How Narcissists Use Insults To Humiliate You

[@LR-yu3mx]

The worst. to me, was the hatred with which the nrc always looked at me! And displayed towards me, for 60 years of my life

[@carolgates5297]

They embarrass themselves and make it hard to pretend they aren't stupid.

[@c.h.5389]

I like this more low-key, raw, honest talk.

[@ngawhanau-jq7yf]

NO MORE BELIEVING THEIR LIES

[@Michelle-k6o8v]

I will not listen to their lies

[@Michelle-k6o8v]

No more lies

[@dawnjustice5818]

😢 Thank you so much. It's like you're speaking straight to me. ❤️ I needed this

[@ngawhanau-jq7yf]

So wrong, so not okay!

[@brendajones1527]

Coverts are wolf in sheeps clothing 😮

[@daniquephotosaugustin1324]

Wow Rebeker I that is so so so true I actually went through all that last night

[@justindearmond1]

Now that I know what narcissism is I am questioning my own sanity I said several of these things to my ex-wife but I was getting cheated on she's the one that hit me and when I said that nobody will ever love her like me what I meant was I watched you both are five children we have a special connection a bond or at least I thought we did that can never be undone that will last between us forever no matter what happens. I didn't mean it to say nobody will ever love her or that she was unworthy of love I just simply meant Arbonne goes beyond what anybody else would ever have for her because she can't have any more children and we buried our third child together we have been through hell and back and what I meant was simply that the bond that we had by raising children and having children together can never ever be matched by anybody else. Again that does not mean that she is unworthy of Love or is unlovable or anything like that it just means that nobody will ever see her in the same light that I do or did rather. She cheated on me for years with multiple married men doing the most vile disgusting horrible things the details are horrific she's bringing pedophiles around my children her boyfriend the pedophile his wife died four days before I got my divorce papers and all of a sudden they're dating this guy's son tried to molest my son 10 years ago my 13 year old daughter looks just like his dad ex-wife who coincidentally was going to kill herself or that's what she told her boyfriend because they were getting a divorce and she ended up dead by way of stroke or something I believe I think he poisoned her or did something because he got her addicted to drugs beat the shit out of her raped or supposedly which I'm sure probably did happen because this guy is a piece of shit he cheated on her with dozens of women. I did everything I could to save my marriage my ex is done everything she can to destroy that our family. She has raped me over the coals is turning my own children against me set my two older kids down and told them that I raped her during the marriage which I did not I never ever hit her ever or the kids. She tried to get me to hit her so many times towards the end she would run up to me stick her face in my face and say just hit me and get it over with but that would have given her a rock solid reason for divorce in her mind and everybody else's and when I would not do that when I refused to hurt my wife she made up the sexual assault crap and told everybody that I was a monster in my 13 year old daughter believed her and I haven't seen her in 9 months my oldest son is being turned against me and my two toddlers are all I have left and she's about to get her hooks into them too. She won't let me see my kids when I'm supposed to my two older will not come see me at all this is the most horrific thing I've never experienced anything like it in my life and like I said above the details, this is just tip of the iceberg stuff, the details are so much worse so much more horrific I don't understand how somebody, a mother,could do that to her own children or to the father of the children the man that she said many many times that she loved and would never leave and we would be together forever. Oh yeah and I was never actually married we were together 15 years five kids but I still got divorced. I just have a horrible feeling that maybe it was me maybe I was the narcissist maybe I did push her away maybe I did unintentionally destroy my family but I loved her so much I would have done anything for her I would have died for her p but she was just so mean so emasculating so cruel the things she would say to me were horrific, I hated fighting I never wanted to fight she never wanted to listen to me she wouldn't just let me lead she wouldn't respect me. And yeah maybe I didn't work enough and yes I did drink too much but I never heard anybody I never was passed out I never was belligerent I was never puking or stumbling over everything I was the house cleaner I cook dinner every night for the kids a home-cooked meal almost every night I homeschool my first two kids she doesn't cook she doesn't clean she's 350 lb of bad attitude you have no idea what the horrible body habits of somebody like that are and I had to put up with all of itand yeah I got sick of it I got sick of her mouth and I stood up for myself and we had some screaming matches and they got worse over the years but I didn't hurt her I loved her I was desperate to save my marriage and my family and all she wanted to do is run out and cheat on me and I only know about two guys and I think they were probably many more over the years because I have hints of them and God knows what I don't know what I do know would make most people's skin crawl and if I told you you wouldn't believe it but I think there's much much more that I don't know that's much worse. I love them I love them so much my kids my poor babies they're caught in the middle of this and they don't understand what their mom is really like nobody does nobody knows what she's like behind closed doors she has this face that she puts out to everybody that sees such a good mom and such a good person and so nice and behind closed doors she changes she has a mask and it comes off only for me it seems like thoughyou can see the hatred interface we went to court a couple weeks ago for a another restraining order that she's filed against me that's three or four in the last year she's called the cops on me almost a dozen times divorced restraining orders custody it just won't stop she won't stop she won't just leave me alone I don't love her anymore I just want my kids and leave me alone please I was put in jail the other night for violating a restraining order for simply driving past her house and sending her a message she didn't like p I didn't cuss at her she just didn't like what I said and that is grounds enough for her to call the police and have me arrested. She can make up any story she wants especially now after the arrest even the police were starting to believe me a little bit because they've seen me so many times because she's called them so many times but now now they are going to think she was right and I am a horrible monster and that's what she wants she wants to put me in jail and see me dead. My poor babies my poor poor babiesAll I ever wanted since I was a little kid was a family I remember thinking I can't wait to get a girlfriend so I can fall in love and have kids and the woman that I met before my ex-wife she got pregnant I was so happy but she wanted an abortion and she made me pay to kill my own baby she got pregnant again after I caught her in bed with a friend of mine and told me that I need to save up my money I didn't even know if it was mine and I don't know if she was just saying that to hurt me or if she really was pregnant but I never found out. So when I started hanging out with my ex we were just messing around we weren't dating and she ended up pregnant and I remember being so happy I remember the exact day the exact time I remember what she was wearing I remember everything and I was so happy because she's not wanting me to murder my own child she wanted babies she gave me everything that I have ever wanted my entire lifeall I ever wanted to be was a dad and I am a good father I was a teacher for a while for god sakes I am a good-hearted person I'm peaceful and kind and she brought the worst out in me maybe I Am The narcissist maybe it was me that did all this and pushed her that far but I don't know all I know is I lost my family the only thing that I ever wanted in my whole entire miserable life I've been cheated on by every woman I have ever been with I'm a good-hearted person and being a good person gets you taken advantage of and gets you nowhere in life that is a horrible reality to realize and I don't care if you get further in life by lying cheating and stealing and being cruel I am never going to be like that never can I raise my kids to be the same and I hope to God that I instilled in them enough of that that their mother isn't brainwashing it all right out of them I feel so broken and alone I just want my babies

[@MYKEYCARD]

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[@Michelle-k6o8v]

Heard them all

[@SherryTomlinson-r2y]

I’ve heard them all except I never had a career. I had a nark father and short marriage to one. Narks were my normal! Constantly told I was worthless. Get this one my beloved mom had been passed about 19 years. And I was just realizing my dad was a nark( trauma bonded to him) he tells me how much prettier my mom was than me. My mom was a cold black headed soft brown eye beauty. What really hit me is why would he even say this. lol looking back I should had said yeah I have your blue eyes. They’re just plain horrible people!

[@dawnjustice5818]

Everyday

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[@Fred_Free]

When you started raising your voice and screaming around the 50 minute mark, I turned off the video and unfollowed.