After Finding Out My Wife Was Sleeping With Her Boss, I Sent a Revenge Cake to Her Office with...

After Finding Out My Wife Was Sleeping With Her Boss, I Sent a Revenge Cake to Her Office with a Picture of Them Together Printed on it.
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[@juanhaines7295]

I heard this one before. Serves her right. Also so many therapists blame the husband when the wife cheats. There people should not be in charge of people's mental health.

[@muhammadaqiefluqmanbinmohd6017]

Does anything happen after what the video ended with

[@Maninawig]

They also blame the man when the man cheats. If I was OP, I'd definitely mentionned how she spent the hour blaming him, cause that would be good fuel to know in a character witness. "In my professional opinion, I did find OP cold and unwilling to reconcile the marriage, but I cannot find fault in his personality." "And of all the questions you asked, how manywere directed towards my client? Would it not be more common to focus the questions, at least in equal portion, towards the adulterer? ..... So you spent the hour trying to find fault in my client for the opponent's sake and yet still resulted in finding no fault. No further questions." Surviving a Witch hunt ftw

[@H4V3N]

It’s like whores wanna be therapists

[@akam9919]

They are there for the marriage, not for you.

[@ronwatford7331]

​@@akam9919and in their minds, the woman runs the marriage. It's never been true.

[@Seafor-v4l]

"Here's your cake, eat it!" Is an absolutely brutal line to serve with

[@Ashley_Not_Here]

That is petty to the next level and im here for it call it my toxic trait if you want but its true 😌

[@mnomadvfx]

@@Ashley_Not_Here Petty is one thing, but petty at the cost of assets/alimony risk is just masochism, bordering on nihilism.

[@RepellentJeff]

“Here’s your cake, now eat it.” You magnificent motherf***er. 😂

[@wingadept8793]

"You have been served." Dude I can't! XD

[@AZ-dj1ni]

​@@wingadept8793cherry on the cake😂😂

[@viciousrape]

"honey, this is the 21st century. a woman can have her cake and eat it too!" I'm sorry. that line there warrants any treatment she gets.

[@LukeLane1984]

With treatment, you mean an orbitofrontal lobotomy, right? I agree.

[@akam9919]

Can't entirely blame her for saying that, as it is unfortunately true. The real blame should be placed on politicians, feminist activist organizations/coallitions, the government, corporations, and really any and every force out there trying to modify and dictate the dynamics and nature of people's personal lives and relationships. Marriage and divorce should not even be government business.

[@BIGBLOCK5022006]

Me: "Yeah, it may be the 21st century, but in some cultures, they make adulterers become what George Orwell would call a "Unperson."

[@bib4eto656]

I'm a 21-century woman and I'd like this sorry excuse of a person to f*ck all the way off. And then imagine saying "boohoo I got influenced by someone else boohoo" no girl, it was all within you, they just justified the fcked up things you wanted to do. Women rights is about opportunity to make decisions about your own life, not about abusing your spouse.

[@arthaiser]

@@akam9919 at the end of the day it is her blame to take. the entire world can become as crazy as it wants, but ultimately everyone is still responsible for their actions.

[@heheheha1997]

Marriage court is the most fucked shit ever. Whole system needs to teared down and rebuilt. The fact that you can have all the evidence of cheating and your spouse can just brazenly admit to it and mock you for it but you still have to prove you're reasonable because you're a man and she's a woman is so fucked.

[@dezmodium]

its because the system is built around the idea that there be stability in the family so more workers can be created so it wants to incentivize self-sufficient replication of the wokforce

[@reillycurran8508]

It's because of the situations that come to court marriages where the man is at fault are significantly overrepresented. So pure statistical happenstance has programmed a pattern of default "it's the man's fault" into their brains.

[@jerric1228]

Always listen to your lawyer, you hired them for a reason.

[@phatballs3570]

It was worth it tho

[@Hart8]

It was worth it

[@jamegumb7298]

This was too good to pass up though.

[@asw654]

Just a bit of marriage counseling to pay? Worth it.

[@koltynromero435]

Okay but that fucking “here’s your cake! Eat it!“ would be worth so much money lmao only get to do that a few times if ever in your life

[@Rj-ij6ko]

I really love how he didn’t let the councillor or his wife try to blame shift. “It takes 2 people to cause a rift” “Yeap her and her boss” Love that line lol. The councillor just wants Op and his wife to reconcile because it’ll look good on their resume to say they helped fix a marriage.

[@Lt_Koro]

such a shame that stuff like the cake is making trouble for people like OP. that shit was hilarious

[@arcadius3257]

"Normally i'd tell the other attorney to pound sand" Lmao

[@Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets]

It shows how broken marriage is if a woman can so brazenly say that kind of stuff about how they'll win everything despite being a giant sack of crap. The only reason why OP got out relatively unscathed was because it was an at-fault state. Everywhere else she would be absolutely right, and she would have won despite annihilating the marriage contract. Anyway why are marriages and relationships dying in the west?

[@athrunmoza8996]

Cuz their law and bad behaviors. You probably know by now how much a shit hole US is atm.

[@NazzyDragon]

(((Those People)))

[@alwaysright3943]

Already long dead my friend.

[@curiousconfused]

Relationships aren't the things dying, it's people not rushing into things so fast. Everyone thinks being in a relationship is the most important thing in the world, so they rush into marriage thinking it'll fix everything. 100 years ago, a woman couldn't divorce her husband without his permission too. It was also much more taboo to do so, even if neither parties were compatible. You'd end up stuck in a loveless marriage, and in many cases one party would even unalive the other. Cases like this are why I think prenups are a good idea no matter how long you've already been together, or how much you love each other. It's just to make sure both you and your partner stay safe if you need to divorce for any reasons.

[@antoniotrivelloni8191]

Because this is a culture of selfishness. The whole “have your cake and eat it too” mentality. Not to mention the absolute DEGENERACY and whoring around that is apparently culturally permissible. Cheating is just a thing that happens now, and it disgusts me.

[@winniethepooh5087]

Getting an advice from divorced women about marriage life is soooo sooooo fking dumb. When they tell you what to do instead of what to avoid, you should know they are just trying to make your life miserable. Worthy advice from people who failed is only when they tell you what should be avoided and what should not be done. If they say what you should do always remind your self they are failed from what they were doing.

[@peterherk5216]

If a man were to do all the things OP's wife in this post did and said, he would literally be crucified.

[@isabrom5295]

Depends on the people who listen to the story. Some would idolize him for having the balls to openly sleep with two women (without the wife's consent) and shame him for wanting her back.

[@williamsanders2439]

Definitely would love an update to this story!

[@themandownthehall]

They divorced. She listened to his advice about work and reported the blackmail. She and the 3 women were fired. She for the affair and the women for the blackmail. I think the boss was tossed too but can't fully remember. This one's been covered by a few different readers

[@williamsanders2439]

@@themandownthehall thanx...I figured this story had been around long enough, SOME kind of update had to come!

[@Aeglos15]

You've got to love how she'll do anything to get her (soon-to-be-ex) husband to stick around except be a faithful wife. 💅 It's the 21st century, sweetie. You can be treated like a street walker by guys who couldn't give a damn if you woke up tomorrow much like the boss surely is doing today since that's what you want to do.

[@sugarbeef]

I'm just waiting for one of the guys who gets the "what can I do to fix this?" question to just answer that she can go unfuck the other guy.

[@marthajackson1388]

I listened to this story so many times on so many posts. Lost the husband. Lost the job. Lost the friends. Lost the reputation. When the devil or horrible friends whisper in your ears learn to put an ear plug and ignore it.

[@zdr7420]

So wait, are there more updates to this story then? I wanna know if she took his advice or fell for the blackmail and how the "friends" reacted

[@marthajackson1388]

@@zdr7420 No, I at least haven't ran into an update other than what was told on this story. But I have ran into a couple of similar stories. One convinced the husband to open a relationship so she can sleep with a supervisor and she overheard him talking down on her. By then though the husband was dating this beautiful Asian woman and didn't want her anymore. Also another colleague cheated with the same supervisor and got pregnant. Lost the child and the amazing long term boyfriend. They outted him at work and people were getting fired. Started the same way flirting and attention, etc. The other same thing and the biggest simp story or one of them. Complete disrespect and insult to her husband because magic awesome supervisor gave her attention and gifts. Three way actions. She is Jewish and he had bang Nazi biker gang members and all kind of things and this one took her back. A teacher gets talked by a freaky coworker to join her and rest of coworkers for group activities mind you they end up doing it in her husband cabin. Multiple divorces, multiple termination, she gets cheated on, he moves on and adopt and had a fiance and she is screaming for him to take her back even as a side chick or have them both and self delete after he refused. Bachelorette party and they invite guys over and she forgets to log off the computer while they upload videos. I can keep going. There a lot of common themes. Those that are unfaithful or disrespectful to your relationship or too promiscuous. Cut them off. Recently on reddit there is basically a woman that was helped to hook up with a married by her sister that is wild and doesn't like her husband. They live in a small town. Now everyone knows and she is getting divorced. She can't have kids and helped raise his little boy for the last five or ten years. Now she is cutting the sister off and got served divorce. Her husband also posted and he has a title like john can have her. Even covering for those affairs get you in trouble. There is a video here and you can look it up on reddit. Fiancee Sarah Evelyn Marty. The story should pop up. Several updates.

[@SuperEffector]

For those curious the dog mentioned is probably the Korean Jindo. Absolutely precious looking, I hope OP gets one.

[@muggyate]

I think the better thing to have done would have been to skip the cake and serve the documents to her, HR, her boss and her boss's family in order to completely ruin everything on the other side. I'm sure the lawer suggested it too but clearly he didn't take the advice. Imo, this route would have done way more damage than just an emotional gut jab but this had been ultimately OP's decision to make. Hope things work out well for him in the future.

[@MrToubrouk]

TL;DR: OOP serves cake to 21st century garbage. Hilarity ensures.

[@Nameless82284]

Yeah, I heard of feminists saying that it's empowering for a woman to not be in a monogamist relationship because it's "slavery" and if her husband is against it then he is seen as "controlling"

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

21st century garbage 😂 i love that

[@dre3425]

I learned this the hard way. I would tell my girlfriend about my work life and she literally got mad that people at work spent more time with me than her on the week days.....like WTF. I stopped telling her about my work life. A few months later she complained again to me about my lack of telling her about my work life......

[@Yoiyoi-ln3ko]

😂

[@ronwatford7331]

Damned if you do...

[@smashbother5684]

Lawyerbro MVP.

[@TaoT-T]

6:00 and then when that cake is laced with laxatives, said woman cannot complain about the consequences. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Hate these types of people who give others (in this case women) a bad reputation.

[@Sushi_Cat2793]

Wait like a literal cake?

[@tashoncoleman5480]

Yep

[@Sushi_Cat2793]

@@tashoncoleman5480 damn

[@diffuusio4852]

The cake was worth it even in the hindsight. Without the cake there would have been no justice. Now she actually have to pay for her actions (literally it seems).

[@maxtortarum4657]

“It takes two people to create a rift in marriage” Yeah.. her and her boss This shit made me laugh so Hard! 😂😂😂

[@Heemster6]

Bro cooked with the revenge ngl

[@elanob4539]

The way I CACKLED on the cake bit 😂

[@A-Lore6000]

"It takes 2 people to create a rift in a marriage" "Yeah, she and her boss" Bro is a savage

[@Lofirainv2]

he never had a wife he only had rude room mate

[@JocheProHD10]

what is it with female co-workers and talking wives into cheating on their husband?

[@sabsab878]

Misery loves company

[@Ebonheart2319]

Projection, Sabotage, Cutthroat Office Politics, Jealousy, Schadenfreude. They convinced her to nuke her milquetoast marriage, then bilked her with blackmail to turn the knife. Guarantied the "Have your cake" line came from them verbatim.

[@C.G.Gaster]

Some people want to watch the world burn. I want to as well, just not like this.

[@randomusername3873]

My assumption is always that the first one to talk bad about someone's spouse it's the spouse itself The coworkers were just going with the flow

[@buttholesurfer3213]

Miserable, hedonistic degenerates want other people to be miserable, hedonistic degenerates.

[@BENAStudios]

"Treat others the way you want to be treated 💀"

[@MrMK211516]

Lol. Yeah, let's listen to the divorced women about relationships. 🤡

[@warrenhill6623]

Always the cheaters who get suspicious of their partner "hiding something" 😂😂

[@everymoviehero9248]

Most cost-effective cake ever bought, per intended use

[@TheLuc224]

Don't let her explain why. She just wants a chance of being perceived as relatable. She doesn't owe you. She is just using you to make her feel better about herself

[@dravenocklost4253]

Thats it? No real ending just at the family therapy? Wtf

[@cindypicadomolina7814]

Someone said there was an update where they got divorced and his wife and three of her female coworkers were fired. His wife, for the affair with her boss and the other women for blackmail. He won

[@danieltolol]

That line on the cake "Here´s your cake, eat it!" was so amazing! still nuts to me how if this wasn´t a "At-fault" state he would get smashed in court even tho she cheated! absolutely nuts! Anyone know if there has been any recent updates to this story? would love to hear what happend next with the divorce in court or the outcome for the STBXW and her boss or how OP is doing currently.

[@LENORAjindo]

I hope he went back and bought a Korean Jindo puppy. For it is such a loyal dog and it will always be there with you through thick and thin

[@bpaul1201awesome]

Dude is a freaking hero for that cake!

[@sierrajohnson717]

Google says the dog is a “Jindo.” It’s Korean

[@rikukiko]

I don't understand why people in these stories blame others influences as reasons/excuses for their actions. You are always responsible for your actions and why should a married individual listen to a divorces person like they know better how to have a successful marriage? It just boggles my mind

[@charlizesalisbury9913]

What OP should have done is get a friend to send the cake in about 15 minutes before the divorce papers went in. Then he is absolved. He gets his revenge via friend and gets a clean divorce.

[@Erebus04]

It's sad how this story had a cliff hanger

[@mercuriallily]

The dog breed is jindo, they're Korean, and super loyal and friendly and hyperactive. Grew up with two

[@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259]

Why are there so many evil coworkers? The lesson here is shut that down before it starts

[@AECH_CH]

A scrum master is not a manager lol... As a project manager with dev experience I can confirm and understand OPs resentment though.

[@shanebryant6478]

Good line shouldn't have done it could've cost money

[@chrisruffino5168]

Ask that breeder for the rules. Don't feed it after midnight, don't get it wet, and avoid bright lights.

[@iamhector24]

This dude is the OG.

[@suger_gumdrop1392]

To tell you the honest truth Instead of blaming the co-workers coworkers for what you did why don't you blame yourself (no op but the wife) your wife is blaming the co-workers because they told her to cheat. But to tell you the truth she should be the same one to blame herself does she allowed them to manipulate her allowed them to push her in the direction of cheating and literally encouraged it. Not only that she decides to listen to them before shutting them down. I understand manipulation can be very hard to see. But you have to understand that she literally listened to them instead of pushing them away. And here's the thing is they don't know your life they don't know what happens at home they don't know what happens in your guys's daily life so why are there sharing their opinions on if you are good husband or not if they don't even know you. You did the right thing if she is so easy to listen to these toxic friends what else will she believe.

[@tytoalba605]

Hes so lucky it was pre kids, now its just a financial split and a break up with no reason to keep her in his life.

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

Giving her anything is a loss

[@mxm1337]

This is the first time I saw a cheater sending the evidence of her cheating in directly

[@BabyRho]

Let me tell you tell you how that cake would backfire cause if that made her lose her job the judge would have a field day

[@PekebunMager]

I believe its called jindo .. The dog breed, known for its loyalty

[@redwood34]

I can't tell if OOP is leaving out a TON of info, if it's fake, or if it's real and the wife has like a head injury/brain tumor that would seemingly change hee so much. Crazy. If this is all real, totally serves her right

[@Mop222]

Here is your cake, eat it. 😂😂😂 😅😅😅 😂😂😂 😅😅😅

[@ROCKSTAR123620]

He didn't mess it up 😅😅😅

[@torturapesnorrarape]

Amazing karma, should've reported the boss to HR yourself, the fact that he got that shook by the cake stunt meant he was scared of getting pulled down too. Probably was married and would have lost his job as well, to many of these stories don't have any bad karma for the homewreckers.

[@rahulas8653]

Victim blaming needs to stop!

[@Educationmatters.]

The dog breed is "jindo "

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

To any other married women, dont have friends with divorced or single women where they are the ones who cant hold the relationship. Those that had cheating partners know the true value of trust, those thay cheated on their partners dont.

[@twainclarke5755]

Seems in this day and age they rather play dolly in with/in their marriage than committing.

[@mnomadvfx]

"He told me how this could cost me alimony or assets, I didn't care" Said no one with a brain in a divorce ever. Flying off the handle in the heat of the moment is one thing. Doing so with weeks of preparation is just not realistic unless you literally have FU money in the family to play around with. There is zero point in hiring a lawyer if you are just going to ignore their advice.

[@MrMaorosh]

Creative 😂

[@EkayLaive]

Crazy

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

i think it would have been better to do the divorce first then the cake

[@user-wi7yg5bt7n]

Bruh " here's your cake now eat It " Is Absolutely hilarious god @#!$ I felt Like I was gonna !$@# myself 🤣😂🤣🤣

[@Younghoon15]

The dog that he was probably talking about are Jindos. Theyre a korean dog that looks like a husky/shiba inu mix.

[@Rairyuujin]

Classic 👌🏾

[@kossettereaditte7552]

When people who have less than you in an aspect of life that theyre giving you advice about try to tell you how to get more success than you already have in that aspect of life....ask yourself: "If these people are so knowledgable about this topic, why havent they found success in this aspect of life as of yet." Example: The cheating wife listening to 3 divorcees about marriage.

[@stormbacal1105]

Ah the classic "they made me do it"

[@LANCETHEMASTER]

JINDO dogs are korean and they are very loyal so much so they will not take orders or listen to anyone else that doesn't raise them 😂

[@MarSaso]

Are these stories AI written?

[@giantqtipz6577]

this is probably a made up story. Its so elaborate... and most stories on Reddit are made up by writers as a creative exercise...

[@ChestRockwell24]

I don't often pull the "fake" card, but yeah I feel it is probably fake as well. Just the fact he claimed she said "it's the 21st century, women can have their cake and eat it too" made me doubt. I 100% believe there are women who do think that way, but I just don't believe they would actually come out and say it. It sounds like a line written for a cartoon villain

[@Lets_go_to_Italy]

Any updates?

[@ytuser2272]

Updates?

[@lesyeuxsansvisage1157]

His the AH just for buying from a breeder.

[@ooodIbooo]

stbxw - soon to be ex 'wife' ?

[@DatOneSwedishBoi69]

Yeah you've got it

[@kky1797]

AI made this OP sound insufferable. His nitpicking about how she worked from home is weird.

[@Heiura]

STOP TAKING OLDER DIVORCED WOMEN ADVICES !!!! 💀💀💀

[@Vic-pg4rg]

V

[@LordUcchaShrava]

Poor wife

[@treco2583]

As an attorney, I wouldn’t represent him. Absolutely NOT!! What he did was a VERY big deal. I would’ve wished him luck, as I showed him out of my office.

[@arhael3594]

Wuss.

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

Why? He gave her the cake she deserved🥺🥺🥺

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

Amd funny how women can get away with bragging about cheating in their husband's face but men can't even do some humor😂😂😂

[@detectivebones671]

Major coward moment He gave that 21st century trash a wake up call

[@markpahate7019]

Why? It's just showing her the evidence in form she loves. 😁People don't have empathy for the betrayed anymore? 😡

[@VikingMakery]

Friends, this is what happens when modern feminism gets its claws into someone.

[@SP_10_]

Accountability is a women's Kryptonite...😑😑😑

[@buttholesurfer3213]

The relationship advice she received from divorced women backfired? Well color me shocked!

[@ChestRockwell24]

Let us assume the story is 100% true. It didn't backfire. They wanted her to ruin her marriage, they wanted to bring her down to their level. And it worked. To be clear, I'm not making excuses, the wife is not a victim. Rather my point is that the wife acted like her friends made it seem like she could cheat and that the husband would not leave. I don't think they actually believed this, I think they wanted her to get a divorce like them.