AMANI TALKS: Men will always tell on themselves

[@RaveCHOSEN001]

Thank you for this ! When I Speak Up I’m Told I’m Negative , Bashing, Etc. listen to your intuition and what people say . The flags be RIGHT THERE. Thanks😊

[@e.v.a.1219]

The whole Jidenna thing is because he is trying to clean up his image he must be in that phase where all the good women are dodging him like the plague and wants to show he’s different now 🫡😑😪😪😪 nah bro stand on that ish real good

[@cmk2278]

I think uncle jidé is going through a mid life crisis. However we don’t care he made his bed let him lay in it. And we ain’t buying whatever he is about to sell just like Jezzy.

[@latoyaaristil4233]

Girl I love you!!! You’ve summarized everything that I’ve been experiencing with OLDER men. It’s disappointing to me.

[@morena1484]

I wish I was in your area to be a guest lol. I think it would be a nice balance to have some1 in their 30s converse about these topics with you. Great work!

[@uzo9887]

Yeah and maybe you can explain to her it’s wrong for men or women to get drugged and robbed. 😒

[@azaria4447]

7:30 such a great point. The BM will almost always leave behind his roots for a WW.

[@cmk2278]

And come back when he need the clean up lady after dogging the come up lady .

[@amandat949]

Thanks!

[@Mrsyannaa]

I won’t lie I was kind of siding with Keke’s BD when she was getting serenaded ,but the only thing I felt was that he should have said something in private. In hindsight, your absolutely correct that was controlling behavior and we should call out those things when it comes to other black women

[@susiem.2068]

The thing with apology is that you're allowed to be wrong and or change your opinion. Some people need to apologize or be apologized to in order to heal and move on, and some people don't. It depends on the person. Apologizing is a way of maintaining integrity, self-respect and moving on towards better things.

[@tierratowne]

Your channel is blossoming🌸 We need this space.

[@sassyjoe8143]

Keke is a virgo and we Virgos are sweetheart that's why we go through so much

[@ajaa8701]

Exactly men kiss and tell allll the time…if yall don’t like it adjust!

[@AriCari1]

Hey Amani I love your show, I am a 26 year old black girl living in Atlanta and would love to guest speak on your show

[@Ki-Yemaya]

I told my ex whose love language is words of affirmation that I don't like flattery . He legit couldn't understand why.

[@ravenswood118]

Flattery is one thing, but don't you think your partner is beautiful, smart, interesting? What's wrong with telling them so once in a while? The only parter I've ever had that had a difficult time giving me a compliment was an abusive man who wanted to erode my self esteem so that I stayed with him.

[@Ki-Yemaya]

@@ravenswood118 there's nothing wrong with complimenting. I was speaking specifically on flattery.

[@ravenswood118]

@@Ki-Yemaya why are you thinking of "words affirmation" as flattery instead of compliments?

[@Ki-Yemaya]

@ravenswood118 I'm not sure if you're being willfully obtuse or not. However im speaking on the video when she brought up lying. Flattery is insecure praise. Please have a good day.

[@ravenswood118]

@@Ki-Yemaya Are YOU being obtuse? I am simply telling you that your partner, if they say they want words of affirmation, they are asking you for compliments, not lies. And you purposefully withholding that, even when they say they'd like to hear it, is weird and potentially emotionally abusive. If your partner is a good person, I hope they find someone who is willing to tell them how wonderful they are!

[@ilovetessaa]

I’m in middle school and I live in Florida and the legal age of consent is 16 for ppl up to 23

[@Pluggedinnn_]

I’m just here to support love the content involving men or not & remember brothers n sisters please get closer to God

[@oregondreamcatcher7080]

Reach out to princella the queen maker be 💯🔥

[@Ana_theeofficial]

I love the idea of having a co host ❤

[@cvzdez]

Themis shouted you out i am here

[@Strawberrypocky911]

that happened to me, my ex was 28 and I was 15. He "waited" the very day until I turned 18 to sleep with me 😒 but then would tell me, "I hate pedos! I was touched once by my Uncle when I was a kid." The hypocrisy is real.

[@Kiaramcgee34]

You’re absolutely correct! He should’ve had this sit down with a man. He literally said black men can’t talk to each other on that level so why not choose that interview to do that! He used Nia!

[@danilaroche1156]

Apologies are great. If its sincere.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@maythehookup]

16:35 girl that part

[@kandyjames525]

How can i sign up to be a host?

[@jackchap6547]

Girl, I love you. We need to sit down and chop it up, whether on a mic or not. 😘😘😘

[@Rangergangcr8z]

I do see where you’re coming from with the jidenna topic but it kinda aligns with the purpose of the clip for him to talk about how he recognized his toxic behavior because better help is all about counseling. It was corny but the video plays into how counseling helps people see the error of their ways and gets them to be a better person.

[@jamifranks6502]

What he could have said was that the years he spent going through women and being toxic affected his mental health and he sought help for it!! That ish was real wack and probably didn’t convince anyone to seek therapy

[@earthzone85]

Wow this was good! I’m the same regarding interracial not my business stay over there. He just now realize what she played him good.

[@jesscurrie]

Aaliyah had to be wise beyond her years to see all of these grown men who wanted her. Timberland and r Kelly aren’t the only grown ass men who wanted her

[@harmoneysmind]

Or these grown ass men were pedos

[@emmanueljohnwest9016]

Why must there be wars between gender. Why can't we just come together and understand , support each other in the society

[@chitlinjuice]

Bc men have egos and majority don't like, understand, or support women to begin with.

[@cmk2278]

We can but the men aren’t ready to lead.

[@thedevm4n]

@@cmk2278 I'm honestly tired both man and woman *online* stay in their own Eco chambers fuelling each others hate against each other ur comment to just shows this fact to u wanna blame one side for the war while we all screwed. Till we stop limiting ourselves to this online Eco chambers we could then move towards the right direction

[@burgessfrederick2]

Because they'll have to be intentional, and progressive! They say we aren't ready to lead, but the leaders aren't taking on unwilling followers.

[@cmk2278]

True then nothing will be resolved 😂

[@danilaroche1156]

Hi you guys! Stop... I'm not a guy. Why does everyone talk the same these days? Like hi you guys..it is what it is at the end of the day..ANYWAYS ..like Like I just can't. We are starting to act like clones of each other.

[@marysasona]

i love ur podcast so much keep speaking the truth!😭🫶🏾 i hope u can have keke as a guest in ur podcast ❤️

[@ataliarobinson2334]

I’m the kind of person that wants to have hope in humanity, I once use to even believe that most men’s where really just simple beens that just seek for peace and that most women was the drama carriers, but honestly every time that I learn more about how most men operate in such a selfish, depraved and cynic way it just disgust me. I know that their are still few good seeds in the world, I just pray that God protect them and allowed them to be the ones that extend their genes.

[@chrisyeliz]

I Dated Two Men That Was Both Narcissistic Abusers They Fucked Me Up I Aint Gone Lie Its Been So Hard Trying To Get Back To Myself Its Been Three Years Since I Went Through The Abuse From Both Relationships.

[@shanellem6310]

Me too, Sis. Because of my experiences, I won't even consider marriage again until my kids are grown. I'm good. Even then, I'll be quite picky. Life is too short to tolerate foolishness. Nope. Never again.

[@chrisyeliz]

@@shanellem6310 I Wish You Nothing But The Best Because You Deserve It & Im Happy You Made It Out To Tell Your Story Continue To Shine & Be The Best Person Not Just For Your Kids But Most Importantly For Yourself. 💙

[@burgessfrederick2]

So whats the solution here!? Where's the content where we show eachother how to love eachother, and be in healthy lasting relationships!? We need that content, because we all can sit around and talk about trauma!! So lets give eachother the blueprint for lasting love in the next video.

[@oIiviaaa]

ngl, women have been giving yall (men) solutions. we tell yall to go therapy, we tell yall to unlearn patriarchal and misogynistic behavior but you refuse to. men need to take accountability for their behavior. no amount of teaching is gonna to help you, if you’re not intentional!

[@burgessfrederick2]

@oIiviaaa patriarchy isn't the problem! Especially if you want a man. You see what matriarchy did to black men?? Men raised in matriarchal societies are the most efficient. But it always makes sense at the end of the day. Feminist will never get a man that's worth a damn .

[@tonyeffik6781]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@oIiviaaa ​​⁠​⁠​⁠ respectfully, women as a collective haven’t been giving shit, either that, or they’ve been giving wrong solutions that fail to resonate with whomever they’ve been giving these so called solutions to. all these internet gender wars solely consist of both sides playing a contest of who can point the finger & trash each other the most, hence your one sided comment. hope you’re telling yourself and your fellow women to take accountability for their own behavior before telling men to do so (i doubt it)

[@soundsaboutright---]

​@tonyeffik6781 why are men asking women for solutions vs going to professionals? Another form of unreciprocated labor they want women to do and then bash them for failing at something they were never qualified to do in the first place. Women have been complaining about men being unfaithful, emotional unavailable, abusive, stringing them along, etc. Men know these things about themselves, they call it "running game". When men want to change they will take the steps needed, until then hold off on blaming women for men not doing better.

[@ravenswood118]

I'm not giving any of these men excuses because their behavior is unconscionable, and I've never gone that far. But for the record, I know you feel "fully conscious" now as a person in her 20s cause that's all you've ever experienced. With every passing decade, you feel MORE conscious. In your 30s, if you grow as a human being like you're supposed to, you're going to see how dumb you were in your 20s. Or the ways in which you were acting from your trauma, which you hopefully correct as you get older. Anyway, Timbaland and Timberlake are old so obviously they still suck as human beings. They haven't even improved, they're still acting like misogynists.

[@mrbrave29]

Your channel is too 1 sided.

[@harmoneysmind]

How? I literally just watched a video of her holding woman accountable.

[@drakim2]

Gender wars

[@tone1245]

Pays the bills. Let her rock

[@cameronfields9350]

Putting out a lot of negative energy sweetheart

[@cmk2278]

Block her page and keep it moving sir.

[@cocoapeach]

Gaslighting.