Adults Take Responsibility

[@rabbycacker]

My Dad told me "remember son, any time you need a helping hand just look right down to the end of your arm and there you'll find it".

[@MsElijah16]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@IAW888]

Great one.

[@sportura888]

Wow, your dad has infinite wisdom. One of the best quote I've read in years. Thanks for sharing.

[@jakerogers6562]

I love that! I had to learn just that the hard way when i was just a teenager out on my own.

[@ChrisMac87]

Tell that to James Franco in 127 hours. Really though, this is a great piece of advice

[@Dale37]

I feel like I am having a "How to become a man" speech, even at 34 years old I am still all ears, cause even I still have my daily struggles. Have a good day, sir!

[@dannycorona8524]

I’m in the same boat.. Also 34 btw

[@utuberme1]

@@dannycorona8524 Same here.

[@chejvasquez5202]

Same here bro we can do it in the name of Jesús

[@jamescooper8107]

Same Brother, I just turned 35 a week ago.

[@espensund1996]

35 here 👍🏻

[@rosetealatte9282]

Started tearing up a quarter of the way through. I'm a separated mother of four adult sons. Lost my wonderful Popop early in my teens, my unemployed dad cant even remember my kids names. Married a man who never spent a second teaching his sons anything of value. Videos like these are the values my sons needed to hear from a man when they were growing up. I'm adopting you as my imaginary dad. Thank you for such insightful, truthful, and earnest videos. They warm the heart and enlighten the mind.

[@essentialcraftsman]

Thank you...

[@HalfQuickFarmer]

I’m adopting him also

[@rosetealatte9282]

@@HalfQuickFarmer Hey! I called dibs! Just kidding. Have at er. He's a wonderful role model. I decided upon watching this video that I'm going to have a family night with a great dinner, snacks, and games. I'm going to feature all of the videos I feel my sons could use watching. This video is the main feature.

[@smartgorilla]

Me first. I need a grandpa stroke mentor. Shame work doesn't do this for you anymore as they don't like the competition or want to give you progression as will cost them money.

[@Bongface.]

@@essentialcraftsman she obviously doesn't have a great track record with men. Not sure you got enough knowledge to help.

[@Ryan-ob6gp]

"There's no such thing as a self-made man. People cross our paths and change our stars" Is the most important counterpoint to take away in this video. Yes, we need to recognize that it is up to each of us individually to be our best selves - *but also* to always remain cognizant that we didn't get to the top only by being better than everyone else. Someone is always helping, and the luck of the draw remains a major primary contributor to individual success. So work hard, be competent, ask questions - but also build bridges, because if you're not starting out wealthy, the path from here to there is almost always a hopscotch involving other people.

[@jollyroger6258]

Wise words

[@robscanlan]

@@jeremytine hi can you please share the video. thank you!

[@Muljinn]

“Don’t step on your friends as you climb to renown, for they are the ones you may need coming down.”

[@jschritz]

I've felt the truth of this. I know I could have made more responsible choices in life for sure, but I've always put in the effort, tried to be forward thinking, and pursued my passions, but still find myself, once again, a novice at a new field of work, at 41. Deep down, it's embarrassing to ask for assistance from a 21 year old, who is 3 years my senior in experience, but it's the path I'm on, and I hope I'm all the better for it. But I do believe success is what you said, and I hope this time, I laid my bets down better than before.

[@colinmiller7546]

This has to be one of the most “bang for your buck” most value for the minute videos on KZbin. Great work, I’d love to see more videos like this 👍

[@unclemichael6890]

this man has a wealth of knowledge under that silver hair!! May you be richly blessed and thank you sir!!!

[@jgbcodemonkey]

The thing I love most about this channel is that it's half craftsmanship, half philosophy. Both are truly timeless. I can't help but think of "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance" when I listen to videos like this. Hopefully everyone who watches will take this advice to heart.

[@jeanmorin3247]

The organization needed for good carpentry leads to good organization of thought in general. The Christian Church invented the person of Joseph as a carpenter because it became plausible that his son would be a thinking man. Solidity is an outcome of propitious angularity.

[@malinwilliams7934]

@@jeanmorin3247 It's just possible that Joseph, Jesus Christ, and the "Christian Church" were more than mere inventions.

[@Scott-jf1nh]

My Dad said "This house is the only fair place you'll ever live."

[@AoiRozlin]

thats a GOOD one

[@rosetealatte9282]

Wow, I love that. I'm going to use that one.

[@Scott-jf1nh]

He was right about that.

[@AbulHussain-hh9rg]

My dad tried to give me the same message. If only I a paid more attention.

[@royreynolds108]

@@AbulHussain-hh9rg Most people are in that boat.

[@timothycox6759]

I am 15 years old, and I have always desired self-reliance. I am fortunate to have a great support system with my family and a small church, and through that have gained the opportunity to learn lots about different trades from being willing to help out on fixer-uppers. A couple of months ago I started my first job doing tile, and your channel has been a great resource for knowledge, wisdom, and encouragement. Thank you for making great content, God bless.

[@inspiracytruth]

Responsibility = An ability to respond! "Even if you are on the right track you'll get run over if you just sit there"

[@jx14aby]

Many years ago, I knew a young woman who was a legal secretary in my law firm. She said to me "Successful people do the things unsuccessful people won't." She's a judge now.

[@cherylm2C6671]

Robots respond, having no responsibility regardless of that response. Fortunately, people can learn that autonomy which bring the long days on earth. Good parents make great grand parents. It's much harder, though Hercules himself, to look upon that dependent obedience so often, so readily, sacrificed to a burning deck. God knows.

[@molitovv]

More likely to be related to responding as in being answerable for something.

[@hgbugalou]

My moment was when my Mother died when I was 17. It was at that point my childhood was over and I knew I would have to start taking care of myself. My dad was still around but he took my mother's death heard being married for 20 years and kind of stopped being a father for a few years and was gone a lot. I had to look out for my little brother who was about 9 years younger than me and start worrying about paying bills and doing all the things my mother use to do. It was a rough time for me, but I am grateful for the experience and would not change anything besides maybe having my mother around longer. My dad eventually got better and our family healed. That said he passed away last month too, but had a good run. I am 39 now.

[@ttfweb1]

I’ve had some really difficult times raising my kids, but I can say two things - we have a good relationship, and each of them takes responsibility for their lives. I’m proud of them.

[@Buddy-po4hv]

It took me 43 years to realize this. Thank you for this kind of life lessons Essential Craftsman, and Jordan Peterson.

[@inawenderholm9965]

I just woke up and this video happened to pop up. I have watched😢 your videos in the past but life took an unexpected turn and I haven't really watched much of anything for the last 3 months. Listening to your advice was exactly what I needed, so thank you ! Starting life completely over at 54 is not what I envisioned for myself, but it is possible and your encouragement and positivity reminds me of that! 😊 So thank you!

[@cosmicbalancer5084]

The more I watch you, the more I respect you. Thanks for all the goodness shared.

[@Minimalist1266]

I love how you also stress the importants of mentors. We need more mentors in this world. Too many broken homes for various reasons.

[@carpentryfirst3048]

I never had a mentor and I have a bit of resentment towards that fact. I feel with proper guidance I could have been so much more than I am today. I now how to figure out how to lead my boys in the way I was never lead. My parents wanted to give me freedom because they never had it. I got way to much freedom to the point my siblings and I wish our parents were more strict and pushed us harder is school.

[@Minimalist1266]

@@carpentryfirst3048 "I now how to figure out how to lead my boys in the way I was never lead." Not sure how to read this correctly?

[@carpentryfirst3048]

@@Minimalist1266 I try now*

[@Minimalist1266]

@@carpentryfirst3048 IMO that is all we can do. Try to be the best parent, mentor or leader. The fact that you are aware of your past etc tells me that you are doing the best job you can. We all make mistakes but if we are too harsh with ourselves that's not good.

[@jasonmartin5430]

We call them Father oer here....thats what they are there for.

[@KetterHomeImprovements]

I absolutely LOVE 💕 how this channel and EC2 have evolved into the greatest channels on earth. Every time I watched an early video on this channel I would say and sometimes even comment how Scott’s and now also Nate’s words have changed me and how I do some things in my life. I really enjoy all you two put out as evidenced by my being the first to comment on many videos. Thank you so very much, a have a great day.

[@essentialcraftsman]

Thank you Robert!

[@yoakumchris]

Lost my Dad at 20 and with it all the agreements we had between us (he was paying for my trade school). Told Mom and she said, "he never told me any of that, you're on your own." Probably the single most shaping moment in my life and it took several years to sink in. Hurt at the time but I'm grateful to my mom now.

[@Fabsurf101]

"Train up a child the way he should go, when he is old, he will not depart from it" ( Proverbs 22:6 ). You are not only a skilled craftsman but a role model that your fellow Americans should emulate. It reminds me of the days of Jimmy Stewart was alive when you can find honesty, decency and integrity. Good pep talk.

[@disciplejoshua]

Amen

[@jonwilliams9228]

when I was 11I went to work helping my neigbor with logging and being a tail sawyer for his sawmill. so many great lessons not just about work but about being a man and life in general. I owe so much to his wisdom and the patience he had to teach me as a young lad. 32 now and have a small business doing tree work and some logging. also now have children and cant wait to pass his wisdom down

[@Ericwseed]

I've had the pleasure of being a quasi mentor to a few youths in my time as a construction site superintendent. In that time I would use my position to impart a few words of wisdom to hopefully help this younger generation grow and mature. My number one piece of advice would be you need to show everyone you care. I believe this overlaps your video quite well. If you never show the world you care, how could you ever expect the reverse to be true? This has been how I guide my life and it's done me great favors with little harm.

[@jasongarza3369]

You are very honest and truthful person! I'm a self employed concrete guy and you are correct on what you talk about!!

[@paisleyprince5280]

AvE had sent me to this channel a long time ago. It's cuz The Silver Fox knows his shit.

[@terrencemcphee8550]

scott you have an unusual talent for philosiphy, even if i can't spell it i enjoy it. keep up the good work.

[@johnfisher4910]

I know you mostly talk to young men, but my 17-year-old daughter loved this message.

[@TheZambie1]

You sir, have done a fine job as a father by the sounds of it.

[@michaeldougfir9807]

This was EXCELLENT! It was a surprise too but many good things have been surprises. 2020 has been full of surprises. I learned these things a bit late in my life. I was so busy ducking a violent and alcoholic father that I was late getting there. Two men have helped with what God wanted to do with my life. Mr Rose, one of my Scoutmasters. I owe him more than I may ever know. His guiding interest in me has made me a better man. And Mr Box. He led me to a place where I found Christ. Both of these men, with their biblical influence have been God's influence in my life. One result for example was when my parents in law told me they were glad I was the one Daisy married. And after she died young, they said it again. So I thank the Lord for teaching me the things Sott was talking about - through His human instruments.

[@colebenson2063]

I loved every bit of this video. I’m a 23 year old future contractor/concrete subcontractor. My dad is my boss/mentor at the moment but I have been in the construction industry since I graduated high school. I have quickly seen myself growing away from the like of my generation for the same reasons this video was made. There sadly isn’t enough people like Mr. Wadsworth here or my father with the ability to be a knowledgeable mentor to people my age. I am blessed and lucky to have my father that has a lot of the same knowledge and thought processes that E.C. has. Often times I laugh at how much they remind me of eachother while watching these videos because of the attention to detail they both have. In short order, what I’m trying to say is this sort of person is a dying breed and the future generation needs to hear this. This is pure guidance from somebody who knows what they are talking about and it is very valuable. It doesn’t matter if you’re in the trades, medicine, tech or customer service. This is a very valuable and real message that could flip the switch for a young person like me and open their eyes to the real world. As a young person I beg you to share or show this with a young person like myself because it’s my generation that needs to hear this. It’s often difficult to put this message into your own words but this is all truth and it’s easy to send a link nowadays. P.S. our Instagram profile is @sbensonconstuction and we are a patriotic, quality driven company in Southern Utah. Have a fantastic day E.C. And keep up with the great work!

[@RobotsCanDoAnything]

Excellent commentary sir. I am 58 years young and needed to hear every word you spoke here. Thank you.

[@HippieHillHomestead]

Great advice. Everyone should have that moment, unfortunately I know people in there 50's that haven't had that moment. Thank you for all the videos you all do on life lessons.

[@neilestenson6595]

Democrats, not all but a significant percentage think tax payers are responsible for their well being.

[@Jookyforever]

@@neilestenson6595 please don't bring your take on what my views as a democrat are to this channel. I have, and will continue to bust my butt every single day of my life, yet I acknowledge all the help that mentors and society has given me in order to be able to do so, with as much fortune as I have had. I think others should get this opportunity, not be given handouts, but be given the same opportunities I have had. How is getting sick and becoming bankrupt as a result of it, a failure of a person?

[@Jookyforever]

@@user-de4jk8vj4c hi there. I don't get the straw man reference, but to your question I don't think anyone is responsible for the situation I depicted. I simply think if we have the means to help the less fortunate then we should choose to.

[@Tactical-Black]

@@neilestenson6595 I understand what your getting at, I understand the purpose of how taxes was supposed to be used, I think that certain people like always took control and advantage of the system and misused it incorrectly and use it to fund over fund programs and wrecked it, now its almost a punishment not a service you pay for that you feel satisfied of paying Most ofvthose programs don't benefit the majority and alot of them have consequences tag onto them if you don't follow the crowd

[@sliceofbread2611]

@@neilestenson6595 please don't go there.. this channel is wholesome and can do without the mess that is politics....

[@martinbrandt565]

Young guys, I urge you all to grow up as fast as possible to avoid the regrets I'm having now after wasting many years of my life. I'm 35 years old now and that light bulb went on just a year ago. Pretty late... I grew up in a family that only tought me depended on my parents for everything. Now through people like Scott I learned to take responsibility and my life is getting so much more satisfying. Not being a big child anymore but becoming an adult, building up my own thing. And guess how happy my wife is about it. Thank you Scott for the good influence on my life!

[@billypat3256]

Even though i dont know you personally, you have been a huge mentor in my life in the short time ive watched your videos.

[@candace3676]

Oh, that list brought tears to my eyes. How blessed we are to have known those folks who expected us to be responsible as early as possible. Thanks.

[@PMStacker72]

Essential Craftsman for President 2024👏 got my Vote Boss👍🏻

[@stevebengel1346]

Essential Craftsman and Mike Rowe on the same ticket!

[@trygveskogsholm5963]

He's got no chance. You either need to know how to sellout to CCP or be an asshole on twitter.

[@freshstart3555]

Ha that crosses my mind, but no matter what leader is in place they're always surrounded by snakes and they're own nefarious agendas. He's good where he is at.

[@gimble1]

As long as its not that piece of garbage Trump!

[@sixtomidnight1492]

@Thomas Greiwe There's something wrong with everyone, Trump has just as many faults as the next guy.

[@fergusonto-2032]

I’m 63 years old & I needed this , Thankyou for sharing this astronomical piece of advice , very well received by me & I have great respect for you , may God continue to richly bless you and your family and also your you tube family

[@georgephillips3911]

This came right when I needed to have this conversation with my teenage son. Thankful for the timing and your thoughtfulness to share your thoughts on this. Best to you from the hill country of Texas!

[@Dr.JoeAverage]

Thanks!

[@loul7239]

As a teacher I found myself thinking of this as a great message for my students....and moments later realized he was speaking to me.

[@matthewpeterson3329]

This man is a treasure. Not because he has espoused some long-lost wisdom... so many of us still live the life he mentioned, but because he continues to say it calmly, clearly, and publicly. This kind of positivism and strength of character is attacked by main stream media and social media. Our young people, too often, only hear and see the garbage shoveled at them by entertainers, provocateurs, and educators. I'm glad The E.C. is here to share this message.

[@James.......]

Lord, grant me the patience and wisdom to help my 12 year old son learn this valuable lesson

12 years old is not old enough to learn this yet. Give him a few more years.

@BroadSide It's never too early to start teaching responsibility and self reliance.

[@brumby92]

I'm 28 and I'm just learning this.

[@jonanderson4474]

Teach through your actions. No matter what. They're always watching. Good luck.

[@jonanderson4474]

Teach through your actions. No matter what. They're always watching. Good luck.

[@masterdaveedwards]

Great talk...it all begins at home...80% caught...20% taught. Finding good people that influence you in the right path are rare...keep looking. This guy is one of them.

[@user-hd8ej8yx9p]

Excellent message! I feel like nowadays everybody wants to talk about their rights, but never a word of their responsibilities.

[@jamesrebbechi5247]

A profoundly valuable and universal message for people of all ages - the importance of respect, self-reliance and proper boundaries. Thank you for that Scott.

[@thedixonway]

A great message that apparently I did not know that I needed today. Hit like a truck. Thank you sir.

[@richardp3624]

Very nice and humble comment sir. Best wishes along your life's journey.

[@rafaelr8574]

Same

[@spokebloke1]

Well put. Humility can take you a long, long way in life. It allows a lot of other things to happen - learning, failing, mentoring to name a few. All the best!

[@Tolohtony]

Get Jordan Peterson's book "12 rules for life". Listen to his videos.

[@jaytango3594]

Through KZbin you have become a mentor to a wider audience that you may never meet. Thank you and do keep up your own good work.

[@ATaylor369]

So many parents don't get it but our number one job is not to be our kids friend or fulfill all of their desires it is in fact to teach them how to be independent adults.

[@CoreyTyhurst]

My favorite thing my wife and I often say; can’t remember where we heard it. ‘I’m not raising children, I’m raising adults’.

[@trevorfranks69]

Kick them out at 18 and never talk to them again!

[@jayyambrovich3740]

My dear Scott, I truly feel that we are brothers from different mothers. There are so many parallels in our lives and even our philosophies seem to be the same. These words are very similar to those I have spoken to our son and daughter and now to our grandchildren. Self sufficiency is something you give yourself that nobody else can take from you. Once you learn it, it never leaves you. As you said, becoming a resource for others (as a friend, mentor, someone who listens etc.) is itself very rewarding. Keep up the good work. Thank you. Originally from California, now retired in Portugal and loving a simpler life.

[@victorquesada7530]

I was wondering when Jordan Peterson was going to come into this. I love the balance of everyone taking responsibility for themselves and the myth of the self made man. We all have a responsibility for ourselves and an obligation to pass on help to others. Thank you for this video.

[@RedBeardOps]

These talks are excellent, sir. Your channel is multidimensional. I love it.

[@anthonyraines5951]

Thank you sir! I watch not only for your knowledge of all things construction but for these pearls of wisdom. You are very smart but also incredibly wise! Thank you God Bless

[@BruceS42]

Great Scott! You nailed it!! I can't say I've exactly been a mentor to anyone, or had a mentor for that matter, but there are people who have helped me along to become who I am, and I've helped others in turn. Always voluntarily, never out of a sense of entitlement. I've had people tell me they're better at what we do because they worked with me, and that's a great feeling. I've also told others what a positive impact they had on me, and seen the joy on their faces. Unfortunately, I left it too late on a couple of those. Being self-reliant, being able to take care of myself and my family from an early age, has been a great benefit to me, made me feel better. I've encouraged younger people to do the same, though not always successfully. Those who are always reliant on others to make their lives "work" remain forever children. They cannot know the satisfaction and joy of true accomplishment. Thank you for this video, and may it reach the minds of those who need it most.

[@Nicoya]

It’s far too easy to go either way on this. We all laugh at the people who are so unprepared for life that they dial 911 when a restaurant messes up their burger order, but at the same time we can’t fall for the myth of the self-made man. (Unless you’re one of those crazy survivalists living off the land in the Alaskan wilderness with no outside contact or something). Maybe you say you hung out your shingle and built your business from nothing, but beyond just the mentors and guidance of your upbringing, you build that business by relying on customers and suppliers, on your own skills and labor and on the skills and labor of those you employ, you rely on a stable social order, the rule of law, a reasonably steady economy, access to capital, and too many other things to list. Living in a society means living with obligations, both the obligations society demands of you, and the obligations you depend on from society. Taking responsibility means not just seizing the reins of self-determination, it means bearing the weight of your obligations too.

[@victorquesada7530]

That's a beautiful summary. Excellent!

[@ndfl276]

The only well thought out comment in this whole mess

[@julienjulien847]

I just can’t express enough how impressed I am with your work here on KZbin. The precise easy to understand details delivered in a timely and entertaining manner is unparalleled. Thank you so much for sharing. Sharing is caring. You are impacting my life and the lives of many. You can be proud of that. This is the video I will be sending, and have already, when suggesting your channel to all my friends. I’m not much younger then you yet it’s so refreshing to have someone to look up to. You inspire me to be a better man. You are appreciated. Thank you keep up the good work.

[@theobrown1309]

Ah yes 👍 a Saturday pep talk by a thoughtful and successful tradesman

[@spokebloke1]

We had a huge windstorm overnight Saturday just gone. Sunday morning, there were branches all over our acre property. All I had to do was ask 2 of my kids, and in spite of the heat, they spent almost an hour bringing all of the branches to me, I cut the larger ones down and they all went on the pile. I found myself smiling as I watched them head back inside, after I thanked them for their efforts. It's these simple little things that make me proud of my kids. And the backstory here - these 2 boys are my foster sons, they are both on the ASD spectrum, and neither of them like the feeling of getting sweaty or dirty. Yet, without complaint they accepted that they had a responsibility to help, and we worked together to do the work. One proud dad.

[@ytbillybob]

Oh my!! My son who is a Eagle Scout is calling together a group of other Eagles (all YOUNG adults now) to camp at a local ag museum and perform service to that organization during their stay. My son who is a Eagle Scout will also find a way to present this video to this group of young adults at the Saturday night bonfire. I've watched you build a house and I've watched you take responsibility for mistakes (something about that stair run being problematic). Your wisdom is a blessing! God bless you and yours.

[@levibruce8322]

I’m 23 and my old man left when I was 11. I was my own dad and I did a damn fair job. I own my own renovation company. I had this realization at 13 and I’ve never had anyone explain it like you have. God Bles Tou

[@dylanbardolf5618]

Felt that! But we're the type of people that didn't take on a victim role.

[@LarryJuan_]

Thank you for this, I’m 26 and I’ve been working landscaping for 2 years on and off, but after COVID hit I started construction and it’s my first year and your videos are all I watch to learn and be able to find tricks and tips in my new journey through construction. This video really hits home, with little to no guidance, I had to really mold myself into who I am today and honestly I appreciate everything you’re doing from the podcasts to the videos I’ve learned a lot in the past year on your channel and I appreciate everything you do Thank you!

[@macck4350]

Just wanted to say “Right on Bro”to you. Stay with it, you will be fine. Persistence pays off. “No Pain,No Gain” Right? I still remind myself of that old school slogan all the time. Hope your doing well in life!

[@HousesandCars]

Being financially independent is also advantageous. Don't rely on employers.

[@Hardy_H_H]

Unless you have a unionized government job.

[@kdegraa]

So how are you meant to become financially independent? Even if you are self employed you are dependent on your customers.

[@spelunkerd]

I'm not so sure financial independence promotes maturity, if anything young men who are given everything get stuck. If you want to see a trail of misery, look at what happens to lottery winners, or rich kids. Everybody needs a job, a challenge, an occupation.

[@kdegraa]

@@spelunkerdfor sure. Financial independence means you do not have the responsibility to go out and earn your keep. This is a recipe for disaster. Its not just humans who have this problem. Most pet dogs do not earn their keep in that they do not serve and function besides being a pet. Thus they become useless.

[@HousesandCars]

@@spelunkerd Not talking about a gift here. I'm talking about working hard and having an entrepreneurial mindset. I started with nothing, retired from the military and invested in real estate. #noboss

[@volksnick]

Thank you. This speaks to me. I spent 12 years pursuing my architecture license (school and apprenticeship plus testing) expecting to feel like I made it when I crossed an arbitrary line. In some ways I did have that feeling. In other ways nothing changed with the stamp. So I became a contractor and have had immense joy in daily accomplishments and craftsmanship that was lacking in MY design experience. That career move catapulted me into adulthood and the ripple effects have swarmed the rest of my life. Suddenly the buck stops with me and my abilities to complete the project. It became much clearer during this video just how much that process affected me. Keep up the great content.

[@Newhaulin]

I remember having this lesson in Sunday school. Thank you Sir

[@martinmiller7623]

Thanks for reminding me. Merry Christmas and a happy new year. Sir.

[@peterellis5626]

Such a complex, nuanced, deep subject. Hours of conversation, impossible to cover adequately in a short, one-sided video. Takes courage to make the attempt ;) Takes being responsible for yourself ;)

[@pienapple6969]

The way you said this actually bought a tear to my eye, mate. And I’m a crusty rusty 56yo 🙂. I sent this to all 4 of my kids, just to reinforce the progress they’ve made. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, skills, family and friends with us, it’s a wonderful thing.

[@DanielHouston1406]

Love hearing wise words from essential craftsman, gives me a good boost on a Saturday morning

[@chrisrichardson2451]

Good morning from Michigan... watch you guys weekly look forward to your videos... and I could not agree more I was 14 yrs old when my dad passed and struggled throughout high school my junior and senior year I I buckled down and graduated with honors I know I made him proud at 23 i bought my own home I'm now 33 fixing this house up keep it up EC

[@dougrobins8291]

I still remember the day that my dad said "Kid if you want sympathy, look in the mirror".

[@josephroberts7597]

My dad said if you're looking for sympathy you'll find it in the dictionary between shit and syphilis...

[@jx14aby]

True dat.

[@peaceonearth8693]

And then the mirror was cracked?

[@IAW888]

@@josephroberts7597 LOL

[@pinkroses135]

😂 good stuff

[@AnthonyStabler]

This comes up on my feed periodically. I stop & watch it everytime. This wisdom bring tears to my eyes everytime.

[@alejandradenizphotography]

Saturday morning, doing laundry, drinking my coffee with muffin, EC’s pep talks are refreshing. Thank you sir 👍🏼

[@tillerjets]

I wish I could get more young people to watch this video, and take it seriously. I am a 27 year old “millennial” but I’ve always had friends much older than me. Still to this day my best friends are in their 50’s. I’ve caught a lot of crap for being friends with older guys but it has paid dividends. Not only can you learn 30 years worth of mistakes and lessons from someone else, you’re simultaneously keeping yourself out of trouble and away from your trouble causing friends. You’ll automatically want the things that your mentors have. That alone will lead you on an early path to being a responsible adult. This has been my experience. Also, I encourage everyone to consider self employment. It’s another great way to learn a lot while being responsible but also having great freedom. Keep up the good work. These videos are golden to me.

[@mikeweeber4301]

Loren, you are an old soul

[@FoothillsofFreedom]

He'd make an excellent shop teacher, reminds a little of my freshman woodshop teacher "Boss" a guy who found as much value in life lessons as he lessons in the shop.

[@drdavid62]

Totally agree!!! You're comments reflect a measure of integrity immediately apparent when I've watched some of your 'hands on' episodes. That quality comes across very clearly and is what draws me to your channel. I am a physician by profession, but pride myself in being a pretty fair handyman and woodworker around the house - which has been the source of many important life lessons. So pleased as well to hesr that you are an admirer of Jordan Peterson, which is not surprising given your views on living a 'good life'. Warm regards!

[@DirtBandit]

Words of wisdom. Good video man. I'm glad to have met you. You have impacted an aspect of my life and I'm thankful for that and your channel.

[@MikeHeath]

I just watched this with my boys for FHE. Very inspirational. Thanks Scott and Nate.

[@MSeroga]

Always great content from this channel.

[@mjgayle52]

wow! this video is an unexpected treat - mnay thanks! -- a few thoughts on my own -- an adult (1) is willing to accept blame (2) gives credit to others (3) accepts tasks willingly (4) works on their weaknesses (5) knows that however confident in their opinions, they might be wrong and listens to others.....again thanks

[@calebmattix391]

Getting married and having children are the things that gave me purpose in life. Well said and thank you Scott.

[@jackstraw5527]

I’m really glad I opened KZbin and caught this video. Appreciate your videos so much. Thanks for helping to keep me learning, focused, and humble!

[@07BENNY__RAMZAM]

This guy is a knowledge god

[@jamesdwright]

Yep sure is; and utterly inspirational. If only I had a dad like this!

[@rshangrila]

This is probably the best piece I've seen from you (and I've seen most all of them.) I've asked my 13-year-old daughter to watch it and we'll discuss it when she's done. Thank you for being a positive part of our lives.

[@getdirecti0ns]

4:42 that’s how I move all my leaves around too! Just pull out an old tarp and rake them right on top then drag to the compost pile. Works a treat!

[@psycloptic_Cycosis]

I lost my father when I was 38. He was a man of many trades with core morals aligned with the message in this video. I found your channel trying to remember what he had told me about forging to pass along to my 15 year old son, however now I have a deeper appreciation for your content.

[@BiggMo]

A parents responsibility is to teach their kids to the point of their own obsolescence

[@kkknotcool]

I wouldn't say that. Good parents start out useful and die much less useful. If you die being highly used, then you either died young or didn't teach your kid fast enough. If you die being lightly used, then you either have a very bright hard working child or you did something right, or you have a dumb kid who won't take instruction but is independent. (edit: and if you die obsolete(not used anymore) then you have a know it all independent kid or you yourself didn't learn enough to still be bestowing new information.) In short never stride to be obsolete, just less useful and almost not useful at all by the time they are 18 or 21.

[@kkknotcool]

​@@FeroceObsolescent means you will become obsolete. A good parent never becomes obsolete, a good parent dies being useful.

[@jasonmartin5430]

No again..what is it with people on here? A parents "job" is to bring up children to be at least sort of good people.

[@kkknotcool]

@@jasonmartin5430 Is it though? I mean there are plenty of good people who are totally useless. I'd call that far too simplistic too.

[@seanmahan9157]

I would hope to teach my future children far past my own obsolescence

[@jesusorduna]

The first time you realize that if YOU don’t pay something you’re not gonna have it, water, electricity, gas, car, the list goes on... something clicks and you start to appreciate more those who have provided that for you, and somehow you try now to provide for others. It’s a life hanging moment that, for me at least, was the minute that changed my life. I remember vividly the first time I laid my head on a bed I bought, and the first time I was able to offer a roof and a bed for somebody else. It may sound counterintuitive but it humbles you in a beautiful way.

[@davidsimons9132]

This is great advise, I was blessed to have had a father that taught me from a young age the meaning if responsibility. This world would be a much better place if the entitlement attitude was not so strong in the minds of some.

[@bluz4ala]

Amazing timing in MY life. I will share this with certain family members that although I've done my best to show them this, I just can't say it in words as you just did in this video. Thank you and keep up the good work.

[@rjtumble]

"You can't reach out and lift another human without strengthening yourself." What an amazing quote.

[@josephforgione1762]

My parents were my mentors. As a result of their advice and mentorship I was able to follow a relatively successful life. Yes, I had some “bumps in the road”but I was resilient enough to bounce back. My Dad taught me much about carpentry and more than I ever learned at the building trades school. More valuable was his valuable lessons of life. I lost my Dad two years ago and I miss him dearly. My Mom is 87and still doing well in the physical and mental well being state. She never went to college but she was more wisdom and common sense than I’ll ever have. Your video today is very appropriate and thank you for your guidance.

[@jlsagely6892]

All true. Important to add, being an adult, and taking responsibility, doesn’t mean doing whatever you want, at the expense of others.

[@aretcamgozlu4089]

Love your life lessons EC, I've watched you 'build that ramp' video for you mom, about a dozen times, always something good to take. stay healthy my friend.

[@luke31ish]

This guy needs to be the key note speaker at the next democratic convention.

[@Rick-ro8bf]

This video has made me want to reach out to a few people who early on were great mentors and thank them. They may not even know they had an impact in my life. I think this is probably the best complement you can give. I'm going to start working on that right now.

[@JosephMcPhail]

This is something my Dad tried to teach me when I was younger. I wish I had listened.

[@jamesdwright]

It's not too late!

[@edwardfarmer4230]

Not too late , for sure !

[@adampindell]

I share that same sentiment, but then, I never was one to learn the easy way😉

[@Hardy_H_H]

if Humans listened to everything their parents said, we'd still be swinging from trees.

[@joemorgan5354]

It sounds like you did listen.

[@fathernojoy2706]

I had some amazing examples of this growing up but no one ever sat me down and explained it to me. It was supposed to be common sense, and to verbalize it was redundant. Talking about these concepts were akin to talking about feelings and when they were talked about the phrasing was definitely not as thoughtful or kind . While I watched this I think about how much of an impact this might of had on me. As a 50 year old father of two boys I also see the reality of having this conversation and their reaction to the message, the “I know Dad” that always comes. Seeing this video today has strengthened my resolve to continue my important journey as a Father to my boys and the leader of my family. I needed this today, thank you.

[@Random-Wanderer232]

I'm a female out there that loves listening to you, sir! 🥰

[@funkingitup1805]

There is definitely nothing about taking responsibility that is mutually exclusive to men.

[@sandrajewkes]

its like listening to my dad when I was young. I love the construction skills you teach almost as much as the wisdom you impart. thank you.

[@SkillBuilder]

Wow! that was a little off topic for your channel but strangely right on the money, Great delivery as always. I am struck by how many people out there are looking for somebody to blame for everything that besets them. The fact that something is not your fault doesn't automatically make it somebody else's. Like you say 'Take Responsibility'

[@keywestjimmy]

Not too much. The message runs throughout his videos. In a way it is the heart of all his videos. These are, "how to live" videos as well as, how-to.

[@hatedforspeakingtruth1874]

You are the only person I know in the age/position who speaks to this extent, at this level, with nothing but calm assertive manner. That's is alive. My hopi step grandfather was the other. I wish I could just be around people like you. 👍

[@andrewschafer8986]

The Essentialcraftsmen team continues to produce meaningful and inspiring content. 👍🇺🇸💯

[@Juan-md5fb]

Thank you sir. Do appreciate all you do. Proud to say this how my mother raised me. Originally from Chicago moved out and become a wildland firefighter in southern Oregon. Greatest decision of my life. 21 years old in the prime of my life and Im working hard for my future family.

[@sweetriver9063]

Just listened to this twice in a row (while doing laundry) and it’s so helpful