Telling my SISTER I’m Transgender

A few people have been asking about my coming out story! So here it is- how I came out to my sister as a trans woman. This will be a series and I will talk about coming out to different members of my Family!
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[@henryintheuk]

I am a hetro, married, masculine, testosterone fueled guy, and I love your journey, your story, and how you make me smile every time I see you. Oh, an old fashioned tungsten standard lamp.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you! And good idea :)

[@JLBSICS]

Your self description is Aces sir.

[@accidentalaerialist371]

Good people are good people no matter what wrapper is on the outside 😊 That is why we love dear Alex and you too, Henry!

[@garyquinlan4075]

Very well said Henry. And Alexis is definitely a "she" to most of not all of us who follow her posts.

[@NatashaTapps]

She is really exceptional person .. i totally adore her

[@doghugger5445]

It's people like you who should be the face of the trans community - not all these raging activists who are actually doing way more harm to the trans community than good. You are beautiful.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thanks so much!

[@debra2700]

@@Alexis_blake00 I've remarked about how although I like Blaire White, she is way too much with the playing with her hair, showing off her implants even in the dead of winter in Texas and the silly California persona that she clings to in a way that a woman nearing 30 should move on. You have a grace and elegance that she doesn't have and I watched two of your shorts before I realized you weren't born a biological female. I know you don't approve of criticism of other transgenders but your sense of grace and style is a big part of the way you are getting people to listen to and understand your struggles to get to where you are today.

[@sadiegirlson8122]

Those "raging activists" are popular because people like you keep watching their channel. You have no idea what kind of people they are. You are just trying to justify your crush on a trans woman.

[@aliceelsadlf]

@@Alexis_blake00 im nervous how should i tell My 2 stepsister that im transtioning to be a women and one of my stepsister has 2 girls and 1 boy

[@spiritsaysso111]

I’ll never forget, 40 years ago, my brother told my mom and me that he is gay. My mom and I simultaneously said, “yeah, okay “ The relief on my brothers face was priceless 💕. Thank you for sharing!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Awww this is so sweet!!! Xx

[@mysteryegg340]

It's sad to think that people go through such mental acrobatics about coming out. Same happened to a school friend of mine. Out drinking when we were 16 (naughty) he told us girls and we were like 'yeah, and?' We knew and we didn't care. We loved him! And still do. Massive hugs and we carried on drinking our Diamond Whites (it was the 90's haha), but you could almost see the weight physically lift from his shoulders. It's a shame that weight exists in the first place,

[@kirstywoo7910]

I have to admit that all this trans stuff at the minute has been doing my head in! Your stories and how you carry yourself has been a joy to watch. I never thought I’d be watching someone who was transgender, I love watching your videos and I don’t even see you as transgender, you are a beautiful woman 😊

[@mysteryegg340]

Alexis, it doesn't surprise me that your sister was so accepting because you come across such a lovely person that it's obvious you're from a loving and accepting family. And it is totally adorable that your little nephews still call you 'uncle'. I can't wait for the video when you tell us they start calling you 'aunty'. I am sure they will and I hope you tell us when they do! :) xx

[@AlessiaJW]

This is one of the most wholesome stories I ever heard of

[@kb7128]

If I ran into this beautiful soul, I’d hug her. I appreciate the time you take to help people of my generation understand how you feel and how all this works. You are so lovely and genuine and should be the true face of a trans woman and not that boy Dylan who mocks real women.

[@Grus0mhet]

I rarely drop comments on YT, but I stumbled over your shorts in my Shorts -feed. I love your positive attitude even amongst hardships, and openness. I'm not very positive person myself, so your content is that perfect amount of wholesomeness & positivity I need in my life. Thank you for sharing your journey and being the authentic you.

[@carolynbrubaker1619]

And all this time she waiting and waiting for her brother to officially become her sister. She sounds as amazing as you are!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Awww that’s true! Thank you xxx

[@littleknowndiva]

@@silkebroxdude7625oh dear…

[@kristinabelievesinfairies]

​@@silkebroxdude7625 find something better to do

[@hopedodson8058]

You look just beautiful in this video. Very pretty and feminine. Very flattering makeup colors and I love your natural color, length and hair style. It’s pretty while still modern. This is a great neckline for you too.

[@GingeRenee]

That’s a great sister! She was very thoughtful and compassionate. So happy you had a great experience with your sister and having such a support in your life! ❤

[@JenniferBJonesgirl2012]

Hello from South Carolina!! I ABSOLUTELY adore you!! I stumbled on your channel and then spent two nights down the rabbit hole watching EVERYTHING you’ve put up!!! You’re ABSOLUTELY a beautiful women inside and out and your happiness, honesty and pure humanity shines through so bright!! I’m humbled by your bravery and fierce spirit. If there where more people in the world that took the time to share, listen and appreciate others the way you do the world would be a better place. 🖤🖤🖤 I wish you all of the love and happiness in the world and I’ll be here in your corner cheering you on!!!

[@doofdoofparanormal]

Honestly, you're a gem, you are so beautiful inside and out. I love listening to your stories, I would think some nice photo or painting... would be nice x 💕💕🦘🦘🐨🐨❤❤

[@TravelingwiththeGramkracker]

I think it's really cool that your nephews can still call you "uncle" without offending you. I'm a trans man with a full face beard, 66 years old, and 3 grown children, grandsons and great grandsons. I am currently visiting my youngest daughter and her boys for the first time since I transitioned 5 years ago, she still calls me "mom" and her boys call me Gramkracker! I am her Mom, I look very different but I will always be her mother. My oldest daughter refers to me as Dad, to the rest of the world I am a he/him. Knowing who I am is a great blessing. Thanks for your story!

[@brush412]

I am so glad to hear that you don’t feel the need to explain everything in your life to your nephews! That’s a breath of fresh air considering the whole trans community seems to want to indoctrinate kids at such an early age and confuse the heck out of them. So thank you!

[@niisayaa5185]

my concern exactly! and agree. Alexis is so great for this 👏

[@mintygrey]

Hey - can I ask a silly question? I don't understand at all this idea that "the trans community wants to indoctrinate kids" - I've never heard anything of the sort except from people who want everyone to hate the trans community for somehow being too close to kids. Do you have any examples? Because I am really interested in where this came from, since I don't understand it at all. Thanks for reading, even if you don't have time to reply.

[@brush412]

@@mintygrey they are pushing for gender ideology “education” in schools. That’s one example. It’s already in a lot of schools right now. Kids don’t need to know who you go to bed with at night and they definitely don’t need to be taught that there are more than 2 genders when there is not. But the whole push has been for children to explore their sexuality as young as kindergarten and they are beginning to teach multiple genders in the school systems.

[@brush412]

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[@siobhanmcgrath5287]

The whole community? From your post I can tell you're genuinely understanding of Alexis. Please don't promote that all trans people are doing anything to children.

[@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878]

You are clearly a great person. You radiate kindness and joy. Thank you for sharing your journey ✨️✨️✨️

[@tamilynn4359]

You have a great outlook on life. Your family is lucky to have you in their lives.

[@Red.Rabbit.Resistance]

You should have a bookshelf with trinkets and books that you enjoy. I would also have a pair of pickled eggs in a mason jar, moderately illuminated so its not distracting. But hilarious if anyone notices. lol

[@dani.dee4213]

this was so sweet. Your sister is absolutely amazing. Id say you should do a nice clock, and put a picture of you and liam! I think that would look really cute, maybe even artificial flowers, some color to make it pop!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Aww good idea! Thank you xx

[@michaelteeter8721]

Before and after photos

[@huhner_suppe]

Hey! I'm a trans girl from Australia and I'm hopefully going to go on hormones in the next couple of months, it's been something that seams like a fairytale my entire life and watching your channel has informed me soo much on the journey and has made me so excited to start the journey. You teach us so well in your videos and I am looking forward so much to seeing your transition through and being able to being guided through it through your videos. seriously this series means so so much to me, every single big question i've had so far that i've struggled to find personal experiences of on youtube i've seen in your videos! I know every transition is different but it's so nice to hear a personal perspective in informative detail. Thank you

[@Myownsilk81]

Ya know what makes you different? You have such a lovely personality and you have great character. You carry yourself very well and you seem humble and kind.

[@pbj0815]

Awwww what a relief that it wasn’t a sad story!! Well your sister is so sweet and it says a lot how she waited for YOU to be ready to share. Sending lots of hugs 💕

[@alenalacanglacang2414]

I love that your sister and brother in law waited for you to tell them. I think you should put maybe a mirror up there.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Good idea! Thank you xx

[@karenmorman4106]

Nice story, and I’m so happy for you. I really enjoy your videos, and you’ve completely changed how I feel about transgenders. Regarding the decor, just move the hanging greenery behind you farther to your left to balance things out. It would frame you nicely.

[@sarahleahB]

Im so impressed with your channel, i ended up subscribing. Thank you for sharing your coming out story with us. It's so amazing that there are families who are positive for transgender people. We often hear the negative stories. This was refreshing.

[@louisxiiii]

I get a lot of trans-related video recommendations that are so full of anxiety and negativity, it is a joy to see this video of a normal, well-balanced trans person living a great life.

[@flwrfan1752]

I’m an American but I know Jumper is a sweater in America.I think you are the nicest person no matter your gender.Really like your videos.Humans get too hung up on someone’s gender and sexuality so do I.What is more important is the kind of person you are.I would be happy to have someone like you in my family.

[@lynnm6413]

This was such a beautiful story, thank you for sharing it with us! I think the wall space would be nice for a beige macramé hanger, so you don‘t have too much contrast going on behind you.

[@gemmajordan2074]

You are fast becoming my favourite person to watch on youtube. You are clearly a genuinely lovely person inside and out.

[@saganhuxley]

Your channel is growing so fast! Cheers and well done! It’s 💯 your fabulous energy that’s catalyzing your popularity/visibility. ❣️

[@Alexis_blake00]

aww thank you! Xxx

[@jasonsmart3482]

I think the thing is you family had time, from when you mentioned possibly being trans as a teenager and also from the bank transfer. When I came out as gay it was when I was ready, accepted and was happy with who I was, it had taken a little time. Sometimes family dont have that time they are put straight on the spot and I understood why my parent didnt at first jump with joy. All is great now because all they needed was time to get their heads around things, much like I needed to, and accept me for who I was.

[@msrwil]

How lovely! When my daughter came out to me as gay, I also said, "I know, I think I've always known." We talked about it this morning, and I said that I never wanted to influence my kids, so I let them be them, and now I have another daughter with her girlfriend. Thank you for being so nice and normal, it's getting crazy out there! Keep on being you. x

[@green_eyes36]

Alexis, you are beautiful, honest, kind and I love that you share your vulnerability with us! Im so glad you have such a great support system within your family! I admire you and look forward to your videos! You really brighten up my day! ❤❤ AND for that space in the corner you mentioned there, I think you should put up a picture or painting in soft pastel colors and add some warm lighting around it!!

[@smp23]

I absolutely loved this story 🥰 The unconditional love from your family to you has genuinely moved me ❤ you deserve it!!

[@ClementineDaydream]

this story is so wholesome💖

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you x

[@nurse.maureen]

I love you, please don't hate me for saying this... but you look so gorgeous as both a man and woman.... but what makes you more beautiful as a woman is seeing you very happy

[@sevenspecie592]

Tell us more stories! Love them❤

[@roseom2878]

Hey Alexis😊 Just showing some love all the way from France 🇫🇷 Your content is both entertaining and educational. Really enjoy watching your videos.

[@user-cx5ck9xp7e]

Alexis, you are the BEST possible representation of a Trans Woman. You have such AMAZING character. I am so happy that you have transitioned. This is absolutely where you belong. The whole Uncle thing with your nepheowas handled to perfection. Watch put Liam, I might steal her away from you buddy 😂😂😂❤

[@spozgirl]

i just love watching you and how you tell your journey/life story.. when your smiling face pops up it always makes me smile and to me that's what life is all about.. being yourself and being happy AND THEN making other people happy which you do x

[@kellyoppenheim820]

I ❤ your channel, your stories, and your sincerity. You are so beautiful inside and out. What an inspiration you are. ❤❤❤

[@ginab2970]

You are such a sweet soul

[@terryleslied]

You are a wonderful person. I just love your positivity. I love when you share your stories about your family. Thank you for being you. I hope that your message helps ease the tension that exists right now. I am a 52 year old mother of 3 boys. My oldest is 34 and married. He told me he was bi years ago and he knew we didn't care one way or the other. We love him and we just want him to be happy. Thank you for sharing your experience and insight with the world!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you for sharing this! You sound like an awesome mum! Sending hugs xx

[@lynnomara7652]

Alexis you are such a good storyteller and especially love your tales about your family .

[@franceswood6712]

I love your honesty..you seem a genuinely lovely person & so glad your family is supportive

[@rondaborgert5170]

Great story, Alexis! You are blessed, no doubt.

[@jacqattacq19]

I love watching your videos. You make my day brighter. Thank you 💗🇦🇺

[@justinleaskjl]

Best pumpkin story ever lol love your open honest videos dear 👏😲

[@viridianaprado6323]

OMG she sounds as pure hearted as you! 🥰 And i think you can maybe put a pink/purple neon sign in your wall♀️ luv ya 💕

[@letdanielletellyou]

Great story. That’s love. Now as for your back drop you need a huge vase with feathers think that would look amazing ❤

[@missfischer7871]

You have such a great way of telling your stories, I could listen to you for hours... your voice is like music to my ears. I have to say; I really have a problem with certain women's voices but yours is just beautiful.. thank you for letting us into your world, very exciting.. Greetings from Switzerland.. Enya🪴 💜

[@jennifermcmillan9518]

How lovely. I’m super glad you have such a wonderful family. You’re still you on the inside so things realistically shouldn’t change. Besides, you’re smile is sunshine. Keep smiling beautiful.

[@Alexis_blake00]

This is a beautiful compliment thank you for making my day! Xx

[@jenniferplatts174]

You are a shining light in all this dreadful TRAs rubbish. You are dignified, respectful, funny, engaging, humble and honest in your struggle to get you in a place, thats the right one for you. Well done you. I enjoy listening to your journey . ❤

[@maryjnewberry6609]

Dear Alexis you are a shining example of a trans woman! Loved this video and the fact that your sister had worked it out. Keep doing what you're doing ❤

[@gilley69]

Thanks for sharing your journey. Everyone has one.Looking forward to hearing from you soon.

[@gabriellebernard198]

I anticipate each and every pop up from you. I?trans from YC and and 60 and been trans since the 80s. So I hope you understand that watching your progress is so lovely. I can see the blossoming effect in your eyes as you find your was in the world. I abs6adore your accent. It's o bviously UK but maybe YORKSHIRE I think. So continue on your blessed life and know you have someone cheering you along. One more thing. You seem to have such naturally good insight. Never loose that. You seem to know innately the right thing to do.its a gift.

[@rayoliver760]

That was so hilarious how your sister already knew what you were going to tell her even before you came out! I also loved that part how your nephew already pre-outed you using the pronoun she beforehand too! Plus that was so cool how he (or his sibling since you cited both of your nephews) thought you looked girly because you had those black things by your eye!

[@Pammieization]

Are you thinking of putting all these wonderful stories and info in a book. You are a lovely person and I would love to read your story xx

[@TJPenitencia]

This was a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it.

[@kendrajune6719]

That blouse (dress?) is simply perfect for you. You're beautiful inside and out. Love this story and I can certainly believe that this kind of thing could happen to me 😊

[@celestebarrentine3922]

I do ao enjoy your stories, and your attitude is so refreshing. You are so beautiful, inside and out. ❤

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

I know it was frightening, but how lovely of her to give you the space to tell her in your own time.

[@greetjep8466]

Here i was sitting and watching the video.. thinking why would a elegant female transition into a male... lolll untill i realised you are transitioning into a female.. dont kill me but i think you certainly made the right choice.. you are a woman in your heart and looking on the outside as a kind elegant female who knows how to dress as well.. thank you for the things you say.. and i agree with doghugger... you really do a great job speaking for those that are truly trans. btw.. i did watch more videos from you and ill stay with my comment... i really respect you for what you say and who you are.. hugsss ( ps.. i'm not a native english speaker/typer so i hope i got my thoughts across in a positive way )

[@Tui-and-La]

What a sweet sister you have! I think this was definitely best case scenario even if it was an accident at first.

[@littleknowndiva]

I LOVE this, such an awesome story😱🥹🥰 xx

[@sevenspecie592]

LMBO what a great story Alexis!😂

[@libbylake8106]

You are so beautiful and I'm so happy you have such a caring and supportive family who loves you ❤ My vote is for a print on the wall behind you

[@cathytoms1770]

I knew that my younger sister was a lesbian at age eight/nine but it didn't affect me at all. I loved her since the day she was born and until she passed away three years ago. There was never an official coming out moment but it was an open secret among family and relatives. When hearts are open to change, the love is bound to flow. It's so fortunate that you have that too in your life. (👋👋 Hi Liam!)

[@kathrynmoore4071]

You are such an amazing person, I wish I had a tenth of the beauty you have inside and out. Thank you for sharing your story and all the hard work you do to bring us these amazing videos.

[@karenrandall8375]

Glad you have family who love you irregardless. You are a beautiful person with a big heart and a gentle nature. Hope you never want to change that part of you.

[@davefisher1840]

Such a fun story. Thanks for sharing🫶🏾

[@ladonnawilson8004]

I just wish that all Transgender folks were like you! I love your stories, your style, and how sweet you are. I share your video's with akl my friends and family. May you be as blessed as you have blessed others.

[@danabuck6461]

Alexis, you look stunning today! You always look fabulous, of course. I remember when my son told me he was gay. I had known that was probably be the case for years, and he was so relieved his dad and me were good with it. He's our son, how could we NOT be ok with it.

[@lesliehoffmeyer7701]

Some cool artwork😊

[@gemmylou9628]

Love the story, Thanks for telling it.

[@Crystal-zd4yu]

I was the same when my sister came out to me. Lovely story thanks for sharing

[@michelleboyd7824]

Love it!

[@Beafree1975]

❤️ that was such a sweet story. Love it

[@vikkiledgard8483]

Respect to you both ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@murderycatdoll1380]

That's such a cute Story xD Love how they really waited patiently till you found the right time to Tell them. That's really, really nice! XD

[@Alexis_blake00]

Yes it was so thoughtful of her! X

[@sonia.jarrett]

I'm so thrilled that your sister & brother in law accepted so beautifully ❤❤❤

[@consciouskitty]

You have such a radiant positive energy and are so beautiful and seem so kind. I wish you all the best on your journey. 💖💖💖💖💖

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you so much! Xxx

[@justb4769]

Are your parents still around? If so what did they say? Your sister and brother in law sound amazing I hope they will come on your channel one day!

[@thomashenderson3901]

I think some of the best outings are these happy accidents. I managed it twice, once by leaving some heels out and the Mrs found them, and a second time when I got tagged on Facebook and everyone saw me! Both were big scary steps but the other side was lovely and nobody gave a toss.

[@kaydee5352]

Nice story😊❤

[@alesiayoung2160]

I love your look in this video, your hair and makeup….beautiful!

[@simongoodwin5253]

Love your makeup in this vlog.

[@mamaalaska]

Lovely story ❤…

[@dennisepeart5002]

Alexis I've said before that you're beautiful inside and out, no surprise that your sister is too. You were both raised right ❤ Glad she let you tell her in your own time thou and that you have an amazing support system too 😊

[@accidentalaerialist371]

Alexis speaks with such compassion and empathy for others - I'm not surprised that her family is the same. Makes me feel hopeful about the world that a compassionate, kind extended family lives gently somewhere in rural England ❤❤❤

[@Helengeorgeson]

Hiya love your channel, what a beautiful family you have and all power to you for showing your journey keep being you down to earth and real what about a picture of you and your partner x

[@bucuptterwoman7170]

I loved hearing how close you and your sister are ❤❤. A slender silver lamp.

[@lesliehoffmeyer7701]

Btw, I just adore you and your fun honesty about your life. I wish there were more honest beautiful trans people to share their experiences. Seems the media and morons want to vilify the trans community. I am nearly 70 and mother of two. I learn something from you with every video I watch.❤❤❤❤

[@AFleurdePiel]

You are so sweet. And what a lovely family you have!

[@beardcini]

I just love watching your videos 😊 I think we could be besties❤

[@googleuser6312]

Enjoy your womanhood ❤

[@clairelouise4063]

i love your stories and gentle nature........ and you need a steam punk lamp/sculpture. xx

[@zed9256]

Rock on, Alexis!

[@vanessamonster5038]

I have two sisters and a brother. I came out to them one at a time. As anxious as i was about it, they were all cool, even my brother who laughed and made a joke. We've all gotten closer because i came out.

[@KatieM786]

That's what life should boil down to really "they love me and I love them" ❤

[@milkman2916]

Your Nails Look Great, and I am Happy That it was a Great turn out for You and Your Family🙂🙂🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽💪🏽✌🏽✌🏽