All Narcissists Will Do This to Trap You

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Let's do this!

[@ashleyyoung5762]

I'm 1 of this and don't want to be this way how can I stop it

[@jonathanjollimore7156]

People need to understand there is no altruism or love or understand from narcissist unless they are going to gain something from it. If yea had two people they both forgot it was someone birthday the first person is upset because they forgot there friends birthday how could I forget something so important my FRIENDS birthday. Second person think *sign* oh yea it so and so birthday better get a gift so I don't look bad in front of everyone and let not me too cheap so they don't buy me a cheap gift on my birthday. See the difference in thinking about same event.

[@tammylee8885]

I think I have a boyfriend like that I'm not sure but I think he is like that he's in the army maybe that's why he's in the army

[@ashleyyoung5762]

@Richard Johanson chees need to stop being this way

[@Rose_grpa]

What they accuse you of doing, they in fact are doing.

[@m998hmmwv7]

When they turn cold and uncaring I go grey rock and bore them to death lol. Narcissist cannot stand being bored lol

[@savitaanchan1120]

Yeah..this is one more most irritating n intolerable to get on.. disgusting 🙄

[@gempath5533]

Absolutely!

[@jilliemarie]

They are liers cheaters stealers

[@pursue513]

More projection than an IMAX theater 😆😄

[@roseboursier2937]

They use something that you shared in confidence and will later use it to hurt you or tell others your character flaws.

[@exile3119]

Yes. This is why I am very careful about what I share with people. Don't trust anyone. Test people out first to see if you can trust them

[@HippieGoddess142]

I shared my sexual assault incident from tinder, and these women started bringing it up to tell others how much of a “whore” I was for sleeping with strangers off the internet. Truly sick, dark triad types.

[@kristina9124]

Yup they sure will

[@LION-on4gd]

That's for sure..

[@rcczung4180]

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[@ckyung1312]

They get married and have children to make more victims and adoring fans.

[@teresa4645]

And they want mini mes. Mine discarded me two weeks before baby was born and said he wouldn’t be at the birth. A few hours before I went in labor he said he would go but I said my sister would go with me now. Since he was going back to his ex. He told everyone I dumped him and stole his family from him. He was hurt I named baby another name instead of His Name, Junior. After he dumped me, he still expected to get a Junior and be at the birth

[@jolly7728]

This is really accurate and to the point. For this reason, it's critical to avoid hooking up with a narcissist. We don't need to make any more of this type of individual.

[@fourboys1gr]

Very sad, the way my husband treated my daughter ( only sfter she was older) like from 11 on. Cuz then there is conflict and diagreement. So sad.

[@jolly7728]

@@fourboys1gr I've realized that as victims, we must always try to make lemonade out of lemons. So much in life might be terrifying, but we must be determined to triumph anyway! Adversity can make us stronger!

[@katarinatibai8396]

💯 🎯 - Narcissists don't have children, they produce theyr hosstidges. The tyrant dark souls craving to suck everyone araund them dry of energy and life force.

[@myutube5882]

They also trap you by not encouraging you, supporting you, approving of you so you keep searching for it and working for it - something you will never get from them, by the way, unless, of course, they are love bombing you or giving it to you in such tiny bits (bread crumbing). You talked about how they hurt you and then make it better and isolate you so they can be the only one that can make it better - also known, of course, as trauma bonding.

[@janeth.3819]

Fakers!!

[@rudolphnixon3534]

They also blow up at the smallest things and never apologize.

[@myutube5882]

@@rudolphnixon3534 Nor do they ever say "please" or "thank you" (unless maybe they're love bombing you).

[@oliveo2013]

Yes but all the time they're trauma binding us they are too stupid to realise that they are proving beyond any reasonable doubt that they absolutely cannot be trusted. Sooner or later this notion moves from the back of our minds to the front so to speak and when that happens - narcies listen up - it means that we've started the process of sussing you out and sooner or later you gonna see a new game in town.

[@ronaldcipolla4207]

So so true.

[@triplehot]

Best thing to do is say your piece, then radio silence and that's it.

[@lindsayweller3627]

I used to say my piece over and over thinking that I could communicate the way he was hurting me and maybe work on a solution. It got to the point where I could literally think of the "good reason" he would have for anything I brought and just not say anything anymore. How defeated they make us. But I agree with you that if you're strong enough to say your piece and walk away, that's the win for you.

[@triplehot]

@Richard Johanson you can still be an empath. Its not being insensitive when you have to be a certain way to protect yourself. One of the best things that I discovered was stoicism. I highly recommend it. If you need someone to chat with, I'm here.

[@susanwhite6761]

That's what I did and it worked!

[@Phil_Scott]

Yes... very good... say your piece in peace but very very directly... then pooof,.... gone peacefully, No attempt at correction or exposure, if you try to expose them you will get involved with their flying monkeys and other idiots and that can be deep mud indeed. Just pooooof. gone, ...no way to contact you.. is someone asks, just a soft answer with no clue for the person, If you just say well 'I move on a lot' will say it all with no room for instigating any back lash. Anyone with a brain will know exactly what the deal was and why you are not talking particularly if you are not smiling when you tell them simply that you have simply moved on... and are busy ... with absolutely no attempt to indicate any fault on the part of anyone.... if pressed I always say, ' Well if I myself am any indication, I have plenty of flaws, farting in elevators etc. I am not very interested in what others flaws might have '... completely neutral. That will frustrate the fleets of morons digging for ammunition or some dirt to pass on.

[@beverlytate2669]

I like disappearing after making them think I'm complying as fast as I can.

[@yukio_saito]

01:20 1. Love bombing 03:12 2. Future faking 04:56 3. Devalue you 07:03 4. Isolate you 07:44 5. They triangulate 08:19 6. They withhold 08:33 7. Gaslighting 09:10 8. Project and deflect 09:56 9. Straight up lie

[@yukio_saito]

I also experienced that in my previous workplaces. My ex-boss is a covert narcissist and he did everything of that instead of what normal managers do.

[@Lea941]

10. Discard you for different supply. They always have a new supply before they discard you, ALWAYS And they could be back to use you for future supply when things don’t work out with the other victim

[@educationalbrowsing8913]

Thank you!!!!!!🥰

[@florencia2771]

I was looking for this comment. Thank you. 💙

[@theclown2393]

#2...future lie??? Like when they pretending to plan a future with you, like let's get married or text you out of the blues with a wedding date proposal that will never happen type thing?

[@htpm325]

They love to set up no-win situations. It could be something important or not. However you respond will be treated with one of the nine points discussed in this video and thus you will lose (excluding legal ramifications). As always when dealing with a narcissist - get out and stay out!

[@rhondadavis4285]

They are unconscious self saboteurs and they must take you down with them because they need someone to blame as they have no ability to respond NO response ability. Look at it correctly. They have a deficit. Defragmented thinking leads to disconnect from reality.

[@ConnieGeldreich22]

It's like the Hotel California.. you can check out but you can never leave. Your always in that web!

[@Ladyfee56]

That was one of the songs he would always sing. Everything is making so much sense now. He is a liar and a bum

[@fourboys1gr]

The procrastination encompsses everything in their life! Lying, never and I do mean never, keeps their word!!

[@jamesarmstrong4179]

Dee Dee Rash,You look stunning,hope you are not with a narcissist....

[@cooperhowz2]

They also gang up on you. They coalesce together. It's almost like a sick mindset. They really believe that some people matter and other people don't matter. They back each other up no matter what the other one does. It's like a club.

[@meredithheath5272]

Glenda - I know of this first hand, myself - yup - they gang up on you - now I know a new vocabulary word - "Triangulation".

[@txknitnurse]

They slam the door in your face. They often gang up with someone they know doesn’t like you. I’m the common enemy of both of them. It’s sick and disgusting.

[@susanwhite6761]

OMG- this is so true! My sister would gather people around to gang up on me ALL THE TIME!

[@MJ-qb5ph]

Yes experienced this in former work situation and with family cult

[@rcczung4180]

I'm now available on whatsapp for consultation and advise

[@cooperhowz2]

All I can say is that whenever I thought my narcissists (I had more than one) would never sink that low, they always disappointed me. They ALWAYS sunk lower than I ever thought possible. Walk away while you're behind. You will never catch up. You will never recover anything. The longer you stay, the more you will lose. Cut and run. Cut your losses, and lock the door behind you. Go "No Contact" forever. Trust me on this one.

[@barbarascoggins5239]

No contact is the only way to deal with a narcissist! Run like hell and never look back!

[@rebcczung7869]

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[@karendefusco3505]

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[@purelove8972]

I can 100% relate on seeing the lowest a person can possibly go with a narcissist ex-fiance. Never expected a person could be so indecent. Surprise!!! 🥳 Trying to do no contact. It's extremely difficult because the love bombing / hoovering began as soon as I cut the ties, but this time, ummm... 10th or so?... I am trying to be smarter

[@wolfgang7812]

Another trap I have seen certainly in toxic/difficult people is they deliberately keep quite; about their plans and projects so that you start to ask questions and get sucked into something you later regret.

[@savitaanchan1120]

Remember they always listen to you, so that they can get to know what you are, what's Ur plans, future ideas so that they plan their future ideas, plans if they like you, Ur thoughts, n overtake you n mirror you before u do that, get it, u will be get shocked or surprised to know that this is ur future plans, dreams n ideas in front of you before u achieve it 😀 if u already successful in what Ur, they try to destroy it, make it non available to you anymore..they are really demons..be away from them, discard them totally from Ur life or else they make Ur life miserable, they steal Ur brain n intelligence n make seem it as their own or they fill it in their kids brain n they will put a mirror in front of you. All they want is to make u feel jeolous n win over you coz they think Ur a strong competitor 😀 means they are very weak than you 😀

[@cheryla2557]

Narcissist always see themselves as victims no matter how horribly they’ve treated someone else. To them the problem is not their lying, cheating, stealing and abuse. The problem is that you started to notice these things.

[@MJ-qb5ph]

Absolutely. Took me decades to see that game. Two years no contact with my family - there is no alternative in the end

[@rcczung4180]

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[@rcczung4180]

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[@inhale.exhale.2527]

please be aware that whatsapp contact requests are bogus. 🙏

[@josephmyatt7382]

Can relate to that just let my ex do it all over again this evening

[@lifewithbreion1392]

OMG!!!!! 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 THIS IS SO SPOT ON!!!!!!!! WTF!! ITS LIKE WITCHCRAFT!! 'So you have no family and friends but yet you really cant depend on them either" That hit home!!!! Hard!!

[@bonitajolie9341]

Bingo!! That is precisely what it is!!!

[@bruji2001]

Yes! 💯 They are total scumbags!🙌

[@quoteme.goddess6957]

It is witchcraft. Their mind manipulation is only witchcraft.

[@Ladyfee56]

Definitely demonic

[@kimberlygreidanus5639]

Fakers for sure, Its actually hilarious watching them in their performances

[@andrebryant6343]

I looked at one today and said stop crying, straight faced, no emotion. Tired of the manipulation for being an empath.

[@janiemcrae8257]

The extent they go thru! Whew!

[@exile3119]

It is funny once you see it happening. I laugh at him on the inside. Sometimes I play along as my form of entertainment and so he can get a little of narc supply without trying to drain me of it later.

[@d.t.4150]

right!!

[@jolly7728]

@@andrebryant6343 In our world, we need to understand how to turn empathy on and off, especially when narcissists are present! Ignore the notion of being a "full-time empath." Those were the days. Become a three-dimensional empath, with empathy, lack of empathy, and the ability to pretend to be compassionate in order to politely deal with an unpleasant meeting. The last one is admittedly only utilized on rare occasions, such as for self-preservation when being physically attacked or anything similar. With these three dimensions, we should be able to handle almost any situation -- becoming a kind of a Machiavellian empath of sorts.

[@carolforsythe6316]

I used to keep a journal of all the bad things that were done to me so that they could not charm me later and lie to me. I found the strength to leave by writing things down and referring to them so that I would understand I was not crazy it was just their meanness.

[@rhondadavis4285]

Absolutely I use this tool as well.

[@dermlover1]

I do the same thing.

[@victoriakennedy4811]

The fake affection and charming behaviour at the start of the relationship really can suck you in - I wish i had known about this type of personality disorder before marriage to him and also that he now has an early onset dementia and alzheimers

[@lindsayweller3627]

I am dealing with a narcissist who's father has Alzheimer's and dementia. I often wondered if his father was the same when he was younger. Wonder if there is any correlation between the two?

[@knightress5760]

I got sucked in the same way. Very charming, loving, giving. All that I could ask for. Little did I know, I was being groomed and set up. I went through emotional hell for years, until I figured out what was going on. I could have kicked myself for not recognizing the behavior. The more I gave of myself was never enough. I gave a loaf and all I got back were crumbs. The love bombing, triangulation, trauma bonding, hovering, lies, deceit; I experienced it all. She was never wrong and everything was my fault. She was a cold hearted Bitch. Please forgive my language, but that's the only way I can describe her. I had to play her game. Then I became the narcissists , narcissist. She told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore, because I was too much like her and she didn't like what she was seeing in me. Go figure! Now she says she has found Jesus and she has changed. Yes ,Jesus is the miracle man, but I know that a Narc will always be a Narc. They don't change, they just wear a different mask. Smdh

[@kristina9124]

I wish I would of known before I married my husband to because then you get stuck they refuse to divorce you and we live together n have kids together so I'm definitely trying to find a way out for my kids and I but I am taking my power back and no longer letting him do all of these horrible things to me or my kids

[@rcczung4180]

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[@elenaappleton2932]

@@kristina9124 Me too!

[@davidpfenniger3187]

My ex would lie about anything she could! Before digging into narcissism personality I’d nailed most of the issues associated to this pathology (personality) and she hated it. A couple of months later, all the good memories i had were replaced by the terrible moments which occupied most of the time.. of course!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@davidpfenniger3187]

@@RebeccaZungEsq I’ll do my best to be there

[@kieshaspady4923]

Fakers

[@davidpfenniger3187]

@@kieshaspady4923 wish them all the worse

[@davidpfenniger3187]

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[@aliceroberts1980]

I don’t know how they do it but he still every once in a while he will charm me than I think OMG he did it again but I catch myself faster because I know what he is !!

[@exile3119]

lol. At least you know now.

[@lightfeather6238]

Good on you, your catching on . 👍 We are human we want to believe what they tell us when they swoon over us but really it’s just more manipulation. Your not alone 💗

[@dancindebs1]

Does it ever end.

[@lightfeather6238]

@@dancindebs1 Yes it does When you leave and go no contact. In time you will start remembering the peace inside of yourself that has been there the whole time. I hope each victim of the narc knows that you, yes you are worthy to be happy no matter what.

[@propheteyebert7063]

@@rcczung4180 Why would anyone want a consultation with a scammer using another person's name?

[@m998hmmwv7]

Grey rock works best for all situations narcissist. Just bore the hell out of them and they will go away lol

[@sundancer7381]

Funny! Bore them! Sounds like you've been thru it!

[@munichgirl2514]

Indeed...!!!! They can’t stand it ...👌 they want that drama any attention good or bad , they love it ....

[@TM-tx9ct]

Ignoring them and pretending that they don't exist works the best. For them positive, negative, and boring attention is better than not existing.

[@JenniferMartinez-mg8dy]

Great 👍

[@sallyhutt5201]

REALY

[@stevehartwell1861]

Lived this. Accurate. Hard to believe for those that can't see it.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I’d love to invite you to join my FREE live webinar called “The 3 MUST-HAVE Secrets to Communicating with a Narcissist.” tomorrow, Wednesday, October 13, 9 AM Pacific Time (US & Canada). You can sign up RIGHT HERE: www.slayyournegotiation.com/freewebinar2021rz. See you there!

[@theresefournier3269]

They "test" you!

[@jamesarmstrong4179]

Therese Fournier,You look stunning,hope you are not with a narcissist....

[@francinesmith8109]

@@jamesarmstrong4179 one like you? Lol scamper away now abuser.

[@debbie4938]

Dear Rebecca, I recently ended a 3 month relationship with an Attorney . He lives in a different State than me. We spent an entire 8 weeks together in segments. I saw that he was a narcissist and ran. Fast forward several weeks. I got a call from a Detective in his State and County asking me to call him. I did not. Now I am getting several letters a days from Attorneys in his State wanting to represent me. I committed no crime and not responding to anything. I wish you would do a video on narcissistic Attorneys. They have everyone in their back pocket. I’m 64 years old and innocent of whatever he has trumped up. Blessings

[@Valoelify]

@@rcczung4180 Scam

[@rachelann724]

Wow! That’s kind of scary. It’s impressive you aren’t allowing it to hurt or scare you. Glad you ran!!!

[@debbie4938]

@@rachelann724 Not so fast, he trumped up charges that I was stalking him. I had to hire an Attorney. One still has to spend money on false accusations. He’s trying to punish me for running.

[@rachelann724]

@@debbie4938 that’s crazy! Glad you got an attorney.

[@debbie4938]

@@rachelann724 The saddest part of this dysfunctional madness is he is an Attorney. Retired but, has buddies. We live in different States. I do not know a good attorney from a bad attorneys in his State. Unfortunately 90% of all attorneys are narcissist. Wish me luck.

[@brendagurganus6685]

I just got out of a sick situation with a narcissist ..i didn't know at the time.however as I listen more.i realized that is exactly the situation that I was in...hes now in jail..and I'm so grateful to be aware of the way I got out...he did everything you have said..you describe him perfectly...thank you for making me aware of these types of people...i waa beginning to believe that I just had a problem in my choices..however now I know the problem is that I'm too trusting..

[@lindsayweller3627]

I really associated with the use of your word unwinding here. That is a perfect description of the process you go through when leaving a narcissist. Another word I use is detangling! Between codependency and control, you really have to detangle yourself. It has taken me a few tries but I am almost detangled and I am so ready to unwind. Your videos are such a huge help. When I start to doubt myself (is he really that bad or is it me?) I just turn you on. Thank you for all that you do.

[@rhondadavis4285]

I have more than one woven in my life's tapestry, I had to get some skills~

[@melissahoffman9433]

I’ve seen this and so much more! I can forgive but can’t seem to forget… I’m not able to unsee it all. The mere fact that they can do so much harm and not even think about it blows my mind still.

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[@Laura-nl8df]

I will NEVER forgive. Ever. Never ever. The neverest ever there ever was.

[@melissahoffman9433]

@@Laura-nl8df ikr. Just can’t unsee or comprehend.

[@Joe-dd6hk]

Absolute horrible fakers…🤢🤢 love you Rebecca, spot on as always! Continue what you are doing, you truly understand these demons!! 🥰

[@rcczung4180]

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[@rebcczung7869]

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@kkelly7313]

Charming & charismatic... So many compliments... Buy you lots of 🎁 and pay for things.. They move fast in the relationship Tell you they love you within weeks Then, when you start to see their other side.. Jealous Possessive Paranoid Controlling Sneaky Sometimes they will stalk you Abusive

[@jolantalamprecht333]

That's exactly what I saw.

[@kkelly7313]

@@jolantalamprecht333 just wish I could warn more young women before they get sucked in, I had no idea when it happened to me as no experience with this kind of person.

[@michellehoward5318]

My fav was when he was supposed to be giving my dad money that I gave to him for the purpose of giving to my dad. Because we owed my dad money. And he kept part of it and I just happened to call my dad to tell him I would have the rest of the money we owed him and a few days and I learned he hadn't been given the full amount that I sent to him. When I called out the ex and said "what are you doing?" He went berserk on me because I was checking up on him. Which I wasn't, because at that time I didn't know I needed to. And paying back my father the money that we owed him was a nightmare. My ex would say things like my dad didn't need the money back or my dad wasn't spending money responsibly so we shouldn't have to pay him back. And I said it doesn't matter what he's spending the money on it's his money. It doesn't matter at all what he's doing with his money. He didn't have to loan us any money. And we ended up splitting up permanently and I paid my father back. My ex had no intention of ever paying him back. He thought because he didn't agree with how my dad spent money he shouldn't have to. What a joke. And a piece of crap.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@oliveo2013]

Is so weird how they decide that their opinion takes precedence over other peoples. I just let them talk, I nod as if what they're saying is worth considering but say nothing, then I go off quietly and do exactly what I intended to do in the first place. Don't argue with them, don't seek their approval or justify yourself and don't tell them much if anything about your plans or anything good in your life because they will seek to spoil it for you then act like you can only have say or do what suits them. There's no way I'm having any of that.......

[@brandinbates9862]

I am living this story only with my mom he wanted me to ask for the money then talks crap about how she spends her money or how she's not hurting for money tell her he will pay her off his next check. I hate to barrow or ask for anything from anyone!! Yet when he has gambled the last of his paycheck away and informed me he worked for that money to support our home an he does it alone with no help( mind you that is because he won't stand for me to work therefore I can't financially contribute to our home nor am I able to just make it right myself in the time frame given when money is loaned ) and trust and believe if he decides the lender is not in need of repayment on time guess who has to deal with that sure ain't him and dare I ask anything he doesn't see as my business because I will be the biggest pos for undermining and treating him as if he were stupid like he doesn't know how to handle what he needs to. I also feel like I'm crazy sometimes though and I say this because I feel like I have to be doing something to set him off but everything can be perfect and it's like if there isn't a problem no reason for a problem boom outta nowhere there will be a big problem and I caused it. Like wtf

[@LizaJane51360]

Wow! Greed and entitlement at its finest. Also exploiting others for their own personal gain. Stealing. Showing many true colors with this one transaction. Good for you for figuring it out!

[@roberthowell2502]

My Exx Narc promised to buy my Mom first class tickets to fly to my daughter's graduation in Texas. The Con took the money, bought Big Screen TV TV and went on a shopping Spree...Vanished as usual... My Mom saw thru her and said she knew she was no good from day one! After that, I kicked her forever out of my life💫💯 They have no conscious, or core character!👺 They always Reap whatever They Sow, With interest👍 A Spiritual Certainty!!!!!😲😉

[@victoriakennedy4811]

Yes the girl with the story of her pregnancy was spot on and I had a similar thing done to me - they all seem to know this type of behaviour pattern - it is truly evil and has made my life very miserable at times with the lying especially bad and not talking and ignoring what you say

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I’d love to invite you to join my FREE live webinar called “The 3 MUST-HAVE Secrets to Communicating with a Narcissist.” tomorrow, Wednesday, October 13, 9 AM Pacific Time (US & Canada). You can sign up RIGHT HERE: www.slayyournegotiation.com/freewebinar2021rz. See you there!

[@racheldoesacrylic4089]

Sitting in a car /room everything he says is about HIM nothing i said or say even register's and in the beginning i thought he was a good listener?? what a fool i was, these people are poison to a decent emotional spiritual being ,now i give zero interest to him /grey rock/ i have got over the grief of losing a love i never had that's the hardest /now plan his discard with utmost caution////

[@rhondadavis4285]

They cannot remember what you say they are disconnected like a radio with a lot of interference and days later when they cant recall they confabulate. Its natural to them like breathing.

[@cjtibbs3778]

Lies...lies...this coward Promised me if I stayed in 4 months until July in August they moved to the west coast with me for my asthma...it’s been 3 years still right where they are playing it safe surrounded by old high school friends they were intimate with way before we met but still...we have no mutual new friends. It’s supposed to be all about their needs and wants.

[@rhondahastings421]

For sure narcissist try to isolate you I've experienced this. He is wanting separation and then he comes back and then he leaves again ...he's wishy-washy.

[@koset]

I need to rewatch this every week from now on.

[@zhmw]

A Pastor lied to me, he believed my ex-son-in-law's mom and wouldn't even listen to my side of the story. Many church leaders don't understand nor are trained in narcissistic behavior nor domestic violence. My ex-son-in-law had anger issues and his mom knew about his anger, but she did nothing to protect my daughter and my young grand-daughter. I tried to reach out to my ex-son-in-law's Pastor and he refused to help my family. He didn't even offer to pray for my family. Thank you, Rebecca, for your dedication to educating people about narcissistic (and abusive) behavior. This training is vital to everyone, especially to those in authority.

[@lindabell6954]

Fakers, takers, crazy-makers.

[@1holytara]

YES!! EXACTLY!!

[@ronoldcross8189]

Isolate - you look around and find all your friends gone Triangulation full on. You want - no, too dangerous or cost too much. "He/She want" - done no discussion Sounds awfully familiar.

[@richardcampbell2261]

Lying, Conning, Devaluing you are the top ways that I have noticed. Some of the more evil will go even further than that.

[@sandratussing4723]

My oldest daughter in her early 40's is a full breed nacarristic. I have to stay a week ahead of her to keep myself on the top of the game by staying alert, keeping my distance and be civilized to her. Not easy because I have to maintain my relationship with my granddaughter.

[@jessicavalley7469]

My oldest is anti social I believe a narcissist as well it's horrible when it's your own child I feel fuilt bc I don't feel much love left for her

[@arbonneladyTN]

Mine is 36… she has no kids (or husband) and is full breed narcissistic as well. She has destroyed relationships with her sister & b-n-l, and brother & s-n-l too! Hang in there mom!!

[@portugueseego]

@@arbonneladyTN Does having "no kids (or husband)" make one a narcissist?

[@portugueseego]

@@jessicavalley7469 Maybe she is not "anti social". Maybe she is just chronically depressed or suffers from PTSD due to narcissistic abuse and emotional neglect, most likely since childhood.

[@jessicavalley7469]

@@portugueseego she is diagnosed antisocial you don't know me or my family so keep your opinions about my family to yourself overindulgence in children can cause personality disorders nice try

[@lifewithbreion1392]

How do they all know how to do these things??.. is there a narcissist handbook? Lol.. this is crazy.

[@watchinfireflies7201]

I know right 😌 they all must have secret meetings 🤣

[@triedhardbutblessed]

Actually, it's self-explanatory... the same screw is missing from all of them.

[@llynnie888]

Yes, it's like the sadistic society's bag of tricks!

[@lightfeather6238]

I recently read its in there DNA 🤔 So it’s genetic . Meet and observe family. Trust your gut. Any thoughts on this? I’m curious is it possible? 🧬

[@tomaszowczarek1433]

@@lightfeather6238 it's like the nature vs nurture thing (or genetic vs environmental). It may be in their genes, but may lay dormant unless triggered by specific events, like trauma, or lack of events, i.e. neglect. Also, there's always a chance that are person will turn into an empath rather than a narcissist from the exact same circumstances and set of genes...so 🤷 it's kinda complex and random. In either case, narcissists and empaths are hardwired slightly different than the normal person (at opposite extremes). I don't think people are born narcissists, but the die is cast by around age 8 or 9 and can not be fixed (maybe treated to a small degree) as it becomes permanently wired in the brain.

[@MartianGod1968]

My youngest kids mom tells them one thing and tells me another, which could cause conflict but they are smart and mature and will call her out,course it’s deflected. They love her but are realizing she has very deep issues and turn to me for stability. She then guilts them and tries to pull me into her storm. I’ve learned a lot, but your videos are filling in the gaps thank you so so much

[@andrebryant6343]

I think I'm dealing with one and am I going through it right now.

[@Sandy--hq5ws]

Run while you still can! 💫

[@KC-ns9do]

Oh no, poor guy! Shut her down and go no contact.

[@forensikrodriguez913]

End it now

[@Andrembramwell]

No contact man

[@WhiteWolfBlackStar]

MOVE YOUR MONEY! And keep your vehicle safe, if you're lucky you'll be able to live in it. I wasn't so lucky. His new girl friend, my clone half my age wound up with it. I got to WALK AWAY with the clothes on my back.

[@sherryedwards695]

Great video. Very educational. In my younger and much niave days, I didn't know then but looking back I believe that I was dating a narcassist. Every time something would happen he would blame me. At a restaurant once he forgot his cigarettes on the table. We took the bus to another location. He then realized that he forgot his cigarettes. He said it was my fault because he was thinking of me. He wanted me to pay the bus fare to the restaurant for his cigarettes. Of course I refused. He used to steal money from me and then lie. But one time I marked my money and then saw him using it. He would steal from stores. We went to a restaurant and he wanted to sneak out without paying the bill. Another time we went to a restaurant and he left a nice tip for our waitress. As we were leaving he said he had to use the washroom. He went back to the table and took the money. I saw him. I asked him about this and he lied and denied it. Also, he was always playing "head games" with me. A previous boyfriend of mine broke us up by saying that I was still dating him. Which was a lie but he didn't believe me and broke up with me. He said he just wanted to get back together with me because he wanted to break up with me again. But actually I was already over him and didn't care. He did try getting 3 of his friends to date me and then break up with me. That didn't work because I didn't want to date any of his friends anyways. But I did go skating with 1 of his friends. Both him and my old boyfriend (ha, they became friends) were hiding and watching us skate. We were suppose to go to a cafe for coffee after and those jokers would come in to harass me. But my skating date thought that I was nice and didn't want to hurt me so we didn't follow through on that plan. It didn't matter because when I got home all 3 jokers were there to bother me. Fortunately my roommate was home. So I now feel that I dodged a bullet. Thanks for a great video.

[@LyndieLouWho]

A Narcissist would rather climb a tree to tell a lie than stand right in front of you and tell the truth.

[@rcczung4180]

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[@vadisquo9094]

yes thats a big one. Lie when they do not have to lie. That was at the time Jaw Dropping Puzzling to me, and extremely hurtful. No contact with her was the best and only way to solve that problem.

[@meredithheath5272]

Lie like they breath - first nature to those sub humans. "Accuse others of that which you do yourself."

[@conniegalanopoulos4911]

Excellent video. I had a H R manager, her assistant, and the security go into mine and everyone's locker. Then make copies of their keys to their cars and living spaces, and then break in go through everything.

[@maddiAlice7094]

Or if they know you saw something like a text, they say you are lying and then say ok if that is true where is your proof? If you show proof then again you invaded privacy or it isn’t your business…(when it is)

[@renztaylor5904]

Stay present. Stay aware of yourself at all times. Single word answers, three word conversations. Yes seems nearly impossible and I’ve cracked a few times and get angry letting him push my buttons. Now however that’s changing. He just lost his job and me I have nothing to say. Except one thing I said was he needs somebody much smarter than I, making him feel as if he’s special. I’ve noticed at times I think he wanted me to abuse him.?super sicko Rebecca you’re amazing; thank you

[@cymbolichuman433]

He invades all pretty young women cashiers' space. When they say something, he gets angry.

[@rcczung4180]

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[@sarahrobertson634]

@@rcczung4180 Is it free?

[@tysonscott2358]

Wow! You hit all of the points! What I like most is how confident you are when discussing these matters. You're not confused about it at all!

[@janetdarlington7720]

Charm is deceitful. Old Proverb. Very true.

[@erfe8398]

my mom and sister are narcissists... my childhood was hell... For long time i did'nt know what to do and how to do something. But with your video's i realize and i starting to see what is happening with me.. Now i understand the tactics and i can stop them! This is the fight of my life! (i am the bad in the family now, because i dont give more supply for them 🤣🤣🤣) yesss... i can smile and laughing again... they have all the stress what they give me before.. Many thanks for your video's, please continue, i hope this helping others also like me!

[@sherimascote7495]

They isolated you because they want you to be jealous of they supply. Don't be it not worthy.

[@sallyholden1002]

How about be so needy that you feel like that you have to stay or else they will suffer? Then turn the tables on you when they have what they need and for those of us empaths that need to help it’s the perfect way to trap you

[@inhale.exhale.2527]

please be aware that whatsapp contact requests are bogus. 🙏

[@stopabuse2011]

Absolute fakers, mini has text over 100 times in 3 months. Thank you Rebecca! I usually follow you on youtube and I can only hit the thumb up. You are awesome your videos so informative. I've just separated from my Narc of 46 years. Thank you so much keep doing what you are doing. You have helped so much you are the best Rebecca! Su

[@claudiamiller7730]

Bless you dear…my ♥️ is with you. I’ve been in the Narc trap for 48 years…no family to give support and am exhausted with the bs…you’ve got more grit than I do!!

[@SydneyInTheSky]

Congrats! I just separated from mine too! Proud of you 🙏🏼

[@lauragonzalez-hill2108]

@Zoooli Oli Way to go! You left! I’ve been with my stbx 35 years! I’m done and running away as fast as I can.

[@decorativedeluxe]

Thank you for making these videos. I am divorcing a covert / vulnerable narcissist, I was gaslighting myself at one point to stay married but it got so bad, abusive, I left over a year ago and now that I’m out of that environment I can more clearly see I was being abused, I just thought maybe I was when living with him. It sucks but it’s getting better quickly now, please keep posting these especially about those covert vulnerable narcissist abuse and grooming for abuse denial it so important. Thanks again ❤️

[@andreanewhouse8307]

My ex would always make me feel like everything I did, or decisions I made, were the wrong one.

[@marilynlandis1637]

They use Shame to divide and separate. My mother's "Cockroach," upon our first meeting, told my mother, after I left, that I was very insulting toward him and he told her, "If she was my daughter, I would be so ashamed of her." That was only the beginning! Omgosh! Un-flipping-believable! My frustration has been with APS WHO IS WORTHLESS! Or law enforcement. It seems as if the laws protect the narcissist abuser! I totally get "vigilante-ism!"

[@MrRickkeena]

A case in point of minute mark 10:00: a singer former friend of mine and I were supposed to play and sing at a restaurant in Raleigh NC. She showed up but the sound person couldn't get the monitor system working. Singer stomped out, texted me about how it was my fault the monitor wasn't working, and then in the same text, accused me of being the biggest liar she ever knew. She doesn't work with me any more, and after a year of blaming myself for her problems, I concluded she was the narcissist I wish I had never met.

[@rcczung4180]

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[@WhiteBirdMustFly1]

Covert is a behavior within types of narcissists, not a type. Overt is also a behavior. My husband used both methods of behavior, and YES, passive aggression was key to their entrapment, while maintaining their facades. They do not know they are a narcissist, unless they are VERY well read and practiced. They believe their own lies, in order to convince others, and grew up using these strategies. Game players that cannot and will not ever lose, due to manipulated rewritten stories of tossed word salad, when just word salad doesn't work. The good old blame shifting, denial, bargaining with gaslighting combos, and more. Check out more of Attorney Zung's videos, it's well worth the wisdom, and has lots of merit to gain this knowledge. Very hard to wrap your brain around these behaviors, but imagine that they are cowards who cannot face any truth within, so must manipulate others outwardly to gain fuel for the GRANDIOSE EGO.

[@Precious1985]

Fakers Fakers Fakers!!! I was trapped in the lovebombing, but got caught on fast that something wasn't right! Thank God I was stubbon in NOT giving him any supply!! He is angry and giving me silent treatment or ghosting me but I don't care! He will NEVER get anything from me but (fustration) LOL

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Precious1985]

@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you!

[@rcczung4180]

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[@hollyhergott915]

Fakers trap! Doubting yourself to paralyze.. isolation to weaken.. smear to confuse.. blame game... lying deceaption.sliming slime balls..thankful for you Ms Zung!!

[@dogmom7747]

Thank you for doing what you do, you’ve helped me a lot. God bless you!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@wardrobelion]

OMG! You really know your stuff. I tried 3xs to leave him and he did trap me and controlled everything! An abyss. I’m going to make you suffer mentality. Suffer with me and suffer without me. I never heard of lovebombing until now but it is exactly what he did. All of the above is true. My stomach turns just hearing about it.

[@apekshajairajpillai]

Nice top by the way.

[@cymbolichuman433]

I think so too.

[@ganymeade5151]

Totally love the analogy the Roach Motel.

[@davisayodeleable]

When you discovered that you are been lied to start to prepare your exit strategy. Whatever that might be run and never look back. Or else they will make you delete yourself which is the ultimate prize.

[@katalincatchpolenefister8954]

Very true

[@davidhanson3345]

I really noticed the isolation problem. Soon she quit having friends over to the house. Any attempt by me to invite anyone over did not go well. As I am retired, things are getting worse. I believe now we can add bipolar disorder to the pot/dementia/ and narcissism. Certainly there is no end in sight. I really can't afford to "get out". That is her way to keep me forever trapped.

[@fredkuglin9717]

My ex wife lied. PERIOD , FULL STOP.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@redeccaboldon6973]

You stoped my feedback. That is so rude. Sorry for thinking you cared.

[@spiralwoman3788]

Faker. You are describing my marriage exactly! My husband faked me into believing so many things about him that are not true. Then when he trapped me everything changed. After 10 years of no happiness- I am resolved to make a change. Thank you Rebecca Zung!

[@survivingnarcissism414]

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[@andrebryant6343]

I love this channel. Omg. Where have I been lol

[@WhiteWolfBlackStar]

Haaaaa! Keep tuned in, it just gets more mind blowing as you go!

[@patriciahindman9721]

Love, love, love your information!! You are so informed and you present the information so well…Easily understood!! I continue to have a problem listening because of the sing/song whine of your delivery. You have greatly improved and for that I am very appreciative!!! Keep up the good work!!!

[@bellaladonna]

Great video - your blouse is pretty

[@alectrona1613]

Booking airfares online, a narc travel companion literally clamped both her hands onto my arm and told me she was 100% dependent on me! When I wasn’t on board with her childish dependency she lashed out nastily and said I had the wrong attitude! This manipulative user left me reeling!

[@juangsanchez2374]

I had a narcissist mother in law. I knew there was something wrong from day one. My wife cut ties with her over two years ago. My wife is still healing from the damage. I had to get rid of many of my family members for the same thing.

[@huruduru5144]

Break you down so they can rebuild you in their image.

[@le_th_]

They'll only lovebomb you IF you fall for it. Once you call them out on their shit, they will avoid you like the plague (and probably flip you off once you're out of sight lol). You can only be lovebombed IF you allow yourself to be lovebombed, and that's not something everyone accepts. Be aware of "flattery" etc. Be able to assess your merits and contributions, and don't be overly grateful when/if someone compliments you. Narcissists NEED reactions. Stop reacting, and narcissists will avoid you.

[@nicholettej1742]

The malignant narcissist will not back off - they will become louder in group settings and pack attack. Awful

[@le_th_]

@@nicholettej1742 I've been around varying degrees of narcissistic psychopathology since birth, including a true full blown malignant narcissist that I still suspect might be a serial killer/rapist, but I've never experienced a malignant narcissist love bombing someone "louder" in a group setting and then the group piling on in the love bombing? Would that be trying to kill you with flattery? Sure, I can see them being overly grandiose in their flattery in a public setting if you're their spouse, but how does the "pack" attack someone with similar flattery? I can imagine that taking place inside a cult, though, because the malignant narc control the group and the environment, and anyone in it.

[@christe2284]

This is trully happening to me right now. This person telling me that "I'm interested to you"but no effort on communicating on me ,then only figure out this person online almost 24hours like wtf so I stop talking. This person now avoiding me seems figure it out .message me last time only telling me got the vaccine shot and that's it.. Always "me".no follow up..nor asking how's my day .selfish and wanted only something to get from you

[@le_th_]

@@christe2284 I hope you will stay far away from that person and stop communicating with them.

[@christe2284]

@@le_th_ totally agree...I don't reply no more. We've been talking for 2 months then figure out never even put me on the contact lists . This person forgot ,gave me the screenshot and I saw that I don't have any names on it. I'm happy now been 3 days since happened.

[@lindaluke3704]

The person I'm with and cannot get away from does not EVER address my concerns, will not discuss a future-where we're going after 3 years, why I haven't met his three daughters or attend family gatherings on my side, won't share finances or discuss money, ghosts me daily, angrily responds when I ask what he did today or what he ate, or where he went. I share freely about my day, considering it a bonding and trust building, friendly way to converse when we come together, and an easy way to help plan dinner so it's not redundant or boring. He gets furious and deviates to other subjects. He rages at me alone in the house, acts absolutely PERFECT in public, steers our activities... He accuses me of killing people that have died that I loved dearly, tells me it's no wonder people don't like me, calls me the most horrific names, and says I do nothing around the house while he also says he's got it and gets angry when I try to do chores. I'm having a hard time not going crazy. I've told him to leave numerous times and he won't. He ignores me, then makes beautiful dinners and cleans the house like crazy. He does not EVER apologize for his awful tantrums, door slamming, or neglect and refusal to walk together -something I love to do. Instead, he walks alone daily like clockwork. He also drinks heavily, so when I drink with him, he uses that against me, saying I don't have room to talk. so, I don't drink together with him, because he's just trying to trap me. I don't know what to do. There's no physical violence, but it's been so awful and I feel like his little pet in a cage. I've never experienced this much abuse in my entire life. I need him gone. He's an attorney, and extremely intelligent, and I can't get him out of my house! Restraining orders require physical abuse, so I'm stumped. Embarrassed to share because I feel so stupid for allowing this to occur and continue. 😬😬😬

[@richardpearce7378]

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[@rcczung4180]

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[@inhale.exhale.2527]

please be aware that whatsapp contact requests are bogus. 🙏

[@brendaleverick3655]

My narc loves to tell me that everyone else is confident, reasonable, and smart BUT me!

[@deborahandrews1570]

I don't question myself! I am enough and I understand that it was about it was always about him! So I am ok with me! Future faking is at it's all time high!

[@WildStar2002]

I had this one from my so-called brother while I was pushing back on him during his attempted gas-lighting, "Thanks for making this so ugly," he told me. God! I'm glad I finally went complete *no contact!* Best thing I ever did was walk away from the narcissists in my life.

[@JG-cj6pc]

This goes along with the love bombing but they rush to commit. Once you move in or marry them, that's when the mask starts to slip. The best way to avoid a narc is to take time getting to know anyone new in your life. They know they can't keep up the façade. When they can't get you to commit right away, they'll move on to new supply.

[@emilypaulson8546]

Dad was a narcissist. Sister and brother too. I’m an Empath like my Mom. Ex husband has me trapped. I’m sick, and “takes care of me”😞🖤 the only one (no family or friends) completely isolated.

[@susanparker767]

Thank you for your videos and information … saving lives 💯

[@davidantonelli9343]

Just please know...if you have kids involved, you're not alone. I can't tell you how many times i have contemplated ending it all out of sheer hopelessness. Im feeling it at this moment. Please be stronger than me. You matter. You're not the crazy one. I only wish I could hear this from someone else. Knowing it isnt enough. It's the hardest thing Ive ever been through. My daughter is my world and i know she is being lied to. Nothing but pain. No way to live.

[@achaad_abernathy]

You do matter and you’re not crazy. Life is a crazy roller coaster but you won’t regret living it. Your daughter needs you. This world needs you. You are not alone.

[@ajtru660]

Pregnancy. My husband got me pregnant with my daughter while I was still nursing my son. He was barely a year old and I needed more time to bond with him, and my daughter was almost 2 months early because my body wasn't given at least a 2 year break. Both of us almost died, she was a cord prolapse, emergency C-section. He wanted more kids and I refused, also refused sex without a condom until he had a vasectomy. He promised to have it done right away, but waited until our daughter was almost 4 years old. We had 2 pregnancy scares after she was born, fortunately I wasn't pregnant either time, but I had to tell him that if he forced me to have any more kids he'd be raising them alone, because I'm high risk. After he got fixed, he lost interest in sex, go figure!

[@cymbolichuman433]

It's true...I was a mother with 4 kids and a grandchild... I got pregnant and had a child at 40... Thank God I have a wonderful son though...I really like him as a person.

[@ashe4158]

@Valentina DeVito Same thing happened to me...he intentionally got me pregnant and tried to flip it on me...I'm living my best life.. I did not want to have kids for at least another 3 years and AFTER we were married..I completely cut him off.

[@rcczung4180]

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[@ggribok1]

I married a liar. Faked he cared. Actions speak loudly. I was addicted to the good that once was. 10 years of a unhealthy relationship, I was constantly unsettled. Done! Thank you for your words of wisdom, Rebecca!

[@cherrybacon3319]

My Ex said to me that I always disappeared when it was my payday, and in order to feel the Victim, he would engineer a situation, then flip it around, based on the subject and my reaction. This would cause me to leave just before payday or soon after. Then he would lecture me about how predictable I was. The last time I left, I wasn't feeling well after work, and was going to bed. He kicked off, complaining. I calmly stood my ground and said if he was nasty to me again (he'd already been so twice before) I was leaving. He said "Feck off then". I got my things together, telling him how a cruel and insensitive man I thought he was. He said "I knew you'd leave before payday". He let me leave in the rain , and when I got home I was vomiting all night. I know he'll come hoovering one day, because i've not been in touch, or because any new supply runs out. I hope to God, that when that time comes, I can be brave enough to ignore him and say 'no more. In the meantime I'm being 'me' and making a life for myself. 🍒

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@kristalynnmertz]

Another way is they will talk shit about you to people in your shared circle of contacts or family. They will "get there first" to get others on THEIR side, then tell you that everyone agrees with them. Or they will tell you "your Aunt Mary saw a post on your Facebook - and...you know, I gotta tell you, it really concerned her. People see something like that, and your business is ruined. Clients don't want to see that. Keep the politics off your personal page. Just don't do it." And just like that they got out of facing the fact that they were talking shit about you with family for hours the other day. Lying about you.

[@susanne05]

great video !! Thank you ! i spent so much time to ask myself if i am to dumb to acknowledge my dumbness and while this happened i could' make the decision to go

[@rebcczung7869]

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[@inhale.exhale.2527]

please be aware that whatsapp contact requests are bogus. 🙏

[@joinerbm]

Ma’am when you stalk about the Narcisist around the 1:37 Minutes you had me laughing out loud because I believed you. Narcisists are scary and dangerous. this is the first time I’ve had to deal with one as an adult. He ruined my life and I’m just a few days people feel like I’m totally different and recovering.

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[@carmenortiz4446]

Mirroring! He does the creepy stuff. I asked him if I left my sunglasses in his vehicle! I remembered his extra key was under them when I put them down. He didn't answer the question. 3 days later on a Friday is typically when he wants to take me out with his grandiose self, he asked me if he left his extra key at my house. It was an excuse to come over. It's so weird. He still has my glasses. I think he's going to use them as an excuse to bring them to me. I'm a multi potential empath and intuitive. I find this absolutely fascinating for some reason. But he does open up to me at times. And it's kind of nice to be able to listen to him talk since I had 2 quiet covert Narsacistic husbands. The difference is I know him from 16 years old. Now we're 58. The others I didn't know when I met them. He's a lot of fun to be with and kind of ok for me because I keep my distance and have a separate life when he's not around. I even go on dates with other men sometimes. Just friends. Now he's ghosting me. I'm very confident and am comfortable in my skin. And I don't take it personally. He's very funny so I just laugh at him. My mother is an insecure narcissist so I've been dealing with this my whole life. And of course I'm the 1 that is sort of what you would call immune. But it seems that is all I can attract to me. He's never been married and can never live with someone so at least he's honest there. I know he's hit rock bottom a couple of times. I'm here for him if he wants to talk and when he gets upset I can transfer my calmness to him. So I think he gets some relief from me from the weight of the world. I love him but I'm realistic. I know he could never love me back. But he told me he loves me sometimes. Whatever that means!😁

[@kimgordon3695]

Wow

[@steveorick2271]

Some dispicable people that I know.are nothin to me and they never will

[@sar8349]

"Fakers" No one knows more about anything than they do. Weirdly, he did know a lot about some things, but it got surreal when advice would be given unsolicited to people who were actually experts in their fields. As I became aware of this, it was strange to watch the experts actually begin to doubt themselves. WTH? How do they do that??? It took four years and over 100K, but am free now!

[@suuz.11]

Because they are masters in convincing others. It's bizar. No matter who they are dealing with.

[@cindypabst9293]

Fakers. Really bad!

[@louiseboyd8896]

When he puts on the charm....I fall for it......

[@angien5431]

Financial Intrawest borrowing money (loan) swearing to pay you back but only with bread crumbs and takes forever to get any back !

[@rcczung4180]

You can contact me here on whatsapp for consultation and advise

[@rcczung4180]

💁🏻‍♀️ ➕❶❹❶❸９９➁➄➁Ѳ❷

[@inhale.exhale.2527]

please be aware that whatsapp contact requests are bogus. 🙏

[@johnjeffers1524]

the girl i fell for (and honestly still care about a ton) did ALL NINE of these, no question about it.

[@dinahnicest6525]

She had the nicest wuzgunnas! She wuzgunna do all kinds of nice things for me. Just because she never actually did any of them, that never cancelled my debt to her for all those sweet wuzgunnas.

[@pursue513]

Good one ! Wuzgunnas!!

[@carolnahigian9518]

exactly:: my Narcisist Ex ALWAYS made DRAMA before i started a new job-------- always sabotaged my success

[@Thisnotmysandwich]

@@carolnahigian9518 ex used to start huge fights right before I got contracts. What’s wrong with them?!