After 20 Years of Marriage, I'm Divorcing My Wife for Sleeping With Multiple Men Behind My...

[@legiontepes3474]

Story 1: my heart is with op. His hs sweetheart turned out to be a garden tool for the whole neighborhood.

[@P3rsoNYX]

Garden tool is crazy

[@Vinn_Tree]

Hold up she was still friends with the mfer she slept with? Damn thats disrespectful

[@cloudydays6374]

Story 2: I’m glad that OP and the boyfriend were able to communicate like a normal couple instead of it blowing up into a massive screaming match or something

[@tommyseux2047]

Yeah that's what i was fearing for them... i mean it would be sad to throw a relationship over a car... coming from a carguy

[@mannyparrilla1807]

With story 2 I've realized 'we' as people asume malice more often then we should, either to protect ourselves or something but yeh

[@theseeker9442]

"Its normal to sleep with others during a LDR" "Well did you both agree to exclusivity?" Absolute horse shit things to say about this situation and the few redditors who said and asked that are awful people

[@peturf1788]

OP shouldn’t throw his marriage away over a few mistakes? Like, 10+ mistakes?

[@asnalem4391]

Omg in the second story I was fully expecting the guy to blow up at her, not only was he understanding he was also prepared to defend her against his family, W guy hubby material.

[@Thaddius0]

she was cool with cheating before marriage, 10 years into marriage, 20 years into marriage, and grumpy she couldnt keep cheating during divorce proceedings... damn she defines the streets

[@TelManothHexperax]

i agree with him ... if she think soo little about cheating and gazlight him like that, her moral and value didnt match with him and they can't be together . after the eddit ... ho yeah she cheat after the marriage too ... she cleary didnt understand what fidelity mean and don't think mutch of it anyway ... she need 2 therapy session to understand that her cheating in the past hurt him ...

[@TheHungandtheHanging]

My family is telling me that it's ok if my wife cheats on me and that I should just role with it I hope that the next time OP sees any of these fucked up family members, he ingrans the idea of there significant other cheating on them and if they'd want to stay with them after they found out

[@jbcroos918]

Or tell the uncles to pass the aunties around

[@PunkEnergy88]

Whoever thinks cheating while being in a long distance relationship is okay, needs to get their brains checked. There is no excuse that would make it okay.

[@belmont9]

Story 1. get a focking paternity test

[@alfieshepherd9771]

Why? His kids are already adults & as he said they're his children, regardless if they are biologically related or not.

[@belmont9]

@@alfieshepherd9771 knowledge

[@YungPrincedaGuru]

@@alfieshepherd9771she could still be sued (potentially jailed) for paternity fraud.

[@mh518]

@@alfieshepherd9771 They are not his kids if they're from another man and also you'd want closure regardless?

[@JamieJosef]

@@mh518if you think that makes them not his kids despite having raised them for 19+ years, you’re going to absolutely lose your mind when I tell you about this thing called adoption. That knowledge is useless and does nothing to change his status as their dad. Don’t need closure for something that is already ending or was never open

[@Top-G35]

Story 2 , sounds like she found a keeper, hopefully they work together and continue to have a good relationship

[@Demyxu]

I like how the kids immediately thought the dad cheated lol

[@KarmaTube5]

Story 1: that’s no small mistake. Cheating is cheating

[@royal-wolf]

Story 2: FINALLY ADULTS COMMUNICATING LIKE ACTUAL ADULTS!!!

[@MrMK211516]

Yeah, that's too many things to ignore. Wife telling op not to sleep around, go to his prom with his friend, Dead bedroom, AND a date. You can't expect the homie to look past all that when you weren't willing to let him go to his prom.

[@SayanOfRagnarok]

She still intentionally paraded you in front of them when she decided to *intentionally lie to you and make you think you were exclusive.* She preferred you potentionally embarrassed yourself at a party in front of a room full of guys she slept with instead of telling you the truth and embarrassing herself. That's the definition of intentional

[@chessieray1465]

I would really like to have someone that sides with the STBEX please explain this logic to me, because I don't understand.

[@jacobmariscal7457]

Me and my wife were long distance and we were faithful to each other and didn't fool around because we knew we were meant for each other

[@PsychoMachado]

Saw a story that share similar premise. Couple got together in HS, got on a long distance during college, he asked if she wanted a break during college and she said not. Later on he found out she had slept around during college. His mother and sister (who was also married, with a kid and expecting another) were blaming him and dismissing it while his father, uncle and brother were on his side. Then they all found out his sister also cheated on her husband. And then later they also all found out the mom had cheated on his dad. But now I don't know which story is the fabricated one or if they are both fake with just the same premise. Probably the latter.

[@TelManothHexperax]

remenber that story and i think, cheater stik together because that validate their own cheating if it's " not that bad since everybody do it too " . in the end and we see it here, it's their value the most important , if she belitle cheating and think it's ok to do it "if this or because that " they will cheat one day and find their own excuse in their mind . when you have close people to you cheating ... look who take side of the cheater and you will know their value . it's true on reddit and irl .

[@joy4themightydonutchainsaw620]

5:09 After hearing this she’s definitely in the wrong. Like it was already bad but now she’s a hypocrite.

[@alikabright1224]

Story 1: the people trying to tell op that it’s normal to sleep around when you’re in a long distance relationship and that op is the odd ball are disgusting, weak willed, and pathetic.

[@moomoozebra]

Def was getting gas lit. It's not ok to cheat regardless

[@Turnmeupphil]

Nah 10 on the low end is crazy

[@kaitotatsuya]

Story 2: Wait, it's that simple ..you're telling me that talking like an adult solves things????

[@alexuz93]

Story 1: if OP’s wife really thought that what she did was normal in college then she wouldn’t have hid it from OP and lied about it. The fact that she was so unapologetic or remorseful is horrible. She most definitely cheated during the marriage.

[@oofroboxislit]

Story 1 the most fucked up thing is EX wife strung him along and she introduced OP to 3 of the affair partners

[@TheHillkiwon3000]

She kept him from sleeping around so she could

[@keishaizawesome2836]

Cheating isn't a mistake, it's a mfn choice.

[@FlipflopB]

Reading the names of the commenters is cracking me up. Glad you included what “mofugly13” had to say 😂

[@DemonLucifer875]

Story one relatives saying its not big deal must send their wives to console op

[@lodunost]

Story 1: No it's not normal to have relations with others during a long-distance relationship. The only way would be if you had an agreement. I wouldn't though it just invites issues. Someone who lied to you for so long wants to tell you that it's normal. Yeah, same with those that are telling you that it's normal. Those people are all toxic and I wouldn't have any contact with them after that. They are adults and if they don't get it at this point in life then there is little hope with them.

[@kalafj8124]

If STBX could cheat just because her partner isn't monitoring/knows about her actions, then she could possibly cheat again because she has no integrity

[@teddicusboozicus8017]

Story1: 20 years down the drain. Don’t get married fellows, or this could happen to you.

[@SirYappington3]

Yeah. And if you ask for a prenup and you get the “you don’t trust me!! You’re planning divorce!!!!!” Talk run.

[@Tamara_Middleton]

Long distance relationships are bogus!

[@jayjay854-l7d]

yeah if u have a agreement but come on still friends with them, u did something wrong and u didnt even say sorry and u didnt think saying ur wrong and try to save ur marriage?? wtf wrong with this wife

[@davidcampos6038]

Damn my boi but yeah it's dead it's better to just move on you still got some years left hit the gym and save money life will be better. I understand where she is coming from but let's be honest most guys in that situation would have gave there girl the car if it was the other way but it's still your to do with at you like, plus he should have gotten his money up before getting in a relationship.

[@Thehistorygeographyandflagnerd]

Damn

[@no101]

I hope ops Bf in the second story finds a better partner.

[@itzaadam78]

why would she pay 3 grand taxes for her bf and nothing on return

[@itzaadam78]

@@Shouroboros tm

[@mh518]

@@itzaadam78 Because that's how a relationship works? Your girlfriend not loving you doesn't mean it has to be like this for everyone else?

[@itzaadam78]

@@mh518 no u have never been in a relationship have u u dont give 15k after paying 3k in tax when u have just left uni and beed to pay off loans ur so stupid

[@tanvirarif7865]

Story 2 louser man. Can't buy a car why have a gf😂😂😂

[@StreetWarrior24]

*loser

[@jamieholland3853]

Love the stories but please find some less known ones, ive seen almost all of them

[@jsullivan649]

Dude 50 shades isn’t “BDSM”, it’s rape, bdsm is based on respect and listening to your partner… that book glorified rape, period.

[@ravenID429]

…how

[@jsullivan649]

@@ravenID429 read the book, repeatedly demeans her, insults her and forces her into situations she didnt want or consent too. literally the antithesis of BDSM culture.

[@goneloko1368]

My only problem with story 2 is this: Had the roles been reversed, how would the OP have reacted? Given the tendencies of women, she would have turned into a bitter woman if he acted as she did. Marriage doesn't fix past issues, she will still be that same way going into a marriage life.

[@JuanSanchez-rv9xy]

Aren’t you assuming a bit too much?

[@lucacastellaro1615]

First story Op Is a doormat

[@mohoejegi4876]

do you need a hearing aid ?

[@ravenID429]

*huh*

[@BelgotLeons]

Ldr are not a permission to cheat unless you're in a polyamourous relationship

[@FollowTheWhiteRabbit_5789]

S1: honestly the wife is so disgusting... flirting with her co-worker and even going on a date with him when she's literally married.. glad OP divorce her cheating ass

[@boblee7998]

Story 2 There was a compromise thqt could have happened to pretty much make everyone happy, and op should spole up about the car infront of everyone lile a big girl. But im glad they talked it out like normal humans instead of getting al upset. Also seems like she isnt that into him really lol

[@fuchsiasecret120]

Wow... so in 20+ yrs you never talked tonyour friends about college??? That to me alone is a red flag because how do you not discuss your college years with your friends??? Is this the first time the 2 of you have ever been alone and drinking with people youwould discuss collwge with??? That is also a red flag to me because your partner is obviously trying to avoid telling you something

[@gnaedigerfels]

Are you really victim blaming here ? What is wrong with you

[@spacexghost888]

Right. He's so dramatic.

[@spacexghost888]

@@gnaedigerfelsMen do it to women all the time. Get over it.

[@notting2640]

@@gnaedigerfels Never underestimate women’s ability to avoid accountability 😂

[@gnaedigerfels]

Imagine your wife cheats on you with 20+ fucking dudes and she has the audacity to blame you ?@@notting2640