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All The Big Mistakes Women Make - Chrissie Mayr | Modern Wisdom Podcast 303

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@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx 3 жыл бұрын
Press Subscribe for more advice on how to cope with oestrogen.
@albertmercier2157
@albertmercier2157 3 жыл бұрын
I like your channel and I like many people you have interviewed, but this video is just a waste of time. I highly recommand you to watch the channel of Austria Dick, you will learn a hundred times more things about women and all the bad choices they make in their lives. I would like if you can interview the guy on your channel too, it would be awsome, a real public service for a whole generation.
@ves38
@ves38 3 жыл бұрын
It’s just fascinating how this is a totally honest conversation and people are so ready to judge her like they are saints.
@tipperarymick5337
@tipperarymick5337 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting honest conversation. As a guy who doesn't date and has decided to stay single, i always find these type of conversations fascinating.
@kate4biglittlevoices
@kate4biglittlevoices 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the world of single and happy
@tipperarymick5337
@tipperarymick5337 3 жыл бұрын
@@kate4biglittlevoices Thanks! I've actually been enjoying the single life for over 20 years :)
@keyboarddancers7751
@keyboarddancers7751 2 жыл бұрын
@@tipperarymick5337 Love it!
@charlieweaver6322
@charlieweaver6322 3 жыл бұрын
The part where she talks about her therapist trying to get her to split up with her boyfriend was both scary and enlightening. How many therapists are out there telling their female clients to split up with their boyfriends? Why are they doing this? Does the therapist have an incentive to keep their client single and unhappy so they keep coming back? It's pretty fucked up when you think about it.
@CruzWithMe
@CruzWithMe 3 жыл бұрын
KZbin is my therapist
@ThisAutomaton
@ThisAutomaton 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately it seems this type of therapy malpractice is on the rise. I'd heard of a trend of female therapists telling their female clients to cheat on their partner if they're not satisfied with the relationship. Naturally, I thought this was outrageous, until one of my own female friends told me that her therapist brought up the option of cheating on her boyfriend....
@marscruz
@marscruz 3 жыл бұрын
Most therapists are female. It's a female dominant field with a female dominant ideology. Women are always seen as victims and men are labeled perpetrators (of injustice) or oppressors. The need to find the perfect "Prince Charming" is an early and persistent brainwashing process in the West, especially America. Every woman has her checklist and heaven help you if you don't check most of the boxes or treat her like the Princess she thinks she is. It's a system that manufactures failure and disappointment. Pheminism has made women into something that men DON'T WANT their partner to be.
@charlieweaver6322
@charlieweaver6322 3 жыл бұрын
@@ThisAutomaton can't say I'm surprised but I don't understand the motivation. Are they just telling the women what they want to hear? Do they want them to nuke their relationships? Do they simply hate men and want to see them suffer? I don't get it.
@Pezerinno
@Pezerinno 3 жыл бұрын
@@charlieweaver6322 telling them what they want to hear makes them feel good so they keep coming back and paying. It's similar to dating coaches (not a fan of that term) specifically aimed at women - normally terrible advice but advice that makes the women feel good.
@henrykkaufman1488
@henrykkaufman1488 3 жыл бұрын
When Chris said "Dating agreeable girl was like dating... nothing" and Chrissie responded with "Oh, wow... " - you could tell it hurt.
@Sakhmeov
@Sakhmeov 3 жыл бұрын
Truth hurts. The difficulty that I see is that women, probably due to both a combination of agreeableness and different approach to "reading" people _and_ then also due to misaligned teaching and views (much of which is introduced as a result of 1) feminism, and 2) consumerism (women control the vast majority of disposable spending, look it up))... Well, I can tell when a woman is trying to be disagreeable, as can many, _many_ guys who are more schooled or just innately sharper. And I'm not sure whether if there's a bigger turn-off out there. The issue is how it's all just "affect". It's _tone_ and _approach,_ but not substance or the issue being discussed. So it becomes... kind of like the regular shit-testing, except "to the next level". Because one can tell that not only is it that sort of crap (which in itself is bad, and indicative that you've let her cross one too many boundaries in the first place), but it's an _aware_ attempt at trying to affect it, badly. As awful as it is, and as much as we guys don't want just some damn mannequin walking around with us, I speculate that women themselves are aware that this very sort of crap might happen, and so to a large extent they're just trying to play it safe. The real _solution_ would of course be to learn to discuss and hone in on precisely _issues_ and real profound matters and consequentiality. But that's of course where the feminism and consumerism comes back in, and one sees the true "violence" and violation that our modern society has inflicted on women through gen-X and younger. I'd even be one to argue that "women are just better at being people than men" - but they haven't been left the _option_ to be, because there's such powerful motivations to rather turn them into Useful Idiots for vile political and politic-economic agendas. So we've ended up with... well, mannequins for the most part. I can only recall a _handful_ of women out of my own life I've actually been able to _discuss_ things with, and most of them too old to entertain anything like a relationship. Girls my own age and younger just cop out. Either they seem to not even have the wit to surmise the depth - or still _worse,_ they _do_ get that there's a lot going on, but then realize that (however much one tries to help) they just don't have the previous thought or the reading to get into things. Which always seems to end up in uncomfortable withdrawal, either from shame or insecurity or stress or something... This plus the political agendas themselves, ain't exactly no recipe for raising the family formation and replacement numbers.
@henrykkaufman1488
@henrykkaufman1488 3 жыл бұрын
Generally, he could have phrased it better. For example "it was like dating myself" or even "someone without a personality". I mean, it's kind of natural to be taken aback by comparison to a non-entity. I don't really blame Chris, since he's a good interviewer and he generally emanates good intention, it's just a tiny blunder which was interesting exactly because it's quite rare in his case. I also think that when you're in dialogue with another person the scientific-fact truth is less important than the kind of truth or dialogue that has a chance to enrich both parties. It's a kind of thing that maybe Nietzche meant when he wrote "truth serves life".
@Sakhmeov
@Sakhmeov 3 жыл бұрын
@Sean Blakely There's a reason that likely _no one_ is surprised at that snideness there. You're small and bitter. Go away.
@sereneismail2129
@sereneismail2129 3 жыл бұрын
@Fangirl 791 i cant agree more. I see a lot of those men in various podcast comments, trying so hard to sound smarter, logical, rational... some type of competition. And in the process we lose the discussion and the pleasure in understanding ideas fully.
@drystkrab269
@drystkrab269 3 жыл бұрын
"Many young men", nothing about ur generalisations and bitter tone suggest ur are on the higher end of intelligence. Else u wouldn't form generalisations becoz of one guy who hurt u.
@zukondis
@zukondis 3 жыл бұрын
Mistakes women make: 1. Using social media. You’ll never be happy with your life as long as you keep comparing yourself to people that market themselves to be happy. Huge red flag when a woman actively posts on social media and has 1000+ followers. 2. Belief in the Disney fairy tales and following your heart. Emotions lead to poor choices, you’ll always ignore the red flags that destroy your life in the long term in pursuit of short term pleasure. Love is a choice, not an emotion. Relationship maturity is when you understand that one and only definition of love. Can’t trust anyone who relies on emotion over logic, for any kind of partnership. 3. Buying into feminism. It’s not about empowerment, it’s all for capitalism. Women are exploited the most, paid the least, and unhappy women make the best consumers. You are replaceable to a company, not the the family you could’ve built in parallel to building your career. “Living your best life” ironically ends up running the remaining 40-50 years of your life. No longer having the dating options you once had, having to deal with poor mental and general health, rapid aging, may come to have the money and luxuries that seemed so nice but will have no one to share it with since you are not able to hold on to long term relationships. Unless doing extensive therapy to deal with the bagged of course, which almost no one does. 4. Having unrealistic dating standards. You’ve likely made all the mistakes above all your life, and that’s all baggage at this point that a younger more fertile woman will not have simply by the lack of experience. That small minority of men you think you deserve, can easily date the prettier and younger women with lesser baggage. Adjust your expectations, can only date the person that matches what you bring to the table in terms of desirability for a reliable and trustworthy partner for a relationship. Smart men know what they can expect by knowing your past, for example it is well known that a high body count (3+) and a past of toxic relationships means there will be a high chance of divorce, and no man wants to go through that. 5. Taking advice from women who have never achieved what you want. For example, want dating advice? Take it from a 50+ old woman who is part of a long successful marriage. Or take it from a professional, great people like Esther Perell who has studied people and relationships well enough to understand them
@zukondis
@zukondis 3 жыл бұрын
@Charlie the Beagle actually yes, thanks for pointing that out. Replace some self destructive habits given that each gender typically has different interests and access to opportunities, but fundamentally this absolutely does apply to both genders.
@holdenrobbins852
@holdenrobbins852 3 жыл бұрын
Was going to say, on the flip side men should be using a list like this to know what to watch out for to avoid women who are going to make them miserable.
@user-og6hl6lv7p
@user-og6hl6lv7p 3 жыл бұрын
"feminism is for capitalism" is the dumbest thing I've read online so far. lmao, read up on history bro.
@marscruz
@marscruz 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-og6hl6lv7p Yep, he got it completely backwards. Feminism is Communistic. Everyone works in that system. The state controls child care and indoctrinates the children, just like what has happened for the last 30 years of Leftie dominated education systems. BLM, Antifa, reparations, and feminism are all communist clones.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 3 жыл бұрын
You are assuming too much. Primarily that the goal in life is marriage. Another outstanding issue so prevalent is imposing a worthless to mature women. You have been red-pilled. This is a crux and works against the smoothing the conflict between women and men.
@SueBoo2
@SueBoo2 3 жыл бұрын
24:24 I’d advise rejecting advice from her.
@xzonia1
@xzonia1 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't even make it that far. I stopped listening after the first few minutes when they said they prefer dogs over people. They have no advice worth giving about how to live if they don't even like people more than animals. They're doing life wrong from the start.
@SueBoo2
@SueBoo2 3 жыл бұрын
@@xzonia1 I never disrespect dogs either!
@hariman7727
@hariman7727 3 жыл бұрын
So she's willing to admit flaws and things that hurt her relationships with other people and you condemn her for it?
@SueBoo2
@SueBoo2 3 жыл бұрын
@@hariman7727 An advisory...
@hariman7727
@hariman7727 3 жыл бұрын
@@SueBoo2 I have no idea what you're trying to say with those two words. They don't really address my point that you're rejecting advice for seemingly spurious reasons.
@John-wf5if
@John-wf5if 3 жыл бұрын
Women SHOULD have children, and start a family. It makes for a more fulfilling life. ...only in this era, would this be a controversial statement 😂
@Wayoutthere
@Wayoutthere 3 жыл бұрын
When I look around only 30% of the woman will successfully have kids in probably stable families. 20% will also have kids, but soon divorce and 50% is totally undatable.. We are doomed
@WhoTube277
@WhoTube277 3 жыл бұрын
@@cantbendknee If you can't have children, that's tragic. If you can, you want them. Just don't be stupid enough to realize it too late.
@user-og6hl6lv7p
@user-og6hl6lv7p 3 жыл бұрын
@@cantbendknee only a small percent can't have kids. The real factor is culture is convincing you having kids is wrong because of climate change, white supremacy, over population (all myths by the way).
@ChrissieMayr
@ChrissieMayr 3 жыл бұрын
Yea but kids are expensive and so many men are so skiddish around women using them for $$$
@John-wf5if
@John-wf5if 3 жыл бұрын
@@ChrissieMayr These are potential downfalls. As Thomas Sowell says..."there are no solutions in life, just trade offs"
@kaprantil
@kaprantil 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t weird out dog owners. The owner loves dogs as much as you do, that’s why they have the dog. At least for me, I love the joy that I see in the people that want to pet my dog.
@bacchaed2430
@bacchaed2430 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, plus, ad a dog owner I'm happy the person isn't trying to interact with me, do talk to the dogs, please. 😂
@AbhishekVidhateYT
@AbhishekVidhateYT 3 жыл бұрын
Now I understand swingers
@kaprantil
@kaprantil 3 жыл бұрын
@@AbhishekVidhateYT you’re disgusting
@theangriestoftabbies
@theangriestoftabbies 3 жыл бұрын
Oh man the stagnation/frustration as being an indicator of lack of communication! Brilliant. Never thought of it that way. Thanks, Chrissie.
@clintonknight9798
@clintonknight9798 3 жыл бұрын
Funny how I see the same folks on all my channels. Yo to my fellow Tim Poole, Adam Crigler, Michael Malice, and Lotus Eaters.
@bacchaed2430
@bacchaed2430 3 жыл бұрын
😂 I noticed that too.
@robgoodsight6216
@robgoodsight6216 3 жыл бұрын
😏
@benh.92
@benh.92 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't think I'd find a video that displays everything I dislike about millennial women. Thanks for the good work
@olympusentertainment2638
@olympusentertainment2638 3 жыл бұрын
@Fangirl 791 Ahhhh yes....... '' Their out there you just can't find them ''.
@olympusentertainment2638
@olympusentertainment2638 3 жыл бұрын
@Fangirl 791 Announcing that '' I'm the special one '' is literally disqualifying you from being one, others need to do that and not you. Go and do '' projects '' with your cool club.
@burntreynolds1068
@burntreynolds1068 3 жыл бұрын
@Fangirl 791 Dudes can be that way too. I spend my evenings working on curatorial projects for local museums, and spend my weekends as a part-time ranger. I get a lot of shit from friends and work colleagues for not wanting to be mediocre like them. I think I'd rather feel satisfied that I spent my time working on stuff that enriches people's lives.
@MissNatalonga
@MissNatalonga 3 жыл бұрын
Something I personally regret was receiving the "empowered women can f*ck around as much as men" message. I mean it seems that Chrissie handled it well but in my case, when I had casual sex without having real feelings for the guy (or him for me)I'd just end up feeling empty and spent. I can only speak for myself and maybe other ladies can comment on this, but I realized that it was ultimately harmful to my self esteem to just casually go and "get dick". As much as we want to pretend, it's just not the same for men and women. I made believe I was cool with the fling thing but I really wanted to be appreciated and loved.
@foxie8638
@foxie8638 2 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@persiancarpet5234
@persiancarpet5234 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn't really enjoy the conversation because it was a lot about "men are like this... And women tend to do this all the time...". So more like talking from personal experience when it was explicitly about facts that there should be some study about (e.g. how strong the bonding is between girls friend groups and guys friend groups). Hope this criticism helps.
@persiancarpet5234
@persiancarpet5234 3 жыл бұрын
@Fangirl 791 we need science! 😉
@ZachMaxon
@ZachMaxon 3 жыл бұрын
10% decent advice 90% blue pill terrible advice...
@BadSpanglish
@BadSpanglish 3 жыл бұрын
26:00 - Can't help but see that GINI equation comparison as a false equivalence. The bottom 80% of men competing for the bottom 20% of women VS the top 80% of women competing for the top 20% of men. Yes both are a 'funnel' but an individual women in the top 80% can simply lower her standards to a top 40% man and easily solve her situation. The 'bottom 80%' men have no such option.
@robgoodsight6216
@robgoodsight6216 3 жыл бұрын
There are some men that left the dating scene for good. So probably the 80% is decreasing steadily.
@olympusentertainment2638
@olympusentertainment2638 3 жыл бұрын
@@robgoodsight6216 Indeed, men are starting to take a more serious look at their partners and realizing that they have been fooled. The bill of goods was fake from the start.
@robgoodsight6216
@robgoodsight6216 2 жыл бұрын
@@torachan23 ...Aye...then I want to get paid!
@natalieg2
@natalieg2 3 жыл бұрын
Was a good interview and interesting guest, but as a woman, cannot relate to like 95% of the context. Not a girly girl 😕 but society definitely needs to have these kinds of conversations more. Maybe less about Tinder lol
@jpwright87
@jpwright87 3 жыл бұрын
@Fangirl 791 Question: Every time she said she needed more dick, comeback dick, dick appointments,etc., I was thinking: if I was listening to a guy talking about getting more pussy or whatever, I would think he's a POS, right? Is it more acceptable because she frames herself as passive/victim? Sounds like she's still got a long way to go.
@cata.filmzzz
@cata.filmzzz 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Chris! This was such a good episode, I loved how you both exchanged opinions based on both genders, I would love to see more of those! Super interesting
@pistolen87
@pistolen87 3 жыл бұрын
A bit off topic, but I just saw a video before starting this video that I highly recommend: "Male Dating & Sex Struggles: A Problem In Plain Sight" by Macabre Storytelling. A long video, but a very insightful and balanced view on men and dating dynamics, that bridges the gap between red pillers and the "men bad" narrative, well worth a watch.
@James777822
@James777822 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, that a surprisingly balanced and perceptive video
@menow.
@menow. 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry, but her chronic over-use of the word "LIKE" is just too annoying. Why can't people grow up and grow out of that horrible habit? I'm out.
@cpharris41
@cpharris41 3 жыл бұрын
Yup, even on her sweatshirt - 'STAY *_LIKE_* A LEGEND'!
@ChrissieMayr
@ChrissieMayr 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry it wasn’t scripted this was all off the top of my head so maybe that’s why!!
@menow.
@menow. 3 жыл бұрын
@@ChrissieMayr It's not just you. It seems to be the entire population that is infected with the "LIKE" brain virus. I just can't listen to it any more.
@fearthehoneybadger
@fearthehoneybadger 3 жыл бұрын
We all make mistakes.
@IreneLyon
@IreneLyon 3 жыл бұрын
Full alive human there. Great to meet her here. 👍💥
@kaprantil
@kaprantil 3 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this. Thank you.
@heykay5610
@heykay5610 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting to hear your takes on previous partners. Always illuminating.
@holdenrobbins852
@holdenrobbins852 3 жыл бұрын
Females who say "you choose" and then complain about it the whole time... Imagine if a guy did that...
@guyincognito9698
@guyincognito9698 3 жыл бұрын
Of course you call them females.
@holdenrobbins852
@holdenrobbins852 3 жыл бұрын
@@guyincognito9698 Didn't feel appropriate to attribute the pattern to women who act like adults.
@robgoodsight6216
@robgoodsight6216 3 жыл бұрын
...yepp...been there and done that...
@HappilyCamping
@HappilyCamping 3 жыл бұрын
You've become my choice of listening while adulting, you make folding laundry tolerable. Much appreciated. Lol
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 3 жыл бұрын
Is 'adulting' a thing?
@MrSir-yo8cm
@MrSir-yo8cm 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful guest!
@schahrzadmorgan
@schahrzadmorgan 2 жыл бұрын
I love your interviews! She's a phenomenal guest. Learned a lot. Thank you.
@Psych911
@Psych911 3 жыл бұрын
Good luck straight men, I don't envy you.
@olympusentertainment2638
@olympusentertainment2638 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir........ in all honesty there is no hope, never was.
@opusa
@opusa 3 жыл бұрын
Her cc count is by 20 in just one month?! She never will be able to settle no matter the amount therapy.
@opusa
@opusa 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredbloggs5902 more like a commie parade.
@laser__unicorn
@laser__unicorn 3 жыл бұрын
Did you skip the part where she said she has boyfriend of 6 years?
@opusa
@opusa 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredbloggs5902 at least she has no kids.
@user-og6hl6lv7p
@user-og6hl6lv7p 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredbloggs5902 it's scientifically proven that the more casual partners a woman has the higher the chance of divorce. I mean, you do trust the science, right?
@Pezerinno
@Pezerinno 3 жыл бұрын
Massive red flag. It's the female equivalent of a guy who pays for sex (whether that be in real life of online).
@daudenfield2905
@daudenfield2905 3 жыл бұрын
This girls eyes move around the room at the speed of nano-warp.
@Brainrotmoai
@Brainrotmoai 3 ай бұрын
Hope this vid gos viral
@oldsoul3539
@oldsoul3539 3 жыл бұрын
Communication is a skill that a lot of people suck at, though it's built up from childhood, you can't just expect people with bad communication skills to suddenly get good because you want them to. Male culture values males by how useful you are, it's unnatural for them to ask how you're feeling, instead they'll leave an open offer of help if you need any. Males don't bring up how they're feeling unless they're asking for help to find a solution for it. The idea that "he should have asked how she was feeling" is one of those things women say when they don't understand male psychology nearly as much as they think they do. (Men are no less simple to figure out than women if you're really paying attention)
@marscruz
@marscruz 3 жыл бұрын
Women expect men to be able to read them and hate it when a man actually can see through to their shallow wants. It's a no win situation. Women should have women friends for those social needs. Men are different for a reason. We have other skills that women don't. We don't expect women to act like men and don't find that attractive at all. That's why we don't care what your job skills are. We care what your child raising skills are and whether you can keep an orderly home and feed us a good meal. Your Masters degree in History is almost worthless compared to your mothering skills.
@Pezerinno
@Pezerinno 3 жыл бұрын
@@marscruz spitting facts. This men and women are the same thing needs to run its course otherwise dating and relationships are pretty much doomed.
@marscruz
@marscruz 3 жыл бұрын
@@Pezerinno Don't expect it to end any time soon. You'd have to destroy postmodernism and the whole Leftie narrative around the Critical Theory model of social deconstruction. It's a self reinforcing insanity that redefines the meaning of words so that argumentation devolves into meaningless word salads and prevents the knife of reason from being able to clean up the mess on the cutting board. To them cutting boards and knives are "social constructs."
@DelightfulDissident
@DelightfulDissident 3 жыл бұрын
@@marscruz Don't lose all hope in the opposite sex. I grew up in Commifornia thinking I didn't want kids for all the insanely selfish reasons leftists claim to be legitimate, but I saw the light and came to see making a family and properly raising the next generation is about the most important thing. Some of us can be saved. All credit is given to JBP who helped save me from myself.
@noleenole8254
@noleenole8254 3 жыл бұрын
Women have to take responsibility for the fact that they want to lead from the backseat so that they can have plausible deniability when things go wrong and blame it on men. As the guest says women are doing themselves a disservice by not taking a stand on the things that they do have strong opinion about. But when you’ve made it clear that you have a strong opinion about some thing you take the risk of being wrong and the responsibility of being wrong and that is what most women don’t like. If a woman has an overwhelming desire to be liked by people it is not anyone else’s fault. She is doing herself and her future lovers a disservice.
@CrunchyNorbert
@CrunchyNorbert 3 жыл бұрын
New York; New York is where ovaries go to die
@robgoodsight6216
@robgoodsight6216 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@andi330
@andi330 3 жыл бұрын
Me, myself and I lady
@MrRocksW
@MrRocksW 3 жыл бұрын
Really interesting guest
@Muting_all_advice
@Muting_all_advice 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think that leaving all the decisions to your partner is agreeable. It’s a burden to make all the decisions, to come up with all the ideas. It’s hard work. Do your partner (or any person you interact with) the favour by doing these tasks for them every now and then. Edit to add: For people who find it hard to come up with ideas and make decisions, you can offer them four option and have them choose one. Then as they get comfortable with it, turn it around and have them come up with four options for you to choose from.
@fraser1237
@fraser1237 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like there has been a increase in 'being good looking' inflation which is why I can't even pull a pig. (due to inflation)
@jcronin3155
@jcronin3155 3 жыл бұрын
She called it "the plandemic".........😄 20:59
@ChrissieMayr
@ChrissieMayr 3 жыл бұрын
😉😉😉
@manaloola2018
@manaloola2018 3 жыл бұрын
she’s smart and introspective enough, but you have to get through all the gobbledegook and it makes it almost not worth it. Truly, I did not walk away with any takeaways from her for all the extraneous noise. Kinda like picking through all the junk in a second hand store to find the awesome find.
@ElectraHorvat
@ElectraHorvat 3 жыл бұрын
my thoughts on dating mistakes: learnt through experience 1. DO NOT ever date someone who was not single when you met them! don't buy into their story. a healthy person is either single or in a healthy relationship NOT LOOKING. 2. TRUST YOUR INTUITION-every single time I could sense that there's something off about a guy, but I would be tricked into thinking he might be worth exploring, only to find the faults I could only smell at the start. yes, I do believe what he portrays could be his true potential, but he's not that right now. DO NOT date someone for their potential, don't hope that they'll change (at the speed and area you want). except if they ACTIVELY work on themselves. on the other hand, if you feel drawn to a guy's energy TRUST IT (it barely ever happens 😂), even if your thinking mind says he might not have an essential quality you need, be sure you didn't judge on too little evidence! 3. don't beat yourself up about your number and one night stands are okay! as a matter of fact, you should get as many fantasies out of the way as you can haha realised by mindfulness, observing myself and asking questions (and the drive to waste as little time as possible) 4. DO NOT date a guy just because he has power!! I think this is an annoying instinct in women. time after time I noticed that I'm attracted to a supervisor for example. but when I thought about it I realised I would not be attracted if he was just a regular co-worker, or if it was outside of the workplace. and do not settle for the best guy in one particular environment just because he's the best there. and question yourself if you catch yourself feeling attracted because he's got expensive stuff etc. 5. don't mess around with a guy just because he's SUPER into you. this is also another very difficult one to resist. most of the time I can sense that most guys find me attractive, but there are a few times I can see that I'm a guy's type, like seriously their type. there's something very satisfying being deeply wanted like that, but if you ignore that, would you still be interested in him? ...when you realise you spent way too much time writing a comment that's way too lengthy for anyone to read 😂
@ElectraHorvat
@ElectraHorvat 3 жыл бұрын
@@Willie_Wahzoo you mean bonding with your future life partner or bonding with the ones already slept with? and I'm not saying to mindlessly fuck anyone just because, I'm saying if a stimulating situation arises go for it. for example, one time in Berlin while walking by the river at night I asked a guy on his boat half jokingly if he would take me a cruise and he said yes. turned out he was a pirate/anarchist living off-grid which was major turn on for me. plus he was exceptional at escalating haha. I don't regret it, not one bit. so what do you think of situations like these?
@Pezerinno
@Pezerinno 3 жыл бұрын
@@Willie_Wahzoo also let's not pretend it's a turn off for guys (in general) so not recommended. It's the female equivalent of men who pay for sex (in any form).
@RupertMcGruber
@RupertMcGruber 3 жыл бұрын
This was a great and honest post! Really appreciate it. I take points 4 & 5 to mean "try to take full responsibilty for your actions before you enter into relationships with people", and applies equally to men but with different points of attraction ("she's just so hot / she really cares for me"). Take responsibility for yourself, and you'll stop fucking other people up in the process, and be more likely to get what you actually want. Thanks again for sharing.
@ElectraHorvat
@ElectraHorvat 3 жыл бұрын
@@Pezerinno okay, I get that. I probably can't fully comprehend it, never tried what's it being like a guy lol. however, I still argue that there's a difference between sleeping around as a pastime and engaging in random encounters thanks to your curious, open-minded nature. so what's the main issue for you guys? that a woman's number is 'high' or that her one night stand number is high? and what's the 'not a slut' number for you?
@ElectraHorvat
@ElectraHorvat 3 жыл бұрын
@@RupertMcGruber thanks Rupert! hah, that's interesting, I could've figured the physical appearance, but wouldn't have thought caring would be that high up, makes sense though. but yeah, figure out what's the REAL reason for you wanting someone/something, and you should have a rough idea of what sort of personality you need (although personally I found coming from a fucked up childhood I had to date a few unsuitable guys for me to realise what I want and what I definitely don't want. could've been avoided if I would've had stable women around me, but oh well). make sure you're in it for the person, not for what a relationship offers or to satisfy any other basic instinctual human need 🍄
@Blxz
@Blxz 3 жыл бұрын
So. Many. Words.
@ocramdouwstra8494
@ocramdouwstra8494 3 жыл бұрын
Strange, my lawnmower always eats the poops? But enough shit talk.. It s always a blessing to clean that thing up.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 3 жыл бұрын
Thru the pandemic i was having a bad weekend in almost lockdown...bought myself a rockin gravelbike with dropbars. And i'm ♀️
@DeviantDeveloper
@DeviantDeveloper 3 жыл бұрын
You need to get some proper Red Pill guys on bro.
@marscruz
@marscruz 3 жыл бұрын
He is blatantly pandering to the new woke types... even if he doesn't realize it. It's annoying. He can be so much smarter than that but he's fallen for the MSM brainwashing. I'm only here because of his interview with Michael Malice. I might be done here. This interview is tripe.
@Pezerinno
@Pezerinno 3 жыл бұрын
Like Rollo Tomassi?
@marscruz
@marscruz 3 жыл бұрын
Rollo has some great insights on current female behavior patterns but I'm not sure how much he can help guys in being successful in their struggle to find a good wife/mother. I don't know anyone who has a solution to overcoming the Femynyst brainwashing. Dating is dead. Hookup culture is toxic. What is the strategy for finding a needle in a haystack? You need a 10,000 giga gauss magnet and no one can afford one of those unless you're Elon Musk and totally red-pilled. (Elon isn't) @@Pezerinno
@THOMASCOLTON1
@THOMASCOLTON1 3 жыл бұрын
@@Pezerinno not necessarily, just atypical thinkers & not the wokerati
@offBeatRock777
@offBeatRock777 3 жыл бұрын
Red pill is bullshit, so no
@veesvoyages
@veesvoyages 4 ай бұрын
Interesting topic. I felt like my takeaway from this is that women and men can't win either way haha!
@diana.diamond
@diana.diamond 2 жыл бұрын
I expected a much deeper conversation and a better quality guest. She’s trying too hard to be funny and cool and listening to her was a waste of time
@kimstewart4602
@kimstewart4602 3 жыл бұрын
Give and take! Enjoying each others choices, and finding somethings you neither do and try them together! Expand each other!
@Brainrotmoai
@Brainrotmoai 3 ай бұрын
What is the original vid called
@BIGDICK242
@BIGDICK242 2 жыл бұрын
CHRISSIE MAYR HAS GENITAL WARTS™
@we-can-do
@we-can-do 3 жыл бұрын
I could most definitely have a 'crush'
@we-can-do
@we-can-do 3 жыл бұрын
The follow up would have been more meaningful if I had not terminated message accidentally
@brokenbiker220
@brokenbiker220 3 жыл бұрын
Five seconds of hearing a chick discover that she's hot and should be more of a fussy prima donna was all I could take.
@ElectraHorvat
@ElectraHorvat 3 жыл бұрын
btw I don't know if it's the high expectations from the reading the comments or what, but this podcast was pretty disappointing. she sounds like she's still at the earlier stages of working through trauma, the advices that she gives are very basic and I'd expect a looooooot more wisdom by the age 37. also too many sexual references, like what are you trying to convey with that? and yeah, that therapist should be ditched IMMEDIATELY, not 'I think'
@DL-idk
@DL-idk 3 жыл бұрын
I'm trying my best to not be like my mom 😐
@Lina-rs9hr
@Lina-rs9hr 3 жыл бұрын
I wounder if that "like like like" generation is stil talking like that when they are in their 70s. Lets hope not.
@cpharris41
@cpharris41 3 жыл бұрын
And it's not enough just to *_talk_* that way - they apparently have to emblazon it across their chest as well!
@kermitsafrog1
@kermitsafrog1 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t get through the x’like’. My issue, but it becomes so predominate in my attention that I have to stop listening. I don’t appreciate my response to it. Any suggestions on managing?
@amorfati4927
@amorfati4927 3 жыл бұрын
It’s kind of a you problem but I have the same thing go on. I can “power” through it but it definitely takes away from my attention towards the subject matter. We had a new guy introduce himself and he was our new developer whose job is to “literally” talk to potential clients and win them over. When he left the room I asked my boss if these people go through public speaking classes and if they do not they should be required to because the only thing I heard was “like” every other word. It’s tough to “deal with it” but the main thing is these people should have this brought to their attention so they can improve.
@SarahGerke
@SarahGerke 3 жыл бұрын
"That's why everybody's twerking on cop cars in Miami right now" 😆
@guest_informant
@guest_informant 2 жыл бұрын
Doesn't this all completely miss the point - and actually in a potentially very harmful way. This conversation is basically: *How can I betray, repress, deny who I **_really_** am in order to trap (basically) someone...anyone* How about: Figure out who you are, then be yourself, find someone you're happy with and who's happy with who you actually are, not who you're pretending to be. Madness.
@Croupier23
@Croupier23 3 жыл бұрын
*Traditional values, decorum, child-bearing capability, homemaking,* etc. is what I look for in a woman... an not someone who has "there was a month where I banged 20 people or something...", to quote her @24:23:. Call me *old fashioned* I don't care.
@jpwright87
@jpwright87 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like she still doesn't want to grow up.
@gingergander774
@gingergander774 3 жыл бұрын
What's missing is children, go have a few.
@theangriestoftabbies
@theangriestoftabbies 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredbloggs5902 why are you obsessed with her fertility or lack thereof? How many comments here have you made to that effect? It’s fucking creepy.
@theangriestoftabbies
@theangriestoftabbies 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredbloggs5902 reading comments left on this video equates to stalking? Interesting logic. It’s clear why no one will have sex with you.
@theangriestoftabbies
@theangriestoftabbies 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredbloggs5902 nice try. I’m married with children. I used to feel pity for incel forever alone types like you but now I realize how you just bring it upon yourself.
@harrio6488
@harrio6488 3 жыл бұрын
This woman is a thief.
@harrio6488
@harrio6488 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6fUg6qua7Kqers
@DelightfulDissident
@DelightfulDissident 3 жыл бұрын
She started the podcast with a anecdote about throwing feces instead of picking it up and disposing of it in the trash so I'm not that surprised to learn she makes selfish/dishonest decisions. I wonder what made Chris think she could give advice to anyone but the mirror 🤔
@agenteE
@agenteE 3 жыл бұрын
At first sight thought Chris was advertising against BJs 😂😂
@agenteE
@agenteE 3 жыл бұрын
@Charlie the Beagle hahahaha, hopefully not, wisdom sometimes hits one weirdly 😂😂
@ChrissieMayr
@ChrissieMayr 3 жыл бұрын
Never!!! 😂
@agenteE
@agenteE 3 жыл бұрын
Respect Chrissie ✊... Keep them coming, no pun 😂😂
@DrBlazer50
@DrBlazer50 3 жыл бұрын
I do it too; I'm shy and an introvert, but whenever I see a dog I have to say hello.
@Dantehavok218
@Dantehavok218 3 жыл бұрын
What's funniest about this I think is she seems bashful as she's talking because she's looking down pretty much the whole time as she's talking. When in reality it's because Chris is on a screen on her desk so she's looking at him as she's talking and not at us.
@bill7984
@bill7984 3 жыл бұрын
She sounds like she wants to be jay from the inbetweeners
@lo7381
@lo7381 Жыл бұрын
16:40 That's fucked up 😂you shocked her
@panderichthys_rhombolepis
@panderichthys_rhombolepis 2 жыл бұрын
Chris Williamson's forehead has several facets (it is 'multi-faceted' 😂). Was it just me who noticed it??!
@e.daniels5971
@e.daniels5971 3 жыл бұрын
Usually enjoy your podcasts. This is the first one I hate-watched. Didn't count, but I think she said "like" a few thousand times. Needles in my ears. Somewhat embarrassed I stuck with it. Never redeemed itself. Going to reduce my podcast listening/viewing going forward. There are not enough worthy guests to fill "creators'" insatiable content hunger. Their demand outstrips supply. Everyone is now scraping the bottom of the barrel. Viewers are going to stop playing along. This one at least. Starting now.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 3 жыл бұрын
She uses the word 'like' in excess. Why is she being interviewed? Having said that 'when women become single they go back to who they truly are' rings true
@guyincognito9698
@guyincognito9698 3 жыл бұрын
The amount of misogynistic bullshit in these comments is making me want to unsub from you, if this is the user base your videos attract.
@guyincognito9698
@guyincognito9698 3 жыл бұрын
@@weste8464 ok grandpa.
@legalfictionnaturalfact3969
@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like mistakes men make
@Nick-qo8jw
@Nick-qo8jw 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't date her.
@hariman7727
@hariman7727 3 жыл бұрын
Please pardon the internal screaming you here in the distance at girlfriend's playing the "You should know!" game with men. Men aren't mind readers. I'm betting even long-term couples that have been married for years would have trouble if either side assumes that the other one knew exactly what they were thinking. An issue that goes hand in hand with this is women assuming that they know exactly what their man is thinking and why all the time without ever asking to confirm it. Yeah, sure, there might be sometimes where she can guess what the guy is thinking or how he'll react, but it's never perfect when you're trying to guess someone else's motives.
@Brainrotmoai
@Brainrotmoai 3 ай бұрын
What is this
@tyronewalker5764
@tyronewalker5764 2 жыл бұрын
OMG, are they all like this?🙄
@kathrinkaefer
@kathrinkaefer 3 жыл бұрын
After listening to this, I have come to the conclusion that I am a man
@jpwright87
@jpwright87 3 жыл бұрын
Rapid onset gender dysphoria? Ya hate to see it.
@Brainrotmoai
@Brainrotmoai 3 ай бұрын
Buj
@TopDogUSA
@TopDogUSA 3 жыл бұрын
Yoy guys are base. like thanks for having a functional brain. short supply in 2021. God bless
@josephdanmathis1876
@josephdanmathis1876 3 жыл бұрын
This girl seems cool. The juice still isn't worth the squeeze.
@SadRahne
@SadRahne 3 жыл бұрын
It's an old narrative at this point to listen to the constant complaint from men as innocent victim with no agency. Feminism started that claim on behalf of women, but the inevitable backlash from men says the exact same thing. It's stupid and pathetic no matter who's saying it.
@jhart1127
@jhart1127 3 жыл бұрын
08:11 I'm this far in... She's just insufferable I'm sorry 🤦‍♀️
@scatton61
@scatton61 3 жыл бұрын
There is another dog owner that i meet dog walking who has a half Jack Russel half Chitzu (he is very cute) that they can JackShit :-)
@englishpayerofgermantaxes8186
@englishpayerofgermantaxes8186 3 жыл бұрын
Talking about dogs doesn't interest anyone
@algensisantos
@algensisantos 3 жыл бұрын
Yes the dropping of the birthrates isn't going to get fixed anytime soon. Smoke em if you got them
@RageQuitSco
@RageQuitSco 3 жыл бұрын
Love your woman. If she bad woman, leave woman. Love next woman. Stop cry about scared of woman. Be man. Eat steak.
@lo7381
@lo7381 2 жыл бұрын
24:56 omg same here i don't like nagging
@Brainrotmoai
@Brainrotmoai 3 ай бұрын
Goofy youtube
@lotek7341
@lotek7341 3 жыл бұрын
Get more dog. I am down from 7 To 4.
@Wayoutthere
@Wayoutthere 3 жыл бұрын
Dogs are just substitute children... Newsflash, man are really put off by single woman with large dogs, they know she has major issues.
@MrJimmy1717
@MrJimmy1717 3 жыл бұрын
@@Wayoutthere I was gonna argue the single women and large dogs thing but then I thought about all my ex's and fuck me you are right.
@Pezerinno
@Pezerinno 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrJimmy1717 not as bad as having horses but not far off.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 3 жыл бұрын
@@Wayoutthere sounds like you have issues. What significance is there to the dog size ? Seriously...
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