I feel sorry for this man. He must be heartbroken right now, after incurring all those wedding expenses. May The Lord heal him mentally and emotionally.
@ewararabic3 ай бұрын
He can't trust any lady...if so,he might play dirt game
@engkrishnaebaza54904 ай бұрын
Selling fish isn't a sign of failure. It's a business that can grow if she becomes proud of it
@Nana_Buahen4 ай бұрын
She wants money the easy way. Such a lady cannot be satisfied.
@JulieGora-pj2hq4 ай бұрын
@@engkrishnaebaza5490 that's if she knows how to go about it
@rwikhabasumatary85384 ай бұрын
Maybe she needs easy money
@Zazezoo4 ай бұрын
@@Nana_Buahenshe never said that, that’s the commentary! That’s your one shallow interpretation!
@Zazezoo4 ай бұрын
@@rwikhabasumatary8538maybe you do, quit projecting
@Latte-dq1tb4 ай бұрын
These aren’t mistakes. These are a series of manipulative and selfish choices and lies.
@ewararabic3 ай бұрын
True
@draginjaklisuric76584 ай бұрын
HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY!!!!
@Forgive6584 ай бұрын
She didnt do it because she hate the man . I think the great problem was the child .
@fgangat50804 ай бұрын
Always speak the truth.... Don't lie just for worldly pleasures....
@JulieGora-pj2hq4 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯 true
@MahamayaMaiya4 ай бұрын
Truly said 🥰👍🏽!!
@theaeonian26374 ай бұрын
Will you speak truth in the face of death ?
@clino1372 ай бұрын
O
@khadijah35194 ай бұрын
I promise..being DECEITFUL to a loved one..is always unacceptable..at anytime and any where!🌸
@Alegria-Alegria4 ай бұрын
I don't blame him for leaving. Pretending she was a virgin while she already had a child was just too wild.
@catloverfurever0014 күн бұрын
Maybe… but many men do the same and hide their previous children too.
@Pearllllssss3 ай бұрын
The message should be: No one should have physical relationship until they get married
@jetmanjayjay46043 ай бұрын
Good advice!
@royaibrahimi63822 ай бұрын
Wrong
@ipsaggrawal2 ай бұрын
No, but not to be a lier.. Be Honest with everyone around..
@lilianmwangi15284 ай бұрын
All unmarried women gather here! Truth will set you free thats all for now class dismissed!
@thoesibanda77693 ай бұрын
😂
@Miracle777213 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Fatuma-h3s2 ай бұрын
Love this comment 😂
@cherylwilliams97454 ай бұрын
Sad!don't lie to yourself or a man about your child.he will be there if he love you.honesty is very important in your relationship.
@Cccccc-r7h4 ай бұрын
I fell in love with a natural lier once...I was in a relationship for 3/4 years with a married man. It really hurt me badly. I never had a stable relationship ever since ...I still struggle to trust people in general. I've accepted to follow a life on my own and find great peace in nature and caring for animals. I find humans too complicated ... freedom and peace are my main aspirations !
@elliotnewton4 ай бұрын
He's the one who lost a good person in you. I feel sorry for his wife if she doesn't know how unfaithful the husband is. But this should not stop you from getting back in relationships and finding a life partner. Life is complicated but there are many good people out there and have made good families and that's why after 1000s of years, people are still getting married. Open your heart, pray and trust the Creator to present you with the best opportunity.
@lilyvlogs2144 ай бұрын
Seriously being in love with a married man is so stressful you will find one day a good person
@sinachirealestateconsultan45274 ай бұрын
If she had said the truth the man would still marry her,lies in relationship always backfire
@morongwamlilo73124 ай бұрын
It’s clear he is mr wrong to her. 😮
@thoesibanda77693 ай бұрын
Yeeeerrrrr this woman can lie wemaaa
@akm13744 ай бұрын
What does this woman expect..how can u deny your child and that u were not innocent..I would have ran away too she is just a liar, 😅 one lie followed another
@secondte4 ай бұрын
A lesson that you should always he honest in life
@linetbogonko28684 ай бұрын
I always say the truth that's why I am single but happy.
@Zazezoo4 ай бұрын
Truth hurts unfortunately. Humans can’t digest the truth!
@flowieedenn4 ай бұрын
True, i often being asked to sleep together and i refused all the time, and they ran away 🗿
@shahidaakram99494 ай бұрын
@@flowieedenn they will run after sleeping 🛌 also so don’t worry about it you have done ✅
@flowieedenn4 ай бұрын
@@shahidaakram9949 thank you 😇😇😇
@Listopia104 ай бұрын
Same here.... But am happy they don't deserve us ❤
@paolar.64082 ай бұрын
The best way is to wait with those things till marriage. Virginity is a holy priceless thing.
@radhikaschwartz34992 ай бұрын
You still live in the middle aged
@fatouceesay67944 ай бұрын
The truth shall set us free!
@sanumayaghale56654 ай бұрын
Being a single mother is so complicated life whether tell the truth or lies it’s same better try to get skillful in any work and financially strong all kind of man will fall in love with you
@jeconiashangase91774 ай бұрын
How can someone hide such a big secret,but something that you can never hide forever?I was going to do the same thing the man did.
@TY-bb5qb4 ай бұрын
She knew exactly what she was doing, she lies for a living and from the beginning of her life
@yvettekinchking88384 ай бұрын
26 and started lying from the onset. There was never going to be any good coming from her deception. I wouldn't want my son to marry her..
@raydeemed3 ай бұрын
He did the right thing, if it was me i would press charges at the police station, thats fraud that led to financial loss.
@stevenleabon80324 ай бұрын
What we do really does affect others 😢 Jesus heal her and this man. ❤❤Jess x
@NadineDunia3 ай бұрын
Truth will always set you free! Always be truthful
@eniyachibiliti66654 ай бұрын
That will be the first thing I will tell him even if there 5 children I can not hide them
@Zazezoo4 ай бұрын
You can’t hide 5 kids, that’s a lot 😅 I have 3, most men don’t mind unless they are insecure … She was desperate, wanted acceptance, she was young and in love!
@eniyachibiliti66654 ай бұрын
@@Zazezoo you can hide even if it one u can not
@Mic-micluv4 ай бұрын
I pretty agreed with being honest but some men are not mature in character , yes they will use it to mock. U
@eniyachibiliti66653 ай бұрын
@@Mic-micluv it's better to mock than hide
@namulipraise47824 ай бұрын
We should always speak the truth about our past the one who is meant to be yours will remain even after knowing who you are and what you did
@tshidisomoiloa81644 ай бұрын
Why not continue the future with those who you entertained in your past? Men don't owe women understanding for past actions
@ousainoubah3 ай бұрын
Wow this is very sad story in my opinion he really need to try and find space in his heart and forgive her. I hope she’s learning from her mistake.
@adachi59603 ай бұрын
THANKS FOR NOT NOT BEING TOO SHAMEFUL TO SHARE THIS AS A LEARNING EXPERIENCE WITH OTHER YOUNG ADULTS; BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. GOD WILL SEND ANOTHER MEANT TO BE HUSBAND TO. I DO NOT BLAME THE YOUNG MAN EITHER ,
@gofaonembojane30504 ай бұрын
Truth saves lives and it’s good for your own sanity
@user_784-d3m4 ай бұрын
well said!
@Liz-id7hdАй бұрын
This happened to someone I know. He thought the lady was a virgin. She told him she lost it at 16 but they already got married. He tried so hard to stay but he lost his trust for her. They divorced after 2 years.
@cookwithevevoon25184 ай бұрын
She made a mistake by not telling the truth from the very beginning. 😢
@ninawaryaro94154 ай бұрын
Lying can cause alot pain and heartbreak
@nehemiembombo99123 ай бұрын
I would've have done the same if i was the husband. The way i hate dishonesty Just tell the truth at the beginning ,this man really loved her he still might have married her . This is a big lesson to all of us
@sherieash12804 ай бұрын
MANY WOMEN IN TANZANIA LIE ABOUT NOT HAVING A CHILD.
@maureenmamagift4 ай бұрын
l can't hide my child....My child , my life
@TikaramSonar-w3w4 ай бұрын
If i can get visa easily i love to die with african singlemom and whole life together
@TikaramSonar-w3w4 ай бұрын
Love is everything for me not virginity
@lizcharles21214 ай бұрын
Am a single mom and can never lie about my child. She is my whole life
@TikaramSonar-w3w4 ай бұрын
@@lizcharles2121 come here in my country im with you
@Tradewithme3603 ай бұрын
A relationship built on lies will never stand. Stop hurting people out of your our selfish decisions
@NewLifeJourney2427 күн бұрын
Exactly why I'm divorcing my husband. He lied to me. He had a wife and kids in Nigeria, married me, and we had kids, and he was trying to abandon us and go marry again in Nigeria to a young girl. The betrayal and deceit.
@gladysoyeabo25174 ай бұрын
Sad and heartbreaking
@kmipos4 ай бұрын
Truth will always set you free
@carolyagou88744 ай бұрын
She built her own bridges
@angelgadon-fu2fv2 ай бұрын
Be honest for any relationship..love your self,respect your self..
@kudiratmuyibi-ys9zl2 ай бұрын
Always be Truthful in any relationship ❤
@Hander2014 ай бұрын
When you love someone, you won't like to them
@chiedzakatsande59494 ай бұрын
Ayas These people be lying like crazy How were you planning to prove that you are not a virgin ?
@bethshebankandu13954 ай бұрын
The Bible says... Say the truth and the truth shall set you free. This's a lesson to all the Single Moms out there, a Man who truly loves you will love you for you and accept you as you are and your child.
@asiaminja35562 ай бұрын
Pole sana binti yetu umejifunza sasa pambana Mungu atakusaidia ulee mtoto wako
@Savebygrace-it4 ай бұрын
I know a lady whose baby had more than 5 fathers. The wickedness in people. And all the men were supporting that child.
@elliotnewton4 ай бұрын
Hope she's learnt and changed and I pray that her life will change for better so that her child may never lack. We need to learn from these stories. Honesty is very important in relationships and cheating or using anyone is never good for all actions lead to consequences.
@maryamumar62803 ай бұрын
I told my husband everything the second week we meet,, because i don't want to lose him after getting him.i told him if he wants to live let it be now.and to tell you honestly he even love's me better after that day.
@kwihanganadavid83954 ай бұрын
You 're a beautiful girl even you deserve good guy but lying up to this level is the worst habit for human being.
@donnah53784 ай бұрын
My ex lied to me all through our courtship and I never found out until after marriage. Trust died and marriage ended
@sserwangaemmanuel40394 ай бұрын
It's only the truth which can set you free
@kimbellacrochet624 ай бұрын
I understand her actions and his as well. It’s best to divorce instead of living a lie
@reginadavid44544 ай бұрын
Before we go far first thing is to tell you that i have a kid that one i can’t hide
@FatBellyChemist123415 күн бұрын
Keep the baby she will get out of this with her child there are many kind guys out there.
@rabellalioni65904 ай бұрын
I feel so sorry for you lady. I hope you learned from your mistakes.
@frankn.36504 ай бұрын
I was finished with my marriage over the weekend. I returned home for lunch time her x- partner was in my apartment. Within weeks I refused to return home.
@lilyvlogs2144 ай бұрын
Sad to hear about you
@Nia-Kenia4 ай бұрын
This kind of woman will choose a man over her own child
@Noble-light014 ай бұрын
She made a mistake because of the trauma from previous men who were cowards she dated. But her husband never loved her, he married her for virginity, she should not be hard on herself but move on Edit: I am from this part of the world, I know a lot of men obsessed with virginity and will do anything for it.
@mercy-t9z4 ай бұрын
Her husband love her, but she lied. Honesty is the foundation of a good and lasting relationship.
@juliatripp20104 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. Yes, she was wrong for lying but a man who marries you based on your 'purity,' isn't in love with you, but with the idea of your virginal status. I wouldn't have allowed the lie. But I can tell you, the truth will get you denied earlier regardless
@jeconiashangase91774 ай бұрын
I doubt that is truth.The man did not ask for virginity,but she is the one who said she is.The man respected her and did not touch her,based on her "purity". She denied having a child,trying to benefit from the man's wealth,and the man did not say anything about someone who has a child and not being a virgin.She is the one who came up with all those lies. If she can lie so much just for the sake of benefiting,how can you trust someone like that in future?Let us be fair to the man.This girl lied even before the man propoaed to her.Even in her previous relationship she lied about having one affair while dating and sleeping with both men.
@tcampbell11064 ай бұрын
@Happy-tu3ro She is not sensible as far as men are concerned. The trauma you talk of is of her own doing. She realised that the first guy was poor. To me, She didn't take any time to get to know him before they slept together. If someone is poor that is something that would be difficult to hide. If he was poor as she said and that was something that did not suit her. Why didn't she end the relationship? Then she met another guy to add to the first guy. Clearly sleeping with both of them without protection. She doesn't mention if this one is poor also. What is the reason to have and sleep with two men at the same time? She has no respect for either of these men and no respect for herself or her body. No surprise then that neither men want to own the pregnancy. You say the men where cowards? If the lady is happy to have unprotected relationships with any man without any commitment, loyalty, love or morals. How would you blame the men to go there and enjoy themselves? 🤣🤣🤣 She never had any standards for herself before pregnancy. So now you want the men to have standards for her now she has had a child. By her own admittance she does not know who the father is. If DNA could prove which man was the father. He should take responsibility for his child. Or she might embarrass herself that someone else is the father. I agree with you with the last part of your statement. The husband didn't really love her. She was trying to position herself to have some financial stability. So she would have done anything to please that man. The ex husband probably thought that he would be getting a sweet, naïve impressionable woman who he would be able to continue to mould to his liking. Even if he did accept her lies she would not have been happy in that marriage.
@linihamid92564 ай бұрын
To me if a woman claimed to be virgin, the man would definitely think she has the quality expected of her in keeping her purity, may be due to his religious belief or cultural practise. Hence, can't blame him for losing his trust on the woman as his respect towards her has been tarnished. Not to question his love for her.. but once his expectations of her is gone, so does his trust and respect for her. Its better to deal with it early than later.
@kharsumajibon27202 ай бұрын
And here i am very honest and genuine but still single😅
@Thuon_2 ай бұрын
This woman just don't know the kind of pain she inflicted on the man, immeasurable, unmatched, and comes with a lot of anger. I've been there and walked out peacefully.
@NangulaUahengo90s4 ай бұрын
But my gender also, why the hell would you be sleeping with two guys at the same time unprotected? What do you think will come out of it? Why do we like to put ourselves in situations like this?
@elliotnewton4 ай бұрын
Good questions here. That's why we still have diseases finishing our people.
@FemiBonojo-t4q3 ай бұрын
That's good for her. All liars will reap their rewards.
@ssam38264 ай бұрын
Bible says never to have sex before marriage. Also, honesty is very essential. She made both these mistakes.
@Info.otherchannel4 ай бұрын
Really the Bible says this. Sex before Marriage is a common thing in Christian Countries
@ssam38264 ай бұрын
@@Info.otherchannel Its common doesn't mean its right. Bible does say that its for marriage.
@Highlyblessed_favored3 ай бұрын
@@Info.otherchannelstop spreading lies. Fornication is an abomination to the Lord. The Bible clearly says it. The Body is the temple of God and those who are fornicating and any other sexual sin, they are in sin
@Info.otherchannel3 ай бұрын
@@Highlyblessed_favored You used the word Temple. Obviously It's Paganism
@Highlyblessed_favored3 ай бұрын
@@Info.otherchannel 😂😂😂 🤦🏿♀️ so, you're going to pick apart English and it's synonyms to justify your doctrine? Lord have mercy on us all. A fallen generation that is hostile to God. I do not condemn you, far be it for me a sinner to judge my fellow brothers and sisters.
@vino-zb2qi4 ай бұрын
Once a liar ,always a liar. 😭
@jeremiahmsemwa83233 ай бұрын
The truth is difficulty but sets you freely
@Anotid3 ай бұрын
Always say the truth....trust issues are difficult....
@mairamaira56114 ай бұрын
If the tables where turn around she could have accepted him, African women is high time we also know our worth.
@harajukabarbie15814 ай бұрын
This is the comment I was looking for. You'll even see her fellow women telling her to bear it.
@elliotnewton4 ай бұрын
I think here, it's about choice. If you want a virgin, go for one (though hard to find nowadays), if you can bare being with a single parent, go on but if you can't, whether MALE or FEMALE, marriage can never be forced on you. Let everyone know their worth and knowing our worth is not allowing our bodies to be used as commodities or sexual objects to please anyone who wants or has money and if possible, stay a virgin till marriage to avoid all problems like disease, unplanned children and other disappointments. All actions whether good or bad have outcomes/consequences.
@thoesibanda77693 ай бұрын
Yebooooooo louder Volume Please
@shyletlupa54534 ай бұрын
She was greedy and selfish. She learnt her lesson the hard way .i feel so for the man's wedding expenses
@meru75914 ай бұрын
good for you.. relief is real pleasue
@safinaiqbal94154 ай бұрын
If she stopped lying to everyone her life would have been great,she's only got herself to blame.
@veda-songbird18154 ай бұрын
Honesty🎉is 💯
@winngriff4 ай бұрын
Are you telling me that long dress and head wrap does not equate to morality?
@sharonclarke53714 ай бұрын
I have no sympathy for this woman she is a pathological liar.
@JulieGora-pj2hq4 ай бұрын
Yes how can she have a relationship with 2 men at the same time nobody in their right mind will do things like that
@mboizkimondiu4 ай бұрын
i love your thinking and I think we have the same character I wish I cud meet you in person
@barbarapitcher20424 ай бұрын
Yes, i agree
@coolegiel1204 ай бұрын
@@JulieGora-pj2hq That is just cheating to be honest and now she wants us to feel sympathy for her when she lied again. I think she is just a golddigger when she found out her boyfriend was poor she had no problem going to another man, cheating is a choice and lying is also no matter what country you come from.
@shishiranair40954 ай бұрын
This woman is cunning. I feel sorry for that man. How can a mother hide from someone that she gave birth to a child ? She is a mean woman. She dated two men at the same time , then she told lies to her husband about her past.
@lightdweller4 ай бұрын
I can’t blame that man. Very very deceitful. I’d been divorced in 45 minutes if you ask me.
@nobuhlekhumalo19033 ай бұрын
The truth shall set you free!
@hdmotsadi4 ай бұрын
I thought she is 17
@NaWinC12 ай бұрын
Pity on you!! Be patient and honest , you will get some opportunity in future again like the wealthy husband. This time don’t be greedy, be natural
@mubasshirabubakar2 ай бұрын
This is the problem with modern age, which is always against early marriage but not against early adultery , in the name of feminism which end up only hurting the women who the feminist are saying they are trying to help
@switysalim99103 ай бұрын
Its life my mother did the same, she got married and never disclosed about me anyway long story short he later found out anyway i dont care what happened am living my life as she lives hers😊😊
@joshuamassawe24743 ай бұрын
May the LORD heal them both
@Brecomug4 ай бұрын
God have mercy
@mariemunzar64743 ай бұрын
Hiding she had a child and saying she was a virgin! What on earth made her think this would go down well.
@PandaHead6023 ай бұрын
She tried coming up n one lol 😂😂 I had leave him 😂 the other left u too lol
@Lololi083 ай бұрын
We advise ppl in our church to always tell the truth about their past. Discovering the truth layer on destroys marriages
@Life_is_Awesome_Civil4 ай бұрын
She is very chalak bro 😂😂😂 👸
@wendyshoowaiching41614 ай бұрын
Honesty is important. Also show the man didn't genuinely loves her. He couldn't accept any flaws in the relationship. And in nature relationship is not flawless.
@thoesibanda77693 ай бұрын
These lies were too much n uncalled for 😅
@Kenyan_Duke4 ай бұрын
Stories that hurts
@Pearllllssss3 ай бұрын
بسم ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيم In the name of Allah, the most compassionate, most merciful قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ ﴿1﴾ Say: He, Allah, is One, اللَّهُ الصَّمَدُ ﴿2﴾ Allah is He on Whom all depend, لَمْ يَلِدْ وَ لَمْ يُولَدْ ﴿3﴾ He begets not, nor is He begotten, وَ لَمْ يَكُن لَّهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدُ ﴿4﴾ Nor has He any equivalent.
@samsonmusesa98362 ай бұрын
Nobody is perfect Romans 3:10, It's not normal to tell lovers we meet, our past. But it's very important to tell them that we have a child or children from our previous relationships.
@marlenesworld3912 ай бұрын
26 ni mtoto mdogo bado. Bado atapata watu wengi
@winniealwayo7006 күн бұрын
Hehehe. There's certain things you can not lie about .Honesty pays in the end
@NondoKadzi4 ай бұрын
A good man will understand your trauma, dust yourself and move on girl, your future success is coming from God, your creator
@ainarini2383 ай бұрын
People says black are not beautiful.... Just look at her... Without expensive makeup she is a true beauty... But her deed is not😮
@amourgagnetoujours4 ай бұрын
In all that I feel bad for her child
@marshmallow07234 ай бұрын
I know she lied but if he truly loves her than he would have given her a chance
@anitasurya12753 ай бұрын
Lies won't fix things
@babukar96334 ай бұрын
How can i contact her
@joanafelix56464 ай бұрын
Iwill never ever lie about my child They are my all Ihave 4 children iam 33yrs My biological kids are 2 but these other 2 are my late sister's they're twins before iwas asingle mom itold my now boyfriend that ihave 4 kids he shud accept my situation or not then i move before we start dating.
@PhillipHenson-u3z4 ай бұрын
That's why it's extremely important truly get to know each other before rushing a relationship and marriage. It happens more often these days. I don't know you you d know me but let's get married? Think before you say the oath I do.
@jeannemolinari92114 ай бұрын
In certain continent, people choose to lies like lies is part of being successful. I have live around people who lies all the time l have seen this people defeating themselves from the beginning to the end with their lies. Iies doesn’t give you peace. Tell the truth and have peace so please young lady just learn from your mistake that’s all you can do now .