ADHD Parent Coaching: constant dysregulation towards parents

[@khurramsaeed5160]

My 7 years old goes opposite. He has adhd .One thing I always wonder about that he listens to his parents so well. But he doesn't listen to others like teachers and relatives. He behaves bad with others but he loves us even if i(mother) scold him but still he comes to me.he doesn't want to see me unhappy. But makes lots of troubles for others which is so frustrating for me. If someone stops him for something then he would definitely do that. It looks like that he has no manners. What should I do for that.he has a shadow teacher in school bcoz of poor focus and bad and silly behavior with others.i heard many people on you tube like parents or adhd coaches they always talk about adhd kids behavior towards parents. They say these kids r bad with parents but good with others. My son is totally opposite. How is that???

[@logann-mackenziefroste563]

As I a girl with ADHD I can definitely relate with what you’re saying about your son because i definitely do that as well the act like one person with family and I act like a different person with strangers and friends. In my case I have always turned to people pleasing.

[@user-vb4jj4wn2o]

All I can say is don’t feel like you got the shitty end of the stick. This is a stick that has two shitty ends. At least you’ll have a good relationship with your kid. My kid is 4 and I’m so afraid we’ll end up totally not liking each other.