұрын
These videos make me want to self diagnose but thats cringe. So I just try to do my best. And not seek any diagnoses.
@1dk.1dc6 ай бұрын
they're best friends. (i have adhd and my only friend since first grade has autism)
@le-obama-baconator5 ай бұрын
i have both i constantly have like arguments with myself about what to do and whenever i even think about trying something new i just stop thinking💀
@Alexanator9569 Жыл бұрын
I am both and I feel so called out-
@Something.Go0fy Жыл бұрын
@bill cipher that sounds horrible fir both of you. I'm just ADHD and that sucks enough, and from what I know, that must be like a constant argument going on in your brains.
@Something.Go0fy Жыл бұрын
@bill cipher nice! I've like that you found something so positive
@rantarnation4566 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I also feel very called out lmao
@ShinyNix86 Жыл бұрын
Same here! Lol.
@FastMotions- Жыл бұрын
Same 🥹
@r0byn004 Жыл бұрын
Anxiety: “they left me out. Again.”
@goofball2228 Жыл бұрын
Depression: Same here
@Themtaters61810 ай бұрын
You ran out the door-
@verapoplazarova10 ай бұрын
Ocd: 😐
@serenityalvarez300310 ай бұрын
“..Do they not like me? Do they all hate me? What if they’re saying things about me behind my back… what if they think I’m too needy.. what if I am too needy I mean it’s greedy of me to want to join their personal thing. Maybe I’m being a bitch…”
@Iamalivefornow10 ай бұрын
ALL THREE BAYBEE
@takuminightcore18865 ай бұрын
As a person with autism and ADHD, even though I do live like this, I think of it more as a gift than it is a curse because yeah, there may be some kinks that they’re not Romo but if you work with them right they become a complete balance of how you think and people can be very intelligent because of these two disabilities
@O0_WildSide_0O6 ай бұрын
I have both, thankfully very low on the autism spectrum, but its still a struggle of wanting a routine, but not wanting to be confined. Wanting everything to be clean and organized, but not being able to do it.
@twigwig8540 Жыл бұрын
"and that is my worst nightmare" described me in two sentences 💀
@-Hoodie-Guy-10 ай бұрын
Me to
@danam.51279 ай бұрын
the AuDHD experience is REAL! One of my favorite things about grad school was that each day was different from the others, but every Monday was the same as other Mondays, Tuesday was the same as other Tuesdays, etc. It was the right balance of variety and routine. Also! Having alarms can be a life saver if I have enough and also different sounds to know what it's for if I forget to label it. For instance, my general "another five minutes has passed" getting ready alarm is different than my "YOU ARE LEAVING IN FIVE MINUTES THE NEXT ALARM MEANS YOU MUST BE OUT THE DOOR!" alarm.
@LaLadybug20118 ай бұрын
Ok. Ok. OKAY....you are me! I have alarms set on my phone starting at 6:30am until 8:15am which is the absolute latest I can leave my house and get to work on time.
@MorbidClown7 ай бұрын
You have inspire me to change my “get the heck out the door now (or in 10mins)” alarm to a different sound. Thank you greatly for that! Wishing you, & all who may read this, a lovely day/nigh/life 💚
@Heidwell7 ай бұрын
I often wonder if I have both because I have such a high need for both stability and novelty.
@ieatfreddylol10106 ай бұрын
@@LaLadybug2011same but for school
@cicicave12796 ай бұрын
I literally started using an alarm for studying purposes in order to give myself those breaks. Ex: Study for 1 hour, take a 10-15 min. break, then get back to studying. But this also depends on my mood. In terms of alarm clocks, our cat is now mine and my mom's alarm clock waking at 6 am every morning if not earlier than that at times. If I had to be somewhere early in the morning, I would legit set 3 alarm clocks lol. Our cat rarely lets us sleep in, so now I'm on an auto-pilot 6 am wakeup which tbh isn't too bad b/c I used to do that during the summer time to take my dog out in the mornings.
@Cheryl_FrazierАй бұрын
This is an excellent way to help differentiate the overlapping symptoms. Thank you! #audhd
@That-witchy-idiotАй бұрын
For the first one I relate to both. I don't understand social cues generally and often come off as rude or sarcastic without meaning to and just generally not understanding social cues at all. I also LOVE having things stay the same but they never do (I Have diagnosed ADHD)
@kittencohort176610 ай бұрын
This was super helpful. About an hour ago I went to a doctor's appointment to evaluate me for ADHD and left with a referral to a developmental doctor to get evaluated for autism. This helps me understand why my doctor put in that referral.
@Panzerfaust_19398 ай бұрын
Is everything alright?
@kittencohort17668 ай бұрын
@Panzerfaust_1939 yeah, I mean my whole world was turned upside down but I'm fine now
@shyryTsr2k8 ай бұрын
@@kittencohort1766Wish I could get help too, struggling through high school as an adult is not an ideal situation.
@kittencohort17668 ай бұрын
@@shyryTsr2k yup.
@ejw12342 ай бұрын
I would also seek a second opinion. I don't trust any single diagnosis, but that's just me. The overlapping aspect to these conditions is super perplexing. @@kittencohort1766
@Gotham_Bats7 ай бұрын
I have both. I need a routine and get stressed without one, but can’t keep to one and get stressed by the time limits, schedule and my inability to follow it.
@jdrex50394 ай бұрын
Oh the stress
@goldenbey9134 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness right 😭😭
@michelleherzog724 ай бұрын
You're speaking my language.
@abbsterlicious4 ай бұрын
Miss girl you are not alone 😢 it’s so fuckinf hard
@jordanhenshaw6 ай бұрын
I’ve only seen a few shorts from this channel. I’m impressed by how clinically accurate they actually are. There’s absolutely nothing to correct.
@markdeffebach8112Ай бұрын
I relate to all these things. The differences you describe are context dependent for me.
@PheoBlitz0510 ай бұрын
I resonate with both. I have such a hard time with social cues and I'm acutely aware of it. I don't think about it until after its happened, then I'm like "whoa.. probably should've done this instead". I HATE changes unless I'm told it's coming, then I can prepare for it.. but I stress to the highest degree in new situations and I spazz out (crying fits, fits of anger, ect). I'm fine after adjusting though.
@IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS9 ай бұрын
Same first issue. What I don’t miss I can’t interpret at the time. I think it is sensory overload. If I’m watching other people interact and none of it is directed at me, I pick up on a lot more … my head doesn’t overload as easily. Meanwhile, I like people being spontaneous with me … otherwise, I’d keep to myself most of the time.
@ofacid34399 ай бұрын
I never guess right how people really feel about me. And yes, 99% of the time I discover them actually liking me but to find it out it takes a very devastating and hurtful journey
@wakeup2realityostriches7 ай бұрын
Heh… “resonate”😊
@GlitterC8k7 ай бұрын
Are you me?
@thehomelesshebrews7 ай бұрын
Yep. Me too.
@Tacos647 ай бұрын
This woman is a blessing from above for finally explaining things like this to the world
@veronical31355 ай бұрын
Indeed, I hate long videos where they explain everything so slowly going in circles etc. These right to the point shorts are the best.
@fightsportspace73275 ай бұрын
@@veronical3135 It’s kinda funny given that this is an ADHD video lol
@LittleHobbit134 ай бұрын
Fr, hate all the videos that are like "ADHD/Autism traits!" and then don't make any effort to distinguish which brings what to the table. Seems like every similar trait just gets written off as autism these days because nobody cares about the _cause_ of the trait.
@toothfairy53524 ай бұрын
I agree, her content is gold ✨
@paulkearney456512 күн бұрын
Really great wee video and its so nice to hear this subject talked about in such a normal way to show that these neurological aspects are something we all have in one way or another!!
@kated21472 ай бұрын
I’m a special education teacher (who also has ADHD) and one of my student’s parents described autism as a mix of ADHD and OCD once and I can’t un-hear it. It makes so much sense!
@elliedaniel5900Ай бұрын
I was going to say exactly this. This is the most accurate way I can describe having both conditions.
@blazepile Жыл бұрын
Me: remembering how I used to make unnecessary schedules, lists, and plan everything out to the last second Also me: I'm neurotypical My raads-r score: your in denial
@GenderIsAnIllusion Жыл бұрын
Me: plans things out fairly thoroughly Also me: So its like friday right? (it was a tuesday) I swear I don't have either adhd or autism as far as I know, just social anxiety and mayhaps a dash of ptsd for spice
@terabird5860 Жыл бұрын
THIS 😂😭
@barbieblue3336 Жыл бұрын
You're
@Sophie-st3yc Жыл бұрын
What was ur raadsr score?
@elliaforsyth5638 Жыл бұрын
Or not. It’s called executive disfunction and it can create a sense of time blindness and/or a difficulty with switching tasks and/or an inability to gauge the weight/importance of different tasks.
@ShaynaCommenter10 ай бұрын
“We have similar neurodivergent communication patterns like… connecting over shared interest” THATS WHY I CANT MAKE FRIENDS
@bananamilkshake84006 ай бұрын
Lmfao
@lucidfangirl10306 ай бұрын
No friends share interest?
@Starnightblossom4 ай бұрын
This explains everything (ADHD) thank you for making me remember one of my disorders another one I remember is processing language disorder.
@KristofskiKabuki5 ай бұрын
As someone with ADHD I like routine in some aspects just cos it means I don't have to make so many decisions, eg I tend to eat the same meals over and over
@jem5636 Жыл бұрын
Once again coming to the conclusion that I probably have both. I struggle to understand social cues and also I need the unfamiliar for the new sensations it brings.
@satibel Жыл бұрын
it's fairly common to have both, so here they do the 2 diagnostics at the same time.
@ejw12342 ай бұрын
What type of social cues give you the most difficulty? Does someone have to explicitly invite you into a social situation for you to feel comfortable? Or more nuanced social cues like facial expressions, etc.??
@zb2363 Жыл бұрын
I wish you had this subtitled for those of us who need it
@bradleyblake7588 Жыл бұрын
Trust me, you're better off with out it. Pretty much all she does on this channel is make up fake mental disorders in order to have excuses for her irresponsible or negative behavior. So, while this particular video may be slightly different than the rest, you should really try your hardest to avoid her videos. Just some friendly advice from a concerned citizen that accepts my negative behavioral traits and actually tries to constructively change them in a healthy way, rather than just make excuses so I don't have to try and better myself and grow as a person.
@gummyheart7660 Жыл бұрын
There should be a green button on the right side of the screen, if you click it you can turn on the subtitles 🤍
@caseyjenkins3562 Жыл бұрын
Hey there! On the side of my screen (while watching on my phone) are 3 white dots. When I click those dots, there's a list of options. Captions (auto-generated) is the second option. I double checked just now, and they are accurate but do leave out punctuation. I hope this helps!
@Fufnulius5 ай бұрын
I have both and sometimes it's a nightmare but sometimes it's a blessing
@Dark1986Star5 ай бұрын
I have both, love my routine but get frustrated when i forget things or get bored but can't change my routine... can't win!
@anarchicbean5888 Жыл бұрын
For those with both, I truly feel for you. I’ve worked with many people and students with ADHD and Autism and with both and its awful how much the symptoms can butt heads when its both and lead to a lot of anxiety. Love you all so much and keep being your amazing selfs 💛
@krwawokrwista11 ай бұрын
@strictnonconformist736910 ай бұрын
Just got ADHD diagnosed last month before turning 52, autism at 31 (totally unexpected for autism at the time, though I went in, needing to understand why I had a pattern of inertia in behavior (autistic inertia) that had no emotional component, that caused me issues). It's a combination of traits that are both sides of the same coin that leave you on edge. The funniest thing is I managed to find a role of employment in tech that combines a pretty regular schedule of randomness and novelty for work. I don't think there are many roles quite like doing developer support.
@Voxs_Iphone10 ай бұрын
I really do think I have both but since "It doesnt affect my education" Im not going to be able to get actually diagnosed anytime soon :P
@madshorn582610 ай бұрын
In some way having both helps compensate for the autism rigidity and the ADHD lack of structure, but the stress threshold is definitely lower than NT's. Something broke in my head trying to keep up, and I will not be able to work again. Pity, as I was pretty competent if I wasn't being pushed too hard. Society's loss, I warned them. Sadly I didn't have the diagnosis back then to defend myself with ¯\_ (ツ) _/¯
@spelldaddy53869 ай бұрын
Yes, the difficulty is I have both. I love making schedules and planning routines, yet when the time comes to fulfill those, I can never get anything done
@heathertoomey70688 ай бұрын
Somebody exactly like that became a time management coach for a living. She said she gets all the fun of making the plans, and then never has to do them!
@jasondashney8 ай бұрын
That's the biggest win I've ever heard. @@heathertoomey7068
@tetiananiiaziieva13576 ай бұрын
@@heathertoomey7068brilliant!
@-aster-0n-paws-6 ай бұрын
Yes frfr
@Lostflightwarriorcats6 ай бұрын
I'm diagnosed with ADHD, and for my whole life me, psychologists, and my family, have thought I have ASD, and I feel this in my entire body.
@aubreyleonae41088 күн бұрын
That explains the constant arguing I have to listen to in my head. 😜
@Meadowfxairy6 ай бұрын
I have both😭😭😭 it’s so hard to do anything
@dogmommafurever Жыл бұрын
Not everyone with ADHD likes unfamiliarity. Structure and consistency is safe for some people. I think that’s more so a personality trait than a neurodivergence.
@Blok456 Жыл бұрын
Ya I have adhd and I HATE different and new things
@alphabet_pozole Жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing, I don’t know a single person with ADHD myself included who likes unfamiliar things. People with adhd that i know anyways hate being too far outside of their comfort zone
@K3r0pp1i Жыл бұрын
@@Blok456 SAMMEEEEE
@harisbashir4982 Жыл бұрын
Maybe it’s talking about how new experiences produce lots of dopamine, which people with ADHD are deficient in?
@cherry817 Жыл бұрын
I have adhd and I love structure and familiarity! I just CANNOT for the life of me keep it so it results in me being unhappy and a lot of self hate and blame...its utterly maddening.
@johnsontarris4633 Жыл бұрын
I'm not officially diagnosed ADHD but my psychiatrist suspects I am. I've always struggled from hormonal migraines and even with my medicine, it's hard for me to focus at work if I start getting blind spots and the dull ache is still there. I always feel terrible because when I have a flare up, I have to leave work early, and I start to feel like I'm slacking and get anxious that I'II lose my job.
@ardolfjohnson8995 Жыл бұрын
I can relate mate, it's so fustrating but you should never forget you are strong and can always pull through.
@teddcraycraft5297 Жыл бұрын
Psychedelics saved me from years of uncontrollable depression, adhd and aspergers(autism). Imagine carrying heavy chains for over a decade and then all of a sudden that burden is gone . Believe it or not i have never felt more relieved in a couple years.
@wilsonjennings323 Жыл бұрын
@@teddcraycraft5297 Autism is often marked by co occurring ADHD. Got my ADHD diagnosis at 29 and at 31 1 notice the autism, lots of pills with side effects,hospitals etc..still didn't get the help i need no matter how hard i try , it’s very frustrating. I live in UK ,anyway you could give insight on how to go about psychedelics meditation that work?
@teddcraycraft5297 Жыл бұрын
@@wilsonjennings323 Look them up and they will help out with that. However, it's very inspirational that you proved to yourself how strong you can be . In case you see this comment, I'm Sending lots of love and positive energy.
@jeffreybrinker5367 Жыл бұрын
@@wilsonjennings323 True!, having a place to turn for real help.. It's expensive, it takes forever to get in somewhere and then your symptoms get minimized for you be you don't come off as depressed.. the search is too gd expensive to find a decent doctor and so depressing on it's own you give up. It's too much of a fight.
@Kiraisdrawing5 ай бұрын
Me literally crying because my pjs broke and I’m almost a teen (I was so frustrated) not saying I have autism (idk but I don’t want to self diagnose) but I do things like this all of the time (especially as a younger kid) idk if I have autism tho and I don’t want to be disrespectful to the people that do, they are troopers! ❤
@SmileyRiley386 ай бұрын
I have ADHD and I hate change that probs cause of my anxiety, but ya know whatevs. 😊
@megangreen3467 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THIS. Especially the time blindness 😭
@Wtfwhatisthis Жыл бұрын
Good god- I just had a notification pop up in the middle of watching this, read an entire news article and then came back to the middle of this video and pressed pause to comment. It’s been 15 minutes. HELP. 🤣 Edit: finally watched the rest of the short
@itpaynesme Жыл бұрын
baby steps 💕
@lukejohnson4949 Жыл бұрын
Noice!
@starwolf2200 Жыл бұрын
I've done this before
@jessicakathryn Жыл бұрын
Relatable 😂
@0Nocturnal02 күн бұрын
And this is why I got alarms to remind me of what I’m going to do, because calendars hardly help.
@thelittlestarlight62215 ай бұрын
When you have both it’s like a contestant fight in the head
@EmmLee1111 Жыл бұрын
I have both. I want to plan, but then I forget. I want to do new stuff but then I get anxious because I don’t have my routine 😬😂.
@nadascakes Жыл бұрын
I also have both and I do the same thing, it’s like a constant battle we’re no matter what you chose your never satisfied
@codename_ghost16768 ай бұрын
"all right lets start off with social cues" adhd:"huh"
@mehdihakimi28075 ай бұрын
True haha
@XxWolfzyxX5 ай бұрын
lol underrated
@sirius7674 ай бұрын
"Uhmm I forgot to litsen...." -Me every time someone gives me important information including the time/date that something is gonna happen.
@marq14582 күн бұрын
The part where I plan perfectly and still can’t show up on time or get it done on time. Lord😅
@OurHourglassАй бұрын
I was waiting for AuDHD to pop up at the last second.
@matthewl9257 Жыл бұрын
My brother who was born first has autism And I was born after and I have ADHD Thx for the likes and comments
@green-spectre Жыл бұрын
It's the opposite for me, I have autism and he has ADHD 🤣 so does my dad and dead mum!🤣
@purple_blued Жыл бұрын
Same here
@lucas_is_lazy9150 Жыл бұрын
Sameeeee we are 22 month apart
@-theoffseas-4329 Жыл бұрын
Same
@zaraheart Жыл бұрын
@@green-spectre what.. your dead mum? I don’t understand how that’s funny..unless she was just an awful person. Just the way you wrote that seems so wrong lol
@Alyrulz421 Жыл бұрын
My mom never got me diagnosed, but I've always been socially crippled. For many years I toiled over "conversation" and how it worked, I couldn't get over the panic of how unpredictable talking to people irl is. I'm so glad as an adult I took the time to figure out these things about myself and why it took me until high school to even make 1 friend at school.
@Saffie15 Жыл бұрын
Samee
@hobgoblin4614 Жыл бұрын
You are lucky you figured this out in high school. I didn't figure out, until I was diagnosed, that I had autism in my mid-40s and ADHD in my late 40s. When I grew up this stuff was rarely talked about and there was not much info on it. I did not dislike high school, and don't think any one there disliked me, but I also did not have any friends. That's awesome you were able to figure this out when you did.
@Ge0ffery Жыл бұрын
DANGER DAYS PFP
@venomghoul Жыл бұрын
A fellow killjoy i see
@Ge0ffery Жыл бұрын
@@venomghoul forever will be! I was revenge frank for Halloween lmao
@kaptinkupkakes6 ай бұрын
WAIT WHY IS ADHD SO ACURATE AAAAA
@Rx-Peanut5 ай бұрын
having both is living life on hard mode
@CatnipMed Жыл бұрын
Not me spending an entire week preparing and making a schedule for this semester
@ccutehoney Жыл бұрын
Then things Start fall off track about a week or two in lol
@TheCheshireCat4469 Жыл бұрын
I have both and totally agree, I love schedules and routine but I do like to switch it up ever so often.
@georgestates77911 ай бұрын
Same my guy
@isaacanimation37195 ай бұрын
I have autism and adhd and it’s kinda like trying to make a schedule but not being able to and having depression because I struggle to find motivation and people rarely understand me and it feels like I’m not speaking their language and with other people who are Neurodivergent I struggle to make friends with them because they are so complicated and I’m so complicated so we hit into one another and it causes me stress and I hate it so much and I also hate that people hate me sometimes because I tell them that I have Autism and they say “attention seeker” even if they believe me and the reason I tell them is so that they understand my behaviours and understand yelling won’t help and will make it harder so yeah
@TK-2244 ай бұрын
When I spawned in, I bought the combo package. It's playing life on hard mode.
@kristinekronhjort421010 ай бұрын
Thank you! This makes sense. And I feel less confused now. Would be interesting to see Autism vs ADHD vs CPTSD.
@chriscohlmeyer47358 ай бұрын
It's madness 🤪🤷😢🐔😱🤔🥸 with all three competing in your head 😮
@erikburzinski82488 ай бұрын
@@chriscohlmeyer4735I got used to it but yes madness is one way of putting it
@IGotEatenByTheAutismCreature8 ай бұрын
Ooh, yeah! Having all 3 is a messy nightmare lol
@Wolfie545458 ай бұрын
Care to explain what CPTSD is? Because my dumbass mind can’t figure it out.
@IGotEatenByTheAutismCreature8 ай бұрын
@Wolfie54545 it's short for "complex post traumatic stress disorder" similar to ptsd, but is caused by repeated and lasting trauma. Hope this helped:D
@user-cl9ep7gn9k10 ай бұрын
It is important to note that there are two types of adhd (according to my adhd friend); one loves routines and one cannot stick to them.
@SlimPickens4198 ай бұрын
According to Psychiatrists, there are actually 7 different types of ADHD.
@-Ca1y3b_Iz_Ind3ciziv3-8 ай бұрын
@@SlimPickens419I've only heard of three (3) types before 👀 Is very curious
@SlimPickens4198 ай бұрын
@@-Ca1y3b_Iz_Ind3ciziv3- According to Dr. Amen, there are seven types of ADHD: 1.) Classic ADD: The three core symptoms associated with Classic ADD include inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. Classic ADD is similar to what the American Psychiatric Association describes as ADHD-combined presentation. This is the typical hyperactive/impulsive child who also struggles with staying on task. Brain mapping commonly reveals excessively slow brainwaves in the frontal regions of the brain, and frequently abnormal connectivity within and/or between the prefrontal cortex and parietal lobes. 2.) Inattentive ADD: Patients suffering from Inattentive ADD often have difficulty with executive functioning such as organization, planning, prioritizing, time management, and self-monitoring. These individuals are easily distracted and/or lack the mental stamina for completing routine tasks that are non-preferred. They typically are not a behavioral problem since they are not hyperactive nor impulsive. 3.) Over-focused ADD: In addition to the core symptoms of Classic ADD, those patients suffering from Over-focused ADD have difficulty shifting their attention from one task to the next. In this scenario, qEEG brain mapping frequently shows the brain being stuck in excessive fast brainwaves of overstimulation, whereby the brain is also functioning in a more rigid and inflexible state. 4.) Temporal Lobe ADD: Individuals suffering from Temporal Lobe ADD can be over-reactive or moody, and prone to tantrums or meltdowns in childhood. This type of Temporal Lobe ADD can be associated with memory problems and difficulties in auditory processing. 5.) Limbic ADD: In addition to the core symptoms of ADHD, sufferers of Limbic ADD may experience increased feelings of guilt, possible moodiness, and, in some cases, damaged self-esteem. Limbic ADD affects a group of structures within the brain involved in our “flight” or “fight” response system, leaving the individual feeling excessively and unrealistically threatened at times by stressors. 6.) Ring of Fire ADD: Ring of Fire ADD is characterized by over activity in a global sense, meaning that the brain is over stimulated in multiple areas. Those suffering from Ring of Fire ADD may experience an increase in anxiety, racing thoughts, difficulty falling asleep or sleeping through the night. This person might also be emotionally over reactive and quick to anger. 7.) Anxious ADD: Sufferers of Anxious ADD are often afflicted by additional symptoms of stress which may include headaches, digestive problems, difficulty falling asleep and low self-esteem. Brain mapping reveals dysregulation in brain networks involving the prefrontal cortex, limbic areas, and the insula. I hope is helps and is informative. ☺️
@-Ca1y3b_Iz_Ind3ciziv3-8 ай бұрын
@@SlimPickens419 i greatly appreciate this message /gen
@justanawkwardnerd8 ай бұрын
I don't understand how those are different things? Not being able to _keep_ a routine doesn't mean you don't _like_ them. A lot of people with ADHD are stressed _because_ they can't stick to a routine, and they'd _like_ to. It's the executive function and lack of dopamine getting in the way - not whether or not they like routines. That's certainly my case - I like a routine, I just get anxious and stressed because I can't seem to follow them well.
@babyn3mo6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂omg!! You are soo on point!
@danieljbruso5 ай бұрын
As a young man with ADHD, I still enjoy a structured schedule, but adaptability is a life skill.
@leahp3992 Жыл бұрын
Whew. Again, something I needed to hear. I can plan my day perfectly and then get to the end of the day and realize the plan did not happen. At all.
@rasberryiceify Жыл бұрын
I was recently diagnosed with ADHD and I do tend to be at appointments on time because of time blindness. I always leave stupidly early, in a panic, and get there’s 20-30 mins too soon. And I feel rushed the entire time
@jamesmayne3413Ай бұрын
Thank u so much for these videos. I had so much trouble.in the 90s growing up with adhd
@lilmoe43644 ай бұрын
Having ADD is like trying to go through life dragging a ball and chain attached to your leg.. always at least two steps forward, one step back, if not one step forward, two steps back
@uhsnail Жыл бұрын
i have just adhd and struggle getting up literally every day :,) i cant imagine how much more of a struggle it is to have autism and adhd 😭 yall are really doing it all out here and doing it amazingly
@Quizeter10 ай бұрын
Same tho 😭
@ohkaygoplay10 ай бұрын
You want to borrow my Autism for a while? I could really use a break from all the in-brain fighting.
@Fluffy-Rosie10 ай бұрын
Hi, I have both. I would like to tell you that what mood I'm on or how I'm feeling depends on how bad it is.
@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook5 ай бұрын
I am NOT a doc. But there is a SECRET. Please look into camel milk- life changing Squeeze ice cube for anxiety. No such thing as adhd- sorry they lied. U will find out the truth. Breathing exercises. Food is linked to many things. Feng Shui interesting because where you place your bed is important in your room WHY - your head and feet facing certain direction. north east South West important. EARTHING::: - lean against a tree, walk bare feet on real grass, rub your feet souls on bark of tree.
@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook5 ай бұрын
@@ohkaygoplayI am NOT a doc. But there is a SECRET. Please look into camel milk- life changing Squeeze ice cube for anxiety. No such thing as adhd- sorry they lied. U will find out the truth. Breathing exercises. Food is linked to many things. Feng Shui interesting because where you place your bed is important in your room WHY - your head and feet facing certain direction. north east South West important. EARTHING::: - lean against a tree, walk bare feet on real grass, rub your feet souls on bark of tree.
@Silvermoon3110 ай бұрын
This is why nothing ever happens and I'm always over stimulated 😭😭
@jasondashney8 ай бұрын
Do you need actual stimulation to be overstimulated? I can stare at a blank wall and be overstimulated. I'm still searching for the office switch for that big spongy thing in my skull.
@noodleee_3 ай бұрын
I have autism. For some reason, I feel anxious with new experiences, but yet I get bored if everything is the same! Never at peace.
@RurukiddАй бұрын
Thank you so much for clarifying ❤
@lin.._.0 Жыл бұрын
Me having neither of them but doing very similar things with OCD and social anxiety…
@mari97216 Жыл бұрын
Genuinly interested, do you have any examples?
@lin.._.0 Жыл бұрын
@Mari B Im very organized but at the same time distracted, when it comes to objects I place them in a specific place and straight, but when it comes to schedules Im very messy, and forget about many things as well, in the social part I get really stressed and similar autism, loud noises and physical contact triggers me
@mari97216 Жыл бұрын
@@lin.._.0 trying to figure the anxiety stuff out. Thanks, thats helpful! Some say anxiety can look like adhd too.
@lin.._.0 Жыл бұрын
@@mari97216 there’s various types of anxiety, some may do buy others maybe don’t
@mari97216 Жыл бұрын
@@lin.._.0 yeah generalized anxiety.
@lylahlaws21777 ай бұрын
I have both and insomnia so they just play All Through the Night😂❤
@MatStevens4 ай бұрын
"Let's live together in the same brain! We can balance each other out, right?" "..." "...we can balance each other out, right?"
@KazPlayZz4 ай бұрын
Oof…
@Ace_da_lesbian3 ай бұрын
I have both, it is he!! In my head, and overall in my life
@teddcraycraft5297 Жыл бұрын
Adhd autism thank you for being here 😢
@8peasant852 Жыл бұрын
I have both. I can relate to every symptom listed and it's madness.
@edbrook1188 Жыл бұрын
I had autism at 30 never knew I had ADHD until recently I was diagnosed and I am happy I did, I was recommended cbd oil and microdosing shroom as way to go and it's been pretty amazing , unlike other medications with poor results and much side effects.
@isabellabrook8932 Жыл бұрын
@@edbrook1188 Thank you for this information, any way I could get cbd oil or the mushrooms , prior to what I had tried vyvanse and strattera with poor results and lots of side effects.
@edbrook1188 Жыл бұрын
@@isabellabrook8932 It's much of a coincidence the Brooks are on helping each other out lol, Find albovegateway
@edbrook1188 Жыл бұрын
.....On Instagram, I get mine from them, I'm Sending lots of positive energy❤
@jamiegdubois7 күн бұрын
As someone just diagnosed with AuDHD (ADHD and autism) this is so painfully accurate
@janaemcallister88882 ай бұрын
Loving your feed. I think I have some of both
@Brooklyn-17 ай бұрын
I just realized I explained all of my trauma to someone on discord because you mentioned info dumping
@evandugas78885 ай бұрын
Relatable
@10yearsago964 ай бұрын
Frr I update my friends with the most random things too bc I have to tell someone
@D3nk1_8 ай бұрын
adhd and autism: *falls in love and has a kid* the kid: *literally me*
@sportsloverbaseball7 ай бұрын
Ahh I guess we must be siblings then!! :)
@D3nk1_7 ай бұрын
sibling >:)
@D3nk1_7 ай бұрын
@@sportsloverbaseball we must cause chaos as siblings.
@The.Legendary.SN00T7 ай бұрын
Me after having a SIP of coffee: JINDFDJUHCIFJJKHOFJNCFUHEFHNCFNNHFRUUFHFUHFRNHVGIRCJNFCRUKNVIUJGJHFIJFDMHCUGFMJUIGF MILK POTATOOOOOOOO
@Ms.Cookie7 ай бұрын
I have both and agree with you
@Sharles714Ай бұрын
This is another excellent video!
@falktor22 күн бұрын
I have both; i like to carefully plan tasks, then start immediately and not think about the order of which i do. at most i will do "dishes then trash because they're next to eachother" but beyond that i don't bother trying to keep up a strict routine
@Zoie_Wood10 ай бұрын
As someone with an autistic dad and an adhd mom this was very helpful
@Bea-rq1uf Жыл бұрын
I have both 😃 aha they contradict eachother constantly
@CrowJoestar Жыл бұрын
When you want to be impulsive but your need for having the exact same stuff wins out. Planning vs impulsivity, man.
@Bea-rq1uf Жыл бұрын
@@CrowJoestar Definitely:( but the mix of understimulation and overstimulation is horrendous, especially when you don't know what you need when understimulated so you're just stuck with the feeling for hours. Kind of like an itch which can't be itched lmao
@CrowJoestar Жыл бұрын
@@Bea-rq1uf Yeah it sucks. I’m almost always understimulated so I want to just go out and do something but my need to plan everything makes being impulsive impossible.
@VoxTek_official2 ай бұрын
I’ve got both one second I’m staring into space and the next I’m screaming looking for something I don’t know 😭
@thomasprislacjr.40639 күн бұрын
I kept waiting for the boys with ADHD and Autism part where they all become Sardukar engaged in a blood ritual.
@HowdySunshine Жыл бұрын
I’m 28 and was diagnosed with ADHD ten years ago, being an info dumper is so natural for me and wanting to get to know people ❤️💯
@islandsicedtea Жыл бұрын
time blindness 😻😻 I always joke I would be late to my own wedding because I am late no matter how much I want to be somewhere
@ambra8957 Жыл бұрын
I was late to my wedding...
@spaggle9911 Жыл бұрын
I already know that I'll manage to be late for my own funeral, I've lost so many jobs due to lateness, it's only about 5 mins usually but businesses do not care, they say 8am they mean 8am. I can wake 2 hours before, I'll still be late. Also I was only diagnosed a year ago, I'm 28 now.
@krystalrose5874 Жыл бұрын
The only reason I wasn't late to my wedding is because my husband drove but I'm going to be late to my own funeral. And I'm on the verge of losing my job too but I just recently learned that my lateness issue is an ADHD thing I just thought it was me
@spaggle9911 Жыл бұрын
@@krystalrose5874 hang in there, I just lost a job again due to latenesses and absences, they couldn't really be helped by hey there you go, as I said the businesses will not care, I had even told them about ADHD and the fact that it will cause some issues surrounding timekeeping etc, the main thing I have always taken away is that my actual job performance has always exceeded their expectations, I learn new things fast and we'll, given something with structure and routine does help to some degree but always found the jobs where there are different things to do all the time better (convenience store work/night stocking one particular isle every night) but it did present issues with hyper focus (4-5 hours spent reorganising shelves in a medical supplies cupboard lol)
@bradleyblake7588 Жыл бұрын
@@spaggle9911 So in other words, you're incredibly irresponsible and rather than changing yourself and getting your crap together you look for excuses to justify your irresponsible behavior. How about just leaving earlier for work? If 2 hours isn't enough time to get ready (which in itself is kind of ridiculous) then wake up earlier so you do have enough time to get ready and get to work on time. If you're always 5 minutes late, wake up 20 minutes earlier than you have been, that way you have an extra 15 minutes, just in case you're running behind, or something unexpected happens. This isn't rocket science. It sounds like you just need to grow up and get yourself together, rather than look for excuses inorder to feel better because you think you'll be able to justify your irresponsibility. The reason you continue to get fired is because nobody cares about or wants to hear your excuses. All they want is a dependable employee that can act like a responsible and mature adult, rather than an overgrown child that has nothing to offer but excuses.
@BotchuLeeSimАй бұрын
I got both and I’m always thinking about 50 things at once, forgetting a lot of things until it’s too late, constant sensory overload, and not picking up on social queues
@Alastortheradioguy4 ай бұрын
Having Both Of These It’s Good To Understand Both Aspects! Thank You! ❤