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[@iluuvcheeze]

Dan: 45:29 Phil: 7:45 Both valid, just people have different story's👌🏻

[@chibimaster7819]

teared up a bit I think

[@hayleyz3578]

stories*

[@iluuvcheeze]

@@user-nv3sh5jh3p i think yes...? Well i hope so at least. Maybe next vid will be "giving the people what they want part 2"

[@iluuvcheeze]

@@hayleyz3578 oops

[@Vincisomething]

Eugene: a whole ass dance number 🤣

[@lindseyfuller1030]

dan- its ok to be you. labels dont have to define you phil- hot shirtless guy wanna kiss

[@beepcat3760]

Lindsey Fuller LMFAOOOOO

[@fru1tpunk965]

LMAO

[@fangurks]

@Cheese Whiz Twenty One Pilots!

[@hedaya8094]

i still think about this comment regularly and wheeze

[@goopster8956]

MOOD

[@danidkg4071]

you're so brave for coming out as a ginger

[@autumn3978]

HAHA

[@annagraham6204]

Finally one that deserves props.

[@audzbxn6278]

phil's ex-girlfriend: **kisses phil** phil: sO GEOGRAPHY HOMEWORK

[@zayalorin9491]

why are there no replies 😂 i love this comment

[@audzbxn6278]

@@zayalorin9491 tHANK YOU for reminding me this comment exists omg I completely forgot about it- wait how did I get that many likes lmaooo. also, thanks!! :)))

[@zayalorin9491]

@@audzbxn6278 aw np lmaooo

[@audzbxn6278]

@@zayalorin9491

[@mirroreclipsed3954]

I cackled

[@jessb7592]

“I had some girlfriends” Correction “2 for awhile” Correction “One week each”

[@miagillispie1177]

Jess B me (a lesbian): i’ve had some boyfriends correction “2 boyfriends” correction “that both lasted a week at most”

[@sydnyethescienceguy1059]

Dan: posts 45 minute video going into deep detail about his childhood Phil: Man me too 🏳️‍🌈 UPDATE // why does this have so many likes 0-0

[@nervous_ghost]

I love how dan was probably the one to film Phil in the wardrobe

[@rowieowo]

Honestly I don't know why people aren't talking about the fact that it could have been Dan that giggled in the background smh

[@cryptidliam8452]

The lack of movement makes me think a tripod?

[@kmations4049]

Emo Snof i know i was thinking that

[@NightsLeaf]

why do you care more about dan in a video that isnt about him

[@julianapaul1244]

Leaf & Watermelon you are the only person I have seen say something and I respect that

[@finnfire2038]

When you suddenly remember Dan going on a 5 min rant on how he loved ginger hair

[@tiffanyascencio9269]

100th like:>

[@finnfire2038]

Tiffany Ascencio thx usually I don’t get passed 3

[@clayrin52]

Didn't the guy he liked in his class have blue eyes too?

[@foyi707]

Isabel Weaver they didn't go to school together Phil is from the north Dan isnt stop shipping them theyre real people

[@clayrin52]

@@foyi707 I know but in Dan's vid he talks about liking a boy with blue eyes

[@GreenTea_98]

Dan: 45 minute emotional rollercoaster Phil: 7 minutes of "i jUsT WAnnA KiSs DudEs."

[@sleepy_royal]

True to themselves, as always

[@secretlythebatman]

Lmaoo

[@faymontes8585]

I LOVE IT

[@castielbillius]

Tyler-ann H buttttt it’s in perfect style for both of them..!!

[@seanrobertson6586]

I love it

[@heathergunn9235]

Dan: comes out Me: oh okay Phil: comes out Me: oh okay

[@mishapenmoonmoth]

**wipes away tear** *it’s been 9 months and i’m still so proud of him*

[@kailye1017]

**wipes away tear** its been a year, and i still think that it was just a fever dream that we all collectively had that dnp ACTUALLY came out

[@mishapenmoonmoth]

Logan Roof *imagine still being ignorant in 2020*

[@witchyneko3232]

Sounds like you birthed him lmao

[@lysscummins3881]

Logan Roof why are you mentioning politics...

[@burnttoast6629]

OMG HELLO FELLOW 5SOS FAN-

[@JamiesaurRoyale]

Phil: “I’m gay :3” Me: so proud of you for coming out! Phil: “my hair isn’t naturally black!” Me: OH SHI-

[@peepeepoopoo2259]

I was literally more surprised that his hair wasn’t naturally black than the fact that he’s gay, but I’m sure we were-

[@trademistakes4439]

REMINGTON AND EMERSON !!!

[@lostsouls1919]

Dan: a whole lecture

[@milk_bread1592]

RUBBISH! (From the internet is here)

[@tatianawifall9713]

@JacketSlutThatsPalayeRoyaleObsessed we love some good palaye royale themed comments

[@scratchedcds]

Dan: 45 minutes of deep conversation about being accepted in a society _Phil: heyimgayitsprettygreatkbye_

[@previouslyalien759]

Exactly what I was thinking lmao

[@samfielder8789]

Kat ._.* frfr

[@aJoyous0ccasion]

exactly on brand and it’s stunning

[@doggybag77]

Ha ha thats just them

[@cruzcruise5164]

he tried his best

[@sockpudding3985]

dan: chapters, 45 min video, dark themes phil: so, men, amiright ??

[@spookyskyes7661]

RIGHT

[@samsev]

💀true

[@person1232]

IKR!

[@rivasnuria2158]

HAHHAHAHHAHAHA

[@shiroi201]

Ikr? 😂 but it's very fitting cause dan is the deep waffle-y one and phil usually keeps it light 😁

[@asafupps]

I came out to my mom by saying “i Am AtTrAcTeD tO tHe FeMaLeS”

[@asthecrowflies8944]

I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PIC MORIARTY IS BEST

[@asafupps]

@@asthecrowflies8944 Aaaa! Thank youu

[@daisy6545]

Me age 12: mum what if I liked girls My mum: just cause your friend does doesnt mean you do Me age 15 when a cute girl Walks in the room: *intense bisexual panic*

[@matildamillard5321]

Moriarty ....... yes

[@daisy6545]

Holy your pfp

[@yesitisolga3557]

i love how he talks about being gay the same way he would talk about being attacked by the squirrel - not making a big deal out of it, it's so comforting when you still struggle to accept that it's completely normal part of you, just like your hair color

[@gweener8597]

dan: I was bullied phil: I turn ginger in the sunmer

[@willhoe3272]

this video is just too much Phil being Phil

[@shelhatesyou]

i’m sorry but “sunmer” made me cackle

[@alexandra-yc3of]

he’s like edward cullen but instead turning sparkly he turns ginger

[@Bryson.c]

I was expecting it from Phil but with dan ?!?!?!?!?!!!!!?

[@nateuhhh]

This comment made me wheeze djajsjsja s u n m e r

[@soph7952]

dans video: *describes his first crush in a beautiful and poetic way* phils video: hot shirtless surfer dude kiss me

[@evapollard9657]

Me depending on who I’m talking to 😂

[@herewego02]

DEADASS

[@taestykookie4438]

HONESTLY THO

[@autumnschwiederowski3273]

And that’s their personalities

[@inkomidoriya6714]

soph same but it would be him and his gf 🏳️‍🌈

[@elizabeth.bolton]

**phil drinking out of a vase** I have to tell you somethin

[@laylawicks]

phil's friends: wow i wanna be him phil: wow i wanna kiss him phil's self induced homophobia: *stop, you have violated the law!* *edit* hi! so.. phil read this comment out in his coming out - a year later video. i just wanna let you guys know dan and phil are my heroes and i 100% love them and support with my whole heart. i'm so happy phil noticed my comment and i love him and dan so much. i thank them for being such an amazing inspiration to me and so many others in the fandom. i love u guys so much ✨

[@julia-md9bh]

Um, me

[@samanthadegroot7749]

pay the court a fine or serve your sentance!!!

[@dinosaurchickenuggets2906]

its been to long since i've seen a good brawl

[@elixa562]

He read your comment in his newest vid!

[@laylawicks]

elisa OMG NO

[@lemon_bowl1667]

“This isn’t my natural hair color...” GASP NO IM SHOOK

[@annagraham6204]

Coming out by Mel Lester. Rip his knees? Seriously doubt that.

[@anna2k_]

Guys I’ve figured it out. Phil is a house plant.he’s been drinking out of a vase for a long time... Edit: HOLY SHIT HOW THE- thanks so much for the likes

[@philipyouds3031]

You don't put House Plants in vases. Technically he'd be a floral arrangement.

[@williamfassoulis1275]

But he killed all of his plants is that murder

[@chicaquin5590]

Phil is not a house plant but he is a murderer 🤭

[@nemnyoom]

chloro-phil... internet wake up

[@ph1shbowl]

@@nemnyoom oh my god...😮

[@vibeyvibevibes]

This whole video just radiates captain holt energy and I’m living for it

[@mcbrodz1663]

Holy Namjoon give jimin some jams not rly at all

[@ctrlko0785]

Yes.

[@Skate4ypg]

Ah yes, sideboob... This was super cringy cuz I like dudes

[@avarobloxnoob]

omg yes 😭😭

[@AliAhmed-ms4fc]

Phil read your comment in his recent video

[@leomrrsh]

Me watching dans coming out: * crying intensify’s * Me watching Phil’s : * laughing intensifys *

[@tatianawifall9713]

to be fair i laughed and cried at both

[@firstnamelastname4751]

Balanced as all things should be

[@Vanda-il9ul]

Typical Phil :)

[@teddy3809]

dan: 45 mins Phil: 7 mins I feel like that sums up their personalities perfectly.

[@haylyryanlilyjane]

Ahahaha totally agree!

[@heyitsjazzi]

Hayly Ryan Lily Jane I wanted to comment something like this but you made it perfect so I’ll just agree 😂

[@WTDU456]

Daisy plocharczyk indeed it does

[@Dee-iw5yq]

Daisy plocharczyk 😂 true

[@vera_nika2]

And I like them both for that.

[@kellymcmahan2094]

Pride month: *coming to an end* Phil: *I dONT THiNK SO*

[@kellymcmahan2094]

Rebecca Lambe 🔊Phil Lester says every month is pride month

[@archerwarren4984]

Phil and Thomas Sanders lmao 😂

[@riley._.5332]

@@archerwarren4984 I was about to day the same thing 😂😂😂😂

[@renward8789]

Only Phil decides when pride month ends

[@angelaguevara9500]

Kelly McMahan Pride month is stupid

[@renward8789]

bro this is what motivated me to come out to my dad. And he’s been super supportive! He even offered to buy me a binder which is a HUGE step from how he used to respond.

[@yelena.is.my.savior1547]

Aww congrats

[@rachelwalker3017]

Yess that's amazing :,)

[@renward8789]

:) thanks yall

[@roscurro]

[@roscurro]

im so proud of you oh my godd

[@Cheeesters]

Phil: The world is becoming a better place! 2020: *exists*

[@katedoesstuffs]

BRUH

[@real_lampcap]

Oml bro 💀

[@islawinley4676]

brO

[@gabsmazzon692]

turns out the future wasn't so so bright

[@real_lampcap]

Bro you just got featured in Phil's new video. Lmao I was like I'm pretty sure I saw that comment b4 lol 😂

[@frog_teef]

Dan: *45 minute emotional video* phil: so men are hot

[@amandamakesstuff1383]

Crankthatswat lol accurate

[@moss.notpanic]

You name lmao

[@atlanticstyles]

so true lmaoo

[@poemsbypoetry]

Somehow im both of them

[@jasonc.262]

this made me laugh so hard wtf

[@laura-vq6zc]

phil did have a "crush" on buffy, which is the gayest girl crush anyone could have

[@topaz_no_life9440]

that's so very true.

[@pikagirl283]

I really admire Phil's straightforwardness, chill attitude and his one-of-a-kind creativity in this video but for real, I pressed the like button because he had the ultimately genius idea to add everyone into an MSN group chat to solve his problem. Shit, think how much drama for other people could be solved using the same way!!!

[@yelena.is.my.savior1547]

*straight*forwardness

[@boredtsarpunkfan6932]

my friend and i found an article that said "it's okay if parents react poorly to their child being lgbt, they are mourning." exsqueeze me, neither of us died the moment we announced we like girls.

[@thelivewiresofficial]

Yes we did. We died BECAUSE GIRLS ARE TOO GORGEOUS TO HANDLE

[@reesegriffin7707]

@@thelivewiresofficial HONESTLY THO

[@rainbowangel5264]

**me being straight** so... Do I leave the room or....

[@TheLadyIntegra]

aren't they mourning their hypothetical biological grandkids?

[@Sabrina-sc1db]

@@TheLadyIntegra gay people can still have kids (sure not with their partner but they can still be biological for them, not to mention, even if you have a kid and isn't your blood, that's your kid, you're raising them)

[@anklyosaurus1666]

Dan: professional, emotional video eliminating homophobia in 45 minutes. Phil: kils his knee, makes his self into memes, and tells us about his hair.

[@srisarvanichills5616]

And vase

[@pandapotato1617]

Dacey Marston I don’t think Dan eliminated homophobia, it’ll most likely always exist

[@sherridow-singleton7681]

@@pandapotato1617 facts he Weak as Hell

[@forgemakesstuff2734]

Dacey Marston And yet, somehow they both manage to make me happy in my cold, possibly bi soul

[@tmyers951]

both are valid

[@muminpappa6628]

Dan : 45 min video about his sexuality, explaining his thoughts, struggles and experiences in great detail Phil: yeah what he said

[@myahitt1247]

gjiminiegb right?!😂 they’re both precious

[@riana698]

V original

[@supeerJed]

I love how happy Phil is 🤩

[@brooke3721]

it really be like that

[@brayleemarlowe]

To the people who disliked this video, I am here to eat your shoulders

[@oftheundersea]

uH-

[@rowieowo]

I m h e r e t o u s e m y s k i n n i n g t o o l s c o m e b a c k p h i l i p

[@kailawnder9742]

i just spat violently what have you done

[@brayleemarlowe]

Kitten Butts I’m so sorry

[@morgolig6095]

I a m h e r e t o e a t y o u r k n e e c a p s

[@Victoriai-y2m]

If gay people can pretend to be straight for 18 years, each one of you can pretend to be a bit braver and ask out that one guy you met at Dunkin Doughnuts.

[@Prince_the_One]

@Sarah McKenna I liked a guy who went to my geology class in college but I waited a year to talk to him and someone else asked him out first lol 😂

[@rainbowangel5264]

I've never talked to anyone at DD except the cashier....

[@Victoriai-y2m]

@@rainbowangel5264 I believe in you, soldier

[@rainbowangel5264]

@@Victoriai-y2m the cashier was a lady. I'm a straight 15yo girl.

[@Victoriai-y2m]

@@rainbowangel5264 LMAO

[@keanou_k]

This dude literally posted this minutes before pride month ended What a way to procrastinate lmao

[@stayforthepeelpronpls4774]

Lmao so true

[@SokaRoxMySox]

Really though, can you think of anything more on brand for Phil?

[@ItsThatJo]

He's coming for Dan's brand, hahaha

[@de4830]

Keanou Kirchner I think he’s not posting because it’s pride month, just because it’s him and what he wants to say :)

[@Morning_Starr]

on brand

[@thicc_johnny_flesh4667]

Dans video: *45 minutes long, emotional, sad, happy* Phils video: *oof same.* Edit: Yo what. Thanks for the likes guys!

[@hollystar311]

LITERALLY 😂

[@sarasthoughts]

LITERALLY HOW I CAME OUT TO MY BEST FRIEND

[@faintedtoast1670]

Ikr 😂

[@wing.dingding]

I'm just realizing how sad it is that you missed the opportunity to just blow the announcement moose

[@theab3957]

Dammit!!!

[@hannahmuxlow3607]

The favourite time I came out, I was sitting at a table with some friends of mine during class and one guy was talking about going for his road test. I said, "Wow, you should totally drive me to lunch." His buddy was like "Oooh, you two, lunch together? *suggestive eyebrow raise*" I turned to him and said, "Josh honey, I'm a lesbian." We all laughed and I remember it fondly.

[@kalyanigollamudi759]

Aww, that’s sounds like such a sweet and casual way to come out!! Love this story.

[@Error_180]

the way i came out was: my friend group was playing 'sit on the pole' and someone said 'sit on the pole if youre gay' and i sat on the pole.

[@kmations4049]

I was sitting at my table and i wanted to come out as bi and my friend was supporting me and talking me through it and last minute I shouted “IMBI” and they all just walked away from the lunch table and did their daily business and said “thats fine whatever” But my mom said she failed as a parent and said if the one I married was female she wouldn’t support it so fun 👍✌️

[@tonydarcy7475]

Wow. Usually I’m just having a conversation and one of my friends ask me a question about girls and I just awkwardly say “I’m actually gay” and they stare at me like I have two heads for about 5 seconds.

[@RF-mc8cx]

@Kmations I hope things improve for you! 💕

[@sugaaakookiesss]

“My parents found out because of the people I was hanging around with and *ahem* staying the night with.” Me: Atta boy, Philly

[@m3lod3y]

they found out because he was "hoeing around"

[@fififiona_1164]

Dana Pineda I read that as he said it perfect timing

[@masterofgreymog5751]

Always knew he was my favourite ho :P

[@yesouioo]

What a lad

[@mostar1219]

Bow chicka wow wow

[@coleyblossoms1051]

Being ginger is totally fine and accepted! Don't know what those 732 dislikes are about smh.

[@kittencuddles45]

Those are the people we need to stab.

[@kailey5287]

@@kittencuddles45 agreed.

[@xjsofjdhlv7942]

Emily Winter definitely agreed

[@raspberrycrowns9494]

Ugh _Weasleys_

[@raspberrycrowns9494]

Go back to your small cottages _gingers_

[@m3tall1ca04]

I'm so glad this is in my recommendations again Phil's video: *valid* Dan's video: *valid*

[@phrog7511]

Dan: Depression, bullying, suicide attempts Phil: oH a SiDe BoOb

[@kimseungmin17]

Phil it was obvious my dude.. your eyebrows been ginger, bud..

[@tarotfiend]

Nice profile pic

[@kriaallison]

omg oops

[@charliesewell7418]

bts’ noodles 101 what eyebrows?

[@supershepherd]

Didn't notice that till now and now its bugging me

[@hedysf]

Dan's hour long video: supportive and loving comments Phil's 7 minutes video: lol he ginger

[@BeanieBae]

Let’s be honest though, this is exactly how Phil wanted it to go.

[@oldaccount5565]

I love their personalities

[@zekeisnotokayyy]

Hedysf IVE NEVER LAUGHED THIS HARD BEFORE

[@sukidakara4326]

lol he ginger

[@jadecurran1537]

True

[@kds02]

the thumbnail is so unserious😭 it makes me chuckle every rewatch

[@user-ky5bv1se2y]

Phil: and I um *cough* spent the night alot Me: WHAT

[@alexbazzelle377]

Phil's friends after he came out: "as long as you don't fancy me or anything" Phil, being the savage lad he is: "yeah you wish"

[@parise.7197]

Dan: 45 minute masterpiece Phil: 7 minute masterpiece Both Dan and Phil: ARE SUPER BRAVE TO SHARE THIS WITH US AND FILLED WITH MY LOVE AND APPRECIATION

[@vjivjvjrxtxt]

Lol 420 likes

[@mygayrats]

Phil's story was just a bit calmer 🤷‍♂️♥️♥️

[@zer0.pdf1]

wait... phil came out.. dan came out.. *W A I T*

[@ms.antithesis]

They both came out within a month of eachother, after living with eachother most of their adult lives....i mean they never disproved the fan theories

[@naomi-art-stuff]

@@zer0.pdf1 dan literally said in his video that him and phil are more than friends but they want to keep things private

[@mabel6085]

a year since this video came out and it has really helped me accept who i am so thank you. so much. we love you Phil.

[@jennifero.c5547]

"The world is gradually becoming a better place." i'm wHEEZING

[@schneckchenblau442]

@@Jordan_Dossou I mean have you lived through 2020 lol

[@schneckchenblau442]

@@Jordan_Dossou Of course the present is most of the time better than most of the past; that is why the comment above was a joke Phil said "the world is becoming a better place" in context of self love and acceptance and then a lot of people made the joke taking the "the world is becoming a better place" out of context bc 2020 was compared to 2019 a total shitshow so in that context 2020 the world did barley become a better place.

[@sundog_01]

Dan: *comes out in a 45 minute video, extremely emotional and informational* Phil: wig, same

[@Marigold11037]

Idk why but your comments out of thousands made me wheeze

[@Lpskandykat]

LMAOOOOOO

[@rainamilanowski5582]

That is me tho

[@dariofaudella3901]

@@Marigold11037 wig, same

[@prageruwu69]

oh worm

[@mayalambert1678]

Dan’s video: in-depth, emotional and lengthy Phil’s video: upbeat, short and lightHearted So proud ♥️🏳️‍🌈

[@Zelenia]

Definition of their personalities. XD

[@femke6313]

It represents their personality to a T

[@jonnae1999]

was gonna say the exact same thing hahaha. Ying and yang

[@alex-bc9sc]

" if you're gay, dont hide it away " Should I ever start a ten commandments thing, this will be the first one

[@lautaroroldanpizzorno7494]

If you're bi, you needn't be shy

[@alex-bc9sc]

@@lautaroroldanpizzorno7494 and there's the second one

[@lautaroroldanpizzorno7494]

@@alex-bc9sc glad i could help

[@jdlcaswell8489]

if you’re pan, tell everyone you can?

[@alex-bc9sc]

@@jdlcaswell8489 we have a fourth one Should I start writing these down??

[@aliyah6934]

totally unrelated but how pretty are phil's eyes oh my lord

[@akras_a]

Pride month: **about to end** Phil: not on my watch buckaroo

[@Wink-182]

Girl: *tries to kiss Phil* Phil's brain: *vOlCaNoEs*

[@Max-mf6cx]

Døbby!The PhanElf he said geography not geology you degenerate 😤😤😤

[@mcquackersd9989]

@@Max-mf6cx Depending on what the context is, it can be geography. Like "There are volcanoes in Hawaii". That would still be apart of geography. Sorry if that was just a joke and I missed it.

[@s0fthowell33]

Can we please stop comparing Dan and Phil's coming out videos..? It's a big deal for both of them and they each had there own valid points! I'm proud of them both and I'm glad they were comfortable enough to come out to us.

[@pansexual_adhd_nerd]

There needs to be a heart button for comments like this

[@s0fthowell33]

Theo Valdis Aww diebfuebdjbejf thank you ❤️

[@cuddlesandmurder]

Oh c’mon it’s funnyyy

[@natalierichmond6791]

phil 2019: the future is bright! 2020: RELEASE THE CORONA

[@alexhollinghurst3945]

I laughed far too hard at this

[@tavvy7332]

dan: posts a 45 minute long video talking about his pain and insecurities eugene: makes a breathtaking dance routine to express his own pain phil: yeehaw

[@bagels3956]

[Everyone liked that]

[@madelynk.gilmore6939]

I’m Phil

[@alecowo785]

They r all valid I'm v proud of them

[@jayswizzy4252]

Lil nas: yeehaw

[@rayrayisoncocaine8927]

it really doesn't have to be painful. for some people like phil it's just something that they realised about themselves and were able to share with the people around them that turned out to be supportive, unlike dan, for example, who wasn't that lucky and struggled a long time, so he has more to tell.

[@Giegie7]

imagine keeping a secret about your hair color for 17 years

[@BSCV123]

Uh

[@BSCV123]

Why no comments

[@strawberrylb]

i feel like he’s shared the hair color with us before djdjdj maybe i’m wrong

[@pot-ay-topot-ah-to4325]

can we take a moment to appreciate phil? because phil deserves all the love we have. there are few people with a genuine heart of gold, but he has one. i’m a fairly recent dan and phil fan, but i’m here to stay. keep being beautiful, guys

[@rebelrot9398]

i feel sad that phil felt the need to hide this from us. all of the bullying against gingers really has an effect on people's lives.

[@katie1511]

agreed

[@valeria-qs5ux]

Yup

[@morganlund2185]

We never asked for this

[@m4rz585]

I agree.

[@m4rz585]

@@morganlund2185 shush child.

[@brisklyy]

James Charles: wow I’m such a pride icon ❤️❤️ Dan and Phil: Hold our Capri suns

[@alexbazzelle377]

*ribena

[@brisklyy]

MysteriousPsychology *innocent fruit juice

[@rach3555]

Dan: *existential crisis* Phil: *house plant*

[@brisklyy]

rachel 12 Dan: never ending void of depression and existentialism Phil: Mousy brown

[@ranibelcher1347]

Yass

[@frankie6597]

this is very off topic but imma say it anyway because i just realized it: Phil has the reindeer candle on display that Dan gave to him years ago. Goodbye.

[@julia_biss]

Dan: a 45 minute emotional video Phil: *sips from a vase* k e e p i t l o w k e y

[@veronicathompson257]

Dan: *has a whole documentary about his sexuality* Phil: I like men, cya later

[@-v-4249]

Right

[@madelyn2064]

I love this, haha! Also, sooo proud of the both!! ❤💛💚💙💜

[@lurker784]

Madelyn HAHAAHAHAHAH

[@Doink935]

😂😂😂😭

[@ravensteward40]

FOR REAL 😂

[@HeyItsSae]

Dan's video: coloured meaningful lighting, long conversations, silly jokes Phil's video: sexual vibes everywhere, guysguysguysguys, /sideboob/ They literally switched

[@celestezees6344]

my two moods

[@lemon_squeezed]

Are... when... Did they swap personalities or something?? 😂😂

[@NosemanYT]

its like they switched personalities

[@NIKITANIKITA97486]

@@NosemanYT obviously they havent but it feels like it.. notsoinnocentphil

[@NosemanYT]

@@NIKITANIKITA97486 big agree. i feel like he's slowly starting to become more phil lester and not-so amazingphil. which is good, because he's showing his true colours, and being himself.

[@pot-ay-topot-ah-to4325]

phil: comes out to family via msn dan: comes out to family via email yep, soulmates

[@iamporkychops]

the black hair dye is so obvious looking back with his lil mousy brown brows 😭😭

[@mle_mae]

Also, this explains why Dan and Phil were so terrible at getting Dil a girlfriend in Sims.

[@missgabbysue9046]

Ha true

[@cephi]

*it all makes sense now*

[@caylensparrow9578]

This literally the best comment.

[@chiary.is.not.amazing5760]

@@cephi hits different

[@therealdanielsenior]

😂😂

[@didibeck11]

dan: 45 min sad story read seriously phil: 15 min meme story of gayness

[@rhlou1184]

7* :)

[@jadetrolland8095]

Actually half that😂

[@jamiemika5485]

It is the contrast we need

[@elysian3730]

I am a 15 minute meme story of gayness

[@guapa7708]

7:45*

[@eejit2730]

The worst thing is that your expected to come out. People presume your straight and you have to say your not. You shouldn’t be presumed as anything except human, even then, be wary lel

[@fru1tpunk965]

and that's on living in a heteronormative society 😗✌️

[@Misty-eq8rx]

This!!! Like I wish everyone just knew and I didn’t have to say cos that invited drama and convos I just wanna liveeee 😭😭

[@lautaroroldanpizzorno7494]

@@Misty-eq8rx That's why I wear a rainbow bracelet

[@user-ss9de1wt9q]

Dan: An elaborate 45 minute explanation... Phil: Wow! I wanna kiss him.

[@pulchrachao]

"I thought I'd grow out of it" *voice deepens* I did not. I grew INTO it.

[@haileybate5472]

Magical Soul ok but that was me once i finally accepted my sexuality

[@rascally_fiend]

the fact that this isn’t trending is a federal crime

[@mrskitkats]

Read this as “feral crime”

[@rascally_fiend]

Lila Italian Last Name yeah that too

[@atkuruamrutha9531]

Ikr!!

[@Emeraldghost]

FaCts

[@jas_003]

RIGHT

[@gaysrnotvalid3368]

I came out to my dad when he was yelling at me. I so desperately wanted to get him to stop yelling at me so I yelled back "IM A LESBIAN, FATHER." and he replied "I DONT GIVE A SHIT CLEAN YOUR ROOM."

[@JamaicanRain]

Literally the best coming out story I have ever heard. 😄

[@Vanda-il9ul]

One of the most accepting parents 🤣🤣🤣

[@jaydengarcia]

rewatching this brings me so much comfort

[@alapacuk247]

dan: *makes a long powerful video about his sexuality* phil: b^tch me too

[@longlivethegays]

(8) the fuck (8)

[@WTDU456]

True

[@ishipitfan1256]

Yessss just yessss

[@Maria-xg5rp]

the fucc

[@formlesscorvid5336]

Yes

[@valerienguyen7508]

Wow when he said his video about his sexuality would be low-key and short, he wasn't kidding lol

[@DieAlteistwiederda]

That's why I like him though. He just doesn't make a big deal out of anything most people would make a bigger deal out of

[@inuyashabombom]

I love him

[@codybl]

ITS BEEN FOUR YEARS???? I SWEAR HE JUST CAME OUT LAST YEAR

[@kailye1017]

one year ago oNe YEaR aGo ONE YEAR AGO ôñé yèár ågø ØÑÊ YÊÃR ĀGÒ

[@rainbowangel5264]

I see you're screaming at how the past is growing.

[@Whitemocha-eg]

I can’t believe most people didn’t know Phil was ginger

[@speni4]

ikr

[@anniebellec]

Yeah I've literally known forever

[@kelseyfriend1726]

Eryn Ronaldson honestly yeah. Ginger roots in vids where his hair has grown out. Also the song from II where he says “he’s secretly a ginge”

[@bianxanicole8395]

his eyebrows say it all

[@bluejay8422]

@@kelseyfriend1726 Pretty sure he's referenced it a few times really fast?

[@melomelo6331]

dan’s sexual awakening: those deep emotional eyes, i wanna understand him phil: kissy kiss muscle boiii

[@flaurelmusic]

Melo Melo 🤣💪🏻

[@Listen2WhatISay]

I SNORTED

[@quinn9037]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@yesouioo]

My god, it’s so true too

[@kokisaichi]

*_I WHEEzed_*

[@arthur1428]

Me: watching this for the fifth time Phil: until one fateful day... Me: ***gasp*** Phil: one of my friends found me Me:***double gasp***

[@rachelwalker3017]

Accurate! I'm like he sent to everyone whattttt

[@alicetreen1014]

Don't worry I watch this like everyday and still gasp

[@larascott5636]

I appreciate videos like this. It's so calm and chill. It makes me, a young scared gay, realise that one day, maybe one day; I'll be okay. Maybe one day I'll be able to talk about my own sexuality without wanting to cry.

[@lautaroroldanpizzorno7494]

You will. Love to you

[@alexhollinghurst3945]

Power to you 💜

[@mary-claire906]

The 513 people that disliked this are just mad at the fact that he’s a ginger.

[@katylepetsos7512]

Or homophobes.

[@alysno]

Katy Lepetsos nope just ginger haters

[@MidnightMeka]

or they think that he will see their names since hardly anyone else has disliked it. but little do they know that its an anonymous number. they wont get noticed yeet serves them right

[@moshimode]

Gingerphobia

[@BTSARMY-nk4rz]

@@moshimode ✊😔

[@Jennifer-lr5xp]

phil uploading this on the last day of pride month is iconic behavior

[@sarahjenkins1026]

Jennifer Zent iconic procrastination 💀😂 I love him lmao

[@Jennifer-lr5xp]

it's also peak aquarius behavior

[@whoknows9385]

Phil's guy friends: God, I wish I was in his shoes Phil: haha yeah Phil internally: God, i wish i was in his pants

[@capitalistmary]

It’s been one year since he told us that he was Ginger 🥺

[@frenchtoast6792]

Phil: 2 girlfriends _Shysexyalice_ : *am I a joke to you?*

[@qualiie]

dans video: 45 minutes phils video: 7 minutes the tea: *both are equally valid you sporks*

[@taliab70]

I believe you mean *sporks not forks :)

[@qualiie]

@@taliab70 yesss haha

[@sol503]

@little toad its a sPORK-

[@jordyn2442]

little toad hahaha I thought of that too

[@jackinblack19]

People who un ironically say “the tea” don’t deserve human rights

[@elijah5656]

"is he gay.... or european?"

[@nevermindneverland6031]

he's gay AND EUROPEAN (*wHat*)

[@thelivewiresofficial]

@@nevermindneverland6031 AND NEITHER IS DISGRACE

[@theab3957]

I thought he was amewican

[@allyj3637]

I'm so upset that he lied to us for so long !!! How could he not tell us that black isn't his natural hair color?!

[@allyj3637]

(I'm joking)

[@wholetmeonhere]

I was so upset when he said that 👁👄👁

[@jasmine-km2lv]

girl: i bet hes thinking about other girls... phil: _so geography homework_

[@Izzy-cr8kt]

jasmine omg star kid and true

[@jasmine-km2lv]

MysticMelodies i love starkid ahh

[@Elismusic1032]

Sing the beginning of moana D:

[@nerdynat6847]

weirdtheatrenerd it’s the cirrrrcle of life

[@joeythatonephanloser7650]

Haha

[@Mia-wz4xo]

Dan: 45 minute video Phil: 7 minutes video And we love both of them just as much

[@ediepryll4651]

They had completely different experiences which is wild. Dan grew up with most of his peers not accepting him, whereas Phil's peers were generally more accepting

[@Mia-wz4xo]

@@ediepryll4651 I know, the comment was ment to show how even though they came out differently and have gone through different things, we still love them just as much (this is meant non sarcastically)

[@Mia-wz4xo]

@Libra's Library phils was so chaiotic it was wonderful

[@clemmoore7175]

Is it just me that thinks Dan is quietly sat behind the camera on our left/ Phil's right? just bc Phil keeps looking that way and I reckon he needs a bit more emotional support than he lets on

[@kailye1017]

this- this comment is beautiful

[@stardustlizzie]

That makes me soft, the thought of Dan just there smiling at him in a "you got this" way 🥺

[@marshall9003]

He probably would’ve laughed at Phil saying “it was thirst” and I would’ve 🥺

[@pot-ay-topot-ah-to4325]

i rewatched it and i agree, it does look like he glances over there a lot and i find it really sweet

[@rainbowangel5264]

Dark but light. Why do gay people deal with such a fight.....

[@scarlettbat]

u ever get emotional about how lion is chilling down there in the corner? after all those years, still part of his videos? especially this one? i do . . . :')

[@cheeseisherelive753]

Wait I genuinely didn’t notice before 🥺❤️

[@TheQueerTailor]

Dan: 45 minute essay with illustrations Phil: just eight minutes of being wholesome

[@brayermoth]

Leah Sauter Dan faced a more complex struggle and did something artful and very true to him. Phil’s story wasn’t something he felt needed the depth that Dan gave. Both are lovely and I’m proud and happy for them