Advice to my sisters: Raise your standards!

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Na’ima B. Robert

Na’ima B. Robert

Күн бұрын

Sisters: 👏🏽Raise 👏🏽Your 👏🏽Standards!
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@AyeshaKhan-iu4ji
@AyeshaKhan-iu4ji 5 жыл бұрын
I have learnt that there's a very fine line between what we perceive as obedience to Allah and what actually is true obedience.. Jazakallah Khair for the message ❤️
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 4 жыл бұрын
we have to return to Quran and Sunnah and reject bida of the graveworshippers and oppressors of women who also promote child abuse as well many times.
@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346
@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346 2 жыл бұрын
I know so many men who love using girls for lust, so now they got polygamy marriages from Quran, now it's easy for then to have multiple women! Out of Islam and Quran it's hard, so now they use Quran polygamy to get multiple girls were girls agree to polygamy marriages! Here you sisters have made it easy for these cheating men to getting multiple halal side chicks, sisters it's your fault too because these men know you will agree. I know some sisters get lied and tricked into it bit if you agree to polygamy marriages now it's your fault! Cheating men use polygamy marriages, easier to get multiple girls for lust desires!
@littlemaryam2577
@littlemaryam2577 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies you deserve to be respected because in Islam you have dignity and honor. Gentlemen, be responsible, ladies were not created to be your slaves, learn how Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) treat his wife.
@maymah
@maymah 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so envious of sisters who live where the law looks out for them, in Nigeria the police would say "it's a family matter go back home" to a bruised and battered woman. For all the west is, women do have it easier legally
@veronica5080
@veronica5080 2 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry 😭😭😭😭
@anujarahim8533
@anujarahim8533 Жыл бұрын
No matter where in the world we are.. The Laws of Ar Rahman, The Extremely Merciful Creator DO NOT CHANGE First and foremost we have to know what our rights are, by understanding the Qur'an and Sunnah of Rasool SAS. Then we apply the laws of The Creator in our lives to the best of our capacity, seeking help from Allah Swt, An Naseer, The Helper and Ally of the believers. Then once you have tied the camel (done everything within your means and capacity to HELP yourselves), leave the rest to Allah Swt, Al Wakeel, The Best Advocate/Trustee/ Disposer of our affairs. Thawakkalthu alAllahi 💖
@fruittofruition1254
@fruittofruition1254 5 жыл бұрын
Strong message, loved hearing it from you sister. The abuse starts usually at home in the form of a dysfunctional parent and you end up marrying a reflection of them. It is the hardest thing to do to break a cycle on your own. When it comes down to faith and the well being of our children, the suffering one endures leaving and surviving through it alone. Is far more tasteful than enduring that for a lifetime. May Allah grant us mothers strength and increase in our faith in His decree
@doncarlin9081
@doncarlin9081 3 жыл бұрын
Your words of wisdom is applicable to men as well. I've seen too many men myself let themselves be treated like trash, taken all manner of vile treatment including physical abuse, with the glimmer of hope she will change. I've been through this myself. I am still going through it, the fool I am.
@Hi-ii4qo
@Hi-ii4qo 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry brother but I think your missing something. May Allah SWT forgive you and give you strength.
@AC-mp7cx
@AC-mp7cx Жыл бұрын
im sorry bro
@lyndameg134
@lyndameg134 4 жыл бұрын
Best speech ive heard in a long time! For the abused women I say: make a plan...
@natylino121
@natylino121 10 күн бұрын
Jazakallah khair sister BarakaAllah feekum ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@jahanghir528
@jahanghir528 2 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, YOU CHOOSE these MEN. Vet the men better, involve your brothers/fathers/uncles in the mating process. Men know men.
@nicolemarie151
@nicolemarie151 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this message actually brought tears to my eyes. Self-love is not selfish ladies!
@AC-mp7cx
@AC-mp7cx Жыл бұрын
yes but depends what the standard is
@Rclsllh
@Rclsllh 3 жыл бұрын
Yess 👏🏾 Subhanallah. The ummah has a shortage of men that follow the sunnah. I was married to a 50/50 covert narcissist Muslim guy, yes constantly beg and fed his ego and in laws egos and sihr vodo being sent by his mom he hid it in drawers and garages, hid in weird places. They look perfect from the outside while you the wife are putting makeup over bruises to hid it. Oooh my gaaaaawd! Stress level unheard of, I had depression. Alhamdulilah I left after he hit me again bleeding and I went to a hotel because I have nowhere to go. A year later, am in my apartment, working Alhamdulilah and taking care of my daughter. Many of these guys want the benefits of both Muslim and American husband. Allah forbid you have boundaries. It’s scary to leave, I spent nights of tears tahajuj desperate, I have no family here. But Allah creates a way went you out trust on him. Alhamdulilah my experience made me firmer on my faith. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be extremely careful who you marry. When it’s time to marry they go to mosque and when it’s time to divorce they hire divorce lawyer asking for everything you have even before you met them. Avoid narcissist like the plague.
@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346
@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346 2 жыл бұрын
I know so many men who love using girls for lust, so now they got polygamy marriages from Quran, now it's easy for then to have multiple women! Out of Islam and Quran it's hard, so now they use Quran polygamy to get multiple girls were girls agree to polygamy marriages! Here you sisters have made it easy for these cheating men to getting multiple halal side chicks, sisters it's your fault too because these men know you will agree. I know some sisters get lied and tricked into it bit if you agree to polygamy marriages now it's your fault! Cheating men use polygamy marriages, easier to get multiple girls for lust desires!
@alghurraba
@alghurraba 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best motivational video from you, Naima ❤️ I keep coming back here. Thank you so much. 🌷
@dimitryaujour318
@dimitryaujour318 2 жыл бұрын
How is she not getting more views?? Honnestly, this woman is saying nothing but the truth!
@jahanghir528
@jahanghir528 2 жыл бұрын
Because they can't see her face, so people are unsure if it really is a woman under there.
@roneddy
@roneddy Жыл бұрын
@@jahanghir528 We are sure you are an idiot though.
@sakinahelahi2611
@sakinahelahi2611 5 жыл бұрын
JazakAllahu Khair Sister Na’ima for this beautiful message and reminder !! Powerful and raw I love it we must as women raise our standards high!! May Allah Ta’ala continue to bless you in all your good works. Sis. Ameen!!
@moshoodatkehindeoladejo6398
@moshoodatkehindeoladejo6398 5 жыл бұрын
JazakAllah Kyran. Thanks so much for this and it sure resonates with me.
@paiwansab
@paiwansab 3 жыл бұрын
I divorce him just he wasn't respectful for the women that I am , and he was manipulator , so now he is regretting what he did good for him , i am lonely and I am happy then before hamdullilah
@maymah
@maymah 5 жыл бұрын
African (Northern Nigerian father's will tell you in front of the husband that he doesn't need you. This abuse has been the norm for hundreds of years, it's changing slowly, but really you've said it all. The change begins with me.
@WritePublishSell
@WritePublishSell 4 жыл бұрын
You said y'all.
@bm-jq2ln
@bm-jq2ln 4 жыл бұрын
SubhanAllah i had a really bad day and i really needed this message. BarakAllahu feeki ukhti may Allah love you immensely
@NaimaBRobertTV
@NaimaBRobertTV 4 жыл бұрын
b m Alhamdulillah ❤️
@HinaJunejo
@HinaJunejo Жыл бұрын
Hype is Cheap - hits home :-) Jzk khair for sharing that
@halimahkasim1595
@halimahkasim1595 5 жыл бұрын
This is a very important message for sisters. The problem is beyond what we accept from our spouses but from other people we've come to be "tolerant" with. Tolerance does not equate being subject to disrespect. In today's world, the Muslim woman is treated lowly because of her identity and we allow this culture. We are the best of humans so we need to act like it.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 4 жыл бұрын
abusive men and women and men and women being ignorant of eahc other is a major problem, feminism telling ppl men and women can't be different when they are is a lie and a huge problem it pushes blind eye ignorance in name of tolerance, one extreme over the other is a trap and shameful. Islam is the balanced middle path.
@Hi-ii4qo
@Hi-ii4qo 2 жыл бұрын
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 How do you end up bringing feminism instead of actual change for yourself and for others.
@rahmahidris5
@rahmahidris5 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for this video, its really have change my perspective of life. Jazaakillahu khayran.
@kayscrochetcrafts3408
@kayscrochetcrafts3408 5 жыл бұрын
jazakillahu khayr katheeran sis❤
@meerahims4164
@meerahims4164 3 жыл бұрын
Naima im new to your videos... But im hooked, ive gone through a lot...and this is amazing....
@chrisgreen1837
@chrisgreen1837 2 жыл бұрын
i could not say any better myself thanks for that because i came out of two relationships my thank you again
@aisha0716
@aisha0716 4 жыл бұрын
Alhamdullah! I think the narratives are gradually changing and women are becoming more aware. Jazakhallah khairan for speaking up.
@yussifnabila3415
@yussifnabila3415 3 жыл бұрын
Maaaha Allah. we need more of these messages
@aishatbashir9961
@aishatbashir9961 5 жыл бұрын
Barakallahu fii a wonderful lecture, may Allah increase us in hikmah
@jauharahhamid8271
@jauharahhamid8271 Жыл бұрын
ManshaAllah Tabarakallah it's such a great massage all us all Barakallahu Fikum sister.We needed,We need this voice everyone and every woman out there let's act on this for a great positive change.
@ameenahmahabuallah3064
@ameenahmahabuallah3064 3 жыл бұрын
Assalamu Alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu Alhamdulillah powerful message, and much needed. We do have a choice in this life and no one has the right not to give us our worth or our rights, but he always wanting you to give him his. Alhamdulillah time to let it go! In Shaa Allah
@aminayusuf960
@aminayusuf960 3 жыл бұрын
100% true walahi may Allah bless you young sister
@dolly400
@dolly400 5 жыл бұрын
We need more voices like this sister. I love this sister for the sake of Allah.
@MrsHappyville
@MrsHappyville Жыл бұрын
It's not about creating fitnah, it's about keeping your dignity. Or getting your dignity back, depending on what situation you are in. I pray for all Muslim women, men and children to be able to live with dignity.
@easycooking7308
@easycooking7308 4 жыл бұрын
Jaxakumullahu khair sister we all appreciate it
@eniolaalabi9520
@eniolaalabi9520 5 жыл бұрын
Jazzak Allahu khayr sister Naina for the video. Alhamdu lillahi with help of Allah, I took the bold step last year to put an end to emotional abuse in my marriage after 11yrs. Alhamdu lillahi I have never for ones regretted my decision. To all sister out there who are suffering in silence. There are lots of help out there for you. Please don't suffer in silence, get help. Abuse is not acceptable in Islam.
@MrRheannk
@MrRheannk 4 жыл бұрын
How did u do it
@aisha0716
@aisha0716 4 жыл бұрын
Sending you love and light! ❤
@ssaafir9773
@ssaafir9773 2 жыл бұрын
Abuse is not acceptable period.
@nanajama4537
@nanajama4537 2 жыл бұрын
Sister did you leave your husband? I’ve been emotionally abused , neglected, and constantly threatened with divorce... been emotionally cheated on. I am just about done and looking to request a divorce. I’ve separated myself from him.
@shakeelahmuhammad2218
@shakeelahmuhammad2218 Жыл бұрын
Subhaan Allah,this was a very informative and motivational speech for the women who are going through these types of abuse.May Allah make it easy for those Ameen.
@mirtabreve3693
@mirtabreve3693 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing!
@assatasissoho4378
@assatasissoho4378 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful 😥 Many we need help and cure
@anujarahim8533
@anujarahim8533 Жыл бұрын
Jazaki Allahu khairan katheerah habibti for this wake up call.. it's indeed HIGH TIME we Muslimahs raised our STANDARDS upto THAT LEVEL which The MERCIFUL CREATOR, LORD ALMIGHTY, THE MOST WISE JUDGE, THE ALL PROVIDER HIMSELF HAS SET FOR US. 💖💖💖 BI IDNILLAHI TA'ALA
@MohamedAli-ly7jo
@MohamedAli-ly7jo 3 жыл бұрын
what a talk good job shukran
@monicabainum3659
@monicabainum3659 Жыл бұрын
Many years ago I was an abused woman. I had to learn how to many plan an escape from an abusive boyfriend and an abusive husband. Change only happens through intervention.
@rashidawad5825
@rashidawad5825 2 жыл бұрын
GOOD JOB NAIMA!
@nadeemmalik-qq3jn
@nadeemmalik-qq3jn 4 жыл бұрын
Mashallah, may ALLAH keep us all safe and happy and blessed! From sister Fatima 💖💖💖💖
@laosquiros2257
@laosquiros2257 Жыл бұрын
Perfectly well said I support you
@ajaban
@ajaban 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@s0urbugz837
@s0urbugz837 3 жыл бұрын
Speak louder for the ones in the back sister ! It is possible to be happy without being married. Marriage is suppose to bring peace and tranquillity . Alhamduiallah there are amazing man , trust me I have been married to one for 15 years.Your success does not take away from your husband success . Be bold , be brave and worship your lord . Alhamduiallah for islam . We need more lectures about marriage that speak the truth like the sister here, where the blame is not place squarely on the victim but rather the oppresser.Allahuakbur!!!
@yasminayas5672
@yasminayas5672 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely👏
@aishas4182
@aishas4182 Жыл бұрын
Woah. So thought provoking. Ya Allah help us become only dependent on you and not on the creation. Ameen
@ummpearls
@ummpearls 5 жыл бұрын
Salaam Sister ...this is an important topic. There are circumstances when a woman has the odds against her especially in cases where in laws import the brides from back home. Everyone around her is someone who supports her husband's family and they get away with years of abuse because they have a good reputation in their community.
@Fatima-bb8vc
@Fatima-bb8vc 3 жыл бұрын
Asalam aley kum! Thank you so much beautiful sister for this video. I am divorced and I listened to this woman preaching this morning she was saying that if you want to be respected stay in your marriage even you are abused.
@JahannamHellfire
@JahannamHellfire 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately the problem is women don't support women!
@s0urbugz837
@s0urbugz837 2 жыл бұрын
@@JahannamHellfire i have seen you in a lot of videos comments. It seems we might share some ideas in commen lol
@marahesther
@marahesther 2 жыл бұрын
Im so happy to have met you, sis. My heart is broken😔
@ummsakinahalbarutani526
@ummsakinahalbarutani526 4 жыл бұрын
Mine has always been so high it's unreliable. I love you so much Al Wadud
@ajazkakroo5056
@ajazkakroo5056 2 жыл бұрын
The best 👍💯
@ramamuge3380
@ramamuge3380 2 жыл бұрын
Balanced and Unbiased...well said.
@nabilaampaso6064
@nabilaampaso6064 Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah! Watching from Philippines .
@ShaukatAli-eg9nk
@ShaukatAli-eg9nk 2 жыл бұрын
we proud upon our sister
@hobbiesofamuslimgirl
@hobbiesofamuslimgirl 2 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah May Allah bless you ❤️
@rejhana1012
@rejhana1012 Жыл бұрын
When a person is in distress or when a person is sad or when a person is not happy he tents to focus on what is, what he is suffering from, rather from noticing the good side of things, to focus only on the bad side, and this is what happens usually in family disputes, the person is angry or the couple is angry on each other, so they only highlight the bad stuff, and they cut out the good stuff and sometimes people are very good at it or people just want to run away from their problems, so they present theyr answers (case) in a way, which make it seem to the Shaykh,... that this person is on the verge of break down or she is going to not survive this situation or etc. People exaggerate a lot when they are in a problem.......
@yasminayas5672
@yasminayas5672 3 жыл бұрын
I love her
@younusedlue1240
@younusedlue1240 Жыл бұрын
Aselamualikum werahmetulahi weberekatu as soon i started to lesson this video i said wellahi this message is for me from Allah ! Thank you so much dear sister ! @Umu yusra
@designs_byfarida
@designs_byfarida 5 жыл бұрын
Jazakillah khairan sis. This problem is increasing by the day. Men need to be educated about the deen, they need to understand that their wives are their companoins not their slaves. I think parents should start teaching their sons about how to treat women from a young age. Most parents focus on teaching their daughters how to treat their husbands. In many societies such as mine whenever a lady gets married, elders are always advising her to do whatever her husband asks her and to never duscuss her problems with anyone. This has resulted in hypertension and alot of women have died because of this. Something has to be done. May Allah guide us to the right path.
@t-renallux3125
@t-renallux3125 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, true.
@user-fm5yg2sx6r
@user-fm5yg2sx6r 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@reciterrahma3276
@reciterrahma3276 3 жыл бұрын
Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem❤️ Subhan’Allah❤️ Alhamdu lillah❤️ Laa ilaaha illaa Allah❤️ Allahu Akbar❤️ Laa hawla wa laa kuwwata illaa billah❤️ May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household❤️
@asfahful
@asfahful 4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️Amazing. Nothing is more true then this. This is exactly what I tell every sister. You should always be confident, proud of who u re, have standards and able to stand on ur decision. God would never be mad at u for anything as long as its not haram coz he knows his slaves more then they know themselves.
@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346
@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346 2 жыл бұрын
I know so many men who love using girls for lust, so now they got polygamy marriages from Quran, now it's easy for then to have multiple women! Out of Islam and Quran it's hard, so now they use Quran polygamy to get multiple girls were girls agree to polygamy marriages! Here you sisters have made it easy for these cheating men to getting multiple halal side chicks, sisters it's your fault too because these men know you will agree. I know some sisters get lied and tricked into it bit if you agree to polygamy marriages now it's your fault! Cheating men use polygamy marriages, easier to get multiple girls for lust desires!
@mohammadanwar6929
@mohammadanwar6929 3 жыл бұрын
I respect you mam
@Hi-ii4qo
@Hi-ii4qo 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sister this was an amazing reminder✨I honestly teared up from your beautiful words, thank you for your honesty; this message seeped into my heart alhamdulilah and I hope even more Muslims will hear and gain strength from this message as well🤍
@youllmakeit4546
@youllmakeit4546 2 жыл бұрын
From a man who's raised by solid parents. Who doesn't mess around with women, or anything bad but is also no push over. All guys like me ask is genuine respect, a lot of the issues we face today is majority of sisters lack serious genuine respect. Idk if it's social media but they treat almost every guy like an option. All I'm saying is majority of us don't "care" how much you make or what you own, we just care about if you have real manners, are understanding, if you're desi (living in the same house), we just crave women who are women and behave like them. It's not me me me me, a lot of sisters right away just turn the argument to "oh guys do this", why can't you just take where you're wrong and work on it.... We don't need another strong independent man in a form of a female body, we need a supportive partner who respects our vision and us. We don't really care if you have a Kim Kardashian or slim thicc body if anything that moves way because we see it as she's probably an attention seeker. Just be good girls and you'll see the good guys. Stop trying to control the guy, let him be and you'll see he'll ask you. There's only one leader of the house and I'm sorry my sister's... That's not you... If your man has weak skills, build him up please, don't nag him... I genuinely believe our beautiful sisters hearts and minds are being attacked by the media today. I love you all
@NaimaBRobertTV
@NaimaBRobertTV 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your comment, brother.
@deed1436
@deed1436 2 жыл бұрын
I bought my own 2 family house before I got married and kept one of the apartments fully furnished and vacant so I could leave my husband at the drop of a hat if he ever treats me badly. The rental income from the other unit pays the bills over there. It’s important to have the financial power to leave these men so they know you’re serious when you set your boundaries. When a man asks you to marry him tell him you need your own 2 family home in your own name before you can say yes. If he wants you that badly then he’ll help you buy it so he can be with you. If he has bad intentions to mistreat you in the marriage then he won’t want to help you with an escape plan. This a good way to weed out the good from the bad.
@jahanghir528
@jahanghir528 2 жыл бұрын
Horrible horrible way. Don't EVER demand a man to buy you a house. Go and buy one by yourself!
@amatullahsalafiyah1623
@amatullahsalafiyah1623 4 жыл бұрын
alhamdulillah sister
@bloominggarden906
@bloominggarden906 2 жыл бұрын
5:13 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@jahanzebali589
@jahanzebali589 9 ай бұрын
@hbmcoaching448
@hbmcoaching448 3 жыл бұрын
♡♡♡ May Allah bless you and your family ♡♡♡
@Tina-yy4iz
@Tina-yy4iz Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@ninaadams4713
@ninaadams4713 4 жыл бұрын
@tabasumbashir4434
@tabasumbashir4434 Жыл бұрын
Wa'AlaykumAssalam
@MohammedSaif142
@MohammedSaif142 4 жыл бұрын
Love you mam i am from india
@zubaidasmith4551
@zubaidasmith4551 Жыл бұрын
Your life and Allah (swt) is your Maula. Alhamdullilah
@sidramazhar9641
@sidramazhar9641 5 жыл бұрын
Made me cry
@HitherandYarn
@HitherandYarn Жыл бұрын
You are so right. Think about this: if you allow anyone to destroy the dignity Allah gave you, then you are actually a blasphemer. You are saying to Allah, "You gave women rights, Thanks, but no thanks." This is the height of ungratefulness to Allah.
@mohammadfahim2838
@mohammadfahim2838 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family and all Muslim
@rizvimohamed3978
@rizvimohamed3978 3 жыл бұрын
I can understand of your feelings...
@3boys1family
@3boys1family Жыл бұрын
May Allah give happy Muslim marriages for everyone!
@ibrahimakalilsacko1009
@ibrahimakalilsacko1009 Жыл бұрын
Asalam alikoum, What I find regretful in these kind of videos is that most of the time, the host is not professional and wise enough to inquire about the other party's version. When one only listen to one side, the chances of wrong advices drastically increase. What I say is not to justify any bad behavior or disrespect, it is simply to emphasize the importance of dialogue, and give every concerned party a chance to speak their mind.
@emanhabib5415
@emanhabib5415 Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot May Allah thank you and forgive your sins
@maryammirza2776
@maryammirza2776 3 жыл бұрын
These narcissist men have no right to get married, they need to get therapy first and parents should be aware of the red flags from their children . Parents please spot the early signs and get them treated if you have to and most importantly nurture your children and that's the way you will be able to raise your kids successfully..
@Moon_2024
@Moon_2024 Жыл бұрын
👍
@mamdouhahmad6171
@mamdouhahmad6171 3 жыл бұрын
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله أحزننى جدا ما سمعته فى هذا الڤيديو ، الأمر ببساطة يجب أن يعرف الشخص الذى يريد الزواج ( رجل أو امرأة ) من سيتزوج ، يجب مراقبة سلوك هذا الشخص على الأقل لمدة شهر ، ماذا يفعل وأين يذهب وكيف يتعامل مع الآخرين و و .. إلخ ، ثم هناك اتفاق وشروط لكلا الطرفين ، الزواج حياة ومشاركة ( مودة ورحمة ) هكذا علمنا الإسلام ، غير ذلك ...... ليست حياة على الإطلاق .
@siciidcabdiwahaab3401
@siciidcabdiwahaab3401 Жыл бұрын
Is Sunday alhamdulillah Your brother from somaliland
@respectedlifeisgoodlife.6618
@respectedlifeisgoodlife.6618 2 жыл бұрын
asslamuwalaykum. sister naima. how are you ? hope allah blease you.
@MsMissEA
@MsMissEA 4 жыл бұрын
😙
@assadbarakzai5921
@assadbarakzai5921 Жыл бұрын
Asalam i warch your videos and learn from it as well. I just have question to ask. What do you think about arab women in saudi espiclally like in mecca and madina who wear hijab and abaya but they are very attractive and dont cover their face and stuff with.lot of make up on. Is that permissable in islam because i honestly dont know and would like your opinion. I been to haj and umra it was very distracting for me and it doesnt matter if your married or single the environment there is like hard to focus on the actual purpose of going there. Its almost like hesitant to go there again unless you want go for wrong reasons.
@user-il8ku2xc9z
@user-il8ku2xc9z Жыл бұрын
It's easier said then done w Where is she to go or What is dddjd suppose to do
@mobinrajpura661
@mobinrajpura661 Жыл бұрын
Mobin Rajpura ❤❤❤📖📖📖📖🤲🤲🤲🤲❤❤✍️✍️👌👌🌹🌹🌹
@mihamedabdi7593
@mihamedabdi7593 Жыл бұрын
Me Mohamed abdi
@JalalKhan-oo9ez
@JalalKhan-oo9ez 4 жыл бұрын
ok my dear sister so why do these men do these action...or should I do my own research online?
@oyshee8937
@oyshee8937 3 жыл бұрын
Can you please tell me what the purpose of a muslim woman studying? If she cannot work, if she cannot go to the top university of her country because it is mixed and the segregated university has a lower ranking!!? She has been working hard all her life, she has been locking herself in her room away from the fun that her friends were having because she was so dedicated to her studies and now she finds out that she is not allowed to go to the place that she worked so hard for all her life? Her entire life seems jumbled up now as though the floor beneath her feet has been taken away. She is left motivationless and depressed and anxious every now and then?
@Bas_tet
@Bas_tet 3 жыл бұрын
Who says you can't work or go to the top school
@abc-vj3xl
@abc-vj3xl 3 жыл бұрын
who told you that Muslim women can't work ? Because the first wife of prophet Muhammad pbuh used to be a businesswoman and she used to help prophet financially And yeah we all know that most of the universities has free mixing but it doesn't matter if you prevent yourself from letting into fitnah then no one dares you to distract from your path because if you don't have segregate uni for girls then you should go ahead for study there because its all about of (niyaah) intention if you are strong to your faith and obey your God then you will knowingly never gonna indulge yourself in fitnaah And there is a hadith of the mother of believers Ayeshah (R.A) praised the women of Ansaar because they used to ask about their religious dutiesand did not let shyness stop them from doing that . She said "what good women the womenfolk of the Ansaar were!they did not let shyness prevent them from seeking to understand their religion It doesn't matter at all that what you are studying because if supposed i m biologist then its knowledge will help me to understand Quran knowledge more deeply for example the part of brain that makes the decision to lie study shows region in front of brain become active over lying As Allah says in Quran (96:16) :-A forelock lying sinful As seeking knowledge is obligation to every human being So Muslim women should also not prevent themselves from seeking knowledge if they don't have segregate university for studies than they should ahead with what they have present now May Almighty God bless you Aamin!!!!!
@yasminayas5672
@yasminayas5672 3 жыл бұрын
Work from home
@Abu-Kurdi
@Abu-Kurdi 2 жыл бұрын
Who said muslim women can't have boyfriends or do parties? Yes sister, don't listen to all the toxic men trying to control you and your life! Just be shameless, free mix with the non mahram and have the fun! Who said you can't have a job at an office with men? In fact you can s leep with the boss too, don't listen to the toxic men, Allah created you and gave you the right to be strong and independent!
@muntazur10
@muntazur10 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t understand what qualities those women considered in them before marriage is it materialistic one(social status or praise in terms education or carrier) or in the sight of allah(practicing muslim and have moral qualities mentioned by Allah in the quran).
@ImNotOriginal1
@ImNotOriginal1 2 жыл бұрын
The reason why there's a pandemic of single/divorced Muslims is because they demand too much. What happened to being content with what you have i.e. What Allah has given you? We all have faults and we should try and help each other. If you think you're too good then how can you not expect but to be alone?
@NaimaBRobertTV
@NaimaBRobertTV 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting point! We will be discussing issues such as these on my upcoming podcast, iA. Be sure to tune in.
@MCMKids-hw2mi
@MCMKids-hw2mi 2 жыл бұрын
Most girls would rather be alone then abused lol which is what this video is about (abuse)
@ImNotOriginal1
@ImNotOriginal1 2 жыл бұрын
@@MCMKids-hw2mi Actually the impression women seem to have nowadays is that all men are abusers and so it's better to be alone. How insulting is that? You should base your opinion after knowing someone, not just thinking what they could be like.
@MCMKids-hw2mi
@MCMKids-hw2mi 2 жыл бұрын
@@ImNotOriginal1 every a week a woman is killed. Thats murder, the ending. Certain cultures have abuse inbreeded in them (like the inlaw abuse) its to the point its expected by many women. No, women don't think all men are abusive, they think a concerning amount of men are abusive and men can hide it until after marriage. Thus videos like this. What was wrong with what was said in this video in your opinion? Because from what I understood, she said if you're in an abusive relationship, stand up for yourself. Was there something wrong with that?
@ImNotOriginal1
@ImNotOriginal1 2 жыл бұрын
@@MCMKids-hw2mi See the problem is you make it sound like only bad things are happening to women. Do you really think us men have it easy? Most who die in wars are men; most prisoners are men; most men are failing academically. Why only focus on women's problems? So not "all men but only a concerning amount" makes it sound much better? :P My issue is when the impression given is only women get abused. Do you have any idea how many men have to put up with verbal abuse in a relationship? That if a marriage ends that in almost all cases the woman gets custody of the kids and can stop the Father from seeing them. If issues can't be discussed from both perspectives then you only force the problems to be repressed, until it gets to a point where it explodes and nothing is safe when that happens.
@mihamedabdi7593
@mihamedabdi7593 Жыл бұрын
Went marred to yu
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 4 жыл бұрын
abusive men and women and men and women being ignorant of eahc other is a major problem, feminism telling ppl men and women can't be different when they are is a lie and a huge problem it pushes blind eye ignorance in name of tolerance, one extreme over the other is a trap and shameful. Islam is the balanced middle path.
@dinkdankdoo3035
@dinkdankdoo3035 3 жыл бұрын
Why would anyone be obedient to some entity that doesn't exist?
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