Answering Your SPICY Relationship Questions!

[@AllThingsAdrienne]

What other questions or topics do you want to hear more about?

[@naranyaa]

About self care (in the house ) . More make up tutorials. Books that changed your mindset. Love you A, eres de lo mejor !!!!

[@KIHRUH]

First, I love everything about you! I also wanted to ask, if you haven't answered it yet, where is your gorgeous robe from? Thank you

[@adrianavelez8167]

This is a little deep, not sure if you'll talk about this topic or have ever gone through this topic, BUT My husband has struggled with p*rn his whole life, and unfortunately has brought it into our marriage. He has completely opened that part of him to me and he hates that part of him, but it's an addiction for him. Now, me as a wife, I struggle with my insecurities thinking "I'm not good enough" but he constantly reassures me it's not me at all, it's something he's struggled with since 13. Hes gotten incredibly better with watching it but it still creeps up every once ina while. How can I get over myself and my feelings and be his supportive wife who believes God will take care of it and help him break out of these chains? What can I do besides pray??

[@JoJo-jt9cp]

For us women who are curious or uncertain... what’s is like being married to a man who has children by other women?

[@CaPrielAnnissa]

How to date for marriage without getting discouraged? I often find myself talking to men and after a while it seems pointless to talk anymore due to lack of efforts. It’s easy to walk away if a man doesn’t take time to know what makes me happy /sad, fav food that makes me dance 😂, my values, etc. I have been single for 6 years now and I have a good head on my shoulders just focusing on my career and seeking answers. I’m just not having any luck.

[@StephAnya]

Adrienne, I’m a marriage therapist and I absolutely love your responses. I’m even taking notes for myself and clients! Great video ♥️

[@ChattingWithCarli]

i love your videos !

[@lifewithnancie9926]

OMG I saw your video reacting to movie argument scene and I thought you were amazing. You have a brilliant way of seeing things!!! I'm definitely going to subscribe to your channel❤ and we have something in common already lol!!! WE BOTH LOVE ADRIENNE😆❤

[@therapybiz]

Hi Steph Anya. All things Adrienne is great!

[@MissyOli04]

I’m a therapist too and I literally take Adrienne’s wisdom with me when I approach my clients :)

[@kennyray4883]

That would be smart

[@stephanietorres2080]

I love that you said, “as your wife I still want to be your fantasy . “

[@saharachouri5344]

Do you realize that you're like a big sister to all of us? 🥺 Please make more of these A.

[@cookingwithkira802]

Ikr... in my head shes my BF lol

[@michellement2158]

“As your wife you should want to be your husbands fantasy’s” 📝✅✅✅✅ Adrienne you’re dropping gems !

[@jacquelinenelson9411]

I think there should be a part 2. ☺️

[@jadachoates11]

Totally agree! 💛

[@katherinesantana825]

Yes!!!

[@kikionyesoh]

I concur 💯

[@honey.love9632]

💯 yes!

[@lifewithbre26]

Yes we need a part 2

[@gigidodson]

I was married 30 years. We did the till death model. We lived we fought we had kids we made love and yelled and held hands till the day he died. So i kind of feel like in an expert on my marriage. Marriage is hard. Real work to make it work. Therapy does work. Before it gets to dividing the property and child custody, get counceling. Even if you feel like everythings ok, go. Ok works but it can so much better than ok. Learn to fight fair. Dont take that kill shot. Its not worth the deep scars those leave. Figure out their love language, i know thats sounds dumb but we each love in our own way. Mine is validation. I liked him to notice just how much i did in a say. His was physical touch. That took time to figure out, because we didnt know to ask. ...and talk. A lot. Be your partners best friend.

[@daljitkaur7787]

This is beautifully written.. Thank you.

[@simple_naildesigns]

So sorry for your loss 😌🙏🏽

[@LeFKay]

I love this. Thank you for sharing and sorry for your loss 🙏🏾

[@KBMac-tu2mg]

Ok this is gooooddd

[@michellement2158]

Thank you ! You are blessed ♥️

[@iesha.michellee]

NOTICE SHE SAID HUSBAND! Don't give your all to your boyfriend or crush! Make them upgrade to the Wifey package! You truly are the sexiest to men when you leave somethings for them to literally imagine!

[@simple_naildesigns]

Agree 👏👏👏

[@2sense110]

Tomorrow is not promised to anyone my advice is enjoy your experiences to the full weather it be your boyfriend or a crush who knows probably this was the energy he needed to take it to the next level / marriage

[@Rio_Monique]

If you love your boyfriend or crush and wanna do it then do it.

[@TriciaRP]

But this is NOT HER HUSBAND. Yes she been comfort with her sexuality cause she has never waited. she STILL waiting cause HE IS NOT HER HUSBAND

[@TriciaRP]

@@Rio_Monique yes do it and go to HELL For free Cause it is sin FORNICATION.

[@tamarM7_]

She even matched the outfit. The effort and time she invested. I can't with her at the beginning 🤣

[@chunnaojulu9545]

Girl, you don’t know how many people you’re helping with your beautiful and genuine advice right now. I am one of them and thank you!

[@gemmab8626]

This was wonderful! Btw, therapy while things are great for maintenance is a BRILLIANT idea!!!

[@shawnamarez-spann1880]

I’ve been with my husband since I was 17 years old and we are going on 22 years of marriage. I needed this video to spice it up! Thank you for sharing this! 🔥

[@saharachouri5344]

Before i watch this, i just wanted to say: Adrienne has been GLOWING lately 🥺 2022 is definitely her year ✨

[@notsoshy28]

I love hearing all the advice. I have been married almost 18 years and i am sucking up all the advice and pointers because after years of marriage you kind of forget or need some ideas to spice up the marriage, so this video was awesome.

[@jaymurray6733]

“Do you praise the lord for that?” 😂😂😂😂😂 that blessed meeeee 😂😂

[@MissNickkieJ]

Omg…..the question “how did you become comfortable with sex as a strong Christian woman”…I’m so happy you answered this. Because I’ve been struggling with this my WHOLE life. 💜 I almost got emotional and felt almost freed hearing you say that the idea of sex is bad is a lie.

[@jenniferalvarez4262]

❤️❤️❤️

[@1andOnly-r9r]

Hello, Love! If I may, I would also encourage you to read the Song of Solomon in the Bible and also look up what some of the verses mean. The book is quite “spicy” lol and it shows the passion that two lovers and soon to be spouses have for each other. God ordained sex and it is only the wrong teachings of people which makes us believe otherwise. I pray this helps and that you are able to live fully and freely. Be blessed ❤️

[@anonnona6433]

Another thing that could help a couple is to know that there is a difference between sex and intimacy. Often times the focus is on the sex part only. What is intimacy to you? Do you feel that you have reached that deep level of comfort and communication with your partner? Does he understand your fears about sex in a non judgemental manner? Do you put up a show just to please him? So many things to unpack. Sex is beautiful. All the best dear.

[@Christiangirly023]

She is not no Christian women at all

[@karinamendiola7667]

@@Christiangirly023 who are you to determine if she’s a Christian woman

[@simonestephenson391]

Tears (touched) while listening to you speak about dropping on your knees as well when Israel proposed. Beautiful.

[@2sense110]

That was very profound. Adrian is a different type of person she does not fight back her emotions like people fight back tears she left her emotion dictator how she behaves not saying she's not calculated but I think her emotions get the best of her for the most part

[@kyeonshaerichardson]

I definitely forced a relationship that wasn’t the best for me because I desperately wanted the relationship and wanted to be married. I had to have a tough conversation with myself and with him and I ended the relationship. Looking back now I realized we shouldn’t have been a couple in the first place. We were better off as friends. This was a great video. Keep them coming!

[@anonnona6433]

" If a man loves you, you will know. If he doesn't, you will be confused " 6:57

[@HisDiva2013]

Girl I loved all of it. The gym analogy took me all the way out, I was screaming!! My hubby and I will be married 12 years, I especially loved you letting people who may think that you and Isreal are "relationship goals" that every relationship is different and setting priorities for your individual relationships. Keeping the lines of communication open talk about everything!!! The comfortable and the uncomfortable. You are amazing!!

[@Lovelyjay88]

Honestly I appreciate your vulnerability and authenticity it’s admirable 💕

[@elizabethchavez1345]

Loved this segment so honest and transparent. I'm engaged and a Christian woman too so really appreciated the space to hear these topics.

[@amymonge2376]

I am so comforted hearing you say that while you want to be a mother, you have also come to realize that you've enjoyed being Israel's wife. I completely feel you on that! I've been married 5 years with my hubby too, and we've had a tough fertility journey, but just about a month ago I told him, honey while I love that we want to have our kiddos, I'm realizing that I'm grateful for these last 5 years that we have gotten to learn each other better through it all, and enjoyed each other's company as a twosome. We're still on our journey, and trusting God's process, but I'm truly grateful for this time of "us." Love this video so much!!! You're a blessing, and so is your husband. 💜

[@darraniqueburhanan-barbour2671]

I love how authentic and transparent you are, Adrienne! 💕

[@Vavavoum-gr8]

That comment on being grateful for just being a wife is so true I am also grateful for knowing myself through the past 5years before getting into marriage. Blessed to be single

[@dashelledisna6239]

Loving the Single Season .Amen. its beautiful 🙌🏽

[@NaturalGlistens]

I am one of those folks dealing with the guilt and shame in my marriage. It’s like I was brainwashed that intimacy was a bad thing. I’m thankful for your boldness, Adrienne. I don’t see many Christians talking about this. It’s refreshing to see how comfortable you are. Definitely a goal of mine. ❣️

[@charlita25]

I can listen 👂🏾 to Adrienne talk all day her voice is soothing yet commanding of your attention

[@msmiami212]

Adrienne’s answer to ‘Can exes be friends?’ - Omg she talks all the time about her parents/stepparents coparenting beautifully!! You can absolutely be friends with someone you were involved with, especially once time has passed and you have a greater purpose for this like your kids.

[@jessicaevans2564]

@M. I feel like the definition of friends is the tricky part. Like chips you see them meeting someone else, falling in love, treating that other person great? Would it be fair to ask them to do the same? Could it lead to temptation? How would your spouse feel? I think that’s a good limit test.

[@msmiami212]

@@jessicaevans2564 The stepfamilies situation I described, they go on vacations together and hang out closely all the time. So yes, safe to say as former lovers they have gone through everything you’re talking about with no issues.

[@michelefearon8163]

Adrienne you are your own sex therapist. Well said 🙏🙏❤

[@dignast.rose-pierre3254]

Adrienne, I really appreciate how open, honest and vulnerable you are with your viewers. As a Christian woman, it's a breath of fresh air to hear another Christian woman normalize sex and sexuality, and intimacy within a marriage. I think that many of us were taught that sex is bad and that experimenting or trying new or different things within the marriage is a sin. Thank you for being so open with your responses, I think you have helped a lot of women including myself.

[@TriciaRP]

She is not Christian Far from it and what is weird is that many so called CHRISTIANS who knows her and ISREAL history THINK THEY ARE TOO.... HE IS AN ADULTERER that married another worldly woman who LIES and make people think she is godly. Joke

[@adonna-marielacroix1157]

Loved the vulnerability and transparency in your answers! It's great to know we all face similar issues in relationships. Thanks for the advice!! Besos xoxo

[@MsMeGUka]

do this kind of videos more OFTENNNN u re like a big sister to everyone here

[@hillaryrc]

YESS

[@MsMeGUka]

@bluee fairy WHERE ?

[@J9Gata]

I loved every minute of this. On the Real, you mentioned being intimate every day. And you discussed it today, recently i also brought that up to my partner. Intimacy is not just sex and i told him that. for me ive been increasing my cuddling, kissing, hugging and it has been so great for my relationship. ❤

[@TheeAlexisPinckney]

this slick hair is everything. such a beauty😍

[@illBeAtTheBar]

Oftentimes it feels like celebs are just saying whatever they have to to get views/likes and it doesn't feel genuine. I see so much content from the same people because they're who I love to surround myself with like you and Jeannie. Thank you for opening up on this episode and being real about the genuine dynamics of life. People don't want the highlight reel, they just want real. I appreciated this one more than I have others in a minute. Thank you!

[@heavenlymorton-pena9700]

I’m a 24 year old fan and my entire family knows just how much I love you!! These videos along with The Real have helped me enter into adulthood ♥️♥️ from Alana to now you’ve been my favorite celebrity 🥰🥰

[@noemizuniga-perez7601]

I so appreciate how you kept all the answers real and fun.

[@TheDailyPaige]

I love this video and I love how feminine yet confident and bold A is. She really inspires me 💖 I hope we get a part two!

[@BessieLB]

Spot on with everything you said. It’s always key to live YOUR life the way YOU intend it to be.

[@littledoe1617]

Can I just say, you’re so inspiring, insightful and I’m so glad you’re also on KZbin. Thank you for being you! 🌞

[@ROA1988]

I love when she shares her personal stories.

[@1andOnly-r9r]

I swear you are my sexuality twin! Lol I love your confidence and your love for sexuality and sensuality. I also think being sensual is a great and a necessary quality to have as a wife. It allows husbands to know they’re loved and genuinely desired and it is also great and beneficial for women to be able to let go of their inhibitions. This was awesome, Adrienne. Keep them coming 😘

[@TriciaRP]

She is no wife or true CHRISTIAN. Keep believing her lies She doesn't know what the armor of God is and she doesn't have the HOLY GHOST. LIES

[@1andOnly-r9r]

@@TriciaRP The Song of Solomon is way more “x-rated” than anything Adrienne has ever said 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@babiiash712]

I always wish I had sisters or even cousins to ask questions like this, so thank u so much for always keeping it real even though ur a celebrity. I love these type of videos!!

[@KLB1218]

My husband and I were married for 5 years, before we had our daughter. We had a challenging fertility journey, but during that time we traveled, slept in, and had a great time as husband and wife. And Adrienne is me about the picking her up late feelings! That’s me with my husband! I am you, you are me!

[@krystalelainesantos]

I can absolutely relate to love being a wife and also wanting a family. Being married for almost 4 years. Couples therapy is very healthy and smart of you!!!

[@alexisrichards9653]

You are literally my “Salma Hayek”. I loved this video and I wanna be like you when I grow up!! 😩😩 I mean I’m 23 but I wanna grow into my sexuality as a Christian woman and not feel shame or guilt and I wanna exude the sensuality and sexuality that you do. This was awesome. I also super appreciate the transparency of the real feelings bc I was convinced y’all were perfect 😅

[@nattiekinnz5995]

Thank you for staying real! I think and understand that so many celebrities try to keep their lives private, but it helps us see that you guys have real problems too. It helps us not have unrealistic expectations

[@adanechm]

I love the transparency in this from the sex and intimacy positivity to you sharing about your argument. As I navigate my own romantic relationship, it’s hard to tell what healthy disagreements and arguments are these days as IG warps our perception of love and what we should expect from our partners. This video is so affirming. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️

[@kristalllue4626]

This was so helpful, I’m married 23 and am the oldest never really had an older sister to speak to and this was perfect. Gracias Adrienne, mucho amor para ti y tu hermosa familia ♥️

[@irishcladdagh3]

Wanting and desiring ones partner after yrs together is the greatest gift you can honor them with...great video...Love you two together ❤

[@jacquelinedaria8970]

You’re just so honest, I love listening to you. On the real on your channel it feels like you’re a friend. Stay true may gods continue to bless you and your family.

[@hannahhan03]

We definitely need a part 2. This was Educational

[@meshelehardy6788]

You’re changing the GAME in this video Adrienne! I love how you dealt with the Christian and sex stigma, and the idea of using sex toys. Yes, yes, and yes! I sent this video to so many people! Thank you!! All of it is needed!

[@nope2283]

I love the fit, I love the jewelry, I love the slick bun, I love the classy sassy face beat , I loved your answers, and appreciate you for having this convo with us.

[@NatsProjectPan]

I love this so much! I’m still a virgin and not married but these videos definitely give amazing tips for that next stage in my life!

[@lucherryvanilla6804]

I absolutely love you, the transparency and honesty you deliver every single time. God bless you and your family ❤

[@alishahensley9561]

You never got to stop being their spouse just because they are your spouse you got to keep the spark alive it's the little things

[@daniellesjourney8860]

I love these conversations- I feel like you are so real clear and helpful in advising people to have conversations or expectations

[@nadiabrown9265]

Wonderful Adrienne, you are so genuinely honest and realistic with your answers. It is extremely helpful to couples in my opinion.

[@brianagamble382]

LMAO at the halfway through “yes I’m doing this” 😂😂😂 totally true. Perfect correlation. This place is such a safe haven. I’ve loved you ever since I was a pre-teen watching Cheetah Girls 😘

[@tolaniadebayo4819]

Honestly I’m so grateful for you. I’m 23, I’ve learnt so much from you and I love how you’re so real and honest!

[@rivers4133]

I appreciate this video. I've been with my man for 10 years now and I forget how to be sexy sometimes. Being a mother all day and then transforming into a sexy woman for him is difficult. Oh but do I want to 💘 this gives me a little bit of a push to not be so scared 😅 love you always girl!!

[@nataliemedina00]

I know no one’s perfect but you are so healthy and mature and I’m grateful that you share the knowledge you’ve learned over the years with us! Seriously so valuable!

[@akeemhuggins4973]

I respect that you think it was privileged. Not taking anything for granted.

[@itsdeborahcolon]

I love your transparency especially as a Christian woman. It’s inspiring and admirable. Love you and Israel!

[@LalaLala-jz4td]

I really loved how sincere and honest adrienne answered the questions

[@theevahouston]

This episode is everything 💕 I’d love to see a video with Adrienne and Julissa about this topic 💃🏽🎉

[@kristinanicolemakeup_20]

Dios mio. Ur my fav celeb since Cheetah Girls and to see u walking with God and being so real and open about things like this it makes my heart so happy and blessed to see you this way. I’m 18 almost 19 and I’ve always looked up to you and so glad u made a video like this. Made me open my eyes more and be more mature about these topics. Thank you so much. God bless you always love 💕

[@EmorettaRobinson]

I like that Adrienne covered so many topics and answered so many questions. ❤

[@galeparsons4731]

Adrienne you knocked this one out of the park. You answered every question very tastefully. I absolutely appreciate your transparency. It is so much needed. And because of it, even though I am like an older big sister, I love, love, listening to your conversations. Especially this one! Love you❤

[@koda.b16]

"Lanaaa, Rayyy, mom, daddd?" 😭 I love you

[@asmaidris]

Wow, I didn’t think you would be genuine, you blew me away or how your answered all the questions!!! I need more of this!!

[@AdriannaLLopez]

Can you do maybe a round table with similar questions? I'm curious how having children would change your answers. Maybe have your sister or other moms you are close to chime in? That would be great!

[@ChellesShell]

She said she would have sex every day before marriage but they aren't having sex every day. I agree with being intimate with your hubby every day. All the ladies said that so the ladies were right..and she doesn't have kids yet. I have been with my husband for 10 years we have 2 kids and intimacy is a priority but sex isn't always gonna happen especially with kids around all the time.

[@Fatima-kp8hi]

I feel as though if you have sex everyday, it gets boring. I like the idea of yearning and distance and mystery. I feel that keeps it spicy.

[@tsireledzoLiphadzi]

I love how honest you are!!! This is so helpful and beautiful to learn before stepping into a serious relationship..

[@Lyn_DS]

Part 2 please ❤️ Other topics : friendships as an adult woman (friendship breakups - mutual & one sided, how to make new friends, how to start difficult talks -friend has changed/having a different view on very important topics/you don’t feel the click anymore like you used to/..), books/podcasts/people that changed your perspective,…

[@nazykeen5544]

Love the vulnerability and noticing the difference in answers single vs married A. Growth 👏🏽👏🏽

[@Chellebunny]

I love watching you! I have been married for 32 years , married when I was 20 and he was 32. We are both still very attracted to each other, keep being sexy and keeping him interested 💕

[@victoryjessey]

About feeling tired, it’s addressed in the bible, about not denying your spouse. So you may feel tired but you make the sacrifice, marriage is about you both serving each other

[@victoryjessey]

I understand what you’re saying. 😂 I don’t think anyone is turned on by that. I’m just saying, I’m sure there are times when its vice versa. It’s all about serving

[@chiarakaren]

This is true, you are going to the gym you’re tired but when you finish is amazing 😀

[@hawaiitionitamsing]

Loved this!! Mahalo for sharing, Ade!! Would love for you to do a chat about blended families, being a stepmom with adult stepchildren, being a second wife, being in an age gap relationship, etc.

[@sherylpegado2537]

Absolutely loved the honesty 🥺🥰. Hopefully you do this more often. Love you Adrienne ❤️❤️❤️

[@tasharider5213]

I agree that there should be a lot and a lot of conversation about the type of marriage, what you like , what you don’t like, intimacy and all things marriage. As a married person, I can truly say that to not have a lot of conversation around marriage is a huge mistake.Thank you so much for this video! Blessings and peace to you and your family! 🙏

[@raissa9007]

I like how Adrienne is honest about her responses. I learned a few things. 😊

[@vardellwilson2193]

I love love love this. I think this should be a series on your show. I have been married for almost 16 years and you advice has help me see in a different light. Muchas Gracias. 💜

[@1andOnly-r9r]

I agree. This segment should definitely turn into a series ❤️

[@marciavaldez7767]

Great conversation. So many people are afraid of having straight up conversations about sex and relationships. Glad you did this.

[@omayran4012]

Adrienne, I love you soo much! And I see you as my sister. I wish I can just sit down one day and just vent and cry to you about marriage. I love your honesty, I love how you are very transparent and your humbleness. Much love 😘

[@daniellehedger3644]

I love when she talks about her relationship with Israel. I think its important that people speak of healthy relationships..it needs to be normalized..she literally lights up when she talks about him and he has so much respect for her. Thank you for sharing parts of your life with strangers on the internet haha..so therapeutic

[@Dr.Nellah]

I literally felt like I was sitting with my bestie. Loved the feel of this video

[@yenaluv7195]

adrienne has grown so much, i want to be like you mentally when i’m your age. I’m 22 right now and watching your videos i’ve been learning so much 🥺🤍

[@JesusGarcia-qe2bo]

You couldn't say it any better than that True relationship between a couple

[@MR-jq7bk]

You did a really good job with such a sensitive topic to some. Such class!

[@Daisylove83]

You are sooooo relatable💕💕💕💕. Very genuine, kind, and REAL.

[@dilara6719]

Thank you for always being so honest, you are like a big sister that I can listen to and look up to for advise. Usually I am that person for my family and friends, so it feels good to have that with you. Sending lots of love your way

[@Nativemija37]

I love watching my favorite cheetah girl!! Grew up watching the cheetah girls over and over and over again, and now learning so much!! Love you girl! Thank you for doing what you do!

[@Bubbles0011]

I remember you mentioning on the real that you and your husband decided to wait till marriage regardless of past relationships. Could you give some advice on how to get this topic about, temptations, etc Would really appreciate it 💕

[@lorenag1781]

You're probably talking about Tamera

[@Bubbles0011]

@@lorenag1781 I’m pretty sure it was A! She very briefly mentioned it in one of the videos after their wedding that she waited with Israel

[@dashelledisna6239]

@@Bubbles0011 yes she did

[@TriciaRP]

@@Bubbles0011 LOL........as if they really did. Y'all BELIEVE anything. Even her twisted lies and stories about how they came to be She never was a Christian wandering around with Kardashian brother those other men. Unbelievable how many LIES SHE HAS BEEN caught in and yet YALL STILL FIND reasons to worship her. Lol. Ignorant

[@jessicaevans2564]

I loved the honest and tasteful way you answered people’s genuine questions.

[@LMDihaba]

I love that I've been able to grow up with you Adrienne ❤ I could relate to you when I was young & as an adult too - thank you 🌹😊 Such a warm & beautiful woman 💐

[@akl000]

I love this episode and the finance in marriage episode and also the house shopping, house touring. Your channel is awesome. You are very transparent.

[@gentianahooi]

I love love loveee that you talked about something that you and Is went through.😉 That shows that you are not only talking about what you heard or read, but about your own experiences. Love that👌🏾👌🏾

[@dinalhollenqwoods2933]

Adrienne you're AWESOME!!! FOR REAL....THE REALIST!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽