"Do not fear having no friends. Fear having bad friends” ~My life taught lesson
@carineokeh35435 ай бұрын
Thank you
@waynemetro-t5u5 ай бұрын
It is better to be alone than in bad company
@beautifullifeyt15 ай бұрын
@@waynemetro-t5u haha, yh
@margaretanami3745 ай бұрын
😢8p
@Crezelltree42615 ай бұрын
Good one.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
I’m leaving this comment here so that when anyone likes it, it takes me back here !
@Blash-u9c3 ай бұрын
@@WiseAdvice93 blessed advice see u on comments while listening to
@sj93673 ай бұрын
Good idea!
@carolynbarnes-ir4bj3 ай бұрын
It's hard to hold your tongue but there are times when we must
@EternalNero2 ай бұрын
A friendly reminder for you to return here
@RyanStansberry2 ай бұрын
Welcome back!
@henriolucien69115 ай бұрын
Silence is the best way to respond to gossip and rumors
@allentubman80525 ай бұрын
Unless that gossip is an attempt to ruin your reputation or cause you harm.
@aries-seventhseal24735 ай бұрын
@allentubman8052 exhausted but God's taking care of it all. I'm witnessing it. ❤ 2:11
@lovealways26095 ай бұрын
@@aries-seventhseal2473a lion does not argue with a chirping bird, or a yapping dog.. he conserves his energy for actual threats
@sharonbartley8085 ай бұрын
@@allentubman8052Pray to God if you're a believer, and let Him work it out.
@ChiqueChiing5 ай бұрын
I rather go with the I'm sorry u feel that way about urself (that u need to take it out on others), Meanwhile i get on with my life n manage to not let them move into my head rent free
@tessasaknit4 ай бұрын
My mom frequently said, " better to keep your mouth shut, and let people think your dumb. Than to open it and remove all doubt." Thank you.
@Screenplaywriter4 ай бұрын
This is a shitty thing to say to a kid. People might of said “she doesn’t say much, but when she does it’s really brilliant and powerful “
@tessasaknit4 ай бұрын
@Screenplaywriter haha. Poor you! A 20 watt bulb in a cave. Good on you:)
@chessdad1824 ай бұрын
Didn't Mark Twain say that?
@KimHarvey-cy5ji3 ай бұрын
My mom told me not to gossip at 16 in the 70’s! Long time ago! I get it now! Wish we all did at an earlier age
@sheenamackewn8883 ай бұрын
Indeed !!! Here here !!!
@t.l.freedom53976 ай бұрын
As an introvert this video is a great reminder that my silence has had many benefits in keeping me sane. Thank you 🙏
@PracticerOfMetta6 ай бұрын
As a person with extroverted qualities, I have come to value and listen to introverts. Each person is unique. The most twisted tree in the forest that is not straight like the other trees is the most special to me. The same goes for people. Everyone is of value. The introvert quality of my wife and daughter and other introverts have taught me so much in my life. Thank you. 😊
@pablajones94306 ай бұрын
Amen, I'm not a introvert. But I'm DEFINITELY leaning that SILENCE is GOLDEN!!!
@pablajones94306 ай бұрын
I'm learning & starting to live introvert QUALITIES 😊!!
@valerieadams72646 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing those words
@BeHo-ci8zw5 ай бұрын
The opposite is being a Democrat or Republican gangster.
@carol-us4xn6 ай бұрын
That's great when necessary. Sometimes, it's not wise to be silent. There's a time for everything, including speaking up.
@georgiafrancis90595 ай бұрын
exactly....often silence is more viewed as weakness....those who wish to hurt you won't be stopped with silence.....they will get angry and continue to berate you..... I know a woman who wouldn't give up until she destroys her target....being silent only makes it worse if you're the target.
@zacharyneilson92205 ай бұрын
@@darronaaaa362In my divorce I tried silence thinking that the truth would become evident. Instead, my ex wife got more time with the kids due to her false claims about me. All her claims were eventually shown to be false but it still didn’t stop the judge from giving her more time because of the initial light she painted me in. I strongly believe that my stoic tendencies hurt me in this. “We can’t give equal time due to the accusations “ initially and then “the kids are used to this schedule now” afterwards.
@mikeross27285 ай бұрын
I agree but I do respond when being humiliated or threatened
@tinfoilhatplumber4855 ай бұрын
Definitely ; with well measured words
@claraaguilar30015 ай бұрын
Indeed❤
@PhiloNova8618 күн бұрын
It's better to be alone than to surround yourself with negative influences. I learned that the hard way
@noyb7214Күн бұрын
Ask I age I’ve come to realize that a lot of us have had bad friends. It’s part of the human experience. The hard part is letting go. Nostalgic feelings keeps us there.
@BraveHeart211775 ай бұрын
Silence is golden. I live in the saying, “THINGS THEY DON’T KNOW, THEY CAN’T RUIN”❤👍🏻
@tessalister12265 ай бұрын
Indeed, if you don't speak you can't be accused of telling lies.
@annripley19644 ай бұрын
Always be careful what you share with a “friend” since they may not really be one!
@marcellaratliff13044 ай бұрын
Silence is golden, but duct tape is Silver .lol
@ceejay_gaming96363 ай бұрын
I just experienced this myself@@annripley1964
@JamesMatanhire3 ай бұрын
True
@DwightJohnson-oc7eu5 ай бұрын
I love spending time by myself! MORE PEOPLE MORE PROBLEMS
@nirabajaj2342 ай бұрын
l fully agree
@mylipsdontlie.2 ай бұрын
I Totally Agree as well ❤❤❤
@vinceking7651Ай бұрын
I'm the same. People are horrible and soul destroying but I am going to do better this year but I will be alone because I like it here.
@ebihay916Ай бұрын
I have always preferred the company of my pets.
@vinceking7651Ай бұрын
@@ebihay916 Me too 😁🙏
@gloriousgearhead53672 ай бұрын
1. When emotions overpower reason 2. When words won’t add value 3. When listening is more important 4. When gossiping or slandering 5. When judging others’ actions 6. When you don’t fully understand 7. When it’s driven by ego 8. When patience is required 9. When facing insults or provocations
@e.d9722 ай бұрын
Good to have them in one spot. Thank you very much for summing it up. ❤
@crysb9658Ай бұрын
Thanks! All I needed!!!
@realestjeremyhamel27 күн бұрын
Not all heroes wear capes!! Thank you!
@neilbrooks637215 күн бұрын
Chingatumaga
@Lionello-da6 күн бұрын
another list. the 2 & 8 are, actually, in many other lines. The original list has double entries about rumors.
@ebihay916Ай бұрын
I love silence, I've always had a big problem with noise, all human noise that is, I'm 74, and it has got more intense as I have grown older. Noise pollution. Some people like creating noise, with constant chatter, whatever they do they do it loudly, loud cars, loud music etc. I find it really hard to be around lots of human noise. Silence is golden.
@Vivian540K19 күн бұрын
"opinions of people are beyond our control, but the degree to which they affect us lies within our control" 🙏👏
@pathwaytogod123_offical5 ай бұрын
Silence is the punishment for those who hurt others
@ThomasSmith-lw4nn5 ай бұрын
It's ok we will get through this I love my family and I love them we will get together and this is WATER UNDER THE BRIDGE, I am getting strong rite now so this can stay WATER UNDER THE BRIDGE
@johnrogers53094 ай бұрын
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference...
@oneoflokis4 ай бұрын
@@johnrogers5309 💯👍
@amberackerson59164 ай бұрын
Love the serenity prayer, thank you
@muneeshsharma86494 ай бұрын
Welcome to na
@keithrigsby-je5ui4 ай бұрын
a 'truth' STOLEN-from MEN, who taught stoicism!
@danielg29464 ай бұрын
RUBBISH
@revsarahvanwyk67465 ай бұрын
Silence can be your sanctuary, a place where wisdom rules...
@philominamorgan79316 ай бұрын
Silence is Golden!
@georgiafrancis90595 ай бұрын
NOT ALWAYS
@Idontmatter125 ай бұрын
@georgiafrancis9059 Ray Charles said God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth. We are to listen twice as much as we talk. You are correct, silence is not always golden as there is a time and place to speak. However, knowing when not to speak is the struggle most, including myself, have. Moreso, when it comes from anger, and the desire to be right even when we're not.
@julietadams38215 ай бұрын
When my husband died, I found comfort in reminding myself that we didn't come to stay on earth & that he was no longer having to struggle to stay alive!🤔
@AziZZu5 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss!
@angelofamillionyears45995 ай бұрын
True, Earth is a strange place. Also most people think they are going to be here forever. Look at all the fools that create war to make money !! They do not understand that they cannot take the money to the next life !!! lol
@valueradar33624 ай бұрын
That’s a great stoic perspective. obviously, it’s very hard to grapple with and I am sorry for your loss… however, the stoic does not wish for a life without challenges, but the strength to endure them. ❤
@stephaniedennis11314 ай бұрын
Sometimes I feel all alone but I feel confident that God’s love and presence in my life keeps my at peace.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@AziZZu4 ай бұрын
@@stephaniedennis1131 Wow your words are Absolutely right. May you always find comfort in His Perfect and Constant Presence 🤍🤲🏽. Stay strong and place your trust in His Divine Love and Mercy my dear sister in Humanity 🤗 One Love.
@PeterPolianskas5 ай бұрын
I have been following Stoicism for 9 months. Silent has strengthened my inner self with issues that happen every day. I see things differently, more calmy.
@StoicWisdom1355 ай бұрын
Congratulation to you!
@soniaatherton59492 ай бұрын
Same here❤
@AnilJain-w2x25 күн бұрын
❤🎉 Excellent Thanks
@Stoicpers4 ай бұрын
“Don’t waste the rest of your time here worrying about other people… It will keep you from doing anything useful. Why do you complain rather than act?” - Marcus Aurelius
@patwarren2530Ай бұрын
Thankyou..a thought provoking podcast.
@erlydeleonfabellar6 ай бұрын
silence is so powerful
@mack84885 ай бұрын
Ahh shut up.....😇
@StoicWisdom1355 ай бұрын
It's true!
@Ngwazi4 ай бұрын
Stop and think, observe, and learn.
@powersww1reset3 күн бұрын
Especially against a narcissistic personality disorder
@geanelledaniel20235 ай бұрын
My mouth has always been a tool of destruction. I'm excited to learn a different way.
@HuePhong-mz3qh5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@tessasaknit4 ай бұрын
That's the very definition of being humble. Good on you. I'm older, but it took me awhile. Hate my temper. Fortunately, I'm better.
@soniaatherton59492 ай бұрын
Yes! I totally agree!
@ShornandkennyАй бұрын
Great job
@DrunkmantalknАй бұрын
Dam fellas we all meetup for a reason. Maybe this is what I really needed to see and understand. My words though Mean not to. I don't see the degree of hurt they inflict. When people give me any attitude I double down all while not yelling and In a all calm tone. But my words can be hurtful and I've come to realize I have lost feelings for people. As a kid I was a good kid. Calm l,quiet, and respectful. My environment has now made me whom I have to be.. to survive...
@patriciagonzalez69035 ай бұрын
It's all about taming our inflated ego. Overreacting is nothing but our ego clouding our reasonable, intelligent mind. Staying cool, instead of overreacting is the best reaction in any heated or unpleasant situation. Thank you! This teaching is golden.
@superpoodlehead5 ай бұрын
Silence is one way to deal with it but also can be harmful depending on the situation and person you are facing. There are times when stonewalling someone is more harmful than good and shows a great deal of immaturity and unwillingness to come to an understanding. Use silence judiciously, not as a “one size fits all” solution.
@thomaskingsbury65603 ай бұрын
Excellent assessment.
@Pointsbeingmade3 ай бұрын
Exactly
@ritaplantamura60275 ай бұрын
Jesus said let your silence be your strength 🙏.
@pablajones94303 ай бұрын
@@ritaplantamura6027 it really is a SUPER POWER!!!
@Des-Laine5 ай бұрын
I have learned from being in an abusive marriage,for almost 10 years, that silence is the best way to handle evil/angry, people. They want you to feed that demon of strife,by arguing with them. They literally get off,by upsetting you. They can't stand poised,calm, silence.😉
@joey58165 ай бұрын
Parents can be the same way
@lovealways26095 ай бұрын
@@joey5816yes, they can be.. but, you will not have to endure them forever.. forgive them: control your own thoughts and actions; possibly they shall evolve after witnessing your outstanding behaviors
@axonjogi5 ай бұрын
Great insight
@toriwolf59785 ай бұрын
Wow thank you for that powerful comment r❤❤❤
@MMP95 ай бұрын
You stay silent with evil people? But you stay with evil one? And the ange is you?😂😂😂😂
@kellir.747Ай бұрын
I’ve always been the type of person who cannot respond quickly in arguments, debates, etc. I need to take time to reflect and think before responding. I used to think this was a weakness, but thanks to this video, I now realize it’s my SUPER POWER!
@mahaliahoyte60386 ай бұрын
Thoughtless speech can cause so much harm and hurt
@jenniferking97755 ай бұрын
Silence is brilliant
@DYoung21125 ай бұрын
"there have been many times when I have regretted saying something but seldom have I regretted NOT saying something"
@ChiqueChiing5 ай бұрын
I've always been upset at my late comebacks lol 😂cuz im just not a rude person
@Chriscs75 ай бұрын
Not saying something creates regrets as well you have to act
@johnnyespalahento24314 ай бұрын
I regret not saying things alot
@etcome55394 ай бұрын
Things that are articulated cannot be unsaid, things that are kept can always be said later if it important enough.
@Chriscs74 ай бұрын
@etcome5539 NO. You cannot say later I love you to someone who died, sorry to someone you care about and lost forever and many more examples! You regret both not saying things when needed or saying wrong things
@BuddhismBliss-eng3 ай бұрын
It's amazing how something as simple as choosing silence can have such a profound impact on our interactions and well-being.
@skhul258025 күн бұрын
“The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before.” - C.S. Lewis. This struck me deeply, I’m grieving the loss of my best friend.
@EdfromCanada5 ай бұрын
Very good words of wisdom. As someone once told me: "When you lose your cool - you lose".
@littlelambccece5 ай бұрын
I’m going to try to remember that one
@missjackson32234 ай бұрын
And it would never be too late to apologize. I have lost my cool a couple times, then thought of the situation overnight. Apologized the next day and fixed the overall problem. It can happen to anyone.
@revenantbear52464 ай бұрын
@@littlelambccecetghhh
@bnjmns1369Ай бұрын
“Silence is GOLDEN”
@dandrea82095 ай бұрын
Growing up I was taught “Silence is Golden “especially in situations, it is very powerful!
@jhezzersando83712 ай бұрын
Being disrespected, betrayed, rejected is so painful. However, SILENCE, helps me to ponder on the reasons and responses on every situation correctly. Being ALONE is one of my greatest FRIEND. ❤❤❤
@bz31055 ай бұрын
I discovered Stoicism recently and am already 100 PERCENT on board. Especially in today's toxic, divisive, "I have the answer" world, we all NEED this and it's therapeutic.
@rubinasobs6570Ай бұрын
Can anyone pls like my comments so it will always bring me here to remind me of the key points in this video. Thanks
@GymGarageMan5 ай бұрын
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped af at 53 years old!!!
@CatGirl-ny8dw5 ай бұрын
Proving it on your channel garageman brutal training 💪
@sazmc76425 ай бұрын
Just checked your channel garageman 👍🏼 subbed 💪
@richardcollier19125 ай бұрын
I am 70. Went to the gym to do the Farmers Carry, but the heaviest dumbbells only went up to 125. Sheeet.
@MikeMahan-dn2yd5 ай бұрын
Uh....word.
@tinfoilhatplumber4855 ай бұрын
64 and did the same ; now same weight as when 20
@roxyragamuffin4 ай бұрын
"No man ever listened himself out of a job." -Calvin Coolidge
@avery70014 ай бұрын
Are you sure it wasn't mark twain 😅? Kidding
@richardcranium35794 ай бұрын
@@avery7001Ben Franklin
@BabyKitty0004 ай бұрын
That is so true
@itseveryonelese4 ай бұрын
Silence is golden. It gives you space and space for the other party to consider their actions.
@RyanTorres-ps8nw5 ай бұрын
"Be like the cliff against which the waves continually break; but it stands firm and tames the fury of the water around it." Marcus Aurelius.
@madwifey55305 ай бұрын
I am so glad that I heard this today. I’m going to work today and this is the setting where I find myself saying the worst things out of anger. I shall apply this today.
@pablajones94305 ай бұрын
UR NOT ALONE!
@Gigi-AnnG5 ай бұрын
Brava! You didn’t try, you DID. Trying does not exist: you are either doing - or you are not doing. Think about it. Again, brava!
@abiyebriggs3 ай бұрын
It's better to slip with the feet than with the tongue. Word!
@alexprieto82774 ай бұрын
Lost my grandmother at a young age to dementia, almost lost my mom last August in a car crash. she lost her legs and her ability to control the lower half of her body. I realized that not only can one lose a loved one to death, but one can also lose a loved one while they are still alive, in the case of my grandmother who lost her ability to communicate and suffered dementia for 7 years before she finally died. I could have lost my mother while she was still alive too, but she has been strong and hasn't completely lost her faith in life. She has shown me her great resilience and strength, as I've seen her go through a lot in life. But I realize too caring about someone isn't about grieving for them and worrying about them and imagining how much they are suffering.... it's about celebrating them while they are here.
@morgangudger25376 ай бұрын
I have to say, I have been following this stoic journey but keeping my mouth shut is the hardest thing for me. I practice each day & fail at it
@jaysfacts38425 ай бұрын
Try tape babes 😂
@lenah41605 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@pablajones94305 ай бұрын
Don't feel bad. We're BREAKING a lifetime of trying to get our point across. When 99% of the time.... They still don't get it. & we'll get better! Hang in there, UR NOT alone!!!
@Gigirabdomnumbers5 ай бұрын
Same
@Minnu1960-m1l5 ай бұрын
I go to my closed room and vent out and nobody knows my feelings towards to them ..& comes out sll calm. And use ur pillows to hit
@aimeehodgin63595 ай бұрын
Choice has offered me a better avenue, because while I am being silent it gives me the moments to think calmly, mentally take steps all around the situation & control myself. Not only do I have the ability to think about the situation, but I have the ability to NOT think of situations. This is wealth beyond riches.
@buffalogal91395 ай бұрын
Yes, I totally agree and always at least attempt to follow in this manner.
@HansRichter-lh9gt5 ай бұрын
Only after growing spiritually, I've discovered this wisdom.Even to remain quiet, rather than to come up with the right answer at the wrong time.
@SereneStoicWisdom5 ай бұрын
Don't seek for everything to happen as you wish it would, but rather wish that everything happens as it actually will-then your life will flow well.
@user-iu6it9ns2o5 ай бұрын
That’s Deep
@dailyinsidethought-n3p27 күн бұрын
I’ve always struggled with staying silent in certain situations, but this video really opened my eyes to its importance.
@rabiafuwai68355 ай бұрын
Silence is the best answer. I have used this tool for a long time in my life and has saved my energy and made my critics mad😅
@robinford3365 ай бұрын
Silence is true strength.
@acckenemoazz6523 ай бұрын
These words are better than listening to a Christian pastor. 💯
@SAVAGEGIRL9633 ай бұрын
Jesus loves us 🙂💗❤️🩹❤
@pablajones94303 ай бұрын
@acckenemoazz652 Yes he does.... lots of the PASTORS LOVE our money 💰 & the power they can hold over some of us. Twisting the WORD of GOD!!!
@pablajones94303 ай бұрын
@@acckenemoazz652 Yes & I believe that's why JESUS leads us to KNOWLEDGE!!
@texasgma35782 ай бұрын
Many commonalities: humility, moral living, temperance, kindness, etc.
@SAVAGEGIRL963Ай бұрын
@@pablajones9430 On that note, you're right 🫠👏
@japprivera31295 ай бұрын
Speak when you are spoken to. If you don't have any good things to say, say nothing. Don't waste your breath on those who don't listen or belittle what you say.
@buddybeetle5 ай бұрын
Wise words !
@avery70014 ай бұрын
Casting pearls among the swine ..😅 Mark Twain?😊😂
@avery70014 ай бұрын
Preaching to the quior😊😊
@bjwilliams3 ай бұрын
Choir 😅@@avery7001
@binathere25742 ай бұрын
This is the way I was brought up.
@rudolfagyemang50064 ай бұрын
Silence is my nature. For some reason, i learned to argue as growing up. Now, as a young man , i remain silent about anything. Still learning.
@feliciamakepeace77172 ай бұрын
I'm grateful for this knowledge! Wish I learned it in my 30's instead of 50's but it's ok. I'm at peace with it.
@philipcunningham412529 күн бұрын
Indeed.
@AnnaAttoАй бұрын
Silence is the best treat i have given Noise Makers who claim to know me more than myself in my Life. It has branded me names and Titles. that doesn't shake me at any point in Life. AM BENEFITING A LOT WITH THIS SILENT TREAT.
@paulclarke362129 күн бұрын
I experience the same. It's really difficult.
@chaundadon26125 ай бұрын
Started speaking my mind more as an adult because my whole life I was told I’m too quiet & I should speak up for myself…. Honestly being quiet kept me sane & being able to walk around from things/people/places that didn’t serve me…. It’s definitely should be a tool that’s sharpened daily.
@e.d9722 ай бұрын
Same here.
@beautifullifeyt15 ай бұрын
The most cruel part, kindness attracts narcissists. Maintain your boundaries and goals or you will be building someone else's life while you have nothing.
@avery70014 ай бұрын
Kindness some see AS a sign of weakness , don't be taken for a fool😊/ "advantage of"
@GaiWandel5 ай бұрын
This is how I live my nowadays life , silent is the remedy of all strangers's words. This talk really motivated me the most in my life
@stingbeestingbee93405 ай бұрын
I need to learn KEEPING MY MOUTH CLOSED this came to me for a reason. I RECEIVE.
@belindajuma96304 ай бұрын
I have been practicing silence and 😢 it has become part of me life .....am living in my peaceful erra......
@StoicAMG5 ай бұрын
This video is a great reminder of the power of silence. Marcus Aurelius' wisdom on when to stay silent is incredibly valuable for navigating life's challenges. A must-watch for anyone interested in Stoicism!
@susftbl_4202Ай бұрын
I really loved it and I feel changing my inside when ever I feel loneliness it’s make me strong ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@VirtueVision-k2vАй бұрын
This video promotes wisdom to the masses
@xperiajohn25665 күн бұрын
This video beautifully highlights the wisdom in knowing when to stay silent. Marcus Aurelius's teachings remind us that silence isn’t just about withholding words-it’s a powerful tool for maintaining inner peace, avoiding unnecessary conflict, and cultivating self-awareness. Sometimes, saying nothing speaks volumes. Thank you for sharing these timeless lessons from Stoicism! 🙏
@ArtByHazel5 ай бұрын
There’s power in the art of silence.
@WisdomAttipoe-ls4mo27 күн бұрын
I’m so obsessed with this great masterpiece🥰. Thanks 🙏
@dln34725 ай бұрын
Powerful AF. I was quick to respond and react and found myself over doing it. Now I wait and actively listen instead of waiting to speak.
@abelvasquez18583 ай бұрын
I was in a 4 years relationship that ended this year. My reading and studying in various places including stoicism had lead me to inner peace, elevation my short coming, my personal journey and growth has impressive to myself. And I’m truly happy as I’m seeking a higher level of myself .. I have truly forgiven what was done to me and seek honest and truth for my own well being.
@StoicWisdom1355 ай бұрын
Silence can make us thrive!
@homizarolia572623 күн бұрын
SILENCE is GOLD
@Johnbartheart5 ай бұрын
Powerful...but, for me, hard..I work in it everyday.
@Bang-bangBart5 ай бұрын
Hard as hell
@StoicWithYou7 күн бұрын
Silence is not dumb, but the highest art.
@HeavenlyHarmonyChoir-f3s2 ай бұрын
*Thank you for waking up.for another new day. I surrender to day my grand childrens and childrens to your hand.protect them from all Evil attack. Bless them keep Anjel around them. I pray in the name of Jesus christ.amen*
@katthefantastic16 күн бұрын
Thank you for being here to remind me that I am not alone. 🫶
@mickkilroy5749Ай бұрын
I miss my Nan whom passed away over 35 years ago. She is always on my mind A most beauttiful lady
@reginaburns74085 ай бұрын
Listening felt so refreshing! Being silent is beautiful. I'm happy I watched the video. Such a blessing.
@ricya19825 ай бұрын
My mum screamed at me for not being so expressive. It never helped. All I get is yelled at for speaking my mind. That's why I keep things to myself. No point.
@Bang-bangBart5 ай бұрын
You can always speak your mind inside your mind .. sounds silly but it is powerful and no one can control it if you stay strong and serene
@Mm-wf7gw5 ай бұрын
Yup
@t.89364 ай бұрын
Where is your Dad? This is unacceptable. You don't have to be expressive. This is not a requirement of being a good man.
@missjackson32234 ай бұрын
Try to say something positive if u have to say anything. Work hard at yr job and always help others. Express when yr tired or feel ill, others will relate.
@snail6queen6hammy5 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I needed right now. Someone said some things that were out of order. It's been playing over and over in my head. I had it all planned out what to say. I now am very calm and know to say nothing. Except hello when i see that person . If I have to. Thank you for this.
@historicalowl-n2m7 күн бұрын
I really appreciate your insightful reflection on how silence helps us focus on what truly matters. It’s a great reminder to embrace quiet moments for inner strength.
@patrickkelly24515 ай бұрын
I have learned the true value of silence through stoic philosophy!
@teleioswi29932 ай бұрын
Been with my wife for almost 4 years now. Still have never argued or said anything nasty to each other. Taking the time to think about the weight your words can carry will save you a lifetime of pain.
@vicsjager39615 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this wonderful wisdom. I learned to stay silent and calm because of these wisdom. It hurts me sometimes specially at work. I may not have that authority or power. I have to stay silent, calm and control my emotions. My leader is so sensitive, dominant or superior, when you didn’t make her satisfied or when you did something wrong that she didn’t like it, she will treat you so badly. She want to be talk in a nice tone but she’s not aware on her own mistakes and don’t even accept it. So for me she’s not a real leader who couldn’t admit her own mistakes. And when my colleagues tell her about me that I didn’t do this and that etc. my leader listen to her/them and then she’s gonna get mad at me and that is a one-sided. She should have to stay in the middle not a one-sided specially she knew that my colleague is a liar but still she stayed to her side and she immediately believed her. I think my leader reaction has a hidden animosity at me because she treated me different. Anyway I may not have authority or power God knows what kind of human I am. She is only my leader but not my Lord so I don’t have to worry much because one day everything what she has done to me will come back to her.🙏😌
@fasihhaider9623Ай бұрын
I love the fact that this video is not paid content
@pjproudify5 ай бұрын
Just this morning I happened upon a baby blue jay in my yard. I not long after noticed an adult blue jay attacking the nest of a sparrow. I took it upon myself to use my water hose to scare off the jay. Only hours later I found the baby jay dead. It was obvious that he starved to death. At his expense I learned a very important lesson: never interfere with nature.
@AndreaHerrera-fe1uy4 ай бұрын
😢
@philipcunningham412529 күн бұрын
The blue jay should have been feeding her baby instead of attacking another young family. I call that baby bird abuse. The jay should be in jay bird jail.
@TomXPub3 ай бұрын
I find that staying silent takes the wind out of the sails of your critic
@JourneyofReflection-f8rАй бұрын
"Marcus Aurelius is the great embodiment of Stoicism. His 'Meditations' is an invaluable source of inspiration on self-control and mental strength."
@Groundskeeper-c4nАй бұрын
Hear, hear.
@brian-z9e15 күн бұрын
I think one of the best things I could have said in a stressful situation is “keep your thoughts to yourself!” My work mates would have laughed with me instead of the awkward vibe presented! Thanks for sharing. 🇨🇦🙂
@xaviergarner67506 ай бұрын
I'm Learning to Be more at Peace and Mindful of My Feelings and my Mindset to Have Extremely Great Self Control as to Not Be Foolish enough to Be Baited into Stupid Choices 💯It's A Lifestyle that Many Can Do with Staying Awake and Aware
@pablajones94305 ай бұрын
🙏🏽 AMEN!!
@kalab.93765 ай бұрын
🙌🏾
@YourKing-v5g3 ай бұрын
I realize that my faith in God and adherence to my deep rooted Christian principles. it's wonderful
@mahamadufatawu99095 ай бұрын
Silence is gold but practice is the problem
@jerusalemspeaks5 ай бұрын
Yep!
@harrietkhamisi23573 ай бұрын
Wright
@dominiquecoetzee59432 ай бұрын
I personally believe, and I'm no expert, that wisdom is knowing when to speak or remain silent.
@astrahcat12122 ай бұрын
You need to make sure your public personality is cold and calm, people like it way more sincerely.
@unpreeable3 ай бұрын
Silence is the loudest noise
@CapriciousCaroline5 ай бұрын
Fine line between stoicism and silent scorn.
@drjohnnakpil4 ай бұрын
Keeping Silent is hard. To retaliate is much easy, and many choose the easy. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS CONTENT.🎉
@luisbaldas2118Ай бұрын
My ex-girlfriend hated my stoic silence in our arguments,she used to say that she preferred me to insult her than not talk at all and i could truly feel the power of silence in those moments.
@orbit18944 күн бұрын
Silent treatment is manipulation, arguments should be open in a relationship. You're the one making it more difficult by not communicating
@luisbaldas21184 күн бұрын
@ i feel you and most of the cases you are right,the thing was she only wanted to argue for fight sake,not to actually improve or understand something.
@RAY-rl6xj3 ай бұрын
Encountering this channel is a spiritual and emotional breakthrough for me. Akin to starting a new matured life to face the world. THANK YOU. BE CONTINUALLY BLESSED.
@chanweiming55016 ай бұрын
Focus on yourself. Not others.
@Warrior_Of_Light_And_Truth3 ай бұрын
Silence at the proper season is wisdom, and better than any speech.👍