12 Things Masculine Men NEVER Do!

[@alpham]

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[@Kai_075]

Mom > therapy

[@EvaristoApaza-od2mj]

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[@vman8126]

The only one I have issue with..... Do not simp, and in the same breath says pay for dates.. I agree IF you ask a woman out, you should be "prepared" to pay for the date. However, if she's acting foul and out of pocket, looking at her phone, disinterested, etc, or you know she's only there for the meal I see absolutely nothing wrong with having the bill split at that point.... That's what masculine is as far as I'm concerned.

[@Tweakkkkkk]

Facts

[@Platolife]

Brother, you are absolutely right. I've been struggling with different angles of life. Appreciate you for this.

[@MasculineMindsetCoach]

Hit the nail on the head. As the host of a podcast on masculinity, all of these points are valid. Daily meditation, physical fitness, and even monetary success is masculine. Love it 👊

[@BackTheBlueTillItHappensToYou]

We all grab others to gravitate them to how we feel about ourselves. If we feel great we encourage. If we're down, we drag others.

[@KAHHHH8548]

That can be true. Well thought out

[@ertsta123]

Ask for help 3:21 Don't ask for help or a handout 8:05 Don't wait/procrastinate 6:30 Do wait/procrastine 7:53

[@KAHHHH8548]

Yes it's true I did see a few strange contradictions

[@mohitm4]

Person like you should be every single men’s brother , friend … Your vibration and aura is positive. ❤ love you brother

[@JimmyMichael.]

I am happy that you have returned to your smooth way of speaking without nervousness. I have been watching you for more than five years, you are the best. Love from Syria.

[@FitemeUrlnotIrl]

Thanks Aplha M ! Sometimes all we need to hear is some positive support like this to get us back on track.

[@heywardfi]

I learned about asking for help the hard way. To put it as short as I can I was taking care of my wife with MS, basically being a single parent to our two daughters, helping my in laws, taking care of my mother. I did it by myself cause I thought that’s what a guy did. Well that mindset sent me into having a nervous breakdown. So guys out there if help is needed ask for it.

[@reginstravels]

been watching for 9 years already. Keep it up

[@alialyounis2090]

I rly love you brother. You help people specially men. That’s men do . Keep going you’ve got my respect.

[@LushDanielSon]

"Don't waste your precious-asset time." Love it! ✔️👍💯

[@AaronKinney-sd9rk]

This marks the 10th year anniversary of me watching you Aaron! Bro ❤

[@fembot521]

Masculine men protect. So ask yourself if you’re protecting yourself or others and then act accordingly.

[@andrewm8429]

I started watching years ago, started taking some of your advice and i actually started to feel good! Then i guess life got in the way and i didnt watch so much anymore andive been meh. Now im back and started to feel confident again!! Thank you Alpha!

[@juanmangual6727]

Thank you for what you do .most appreciated

[@gustavopalomino4036]

This is the videos you need to make ALPHA...

[@idolbass]

I'm 65, I date quite a bit and depending on the quality of the connection, I will pay. At least 50% of the time a woman will offer to pay half, but I'll usually pay. All these points I feel I encompass and as a consequence, I've met some amazing women. My work is physically demanding and I like that. I try to maintain a healthy diet, and a social drink if my partner wants to, apart from that I don't drink. Definitely no substance abuse. The most important I think is, what you think. Mental positiveness is crucial to my life and manifesting the lifestyle I desire keeps me on track. I love life. You do great work brother.

[@amplifiedman]

Thank you my brother needed to hear this powerful talk.Because it's real talk!!100%🎯

[@orlandoacontreras]

Thank you, blood.

[@baron7755]

I like your point that being a man has nothing to do with sexual orientation. I have met gay dude who cant handle themselves and cry when any bad things happen, and I have met gay dude who will step up to any challenge and deal with adversity

[@junaidulislam6170]

This video should apply to every human being, not just masculine man. All of the things he mentioned should be the bare minimum of one's existence irrespective of their gender

[@tksdreampop]

If this guy had half the viewership of Andrew Tate the world would be a much better place. When we’ve got so much toxic masculinity in the world we need positive masculinity like this to fight it back. Been watching this guy for longer than I can remember and honestly can’t believe he doesn’t have a bigger audience

[@nickpatchez]

Alpha… you saved my life. You were my second dad in high school

[@Bernaberamirezguzman]

9:47

[@gregtorre6513]

Thank you for another great video. Best regards, Greg

[@ThisIsDLSMade]

My woman and I split pretty much everything except for the things we get for ourselves. Dates, groceries, bills, are all split down the middle, and this is just one of many ways we show respect to each other and that we are on the same team. Plus not every guy makes enough to just handle every expense, especially in this economy. Also that kind of view point puts pressure on men to meet some societal expectation and if they don’t, they aren’t good enough. Your opinion here becomes less about the man but the money he has in his pocket. I’ve watched this channel for yeeeeaars and I swear it’s starts to sound a little more red pill every video, which ain’t the alpha I’m familiar with. To be clear though I’m not against the idea of paying more of the expense as the man if possible. I would be more concerned if the person I’m with deserves it. My lady hasn’t questioned once about splitting bills, and even if I wanted to pay it all she would be heavily against it unless it’s a date. That’s a woman who deserves it, and one day if I’m lucky, can have enough on me to take more financial burden on to myself. Not one who expects it from the jump, cause then it becomes hard to learn if they are someone who just wants to take advantage of you. And when the men like you who are trying to stand up as a leader or teacher for men, and advocate for this, it doesn’t help. Cause then the women just accept that’s the way it’s suppose to be, as men’s mental health decays to the ongoing expectations that continuously get stacked on to men. But hey, in the end we can just take that first set of advice you gave and not let your opinions make the decisions for us :)

[@KAHHHH8548]

That's great of you and very refreshing. Keep on doing it.

[@cristianmitrica1583]

Lol cheers man, great videos, great reminders. Worth watching.

[@douglaswalsh8021]

masculinity is not under attack. What is are men that just behave badly, stand up for the wrong things and all around just being terrible and if you feel you're under attack it's probably you and your behavior.

[@KAHHHH8548]

Yes, that's true. I'm a woman by the way

[@arminxvs3372]

"Stupid, childish hobbies" What if video games for ex. are a relaxing mechanism and thus helpful for mental health? Also what is up with this endless hustle pressure? What does it mean "have a plan, goals etc."? Am I not manly if I am happy with my job, I manage it greatly, have reached enough and thus have a stable and good life? Shouldn't I be happy and satisfied with what I have?

[@TexMccloud]

Bro who cares what the manlet metrosexual thinks? He's the furthest thing from alpha

[@miliba]

@@TexMccloud nice description of yourself

[@FitemeUrlnotIrl]

What he says doesn't apply to everybody. The vast majority of people aren't in a place in life where they are happy or satisfied.

[@ThisIsDLSMade]

I think alpha is succumbing to some of the red pill logic lately. A bit more aggressive on things then he use to be.

[@arminxvs3372]

@@FitemeUrlnotIrl So you mean the hustle is primarly for them?

[@woeihsiung]

Thank you for the video! Maybe the best you had posted!👍👍

[@michealtherapidthinker8120]

Its been along time I visited here, am happy to be back

[@issith7340]

1st fault im finding in your videos ( I watched 6-7, already).: masculine and grown men do not have time for politics….. Actually the opposite is the case. They just don’t scream about politics. But they have a concrete and ready to defend self opinion, if asked about .

[@michaelmaultsby895]

I’m not asking a woman out who isn’t already my friend. Men should be men with women who respect them.

[@humanambassador]

"Where did you get your T-shirt? It's nice."

[@vanilluu]

Hey alpha! What happened to the intro you used to use? Also it’s great to see you still making videos.

[@Journeytogreatness00]

Life is simple, you just need to learn Masculinity tips from me. Become a WARRIOR NOW! 🔥

[@fernandoravenmusic]

I watched u on Shark Tank u were amazing

[@Michael-px3fz]

Heyy alpha please bring back some outfit ideas again its been a loong time ❤

[@lightgaming2331]

thank u for this, im a famboy and im looking around on how to be more feminine so ur gides are useful cuz i know how not to act :3

[@LastEarBender]

I agree with maybe 75-85% of those. A few are a bit more nuanced in my opinion.

[@deed18]

Yea he says men should be self sufficient after saying they should ask for help. Idk what to think of masculinity anymore, imma just be.

[@deed18]

@@acrane3496 baconian philosophy is probably to blame for the lack of adversity and tenacity. Conquest of nature to make living easier sounds like a good idea but nowadays people have to act self destructive to face the adversity that isn’t apparent in their environment. Either that or they make up some problem, like some invisible self or other, that they can claim victory over. Ease of living has weakened people’s willpower.

[@miliba]

@@deed18 self-sufficient probably means financially independent

[@KAHHHH8548]

​@@milibaBut he contradicted himself, he said men should ask for help, then basically say they should help themselves? I think they should do the former

[@MrBarabbas2011]

One of my favorite

[@nachomama55]

I remember when this guy posted a video about how to shave my butt crack. Changed my life.

[@halfway2334]

😂😂

[@mikereese15]

Great stuff

[@joegaspari8153]

having FB arguments with politics - guilty of this up until mid 2021, finally walked away. He's right, can't change anyone opinion, and why care what people believe?

[@tvblue3010]

I am still at the level where I don’t want to be a leader.

[@RohitKumar-ig8jo]

Elon musk isn't a leader..

[@najjasisarwar8962]

u are very clear sir

[@ericbasso4983]

Dumb question for you…. But a lot of places that offer therapy (at-least in Canada) if you are not at risk of physical harm, divorce, or some catastrophic fail…. You are shrugged off. I have tried 4 times now seeking therapy (actually I tried to get on with the better health people in the past) and especially if you are on a limited income… there is often no help or minimal at best and then it is limited and Peter’s out. Would you know of any Canadian companies that offer reliable therapy that do not shrug off a person? I just don’t see a reason why only the extreme cases get the requested assistance (again only my personal experience) by the time the extreme gets hit…. It can have terrible outcomes ( something I try to avoid)

[@danielcarbone2414]

Well said. I really appreciate how inclusive you are with all of this too 🙌

[@Bamboocha-ey7ns]

Youre the Best Alpham! Been watching you 4 years!

[@UnstableYT-u7k]

The number one thing that masculine men never do is doing things that are not masculine.

[@franklynj9]

Keep it up bro

[@hankhan5629]

i know i am the first evolved human on the earth several months ago. thanks, mister.

[@Thinkeroutsidethebox]

No sir. We don’t embrace any and everything. That would be lunacy.

[@PriceBySize]

A tall man dating someone at his height shows that a man is comfortable in his own skin and doesn't need to seek the shortest girl to make him feel masculine.

[@Sigma77-n2u]

It’s a mindset and lifestyle not about being Mr Alpha male all the time

[@arthurphilips9908]

It's more like modrenidity not masculinity

[@Tofushoots]

Says Masculine men aren't afraid to ask for help... Then says masculine men don't ask for help..

[@angelaambey5151]

Love ur channel give all ur info to Mason very informative hes22 thx🎉

[@HockeyMike]

Lol masculine men don’t have to accept other peoples lifestyles. They can respect it, but they don’t need to go hug guys with rainbow flags, dude I’m with you most of the time but this one I gotta step away from now again you don’t have to be mean to them and all that I agree with you there, but I don’t need to, accept anything

[@spectrefreeaimlobby3216]

Rule 13: Never, under any circumstance, use E-scooters. It makes men look weak and pathetic. Save up and buy racing bike and proper attire.

[@Tradley]

The leg in the thumbnail looks like a muscular arm lol

[@CaesarConsuloProVita]

The most masculine thing a guy can do- is not allow Giga Chads to tell one…how to dress, what to drink, how to date, who to date, etc!!!!

[@MouhammedAlFakher]

Amazing Video, but where is number 10 :D

[@manmeetsingh-ru9sl]

Thank you alpha m thankyou ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Leftoverjarl27]

It's been a minute since i tuned in. On time, too.

[@Kurayamichu6]

I also want to ask something. The idea of masculine is subjective in ANY culture but the one that is most common is the one in the west which becomes the common standard. Wouldn't that make it subjectively pointless? I am a nihilist. What matters to me is living life with zero regrets. Living to ACT like the idea of WESTERN masculinity seems pointless to me because it is hardly objective. What do you think? I am not aiming to roast. I am highly against that. I am just wondering what you think. YOU are reasonable compared to alpha males like Andrew Tate who are complete uncivilized neanderthals. I am a nihilist. I value ONE thing which is making the BEST out of life with 0 rules and limits. Masculinity has limits and has HIGH maintenance. Femininity has the SAME problem. So I decided to abandon gender roles completely and just enjoy what is correct for me. I want professional Asian formality in suites so I simply aim for that. I also like humble honorable respectful people even though that contradicts what the west says about what masculinity should be. EVERYONE cannot be leaders. tell me what you think. If you say a petty roast... I will lose respect. I want a serious answer.

[@chestrockwell66]

Is there a real Uncle Barry? If there is he needs to make an appearance

[@BackTheBlueTillItHappensToYou]

Any advice tho dudes... My one disagreement could be incorrect, but as he says - body is the top investment. But in my experience, being jacked and attractive but broke can be such a turn off, whereas all the dudes with less than desirable bods over a healthy weight still very very easily get laid. Which is it?

[@Kurayamichu6]

alpa m. You seem like a nice reasonable person but I wanted to ask. I am not a feminine nor masculine man in my view. I see myself as a Nihilist male. Most of the rules you mentioned align with mine but I never aim for WESTERN standard of masculinity because I believe it is biased and and unrealistic. If you try to look at Asian masculinity and other cultures it is very different. I am just wondering if the ordeal of masculine is just taken over by the west because it seems to be like it. My style is rather unorthodox. I wanted to know your views. Whether you respond or not is alright. I am just wondering because you seem rational and respectable compared to the other western propaganda of distasteful Un honorable alpha male content creators are. I believe in TRUE positive nihilism free from religion, culture, subjective morality and trends. I cherish MY LIFE. Everyone will eventually die and I see no absolute point of people following cultural rules and etc, knowing that an absolute due date of death is indeed REAL. I treat my life in the best way I can reaching for everything I can aim for so I would have no regrets

[@marioc.1768]

Being a kind man is beyond masculine and unfortunately, it’s seen as weak.

[@brandonchappell1535]

Not true, if ur doing nice things in order for a result, for eg simping, that is seen as weak, because ur not showing true intentions or dont tell people how u really feel, being nice is not weak on its own, but u need to be willing to take it away when disrespected too

[@DASHINGDALTON94]

Better help dose not work Because for them to help you with your problems. They have to go through those problems as well. And your therapist. Have therapist.

[@ahmetdumlupinar622]

Watching you for 6 years

[@ahmetdumlupinar622]

%60 min of my behaviors changed in my life because of you man! I am happy we are livin same time line in this world . And appreciate for all info's from you

[@geldiyt1015]

@@ahmetdumlupinar622good job n!ga

[@Lil_jmp]

Has this influenced your life at all?

[@12Keenanthomas]

Same but I feel he should have at least 30mil subs ppl need to wake up he’s literally giving free game

[@whomadethis8595]

Same here, waste of time

[@AnthonySagen]

You got be with the first one and the rainbow flags 😂. It's one thing to manage any kind of person at the work place. It's another to advocate for ____.That ain't masculine. But I'm still doing Tiege Hanley.

[@nikspuri9433]

Today's 80th day no alcohol Gotta admit Alpha inspired me to be a Man ❤

[@nikitavaganov9468]

Masculine man does not propagandize LGBT also. Probably he can, but that is not Alpha anymore. Pay attention at point 4.

[@aaronspringborn34]

Hi Aaron, how are you? I just watched this video. I may not read everything you said based on some social issues then again I know you’re not gonna talk religion or politics but you kind of hint some of them without going into the detail. can you please make yourself more clear because you do say masculine men should ask for help but also you say that we should not ask for handouts. If people are going through a bad time if they have no choice, but to ask for the second of the situation. Isn’t that kind of a contradiction? Also if a man does come prepared to pay for a date, but if the woman chooses to either split in or pays, I was also told not to argue so what do you say about that as well?

[@MihaZ]

Just started to watch, and I disagree with the first point. The statement that real men don't judge other people based on their "lifestyle", while previously showing a LGBT march picture, implies that men should be indifferent to the profound societal changes happening over the last few years. By being distinterested in political movements that specifically target children, you drop the ball as man. By not protecting women whose spaces are being invaded by sexually deviant men who pretend to be women, you drop the ball as a man. Our job has always been to establish and protect the perimeter, which allowed women to nurture the next generation. You can say "live and let live", and I would have agreed a few years ago. But as I get older and see my daughters growing up, the more I see that it is not an acceptable stance. The way people live can most certainly have a negative impact on my family, and it's my job as a man to say enough of this nonsense.

[@Tufts2003]

10,000% this. First point earned a dislike from me. “Tolerance” has been weaponized against the West, you can avoid unnecessarily bullying an individual while absolutely fighting back against the Rainbow Jihad & Child Mutilation forces. In fact, a true “man” should be a warrior and protector against evil forces like that.

[@brooklynnewyork23]

1. Some people need to be put down becuase they've been going their whole life being coddled and need the honest reality check. 2. The ability to be humble enough to accept a playful dig supercedes the bravado of not being put down. It comes across as faux confidence and overcompensating 3. We all live for someone else's opinion... A neck tie serves absolutely no purpose in life and yet none of use are showing up to job interviews without one yeah? That's strike 3. I'm done with the rest of the vid. I know youre trying to pump out content quickly but this ain't it

[@Trump2024Kentucky]

👍🏼 more masculine than feminine no doubt. I personally don’t agree with everything said here but agree with most of it.

[@Robocronics]

9:20 this guys suit with bottom button buttoned is bothering me

[@frankpanico7613]

Confidence Mr.

[@mudwiser1391]

Ya gotta fight.

[@JessyFlorezWitchcraftVlogs]

YOU NAILED IT THIS TIME :)

[@RUDAMENTRY]

You should care. 4:64

[@Enthalpy248]

8, 9, 9, 11 What's number 10? Good list by the way

[@Tiger-gz6yn]

I'm a lady and I like watching you're videos 😂

[@KAHHHH8548]

Me too lol, I take this advice for myself too, it can apply to anybody, not just men

[@emmour9288]

Embrace huh....... You lost me there.

[@Geersification]

True.

[@TimothyMckean-mj4cq]

Isn't this the guy that lost on fear factor & shark tank? Now he's a snake oil salesman exploiting young men on KZbin. Masculine indeed.

[@flpickleballpractice]

Aaron, love your stuff but in this one you seems to be describing a good, thoughtful and organized man not necessarily a masculine man.

[@shoaibkhan-hd4we]

Subscribe from October 2016

[@ifell3]

Always trying to work out what topic the shill is going to be on, didn't get this one 😅

[@jeffersonavila7548]

Hey Aaron I can accept people for who they are I can’t accept the fact when they make it an agenda and want every being small and big to be like them

[@rounaksharmaaa]

Alpha, give us some of your knowledge about old money Style and share the video with us👔

[@Michael71129]

Bro how did you send that 6 hours ago

[@Rxbin.Banx801]

Bots..... he paid for that comment 😂

[@asta1011]

I asked it never turns into anything

[@ronaldwilliamssr.9146]

Thank you for this push. I did not see the link for better health.

[@cheaterjung8096]

I realy ask myself... are you playing videogames?

[@Yn-hx9bg]

i dont know why people think koreans are famine

[@healthiswealth1452]

Bts

[@miliba]

Korea suffered famine because of war and Japanese occupation

[@geewilliams2178]

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