Always Be Silent In 9 Situations| Marcus Aurelius Stoicism

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@beautifullifeyt1
@beautifullifeyt1 5 ай бұрын
"Do not fear having no friends. Fear having bad friends” ~My life taught lesson
@carineokeh3543
@carineokeh3543 5 ай бұрын
Thank you
@waynemetro-t5u
@waynemetro-t5u 5 ай бұрын
It is better to be alone than in bad company
@beautifullifeyt1
@beautifullifeyt1 5 ай бұрын
@@waynemetro-t5u haha, yh
@margaretanami374
@margaretanami374 5 ай бұрын
😢8p
@Crezelltree4261
@Crezelltree4261 5 ай бұрын
Good one.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
I’m leaving this comment here so that when anyone likes it, it takes me back here !
@Blash-u9c
@Blash-u9c 3 ай бұрын
@@WiseAdvice93 blessed advice see u on comments while listening to
@sj9367
@sj9367 3 ай бұрын
Good idea!
@carolynbarnes-ir4bj
@carolynbarnes-ir4bj 3 ай бұрын
It's hard to hold your tongue but there are times when we must
@EternalNero
@EternalNero 2 ай бұрын
A friendly reminder for you to return here
@RyanStansberry
@RyanStansberry 2 ай бұрын
Welcome back!
@henriolucien6911
@henriolucien6911 5 ай бұрын
Silence is the best way to respond to gossip and rumors
@allentubman8052
@allentubman8052 5 ай бұрын
Unless that gossip is an attempt to ruin your reputation or cause you harm.
@aries-seventhseal2473
@aries-seventhseal2473 5 ай бұрын
​@allentubman8052 exhausted but God's taking care of it all. I'm witnessing it. ❤ 2:11
@lovealways2609
@lovealways2609 5 ай бұрын
​@@aries-seventhseal2473a lion does not argue with a chirping bird, or a yapping dog.. he conserves his energy for actual threats
@sharonbartley808
@sharonbartley808 5 ай бұрын
​@@allentubman8052Pray to God if you're a believer, and let Him work it out.
@ChiqueChiing
@ChiqueChiing 5 ай бұрын
I rather go with the I'm sorry u feel that way about urself (that u need to take it out on others), Meanwhile i get on with my life n manage to not let them move into my head rent free
@tessasaknit
@tessasaknit 4 ай бұрын
My mom frequently said, " better to keep your mouth shut, and let people think your dumb. Than to open it and remove all doubt." Thank you.
@Screenplaywriter
@Screenplaywriter 4 ай бұрын
This is a shitty thing to say to a kid. People might of said “she doesn’t say much, but when she does it’s really brilliant and powerful “
@tessasaknit
@tessasaknit 4 ай бұрын
@Screenplaywriter haha. Poor you! A 20 watt bulb in a cave. Good on you:)
@chessdad182
@chessdad182 4 ай бұрын
Didn't Mark Twain say that?
@KimHarvey-cy5ji
@KimHarvey-cy5ji 3 ай бұрын
My mom told me not to gossip at 16 in the 70’s! Long time ago! I get it now! Wish we all did at an earlier age
@sheenamackewn888
@sheenamackewn888 3 ай бұрын
Indeed !!! Here here !!!
@t.l.freedom5397
@t.l.freedom5397 6 ай бұрын
As an introvert this video is a great reminder that my silence has had many benefits in keeping me sane. Thank you 🙏
@PracticerOfMetta
@PracticerOfMetta 6 ай бұрын
As a person with extroverted qualities, I have come to value and listen to introverts. Each person is unique. The most twisted tree in the forest that is not straight like the other trees is the most special to me. The same goes for people. Everyone is of value. The introvert quality of my wife and daughter and other introverts have taught me so much in my life. Thank you. 😊
@pablajones9430
@pablajones9430 6 ай бұрын
Amen, I'm not a introvert. But I'm DEFINITELY leaning that SILENCE is GOLDEN!!!
@pablajones9430
@pablajones9430 6 ай бұрын
I'm learning & starting to live introvert QUALITIES 😊!!
@valerieadams7264
@valerieadams7264 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing those words
@BeHo-ci8zw
@BeHo-ci8zw 5 ай бұрын
The opposite is being a Democrat or Republican gangster.
@carol-us4xn
@carol-us4xn 6 ай бұрын
That's great when necessary. Sometimes, it's not wise to be silent. There's a time for everything, including speaking up.
@georgiafrancis9059
@georgiafrancis9059 5 ай бұрын
exactly....often silence is more viewed as weakness....those who wish to hurt you won't be stopped with silence.....they will get angry and continue to berate you..... I know a woman who wouldn't give up until she destroys her target....being silent only makes it worse if you're the target.
@zacharyneilson9220
@zacharyneilson9220 5 ай бұрын
@@darronaaaa362In my divorce I tried silence thinking that the truth would become evident. Instead, my ex wife got more time with the kids due to her false claims about me. All her claims were eventually shown to be false but it still didn’t stop the judge from giving her more time because of the initial light she painted me in. I strongly believe that my stoic tendencies hurt me in this. “We can’t give equal time due to the accusations “ initially and then “the kids are used to this schedule now” afterwards.
@mikeross2728
@mikeross2728 5 ай бұрын
I agree but I do respond when being humiliated or threatened
@tinfoilhatplumber485
@tinfoilhatplumber485 5 ай бұрын
Definitely ; with well measured words
@claraaguilar3001
@claraaguilar3001 5 ай бұрын
Indeed❤
@PhiloNova86
@PhiloNova86 18 күн бұрын
It's better to be alone than to surround yourself with negative influences. I learned that the hard way
@noyb7214
@noyb7214 Күн бұрын
Ask I age I’ve come to realize that a lot of us have had bad friends. It’s part of the human experience. The hard part is letting go. Nostalgic feelings keeps us there.
@BraveHeart21177
@BraveHeart21177 5 ай бұрын
Silence is golden. I live in the saying, “THINGS THEY DON’T KNOW, THEY CAN’T RUIN”❤👍🏻
@tessalister1226
@tessalister1226 5 ай бұрын
Indeed, if you don't speak you can't be accused of telling lies.
@annripley1964
@annripley1964 4 ай бұрын
Always be careful what you share with a “friend” since they may not really be one!
@marcellaratliff1304
@marcellaratliff1304 4 ай бұрын
Silence is golden, but duct tape is Silver .lol
@ceejay_gaming9636
@ceejay_gaming9636 3 ай бұрын
I just experienced this myself​@@annripley1964
@JamesMatanhire
@JamesMatanhire 3 ай бұрын
True
@DwightJohnson-oc7eu
@DwightJohnson-oc7eu 5 ай бұрын
I love spending time by myself! MORE PEOPLE MORE PROBLEMS
@nirabajaj234
@nirabajaj234 2 ай бұрын
l fully agree
@mylipsdontlie.
@mylipsdontlie. 2 ай бұрын
I Totally Agree as well ❤❤❤
@vinceking7651
@vinceking7651 Ай бұрын
I'm the same. People are horrible and soul destroying but I am going to do better this year but I will be alone because I like it here.
@ebihay916
@ebihay916 Ай бұрын
I have always preferred the company of my pets.
@vinceking7651
@vinceking7651 Ай бұрын
@@ebihay916 Me too 😁🙏
@gloriousgearhead5367
@gloriousgearhead5367 2 ай бұрын
1. When emotions overpower reason 2. When words won’t add value 3. When listening is more important 4. When gossiping or slandering 5. When judging others’ actions 6. When you don’t fully understand 7. When it’s driven by ego 8. When patience is required 9. When facing insults or provocations
@e.d972
@e.d972 2 ай бұрын
Good to have them in one spot. Thank you very much for summing it up. ❤
@crysb9658
@crysb9658 Ай бұрын
Thanks! All I needed!!!
@realestjeremyhamel
@realestjeremyhamel 27 күн бұрын
Not all heroes wear capes!! Thank you!
@neilbrooks6372
@neilbrooks6372 15 күн бұрын
Chingatumaga
@Lionello-da
@Lionello-da 6 күн бұрын
another list. the 2 & 8 are, actually, in many other lines. The original list has double entries about rumors.
@ebihay916
@ebihay916 Ай бұрын
I love silence, I've always had a big problem with noise, all human noise that is, I'm 74, and it has got more intense as I have grown older. Noise pollution. Some people like creating noise, with constant chatter, whatever they do they do it loudly, loud cars, loud music etc. I find it really hard to be around lots of human noise. Silence is golden.
@Vivian540K
@Vivian540K 19 күн бұрын
"opinions of people are beyond our control, but the degree to which they affect us lies within our control" 🙏👏
@pathwaytogod123_offical
@pathwaytogod123_offical 5 ай бұрын
Silence is the punishment for those who hurt others
@ThomasSmith-lw4nn
@ThomasSmith-lw4nn 5 ай бұрын
It's ok we will get through this I love my family and I love them we will get together and this is WATER UNDER THE BRIDGE, I am getting strong rite now so this can stay WATER UNDER THE BRIDGE
@johnrogers5309
@johnrogers5309 4 ай бұрын
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference...
@oneoflokis
@oneoflokis 4 ай бұрын
@@johnrogers5309 💯👍
@amberackerson5916
@amberackerson5916 4 ай бұрын
Love the serenity prayer, thank you
@muneeshsharma8649
@muneeshsharma8649 4 ай бұрын
Welcome to na
@keithrigsby-je5ui
@keithrigsby-je5ui 4 ай бұрын
a 'truth' STOLEN-from MEN, who taught stoicism!
@danielg2946
@danielg2946 4 ай бұрын
RUBBISH
@revsarahvanwyk6746
@revsarahvanwyk6746 5 ай бұрын
Silence can be your sanctuary, a place where wisdom rules...
@philominamorgan7931
@philominamorgan7931 6 ай бұрын
Silence is Golden!
@georgiafrancis9059
@georgiafrancis9059 5 ай бұрын
NOT ALWAYS
@Idontmatter12
@Idontmatter12 5 ай бұрын
​@georgiafrancis9059 Ray Charles said God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth. We are to listen twice as much as we talk. You are correct, silence is not always golden as there is a time and place to speak. However, knowing when not to speak is the struggle most, including myself, have. Moreso, when it comes from anger, and the desire to be right even when we're not.
@julietadams3821
@julietadams3821 5 ай бұрын
When my husband died, I found comfort in reminding myself that we didn't come to stay on earth & that he was no longer having to struggle to stay alive!🤔
@AziZZu
@AziZZu 5 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss!
@angelofamillionyears4599
@angelofamillionyears4599 5 ай бұрын
True, Earth is a strange place. Also most people think they are going to be here forever. Look at all the fools that create war to make money !! They do not understand that they cannot take the money to the next life !!! lol
@valueradar3362
@valueradar3362 4 ай бұрын
That’s a great stoic perspective. obviously, it’s very hard to grapple with and I am sorry for your loss… however, the stoic does not wish for a life without challenges, but the strength to endure them. ❤
@stephaniedennis1131
@stephaniedennis1131 4 ай бұрын
Sometimes I feel all alone but I feel confident that God’s love and presence in my life keeps my at peace.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@AziZZu
@AziZZu 4 ай бұрын
@@stephaniedennis1131 Wow your words are Absolutely right. May you always find comfort in His Perfect and Constant Presence 🤍🤲🏽. Stay strong and place your trust in His Divine Love and Mercy my dear sister in Humanity 🤗 One Love.
@PeterPolianskas
@PeterPolianskas 5 ай бұрын
I have been following Stoicism for 9 months. Silent has strengthened my inner self with issues that happen every day. I see things differently, more calmy.
@StoicWisdom135
@StoicWisdom135 5 ай бұрын
Congratulation to you!
@soniaatherton5949
@soniaatherton5949 2 ай бұрын
Same here❤
@AnilJain-w2x
@AnilJain-w2x 25 күн бұрын
❤🎉 Excellent Thanks
@Stoicpers
@Stoicpers 4 ай бұрын
“Don’t waste the rest of your time here worrying about other people… It will keep you from doing anything useful. Why do you complain rather than act?” - Marcus Aurelius
@patwarren2530
@patwarren2530 Ай бұрын
Thankyou..a thought provoking podcast.
@erlydeleonfabellar
@erlydeleonfabellar 6 ай бұрын
silence is so powerful
@mack8488
@mack8488 5 ай бұрын
Ahh shut up.....😇
@StoicWisdom135
@StoicWisdom135 5 ай бұрын
It's true!
@Ngwazi
@Ngwazi 4 ай бұрын
Stop and think, observe, and learn.
@powersww1reset
@powersww1reset 3 күн бұрын
Especially against a narcissistic personality disorder
@geanelledaniel2023
@geanelledaniel2023 5 ай бұрын
My mouth has always been a tool of destruction. I'm excited to learn a different way.
@HuePhong-mz3qh
@HuePhong-mz3qh 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@tessasaknit
@tessasaknit 4 ай бұрын
That's the very definition of being humble. Good on you. I'm older, but it took me awhile. Hate my temper. Fortunately, I'm better.
@soniaatherton5949
@soniaatherton5949 2 ай бұрын
Yes! I totally agree!
@Shornandkenny
@Shornandkenny Ай бұрын
Great job
@Drunkmantalkn
@Drunkmantalkn Ай бұрын
Dam fellas we all meetup for a reason. Maybe this is what I really needed to see and understand. My words though Mean not to. I don't see the degree of hurt they inflict. When people give me any attitude I double down all while not yelling and In a all calm tone. But my words can be hurtful and I've come to realize I have lost feelings for people. As a kid I was a good kid. Calm l,quiet, and respectful. My environment has now made me whom I have to be.. to survive...
@patriciagonzalez6903
@patriciagonzalez6903 5 ай бұрын
It's all about taming our inflated ego. Overreacting is nothing but our ego clouding our reasonable, intelligent mind. Staying cool, instead of overreacting is the best reaction in any heated or unpleasant situation. Thank you! This teaching is golden.
@superpoodlehead
@superpoodlehead 5 ай бұрын
Silence is one way to deal with it but also can be harmful depending on the situation and person you are facing. There are times when stonewalling someone is more harmful than good and shows a great deal of immaturity and unwillingness to come to an understanding. Use silence judiciously, not as a “one size fits all” solution.
@thomaskingsbury6560
@thomaskingsbury6560 3 ай бұрын
Excellent assessment.
@Pointsbeingmade
@Pointsbeingmade 3 ай бұрын
Exactly
@ritaplantamura6027
@ritaplantamura6027 5 ай бұрын
Jesus said let your silence be your strength 🙏.
@pablajones9430
@pablajones9430 3 ай бұрын
@@ritaplantamura6027 it really is a SUPER POWER!!!
@Des-Laine
@Des-Laine 5 ай бұрын
I have learned from being in an abusive marriage,for almost 10 years, that silence is the best way to handle evil/angry, people. They want you to feed that demon of strife,by arguing with them. They literally get off,by upsetting you. They can't stand poised,calm, silence.😉
@joey5816
@joey5816 5 ай бұрын
Parents can be the same way
@lovealways2609
@lovealways2609 5 ай бұрын
​@@joey5816yes, they can be.. but, you will not have to endure them forever.. forgive them: control your own thoughts and actions; possibly they shall evolve after witnessing your outstanding behaviors
@axonjogi
@axonjogi 5 ай бұрын
Great insight
@toriwolf5978
@toriwolf5978 5 ай бұрын
Wow thank you for that powerful comment r❤❤❤
@MMP9
@MMP9 5 ай бұрын
You stay silent with evil people? But you stay with evil one? And the ange is you?😂😂😂😂
@kellir.747
@kellir.747 Ай бұрын
I’ve always been the type of person who cannot respond quickly in arguments, debates, etc. I need to take time to reflect and think before responding. I used to think this was a weakness, but thanks to this video, I now realize it’s my SUPER POWER!
@mahaliahoyte6038
@mahaliahoyte6038 6 ай бұрын
Thoughtless speech can cause so much harm and hurt
@jenniferking9775
@jenniferking9775 5 ай бұрын
Silence is brilliant
@DYoung2112
@DYoung2112 5 ай бұрын
"there have been many times when I have regretted saying something but seldom have I regretted NOT saying something"
@ChiqueChiing
@ChiqueChiing 5 ай бұрын
I've always been upset at my late comebacks lol 😂cuz im just not a rude person
@Chriscs7
@Chriscs7 5 ай бұрын
Not saying something creates regrets as well you have to act
@johnnyespalahento2431
@johnnyespalahento2431 4 ай бұрын
I regret not saying things alot
@etcome5539
@etcome5539 4 ай бұрын
Things that are articulated cannot be unsaid, things that are kept can always be said later if it important enough.
@Chriscs7
@Chriscs7 4 ай бұрын
@etcome5539 NO. You cannot say later I love you to someone who died, sorry to someone you care about and lost forever and many more examples! You regret both not saying things when needed or saying wrong things
@BuddhismBliss-eng
@BuddhismBliss-eng 3 ай бұрын
It's amazing how something as simple as choosing silence can have such a profound impact on our interactions and well-being.
@skhul2580
@skhul2580 25 күн бұрын
“The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before.” - C.S. Lewis. This struck me deeply, I’m grieving the loss of my best friend.
@EdfromCanada
@EdfromCanada 5 ай бұрын
Very good words of wisdom. As someone once told me: "When you lose your cool - you lose".
@littlelambccece
@littlelambccece 5 ай бұрын
I’m going to try to remember that one
@missjackson3223
@missjackson3223 4 ай бұрын
And it would never be too late to apologize. I have lost my cool a couple times, then thought of the situation overnight. Apologized the next day and fixed the overall problem. It can happen to anyone.
@revenantbear5246
@revenantbear5246 4 ай бұрын
@@littlelambccecetghhh
@bnjmns1369
@bnjmns1369 Ай бұрын
“Silence is GOLDEN”
@dandrea8209
@dandrea8209 5 ай бұрын
Growing up I was taught “Silence is Golden “especially in situations, it is very powerful!
@jhezzersando8371
@jhezzersando8371 2 ай бұрын
Being disrespected, betrayed, rejected is so painful. However, SILENCE, helps me to ponder on the reasons and responses on every situation correctly. Being ALONE is one of my greatest FRIEND. ❤❤❤
@bz3105
@bz3105 5 ай бұрын
I discovered Stoicism recently and am already 100 PERCENT on board. Especially in today's toxic, divisive, "I have the answer" world, we all NEED this and it's therapeutic.
@rubinasobs6570
@rubinasobs6570 Ай бұрын
Can anyone pls like my comments so it will always bring me here to remind me of the key points in this video. Thanks
@GymGarageMan
@GymGarageMan 5 ай бұрын
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped af at 53 years old!!!
@CatGirl-ny8dw
@CatGirl-ny8dw 5 ай бұрын
Proving it on your channel garageman brutal training 💪
@sazmc7642
@sazmc7642 5 ай бұрын
Just checked your channel garageman 👍🏼 subbed 💪
@richardcollier1912
@richardcollier1912 5 ай бұрын
I am 70. Went to the gym to do the Farmers Carry, but the heaviest dumbbells only went up to 125. Sheeet.
@MikeMahan-dn2yd
@MikeMahan-dn2yd 5 ай бұрын
Uh....word.
@tinfoilhatplumber485
@tinfoilhatplumber485 5 ай бұрын
64 and did the same ; now same weight as when 20
@roxyragamuffin
@roxyragamuffin 4 ай бұрын
"No man ever listened himself out of a job." -Calvin Coolidge
@avery7001
@avery7001 4 ай бұрын
Are you sure it wasn't mark twain 😅? Kidding
@richardcranium3579
@richardcranium3579 4 ай бұрын
@@avery7001Ben Franklin
@BabyKitty000
@BabyKitty000 4 ай бұрын
That is so true
@itseveryonelese
@itseveryonelese 4 ай бұрын
Silence is golden. It gives you space and space for the other party to consider their actions.
@RyanTorres-ps8nw
@RyanTorres-ps8nw 5 ай бұрын
"Be like the cliff against which the waves continually break; but it stands firm and tames the fury of the water around it." Marcus Aurelius.
@madwifey5530
@madwifey5530 5 ай бұрын
I am so glad that I heard this today. I’m going to work today and this is the setting where I find myself saying the worst things out of anger. I shall apply this today.
@pablajones9430
@pablajones9430 5 ай бұрын
UR NOT ALONE!
@Gigi-AnnG
@Gigi-AnnG 5 ай бұрын
Brava! You didn’t try, you DID. Trying does not exist: you are either doing - or you are not doing. Think about it. Again, brava!
@abiyebriggs
@abiyebriggs 3 ай бұрын
It's better to slip with the feet than with the tongue. Word!
@alexprieto8277
@alexprieto8277 4 ай бұрын
Lost my grandmother at a young age to dementia, almost lost my mom last August in a car crash. she lost her legs and her ability to control the lower half of her body. I realized that not only can one lose a loved one to death, but one can also lose a loved one while they are still alive, in the case of my grandmother who lost her ability to communicate and suffered dementia for 7 years before she finally died. I could have lost my mother while she was still alive too, but she has been strong and hasn't completely lost her faith in life. She has shown me her great resilience and strength, as I've seen her go through a lot in life. But I realize too caring about someone isn't about grieving for them and worrying about them and imagining how much they are suffering.... it's about celebrating them while they are here.
@morgangudger2537
@morgangudger2537 6 ай бұрын
I have to say, I have been following this stoic journey but keeping my mouth shut is the hardest thing for me. I practice each day & fail at it
@jaysfacts3842
@jaysfacts3842 5 ай бұрын
Try tape babes 😂
@lenah4160
@lenah4160 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@pablajones9430
@pablajones9430 5 ай бұрын
Don't feel bad. We're BREAKING a lifetime of trying to get our point across. When 99% of the time.... They still don't get it. & we'll get better! Hang in there, UR NOT alone!!!
@Gigirabdomnumbers
@Gigirabdomnumbers 5 ай бұрын
Same
@Minnu1960-m1l
@Minnu1960-m1l 5 ай бұрын
I go to my closed room and vent out and nobody knows my feelings towards to them ..& comes out sll calm. And use ur pillows to hit
@aimeehodgin6359
@aimeehodgin6359 5 ай бұрын
Choice has offered me a better avenue, because while I am being silent it gives me the moments to think calmly, mentally take steps all around the situation & control myself. Not only do I have the ability to think about the situation, but I have the ability to NOT think of situations. This is wealth beyond riches.
@buffalogal9139
@buffalogal9139 5 ай бұрын
Yes, I totally agree and always at least attempt to follow in this manner.
@HansRichter-lh9gt
@HansRichter-lh9gt 5 ай бұрын
Only after growing spiritually, I've discovered this wisdom.Even to remain quiet, rather than to come up with the right answer at the wrong time.
@SereneStoicWisdom
@SereneStoicWisdom 5 ай бұрын
Don't seek for everything to happen as you wish it would, but rather wish that everything happens as it actually will-then your life will flow well.
@user-iu6it9ns2o
@user-iu6it9ns2o 5 ай бұрын
That’s Deep
@dailyinsidethought-n3p
@dailyinsidethought-n3p 27 күн бұрын
I’ve always struggled with staying silent in certain situations, but this video really opened my eyes to its importance.
@rabiafuwai6835
@rabiafuwai6835 5 ай бұрын
Silence is the best answer. I have used this tool for a long time in my life and has saved my energy and made my critics mad😅
@robinford336
@robinford336 5 ай бұрын
Silence is true strength.
@acckenemoazz652
@acckenemoazz652 3 ай бұрын
These words are better than listening to a Christian pastor. 💯
@SAVAGEGIRL963
@SAVAGEGIRL963 3 ай бұрын
Jesus loves us 🙂💗❤️‍🩹❤
@pablajones9430
@pablajones9430 3 ай бұрын
@acckenemoazz652 Yes he does.... lots of the PASTORS LOVE our money 💰 & the power they can hold over some of us. Twisting the WORD of GOD!!!
@pablajones9430
@pablajones9430 3 ай бұрын
@@acckenemoazz652 Yes & I believe that's why JESUS leads us to KNOWLEDGE!!
@texasgma3578
@texasgma3578 2 ай бұрын
Many commonalities: humility, moral living, temperance, kindness, etc.
@SAVAGEGIRL963
@SAVAGEGIRL963 Ай бұрын
@@pablajones9430 On that note, you're right 🫠👏
@japprivera3129
@japprivera3129 5 ай бұрын
Speak when you are spoken to. If you don't have any good things to say, say nothing. Don't waste your breath on those who don't listen or belittle what you say.
@buddybeetle
@buddybeetle 5 ай бұрын
Wise words !
@avery7001
@avery7001 4 ай бұрын
Casting pearls among the swine ..😅 Mark Twain?😊😂
@avery7001
@avery7001 4 ай бұрын
Preaching to the quior😊😊
@bjwilliams
@bjwilliams 3 ай бұрын
Choir 😅​@@avery7001
@binathere2574
@binathere2574 2 ай бұрын
This is the way I was brought up.
@rudolfagyemang5006
@rudolfagyemang5006 4 ай бұрын
Silence is my nature. For some reason, i learned to argue as growing up. Now, as a young man , i remain silent about anything. Still learning.
@feliciamakepeace7717
@feliciamakepeace7717 2 ай бұрын
I'm grateful for this knowledge! Wish I learned it in my 30's instead of 50's but it's ok. I'm at peace with it.
@philipcunningham4125
@philipcunningham4125 29 күн бұрын
Indeed.
@AnnaAtto
@AnnaAtto Ай бұрын
Silence is the best treat i have given Noise Makers who claim to know me more than myself in my Life. It has branded me names and Titles. that doesn't shake me at any point in Life. AM BENEFITING A LOT WITH THIS SILENT TREAT.
@paulclarke3621
@paulclarke3621 29 күн бұрын
I experience the same. It's really difficult.
@chaundadon2612
@chaundadon2612 5 ай бұрын
Started speaking my mind more as an adult because my whole life I was told I’m too quiet & I should speak up for myself…. Honestly being quiet kept me sane & being able to walk around from things/people/places that didn’t serve me…. It’s definitely should be a tool that’s sharpened daily.
@e.d972
@e.d972 2 ай бұрын
Same here.
@beautifullifeyt1
@beautifullifeyt1 5 ай бұрын
The most cruel part, kindness attracts narcissists. Maintain your boundaries and goals or you will be building someone else's life while you have nothing.
@avery7001
@avery7001 4 ай бұрын
Kindness some see AS a sign of weakness , don't be taken for a fool😊/ "advantage of"
@GaiWandel
@GaiWandel 5 ай бұрын
This is how I live my nowadays life , silent is the remedy of all strangers's words. This talk really motivated me the most in my life
@stingbeestingbee9340
@stingbeestingbee9340 5 ай бұрын
I need to learn KEEPING MY MOUTH CLOSED this came to me for a reason. I RECEIVE.
@belindajuma9630
@belindajuma9630 4 ай бұрын
I have been practicing silence and 😢 it has become part of me life .....am living in my peaceful erra......
@StoicAMG
@StoicAMG 5 ай бұрын
This video is a great reminder of the power of silence. Marcus Aurelius' wisdom on when to stay silent is incredibly valuable for navigating life's challenges. A must-watch for anyone interested in Stoicism!
@susftbl_4202
@susftbl_4202 Ай бұрын
I really loved it and I feel changing my inside when ever I feel loneliness it’s make me strong ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@VirtueVision-k2v
@VirtueVision-k2v Ай бұрын
This video promotes wisdom to the masses
@xperiajohn2566
@xperiajohn2566 5 күн бұрын
This video beautifully highlights the wisdom in knowing when to stay silent. Marcus Aurelius's teachings remind us that silence isn’t just about withholding words-it’s a powerful tool for maintaining inner peace, avoiding unnecessary conflict, and cultivating self-awareness. Sometimes, saying nothing speaks volumes. Thank you for sharing these timeless lessons from Stoicism! 🙏
@ArtByHazel
@ArtByHazel 5 ай бұрын
There’s power in the art of silence.
@WisdomAttipoe-ls4mo
@WisdomAttipoe-ls4mo 27 күн бұрын
I’m so obsessed with this great masterpiece🥰. Thanks 🙏
@dln3472
@dln3472 5 ай бұрын
Powerful AF. I was quick to respond and react and found myself over doing it. Now I wait and actively listen instead of waiting to speak.
@abelvasquez1858
@abelvasquez1858 3 ай бұрын
I was in a 4 years relationship that ended this year. My reading and studying in various places including stoicism had lead me to inner peace, elevation my short coming, my personal journey and growth has impressive to myself. And I’m truly happy as I’m seeking a higher level of myself .. I have truly forgiven what was done to me and seek honest and truth for my own well being.
@StoicWisdom135
@StoicWisdom135 5 ай бұрын
Silence can make us thrive!
@homizarolia5726
@homizarolia5726 23 күн бұрын
SILENCE is GOLD
@Johnbartheart
@Johnbartheart 5 ай бұрын
Powerful...but, for me, hard..I work in it everyday.
@Bang-bangBart
@Bang-bangBart 5 ай бұрын
Hard as hell
@StoicWithYou
@StoicWithYou 7 күн бұрын
Silence is not dumb, but the highest art.
@HeavenlyHarmonyChoir-f3s
@HeavenlyHarmonyChoir-f3s 2 ай бұрын
*Thank you for waking up.for another new day. I surrender to day my grand childrens and childrens to your hand.protect them from all Evil attack. Bless them keep Anjel around them. I pray in the name of Jesus christ.amen*
@katthefantastic
@katthefantastic 16 күн бұрын
Thank you for being here to remind me that I am not alone. 🫶
@mickkilroy5749
@mickkilroy5749 Ай бұрын
I miss my Nan whom passed away over 35 years ago. She is always on my mind A most beauttiful lady
@reginaburns7408
@reginaburns7408 5 ай бұрын
Listening felt so refreshing! Being silent is beautiful. I'm happy I watched the video. Such a blessing.
@ricya1982
@ricya1982 5 ай бұрын
My mum screamed at me for not being so expressive. It never helped. All I get is yelled at for speaking my mind. That's why I keep things to myself. No point.
@Bang-bangBart
@Bang-bangBart 5 ай бұрын
You can always speak your mind inside your mind .. sounds silly but it is powerful and no one can control it if you stay strong and serene
@Mm-wf7gw
@Mm-wf7gw 5 ай бұрын
Yup
@t.8936
@t.8936 4 ай бұрын
Where is your Dad? This is unacceptable. You don't have to be expressive. This is not a requirement of being a good man.
@missjackson3223
@missjackson3223 4 ай бұрын
Try to say something positive if u have to say anything. Work hard at yr job and always help others. Express when yr tired or feel ill, others will relate.
@snail6queen6hammy
@snail6queen6hammy 5 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I needed right now. Someone said some things that were out of order. It's been playing over and over in my head. I had it all planned out what to say. I now am very calm and know to say nothing. Except hello when i see that person . If I have to. Thank you for this.
@historicalowl-n2m
@historicalowl-n2m 7 күн бұрын
I really appreciate your insightful reflection on how silence helps us focus on what truly matters. It’s a great reminder to embrace quiet moments for inner strength.
@patrickkelly2451
@patrickkelly2451 5 ай бұрын
I have learned the true value of silence through stoic philosophy!
@teleioswi2993
@teleioswi2993 2 ай бұрын
Been with my wife for almost 4 years now. Still have never argued or said anything nasty to each other. Taking the time to think about the weight your words can carry will save you a lifetime of pain.
@vicsjager3961
@vicsjager3961 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this wonderful wisdom. I learned to stay silent and calm because of these wisdom. It hurts me sometimes specially at work. I may not have that authority or power. I have to stay silent, calm and control my emotions. My leader is so sensitive, dominant or superior, when you didn’t make her satisfied or when you did something wrong that she didn’t like it, she will treat you so badly. She want to be talk in a nice tone but she’s not aware on her own mistakes and don’t even accept it. So for me she’s not a real leader who couldn’t admit her own mistakes. And when my colleagues tell her about me that I didn’t do this and that etc. my leader listen to her/them and then she’s gonna get mad at me and that is a one-sided. She should have to stay in the middle not a one-sided specially she knew that my colleague is a liar but still she stayed to her side and she immediately believed her. I think my leader reaction has a hidden animosity at me because she treated me different. Anyway I may not have authority or power God knows what kind of human I am. She is only my leader but not my Lord so I don’t have to worry much because one day everything what she has done to me will come back to her.🙏😌
@fasihhaider9623
@fasihhaider9623 Ай бұрын
I love the fact that this video is not paid content
@pjproudify
@pjproudify 5 ай бұрын
Just this morning I happened upon a baby blue jay in my yard. I not long after noticed an adult blue jay attacking the nest of a sparrow. I took it upon myself to use my water hose to scare off the jay. Only hours later I found the baby jay dead. It was obvious that he starved to death. At his expense I learned a very important lesson: never interfere with nature.
@AndreaHerrera-fe1uy
@AndreaHerrera-fe1uy 4 ай бұрын
😢
@philipcunningham4125
@philipcunningham4125 29 күн бұрын
The blue jay should have been feeding her baby instead of attacking another young family. I call that baby bird abuse. The jay should be in jay bird jail.
@TomXPub
@TomXPub 3 ай бұрын
I find that staying silent takes the wind out of the sails of your critic
@JourneyofReflection-f8r
@JourneyofReflection-f8r Ай бұрын
"Marcus Aurelius is the great embodiment of Stoicism. His 'Meditations' is an invaluable source of inspiration on self-control and mental strength."
@Groundskeeper-c4n
@Groundskeeper-c4n Ай бұрын
Hear, hear.
@brian-z9e
@brian-z9e 15 күн бұрын
I think one of the best things I could have said in a stressful situation is “keep your thoughts to yourself!” My work mates would have laughed with me instead of the awkward vibe presented! Thanks for sharing. 🇨🇦🙂
@xaviergarner6750
@xaviergarner6750 6 ай бұрын
I'm Learning to Be more at Peace and Mindful of My Feelings and my Mindset to Have Extremely Great Self Control as to Not Be Foolish enough to Be Baited into Stupid Choices 💯It's A Lifestyle that Many Can Do with Staying Awake and Aware
@pablajones9430
@pablajones9430 5 ай бұрын
🙏🏽 AMEN!!
@kalab.9376
@kalab.9376 5 ай бұрын
🙌🏾
@YourKing-v5g
@YourKing-v5g 3 ай бұрын
I realize that my faith in God and adherence to my deep rooted Christian principles. it's wonderful
@mahamadufatawu9909
@mahamadufatawu9909 5 ай бұрын
Silence is gold but practice is the problem
@jerusalemspeaks
@jerusalemspeaks 5 ай бұрын
Yep!
@harrietkhamisi2357
@harrietkhamisi2357 3 ай бұрын
Wright
@dominiquecoetzee5943
@dominiquecoetzee5943 2 ай бұрын
I personally believe, and I'm no expert, that wisdom is knowing when to speak or remain silent.
@astrahcat1212
@astrahcat1212 2 ай бұрын
You need to make sure your public personality is cold and calm, people like it way more sincerely.
@unpreeable
@unpreeable 3 ай бұрын
Silence is the loudest noise
@CapriciousCaroline
@CapriciousCaroline 5 ай бұрын
Fine line between stoicism and silent scorn.
@drjohnnakpil
@drjohnnakpil 4 ай бұрын
Keeping Silent is hard. To retaliate is much easy, and many choose the easy. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS CONTENT.🎉
@luisbaldas2118
@luisbaldas2118 Ай бұрын
My ex-girlfriend hated my stoic silence in our arguments,she used to say that she preferred me to insult her than not talk at all and i could truly feel the power of silence in those moments.
@orbit1894
@orbit1894 4 күн бұрын
Silent treatment is manipulation, arguments should be open in a relationship. You're the one making it more difficult by not communicating
@luisbaldas2118
@luisbaldas2118 4 күн бұрын
@ i feel you and most of the cases you are right,the thing was she only wanted to argue for fight sake,not to actually improve or understand something.
@RAY-rl6xj
@RAY-rl6xj 3 ай бұрын
Encountering this channel is a spiritual and emotional breakthrough for me. Akin to starting a new matured life to face the world. THANK YOU. BE CONTINUALLY BLESSED.
@chanweiming5501
@chanweiming5501 6 ай бұрын
Focus on yourself. Not others.
@Warrior_Of_Light_And_Truth
@Warrior_Of_Light_And_Truth 3 ай бұрын
Silence at the proper season is wisdom, and better than any speech.👍
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