AMANI TALKS: Don't let social media make you miserable

[@freckledfacedbeauty151]

As a black woman who has kids and would’ve chosen a different route if i could go back I LOVE seeing black women say no to children. Y’all are saving yourselves from so much. I admire that y’all have chosen yourself and that y’all are free to live however you want. I’m routing for y’all. Never let a man change your mind ❤️

[@AmaniWortham]

I love that. Thank you!

[@Tx_Nay]

I agree!! I love to see it

[@sjanex]

That’s so sad you feel that way about your own children.

[@Pinkpearls555]

I’m 26, I never been married and never had a real “boyfriend “. I’m soo much happy being single, I get shop, do whatever I want and talk to whoever I want. Marriage is a downgrade to me because I can’t just walk away whenever I want to . It’s better to be free than to have something that isn’t healthy

[@bookieaustin2244]

26 n same

[@t33mc]

Getting buss down by pookie, the start song Ciara's prayer in you 30s 😂🤣😂🤣

[@t.ferguson8002]

You "positively" spoke truth, sis! Haters are gonna hate!

[@Air-king101st]

There is nothing positive about this woman! Keeping women single is not a flex!

[@Air-king101st]

POSITIVITY????!😂 are you def or your another bitter modern woman who only like hearing what she wants to hear??? This woman clearly hate Black Men and maybe men in general for the poor choices in men like most of you do.. there is nothing positive about this agent of chaos if there is show me her positive results?? Is she married with children? Has she ever gotten any one else married? The answer to the rhetorical question is NO! But you know who did? Kevin Samuels😊 A man who actually tried to help the community and tell women what they needed to hear and not what they wanted to hear…. It’s thinking like hers that society is the way it is now but Men are always the scapegoat instead of just being a better woman and make better choices men.

[@JowaJuice]

You hit it on the nail with this one !

[@Kawkaw27]

Please drop a skincare regimen. Skin glass!!!!

[@AmaniWortham]

Ok, I’m gonna have to post a video soon lol

[@Pancake_cake_cake55]

I really do enjoy your podcast!!

[@AmaniWortham]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@danedee6563]

Honestly, it should be illegal to use a clip out of context. Candace completely left out the part of the clip where the man that Candace is agreeing with admitted that he is a single father at 30 and plans to date around (meaning sleep around and possibly breed children that will be raised in a single mother household) till he’s ready to settle down at around 50 to 60 years old. He also admitted that he is actively teaching his daughter that her purpose is to be a loyal wife and mother and to accept that her future husband will probably cheat on her because men are wired differently. Candace is calling a woman selfish for recognizing that she probably won’t be a great mother;therefore, she shouldn’t have kids. But, the man, who most likely is a deadbeat, is not selfish because he had a child?? This man is a perfect example as to why a lot of women are choosing not to have kids and Candace completely glossed over that to insult a woman

[@truthhurtsohwell05]

as a black woman, social media is why I avoid most blk men...especially after seeing what they say about us online

[@jackchap6547]

Amani, Candice used you for relevancy. She sees that you have a large following and that your content is engaging. You talking about her makes her relevant for a news cycle. Keep doing your thing, I love to hear your perspective. It is inspiring! 😘

[@Ennegro]

I truly think people are genuinely vile. But for the most part get to live out their nasty inner spirits on social media. And it’s sad that a lot of that hate lives on black social media.

[@AmaniWortham]

That’s true. Ofc black social media is the only part of social media I live on, so that’s the only sector I can critique but I have to call it like I see it.

[@pda7819]

😮 I need to double slap your like button. Sarcasm for Candace...thank you...I missed it. I pass by Candace's content.

[@johnnyluvs3500]

You soooo realll for this.

[@180waves]

Every broken clock is right two times a day. 🙌

[@soulanstreets222]

Candace already had some off takes, but a lot of her more recent ones in the past few years are definitely influenced by her British husband who is too posh for his own good. I suspect George has a lot to do with sucking the whimsy out of Candace. She doesn't genuinely smile as much as she used to. She's a busy body in other people's lives and nitpicking their lifestyles because they don't mirror hers. She went from a very respectable critic of negative behaviors to absolutely denigrating people's lifestyle who aren't Christian conservatives. It's been weird to watch. She'll get her NWUC sooner or later.

[@AmaniWortham]

Mmm, I never watched her content before. I just thought she was always this judgmental. But her critique of me was based off absolutely nothing. I could see how her journalism, if that’s what you want to call it has been extremely off.

[@AnnaMaylove20]

Misery loves company💯

[@Air-king101st]

Yep she wants you hateful, bitter and lonely just like her. But! She’s getting her bag right!!??? 😂

[@t33mc]

This channel is a great example

[@fowles2010]

Exactly all points were made

[@hawthorne811]

The people judging others for not having kids, the people judging people for not having a man, those are conservative women. Not sure why you'd want to identify with that.

[@AmaniWortham]

Bc obviously being conservative does not automatically mean you’re judgmental. It’s not conservative women/men saying this to me, it’s judgmental miserable women. Being conservative and being miserable don’t go hand in hand.

[@soooosatisfying]

Please talk about the toxicities of black families

[@jamayabrown7659]

Even when you only have one child. Women with several children will say, you should have more your child is lonely.. ummm no she’s not we’re fine. I’m one and done.

[@PreciousSullivan]

I’m 37 and kidless and so is my man. I would love to have at least 1 child but I’m not praying for it, if that makes sense. My partner and I are more of “if it’s supposed to happen, it will” kind of ppl. I’m a very healthy, happy and free woman! I have checked so many things off my goal list and still scratching! I say all that to say, it’s not bad to not have kids! Ppl should simply do wat it is that they want to do!

[@yvieismyusername]

Biggest reason that I left all social media (except for YT), and haven't shared anything from my life on them since 2020. My life is so much for it without all the negativity and comparisons. 😊

[@Pinkpearls555]

Ur soo pretty

[@AmaniWortham]

Thank you 🥺😭

[@aortatm6971]

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[@Smallchieff]

Girl this is literally why I have to take Instagram breaks (months at a time). People are soooo mf rude/disrespectful. Seems like people can’t share ANYTHING because someone in the comments will point out their living situations, home, children, lifestyle preferences. Like damn…..

[@VLeaders]

Honestly, and just my opinion, and i say this in the most humblest of ways, you and Candace have the same kind of vibe energy. It's a subtle negative undertone connected to your delivery. It's different but alike. From the same cloth kind of.

[@AmaniWortham]

That’s your opinion which is fine. There are people who hear and understand what I’m saying bc they actually watch my content. And there’s people like you

[@t.ferguson8002]

Personally, I think Amani and Candace are two strong black women, but their energy is very different. Amani is uplifting the black community, specifically women, while Candace shames and tears us down. Just my opinion.

[@t33mc]

🤣😂🤣😂 her response is exactly what you described. Never act in good faith with these d3mons, troll them like the guy on tiktok that exposed her 1d10cy.

[@Pancake_cake_cake55]

AMEN!! PREACH!!

[@coppertone79]

Amani, you're young, intelligent and beautiful! F*ck Candace and all the bots and trolls that leave vile comments on your social media. I found your content only about 5 months ago and I enjoy it. Its refreshing and bold at the same time. I wish the best for you . Can't wait to see how you flourish in this industry.

[@AmaniWortham]

Thank you so much!!

[@thatlovegirl12]

Girl there will always be pick me's who will prey on your down fall! I pray you pay them no dust! Keep growing your podcast. It will open doors for you 5-10 years from now.

[@Air-king101st]

Wrong!!! And shouldn’t you want to be picked? I don’t get that insult at all..lol. So you rather be a Pass me around!!?? Got it!! Black woman logic😂 you can’t make this shit up.

[@autumxxleaves4186]

Yes! Pickmes are very dangerous

[@adrianroberson903]

Not Candace Owen wait she ain’t deserve that 😢

[@Jojejyj]

Ngl yea that’s why I watched baddies 😭 and that show with blue face smh.

[@Jojejyj]

I’m on a new journey though and glad I cut out watching and keeping up with all that drama 🙏🏼

[@Ohemaamary]

I found that on facebook I get negative comments. I posted about my book I wanted to raise funds for and people were being mean to me for talking about mental illness. They claim I’m scamming people and even reacted with laughing emojis.

[@footballmom2014]

14:40 it’s bullshit.

[@kimberlymawi]

I love this video! Although I like Candace sometimes, I didn’t like what she say about you bc she barely know u and what she says is judgmental

[@valeriew4833]

I sense the pickme energy rising here

[@AmaniWortham]

With whom? Lol everything I said was opposite of pick me. I think you should research what that term means

[@T.H-v4h]

Tik tok has a better algorithm than KZbin. So only people who agree with you are coming across it.

[@adrianroberson903]

Your the leader you can never follow anybody else so you not god fear and you can follow the god in a man him how you explain that to the woman you give advice to on marriage?

[@footballmom2014]

Why would God grant you a marriage if you are not going to use that union to be fruitful and multiply? Make it make sense 🤷‍♀️

[@Air-king101st]

Way to go Amani!! Let’s Keep black women single, there already at the bottom of the dating pool so you don’t have to work that hard away. great job!!😂 and who ever wants smoke come with fact, data and statistics! Not your feelings or antidote experience. If you do you already lost the argument.