AITA Reddit story | cooking dinner for my vegetarian family!

[@AjiaJ]

I would’ve been blunt, like look sis, you forced your way into my wedding, making it difficult for everyone, AND we don’t click that well? Yeah you out of the wedding you can do what you want on YOUR wedding day😂

[@mckenzielee4048]

The bride was given a bridesmaid she didn't choose her. She tried to accommodate by going to 4 separate shops. In the end bride was fed up and everyone voted to have the bride buy, which meant the bride was going to choose what she wanted. End of story. If you don't like it then don't project yourself into other people's lifes

[@summercucumber4964]

Having an issue with someone you don't get along with forcing their way into your wedding doesn't make you an a-hole. However, choosing to deliberatly target someone's body insecurity is a huge dick move.

[@kassidyrowe7198]

Totally agree!

[@angelaortiz3406]

No, you are not happy New Year’s. Good to see that you’re good.❤

[@AjiaJ]

Happy new year! And thank you🫶🏽

[@Prettylittlebasilplant]

I do feel like there was a better way to go about this then pointing out her insecurities, but on the whole, no, you’re not wrong. But you really could have just talked to her.

[@baridakara]

“Am I the asshole for picking a revealing bridesmaid dress in order to get one of my bridesmaids to drop?” um yes 💀 you don’t need to use a whole dress to do that she could have sinply talk to her

[@AjiaJ]

Same thing i said I’m not the type of person to be passive aggressive lol ima tell u straight up🤷🏽‍♀️

[@whos_kanicee]

but, tbf, Mia forced her way into the wedding. She announced it ina public area with other family members around and voted the 2nd option (the bride it’s for dress she picks.) she is nta. yes you can have ur own option im not trying to hate 💗

[@lilithriddle8612]

YTA for being a coward and for humiliating Mia. Get a backbone and say no yourself. Crisis would have been averted then.

[@whos_kanicee]

personally Mia forced her way into the wedding because op didn’t ask Mia to be a bridesmaid, Mia and her mother announced it at a family dinner and op gave them both options. Mia picked the 2nd option where op picked the dress and op paid for it too. Which is fair pay for it pick it. Mia could always have paid for it pick it, but she chose not too and let op pfipi