Advice On Dating People With Social Anxiety || ft. MattFike

[@STutku]

Truly wish more people knew about these tips.

[@Silverheart19]

This guy o.o Straight to the point and makes sense

[@clairegrant1667]

Panic attacks are freaking terrifying

[@kitkar5949]

Pretty much equal for the person that cares about you...

[@jessicaasm19]

@@kitkar5949 yeah and honestly sometimes im sooo confused how to act, especially when you're not around them and having long distance relationship :( any tips recommendation for me?

[@kitkar5949]

@@jessicaasm19 tbh I'm facing the same thing, some times just being there is enough, try saying something you might want to hear TwT im sorry I couldn't be of much help

[@jessicaasm19]

@@kitkar5949 huhuhu yeah we can only hope that they will be fine :')

[@braydensaunders19]

@@kitkar5949 so true , there’s a care that I care so much and when she has panic attacks and I just cry when I see her in those moments, I hate when they happen to her

[@chasegranda7367]

Don't be all over someone if they have a panic attack. Like Matt said, hold them and let them know you're not going to leave them alone. But don't draw attention to them, don't draw a crowd. More times than not, that makes it twice as bad.

[@Scallopway]

I’m extroverted and my boyfriend is socially anxious. What boggles my mind is that he still pursued me when I rejected him twice. I love him and want to get to know about his anxiety.

[@KennethDiazperlloni]

Rejection is very scary for a person with social anxiety, he has guts.

[@theghostkillz8921]

@@KennethDiazperlloni Yeah If I got rejected twice I'd feel like puking and just laying in bed for a whole day at least.

[@bellabella-ng2qc]

Skskksdkksks ok I'm dating an borderline introvert and we're both incredibly awkward. I just like him too much to give it up

[@RockonTF]

This is pretty relatable.

[@FruitSnackMatt]

I try :)

[@bingusdingus7417]

my gtt teacher is a jerk, so of course he put me and another girl with anger issues together. I had a panic attack and my brother had to get me out of the fetal position in the supply closet, meanwhile my teacher ate yogurt and made me throw away my earbuds, which I use for audio therapy.

[@jonathanindigo8908]

That's awesome. :) That gives hope to me. I've never had a girlfriend before........no girl wants to date a guy with social anxiety, I guess.

[@FruitSnackMatt]

Amen, brother, amen.

[@BooDotBoo]

Jonathan Indigo Believe me, it's pretty much the same the other way.

[@Jonas-xl4wg]

I have social anxiety and im never gonna get a girlfriend.. I just wanna die tbh..

[@TheAmericanalady]

I'm in love with my bff and he has social anxiety disorder. We know each other less than a year, but we have such a strong connection, same hobbies, we like same famous people and we laugh all the time while we're together. I'm older 7 years but I feel like I've been waiting for him my whole life. So, I will be probably waiting till he's ready for more than just a friendship. Once, I asked him if he ever wanted to kiss me, and he said yes, but he wasn't ready yet. At first, I didn't understand his problem, but after some internet research I realized that maybe he's into me but he needs more time. I'm very attractive, too, so I couldn't figure out the problem even though he told me that he has SAD. Now, I'm used to it, so I can wait for him. I wanted to say to you guys not to give up relationships, maybe you will find a girl like me. I'm extrovert, so we are really a perfect match. 😀😍

[@Sam__N_K]

My boyfriend has social anxiety but it so so so damn hard on my end because I'm an extroverted person that would love my boyfriend to go out with me more. But I love him and want to better understand him. Hence why i found this video. I've really been at the edge though for some time. My advice is please compromise when you get a girl. I have ocd and depression myself and have fought to control it to an extent so that it doesn't affect my relationship. But he hasn't done so. So for everyone saying they will never get a girlfriend, I'm 100% sure you will one day and please take my advice

[@FruitSnackMatt]

I’d love to make more videos on this channel.

[@johannanl]

My partner of two years is amazing, he went from doing things for me, to helping me do them by myself and being there for me !! (I have very bad social anxiety so even shopping can be hard for people like me)

[@Podemosllegaralossubs-ty7bq]

I really would achieve this this but my ugly looks don't let me

[@wahcoleANDemery]

...I'm an extrovert with social anxiety...learn the meaning of the words introvert and extrovert...other than that, great video!!!

[@DoGmAnGuY1758]

Unfortunately, most people aren't interested in "tips to date someone with social anxiety", they'd probably rather just find someone else who is very similar but just doesn't have it so it's easier. People largely don't seem to wanna fix what's broken, but to just start from scratch all over again with little actual consideration for the person in question.

[@ktv9247]

Exactly well said

[@Ali08]

Very true. Most people don't know and if even if they do, don't care to know more about SA. To be honest, people have their own issues and do not want to deal with lots of "work."

[@adaliawright6891]

I put my curser or your eye, and you started blinking. I was pretty surprised. :D

[@Maykay1312]

Well i dont usualy show any emotion and i might have aspergers and social anxity so yea

[@joyhollywood1]

This was extremely helpful and eye opening. Thank you

[@EggPlantsBelieve]

I like the AC poster!

[@liltofree9301]

I did not see that

[@angelguttierrez6500]

I also know a girl that has social anxiety & I really want to help her out & I don’t know what to do to help her or make her feel better & give her the support she needs

[@rubired00910]

What am I supposed to do if I currently like this super introvert girl with anxiety and insecurity while I'm battling with social anxiety myself? Haha :'( I like her so much but I don't even know if she likes me back the way I do ; - ; ) And I'm afraid that saying my feelings outloud could scare her and I would never be able to see her again Oh man, I got sad again (´°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥ω°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥｀)

[@mirceazaharia2094]

What I wouldn't give to have that problem, being with someone I like even though they have social anxiety while I myself am in the same situation, instead of being alone with social anxiety.

[@dilfhunter5645]

speaking from experience, just tell her how you feel. being rejected when putting yourself out there is so much better than the feeling of “i wish i did this, i wish i did that.” im currently having that feeling of regret with this girl i used to talk to. so many things i wish i did, but i didn’t because of my fear of doing something which i thought would make me lose her. ended up losing her bc i didn’t do the things i wish i did. it turns out that she wanted me to do the things i wish i did but didn’t do. so the lesson learned is to never hesitate and always do whatever it is you want to do. don’t let fear of rejection, judgment, or even fear of losing her stop you from doing what you want. being able to say that you did all that you can is such a satisfying and freeing feeling. not being able to say that is crippling and heartbreaking. just put yourself out there and be your authentic self

[@willlawson6031]

Thank you! I have a harsh case of Social Anxiety and I want to make it easier for my partner haha

[@theghostkillz8921]

So you feel anxious while shopping and stuff like that? Damn and I thought that I have social anxiety cause I asked my girl-friend out and the anxiety is absolutely killing me rn (we met online and I think we'd be ideal partners). But the anxiety is even worse cause she might be taking into consideration the fact we like 400 km apart and speak a different language but idk **pain noises**

[@mirceazaharia2094]

@@theghostkillz8921 Therapy, gentlemen. If your partners are worth it to you, then you will be brave and choose to solve or at least lessen this problem with the help of psychotherapy. Be thankful, at least you HAVE partners.

[@zainabamadahy9918]

This was super helpful. Thank you.

[@jessicaasm19]

sometimes im sooo confused how to act when the one i loved all of sudden had panic attack and feel anxious, especially when you're not around them and having long distance relationship :( any tips recommendation for me? 😟

[@foxlebensorger5334]

Everything this guy said was straight facts. And yeah I agree panic attacks suck, I thought I was gonna die the first time I had one.

[@diplord9663]

Love the animal crossing poster

[@stargold3986]

Damn. I really needed this advice

[@theghostkillz8921]

This hits too close to home. I asked a girl out and she's an extrovert, I'm the introvert. She just went online and read through what I wrote to her and went offline. x) Yeah I think she's thinking about being with me but also my social anxiety is *absolutely killing me right now.* Even as an introvert, I'd rather talk with her right now while also knowing that she might need to think it through propperly. I'd even dare to say it's like going through a demoversion of rejection, you just slowly feel the pain untill it stops or gets worse and then stops but untill then it won't stop! xD

[@theghostkillz8921]

I'm glad that I have a very strong personality cause I think without it and without having friends I'd just crumble apart xD (I'm a calculated-commander (DiSC) & INTP-A (16personalities))

[@khashmontaner]

More of these pls.

[@lionqueen6399]

Well... the penultimate tip kinda hit as my ex-boyfriend would always tell me to suck it up and don't be such a wimp. ... There definetely was a reason we broke up...

[@hammad4701]

I am out of it after years.

[@kittenfluff1039]

thank u

[@lirin123]

I have more buddies in animal crossing

[@liltofree9301]

I have no buddy's in AC

[@dacanation12]

I have social anxiety and I'm afraid to approach girls

[@Podemosllegaralossubs-ty7bq]

I really would achieve this this but my ugly looks don't let me

[@Podemosllegaralossubs-ty7bq]

are you Asian

[@dacanation12]

Yes

[@Someone-ti8pi]

same ,I can't even talk to them.The longest time I talked with a girl was around 1 min

[@kenesufernandez1281]

❤️

[@usadaytrader]

The one by u?

[@billycru7749]

canelo alvarez

[@FruitSnackMatt]

He's a handsome dude, thanks for the comparison.

[@Fralunke]

could u upload the same with a borderline and bulimic partner?

[@FruitSnackMatt]

I don't think I'm qualified to make such a video seeing as how I have no experience with either. I'm sure someone else who makes videos for the channel will touch upon it if you ask. I'll see what I can do as well.

[@Fralunke]

this would be so kind thank you :-)

[@lavans06]

Post-pandemic...where's the 'advice FOR socially anxious'?

[@joeyjointjebaiter1275]

I dont want to, but alright

[@Proxlynmeow]

Add last gen richtofen then this is legit

[@Ohhav]

You sound you don't have social anxiety at all.

[@liltofree9301]

Lol

[@jamien.5528]

You look like my math teacher lol

[@poutanasgios4319]

𝖸𝗈𝗎 𝗅𝗈𝗈𝗄 𝗋𝗎𝗌𝗌𝗂𝖺𝗇

[@dejafaison3963]

first comment!!@

[@operationsusfoods1354]

"We need to date extroverts or nothing ganna happen in the relationship" THIS is why I can't STAND these kind of people. They wanna Milk All the Joy and Social from a extrovert, while the extrovert is always busy GIVING instead of receiving. I'm pissed. Especially as a girl, the boy having to be this way is a total follower behind me and no way on earth will I call that a leader or a man