Why You Feel Numb To Love

[@Psych2go]

What time is it right now and what's on your mind? Comment below. We will reply to everyone, because we want to hear your thoughts.

[@Millithemalona]

HALO

[@LeosIntrovertedSister]

It’s 12:47 and Im wondering how you are

[@harrisoncook1002]

Bro i cant sleep my mind wont let me its a problem

[@keip4568]

Tired of how love is nowadays and many don't want a relationship due to drama so they want fwb or open relationships... It seems not just 'you' but the world doesn't want love or some even can be gold diggers so they create stigma for or to gain someone they desire.

[@Psych2go]

@@LeosIntrovertedSister Doing pretty well. Managing emotions the best we can like most human beings on earth. Is that in PM or AM? It's 1:51 AM here. How about yourself?

[@que_benya]

Thanks a lot I've been dealing with a lot, suicidal depression, anxiety, emotional wounds and many more

[@MegChilape]

Hope you get better and find something that comforts ❤

[@Psych2go]

I got you! I’m really sorry you’re going through all of this-it’s seriously tough dealing with that mix of things. But hey, even on the darkest days, there are people who actually want to help you, and it’s okay to lean on them. You don’t have to face this all on your own, so take it one small step at a time, and don’t be afraid to reach out when you need someone in your corner. Sending a big virtual high-five (or hug if that’s more your style) to remind you you’re not alone in this! 💪🌈

[@davidordaz5251]

I struggle with that on the daily

[@THENEONARCADE21]

Same here.

[@AC-ni4gt]

🫂

[@2_steps_ahead111]

Never clicked on a video so fast

[@austinxd572]

same

[@legoguy_anim]

fr

[@Nic_not_nik]

Same here

[@egal1780]

I mean this is one of the number ones for me, as other titles (from this channel) made me wonder that too.

[@amberd.883]

literally. I was watching something else and I instantly stopped caring about it when I saw this title

[@drink_listerine]

Crazy timing as always😭

[@Neo2527W]

Fr

[@tatithetrippihippi]

The timing of this video is crazy. I’m 22 and I come from a lot of childhood trauma and as a result; it’s affected most of my relationships. it’s allowed me to feel like I’m incapable of love because I’ve chosen wrong people to be with or simply just wasn’t compatible with them. Most of these experiences have allowed me to look inward and love on myself a little bit extra because not only do I deserve it but I wanna show up as my best self for my future partner.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for sharing so openly! It sounds like you’ve been on a powerful journey of self-discovery, and recognizing how your past has shaped you is huge. Learning to love yourself first is such a game-changer, and it’s inspiring to see how you’re putting in the work to show up as your best self. Do you feel like there are specific practices or habits that have helped you along the way? It’s awesome to hear about your progress, and I bet others could benefit from your insights, too! 🌱💫

[@tatithetrippihippi]

@@Psych2go For me personally I’ve been getting in tune with my creative side. Writing, singing, dancing, cooking and many more things. the most important part is to always prioritize and check in with yourself; as focusing on what or who isn’t prioritizing you makes you lose your focus. Self care is so important. Meditation also helps a lot too! I think overall just spending extra alone time helps so you can gain clarity and introspection on self and what you want/ need and don’t want/ need.

[@moreliatapoc971]

1:06 Practicing love doesn't work 1:42 It's not a good time 2:28 Difficulty relating rather than loving 3:15 Getting in your own way 3:59 Dysfunctions in primary relationships

[@ashleythecommenter7112]

I'm glad I saw this pop up in my notifications and watched it because it feels validating to know others go through this too. I know for sure I haven't felt true love for anyone in that way so I stay clear of relationships. I feel like it just is a matter of timing, if you're going through this as well, you are not alone and you don't have to rush!

[@ObliviousReality]

I didn't knew I needed this vid. It kind'a hurts but I love it at the same time,💔💖 These lines just hits hard: "You're maybe trying to force yourself to love someone that you don't". "You might be on a difficult stage in your life; not just outside, but inside as well". "Sometimes, you fall in love with the wrong people, and sometimes, you don't love the right people". "It's normal to be unsure at any stage." "Your problem might not be that your numb to love, but rather that you can't relate to anyone around you. When it comes to love it takes more than just a few shared interest." "If you feel you want to love someone, that means you're capable of loving." "Maybe you aren't numb to love, but a little bit numb to a lot of positive things." "Depressive conditions can make you think you're incapable of being loved." "Love comes naturally so don't try to force it." Also, HOWL appearing there as your example made me laugh haha😄

[@lindaalvarez8855]

After being with my husband for close to 40 years & being married to him & only him for close to 36 years before he unfortunately passed away on April 22nd, '24. He was my EVERYTHING to me. I NO longer have anyone in my life. Now, I'm feeling numb to finding a new mate because I don't want to have to bury another spouse 😢. I finally accepted that I'll be alone until I die.

[@Abdulyt-g5m]

This came at the right time, I'm currently suffering from emotional numbness i can't feel hate nor do i feel love I'm just there like an emotion less robot 😢

[@ItsMykakk]

You should make a video on complementary personality’s because you mentioned it in the video but I really don’t understand complementary personality’s.

[@Tom-j1v]

Speaking as an aromantic man who didn't understand that was a THING until a few years ago, you may also just not have a typical amount of romantic love to give out. There's a MASSIVE difference between being a heartless person and just not having MUCH romantic love in your heart. For people like me, trying to give that love out to anyone who wants your attention, or wants you sexually, or whatever, can be crippling. You should show love to someone when it FEELS right, because as the video says, you can't practice love- it's not a skill. Love is organic. Hearts aren't machines running on a schedule- you're a reactive being, and if you're aromantic like me, demiromantic, or any of the other categories of romantic orientation that experience less frequent romantic bonds, or take longer to form them, that doesn't mean that you're broken. I used to think I was, even once I'd accepted I was aromantic, but before I had words for it. Then I actually DID fall in love, and I thought that love was fixing me. But that person I fell in love with was tricking me, using the fact I didn't understand romance well (media portrayals of love do a lot of damage to aromantic people, lemme tell ya) to reel me in and control me. I don't say all that to try and scare people away from love- I'm actually just falling in love again now, and this time with someone who's right for me. Even those of us who aren't pulled to other people can still end up with someone good for us, someone who'll care for us and let us care for them. If you're able to have healthy friendships, familial relationships, and even working relationships, but you don't really FEEL romantic love- maybe that's just not a form of love you need to chase. Maybe, in time, it'll come to you.

[@jameslegault9398]

I grew up with a strict dad and stepmom, it always felt to me like major restriction, like I couldn’t do what I liked doing to be happy at all, paired with a sociopath cousin who had a strange focus on sexual activities despite not actually knowing anything about them. It got to the point where I actually wrote “the note”. Now four or five years later, I notice that I can’t actually feel love for people and that my negative feelings are stronger to those around me.

[@JH-jb6yo]

Similar situation, Grew up in a strict and dysfunctional home. And I'm only 22 but I'm at the point of my life where I just don't have the desire to be in a relationship or to be loved. I have trouble with love as a topic in general even if it's not romantically. I even have trouble just saying the word out loud to anyone

[@sintay8002]

This is definitely how I feel, but it is reassuring to hear loving my family, especially my dad, serves as proof that I can love. I think I am just out of practice since he’s been gone for 14 years… over half my life. Everyone else has just not had the same understanding love. I only felt that with him and I think I was lucky for that. It was just too short.

[@irinalavrinovic6697]

I never been into love. though, when i seen the "How your mental health is getting worse" video. I had everything. I'm actually trying to find the center of my life and I'm really trying to do everything. Though, when i met your channel. You helped me. I feel full of happiness filling up my life. I'm happy for myself. And you all. Though. I'm afraid that my future doesn't seem to be planned out as I think today. I feel like i would die soon but I won't expect it soon. I'm actually thinking of travelling with my best friend and so much. I don't think that would happen but I won't expect it again. Please love yourself and don't expect bad things to yourself. You are beautiful. I love you, stranger.

[@keip4568]

It's worse after heartbreak and many don't care and many are in...ugh open or fwb type of relationship to prevent drama or connections. Sometimes it is the majority that seems wrong.

[@crazycat_4013]

This is so perfectly timed, I've recently felt like I came to the realisation that I seem to not feel any love! There seems to be a lack of it? No matter with who, even in plantonic relationships. I still seem to do SOME things, like appreciation for someone, but that's about it. Even then it feels like there's a feeling missing. I do come from a rather broken home and I'm diagnosed with depression, plus I'm a very paranoid person, been told that this stuff might numb it 😞 I don't know what to do

[@TheMCzorro]

You need to discuss this stuff with someone. A lot of people use help from a psychotherapist exactly for this reason, but many of us don't have that luxury. The only person that is guaranteed to have all the answers is you. You grew up with you, you spend your whole life with you, and you're gonna have to trust you if you want to live a happy life. If you want to try that by yourself (maybe, you have no one else to trust), make sure the atmosphere for these discussions is the most comfortable to you. The main principle is that when you're vulnerable, you should quickly realise that there's nothing in that atmosphere to hurt you. There should be absolutely no judgement, keep reminding yourself that all your actions are justified by something and you're here to listen and help you figure that something. You are supposed to be your best friend by default after all, and that is fact. Don't blame everything on yourself and don't blame everything on others, try to look through the stuff objectively, as if from the outside perspective, based on actual facts and not conjecture, not something you only think but don't know for sure. Keep in mind that it's okay to not know stuff, but it's not okay to not want to know stuff. Start by discussing what you like, not necessarily about yourself, just stuff you like. Try to figure out why you like this or that, if you do that for a little bit, that should make you more eager to talk to yourself about stuff that you don't like about yourself, and the important thing is not to ask "why am I like this", but to ask "why does it bother me so much". I did all that recently, largely by luck and a bit involuntarily, but after I discussed stuff with myself, what I like, what I don't like and why, I suddenly saw the reasons behind my actions, the puzzle of all the stuff about myself started falling into place. I warn you, you will cry, that's why it's very important to have a safe not-judging atmosphere for that. Only after doing that you can work on the safe environment where you can test your new knowledge about yourself. I'm still pretty much high on that feeling of having found myself after all these years, and I gotta tell you, it feels like no drug will ever feel. That's the good shit. And you deserve to have that feeling. Psych2Go had a video recently on why sadness feels addictive, I can tell you first hand, everything in that video pretty much applied to my experience. If you have any questions, ask me, since I just dumped it all on you, and I don't even know if you asked for that much. If you're not ready for all this, I understand, but at least, think about it in the future

[@crazycat_4013]

@@TheMCzorro Thank you 🫶 I didn't expect this big of a response, just thank you 🥹

[@elontebattle1626]

Be a friend first

[@yes8159]

When I saw the notif I immediately pressed play cuz I can relate to it.

[@Koa0101]

Hello, my dear aroace friend

[@jokeloy4916]

I once had a girlfried, she was nice and all that. But when i grew up a little, things turned, we agrued about stuffs and it leads to our seperation. I was sad and alone that time till i found myself another lover out of her friends’ friends’ group. She was fine, i supposed. But later on, i decided to stop dating her since.. she has alot potential with her goals she made and i was just slowing her down. Both of them lasted about almost an year or so but it just hurts me alot back then. After watching this vid, it really matches my problem im facing. Maybe love is not coming for me right now but later. Thank you Psych2go for this wonderful video. Hope you post more videos like this ❤

[@aruwani7813]

Hi how old are you...

[@Posi2Mind]

1. (00:00) Ever wonder why you can't feel love? Here’s why you feel "empty." 💔 2. (01:01) Love can’t be forced - real feelings come naturally. 🌱 3. (01:56) Going through a rough time? Don’t worry, timing matters. ⏳ 4. (02:23) Struggling to connect? Maybe it’s a deeper compatibility issue. 🔗 5. (03:19) Sometimes, we block ourselves from love out of fear. 💪 6. (04:17) Start with non-romantic love - friends and family count too! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Don’t miss this insight on finding love! ⏰💖

[@aruwani7813]

👍

[@egal1780]

This is a channel that actually provides me with (general) possibilities what it could be for me. I wondered the same about my general emotions before too - maybe there is something in my way, a past trauma, I'm just not aware of. Or maybe it's something entirely different.

[@devenmellor]

I once was in love with a Vietnamese/Cambodian girl during my freshman year of highschool back in 2016. She is a year and a half older than me and has type 1 diabetes. We became good friends, but when I confessed my feelings for her she didn't feel the same way. I wasn't mature enough (yes it was highschool so...) and I didn't handle being rejected well. In the end, I was friendzoned. I had genuine feelings for her and good intentions, I just couldn't get out of my own way. When she graduated the year before me, that's when I had to say goodbye. I know it wasn't meant to be, yet I still held onto the memory of knowing her as a person for as long as possible. She is very unique and interesting, I don't believe I'll meet anyone like her again. It's been almost 6 years since I last saw her and I have gotten better over time. In all honesty though, I'm still holding on by a thread and don't want to completely let go. I know I should, but maybe it will just take even more time until I finally do. I'm a firm believer that time is a natural healer in an emotional sense but it still may not be as quick as one would wish.

[@alexm9653]

I personally only feel this way with family. I told this person once, i cannot say "i love you" to my own mother, it's something that i've never heard coming out of her mouth and it always felt weird when other people talk proudly about their parents. I cannot understand how that must feel since i have never experienced that myself.

[@depersonalise]

Damn, getting this type of notif at 7pm after feeling nothing on a date with my gf hits hard

[@Psych2go]

Oof, timing really hit you with a curveball there! 😅 Sometimes these moments sneak up on us at the weirdest times. Think it's time for some introspection or just a rough day?

[@eltomy108]

Also, search the term "arromantic". Some people feel little to none romantic love. If this sounds like you, search the word

[@jennyhicks1930]

Just discovered this, feel much happier knowing it’s not just me that’s weird!😂

[@arithegalaxycat5370]

I'm an Asexual, so I barely feel love. I found it odd that during Highschool I was the only one that didn't fell in love. Thought I was a late bloomer or something. But that's when I discovered that I was Aro/Ace.

[@LessThanLucid]

Very cool. I didn't figure that I'm Aro/Ace until just a few years ago, my 40's! 🏳️‍🌈🧡💛🤍🩵💙

[@rel4685]

Thank you for making me realize

[@cocogoatee]

I feel so deeply to this. I've been in a toxic past and I've tried to move on, stay away from love or make new friends or dates, nothing worked. Even though Im jealous of couples outside, practically hate romatic movies, even thiugh I say to my friends I hate being single and I wish to get into relationship, the moment I get that feeling for someone, the moment I get that feeling, I push it and shove it away and ignore the person. Its like I want to love but I dont want it. Its a weird mixed feeling. And weirdly I get emotionally invested in heartbreak stories more than romantic ones.

[@unnamedweeper]

The timing is so, so painful. Just when I thought I had finally fallen in love for the first time EVER, I hadn't. I'd only develloped feelings for the image of the person and the fantasy of being with them and not them as a person. Reflecting on this helped me realize that I haven't.. been treating them like a friend, but rather a means to an end. A potential partner, that might never be.. And it hurts. It hurts like hell, and that’s ok ! For which, I intent to work on allowing my perceived romantic feelings to fade over time (given that they have shown unclear signals about whether or not they feel the same way), not romanticising them (said feelings) and again - treating my friend - like a friend. At the end of the day, I feel guilty for being manipulative, even while I had no bad intentions in mind. Doing this will be beneficial for both our sakes and hey - maybe someone else will roll around, once I've learned more about healthy love or expressing my feelings in a healthy way (like i wasn't), so until then ! :]

[@in-tuition-fj9840]

It’s 11:47 am and I have been missing something for a long time (6 years). Great video ❤. This video relates to how I feel and how I think. Then again it the moment will come on its own. I need to work on myself first, than ending up in toxic relationships once again.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for sharing that! It sounds like you’re recognizing the importance of taking time for yourself and building a foundation of self-love and growth first. Six years is a long time, but it shows your strength and resilience-your moment will definitely come when the time is right. Are there specific things you’re focusing on to keep growing and healing? Wishing you all the best on your journey! ❤🌱

[@in-tuition-fj9840]

@@Psych2go yes thank you for asking. Focusing on my mental health, mood, attachment styles and ways to become a bit more productive. Thank you for your time! ❤️

[@sandiletwala3001]

I've been numb for years and honestly I don't care about my emotions anymore and in my opinion I don't think I have any love in my heart and I just don't give a damn about anyone or love anymore

[@JaquelineGoodspeed]

Sure you do. It's probably just very deeply buried. Instead of trying to " love" humans, try food, nature. I love this burger. I love how the geese fly. I love storms. Etc.

[@sandiletwala3001]

@@JaquelineGoodspeed I see what you mean. Instead of loving "humans" I must love things that personally make me happy?. Thanks for the tip

[@Pradeepa8789]

this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you

[@thecatsbackyard4833]

This is an interesting topic. It's always at night that that feeling sets in. There isn't someone to hold or cuddle. But during the day it's not there. I feel like needing love is basically essential for survival especially as we get older.

[@thamashadevindi]

The timing 😳 I was wondering about this in past few days. Actually in last week. Wow. And this REALLY gave me the answers. Thanks a lot ❤

[@Tunawolf_edits]

Love, like relationship love is hard, I don’t know it because I am physically incapable of falling in love someone but it’s hard

[@AtiyaRahman-lu9wi]

I feel numb to love but at the same time have dreams about me being in a relationship with man who is obsessed with me and his smile is like a rainbow and he has this sunshine and warm aura around him. But as soon as i open my eyes pufff... everything was a dream😭

[@RpMUniverse]

Can you do a video about all the social problems that stems from ADHD? (Time-blindness, oversharing, too empathetic to a point that I put others’ priorities ahead of mine)

[@therealswitt4554]

Another reason could also be the people around you, speaking from personal experience of course, but going through all of senior year, I loved to spend time with family and friends, yet never saw anyone romantically, nothing wrong with any of them, nor me, but I guess the fish in the pond just weren't the right type of fish, and if you don't see anyone as a viable romantic partner, cheer up, you got the people around you via friendships, family, and other forms as well, you don't need a special someone, unlike what most people say.

[@keip4568]

Apathy has been on the rise, due to how intolerant people are... some are literally too narcissistic or antisocial to want love. Egoism as also been on the rise anywhere. Self image over caring and feeling for someone else.

[@DuchessofEarlGrey]

Or people just aren't as afraid to go it alone. The social delusion that one must find a partner seems to be on the decline. It's a good thing, especially when it comes to poor or unhealthy relationships. Better to be alone than in bad company. I certainly don't want a partner, sounds like too much work for not enough gain.

[@keip4568]

@@DuchessofEarlGrey you're a great example of what I just described. Antisocial, also a bit too much self love for yourself. You may see it as delusional but for some it is what they've been looking for all their lives. Some never getting what you can get easily. Have you ever thought of it that way?

[@keip4568]

@@DuchessofEarlGrey I highly doubt you'll be saying this. If you were alone and lonely everyday. If you'd elaborate/work with people daily, socialize to the point it drains you that is one thing. But could you handle being on your own emotionally/psychologically/physically daily? I'm sure, you are aware 95% of people could not handle the isolation during COVID. I can't say for you, but many couldn't however, what if those people who didn't have any loved ones or anything to lose and didn't catch it or knew anyone who suffered from it. Do you really embrace being a lone wolf as you stated. Just to avoid caring for another for yourself and your life only(?) Many lost it said it was the worst time of their lives, just from the temporary isolation during that time. Complaining when they could obviously use social media/gaming to connect.

[@AwkwardlyChill19]

​@@keip4568 I relate with him and agree to a fault, shit, I've been alone by myself for years, am 24 right now, I'm too used to being by myself that I guess I fear a change in that way with being with someone but I don't believe there is loving ourselves too much, it does sound egotistical and narcissistic but, I'm definitely not that because I feel for people who are very sad and upset, when I am around people like that or people who are bitter I can feel their energy and most people are like that in this world now, most people are shallow as well, so why even pay attention or surround myself with a society like that, but I do know that there is a small percentage of people that I can still connect with eventually in the near future, sometimes I contradict myself with statements I make and I am self aware of that, Most of the things in this life are Very Subjective

[@AwkwardlyChill19]

​@@keip4568 In The End we all do need some form of family/community to keep us from going Insane, we all are human beings after all

[@themrmustazz]

I’ve been friendzoned all my life and the relationships I had did not last long, because I did not choose those girls, they chose me and j just went along because I felt lonely. All I wanted was a chance with the girls I actually liked but I wasn’t their type, they went with cheaters instead. With time, my compatibility kept growing more and more distant from humanity, and now I fell into porn addiction, extreme black humour and a heavy lack of interest for anything people do.

[@SoupWater-qe9ep]

I don't know what wrong with me I stop caring about anything I don't care how I look dress I can't feel embarrassed anymore I am just so depressed because anytime tried to get better something always do something to make my life worst

[@Wooziiii17]

I never had a crush in my life i just figured i am aroace

[@filmneuro]

This was released at the right time holy shit.

[@MerchHelen]

Thank you...

[@SunsetAllu]

Tysm

[@Диана-я5э1к]

sometimes i feel like im so in love with other things in my life that there's no place for people. i love my work like anything else, it literally drives me forward in life and gives me so much please and satisfaction i fear its the only source of please and satisfaction for me. romantically i feel empty, dates feel like a chore, caring and texting feel like an appointment. people want so much: time, affection, energy. i push them away to not hurt them because i simply cant give it to them, and its been like this my whole life

[@devenmellor]

If you're familiar with the show SpongeBob SquarePants, that's how the main character SpongeBob feels to a degree. He LOVES his job/work as a fry cook at the Krusty Krab, blind to the fact that his boss Eugene Krabs woefully underpays him and throughout the seasons he becomes more cheap and greedy than ever. There is a season 4 episode called Bummer Vacation and this is the perfect example of how much SpongeBob really loves his job. Mr. Krabs sent him on a week long vacation just to save a nickel on his salary, that's how cheap of a boss he is. SpongeBob kept going back to the Krusty Krab and even at home in his pineapple he had a miniature Krusty Krab play set that he was pretending to still do his job over.

[@raaashiiig]

the timing goes CRAAZZYYYY 😭😭😭

[@raventhorne2827]

It’s in the afternoon, im 24 now, she’s been gone for 3 years now happily and I’m still figuring it out my own life. I’m gonna get a drink.

[@MiladyMarie]

Love your voice 😊

[@israelmojica7852]

Thank you

[@imemaile]

Needed this video bcs I struggle w it since always😭

[@dreadmemes8813]

Jo just feeling that atm. and wups this video uploaded 1min ago XD. Thanks for the Content, still learning more about myself every day

[@mekman4]

Thank you!

[@deejalovesU]

just can’t love myself. i try, everything. it’s deep, and started with generational ptsd and trauma. I fear that all the “love” I have felt was based on limerence or childhood sexual trauma. I do love my daughter and my dog, but relating and communicating is so difficult. I don’t know what love is for me. Until I do, i’m avoiding everything and everyone due to cptsd episodes and i’m a veteran. I wish I could find love or create love for myself, yet, it always has to be outsourced and it rarely ends well. self love, self care, i fail at both living in despair, but I live anyway and try not to care. I treat myself best I can while being homeless. peace to you. this is helpful, just wish I knew what love was besides romance or rape.

[@peternincompoop9553]

My dog loves me & that's all I need.

[@Psych2go]

Honestly, that’s the kind of loyal, unconditional love most people dream of! 🐶💖 Who needs drama when you’ve got a furry best friend?

[@mossysalad3772]

I was hoping this video would be on how to undo or change an aromantic personality. This was still insightful though.

[@silviadianova5302]

You posted that just on time .

[@Psych2go]

Guess my psychic powers are finally kicking in! 😆📅

[@semejor1]

​@@Psych2goThanks for posting right now

[@KittyHeadSetOSC]

Thank you.

[@melaniescribbles]

As an autistic woman with social anxiety and potentially undiagnosed C-PTSD (far along the healing process, but still healing to a degree, lol) ; thanks, I needed this video for sure. Like, I have no trouble expressing platonic love (like familiar love and such). But romantic relationships just sound stressful to me. I mean, I'm demisexual, and it's getting to a point where I'm wondering if I might be aromantic as well instead of heteoromantic like I've always thought or not (I mean, acearo people are a thing). It could also be because I know for a fact that I'm absolutely horrible at first impressions; like, I'm an autistic goth woman in glasses with geeky interests and an artsy streak. I'm definitely one of those people that's only really fun to be around if you actually stick around long enough to get to know me a bit better; I'm really only bad at that whole 'pretending to be normal' phase of early socializing (you know the one, lol; you're still sussing eachother out a bit, and it's socially expected of me that I pretend to not secretly hide the parts of me that society often deems as 'cringe' for a hot minute, lol). Like, all of the lowkey gamers or lowkey otaku that I'd usually get along with are still hiding that they're lowkey gamers of lowkey otaku. I don't know yet that they maybe also play DnD. I don't know that they secretly listen to darkwave as well; you can take a goth out of the gothic fashion, but you can NEVER take that love for the music. Like, they might LOOK like your usual office worker, but you bet that something like Sisters of Mercy or Specimen is still in their playlist for their commute. So at that point, I usually already feel in platonic situations like the other person is secretly judging me over minute things like my hobbies, while the truth is that they're probably just as stressed out as me about what I might think of them (like, my friends in the past have literally described me as 'intimidating to talk to, but I'm glad that I did', lol). So yeah, all of that just makes first dates just seem f*cking impossible in my book; like, basically having to make a first impression that I know that I absolutely suck at over and over again? Sorry not sorry, but that just gets a hearty 'Ew' response out of me.

[@davidordaz5251]

Never been kissed, never done the deed, never had a relationship am 30 and feel like life is passing me by i dont have a job currently cause of my physical condition continues to get worse every year never had any plans to the future since i feel like sometimes i just want to end it and dont see a point to keep struggling anymore am tired and frustrated with life i just want some happiness in this life even if it is only momentary guess others are more lucky than me but is what it is i suppose

[@jesykaob]

Love your videos ❤❤

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for watching!

[@MariNa-tl8pd]

I'm 32 and never fall in love ❤️! It was always my dream but unfortunately never cared if someone would leave me or not

[@Sydney-i2f]

I need this

[@TiP1005-i7v]

That is exactly what I was looking for.

[@tharinduwijetunge]

Waiting without knowing if it's worth waiting really hurts sometimes

[@johnhurabiminecraft1475]

This is true story that i remember my worst and humiliating childhood times: When i was 8 or 9 year old Boy in 3rd grade elementary in year 2014, the school i transferred is Tomas Claudio colleges (TCC) in morong Rizal, i was fell in love to my first crush named Stephanie (Not Revealing her full name), she was beautiful, intelligent, friendly and ambitious and quite a leadership she was that i known her since 1st grade elementary, i was so fall in love that my heart skip a beat everytime i see her, i whispered my advisor teacher named Lani that i secretly have a crush on Stephanie, and she smirk widely and she nod and keep her mouth shout, but 2 weeks later after stephanie didn't attend to School is now back in school but things got horribly wrong, the advisor teacher look at me with a devilish smile and she speak to me Infront of my former classmates including Stephanie 'Lani: Jooooohn~ did you miss Stephanie~' and my former classmates saying 'AEEEEIEIEIEIEIEIEIEY!' and stephanie got surprised and i dont know what is her mind about the what happened, and i immediately stand up and shouted at teacher lani saying 'John: TEACHER!?, I DONT LIKE HER, I HATE HER!!!!' and my former classmates said 'Awwwwwww' and teacher lani is laughing and i sit down and covered my face in the table of embarrassment or humiliation, and i didn't mean those words back then, my mouth speak itself out of nowhere, or is it because i was a tsundere before, me and Stephanie dont talk each other while i look at her beautiful and cute face and eyes, friday at P.E, many of my former classmates start playing outside while me and few of my childhood friends and former classmates are playing inside the classroom, my childhood friend named Ebiza that i known her in grade 2, she approaching me and ebiza told me about stephanie request for me, that she doesn't like me, she already fall in love to someone better than me, not chubby like me, i was so heartbroken, and i nod to ebiza and i slowly turn around in the wall next to the old bookshelves and tears started to fallen in my cheek and drop in floor or in my shoes, i never felt this feeling, a feeling of being broken inside, it was hard, too hard for me to bear with it, i hide my tears and my weeping sound to avoid hearing or seeing by my former classmates and it includes stephanie, i was saddened and broken, i even cried in the tricycle and in my room, i was so, broken inside and wanting to stop this feeling i had for Stephanie, but still i love her and cannot move on, and its hard to accept the fact she doesn't like me back. Next year, 4th grade elementary, my mother transferred other school named 'Baras Elementary school' which is slightly close to my parents house, i see another girl who is beautiful and very popular, her name is Jany (Not revealing her name or i just dont remember her full name caused its been 8 years me and her never see each other) she her intelligence aren't compared to stephanie my first crush but her beautiful and cheerful personality is very attractive, she is my second crush, however few months later that i known Jany, i saw her talking to her female friends, about the picture of a guy in her phone, i hear what she said about her female friends 'Jany: Oh my gosh, besties, tin nan mo ang dream lalaki ko, siya ang aking boyfriend ko (Look at my dream man, he's my boyfriend!)' and her female friends saying 'Ayeeeeeeeeeeee!' and i got shocked and hurt again when i hear everything about her, ut make my heart broken once again, this time it hurts like stabbing hundreds of daggers including getting poisoned in my heart, i didn't cry, but broken inside, my emotions started to get bored and almost expressionless about life in this existential world that i lived in, so i moved on to my second crush jany (Except my first crush Stephanie) and walking away And lastly my third crush named is Rose (Not revealing her full name or i forgot her full name just like Jady's full name) she is also a 4th year elementary student and shes also my classmate in Baras elementary school, she is kind and friendly and she kinda bit rude towards me, i admired her black and orange short hair including her mysterious nature of her, i have fun a lot to her and wanting to know her even better, however, few of my former classmates tells rose about me that i secretly like her, she looks at me with disgust, i wanted to talk to her but i cannot, she really looks at me in disgust and seeing me like a fat trash in her own eyes, and seeing her talking to another boy and looking at him with dreamy eyes is too much to my heart and mind, it hurts, i feel pain again, and again, like im now stabbing again and again in my heart, after some time enduring how truly broken i am, i started to fell empty in my heart, like i dont have love, i dont feel love. My emotions started to feel expressionless (Not always), i feel like it doesn't matter for me to this Cruel world i lived, i am starting to get bored in this, ive experience heartbroken 3 times and the result is that, i feel nothing, i dont feel love anymore, just an empty hearted boy who doesn't want to fallen in love again Grade 8 i go back to my favorite school (Tomas Claudio colleges) and i saw Stephanie my first crush who first broken my heart since 3rd grade, she is in the other section called 'Aries' while my section is 'Gemini', i visit the grade 8 aries room, and i saw her talking to her new friends that i never met, i look away and approaching my other childhood friend, i just wanna see Stephanie face again, even though i am empty inside, i still love her in my eyes, she doesn't look back at me but i notice she looks at me slightly because me and her remember that time when she ask ebiza to tell me that Stephanie doesn't likes me, well of course i always remember that, i cannot forget what happened back there. Stephanie and i dont talk each other like usual, but i look at her face without her noticing, well she almost caught me looking at her (Even though just a little look at her beautiful and cute face), and i started to think myself repeating the horrible past memories and realized that it was wrong for me to not move on to my crush that she doesn't like me back, so i decided to tell her that we should be friends, but not in this month of November/December/January, i need to take some time to think before i approach stephanie, Feb 14, 2020 today is valentine's day (Friday), im 14 years old now and i attending to my school at 6AM in the morning, and im glad im not late, I brought red roses that my father buy it for me to give teachers some red roses, i give few teachers some roses and now i have to find stephanie, i dont know where she is but i found her friends eating outside in the table (Made in stone) next to the stairs, i approaching them and ask them to where is Stephanie, her one friend said to me she will come back at any minute, and ask me why i ask her where she is, because im gonna give her a one red rose that my father buy itz and her friends saying 'AYEEEEEEEEEE!!' and they started to help me by hiding me in the table in back and they covered me with a girl's black jacket, and waited for stephanie to show up, 2 minutes later she show up next to her female friend, Stephanie and her friends are talking each other for a half second, Few female friends who are helping me are started to smirk at stephanie and she tap my shoulder like its my cue, i stand up and stephanie was suprised that i show up, i give her a red rose and many of her female friends saying 'AYEEEEEEEE, JOHN LOVE STEPHANIE! JOHN LOVE STEPHANIE!' i look at Stephanie im the eyes with confidence, and i know she doesn't like me back so, i say it to her with a smile on my face 'John: Happy Valentines day Stephanie.... As a Friend' and Stephanie's female friends are shocked and they said with a sad tone 'Awwwwwwwwwww' and i just walk away up stairs leaving Stephanie and her friends behind, my happy expression turns into seriois and stoicism filled with empty heard, masking my childish and playful personality to hide my depression and stoicism expression because what i did back there is the right thing to do when i have to move on to my 3 ex crushes. The more you experience broken, the more you will feel nothing, and i feel nothing looking at many beautiful girls in the Philippines, no matter how beautiful, cute, sexy, and alluring they are, i cannot feel that way but a joke to their own worlds they have lived... Ill just be humbly rejecting many girls confession, because i know that Any guys/girls dares to play with me with their twisted and pathetic pranks That hurt Guys/Girls feelings Also i born in the Philippines, which i mostly speak English rather than speaking Tagalog (A little speaking Tagalog language) and im 18 now already college. And thank you very much for reading my chat (or if you dont read thats fine 👍🏻✨) stay safe and god bless you all my beloved brothers and sisters 🙏🏻✨

[@xire_unkown]

Bro I felt that getting jealous of other people falling alone while your left alone

[@chisaten]

People forget that their bodies don't stop changing. I'm 41 and looking at approaching menopause. When my mother went through that, she got very emotional like a teenager, so I wonder what that is going to do for me.

[@AC-ni4gt]

It will explain why my relationship with my parents is empty. I lost the ability to have that loving relationship. Heck even relationships I tried to have backfired. Not sure how I can truly love another when my ability to love is dysfunctional.

[@Mihawk.DGreatestswordsman]

Ill ask out my crush if psi hearts this comment

[@juozapasgajdosikas8774]

Right pshychology i get it buuuut... is it possible to get coloring/drawing tutorial or behind the scenes?

[@ramnivasjakhasr691]

good video yet again, thank you love ❤️

[@MegaManNeo]

That's a decent new art style there you tried for this video 👀As far as the topic goes, I actually question that myself a lot already. Maybe I'm really incapable to feel love since I had a rough childhood and sub-optimal relationship to my family too. Then again, I have been told by others that some of my actions towards others feel very love driven and at least towards my mother (R.I.P.) and my best friend, I feel lots of love. Cared lots about other friends too in the past but they more and more left me in the dust, so... :(

[@noriichen]

Love the art!❤

[@Asuperbaconator]

Why would anyone love me I fuckin hate me

[@Booyakasha787]

i don't know when i last felt love towards anyone other than my cats, i mean i KNOW that i love my family and friends and that has to count for something, right? but i still feel like a piece of garbage because i can't actually FEEL any love towards my mom or grandma... and the worst thing is that i can't talk to anyone about this cuz they'd never understand

[@LucienFrostYt]

Been thinking of the same question about this since i never exactly felt or was attracted to anybody in my life but guess i know its just not the right time yet

[@elysianfields1671]

In most cases, it’s not that people are incapable of loving. They are afraid of it.

[@MegChilape]

YESS MORE VIDEOS ABOUT LOVEE

[@Psych2go]

Love it! Got any specific topics in mind? We’re all ears (and hearts)! 😄💕

[@MegChilape]

@@Psych2go maybe like how to finally accept that someone doesn't like you back or something like that??

[@N0lemts]

How to open your heart? Video? Number 4 more detailed please, how to cope, and how to move forward.

[@MohdAhmad-be4mf]

its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs

[@ImCrypticGames]

i like this informatioin and love watching these videos...BUT DID ANYONE NOTICE THE HAZBIN HOTEL KEY AT 3:40!?!?

[@DarkEclipse23]

Ive given up on love. The last one i had resulted on being randomly ghosted for half a year.

[@TheXelum]

Honestly, Thats just me. I just dont feel anything. Only when i am Hearing music. Especially my Music. Would love to find someone who have the same affection to that. But i got the Feel with 36 and only one Relationship its too late. I have fear that i have no childs in my Live. But Honestly my Depression kicks so much in that i dont know if i ever can achieve that.

[@Beutimus]

Love is something I struggle to feel. But maybe it's because people I've loved that have left. Also because i switched from being religious to agnostic and my brain is in chaos from that still.

[@THENEONARCADE21]

I've been hurt too much that I can't trust anyone anymore. I really think I'm gonna die alone.

[@rogerr.7228]

How about years of rejection and never having a single success of getting a date with any one person you ever had interest in, and vice-versa very much the same. The only people who are willing to give you a chance are people you yourself are not that into.

[@Brossano22]

Actually THANKS for that video

[@ultimatewafflegaming1018]

i have very unique hobbies interests and world view in contrast to my area so maybe i cant find anyone because there isnt anyone here for me

[@meameano8858]

Interesting…

[@TestedAccount-v2j]

Woah im early!? Btw i luv ur videos! It really help me out! My anxiety is gone but im still anxious a little bit out in public.

[@SkinnyEatWorld95]

What about people like me who don't seem to like or relate to anyone?... Everyone annoys me and I don't like pretending they don't 😐

[@amberd.883]

I miss having a relationship so bad but I can't stop getting repulsed by everyone I meet online and I don't meet anyone in real life.. also I don't feel worthy of love so I feel like I'd be wasting a romantic partner's time

[@asmimallick6741]

This video made me realise that I'm somewhat numb to love.

[@papercoolcat]

Now, what if you can't feel love, because you lost the one you DID love? It has been a year and they have already moved on, yet I am stuck on them. I've been in a relationship since then, but had to break it off because I didn't actually love them but instead I am still in love with the person that split it off with me. It all just feels numb without THEM? What then?

[@someone587]

what is love i just don't understand, and what is life

[@NightMystique13]

It would be nice if people realized that menopause is as bad as the teen years. Hormones are going bananas in perimenopause and settle down after menopause is finished. This can take years and affects mental health bigtime.

[@CanOfCatss]

hello! i have video request, a video about signs of personality disorder! i often feel like my brain has 3 parts in me, like a chaotic part, a depressed part, and a kind part, which i have associated with specific moods, because honestly sometimes my behaviour contridicts my personality, like i can be immature and mature at different times, having different prefrences, being positive or negative, i need a little helpon this topic and if you already have a video on this, please be sure to tell :D