Alastair gets unexpected news

[@robschrader7587]

Well, guys, I just wanted to say first off that I'm sorry you're having to go through all this with Alastair's mom. But just realize that the older you get, the more you're gonna have to go through stuff like this. Trust me, I know. I'm 65 now and both my parents are gone, both my sisters are gone and my husband of 26 years passed away exactly 11 years ago today. So life is rough, and yes, I've got a ton of nieces and nephews, but like Alastair said, everybody has lives of their own and are all going in different directions and it's so hard to get everybody on one page, it almost never happens. Just know that you're in my thoughts and you're in my prayers. And I hope that things get a little easier for you. Because you are still very young. Thanks for all the videos you do, and thanks for letting us be a part of your lives. Love ya both 💞

[@alicia5668]

I am sending you love and positive vibes.❤

[@Lylo-mj8ek]

Same here "🎼 All by myself🎶" at 62. I guess we're the strong ones for what that's worth. Be well my friend and keep all the good things close. ❤ Peace

[@rics1883]

My wishes with you man. How do you cope with the fact staying alone? As a gay man who's 30, it terrifies me that I might be alone and no one will be there when I get old.

[@robschrader7587]

@@rics1883 Well, I guess by the time you reach 65, you just realize that this is the way it's gonna be. Do I wish it was different? I sure do. As much as I hate to say it. I guess it just is what it is. Sending you much love ❤️

[@robschrader7587]

@@alicia5668 Sending you much love. ❤️

[@RobbieBaldphotography2]

This was the most open and honest vlog you’ve ever made Zach you and Alastair should be so proud of yourselves for being so open about your relationship and your family

[@LeonScottKennedy134]

I hope Alastair’s mom is ok ❤️

[@calumscott6417]

Yeah. Same. I hope everything is alright ❤️

[@LeonScottKennedy134]

@@calumscott6417 yeah

[@bobebbeskotte]

Welcome to life. You can plan every minute but life comes around and says Hold my beer. Whatever happens, everything will be okay. Alastair's mom sounds like a strong, smart woman and she will handle whatever challenges she faces. Hoping you get good news. Just remember that you guys, and Ian, have a thousand hands on your shoulders supporting you. Love you both. Stay safe and stay cool if you can. (sending you a virtual hug)

[@Hello-jp2jr]

Alastair, heartfelt thoughts to your mom and all the family. ❤

[@TornSparrow1974]

I was my mom's caretaker for about 5 years. She was diagnosed with early dementia, and it got harder - because I had no family/friends back up support system. Just a thought. Some places/facilities ARE bad, but there are many good places. Research is key. Also, I had gotten the recommendation for her assisted living facility from the home health people that were helping her out. I'm sorry, Alastair. What you're about to go through is going to be tough, but with Zach, family, and friends, you have people who love your momma and you. Hugs from a fan. :o)

[@fearsomebeard4290]

Love and hugs to Alastair, his family and to Zach as well.

[@georgiascoobkitchens819]

Sending thoughts and prayers Alastair and Zach.

[@tomterrific4377]

I just found you guys about a month ago and I’m hooked! I’m a Baby Boomer and I’ve been out for over 50 years. I’m happy to see guys your age having so much honesty, maturity and wisdom. Zach I think you have wisdom way beyond your years. You say the Alistair has a big heart but from what I’ve seen your heart is just as big if not bigger. I’m so glad you found each other and I’m very grateful that you’re willing to share that love with us strangers. Alistair is going to be going through a lot of stress with his mother’s condition.It’s going to be rough for both of you but remember you have thousands of people around the world who love you and care about you. We’re always here for you to talk to. Much ❤️ Love. Tom from Philly

[@Joeyjoey53]

Prayers for Alastair’s mom that everything will turn out ok. Making those tough choices for the best care for your mom is always hard but you and your family will stay strong and make the best choices for your family 🙏🙏❤️

[@dikshantbhattarai9831]

You guys are very wise... Thankyou for always making us part of your life.. I pray for God that Alastair's mom will be ok and happy very soon. And you guys too take care of yourselves. Lots of love ❤

[@edwarddragan6440]

You 2 men inspire so many people in this world. What you do is like lightning in a bottle. The magic is there! Thank you! Keep on keeping on with your videos.

[@kennethdodemaide8678]

So sorry to hear about your mother Alastair. Home care is probably best if it can be arranged. Make sure you take care of yourselves and support each other through this time. My thoughts are with you. Love to you and your family.

[@stephaniewenzlick1044]

It’s hard trying to manage your own relationship, keep close ties with families and parents. You guys are smart, caring and determined, and I have faith that things will fall into place as they need to. Hold each other close, and continue to make each other a priority daily.

[@davidstrausser5537]

Sending Prayers for Alastair's mom and family ❤

[@Bill_Russell_aka_Coolbreeze]

Wishing Alastair, his mom, and all of you the best and I pray it all works out. Its never easy to get news like that or to go through it either. No words can ever suffice but all I can do is keep you all in my prayers and hope for the best. Stay strong regardless and keep the faith.

[@theaeskey2502]

I’m so sorry. Sending you all the ❤️

[@JefferriAndrews]

What happened?

[@theaeskey2502]

@@JefferriAndrews mom’s brain tumor.

[@JefferriAndrews]

@@theaeskey2502 Oh shit my Mom had brain tumor years ago, but it wasn’t cancerous. She’s back to good health now.

[@jamesmahan6322]

You guys are still so young. Life is change. You are rarely ever ready for what life throws at you. But you get through it. Life is complicated. Life is hard sometimes. No matter how long your life is, it is never enough time. Make happy memories. In the final analysis all we are is memories. In times of extreme stress be kind to each other and those around you.

[@natalieangus9245]

Being too close to family isn’t always the best thing. A little distance makes the gatherings much more special and fun. I have a brother who lives in the same city as we do and I see him fewer times than the ones we have to make a special trip to see. Build your life according to what makes you happier and safe❤️❤️

[@justinh8417]

So sorry for the sad health news Alastair. I’ll be sending all the love & positive thoughts to you & your mom in hopes of her comfort & recovery. We don’t know each other but I live in San Antonio & am here if you need support or just someone to talk to. Lean on Zac & let him support you through the difficult times.

[@bryangagel433]

I send my Prayers and best wish to Alaistair and Zach as well. Ive been watching you guys since day one when you guys first met and Zach was still in Bama... Love and best wishes and prayers. God bless you both . Much love always. From Bryan in Lodi NJ one of your favorite fans .love you guys ❤❤❤😢

[@sambroughton2912]

Telling us about Alastair’s mum actually devastated me for you all, I loved seeing her in your vlogs. I no longer have my mum so seeing yours and Alastair’s I loved seeing you both be mothered.gave me a sense of comfort. I pray she will be ok best wishes to you all

[@natalieangus9245]

When you visit family and see how much you have missed you wish you could live closer, but remember they are living their life where they decided was best for them. You, Alastair and Zach need to make a life where YOU decide is best for you❣️ Those visits to family become more special❤️❤️

[@geraldward2618]

Alastair, and Zac. My thoughts and prayers go out to you two for the courage and strength to keep each other up and going to be able to help Alastairs family with the support where ever needed thru this trying time. I also lift you both up to be there for each other with Alastair being sent away with his work I the Army. I know all of us that stop and watch and listen and cry and pray for you. That if you need anything just know all you have to do is send a message, or video and we ALL will be there for you and your husband and both your families. Much love to you both during this time. Sincerely Gerald W

[@steverdms]

Prayers for everyone. This is so hard. These are the times life reminds us how little control we actually have over things.

[@brucegiannetti53]

I am so sorry to hear about your mom, Alastair. I will be praying for her. May God Bless her.

[@Kevin_ChandlerCulwell]

So sorry to hear about your mom Aastair. I know how difficult this must be for you and your family right now. My mom was diagnosed with a brain tumor in 2019. Sadly for my mom the tumor won. I had just moved to Washington state and my family back in Alabama. All you can do is support your mom and family how ever you can and how you can. Be patient with yourself and family as you all navigate through this tough times. Cherish every moment and say anything that needs to be said. Wishing the best for you all!

[@HolyMolyJohlie]

I feel this same struggle with having the time and money to see family especially when my partner and I don’t live in the same city with our family. Alastair especially touched upon this and his reflecting whether his sentiments about having no time between all his other commitments to see loved ones is an obstacle or whether that’s a mental block not letting you get over the fact that we COULD make the time if we plan everything out better and follow through. Such a balancing act.

[@danielreher1987]

Sending love and positive vibes y'all's way. I hope whatever decision Alistair's mother decides when it comes to her treatment options it gives her a good quality of life.

[@Sameithink]

Sending your Mom and all of you as well my prayers.

[@bonblue4993]

I am sorry to hear about Alastair's mom. I send you all love and wishes for a good outcome.

[@jonathanhodgkin6546]

Thanks lads, love and hugs to you and yours. Sending all the good vibes we can. Hugs and hearts, Jonathan and Rik in Tassie.❤❤

[@RY-fe3rt]

Wishing Alastair's mom all the best. See you next 'season'.

[@MiJoOc76]

Prayers and best wishes for y’all and your families. 🙏🏽 Keep your heads up. Be supportive of one another & try to keep those family ties strong. Bless y’all.

[@stumbledotcom]

I'm a seventh generation Texan who escaped to New York shortly after graduating from UT Austin. In Manhattan, I laid the foundation for a successful career and fell in love with the man who became my husband. After 10 years, he wanted the experience of living in a different part of the country. We agreed on San Francisco and have been here over 25 years. We both work remotely so are starting to think about our next stage. We've discussed selling our SF townhouse and moving where we can buy a house outright. I've made it clear to my parents and brother, who are in San Antonio, that I'll never live down there again because of the regressive politics and terrible climate. My parents are both 87 this year and starting to have health issues. We offered to look for a place with an ADR so they could move in, letting us care for them. However, they refuse to consider leaving Texas. It may sound harsh but I don't feel guilty. I've had professional and romantic successes that wouldn't have happened if I'd stayed stayed tied to my extended family in Texas. Put yourselves first. The rest will fall into place.

[@zanthus7]

Perfect advice. I agree 100%

[@Linked02]

Lol byeeeee Texas doesnt want you either. Go starve in the cities then. San Francisco? You mean the democrat policies that make it possible for anyone to knife you in broad daylight and be out the next day? Dont come back to any red state, you sit right there.

[@Austin8thGenTexan]

"Wherever you go, there you are..." 🌿⭐🌿

[@georgeswes4541]

Thanks for the life update and sorry to hear about Alastair’s mom. Zach I love the seasons. Keep them coming. Always and forever a fan.

[@LMays-cu2hp]

Thank you for sharing life with you two.

[@LMays-cu2hp]

Best of hopes to Alastair's Mom!!

[@rory8805]

All I can say is to wish you and your family the very best and ill be thinking of you Alastair.

[@mandypandy6380]

Nothing to add except ❤❤❤ for y'all and everything you have going on. This is probably the most vulnerable I've ever seen Alastair in these vids, especially re the current environment in TX. Wishing y'all the best in every way.

[@RobbieBaldphotography2]

Sending so much love to Alastair’s family and to you Zach as well you guys got this your strong relationship always gets you guys through anything I pray Alastair’s mom feels better soon I know how scary that must have been hearing it was a tumour

[@iantojones4322]

Mahalo for sharing this with us. I feel that sharing this helps you to receive loving energy from all of us. ❤

[@ShaunHarlow]

It was such a throw back to see the ballinger park because I used to stop there growing up, and that old video really is a special one. Hopefully, y'all can lean on each other through the ups and downs and make sense of it all. Really hoping for the best in regards to Alastair's mom. Much love and support from all of us.

[@urbanviii5103]

Zach's comment about being on the NYC subway for the first time, and the falling asleep, winding up in Brooklyn, was hilarious!

[@richardgonzales6289]

Prayers for your mom and family all the way in every sense. You guys always brighten my day with the videos and with all the hope given in return for you all. Thank you guys for being you and thanks for your service

[@someoneout-there2165]

You two are just the cutest couple. So sweet, to hear y'all still saying those sweet things to each other. I bet it does look handsome! 🥰

[@jeremyn2008]

Stay strong! Prayers to you all

[@stacyfausnaugh9217]

You, Zach, and your family are in my prayers.

[@ShaunHarlow]

Stopping everything I'm doing to watch a new Zach video has become second nature and I wouldn't have it any other way haha

[@chadeglenn]

I'm so very sorry about Alastair's mom. Mine passed away from alzheimers and dementia in 2009. It is never an easy road. But one we must sometimes travel. My thoughts prayers and love to you both always. Thanks for the video and sharing.

[@paulcgrout5108]

PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY

[@altlifeuk]

Always appreciate your openness and honesty, and your very genuine love and affection for each other. Thank you for sharing 🫂❤

[@joelbuchanan471]

Really a sweet tribute to the love you share. The stress you feel is real and the good thing is that you know that many other people are going through the same thing. I completely understand how you guys can feel so stressed about keeping the family close and also trying to live your own lives. One of the advantages of the technology today is the ability to communicate easily over large distances. I know it sounds simple minded, but take advantage of Zoom and video share apps with family far away. It is also very tough to help plan those changes in the lives of our elderly family and friends. Keeping people at home is less expense only if they are somewhat independent. If they require medical attention or have memory issues, that can be a FULL TIME JOB. Yes, care facilities are notoriously expensive, so be careful. Be informed. You might want to talk to an attorney about how assets can be saved. Sorry this is so long, just trying to help my friends who have given so much to me. Love to you Zach and Alastair. 💜💜💜

[@gracylkrsgracylkrs4498]

Hope Alastair's mom is doing great? And so good to see you both shine in each other's company ❤😊

[@AntoinneBarnes]

fellas, i'm very sorry to hear your mom's not well!!! i pray she has a speedy recovery!! love on your mom as much as you can while you have her and do everything in your power to maintain her dignity as you go through this!!!! you're in our thoughts!!! be blessed!!

[@jasenalexmiller2149]

Hopes and good vibes with healing to your mom, Alistair!

[@Patrick-xn1hn]

Sending you love and hope you find the strength to deal with this bumpy road we all travel at some time in our lives. Caring for a loved one starts with asking what the loved one wants to happen with them regarding their care. Then it becomes a family conference bringing all the pros and cons to the table. Wait for test results and discuss options. Your mom is strong and practical. Virtual hugs from all the followers

[@johnceniceros507]

So much love and strength to you both and your family. Keep on keeping on boys. Peace.

[@inkreo65]

I know what is like to be far from your family during these difficult times. It just makes family problems even harder. As I was watcing this video, I suddenly realized was how open, talkative and comfortable Alastair was talking in front of the camera, and talking about real adult life events. Thank you for sharing guys. I know you didn't have to do that. You could just make silly viesos about pretty much nothing and it would be fine. You have each other and your families, even if they are not as close as you would like.

[@DrJaseZandt]

Much love to you both!

[@freddiefitzgerald6815]

Hope whatever happens ❤ of the family is stronger. Everyone will be there for her.

[@seanmclaughlin3]

Sending y'all my best wishes for your mum. I've just lost my dad to cancer but I hope your mum's condition gets better

[@TolyTheTolerBear]

So tough to watch that video; a million prayers and best wishes to Alastair’s mom and entire family during this trying time. Hope God delivers Alastair’s brave and wonderful mom from that evil brain tumor 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@SamPhan-f9s]

Zachary, thank you for another exceptional video. I am so sorry to hear about Allistair's mom. It is always difficult when the "kids" have to step up and take care of a parent. Much love to Allistair and all of you as you face this difficult time together. ❤ Also, when you and Allistair were talking about your plans for the years ahead, I was reminded of the line from John Lennon's song Beautiful Boy: "Life is what happens while we are busy making other plans." 🙂

[@stevenreynolds7105]

Alastair, My heart is heavy for you and your family. I'm sooo sorry to hear about your Mom, just remember that she and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!!! I love you Guys!!!!!

[@mondohdz531]

I feel your heavy heart guys. My thoughts are with you moreso during this time. Take it day by day and don’t forget to rest too. ❤

[@stephaniemadjar7690]

I have shed many tears to hear that your mother is very ill even a mother's love it cannot be described how much it means to you it can be difficult and very tough in the beginning when your mother is very ill and forgets you I would crying however much❤

[@marklutker9720]

Both of you are so funny and down to earth. I miss that companionship. My b/f died after being together 7 years, so cherish what you have. Jim and I were a lot like the 2 of you in sooo many ways. I've watched many of your video's, just never commented.

[@corgiowner436]

Alastair so sorry about your mom and hope she has something treatable. I lost my dad to a brain tumor when he was 67. Native Texan and openly gay and never had any issues here. Thankful Zach is there for you.

[@skeewee-c6206]

Prayers for mom and for they family coming together

[@JharredT]

it's so crazy to think that I started following this channel before you even started dating Alastair. Thank you for being a consistent light in my life!

[@danielmontiel5876]

Sending Positive Vibes To Your Mama Alistair for a Speedy Recovery

[@rajr1032]

Sorry to know about Alastair's mother. Strength and peace to her, you and Zach.

[@chuckvaughn]

Been wondering how everything is going. Been watching old videos of yours from years ago... It's been fun!!! Love you guys!

[@Stephenrsm7600]

Alastair, SO sorry to hear about your mom's memory loss 😭. I agree there are some ailments that everyone in the family need to know!! And your mom's decision to go to a "home" as opposed to moving in with her children. My mom and I had a very close relationship. And we talked about where would she want to go live if something happened to her. She decided she wanted to live with me. It never really came to that. I will be praying for your mom that her MD can find something to slow down her memory loss. And will be praying for your family and Zach & yourself. Love you guys!!! ❤️

[@vince7735]

I like the seasons compartmentalization as someone new to your channel. The videography and editing are excellent in your episodes; always feels as though I'm watching a short film.

[@shanefreeman5656]

Sending prayers to you and your family Alistair

[@robsutherland5744]

Find an elder lawyer to advise you. You don't have to lose all your assets to fund a long term care facility. Some facilities are very nice.

[@gregcampbell4467]

🙏🏼 for Alaistar's mom. And prayers that the family can find the strength for the things man can do, and faith for the things beyond what man can do. My siblings and I are further in a similar journey (mom dementia) and the decisions around stay at home or sell the house and use the funds towards assisted living. Remember to seek support for your own mental health. You are not alone. May y'all have the best possible prognosis and outcome.

[@johnjg57]

"Zero to mountain man", is just classic! I just laughed when I heard that. Zac, you have a hidden talent, as in, a natural ability to make me laugh and feel goof. Nice one!😊

[@blueboi5000]

So so sorry guys that ya got all this stuff... Just remember to look after yaselfs too.. ya know we are all here for ya and thinking of you both in this trying time! Take care

[@Jman0712]

Hi Zach, truly wanted to say thankyou for all the thoughtfulness and creativity youve put into making your videos. Your journey will continue and am excited to see whats next for you and alastair. Wish nothing but the best for you guys. 🤙🏼

[@dougdolan8128]

Alastair. This too will come to pass. Life events like this at your age often define how we handle future events. Having listened to you now and before. It is clear your values and beliefs are strong. Stay focused and please be kind to yourself

[@Cpd0127]

Zach you two . thanks are amazing. i have watched you from the start. i just wish i can find guys like you.

[@katiehull2590]

Sending love to you and your family.

[@toblnwithlove]

Thank you so much for sharing this… ❣️❣️❣️

[@bradcolby3624]

I understand completely my husband and I have been taking care of my mom since my Dad passed in 2012. We too are in a State that is hostile to us in Florida. Just hang on tight and do the best you can. ❤

[@SingerGeneLeonard]

Love you Alastair, you too Zak❤

[@paulweston8755]

My prayers are with you as are all of us in the UK❤

[@hsvalentine5169]

All my hopes to Alastair's Mom, family, and both of you. ❤❤❤

[@Bazroshan]

Alastair, do your best not to worry about things. This sort of thing happens in many families. Discuss matters with the family, make a decision and live with it. Do the best that your circumstances permit. Accept, accept, accept.

[@sfvalguy]

Looking forward to season 11. I hope things work out with Alistair's mom. Love you two guys together. Love your voice, Zach. ❤

[@ashivaanozie3434]

Sorry for this news my dad is having some health crisis and I tell you it takes a toll on everybody. Sending her God's divine health

[@davidharry9390]

Wishing the very best for your Mom and family. 🤗

[@WdlsBadPuppy]

Sending hugs and prayers to you all and your mom❤

[@lxos]

I hope everything goes well for you and your family ❤

[@scottsaunders5087]

Sending hugs and good wishes to you guys your mum and family 🙏🏻

[@thomasnoonan651]

I’m so glad you two are still making videos xxxxxxxx

[@cristyambunan3849]

Alistair . Prayers for ur mom speedy recovery.🙏🙏🙏

[@jomccutcheon2173]

Love you both, I'm so sorry Alastair's Mom is having health problems, I don't know her age, but I am 70 and worry about my health and my husband's health. As parents we never want our kids to have to take care of us. Prayers for Alastair's Mom and family, I pray her health improves soon.

[@julianmikkelsen6672]

I'm so sorry to hear that, I send love from Denmark and hopes for the best ❤

[@Steven-wt1xo]

so sorry to hear this guys i hope everything works out and so much love going to you all x