Being a Woman in the Middle East | THE TRUTH

[@HannahLouiseYT]

Crazy how fast time goes, it feels like yesterday I watched your video announcing you were moving to Bahrain. Glad you’re enjoying it x

[@AimeeRebecca]

The time has flown! Thank you :) x

[@larryshade3508]

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[@Mnnaiexplor]

Welcome to Bahrain and I hope you enjoy your time here

[@محمدالعجيري-ر5م]

I respect your honesty and accuracy telling what you think and feel, apreciated You are very welcome in the middle east

[@nubiandoll7]

Great information. I also want to visit Middle East I hope this video helps me.

[@AimeeRebecca]

I'm glad you found it helpful! 😁

[@Danah38]

As a bahraini women I say yes you can do all that drive alone, go whatever you want and dress whatever want (btw i dont wear hijab nor abaya) as long as you feel safe in any areas in bahrain, I go outside alot so its always feels safe to me

[@AimeeRebecca]

I totally agree with you. There's so much freedom and I always feel very safe.

[@lukahluca9200]

Hello

[@rainypassion101]

Love your videos!!! I have a lot of family in Bahrain (my grandmother was raised there!) and visited years ago and absolutely loved it!

[@AimeeRebecca]

Thank you! Hopefully you'll get to visit again. It's such a lovely country!

[@kareemaafteraddiction8965]

I am moving to Jordan in three weeks

[@AimeeRebecca]

That's so exciting! Good luck with the move.

[@HattieMcDanielonaMoon]

Happy you are enjoying Bahrain!

[@mrknowmyself]

Enjoyed ur positive vibe😅 And tnx for the info as well

[@AimeeRebecca]

Thanks!

[@luckycharms9299]

Love your videos btw 😂

[@chemt4684]

A lovely video. I would love more information on possibility of saving ... approximate age of other teachers ... satisfaction of working , living, saving in the Middle East. Do teachers come and go or do they stay for longer? ... Thank you.

[@AimeeRebecca]

Thank you! I'll get on making another video specifically about teaching in the Middle East because I have so much to say about it!

[@Valhir03]

you are not welcome here you only come here for the money

[@AimeeRebecca]

I actually earn a lot less here than I did in the UK, but it's worth it to me because I love being here.

[@Shortstack2570]

I enjoy watching your videos! I’m about to move to Bahrain around February 2020. I was wondering how healthcare is over there? I know that can kind of be a personal question but I’m concerned about finding a dentist, primary care doctor, etc.

[@AimeeRebecca]

That's amazing! I hope you enjoy it. Healthcare really depends on your insurance. For the longest time my employer didn't give me insurance (which was illegal, but hey) and I struggled to get good healthcare. Now that I have my insurance card, it's fine. There are lots of really excellent healthcare professionals here if you have the right insurance to cover you.

[@autumnticity]

The government hospitals are free in Bahrain. Once you have your identification card you are assigned a hospital close to where you live and there are no fees.

[@SK-hi8se]

Actually when you are dressed modesty in the middle east you are respecting the people there like even in Bahrain we wont say anything to you but your dress might make us uncomfortable 😓 and it makes us very happy to see you dressing modestly 😇.

[@SK-hi8se]

@@bobowiththedodo8155 I wonder how is this considered selfish. We have a culture & religion and thanks to them we grow up to respect people . what is considered wrong for us can be considered right for you different cultures different upbringing but still we respect you ,and the least you can do when you visit another country that welcomes you is respecting the people no? Also Dressing modestly doesn’t mean covering up 😅

[@RAH.910]

@@SK-hi8se كفو

[@RAH.910]

@@bobowiththedodo8155 You are in our country not yours respect others

[@lindsaygoodwin3140]

Great videos! The only thing I'd add is that the wedding ring doesn't work in a lot of countries. These kind of videos are why i subscribe to your channel. Im not interested in make-up reviews.

[@AimeeRebecca]

Thank you! I'm trying to make a variety of videos right now so there's a little bit of everything :)

[@lindsaygoodwin3140]

@@AimeeRebecca you're one of the few talking about life in the Middle East and those videos are highly requested. Thanks for putting out this kind of material. Id bebgreat to see a video about what you need to be qualified to teach and also other popular jobs in the middle East.

[@luckycharms9299]

Can you please do a Q and A video video on Kuwait and how teaching there is

[@AimeeRebecca]

I've got a lot of Kuwait videos lined up and I'm going to make one specific to teaching there :)

[@Rosemary-nx5pq]

You can wear what you want in Lebanon becose I am Lebanese and i know

[@zimiade]

Seems that bahrain is worth visiting

[@AimeeRebecca]

I love it here :)

[@Reemaa1na]

As a western/ white woman definitely you’ll be treated as a princess in the Middle East. However, as a local middle eastern woman I’d say ESCAPE FOR YOUR LIFE OUT OF HERE❗️❗️

[@chupachup8029]

Are you downplaying things at all? I don't get the impression that you're entirely honest because you are still there.

[@AimeeRebecca]

This is my honest opinion based on what I've experienced. I honestly feel like I've had a very positive experience here.

[@servantof1god]

Cool

[@shanialover]

Did you have to find a male guardian to make decisions for you & to give you permission to do things and go places?

[@AimeeRebecca]

Not at all. For most of my time living here, I was alone. Now my fiancé is here with me, but I think he knows me better than to try to make decisions for me haha.

[@shanialover]

@@AimeeRebecca I just know that I have been doing research about the Middle East and I have seen details about women's rights or lack of in different parts before deciding if I want to go and I have seen facts that in Saudi Arabia for example, that every woman has to have a male guardian that makes all of her decisions and has to give his permission for her to go anywhere or do anything even if her guardian is her 5 year old brother and that if a woman breaks any rules she can be punished with a MINIMUM of being whipped. I could endure being punished as I have been whipped and worse in my life already but I also read that the maximum punishment is death so I am afraid of that. I just wanted to ask another woman to get the truth about at least where she is familiar with because I know things can be different even in different parts of the same city.

[@AimeeRebecca]

@@shanialover Firstly, I'm really sorry that you've been through that. That sounds awful. I'm not clear on how things work in Saudi because I've never been. I've met teachers who work there and live on compounds and they like it well enough. In Kuwait and Bahrain it's definitely not the case that you need a man to make decisions for you. I have my own bank account, have an apartment rented in my name and can come and go as I please. Bahrain is more liberal than Kuwait in a lot of ways, but I never had any issues in either country with regards to being a woman. I hope that helps.

[@shanialover]

@@AimeeRebecca I forgot to mention that the sources I saw said that women also can't get a passport although I have one but maybe they would take it after I got there and that women can't open a bank account or travel in public transportation, only private hired taxis and that even in restaurants the women have to sit in the family area and their male escorts in a separate area. So even if I found a male guardian, even if it was a boy, I wouldn't be able to be with him all the time. It sounds like I would have to depend on one no matter where I was just in case I went to a different location, with his permission of course.

[@AimeeRebecca]

@@shanialover I've heard that in some parts of Saudi single men and women are seated in different parts of the restaurant, but I don't think that's the case everywhere. But I'm really not sure because I've never been.

[@massm490]

I am the one

[@Unknown-pi1tb]

I’m sorry that u don’t have a joyful experience in Kuwait as much as in Bahrain , but to be honest u were living in wrong area in Kuwait , and any western people who wants to visit Gcc countries if u big drinker Kuwait is not a choice for Drinker😉😂

[@H76Pro]

I am a man and I don't like to go to kuwait because of the following, yes if you are an attractive guy women will follow you! And its creepy oh and I forget, gay men will follow you as well! I don't know why Kuwaitis are like that.

[@mrknowmyself]

Really? Did u experience it

[@Unknown-pi1tb]

Like honestly I have Question why u westerns people raised and born to this mentality like the joyful in ur life is to go club and have drinks! Like if western person do not drink u will feel strange I’m I right or no? Anyways I love ur videos keep going💕

[@AimeeRebecca]

Thanks for the love! This is a good question haha. I personally don't like clubs, but I do enjoy going out for cocktails with my friends to a nice bar or with a meal. Clubs are just too noisy and crazy for me 😂 I think when something is a part of your culture (and no matter what anybody says, alcohol is definitely a part of British culture) then you don't ever question it. 'Going out for a couple of drinks' is a social thing where I come from so that's how I usually catch up with my friends. I know alcohol doesn't need to be involved for that, but that's the best way I can explain it. It doesn't really make any sense to me either honestly haha.

[@Unknown-pi1tb]

I mean yeah ur right I didn’t thought about it , it’s true something from ur culture , I think Bahrain and Emirates it a good place for western Cuz it’s suits their lifestyle💕

[@AimeeRebecca]

You're right :) Also I love Bahrain because the people are so friendly!

[@mirandah9758]

It just depends on the person. I drank a little here and there when I was in my early twenties, but it got old really fast and I haven’t drank in like fifteen years. But on TV and in the movies they portray everyone as a party animal or alcoholic.

[@19brittani]

Don’t Go...😎

[@pink9o21o]

I think you are judgmental . All the things you say also can happen any where even with me when I travel abroad to the USA or England a lot of people don’t respect us as a Muslim .

[@fbegum327]

She clearly said multiple times “that’s just life” and the same thing happens in the UK and other countries.

[@mirandah9758]

Stop looking and trying to be offended. She never said that she experienced anything that ONLY happens there. She just shared what it’s been like for her.🙄🙄🙄