AILEEN IS GETTING A SHUT-UP RING (AILEEN AND DEVEN)

Popular KZbin and TikTok couple, Aileen and Devin are unmarried after dating for over a decade . Aileen has expressed her desire to get married via jokes and pranks but Devin is not taking the bait. It doesn't take that long for a man to know. If he wanted to, he would. It's clear that the end is gonna be- a shut up ring or break up

[@jenniferb6196]

Finally someone talked about this. At this point I’m not sure why she hasn’t left.

[@thefeminineeye]

Thanks for watching! I believe its because she has invested so many years already. Sunken cost fallacy

[@jenniferb6196]

It’s so sad. She’s so beautiful, funny and seems like a wonderful person. Any man would be lucky to have her. Why can’t he see this? He’s going to marry the next girl he dates shortly after they split if ever

[@elizabethd5264]

That's not as easy to do. It's like losing a dear family member just because he doesn't wanna get married. It's like a death of a person you knew for so long. And in a total nutshell, a man who proposes to a woman can cheat, but a man who doesn't propose doesn't cheat. So what is more important? It's society that has made a woman worthless if there's no proposal. Life should be so much more than this, especially for women. Women should be praised for having a career, having talent in the arts or science, or starting a business. Women are so much moreeee than a bride or mother. I feel sad for the women's mindset nowadays. Women want marriage mostly for a financial safety bag if the guy leaves. And to fulfill the princess syndrome. Why though? Feels sick. That if a man doesn't propose then a woman is nothing ? Wow that's very sad

[@mkallarry4597]

You are absolutely spot on. He thinks he hasn't found his lover but a friend. So it's between what is safe, comfortable and what is risky but desirable.

[@thefeminineeye]

Thank you for watching ! I 100% agree. Nothing can stop a man from doing what he truly wants (good or bad). If he believed she was his ideal lover, he would have proposed ages ago.

[@sivialove475]

Ngl I’ve been waiting for someone to drop a video on them … I definitely agree with everything you said. It’s so weird that he hasn’t proposed…There’s KZbin couples that I seen that are married and already have 1-2 kids but with Alieen & deven it’s been the exact same..its sad that Aileen has let it play out for this long…like honestly you should know you wanna marry someone by the 2nd year of dating. 12 years is way too long.

[@thefeminineeye]

@@sivialove475 Thanks for watching. I think Deven is pretty clear about what he wants with Aileen...Maybe she's hoping he will change he's mind. I hope not. Twelve years is sufficient to make up your mind.

[@misslemonn]

He don't even respond when she speaks about it .... He need to get his shit together and be true with himself!!!! I like them so much tho. ❤

[@matchagreentee]

Well... Aileen seems like she wouldn't mind a shut up ring. She thinks he's the prize, she invested so many years, so she'd be happy with what she gets.

[@thefeminineeye]

@@matchagreentee Thanks for watching. I believe you are right. She does give that vibe. I don't blame her though. It's difficult to walk away from over ten years relationship. I hope she finds the strength to walk away if marriage is what she wants

[@matchagreentee]

@@thefeminineeye Thanks for making the video! I enjoyed it.

[@alex_P13842]

I hope you are wrong but I disagree. I think this mindset is what rushes young people into things they aren’t ready for. Making them think there’s a timeline to when you’re supposed to get married and have kids etc. I just think that they will do it when they are both ready and feel it’s right for them. Both of their careers online have blown up in recent years and their health has improved a lot. I’m not saying this is impossible in marriage, but they literally have been and are going through thick and thin together. Why rush them?

[@thefeminineeye]

Thanks for watching! It would be a bit different they both knew they wanted to get married but were working towards it ..the timeline isn't as important as being on the same page. But as it stands they are both on different pages. They did a podcast about marriage where Deven stated he didn't see it as important. While Aileen seems to agree in the podcast, she sends conflicting messages with the various reels she posts about wanting marriage. For the record, they are apparently both 29, not very young imo. I also very much hope I'm wrong though.

[@Beanboi2225]

Why rush them? 😂😂😂 11 years dating isn’t rushing that is more than plenty of time to know if you want to marry someone

[@alex_P13842]

@@thefeminineeye I see what you mean but imo from working with and dealing with people 30-50 year olds who are still so clueless and/or not thriving in their relationships. These 2 are. 29 is just still so young. And Covid really set things back for everyone too. Plus the rings, wedding/reception for the amount of friends/family they have - it’s gonna cost a lot. I’m just saying why rush them if they’re building that $$$ to be able to afford everything. They probably have family to fly in from the Philippines or will do 2 weddings here and there, it’s just not cheap for people no matter what age they are.

[@ohsweetiewhy6353]

@@alex_P13842 29 is still young I agree, but 29 with 11 years experiences together is not so young.

[@alex_P13842]

@@ohsweetiewhy6353 I’m also just thinking financially for a ring and wedding. Anyone can get married but if they want all their families and everything, it’s not going to be cheap. Their careers seem at a high right now, so if they’re making good money - I think we can expect a ring and wedding soon.

[@noodilious1610]

Hes only had 1 gf aileen Hes probs unsure cus hes never dated anyone else n has FOMO and thats the reason why hes stalling But i think if he really loved/wanted her they wouldve had a baby by now even if theyre not married

[@Farnklyme]

Plus now they’re also making money through this whole together thing it’s prolly really difficult

[@Coco-te9bi]

Hahahah 😂 You really made a video talking about other people's life who seem to be living thier best life already.Every thing of a marriage they already have. Settled down.Living together.Enjoying each others company. They committed already basically. A wedding will be just an icing on the cake to change Ms to Mrs.

[@JohoraParveen]

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