Alpha Male Bakes Viral Cake. Instantly Regrets It.

[@KidologyCO]

Salutations! A bit of a lighter, fluffier video🍰! I hope you enjoy and are doing well! Let me know what you think below and I'll see you in the next few days with another video.

[@_Lord_of_Misrule_]

This video is definitely a lot fluffier than that cake lmao

[@matten_zero]

The People have spoken...we need the update on your femceldom. I'm sure you've seen people comment on your looks and we want to see if you're still struggling in dating. Because on the surface you're a good looking nerdy chick so who wouldn't want you?

[@Bpaynee]

Thanks for always adding the leavener :)

[@coyoteblue4027]

Be glad you turned out to be into women lol you dodged 4 billion bullets

[@KeepsYouUpAtNight]

In his defense though: didn't yall wanted men to especially show more vulnerability and emotion?... and isn't that exactly what this modern-day Diomedes has done by putting himself and his cake on the line and showing the world how all the responses made him feel?? Or did you just want men to show more vulnerability and emotionality when it serves you? In that case I would argue that you can't have your cake and eat it too... haha! (See what I did there?) And uhm... you especially can't just go ahead and help yourself to _another_ serving of said doubly entendred cake that you ended up not liking anyway when push came to shove. 👀 (Let's not talk about the weird white, hypermasculine, hyperaesthetic, dominant, homoerotic, Nazi chapter in this video though, to which contemporary Diomedes may or may not have a connection (that part was unclear to me) because YIKES!...)

[@wobblyweeble767]

Plot twist: there was never a girlfriend or whatever she was to him. He just wanted strawberry cake and made a ragebait post when it didn't turn out well

[@hayley179g]

Plot twist: He was ungrateful towards his own cake

[@redwoodclimber]

Most likely option lol

[@wellbuttermybiscuits7]

I stand by this theory😂😂

[@joebrookesPatch]

As an alpha male I don't make cakes, I just get out the ingredients and eat them raw.

[@joebrookesPatch]

Don't tempt me to prove I can do this because it's always funnier if you actually do.

[@ingweking8748]

Real king

[@mentacose]

LOL!!!!! Oh my gosh this made me laugh thanks

[@TadanoCandy]

Won’t believe till I see it 👀

[@azuraselenite]

Like a real man

[@Yessicuhhh]

If he even admits himself that he thought the cake looked like shit then why would he present it to her like everything was ok? He should have just had a sense of humor and said something like “well… I tried to make you a cake but… things didn’t really goes as planned lolol” then show her the ugly cake while laughing then you can both laugh it off together and take a bite and joke about how bad it is. It would show that yes you tried to make an effort but you are humble enough to see that things didn’t work out and you don’t take yourself so seriously that you can’t joke about it.

[@alxndria1]

Exactly! And then, don’t take her not eating something she doesn’t like as a huge sign of disrespect.

[@scvnthorpe__]

Honestly this is the best response. Like baking is hard, you've got to start somewhere and if people want a relationship to work they need to be supportive of each other. But you have to be willing to take an L lol.

[@fionafox420]

It literally could’ve just been a fun funny memory for them, but my guy had to get butt hurt for no reason. Both me and my husband have had unsuccessful first attempts at making new things. We just laughed it off and thought of ways to make it better next time 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ It’s nothing to get so upsetti spaghetti over

[@Brunette_2005]

He's an "alpha male". He doesn't have the mental maturity for that

[@1108-g1q]

I think his failure also highlights that the new generation not only has zero cooking and baking ability (don't @ me if you are anomaly and proving the rule) but also how so many of them don't understand how much they would need to learn to master even basic kitchen skills. This is why the redpill guys who can't cook are so incredulous as to how many "modern women" can't cook. When I was young, the society was set up to make it easy for us to learn these things. We all took Home Ec, and when I was a child it was the most common major in college for women (yes, you could getyour MRS degree!). Now- do you even know where to go for a cooking class that isn't at Sur la Table catering to rich yuppies? No. Even community colleges have given up on cooking and baking classes recreationally. The only real option for learning these skills from a person is to enroll in culinary school and pay a huge fee or incur debt, and not everyone who wants basic adult skills necessarily wants to work in a restaurant. It's easy to condemn anyone for not having skills when you also don't have them and don't know what it takes to get them. I have been cooking since I was 8 and now at 55 I am still learning.

[@utkarshsingh-rp2dq]

Haven't men been cooking for ages? I never get how cooking is seen as feminine.

[@pedrova8058]

At least in this part of the world, there is a certain traditional "division" between bakers (mostly male field, bread makers) and pastry/dessert makers (mostly female occupation)

[@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur]

There is a strong separation between being a professional chef (the Masculine), and cooking without compensation (the feminine)

[@Chan-zn7wb]

​@@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur Ah, yes the whole 'Men are chefs, Women are cooks' chestnut.

[@Aaarandom]

@@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur cooking without compensation is also known by its other name: survival.

[@yourlittlesecret7575]

@@Chan-zn7wbThis reminds me of Hell’s Kitchen. Then m3n would say very sexiest things to the women. But if it’s a show about cooking, shouldn’t it be an all woman competition? But then I realized, when it comes to cooking, the m3n think that if it comes with a salary, then cooking is a m4n’s job. But if it’s for free, then it’s a woman’s role 🤡

[@boredkitty]

It's a prime example of doing something nice to show your appreciation for someone vs doing something nice just because you WANT appreciation from someone.

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

yep!

[@Jeremy-yp8eh]

There's nothing wrong with wanting appreciation tho, the problem is how he handled this whole thing.

[@msunje9862]

@@Jeremy-yp8ehyea you are right, the biggest issue is him jumping online to complain like this and then his response to those that didn’t agree with him

[@Sanakudou]

@@Jeremy-yp8eh in this context I’d disagree, as it involves dishonest about which one he was motivated by. He’s feigning that his motivation was to give her a cake she wanted but whether or not she does or doesn’t like the cake wasn’t something he actually cared about, the end goal for this cake was for him to get to feel a certain way about himself and for her to be the one that allowed him to feel it. How she actually felt was irrelevant, he expected her to ignore her own feelings of disappointment/not feeling valued in order for her to he him feel valued. She’s being asked to appreciate an effort he made for himself, not for her. He set out with a selfish goal in mind but is now trying to get her shamed for being the “selfish” one. He’s being deceptive and manipulative. If this guy had sincerely been trying to do something for her, how she felt would’ve been what defined success or failure, his concern would’ve been with failing to meet her expectations. Trying to feel appreciated should not be something you acquire through disingenuous acts of “selflessness” and then having a tantrum using the premise that your selflessness isn’t being appreciated… when it was NEVER selflessness.

[@jeepsa2051]

​​​​@@Jeremy-yp8eh It is wrong in this case because THE goal in making that cake was to collect gratitude. It wouldn't have been as much of an issue if he made it with the genuine feeling of wanting to do something for your S/O AND get appreciated on the way. Former situation is for yourself, and yourself *only*, while latter is for your partner and yourself. Huge difference. Wanting appreciation in and of itself, devoid of any context isn't a bad thing. But it is if that's the only thing he wants, without putting any effort to earn it.

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

His girlfriend has zero expectations, he had alllll the expectations in this situation. She literally had no expectations that’s why she corrected him.

[@awkwardukulele6077]

Idk what’s up with the ville bot recently, but it’s been posting more AND getting less creative, which is a weird combination?

[@a_lethe_ion]

Just report as spam. The more people do the faster KZbin does something

[@tamiausten873]

They don't want anything except for her to be impressed 😂 if you say anything else, you are for the streets. I'd want someone to tell me the truth, as a cake enthusiast, the first time is the time to take lessons and suggestions. I started baking again in 2020, my mom was convinced veg oil will be a good substitute for margarine 🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂. I tried my way next, was better than the oil mess but I got it right on the third cake (and that wasn't my first time, I had taken a break). Aren't people supposed to learn things 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@deadboy9955]

Masculinity so strong that it's shattered by a.. cake?

[@MegaGraceiscool]

​@UTTP-142 oof struck a nerve did we? What a weak person lol

[@PersonS6]

To be fair, it does indeed look like a brick...

[@WhiteChocolate74]

Better than his teeth!

[@christopherstein2024]

Shattering his faith in the world was literally a piece of cake.

[@FruityCatRing]

​@UTTP-142 Imagine being so pathetic, you decided to use a racial slur to make your little ego feel better...hating confidently behind a screen is degenerate behavior fr 👀

[@gpeaches]

The thing I dislike about the situation is that his gesture was transactional. He was expecting to be praised and touted as this fantastic, thoughtful guy who remembered a dessert she likes. He "baked" the cement cake because he wanted the praise, her enjoyment of the cake was secondary (if it was even a consideration). It reminds me of the dads who get their wife some random bath set or tacky earrings for Mother's Day and then feel butt-hurt when she's not over the moon about a gift that was given as an obligation with no consideration or care.

[@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur]

Honestly, I think he went into this with good intentions . Having this idea in his head of making her happy and seeing her smile. Only for him to fail miserably. Since he's never done this before. Then his embarrassment and shame melted into anger with a dash of misogyny. I think that men get so butt hurt over people not appreciating the gift. Because they are frustrated at not being good at something they've had little to no practice in. Getting a good gift for some one is a tricky thing. That requires attention, intuition, a little practice, and a little luck. The right response is to learn from your failure. Look at what you did wrong. And try to do better in the future. But its so much easier to just become bitter. And say Fuck these Hoes, I'm gonna focus on myself and my career!

[@1108-g1q]

I was shocked to see the Think Before You Sleep guy weigh in on this story at 10:18 **against** the boyfriend. He usually leans more pro-guy so this really means the bf was wrong 😅 Cooking may be art, but baking is science . You simply cannot omit ingredients or get creative. I have had people ask me for a recipe and then tell me it didn't turn out right. When I asked a few questions I found out that they subbed applesauce for sour cream or flaxseed gel for eggs. Many people know so little about baking that they don't realize that they don't know enough. You need some base knowledge to understand that you still have a lot to learn.

[@colonialstraits1069]

But we’re supposed to pretend to like a tie? Women never do things on a transactional basis? Had the baker been a woman and the man was the one who rejected it, what would your reaction be to this story?

[@1108-g1q]

@colonialstraits1069 When I was a child a tie was an appropriate gift. There were several reasons for this. One is that the wife was less likely to work and make her own money.And if she did work she earned far less than her husband. Two, a tie was much more likely to get use than it is today. Three, there simply were not nearly as many options to choose from. Televisions were meant for only one room of the home and were a big ticket purchase like a car that no one would think to make a gift or surprise without a family discussion. So ties/cufflinks or that new stand mixer for her were both considered good gifts. But today, if someone were to give a man a tie I would say that the person Is lazy and doesn't care. It's time to start expecting more out of the people in our lives.

[@xSwordLilyx]

Reminds me of my narcissistic, abusive ex. He was sweet and thoughtful until he didn't think he needed to be anymore. This was before the guilt tripping for what he did for me and minimization of me was laid on thick. I told him that I liked to have an ice cream cake for my birthday and hadn't had a good one in a while, and honestly birthdays are hard for me. He got me a grocery store ice cream cake and put it in the refridgerator. When we went to eat it it was an inedible mess. Another year he got me a real Dairy Queen cake and drove with the a/c on to keep it cold, but treated me like I owed him for being nice. The next year? He broke up with me before my birthday and came to pick his shit up the day before my burthday and told me he had forgotten it was my birthday. We had been together 6 years. I am so terrified of someone being nice to me in the future and only finding out later it was all an act again.

[@hermenegildakociubinska6665]

I wonder how that guy would react if a woman presented him with a cake like this.

[@WhiteChocolate74]

I'd eat it!

[@eri_sama]

​@@WhiteChocolate74wasn't about you though, i assume that guy would come crying to twitter about how his girlfriend can't even bake, is so low effort and lazy lol

[@Meadowlarkk]

It probably be like: Women these days!! They lack all the understanding of women from the 1950s, an era were women knew how to be women. Modern dating is hell and I will become a passport bro and get myself a submissive Eastern European/Asian wife.

[@aspiring...]

He would have posted and praised all the negativity

[@JackH_123]

Realistically he would probably eat it enthusiastically even if it’s ugly because that’s we do when our significant other makes food for us

[@nova6964]

That cake looks like it has the texture of an eraser.

[@christopherstein2024]

We all thought about eating erasers in school though. You pierce them, you cut them up, you study the texture. Cooking with erasers would be delightful, they are fascinating and one of a kind.🤗

[@luckyclover-ld8tx]

no wonder she didn't want to eat it.. why he felt the need to post a picture of that monstrosity i'll never understand

[@user-sg4ov7ng4h]

yeah wth, i CAN excuse the glazing, makes sense, things go wrong, maybe he was unsure with the recipe so he added more, maybe the ingredients didn't go well while mixing.. but wth is that? a mug cake? bro i made one and it looked like this, a flan. is it a bodybuilder's less caloric version?

[@NatureFreak1127]

I would eat it. But i eat trash all the time.

[@animeotaku307]

The kind of eraser that smears your pencil marks all over your paper instead of erasing them.

[@council.of.fluffies]

No amount of looksmaxxing could have saved that cake. Straight to the blackpill with it.

[@itwasriggedfromthestart9520]

It's over for cakecels

[@hayley179g]

You're gonna need a pinkpill after eating it

[@sweatergod5386]

That cake hit the wall when it was born

[@coolchameleon21]

that cake is cooked (literally)

[@boxingelfis1499]

Mann, this week, jokes have been hitting me hard and this one definitely did😂😂😂😂

[@lakeelmpine5351]

The bear would have made a better cake

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Hahahaaaa

[@mychannel-lp9iq]

😭😭😭😭

[@essoundsofsilence]

😂😂😂

[@petitmains]

And there woulda been a *lot* more berries.

[@kubakornijenko1927]

Oh not tahat discorse again!

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

It seems like he wasn't even mad at her for not being appreciative of the cake, he's mad at her because he never cared to check what her preference for cake even _is_ . Like hell no, lady dodged a bullet. Reminds me of the guy who suprised me by making pizza because I said I missed it. I missed it because I'm allergic to tomatoes, me missing pizza came up in the third conversation we had where I tried to explain I'm _allergic_ And yeah he was pissed, threw a tantrum when I tried to salveage the situation by saying I could go and buy a jar of pesto to use as sause for me (ya know, so I didn't die), and then that I didn't "appreciate the effort". Like idk what he wanted me to do? Die. Just watch him eat and be happy with not eating myself?

[@drsalka]

I would honestly personally prefer "Just watch him eat and be happy with not eating myself?" than watch or listen to a man whine and throw a tantrum over a thing they themselves are responsible for fcking up. I would let him eat that pizza while watching him intently with judgment in my eyes. Now we are both enjoying it.

[@Raven.Madness]

Men like this think doing the bare minimum is the highest form of admiration and should be praised. It’s like giving someone an award for simply participating in an event, even if their efforts were piss poor.

[@thesilentgod7863]

Why something that feels so obvious like checking for allergies and diet restrictions preferences is not a common practice is beyond me

[@saiyamoru]

It's so dumb because the whole point of making/giving someone a gift is to make them happy. If I did this and the other person was like 'eugh', I might be hurt, but it was never about my feelings to begin with. He literally rejected her as an entire person/potential partner because she likes a different type of cake than the one he prepared.

[@Anisa-wi5zj]

@@Raven.Madnesslet’s not generalize. There are some good once’s out there somewhere

[@AlyssaTaylor9]

Do NONE of these alpha-bros see the irony of complaining that somebody didn't fawn over your poorly-constructed minimal-effort concoction? Thats what mothers do for their toddlers when they "make" them food. I like to cook, but occasionally something doesn't come out great (still edible, but not my best) and when it happens I'm the first to say it. I don't expect my husband to pretend to love it and then go crying to the internet that he didn't sing the praises of my effort.

[@CaulkMongler]

Not to mention if the roles were reversed and she tried to feed him inedible slop (not out of love but to make a point) they’d 1000% shame her too!

[@AlyssaTaylor9]

@nunyabaznus7851 LMAO grow up, get off reddit and go touch grass

[@LoveK1]

@nunyabaznus7851Liar. And what men call “running to a divorce lawyer” is actually the straw in years of neglect, disregard and/or abuse. “ I was blindsided.” Says every trash man who finally gets served papers after being told again and again that their wife isn’t happy. Imbeciles!

[@a_lethe_ion]

Maybe find a partner you can talk about your expectations in your relationship? What do they expect? BC nowardays both have to work, so maybe she doesn't expect just a high financial standards, but emotional closeness and time spent with each other. Maybe she doesn't want the guy to work more but to tell her he loves her.

[@katarinatibai8396]

Yes, narcissism is 5 years old. I bet this grown ass dude throw himself on the floor and starts kicking and screaming when he don't geth instant validation for every sh*t he push out.

[@neris7835]

Man I made a gluten-free, dairy-free cake for my boyfriend's birthday and it looks better than whatever the fuck he created. 😭

[@muadhnate]

Gluten free is hard to do. Good for you for trying.

[@thesilentgod7863]

That’s so nice. Especially considering that gluten free baking can be really tricky.

[@alienoyster]

The “ they wished they’d have chosen the bear” tweet is terrifyingly violent WTF

[@hainleysimpson1507]

I think they were just mocking diomedes brick cake.

[@lizdexamphetamine]

​@@hainleysimpson1507 it's a Diomedes tweet

[@skycats6663]

@@hainleysimpson1507 I mean, I’m a guy and I too would have chosen a bear cause I rather be killed quickly than chocking on that thing he called “perfect strawberry shortcake”.

[@britneybij3997]

Imagine Gordon Ramsey hopped on this🤣

[@evenow]

Lmfao somebody should tag him 😂😂

[@heat420_7]

"My fucking JAW!" -Gordon, after taking one bite of that dense thing. 😂

[@samizdatbroadcasts7654]

Lots of idiot sandwich in this story.

[@grandmasterofdemoniccock]

He would tear this guy to shreds 😭

[@tomomihisaya]

@@heat420_7ITS RAW

[@Boahemaa]

If he did bake this "cake" for a woman because she said she liked strawberry cake, his response to her honest review shows he's immature at best but I am more than a little worried about the rage and violence you can feel from his post. This man is on the edge.

[@katarinatibai8396]

It's narcissism. Narcissists are immature and freakig angry people. It's impossible to live with them .

[@STEPHxCA]

I saw “Cake” and heard “Diabetes” instead of “Diomedes”

[@islandgirl1877]

Same. Literally had to rewind cause I was so confused at first. 😅

[@miss_chelles1338]

Even after I read this comment I could STILL hear her say "diabetes". 😭🤣

[@islandgirl1877]

@@miss_chelles1338 ahahaha no way

[@isardonic8601]

As I got older, sweets have become less of a delicacy for me. I have candy, and a cookie here or there, but I don't go out of my way for it like I used to.

[@ladybug3380]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@christopherstein2024]

That strawberry cake looked absolutely great it just had negative canthal tilt!

[@rafonioslapronios]

It forgot to mew

[@eri_sama]

​@UTTP-142 ok, snowflake HAHAH

[@haywoodjablowmi1427]

⁠@UTTP-142 haha you’re mad

[@florlscnt]

@UTTP-142 cry

[@innitbruv-lascocomics9910]

​@UTTP-142 Is this a KZbin glitch or something?

[@daizeejoanslocker8043]

His intentions were impure and his cake reflected his impure heart

[@Anisa-wi5zj]

And his rant proves that his intention were impure

[@real._lyphoebe]

Why did it look so dense 😭 that would go down like concrete

[@muadhnate]

Apparently too much egg. At least that's what I heard. Not a pro. Lol

[@LoveK1]

@@muadhnateI’ve never heard of someone adding too many eggs. Is that a common mistake people make?

[@liandoaethend2403]

​@@LoveK1 its a weird mistake, ive heard someone making it too overcook or undercook or flavors but basic ingredients? First time ive heard of it

[@neoqwerty]

@@muadhnate I've achieved this one (the glutinous brick) consistently enough by substituting egg for olive and vegetable oils (I'm only torturing myself with my laziness about going out to go get eggs, so it's okay). It's something to do with the protein/fat ratios and how it aerates IIRC. Though in this case I wonder if he thought baking powder was baking SODA and just threw in some arm & hammer in there thinking it'd aerate.

[@Rhamburgers_420]

⁠@@neoqwertyLMFAO NOT THE GLUTINOUS BRICK 😭

[@STEPHxCA]

Chef Ramsey would have many colorful things to say about this cake

[@sadbunny23]

And man would I love to hear them. I feel like Ramsey wouldn't have shied away from telling a few things about his personal life as well... Maybe even made a few comparisons 😂

[@katarinatibai8396]

💯💯💯

[@NarkAttack]

each picture of the cake felt like i was looking at a crime scene...

[@neoqwerty]

I've eaten breads I made with that texture, and I can assure you that that cake is at least a future murder weapon and/or choking hazard, so crime scene isn't far from it.

[@ManicPixieDreamGurl]

Seriously dude i had to look away every time it was on screen 😭

[@SkyeSoleil]

I’m generally not a fan of Think Before You Sleep, but he had me laugh-crying with that absolute beating in his tweets

[@youraveragesinner5474]

I am

[@CaulkMongler]

@@redmaple1982 THEYRE DATING?????

[@meows..]

​@@redmaple1982omg i didnt even know he had a gf, let alone did a face reveal 💀

[@daniboy4153]

Everyone says his tweet is ironic

[@Isthisjoebiden]

​@CaulkMongler they've been together for a while now...she has no standards 😂

[@oomay1925]

honestly I'm not much of a baker, so I don't care too much about presentation. I know I've tried baking for people and its not the prettiest thing (although it should still taste good). But his clear entitlement that she OWED him something more, is what's clearly the bigger red flag.

[@Cyhcg5uhgb]

And than started lashing out of people on X who cristized his cake. Hahaha. The amount of frustration is genieunly kind of funny

[@neoqwerty]

@nunyabaznus7851 With this stack of glutinous brick slabs? No, no, she'd be getting roasted just as hard because this crap belongs on something like CakeWrecks. Seriously it looks like it's made out of legos and toothpaste.

[@roxassora2706]

And the infantilization of her dreams? He's "playing gym", he should at least learn to change a diaper. Him playing gym throws away his only duty as a man, being a father and raising children.

[@InterplanarerPennersoeldner65]

I cant even cook and even I think this white log of sh1t is awful.

[@emily-yo1cy]

When i read "They'll wish they chose the bear" on the thumbnail, like, babes, they already chose the bear 😒

[@animeotaku307]

Stuff like that is going to have me running into the woods to look for a bear, because I’d rather be mauled than find out what they’re plotting.

[@soupyweb]

If anything that is saying that the women who chose the man should be scared which is a confusing point to make

[@havenprizmich9217]

He really made a girl strawberry sheet rock and felt victimized when she didn’t worship him for doing it😭

[@jhonjacson798]

Looks more like a sponge to me. Speaking as someone who failed to whip enough air into box cake...

[@itwasriggedfromthestart9520]

He wanted to be a gentleman and make a woman happy, he just never baked before. I'm sure you would be mad too if your bf wasn't appreciating your efforts.

[@heyhey439]

@@itwasriggedfromthestart9520 If he is what you consider a "gentleman" then the word has no real meaning and you have a very infantilizing view of men. Effort is subjective but there are lots of grown men, boyfriends, husbands, and fathers that would laugh at this poor attempt.

[@Ri57490]

​​@@itwasriggedfromthestart9520 I never baked before a few years ago but I could follow a recipe/instructions and the result wasn't a sheet rock. The cake in this video looked like a mess

[@itwasriggedfromthestart9520]

@@heyhey439 Do you think it is good to laugh at other peoples efforts?

[@angelaspecialfox_ro289]

He said she does not like cake with strawberries on top, and then he says that she did not even see the cake before commenting. Somethings does not add up, how did she know the strawberries were on top if she did not see the cake first?

[@toristreats]

I dont this he actually has a girlfriend sjdjd

[@lilmorsecody]

im tired of rewarding men for bs to "protect their feelings." I would be embarassed to give that cake to someone I loved, or a stranger even

[@sojaabrams599]

If this is how you feel about relationships, please never date

[@88QueenOfHearts]

Agreed. The frosting looked like melting frozen yogurt. The cake had more of a biscuit consistency. And who cuts strawberries to layer them like that?! 😂

[@sparksfly6149]

​@@sojaabrams599 what? Do you think murderers should get a cookie and a kiss on the cheek?

[@sojaabrams599]

@@sparksfly6149 How in the world did you get that from what I said?

[@jlspracher]

blah blah blah, keep the same energy for genders switched, blah blah blah

[@MSonMarss]

my dad has been criticising my mother's food since I've known him (not every meal mind you, only when it's too salty or the meat was tough) and she've never had this dramatic of a reaction

[@FlauscheFee]

Weird how I want to make the prettiest most fluffy, most feminine strawberry cake now. On my way to steal his girl!

[@Isthisjoebiden]

Lmfao!

[@samuelwoodouse4482]

Here's an absolutely bizarre tip for you. You can add strawberry jello mix. Yes really, it's adds a firmness and infuses a strawberry flavor into it. I've baked a recipe with it two or three times now, everyone likes it.

[@skycats6663]

@@samuelwoodouse4482 even without this tip, he would have succeeded when compared to whatever that thing is. I actually try to find this Diomedes account and I’m surprised on how many people use that for their account. Well, couldn’t find this guy account at all, did find the reply to the now deleted posts. Bro definitely show the spirit of alpha males by getting butthurt for getting criticised on something definitely his fault and deleting his account. I do enjoy looking at the replies he got which is a mixed of probably impressionable 13 years olds simping hard over him and people dunking on him for the nth time. I did though find something like a history of a twitter account website that have the most horrible way to show ads but saw a few of his old posts and couldn’t find any damn good reason on why the girl even dated him.

[@darthvadersmom1192]

he underestimated baking, feeding people is responsibility, skil, honour and pride. whoever bakes for him he cant respect or cheish it, bc he doesnt understand what baking is. children bake better than him

[@Thatcaramelchic]

Exactly! When you cook for other people, it is like you were presenting them with a gift. It is something that you should take pride in. I’m sure he would never give a cake like that to his boss or bring it to a work function potluck. So why is it OK to give it to a significant other that you’re trying to impress.

[@darthvadersmom1192]

@@Thatcaramelchic remember that sushi dude who went viral and his customer is not among us anymore? That is why Gordon Ramsay yells, feeding people is RESPONSIBILITY. How many women are nut allergic and men's LACK OF CARE=receüy for disaster right. take care girl never eat something to be nice say no and be good.

[@Thatcaramelchic]

@@darthvadersmom1192 right I said that in my own comment on this video, nobody is entitled to eat your food. I cook for my family. I take pride in the food that I cook. I take the time to make sure that it is presentable. However, the recipe is not always going to be good lol and if people don’t want to eat it, that is totally fine. It’s nothing personal. You learn for the next time.

[@narsimhas1360]

@@Thatcaramelchica lot of women disagree with you. I cooked this so you must eat it is a very common mindset among mothers and even other women, not just men. No way they would’ve been criticised as much as this man

[@txrie1625]

⁠@@narsimhas1360can we please stop with the “gender swapped” comment shit i hope you know no one cares plus it makes no sense in this situation. Stop trying to be right when your wrong i promise you’ll still be in the same echo chamber and not even that but its not “common” at all among anyone. If you cook something you have a responsibility to feed someone you can’t just feed them a cake that is half assed

[@Jon.S.123]

If this Diomedes becomes one of those erotic tiktok bakers after this imma lose my mind.

[@seraphina2293]

He came from humble beginnings, just like the Greek legend

[@bascoaful]

I am so glad I don't have Tiktok, just reading erotic baker made me uncomfortable

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

The cake looks like if a yeast infection was cake so... please no

[@thesilentgod7863]

*screams internally AND externally*

[@meows..]

​@@bascoafuli hope you never come across this horrible subgenre of cooks/bakers 😭

[@ALForb]

We've really lost sight of what should be kept private. I feel bad for this guy, not just because of the reaction to his bad cake, but more because he felt a need to share his situation publicly. He likely has very few connections in his life; the kinds that would help him learn from this blunder. I doubt this debacle will have helped him improve in any way, as shame is rarely helpful.

[@nephone]

I felt bad for him after seeing his other posts. He's clearly not doing well. Seems like he identifies as an incel even though he has hookups and fwbs.

[@indigoigloo]

Whenever these ppl crop up I wonder how they got to such a dark place. What hell did he go thru to think a shitty date & cake was worth this exposure? Like you said it really seems like no one is there… either to teach him basic manners, how to bake a cake, or to be his shoulder to cry on about a bad date….

[@ALForb]

​@@indigoigloo Agreed. I find that certain kinds of people, or people who tend to behave in certain ways, are very easy to hate and are much harder to have compassion for. This is the case for guys like this, who seem "whiny" when they feel invalidated. It's obvious that men tend not to be great communicators of their feelings (even to themselves), and thus, when they try to express their feelings it comes out in clumsy, sometimes toxic ways. Then, when people react negatively to their flailing; when we shame them for their feelings, it only worsens their relationship with their own emotions. It's interesting that when someone is emotionally immature or undeveloped, we ridicule them and call them childish. I've been guilty of this reaction. But in a sense, that really IS the child in them showing itself, and in those moments we are being cruel to child by mocking and ridiculing them as they're vulnerable.

[@bixiella7830]

​@@ALForbwell but realistically they are not a child, they're a grown adult and you can't expect everyone and anyone to be patient with you just because you haven't figured out basic emotions. cake guy needs an enormous reality checl

[@batsy3]

skill issue. he doesn't care about others, so others don't care about him. As it should be. plenty of people that go through profound trauma and have hard lives don't end up like this whiny idiot. people like this need to stay alone, its ok

[@Marcus-143]

The line about being "surprised" to find a different sort of Diomedes on twitter 😂 Entire video was great, even the promo. You still got it, Kid. I can't imagine how the cake came out like that, it would seem the effort was put into purposely making it a disgusting mess. More references to ancient greeks please.

[@kiim0]

Saw the picture of the cake. My guy, i wouldn't even feed that to my dog. Seriously, these manosphere guys are making it EASY for us normal guys to get relationships. Because....where the fuck was the quality assurance?!? I'm throwing that shit out and ordering uber eats bro. Not even a manosphere issue, that's an "i don't know what i am doing" issue.

[@eri_sama]

this made me cackle, thanks lol

[@Anelkia]

Lmaooo you're so real for this like at that point just buy a cake to enjoy with your partner lol

[@yeetmeat2734]

The lower the bar, the easier to step over.

[@skycats6663]

I mean, I once did try to bake a fluffy cheesecake and failed miserably cause it was dense but still edible but at least it wasn’t as fucking dense as that brick he called cake. When I first saw the image, I thought it was chicken or something which while more horrifying but I think it’s kinda on brand with the “alpha male” movement.

[@BilliesPetRock]

Omg can we please have an incel bake off show? I would watch that

[@narsimhas1360]

Dude literally has a gf and you are calling him an incel lol

[@itwasriggedfromthestart9520]

@@narsimhas1360 For these people words don't have meanings anymore, they call everyone an Incel they don't like

[@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur]

@@narsimhas1360 He said at the of that tweet that these Hoes don't deserve him, so he's gonna focus on his carreer. So the Bro is going MGTOW (Men going their own way) Incel's aren't just virgins who lack the social skills to get a girl friend. Incel just means Involuntary Celibate. Men who are driven away from dating due to a lack of emotional maturity are also incels. The Red Pill to Black Pill pipeline is real.

[@drsalka]

@@narsimhas1360 he definitely emulates incel behavior.

[@Brunette_2005]

@@narsimhas1360 He definetely has the emotional and mental immaturity to be one

[@JosieBurb]

it looks like a gym rat fake cake made with protein power in the batter and icing for the macros (someone literally did this when I was at university, it was identical to this -- still tasted good though)

[@taylorhillard4868]

Yep, bro made it for himself from the beginning, i recognize that protein powder consistency from a mile away.

[@burmessafox3939]

Wow, that's interesting. Was wondering why it was so dense

[@dlilwon]

Most things with a lot of sugar will taste good.

[@j.d.4241]

Make me want to try it on cheating days lol

[@YoutubeMadeMePickHandle]

I feel for the guy in a way, because it’s obviously the case that deep down he wants a true connection to someone, but the poison of being an internet addicted culture war consumer tinges every social interaction and effort he makes. The “solitary stoic male hero” archetype is almost always a form of cope, and the fact that he went to the internet about this in the first place just compounds that he must have a lot of social isolation in his life.

[@NothingYouHaventReadBefore]

I feel the same way. It seems like there's so much patheticity and pain in the interaction that I instinctually want to pity. On the other hand: he bears the responsibility for this situation and to be able to take a hit to his ego.

[@JackH_123]

Yeah this is pretty much it

[@awi1316]

I doubt that someone who dehumanises women to that extent could have a functional relationship with one

[@hainleysimpson1507]

​@@awi1316And women will still choose that guy over another less attractive man who treats everyone fairly. Men make the same dumb mistake in regards to women

[@Luni-ew9qw]

If he tries to be stoic, he is doing it wrong. Being stoic is also about being humble and not throwing tantrums like a toddler.

[@daisy_rh]

Tbh if my husband would make me that cake I would think it's really sweet of him to try, since baking is definitely not his strong suit and he has a hard time following recipes because of ADHD lol But considering the context of his account, I don't think the gesture is quite that cut and dry with this guy.

[@mychannel-lp9iq]

Exactly. W/o context it seems like an innocent situation but seeing the whole account he's not that innocent

[@xitzbit926]

..... Gurl, this is something that with instructions cant happen

[@neoqwerty]

@@xitzbit926 "1 cap of vanilla" /pours one CUP of vanilla and gets the Pillsbury Doughboy's ghost haunting your house for a week I think confusion in the instructions can happen here too. A horror story in one sentence courtesy of my former friend: "Baking soda is the same thing as baking powder, right?"

[@animeotaku307]

@@xitzbit926As someone with ADHD and who loves to bake, it’s possible to forget whether you added an ingredient or not and either not add it at all or add too much. I’ve lost count even when measuring rice to steam.

[@df2184]

I have to say, at first I was sympathetic to the guy. Then I saw the actual cake and laughed a bit. But when you showed his other tweets it was really clear that he was the asshole and was just telling only his side of the story

[@JackH_123]

Thing I hate about online discourse is how everybody sees one frame of a story and decides they know the entire story. We don’t know how she really reacted, nor do we know the first thing about their relationship dynamics. There’s no context. We only know how he feels.

[@mayya4413]

How he feels which is entitlement and excuse for his raging misogynistic views

[@MegaMilenche]

@@mayya4413 Or, maybe his gf is toxic, too.

[@Isthisjoebiden]

​@@MegaMilenchewe didn't see that and she isn't on the internet whining, is she? Right. Always gotta blame women in some way right

[@WhoBlah21]

@@mayya4413 Oh brother... can we PLEASE give the word entitlement a rest already?

[@o.m9514]

That does not change his disrespectful cake and misogyny. It does not excuse it. What nonsense!

[@OpheliaNL]

lmao at the tweet at 20:00. ''It applies when a woman is trying to watch your favourite movie, but can't follow along and is asking tedious questions about the plot''. I've never encountered any men in real life who love art-house films with complicated plots. Infinity War and Shawshank Redemption are so difficult to follow :( Also kind of ironic, because men rarely watch any films that are about the female experience and women tend to adjust their taste in movies and tv-shows to fit who they are dating.

[@bangtanluver]

I just think this whole situation is a bit ridiculous

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Agreed!!!! If anything, it’s truly comedy gold. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chris-m1v]

if you are a sigma male, a high value man, a real chad : just buy a damn cake.

[@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur]

I think he wanted to make it himself. To make it a more personal gesture.

[@muadhnate]

Cake mix is another option. And a whipped frosting.

[@drsalka]

@@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur oh it sure became personal after he presented it to her :)))

[@Brunette_2005]

@@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur Personal? He posted it and villainized the woman for something this ridiculous

[@CharlieConcepts-pw9ur]

@@Brunette_2005 Well, yes. The dude probably never developed any emotional maturity. So when he's hurt his first instinct is probably to lash out. Dudes tend to get especially nasty when they feel humiliated or emasculated. They don't know how to process those emotions. So they tend to default to misogyny, homophobia, or general nastiness against any one they can get away with insulting. When an experience makes you feel small or weak. There's a strong incentive to pick on others so you can feel strong again.

[@heyhey439]

I love that the one person's tweet compares a man failing to bake a cake to a woman not being able to follow the plot of a movie.... I feel like that was also very telling of that person's perception of effort and women's intelligence. It's interesting to see so many men rip the cake guy apart for this and so many women pacify him... To me, baking is easier than cooking because every step is clearly explained and there isn't really a need for imagination so I would assume a logical natural leader of a man would find it pretty straight forward lol I also would never feed someone else a first try. Don't people usually test out a recipe before making it for someone? This was a funny story

[@jlspracher]

Some (like me) would say cooking is easier than baking because you have a little more freedom for things to turn out ok, even if you uave to wing it. Also, why would a leader be predisposed to following directions? I would think they're more about making others follow directions.

[@heyhey439]

@jlspracher I was thinking along the lines of "logical, left brained, no pansy artsy bs" type guy because that's what he strikes me as. Baking has very clear instructions, and there's no real reason for error because all the information is right there. I just don't understand why a big boy like him would struggle this hard unless he simply doesn't give a half a fuck about it.

[@nashinashi0114]

Now that's some one-dimensional "logic". Both in cooking and baking, depending on what you make, there are techniques and physics involved a f*ck ton of recipes don't even properly address or cover. But it's much more significant in baking so yeah, baking is much harder. Just think of macarons, there's a reason why these are called the 'divas of the bakery' and why these are so f*cking expensive even when the ingredients aren't that costly.

[@heyhey439]

@@nashinashi0114 Either way, this guy is a douche. I just find baking easier because I prefer more exact instructions.

[@dmb1745]

I didn’t start cooking and baking until I was 18 years old because my parents never taught me how to do it. I’ve never messed up a recipe. Idk, maybe the ones I’m selecting aren’t super hard but all you have to do is just follow the fucking instructions. If I, a hysterical, inferior feeeeemale can get a millionaire’s shortbread right on the first attempt, then this logical, superior, rational, intellectually superior Alpha male should have no problems following a recipe for a CAKE

[@LoneWulf278]

Self-awareness is definitely lacking. 😂

[@shivam673]

​@ville__are you diomedes bro?

[@its-tinyavocado]

I made like 3 cakes in my entire life, but surely you can't mess it up THAT bad? Just follow instructions!

[@vlc-cosplayer]

Only beta males follow instructions, alphas can will cakes into existence by staring at the ingredients 😤

[@darthplagueis13]

Bold of you to assume he was using a recipe.

[@MrsDazl]

Girl, stop! 😂 you know they can barely read. Plus, following instructions is only for wimmenz making sandwiches in the kitchen! 😑😒

[@emeros8631]

So he tried to manipulate her with a gesture, expected her to worship him for it, may or may not have made an actual effort, she didn't had the reaction he wanted and got mad at her.

[@Unkuuu]

I agree that the effort counts for something but let be real. It’s a low vibrational cake (iykyk). If she presented him with the same cake he would come to the internet and say she was a low effort girlfriend. The same people defending him would agree if the shoe was on the other foot. In all honesty and tbh tho if I felt the effort was earnest I would just say thank you 😊

[@serenityssolace]

Best comment!

[@Brunette_2005]

It's the woman's fault if a man is involved, I guess

[@flowerbloom5782]

Agreed. Some people really really don’t know how to bake or cook. I don’t think the mess up really matters but the reaction and how he is owed praise is the issue I think.

[@KilonovaBurst]

Absolutely they would be telling him to leave her and that a woman's worth is directly related to her ability to cook.

[@SunshineTheLover]

honestly we dont even know if she thanked him for the effort or not. he only expressed his anger at the situation

[@saiyamoru]

The funniest part is that he was absolutely crushed by a woman simply expressing a preference. He acted like he just got dumped. Girl avoided a bullet imo.

[@MegaMilenche]

Girls act like men graped them if they ask to split the bill on a first date.

[@rosegolden8959]

@@MegaMilenche and then everyone clapped

[@jscudderz]

The dude sounds like a real bucket of problems. I do think there's something to be said about expressing gratitude for the things ones partner does instead of being like "this is the bare minimum", you can't really have a healthy relationship without both parties expressing gratitude for one another as they are. But this conversation seems to be people triggered by not feeling appreciated in their own lives tacking that issue onto a situation they probably don't have any context for.

[@hayley179g]

I would be afraid for the bear that ate that cake in the woods

[@vlc-cosplayer]

Bro would chip a tooth 😭

[@thebitterprojector]

But she also liked strawberry flavored cake - like the pink kind with strawberry flecks in it. He could have made a cake mix and it would have been a better situation. He didn't hear her. I didn't know this was a thing. I also learned that Reesa Teesa was a thing through your video. I love my current level of disconnect from the "real world' and living under a rock. I wouldn't want to learn about these topics directly or from a different source. Thank you.

[@magdalenas.4]

I’m not going to say the cake is ugly or that he deserves praise. It’s not the cake she wanted and by giving it to her and then shaming her being ungrateful even though you haven’t even gave her the thing she actually wanted, is manipulative!!! This is a very common tactic used by narcissists - gifting her something she doesn’t like and calling her ungrateful afterwards. 😒

[@motorcitymangababe]

Dude that cake looks like you could use it to take out Goliath. "I actually like strawberry cake not cake with strawberries" is the nicest let down she could have come up with. My sister once made cake and misread the ingredients (she was in grade school and glancing at the cookbook instead of stopping to read it) and dusted the cake with baking powder, not powdered sugar. I still give her shit for trying to poison me.

[@neoqwerty]

Cake dusted with baking powder sounds like one of those misreads that's going to live in my head from now on, alongside the 1 cup of vanilla extract and a decorator writing "happy birthday Michael, why".

[@temporal_lacunae]

It's just not that deep, the girl didn't want the cake, sometimes we don't want things that people make, I'm a picky eater and politely refuse a lot of food. If I refused somebody's food and they went into an emotional crisis over it I would run fast and run far.

[@amarathepuffball152]

As with everything two things can be true at once. That cake looks...rough, however, if he has rarely ever baked, I think appreciating the effort he made to do so is a valid desire. At the same time, expecting more than that and slipping into red pill ideology just because he didn't get that is not good either. We all have to start somewhere, so failure should be expected and the lessons you learn, such as adding baking powder and longer refrigeration times, should be incorporated into future attempts with grace for yourself and others.

[@heyhey439]

And it's never a great idea to serve someone your first attempt. You usually have to give it a test run before you have someone over to make sure you know what you're doing. Especially if you are just beginning. If it was just the bad cake and that's it, nobody would care, it's the reaction, his post history, and way he fell apart like a wet tissue that's far more telling.

[@narsimhas1360]

@@heyhey439very common to make other’s eat your first attempt. My sister had made me taste the pasta she had made for the first time

[@heyhey439]

@narsimhas1360 Made you?? I'm sorry about that. That's not very nice. At the very least, to make sure it's edible, the person that made it should eat it first.

[@narsimhas1360]

@@heyhey439how is that a bad thing? She served it and asked for feedback. Not like she made me eat the whole bowl. Not her fault that her first try came out bad. The effort counts so I ate the whole thing even after her friend stopped and started laughing about it. I can understand allergies but why would you not eat something that took effort just cause it tastes bad? It’s just eating

[@narsimhas1360]

Can see tasting things first as a good practice but not the end if the world if it is not done imo

[@MichelleseaChelle]

He admitted it’s missing baking soda! It’s literally missing vital ingredients and turned out like that, then gets mad that she doesn’t appreciate the “effort” that he put in. Effort means making an ingredient list & following directions.

[@Srea42]

Isn't that the Minecraft cake?

[@animeotaku307]

Nah, that looks way more unappetizing

[@melize7035]

This is a symptom of children who got participation awards 😂😂😂 now they think any “effort” should be applauded 🙄😂🤦🏽‍♀️

[@dia5131]

At first I was empathising with him because I know how defeated you can feel when something doesn't go the way you wanted, and you feel as though your effort was wasted and has gone under-appreciated. But the way he described something that his girlfriend (ya know...someone he's supposed to love or even like...) really enjoys eating as her "going off" about liking it, like she's nagging him or annoying him when she's talking about her interests, made me so mad!! Why are these people in relationships when they don't even *like* the person they're dating?? And I love how he exposes his true self after trying to act like a victim of some vicious uncaring women lolol I just hope he's not treating her the way he treats strangers on the internet...

[@leo-rp1ps]

that cake looked like soap

[@ArtRebelsBloc]

i am definitley not an alpha type but making cakes is a total power move. my daughter and i love just whipping up a cake on a whim any random saturday afternoon haha

[@camillap10101]

just ended it with someone i was seeing for 2 months. i asked the infamous “what are we?” question after seeing more minimal effort from his end the past two weeks. he confirmed what i was thinking, which is he can’t get into anything serious right now. for me, it doesn’t make sense to stress over someone who won’t be a boyfriend so i ended it. effort is everything, because if he was treating me well and was still putting in effort i wouldn’t have even felt the need to pop that question

[@harsh3948]

He must be quite the chad then

[@Brunette_2005]

@@harsh3948 Ragebait

[@ThinkingYesimathinkee-pz1rf]

​@@harsh3948 the equivalent would be a girl looking at her phone while on a date but I guess you don't have self reflection

[@CaulkMongler]

Hilariously, Think Before You Sleep is supposed to be some sort of manosphere adjacent content creator imo and even HE called out the terrible cake.

[@gemh89]

It looks to me like he knows a thing or two about baking and was somehow personally offended by the cake

[@malooskitty9124]

I feel like the girl might’ve said she likes strawberry flavored cake not cake with strawberries so she doesn’t have to eat it and possibly gag in front of him. Maybe she was actually protecting his feelings. Cuz I know I have a sensitive mouth and I would have probably gaged or spit it out.

[@m.611]

That cake looks exactly like something one of my nieces would make out of play dough, and him expecting her to actually receive that with the same enthusiasm I have for them kids is crazy 😩

[@analisamelculo85]

You? Imposter syndrome??? But you're one of the very few, if not the only, channels that I still follow religiously even if I disagree with some opinions, your perspective on things is very valuable ♥︎

[@angelicart.6]

true 💜

[@analisamelculo85]

@ville__ who are you? Hasjsjaha

[@NocturnalNagatoro]

In all honesty, she was probably trying to be nice. It looked unappetizing, she peobably didnt want to eat it but didnt want to seem rude and say no, especially because she DID say she likes strawberry cake...but THAT one looks nasty. So instead of straight up rejecting it shes like oohh, I actually like strawberry flavored haha. Translation: that doesnt look like it tastes good but you had the right idea

[@user-nz8gr7em6o]

Probably, i mean imagine how much more he would flip his shii out if she actually said the honest answer of "thanks for the effort but I don't want to eat THAT"

[@vivnightcoremsp]

I’ve made food for people b4 and it came out bad, now when they told me they didn’t like it I didn’t start throwing a tantrum and going off, I simply asked what they didn’t like then re-attempted it with more care and carefulness and hoped they would like it this time. His intentions r clearly not coming from a good place at all

[@sorahibari7084]

I thought the cake was made from tofu slices when I first saw it

[@okikeure7422]

Poor baby was hurt cause she didn't want to eat cake? Now he doesn't believe in love again😢😢😂😂😂😂

[@VLuava5v5]

Letterlly every men ever.

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

I totally agree with you. Him going straight to the internet to whine is proof it was just a move for content. Idk. Sounds like a very immature man.

[@cynthialant8647]

I think it's funny that even Think Before You Sleep, a man with very strong red pill esque opinions on women, believes this cake was made with zero effort and care.

[@sleepmore8587]

Sponge cake is literally the easiest cake ever, even my baby brother can make it. No baking soda/powder, no butter or oil needed.

[@vivvy_0]

care to share the recipe, if you'd like? 😊

[@doramaartheexplorer]

What gets me is that he went from zero to a hundred so fast. “Oh I actually like a different kind of cake” “i should’ve never cared about a woman and I’m gonna be alone forever”. There were so many steps to take before that. He sounds deeply insecure and sensitive, but he’s telling himself that he’s stoic and aloof. And I think that’s a common problem with men like this because they can’t stand the thought that they’re emotional bc thats not “masculine” so they pretend their sensitivity is actually stoicism. Then they don’t address any of their unhealthy coping mechanisms and grow emotionally

[@MegaMilenche]

“Oh I actually like a different kind of cake” is really not a thing to say when someone bakes you a cake though.

[@doramaartheexplorer]

@@MegaMilenche my point still stands. Even if she was a little rude it’s still an excessive overreaction. There are better ways to deal with my conflict, which is why I said there were many steps to take before that. My entire point was that he was escalating it too much

[@Luni-ew9qw]

​@@MegaMilenche how? expecting someone to eat that abomination of a cake is no thing to do. I wouldnt make someone eat that.

[@supertajnykanałł]

I'm watching a grown man who thinks he's another Diomedes raging over girl not liking his cake. What am I doing with my life 💀

[@Vacerous]

Bake one cake and all Greece gotta turn into Gordon Ramsey.

[@annadrift4]

That is not a cake, it's a trip to ER. Nor is there a gf. I stand by this. Also, the ability to laugh at yourself with your imaginary partner is what makes a good relationship.

[@JessicAHHHHHHH]

We shouldn't and will not be asked to applaud the bare minimum, especially when they wear blinders and earmuffs when we express our emotions about things. Also, such a polarized world we live in...😢

[@desperateswabianhousewife8317]

Making somethign special, even if you fail at it, is never "bare minimum" and you would never accept if a manosphere guy would talk like this about say his wife giving him a bad present. Be honest to yourself.

[@JackH_123]

Since when is baking somebody a cake the bare minimum bro I promise if your boyfriend or husband baked you the worst cake in the world unsolicited you would be ecstatic because it shows he’s thinking and caring about you

[@harsh3948]

You’re just gaslighting with the bare minimum stuff to get the best deal for your own selfish interests. Be honest

[@Brunette_2005]

@@JackH_123 Delusion hits hard. Imagine the person who lives a self-destructive lifestyle based on shitting on your sex and validating his immaturity presents you with a brick cake with strawberries on top. Why would I show gratitude towards a brick cake made by an immature *sshole? You wouldn't show gratitude towards your bully after he gives you a gift and then continues being your bully anyway, would you?

[@MegaMilenche]

You know, when you have men who would rather speak to a tree or swing from it than expose their feeling to a woman one more time, it should tell you it's women who can't be trusted with men's feelings. And if men can't trust women with their feelings, why should they care about women's feelings? Especially since the world demands men always put women's feelings first.

[@herenomore3167]

It's telling that he ran to twitter rather than communicating to his gf that something she said hurt him

[@isardonic8601]

My grandmother taught me how to cook, and that was years ago because she's dead and im 26 now. I enjoyed it, and even took years of culinary classes in highschool. Passed with flying colors. She did teach me though that back then most women were lazy and didn't know how to cook, so i had to learn. Now as an adult, i can conclude this to be 50/50 true. Some do, some dont. My ex couldn't cook a cup of noodles with a microwave 🤣, but my gf now makes the best food. I genuinely cook now because im just a picky eater. As for men now, some can and some cant cook. I refuse to starve, so im happy i can with fluidity.

[@supportmain8509]

When i Saw that cake, i actually screamed. It barely looks edible omg😭😭😭

[@BLOOSTR1KZZ]

I think the problem isn't that he didn't make a second attempt for her, it's that he didn't make a second for himself, and instantly said "fuck it I'm done, fuck y'all too" Like... ???????? doing it better could have been awesome for you! Show yourself a Strawberry whatever that looks better than last time The littlest amount of effort isn't enough to keep a relationship, a "masculine man" should know that 🤷‍♂️

[@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer]

​@ville__ I'm crying at how cringe you are

[@eri_sama]

​@ville__more than a hundred comments on this channel asking for likes and views? pathetic

[@narsimhas1360]

Why waste ingredients if the cake is edible? I don’t get immediately making another cake of all things right after you made the first one

[@TacseraEpSekahs]

@@narsimhas1360 I'm not sure that is edible unfortunately... Cake not being cut, refrigerated or having the right sliced strawberries is all ok. But the texture of it looks really dense. There's no way to know for sure by just looking at the photo, but it feels like it would be so chewy you will get a jaw workout from it.

[@narsimhas1360]

@@TacseraEpSekahs fair enough

[@RodaRora]

Honestly if a guy presented me something like this I would become suspicious. If he said that something happened to it that messed it up it would be completely fine but putting no effort into making it look edible is just so off to me. If you’re already making a cake it’s really easy not to make it look terrible. I’d wonder why he even did that or what he’d put in it.

[@empresspoobah]

He should have just gone to a bakery. One of my favourite memories is an ex who went out of his way (it was far for him) to buy me cake from my favourite bakery at the time. Baking is hard and an art. I don't want someone putting in effort in baking when it is just as easy to buy. Cooking is also not easy but easier to master than baking.

[@tatiana4050]

Omg he is like a little kid baking a cake for mothers day and waiting for praise. I did my best mommy take a bite say i did great and throw it away when im not looking. Not like a man who wanted to do something nice for a woman. And people are actually saying thats what she should have done??? Idk i would personally call it low key misandry. "Oh men are incompetent and need to be reaffirmed"

[@redwoodclimber]

Bro that follow up tweet had me, a grown man, choking back laughter in Costco lmaoo. Glad I made it to the car before I looked at the picture of the cake because I couldn’t hold it in 😂😂

[@MichaelRobertHart]

Kidology: oh your Twitter name is Diomedes? Name three of his legendary feats from classical mythology. I'll wait.🔥🔥

[@SilverDan10]

She’s back!!! ❤

[@JustSayRance]

This is why I like Think Before You Sleep. This guy speaks his mind, and won't pull any punches lmao

[@marinamiletic6153]

The queen is back!

[@ingweking8748]

​@ville__Nah you can't be

[@L1ghtlySalt3d]

My biggest issue with this (which I know no one asked for, just bear with me) is that this guy took what could've easily been a wholesome, funny, happy, genuine and comical moment with his partner, and squandered it to get pity from strangers on twitter.

[@VLuava5v5]

damnnnn you're right

[@ruka939]

The dude has issues, probably an only child. If i made a cake like that my siblings would have a field day. So i wouldnt be offended if a date thought it was ugly and unappetizing lol. TBYS hit the nail in the head with his post

[@scalez3842]

LMAO probably an only child is so real. Absolutely only child behavior.

[@xitzbit926]

I'm an only child and this is the opposite of what I experienced. But thanks for lumping us single children all together. 🙂👍🏻

[@Isthisjoebiden]

​@@xitzbit926way to feel personally victimized over a generalization, really not helping the stereotypr

[@wilczus222]

@Isthisjoebiden Typical middle child reaction.

[@marcelh7864]

I was in a similar situation where I tried cooking 3 dishes from a different cuisine and it turned out be mid/bad. I ate it and only told my ex after she asked me what I had done that weekend. I think it's fine to put in effort and fail. I think it's also fine when you don't recognize that your results have been bad. The important part is that you genuinely care for the happiness of your partner which Diomedes clearly doesn't.

[@rool5712]

I don't know but kinda sounds like she was trying to be nice, maybe she was saying she didn't like the cake without saying that she didn't like his cake...

[@SunshineTheLover]

this reminds me of when my ex bought me juice and i told him i dont care for citrus flavors like orange and grapefruit and he went on a rant about how thats why he doesn't like doing things for people

[@MegaMilenche]

Did you bother telling him you don't care for citrus flavours?

[@SunshineTheLover]

@@MegaMilenche i mean it was the first time it came up but thats not the point. i didnt put him down or anything i just laughed a little, took the juice, and let him know my preferences after the fact. none of which warranted his response

[@keppakappa5033]

@@MegaMilenche wow, you're really tilted re: the existance of women on the internet speaking about literally anything aren't you.