All my lolita dresses were stolen & homeless questions

[@jimpatterson5841]

Hang in there. I lost my government job and had to sell my house and almost all my belongings. I probably cried myself to sleep for a week. Lost my livelihood. But I gathered myself together, picked up the pieces and marched forward. 10 years later, I have a nice house again, a government job again and very happily married for 5 years! I learned a lot of lessons, especially in humility. Now, I am so happy with life! So be strong. Stay focused, you will rebuild. We are cheering for you! ❤🇨🇦❤

[@Bonita.Vampira_]

This was very inspiring. Thank you for sharing. I hope you continue to be happy with life 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@Snuffdoll]

Holy shit! I been subscribed to you yumi for YEARS I never could imagine a situation like this for you 😢 Such a sweet women you are I hope things get better.

[@uavidavida7633]

neither can I! I was shock too!

[@princessuni767]

I hate that you feel like you have to show proof and that you have to justify what you're going through. you're strong. I believe in you yumi.

[@happysadnesssmar]

I’m sorry but if you ask for donations from your public people need to know why.

[@princessuni767]

@@happysadnesssmar i- She's literally said she's struggling in like every video she's made. I don't know what you people are missing lmao. Either way. I'm not gonna argue in her comment section.

[@ykx18]

Yumi you could be a online mandarin teacher many people are looking for that like teaching kids if you know how to read and talk mandarin.

[@Mgdr2011]

YES!!!!! I started taking mandarin but my teacher had to leave due to some issues:(

[@MacyMayM]

Teaching a language is quite difficult. Most teacher have a degree in teaching

[@SpiritualAttitudeSage]

@@MacyMayM its not that hard to teach basics for beginners. Its like talking to a child

[@hanako7144]

I agree. Tiktok would be a good place to start. I've seen another Mandarin teacher on there doing lives and videos.

[@MacyMayM]

@@SpiritualAttitudeSage she would still need a degree. She would also need to compete with other online teachers. There are millions of native Chinese speakers teaching their language.

[@goreysins]

NOT THE LOLITA DRESSES! They were so beautiful and so inspirational 🥺

[@lindziep6319]

Yes lolita dresses are expensive thats why i just sew or alter some dresses to lolita dress for my niece

[@suika666]

@@lindziep6319 That's so sweet; bless you. Xx

[@lindziep6319]

@@suika666 thank u, bless u too

[@123fbshz]

Did someone take it? :c why are they missing?? They were hers!!! 🥺

[@MrBobsathlon2]

I'm sad that some people only assume the worst of you. It's painful when people do that. I can only hope and pray for the best for you and your son. Remember, for those that sling arrows at you , many hundred and thousands send shields . If I could, I would give you a hug.

[@mehakverma7043]

No one assumes the worst of Yumi. We are questioning why the divorce occurred and why Splenda is not giving her alimony or child support. Looking at her divorce papers (which are public) the document says that she had a child in the marriage, but Splenda is not the biological father, thus, holds no accountability for the child. I just want to see a paternity test tbh because I don’t believe it. Due to Splenda’s past divorces, it can be suspected that he just got a really good lawyer to convince the judge that Yumi’s son is not his. However, no one can be sure of anything until there is a paternity test released. I truly hope the best for Yumi, I hope she goes back to her mom for the sake of her son and her career.

[@MrBobsathlon2]

@@mehakverma7043 no, there are miserable people who always do that. She has to be a better person than them.

[@RavenSutcliffe]

@@mehakverma7043 Unfortunately there are people who do assume the worst, like she's lying, faking, or even side with her ex for this supposed infidelity. Personally I hold the same opinion as you on the ex husband, to a T.

[@wendy8561]

I don't always comment but I will never stop following you and watching your videos God bless you and your son 💜🙏

[@almasusana3088]

You do not have to explain that kind of stuff to people that just give their useless opinion . Your situation will get better girl ! Have faith and keep working hard ! Suggestions: your cooking videos are great ! 🤗

[@skyetrapp5511]

Absolutely agree with you!

[@LaCurlySue562]

That's right! I understand you feel an obligation to please your viewers, but forget them and their nonsense. I, too, have had questions, but I'd never ask you to explain anything to me. It's your business and you have the right to say whatever you want and not to say whatever you don't want to. It's YOUR platform.

[@ceciletiffany5402]

Yumi, I am so sorry for everything you are going through right now. Hang in there Yumi, you are wonderful mom and let us know if there is anything we can do to help you. Don't pay attention to these haters. You don't have to explain to anyone what you are going through at the moment. I know you are strong and you got this

[@Butterball2829]

she has put her paypal in the description in terms of helping her monetarily

[@Gigihyrule]

Yumi, I am wishing you the best and just letting you know that you don't owe anyone online and explanation of your struggles and what led you to the situation you are in. You have many people who love you for you and try to help however we can. You're doing the best you can and that's what matters.

[@70n24]

You're an angel Yumi, and you don't deserve half the struggle you're going through, and neither you owe answers to anyone, but it only speaks good about you that you're addressing even those "questions". Hang in there, you're doing good!

[@yuerxaiyo8741]

Dear , you don't need to worry about anything we all are here with you ^~^ , happy to see that you're not homeless anymore 💖

[@pixelpudding3914]

I’m so sorry Yumi! You were such a style inspiration to me, and every day I dreamed of dressing like you. I hope when things get better, I’ll be able to see you smiling and happing in cosplay and lolita, like the Yumi I admired so much💖

[@suika666]

For people who act like they watch the video and say 'why do you always cry on here, get a job, you're a bad mother' and act like they aren't just being hateful, here is the CBATW: Her parents are helping her, she is working online (we're in 2022; what Karen still thinks that online work isn't real work?), and she also has an undisclosed in-person job. If you wanna continue to argue about the points that she literally addressed in the video, you are just proving your ignorance. Please save yourself the embarrassment. Learn not to comment on a video that you didn't watch as if you know everything when you have no idea what happened in the video.

[@vvonderweiss]

I haven't seen anyone say she is a bad mother. We are just confused and concerned, each video seems to be more distressing than the last. Her stuff keeps getting stolen but she doesn't says "stolen" in the videos, just in the titles. What would a random thief do with a lolita dress and bright wigs? Are they targeting her things because of Halloween? What burglar would know a BTSSB dress from an adult baby costume? If where she is living is unsafe enough for her to have her child's stuff "stolen" then she cannot stay where she is for much longer either.

[@suika666]

@@vvonderweiss It's easier to put 'stolen' for a video title, but she said that she doesn't know what has been done with them. I was just calling out people who are being hateful for no reason and saying awful things. I have seen people call her a bad mother, and I feel it was unnecessary for you to say that you haven't, but I don't think that you meant it in a way to call me a liar, so I'll ignore it. Technically, if someone takes her stuff without permission, whether to dispose of it or whatever, it is still stealing. And I get what you're saying about 'why would they steal lolita, cosplay, etc', but people don't check what is in a bag or package before stealing; they just steal. I recommend searching on KZbin for the American 'porch theft' videos. Some people just don't care, and will steal things, then if they realise that they don't like what is inside, they will just throw it away. It's sad, but some people just suck and have no empathy.

[@vvonderweiss]

@@suika666 I was only speaking from my perspective when I said I haven't personally seen any comments saying she is a bad mother. If you've seen such comments, ok, then such comments exist and you've seen them. I am not insinuating anyone is lying. Our experiences are different. I agree that porch pirates exist and theft/property loss can occur when you are staying at someone's residence. I didn't mean to imply none of the above scenarios can't occur, just that the probability of events occurring twice in a short time span while living outside a shelter without probable cause ARE unusual. Yes, you can hear hoofsteps think horse, not zebra. If I hear a unclear narrative, I assume the speaker is being unclear, not that the events occured in a random disconnected illogical sequence. If Yumi is residing where her items she brought or her mail keeps getting stolen, then her current residence will become untenable and unsafe for her and her child. Again, please don't think I am trying to be rude or attack anyone. There are plenty of people who go through divorces, homelessness, being a single parent, and job insecurity. Yumi has chosen to share her experiences -not as an educational experience but as a vlog and for viewership/donations. If she chooses to share such experiences online, we as viewers are free to ask questions, especially since no one is clear as to how these events are occurring. It's at Yumi's discretion to disclose whatever she wants whenever she wants but naturally we are all just speculating.

[@irismarblemaw]

Girl don't let these ppl tell you that your lying or your fake or anything. Don't worry about uploading on youtube at this point In time, focus on you and your family. Sending you hope, love amd support from Minnesota ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MsMeliiza]

Your English has improved so so much! I’m sorry you’re going through this 😭

[@reighn831]

I've watched your videos for a long time, the sewing videos inspired me to start sewing myself. I've been following your journey actively to catch up and give you more viewing minutes. Best of luck Yumi, better times will come

[@SpiritualAttitudeSage]

As a single mom who was in a similar situaton, its definitely easier if you can get into the government system while going through abusive situations (mind you abuse is also financial or mental/emotional) although I dont know in which country you live rn. Let go of the materialism, its not important in the long run, even if its painful. Sell everything you can, keep looking for remote jobs (translation for example?)

[@Mintzik]

The title says that your clothes were stolen but you just say they're gone in the video - when were they stolen, what happened? It's so sad this is all happening to you.

[@uavidavida7633]

I cannot believe people are telling you to use your degree. As much as I agree, you would need professional experience in that field and where you come from is just your own platforms and stay - home wife previously. I don't mean in a disrespectful way Yumi, but you're doing whatever experience, knowledge, and capability you have. You're doing amazing

[@yyang6421]

That degree would need connections and right after graduation, internships and experience. Yea she can still do it, but it's going to take time.

[@uavidavida7633]

@@yyang6421 Precisely. You would want to pursue internship before you graduate. Then you change that internship into a career before or after you graduate. That's how you build from college... Unlike Yumi, she didn't do that (no disrespect to her), so yes, she's starting from the ground up with little experience. I know eventually her current experience will grow and will do better down the road. It's just unfortunate she's in this situation. She's doing really well. I definitely give her props for that.

[@yyang6421]

@@uavidavida7633 yea that's what I meant, she'll get through it. When you're rock bottom, little steps makes a difference even if it's going to take awhile.

[@rottweiler_cats]

So sad to hear about this bad news Yumi ! Hang in there Mama everything will be better soon , I'm praying for you and your son.

[@abigailmaturana741]

omg! 2 to 5 years???? yeah, that’s a crazy wait when you need help now! stay strong yumi! 💖🔥

[@d011p4rtz]

this is so heartbreaking. I've been a subscriber for almost 10 years and I'm not sure what's more upsetting; the situation you and your baby are in or the fact people are accusing you of *lying*

[@TheAngelita255]

Such a difficult situation Yumi, but I hope things go up from now on. I will be rewatching your videos to help you

[@purplegirl02]

Yumi, I've been following you for so many years and it's so sad this is happening to you. Stay strong! I hope you'll get out of this situation soon. Will do my best to support by watching your videos!

[@Andi-y8e]

Love you so much yumi!! Been a fan since 2016 and follow you all this time I feel inspired by you and your growth ❤ so happy you are not homeless anymore 😢 I cried after hearing

[@metroscene]

I thought her parents had two houses, why are they letting her and her baby be homeless!?!?

[@kimbaalu1528]

Excellent question

[@nightsparkles]

She said something bad happened (from what I gathered) so it could be that they had to sell off the other house 🤷

[@nodaylightmuseum]

I don't understand it either, looks like she is all alone

[@shawndenise1739]

What happened to her husband, haven't watched in a while

[@WitchyBlueMoonlight]

she may have fell out with her parents.

[@cjo4210]

Your dresses were stolen?? By who? Also, Yumi-look into doing Interactive Design/UX Design freelance work! Build a portfolio and highlight your experience (building your KZbin brand, etx). You need a good portfolio to move forward in UX. Also, apply for jobs overseas. Germany has somewhat open visas for educated international applicants. You gotta hustle right now. Beg your parents to stay with them to have a stable place to focus. Also, START A FRESH KZbin CHANNEL. You need to rebrand yourself. Maybe the channel can be about interactive design tutorials, etc

[@TheReihoshido]

Just keeping doing what you can. 💯 we're rooting for you Yumi!

[@kiwiuchiha]

Was it a home raid or things stolen from a storage unit. Just curious since it wasn't clear.

[@kristymc6784]

I wish you did not have to explain yourself because the people are trolls. I've been watching you for ever. I wish you lots of strength and endurance and level-headedness for you can provide for you and your child. I will always watch and give a thumbs up. And you got a auntie Kiki here that loves you. I watch you grow up for my little girl living in your mama's house to grown woman with a baby.

[@hardworkingdiva]

I know this may sound silly to some but I’m so sad about the vanity table! You were so excited when you got it. It was a dream come true item. The great thing is that things can be replaced. You and your son are safe and that is what truly matters. You will prevail, Yumi. I lost it all too at one point and my life is wonderful now. You can do it! ❤ And Yumi is not lying. The wait list for government housing is 2-5 years if you’re lucky. The waitlist in Dallas hit 10 years at one point. Things are not as simple as people believe.

[@catus-cactus]

As a graphic design student apply for the Ux design jobs. It’s in high demand and you can get a paid entry level job doing designing.

[@1045310453]

OK SO HOW YOU SUPPOSED TO LOOK HOMELESS THAT SHES LYING ? shes trying the most she can do as a SINGLE mom since her (dead beat ex aint helping)so stop assuming without knowing the true respect her privacy you can see in her eyes she is going through stuff so please enough of questioning her

[@lacevein]

We love you Yumi, we’re always here to support you. Please don’t think that you owe us anything !! Your privacy and comfort is number one

[@gingersroots1]

I have been watching you for years. I pray for you and your son ❤

[@amihuss773]

We support you Yumi!! Keep fighting the circumstances! You can do this! No need to answer questions stupid people ask!!!

[@specializedchemicals6669]

it makes me so angry people are accusing you of things -at the very least they're passively trying to bc it (what they're doing) ain't fooling me- and talking crap about you or your situation. it's so tough for you right now and they might just be adding onto it. stay strong, yumi, and just keep trying your best.

[@amihuss773]

💯💯💯💯 For some reason the online haters are especially targeting her for many years now I have no idea why. Such idiots.

[@LakituKoopa]

well, it is quite suspicious. A single mother which has been divorced, facing financial troubles and living in a shelter is still doing videos about fashion instead of idk, going to her own parents, finding a job, being there for her child and getting her life together like every sane person in her position would? Taking the other videos and the click-bait titles into account I am slowly starting to question her "problem" and calling it bullshit, not to mention the "heartbreaking" thumbnails where she looks sad on purpose. It starts to feel like a well designed attention seeking strategy and seeing all the comments here I can surely tell she is successful with it. If it truly is what I am thinking then as a Media and Communication Expert in B2B I am quite impressed by her creativity to let her community dance to her own tune.

[@same6093]

@@LakituKoopa you sound short sited. This video and the other recent uploads couldn’t have taken more than an hour of time to create. After almost 10 years on this platform why would she quit now? People go through tragedy every day, it doesn’t mean life stops. Yumi is fashion forward, creative and intelligent, why should she give up on social media dreams just because her life isn’t perfect? As for sad thumbnails, haven’t you ever vented to a friend? Put your hatefulness to good use and find someone else to pick on.

[@Tiramisu71]

@@LakituKoopa she's making income from the fashion haul vids with affiliate codes, and video ad money. So yes, she knows exactly what will get her viewers to watch her videos. It's really not that suspicious or conniving. Seems like she's also making an effort to be self-sustainable through other means

[@LakituKoopa]

@@same6093 Short sighted? I don't know where that came from but this is actually my line of work so don't feed me "short sighted". Why she should quit? Let me see, her life is in turmoil and she has a kid, so instead of toying around with ad money or social media and crying around how bad her life is in front of the whole world she should do a REAL job instead of hoping to get some nice ad deals, it is called responsibility. And yes, this is not a job and moreover not a job to feed a little child and to make sure it will manage in life. I must say I find it quite amusing that I stated a neutral comment and you come up and throw me "hatefulness" against my head. You must be GenZ then because you guys love to throw buzzwords at others without using your own head first. In other words you don't know what hate is if you call me "hateful". You know what would be hateful? Saying things like " I would love to slice you open and tear out your guts and strangle you with them before burning you alive in a furnice". THAT is hate my dear Sam, not my previous comment. Get that shit right because people like you made it possible that every damn social media plattform put in this nonsense regulation about hate speech which in fact only serves as a very well disguised censorship tool against opinions which some people would love to remove since they don't favor their own perspective.

[@phindlovu8321]

:( It's really messed up that you have to defend yourself like this. You're already going through so much right now. But I'm looking forward to the day when you can upload videos about rebuilding your lolita dress wardrobe (if that's what you want) and just having a calm/happy/normal day with your son. Good luck and hang in there!

[@miniwolfang9563]

What happened? Did the ex just toss your belongings???? That's so evil.

[@xoxofashiondiva]

i know right? I wonder if a burglar stole them or if it was her ex

[@sannahss9173]

It wasnt her ex.

[@CieUtanatakawaiinekoArubaYouko]

So, who stole it?

[@Porkoro]

It’s ok ! Don’t feel bad about the cloths you can always collect them later when you get back the money. I hope everything works out for you Don’t loose hope you will get though.

[@witchingbrew3]

I'm sorry to hear about your egl/Lolita dresses. I wear Lolita sometimes and I know how timely it is to make or buy them.

[@NyashaBT]

All the DISGUSTING people that are commenting and saying this young lady is lying??? I’m actually so sad. Yumi doesn’t need to explain to us her whole life. We all know homelessness is not easy. On top of that she has a young son that she takes care of full time seemingly on her own. She never forces anyone to do anything they don’t want to she just wants support to raise funds. I wish I was in a better place to be able to help her. Stay strong yumi!! We still love you and will watch all your content so you can live the life that you and your boy deserve ❤️❤️❤️

[@Amanda---]

How sad you lost all your things. What's most important is your safe and your son is safe.

[@EmoUnloved]

Yumi, hang in there. You will overcome this!

[@Usha-j5q]

So sad for ur loss i hope time will recover it fast 💯

[@luxcyberwolf6283]

What!!! No way thats terrible I know what you are going through I've been struggling too, but to have things you loved stolen I hope those who did that would have karma bite them for such an act

[@phaunvods]

I've followed you and watched and liked! I hope you get through this. Stay strong! I love your contacts in this video!

[@memememe9237]

You will rise from all of your ashes, and shine again like a wonderful Phoenix, Yumi ❤️ Stay Strong 🤗❤️

[@AnnAnime]

OK so you covered housing I understand that because me and my husband and we were gonna get that but they said the waiting list was so long but what about WIC for your baby And EBT food stamps?

[@trevorphillips9576]

Dang she became a mature woman overnight. lol! Awesome yumi getting things done!

[@beebeesmom2152]

I’m sorry you are going through it Yumi. Sending love and prayers. Hoping you will be able to get more clothes and everything you lost, replaced ten fold. You are always going to be beautiful no matter what you wear or where you are in life. We love you 😘 ❤💋

[@Lientjes]

Please do a storytime on what happend between you and your ex husband because we all dont understand any of this .. 😔

[@renaichew4567]

I'm very sad to hear your loss of those beautiful dresses and furniture. I started watching your videos, enjoying those beautiful and cute stuffs. But I want to encourage you don't give up on things you really love to do. Because of the difficult situation right now, you may have to go through a lot of struggles. I have followed your videos, see a lot of your improvement and growth, from a young girl to a strong mother, your story will inspire and encourage a lot of people. May God bless you. 😇

[@Kmariification]

I do not doubt that the baby is his. Based on her past videos and such. If I were the guy and KNEW that my wife cheated on me and got pregnant, I wouldn't have let her stayed with me and go thru all the birthing process etc. It would just be a waste of time, space and money. Perhaps, he wasn't there for the birth of her child? A speculation,of course. Which resulted in him not putting his name on the child's birth cert and claiming in court that the baby isnt his. Perhaps he just doesn't wanna show up at all, wants nothing to do with the baby, letting her go thru everything as a single mom. If you look at past videos, you can kinda tell how things went down, coupled with the facts of his very sketchy and douchey past actions.

[@deliadee4686]

Your eyes are beautiful Yumi! ❤ Hang in there honey!

[@meirin5316]

yumi i wish you and your baby the best! i really hope i will see videos of you in a few years in which u finally can be happy and relaxed again!

[@markhodgkinson7299]

Oh no, the Lolita dresses feeling you loss form England. Wishing well, hope everything will get better very soon.❤

[@hitomichan7]

Im so sorry to hear you have to go through all this to the point you lost a lot of your stuff which meant a lot to you which is heartbreaking. I really hope things will get better for you soon Someone i look up to once said that your toughest times prepare you for the best time which is something i keep in mind

[@CharlieLowry]

Hey Yumi! I'm sorry that all this is happening right now but you'll make it through this storm. Just know that everything is getting better minute by minute. Tomorrow will be better. Give your son lots of love. Many blessings to you Ms. Yumi

[@shadowik2010]

am sorry this has happened to you ... I am curious though, how did they get stolen? did you catch the thief? and will you get your stuff back? I hope you regain your stuff and have a better life :3

[@Hopischwopi]

It`s morning right now and I don`t really have anything of value to say so I just write what comes to my so this comment can help the video & your reach. You got this!

[@ACoolMom]

Considering the long housing lists where you are, you might have to move in order to get housing. If you don’t have a job or custody order where you’re currently living, maybe it’s for the best! Start over new in a different state or town. I just moved 6 hours away with my kids in order to get our housing. Best of luck to you & your little guy❣️

[@weirdogurl9447]

Yumi, stay strong for your son. ❤ You can do it. I am a long time subscriber of yours and I am so sad you are in this position but it can and will get better.

[@Theyuki004]

Yumi you can make an amazon wishlist so we can give you gifts and help to replace your lollita and hanfu dresses. It makes me sad that your items were stolen/ lost. I still watch your DIY videos because they’re super helpful and I would love to help you more!

[@markhodgkinson7299]

This is a good idea. any essentials you need to get you by, some of us may be able to help a little. (I already did small amount by paypal)

[@justanothergoth]

Hang in there Yumi, better times may come eventually.

[@marie01ism]

Im glad your situation is getting better ❤

[@uavidavida7633]

I'm so shocked that there is a waiting list for government assistance for 5 years! Wow! It just shows how much people don't want to work ...

[@rogerparker4727]

Never give up. Just do your best. I hope everything will go better soon.

[@ravenfaebowie]

Oh no! Did 'he' steal your things and sell them or something? I'm so sorry you're in such a rotten situation. I hope things work out for you soon 💜

[@SeanTalksTooMuch1]

Hey Yumi! I actually made a YT Vid on your situation, and didnt really keep up with it, after getting all caught up, I think you should focus on your KZbin And Part Time Job, You need to focus on the quality of your videos, im sorry about all the stuff that's going on, but you're not gonna make any money if every other one of your videos is about this situation, You need to focus on growing your channel and working and supporting your child, so start making videos that will help you grow, get more views, and get more sponsorships.

[@babyprincess4071]

Keep Hope. There’s programs, usually private, they are just for women and children.. not quite a shelter. My sister in law lives in one of these places. It’s a neighborhood of apartment homes just for women and children that are in a hard place. It’s free and safe. Try to look for one of these programs!

[@__L563]

Yumi is the someone you live with right now is throwing your belongings or celling them without your approval? You said it's not your Ex so is it the someone you live with? Are they your parents? No one has the right to steal your stuff! I feel sad and my heart goes for you 💔

[@WitchyBlueMoonlight]

clothes and possessions can be bought new. its refreshing to start from scratch after going through such traumatic experience

[@janelw596]

Sorry for question this , can you stay at parents house ? Until you get better ?

[@Sejjin]

Oh Yumi. :( I know you want to be independent and strong, but it is ok to get help when you really need it. Wouldn't living with your parents and paying them rent be safer? How did you lose all your dressed and items? That really sucks. I honestly just can't believe your ex would knock you up and kick you on your ass so fast after giving birth. You lost all your precious items. I'm really really sorry. Hopefully in the future you can build back some collections of things you really love, even if you've grown up, it's ok to have thing's you like for display or fun occasions.

[@isisphlyx]

Prays u get back in life. Miss your making of lolita clothes. Is so heart breaking what u had is gone.

[@cjo4210]

Oh, eventually you have to delete these videos to move forward. People gossip and if your employer hears about anything negative it might affect your ability to advance professionally. Its time not be sad or regretful. Be brave and focused.

[@DarkJanet]

I’m sorry this happened to you. I can’t believe they did terrible things to steal all your clothes.

[@vvonderweiss]

Who stole her clothes?

[@DarkJanet]

@@vvonderweiss IDK, but if someone stole her clothes, I’ll hit them with my bat.

[@nightshadegiggle]

Sad that you lost some of your clothes, Yumi stay strong things will get better in time, you have the support of your friends here.

[@turnersgauge3430]

I’m so sorry they got stolen. I love you Yumi

[@SharlizeLyn]

Sending you love and positivity ❤

[@MacyMayM]

People make judgments and blame people for their bad circumstances. Life isn’t easy; telling a person to do x,y and z isn’t helpful.

[@vvonderweiss]

How do we help? She is relying on our assistance through donations and sponsorships. How should we aide her in her time of need?

[@EveofPyrite]

Can someone update me on her situation. Wasn't she married with a kid? I pray that things get better for her.

[@mehakverma7043]

She divorced splenda (her ex husband), lost alot of money and has been living in motels. Alot of people are wondering why she isn’t moving back in with her mom and she has not addressed why. Alot of people are also wondering why she isn’t recieving child support or alimony from the divorce. If you read the official divorce document online (under her real name Zhang, Yuhan), it says that she did in fact have a child in the marriage but Splenda is not the biological father. Thats what it says on the official paper, however there is still room for discussion as no one has seen any paternity test. Now people are arguing who to believe. Splenda has always been creepy and has had 3 past divorces already. So most of the situation is unknown. Other than the fact that she keeps crying about alot of her stuff being stolen/taken away and living in motels because she is homeless. I think she mentioned being in a shelter at one point but I’m not sure. Her parents are suspected to be in Washington, so I don’t understand again, why she doesn’t move in with them.

[@pastel-children5551]

Who in their right mind would steal...

[@HagarLoves]

Glad you have a part time job along side KZbin, Yumi! Soon hopefully you will find a space to rent permanently for you and your son. I know you will. Just want to comment also, that your English is sounding so good.

[@SkogenWhisper]

So you sold the Lolita dresses?

[@imsoooimpresssss4574]

❤ hello love 💕 life is up & down but it’s only temporary…😊 so hang in there love 💗 all will be well soon …😊

[@StrawberryDanae]

I used to watch you when I was a teen now I'm a mom also here in my country we can file a case if the husband doesn't pay child support they can go to prison even if they missed one I'm a single mom myself i hope that you and your son will finally have a good life i don't have enough money to donate but ill subscribe to your social media so it can help you make money I have an auntie who lives in Maryland she works at Wells Fargo maybe u can apply their?

[@iluvbears4861]

Yall don't understand. I don't think her parents are in America and moving back would entail a long process esp for her child. It's not that simple.

[@mehakverma7043]

Yes they are. They are in Washington

[@tinglebopper]

Hey Yumi! I wish you and your baby well, I hope everything works out for you. ❤ Just wondering, have you maybe looked into becoming a Chinese/ English translator? I’m sure there are remote jobs for it as well.

[@lizzie7929]

Sorry to hear!!

[@fireflymiesumae]

You'll make it Yumi

[@gabby3429]

I'm praying that you will be okay!!!

[@MISSFABLEGODDESSES]

Do you have a idea who rob you that’s so petty like who tf steals a whole crib wow ppl

[@Anier11129]

Why the voice is changed?

[@vvonderweiss]

She is using her natural adult speaking voice.

[@BisqueDoll_Xochi]

Wishing all the best for you I’m so sorry☹️

[@TheLocoUnion]

Yumi, place a payment (monetization) tag on your videos so that we can send something to you. Or start a go fund me and let us know. I know that I can send you a little something! I’m so sorry this has happened to such a sweet person. 😢

[@Mgdr2011]

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 im so sorry yumi💔💔💔 love you so much

[@Kairibeachga]

We're hoping things start looking up for you