How I’ve been surviving being SINGLE

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AmbersCloset

AmbersCloset

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@HannaSirotsky
@HannaSirotsky 5 жыл бұрын
Being alone , it's the best gift you can give to yourself after a breakup.
@disabledaccount292
@disabledaccount292 5 жыл бұрын
Not for me I just want my ex back cause the how it ended was just not right I just need her she's PERFECT for me and I'm pretty sure I am perfect for her basically we are PERFECT for each other we have never even fought in a whole year and yeah we were together for one year but I felt like it was only a week and no I don't miss a relationship and love I just miss HER ! 😢😢😢
@myuna6378
@myuna6378 5 жыл бұрын
I can tell you, being single is way better than being in a relationship with the wrong person. some relationships can be emotionally draining, damaging. My opinion. being single is not hard can be liberating
@Renee-ms6di
@Renee-ms6di 5 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@heyjavonnejay
@heyjavonnejay 5 жыл бұрын
I love what you said about differentiation a habits vs. needs. I think the hardest part about coming out of a relationship is breaking habits. A lot of times we may confuse “needing” someone with being USED to someone. And you know what they say “old habits die hard”. I like to think of singlehood as a time to reconnect with myself and start new habits of my own. It’s a time to discover things about yourself that you wouldn’t in a relationship due to groupthink. Also it’s Reaaaaaally important that we give ourselves a nice break between relationships. Serial monogamy can be just as detrimental for self as cheating imo. Great video Amber!
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 5 жыл бұрын
Pangea Soul 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@blackkman
@blackkman 5 жыл бұрын
I believe the keep theme of the video was habits vs. needs. I hope many people will get that part. You wrote a good comment too.
@SKYYLOVE
@SKYYLOVE 5 жыл бұрын
*love & light to everyone reading this* 🦋
@Starringstormy
@Starringstormy 5 жыл бұрын
Literally going through this now... after two years I've come to realize I may be single forever. The older you get the harder it run into your soulmate. However, I've became comfortable and okay with being alone.
@ArpitaGhosh89
@ArpitaGhosh89 5 жыл бұрын
Same here. I can't hold relationships down, and I am now learning to accept singlehood.
@k.5089
@k.5089 4 жыл бұрын
It's gonna be okay.
@HomemakerDaze
@HomemakerDaze Жыл бұрын
3 years ago, bet you've found someone now? It's hard and easy being single..
@Renee-ms6di
@Renee-ms6di 5 жыл бұрын
I myself love being single. There's so much in life to do,see,explore and create without being in a relationship. There's friends and family that accompany me if needed and there is no tied down feeling of commitment to go along with it. I feel you have to find yourself first. I have so much fun being single! Good luck to you!
@allytaylor123
@allytaylor123 5 жыл бұрын
As someone whose going through a 7 year break up right now, I needed this video. This is all exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you Amber for being a real one.
@t.lunaimhotepmdiv135
@t.lunaimhotepmdiv135 5 жыл бұрын
Wheeeeeeewww chile... all of this. I've been single for a year, first time this long since 17. And I've definitely done traveling, learning a new language, building my business, focusing on my health, not dating, building a spiritual maintenance system, creating happiness in my life. I agree I'm still in the process. It's not easy but I've truly fallen in love with me. So 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 to you Amber!
@jhonnieb334
@jhonnieb334 5 жыл бұрын
Me watching this also single asf 😂😂😭
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 5 жыл бұрын
Jhøññïê B 🤣🤣we out here🙌🏽✊🏽
@xx.m7495
@xx.m7495 5 жыл бұрын
same here bruh 😂
@igirly123
@igirly123 5 жыл бұрын
right i'm like girl me too tf
@EdwardSanchezProductions
@EdwardSanchezProductions 5 жыл бұрын
Being single can be easy and hard at the same time
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 5 жыл бұрын
Edward Sanchez Productions YUP!
@xx.m7495
@xx.m7495 5 жыл бұрын
Yes it is !!!
@captainsisko7629
@captainsisko7629 5 жыл бұрын
❓❓🤔 been single for 37 years, you guys seen very strange to me🤨🤨🤨
@bad_torres3333
@bad_torres3333 Жыл бұрын
@@AmbersCloset d7fufur7hhfufufufu
@bad_torres3333
@bad_torres3333 Жыл бұрын
@@AmbersCloset xfyhygugugugijjkjkguy7y
@amayakay
@amayakay 5 жыл бұрын
Being a shy single introvert is so hard to find someone
@Sacred_Heart333
@Sacred_Heart333 5 жыл бұрын
www.pinterest.com/pin/785878203706912779/
@cassanova516
@cassanova516 5 жыл бұрын
It really is I can relate to this. One thing that helped me in the past was finding myself and loving myself completely! I worked on me and invested in myself mentally, physically and financially. Over time I gained the confidence to go out and socialize and have fun.
@amayakay
@amayakay 5 жыл бұрын
@@cassanova516 I'm trying to step out of my comfort zone and I think its working a little it's just going to take me some time and I'm a patient woman so I have time for the right one to come my way
@cassanova516
@cassanova516 5 жыл бұрын
amayakay definitely..good luck on your journey
@amayakay
@amayakay 5 жыл бұрын
@@cassanova516 thank you sweetie
@cecilia8015
@cecilia8015 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Amber, It is just the opposite for me I’ve been single so long that, that is my comfort zone. It feels weird to be with someone. But I love it when it happens.
@helloaanu
@helloaanu 5 жыл бұрын
Cecilia Sameeeee
@sad-happy7043
@sad-happy7043 5 жыл бұрын
Same. I agree its weird n' am comfortable
@Renee-ms6di
@Renee-ms6di 5 жыл бұрын
Totally comfortable being single
@felistuswambua5449
@felistuswambua5449 5 жыл бұрын
You're one of the most honest people I have come across ,exceptional human being...Please never change, love you and wish you nothing but the very best! !
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 5 жыл бұрын
felistus wambua thank you😩❤️🙏🏽
@evelinenangura6501
@evelinenangura6501 5 жыл бұрын
A lot of people usually musk the pain or loneliness with alcohol or rebounds cos they don't want to feel that. Allow yourself to feel... also I'm single
@actuallykaren850
@actuallykaren850 5 жыл бұрын
I love being single, there's so many perks, I'm not sure if il be ready for a relationship for years yet, it's best to be that way Chin up, it gets better and it's fun too 😃😃
@kadykayeanna1624
@kadykayeanna1624 5 жыл бұрын
Our girl amber ♥️ I appreciate you keeping it real, alot of us go through stuff that we think need to be kept a secret.👍🏻to you for always making us know that it's ok to do what makes us happy, and shi** just figure it out. Nuff love 🇯🇲🇨🇦
@imcharmed4evr
@imcharmed4evr 5 жыл бұрын
kady kaye Anna, fix the word “a lot”, then delete my annoying correction. Most people make it one word, when it’s two.
@astoldbynekki5400
@astoldbynekki5400 5 жыл бұрын
Im not 100 single at this moment, but I know its coming and this video was right on time. As usual ur videos are right on time. However I am some what looking forward to it. Im moving into my new place on Nov 1st. Right before my birthday and I am looking forward to 2020. You seem like such a great person Amber. U got this. Now let me get back to the video.
@kaygeechoshi4403
@kaygeechoshi4403 5 жыл бұрын
You doing great Amber, don't rush the process. It's ok not be ok sometimes. Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦
@KatMoleZA
@KatMoleZA 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Kaygee, oa phela😉
@kaygeechoshi4403
@kaygeechoshi4403 4 жыл бұрын
@@KatMoleZA I'm good and you?
@KatMoleZA
@KatMoleZA 4 жыл бұрын
@@kaygeechoshi4403 Good thanks. Live in Jozi, but originally from East Rand. Wanna chat, friend vibes!?
@kaygeechoshi4403
@kaygeechoshi4403 4 жыл бұрын
@@KatMoleZA cool, I'm from Pretoria
@KatMoleZA
@KatMoleZA 4 жыл бұрын
@@kaygeechoshi4403 mkatleho219@gmail.com say, "hi" when you are free.
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 5 жыл бұрын
Make sure you check out The Weekend Soirée!! I hope to see you! What other topics would u like me to talk about?
@ashleyluhvv5244
@ashleyluhvv5244 5 жыл бұрын
I really needed to watch this video . . I’m single now and having to realize that I’m not doing anything healthy. . I need to be okay with being alone . Thank you Amber ♥️
@Lucia-cc4br
@Lucia-cc4br 5 жыл бұрын
I'm single for the first time in years and I'm so happy that you made this. I've made it a point to stay single for real this time and I'm inspired by your tenacity and strength. It makes me believe that I can do it and grow as well!
@leratolekhooamaluka1435
@leratolekhooamaluka1435 5 жыл бұрын
Being alone after a breakup is the best thing you could have ever done for yourself. I believe that you both could do with space and time to discover self, to grow separately, to realise like you say things that you do as habits and things that you do as a need or your reality. You being able to talk about this the way that you are speaking right now really show maturity and a great person that you are. Truth be told, some of us are still hoping you two could find each other again as twin flames🤷🏽‍♀️❤. Who knows what the future holds? 😅 Much love for you Amber. Stay amazing. 😗✌🏽
@buciezulu1516
@buciezulu1516 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video Amber ❤ I've also been single for a while and it's comforting to know that I'm not alone in this. You're a gem💎 Sending love all the way from South Africa 🤗 🇿🇦
@blackkman
@blackkman 5 жыл бұрын
I have to say this has to be one of the best video you have broadcast in your history. The way you enlighten the audience and talked about your journey from a breakup to being single for an extended period of time. Yes, people have the habit that they are afraid to be alone and have the habit to jump into a new "relationship" quickly. I hope this video could help many women and men to heal. And take a long break and fight the temptation that "I need to be in a relationship". Relax, enjoy yourself and prepare yourself to be a better version from the last upgrade of you... Thank you for the sharing!!!
@trinity115
@trinity115 4 жыл бұрын
Am in the same boat as you and the best thing really is re-discovering who you really are and what you really want. And also going on a date with myself. For example I decided to take myself to the movies yesterday and let me tell you- I enjoyed the whole experience so much that I was literally crying going back home because I was so happy :) . Love and light to you and such a beautiful soul cannot stay forever single ;) !
@glindaford6417
@glindaford6417 5 жыл бұрын
Being single really sucks my girl and I was single for two years before we got back together we knew we belong together once someone tattoos your heart it's not easy trying to be with someone else we both tried new relationships but we only ended up hurting those people I feel bad about that because I knew in my heart that my girl and I was going to get back together it is what it is destiny we were better together than we have ever been apart
@glindaford6417
@glindaford6417 5 жыл бұрын
@Alysia Williams I agree when you know you know the heart really doesn't lie
@pamhdz.4803
@pamhdz.4803 5 жыл бұрын
Way to keep it 💯...i hear you on everything that you've mentioned. Being single is very hard...but I think you did your mind and soul a favor to just find yourself and just heal. Thanks for sharing and continue to stay balanced.💕💕
@niy8646
@niy8646 5 жыл бұрын
If amber wasn't a KZbinr she would be a therapist or phycologist she even gives good advice to herself
@jaslyfe
@jaslyfe 5 жыл бұрын
uwu owo psychologist
@Sacred_Heart333
@Sacred_Heart333 5 жыл бұрын
www.pinterest.com/pin/785878203706912779/
@KatMoleZA
@KatMoleZA 4 жыл бұрын
So disagree. Stumbled on this for the first time. She is super super angry. She would make a not good psychologist.
@kimberlymassiah6662
@kimberlymassiah6662 3 жыл бұрын
Motivational speaker
@nontobekomajola3334
@nontobekomajola3334 3 жыл бұрын
Everything I'm going through. I loved the advice about doing something different. That's what I'm doing next, getting out of my comfort zone. I'm looking forward to your upcoming videos.
@chelseabruce5675
@chelseabruce5675 5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video, I thought I was losing myself. Listening to this I realize I'm finally finding the "just me" version of me. I've been single single for a little under a year. Anyone who is starting this journey, keep pushing thru the tough days, the rewards are better than anything. 💪🏾🧡
@childofgod9893
@childofgod9893 5 жыл бұрын
I missed a video like this so much ❤ a life update and you talkin' bout what you're going through. Letting ourselves going through it is a huge thing. That's the only thing that actually helps us get through it. ❤
@MsMasonification
@MsMasonification 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been married 21 years and I couldn’t imagine going back to the current single life struggles! Y’all are some real G’s. ❤️ I commend your growth and new outlook on your life!! #StayAmazing
@_serenity3298
@_serenity3298 5 жыл бұрын
You're blessed. I'm the opposite right now and can't imagine life being better not being single. I love my alone time and don't really want to share it. But I guess that's just a sign of how I've been in some bad past relationships actually.
@Piecesoftheshadow
@Piecesoftheshadow 5 жыл бұрын
_Serenity The right relationship will allow you to still have that alone time and be with your best friend. It's amazing when it's right.
@vickikendricks
@vickikendricks 5 жыл бұрын
Being single isn't hard being newly single is hard!
@theplantainchiplover
@theplantainchiplover 4 жыл бұрын
yes, singleness isn't hard it's the break up!
@shanajimenez7435
@shanajimenez7435 3 жыл бұрын
Came across this video and ai just wanted to say Thank you for this video and your honesty. Even though I am married I can definitely say that I am a person that felt as if she had to be in a relationship and then after awhile you realize that you don’t and you have to learn how to love yourself fully and know that it’s okay to be alone. I have grown into someone that is learning that whatever happens in life whether I’m married or not it’s good to just live life by yourself if needed.
@adcoconuts6710
@adcoconuts6710 5 жыл бұрын
Amberrrrrrrr! This is bomb! Book deal alert 🙌🏽🙌🏽😎 I love the growth that evolves from heart sore seasons. Those are the type that become a lifestyle. Stay amazing Amber, will definitely be looking out for new vid Thursday✌🏽
@johanpatricio1742
@johanpatricio1742 5 жыл бұрын
The message I needed to hear right now. Just got out of an 11 year relationship. A peaceful breakup too but month in now... I am processing it all and trying different things now.
@jessgrisel9277
@jessgrisel9277 5 жыл бұрын
Amber this video means so much to me. I completely understand everything you are saying. I was in a bad relationship for almost 2 years and I completely lost who I was. I became so co dependent in this relationship, I lost my goals, my dreams, and put my ex girlfriend higher than I ever put myself. I broke up with her and it was the hardest but the best decision I ever made for myself. It took me being alone and loving myself again to finally be happy. I realize I don’t need anyone to make me happy, I can make myself happy. 2 years later I am still struggling but it has gotten easier. I’ve been able to find new passions , and put my dreams first. It takes time and there are truly some days where you just want to break down and call your ex because you don’t think you’re strong enough and you think you need them to comfort you but for anybody going through this you are so much stronger than you realize and you will get through it and it’s going to be hard but before you know it you will be so much happier in the end
@starflame3780
@starflame3780 5 жыл бұрын
Your notification pop up at 3:33pm I been alone for a long time myself ..and I keep having ex lovers pop up and I'm like nope. it's a reason why we are not together. Keep in mind it's a difference from being alone and not lonely. Stay up .
@emma8722
@emma8722 5 жыл бұрын
I felt this to the bone. Thank you.
@pinklightsaber
@pinklightsaber 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is incredibly relatable. Her and I still keep in touch, still care for one another, and we both are growing as individuals. We both hope that the universe will bring us back together. It has been so damn difficult but I also feel it is very much needed. Like somehow this time apart from each other will make us stronger to either give it another shot or move forward. I'm just hoping we get to try again.
@savannahquintana6532
@savannahquintana6532 5 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm proud of you! Not a lot of people nowadays cant come to this conclusion by themselves. Its nuts but you figured it out! Not everyone needs that other person there to over come this. You can do that on your own or with friends. And giving self love is very important along with talking yourself up to do different things than you're not used to. Being able to get back to being you! I'm proud of you!
@ooohbaybeesweetz
@ooohbaybeesweetz 5 жыл бұрын
I’m not single but I felt this !!! I just love your videos ! Your so down to earth and honest . Sometimes it takes being alone to realize how special you are . Trust me I know
@thay827
@thay827 5 жыл бұрын
Girllll, the line "is anyone really single" in lesbian dating was so real!! Looking forward to more content. Its hard out here
@norasimahabdulrahman3
@norasimahabdulrahman3 5 жыл бұрын
Does that mean lesbians couldnt be in a monogamous relationship and will prone to cheating?
@enjolim.4778
@enjolim.4778 5 жыл бұрын
No it means they don't know how to really break up and let go. Staying friends with benefits, being in a situationship...I know because I'm in a situationship with my "GF" LMAO
@robynadams8462
@robynadams8462 5 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I've gone through this past year. Only, I've put it all into my writing. Hearing it out loud from another human being is amazing. We've got this! Love and light xx
@AuthetnicEpicBoom
@AuthetnicEpicBoom 5 жыл бұрын
I’m happy for you! You got to the journey with be alone is ok! Knowing yourself again! And all the changes you made! We all have are great lesson! This is soooooooo major! ❤️💯🔥
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 5 жыл бұрын
AuthetnicEpicBoom! Thank you🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽
@AuthetnicEpicBoom
@AuthetnicEpicBoom 5 жыл бұрын
Ambers Closet Your welcome
@ER_Channel_00
@ER_Channel_00 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Amber. 😊🧡 Glad you getting better. Sorry for the out-of-context request, please do a video on how to get over having a crush on a straight girl.
@rachelcouch8209
@rachelcouch8209 5 жыл бұрын
Ok so all of this hit me right where I am right now. All of this is exactly where I am right now. Down to the travel thing. Bruh thank you for your insight. I have followed you for the last 5 years and this has made more of an impact on me then most of your other videos....i am now single fml again and needed this more then anything. Thank you Amber ....you fucking rock! Staying woke....
@francescatelford9653
@francescatelford9653 5 жыл бұрын
In relationship atm but this vid still helps me cause if Amber feels this way n survives I can to if this ever happens so I got nothing to fear! Amber u genius!!
@reneemarie87
@reneemarie87 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! I’m going through a very tough breakup that didn’t end in bad terms. Being in a new place with no family or friends, it’s hard to let go. It feels good to hear how others are processing. It truly helps 💜💜💜💜
@annasantos7840
@annasantos7840 5 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled upon this late but honestly yes it’s very hard,especially when it wasn’t a bad break up it just felt like the most logical thing to do but still hurt regardless .You’re always upfront about the realest shit! Appreciate this vid 🗣
@annettef3297
@annettef3297 5 жыл бұрын
It sounds like you are already growing and turning the end of the relationship into a good experience for you and doing what you wanted to achieve by separating. I wish you both happiness together or separately. ♥️
@jolienspigt6617
@jolienspigt6617 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you 😪😪😪 best heartbreak video ever!! Ive been trying to get over someone for almost 2 years now and looked everywhere for tips and tricks.. and this is sooo helpful! So smart and inspirational!! Thank you.. ❤
@VeronicaaaBrown
@VeronicaaaBrown 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I went thro my emotions, I know exactly how you feel. Lol.. been almost a year and I’m kind of happy this is going the way it’s going.. realizing I’m single single is actually... nice
@sincerelydevanie
@sincerelydevanie 5 жыл бұрын
🤧 You did a phenomenal job with this video. I’m sure there is tons of people in the world who can relate. Thank you for being transparent. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@GLesbihonest
@GLesbihonest 5 жыл бұрын
Love the color add in wardrobe! Shit! I've been single for a minute because folks are just shady. I have to protect my energy. I'm better single than being with someone who's dishonest. I keep meditating and know one day that person who is right for me will come alone. I refuse to keep settling for less. I've regained my vision of what I'm worth. I see some fine ass folks but I'm not attracted to their energy and I just can't...got to keep it moving. I need their energy to be aligned with my energy and to be about something positive in their life. You're doing great and will get what you need when it's for you. Stay blessed!
@lalepop83
@lalepop83 5 жыл бұрын
Really needed this! Thank you for your honesty and openness to share. You have a new fan in me 🙌🏽✌🏽
@leandratarin7620
@leandratarin7620 5 жыл бұрын
Today I had a break up with my ex. Watching this made me feel a little more peaceful inside. Thank you Amber!!!
@CD-mb5os
@CD-mb5os 5 жыл бұрын
I am so shook cause everything you're saying is my exact experience coming out of a long-term relationship with my ex gf. Thank you for being so vulnerable and honest and making me feel less alone
@TxGirl_ty
@TxGirl_ty 5 жыл бұрын
The struggle is real! I’ve been single for a year now and now live alone and it’s definitely different. It sucks because I do get lonely a lot but I’m learning how to be content being alone.
@michellepalmatobar2550
@michellepalmatobar2550 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I found this video when I became single in 2018. I love being affectionate, and I miss that when I became single. Sleeping alone was the worst. It took me a while to be able to sleep because I got used to cuddling. In a way, I'm glad everything happened since I genuinely found myself again after separating. Coming out of a 9-year relationship was hard. So I guess it was a blessing in disguise; I am still single and just focusing on my goals. Ready though to meet someone this year.
@PURPLE_SWGG
@PURPLE_SWGG 5 жыл бұрын
I swear amber after hearing you speak some really shit I be getting motivated asf. Even though I’m not glad you feeling some type of way but you always find a way for it to benefit you
@mathalinehunt4822
@mathalinehunt4822 5 жыл бұрын
I really miss seeing your videos so much Amber love your spirit I’ve been single for some time mingling dating and working keep me busy it’s not to bad but I do miss that comfort
@mandyjohn8807
@mandyjohn8807 3 жыл бұрын
You taught me that when we get thoughts of someone and say we miss them its a habit from a part of our body and mind that was when they use to be there or their energy or maybe their voice with words or scent which we call that a memory .we just need to be in the present and create a new habit and block the illusion of them still being there when their no longer there .it isnt avoiding the feeling .its avoiding to not be not in the present moment and to be in the present moment not day dreaming but living it to live it is to call it how it is or learn to become the person that you desire and be the right person the happy person the person to make you happy the person to motiviate you . You are a good person thank you👌🏾♨️
@mexiricansister8142
@mexiricansister8142 5 жыл бұрын
Yes baby girl!!! All the feels. After a break up you need to feel it all. I loved when a young friend of mine broke up with a long time beau and said "This is the summer of Lisa!!!" Only doing what she wanted, when she wanted. Yes to travel!!! You learn so much about yourself when traveling alone. Even when you are in a permanent relationship you should give yourself that gift. Now, come visit Tia Rita in Denver!!!
@lysalouis2626
@lysalouis2626 5 жыл бұрын
Hey big bro...love this video thanks so much for sharing the compassion and wisdom with others. Your truly amazing.
@nicolearias3501
@nicolearias3501 4 жыл бұрын
Its hard its tuff not a lot of people realize that they need to grow alone as a person that they need self love self care... depression hits too... I was one of the many that denied much of the shit side of the universe it wasn’t until I met my ex that My perspective and views started changing dont get me wrong Im not saying I cant live without her... because I’ve proved myself I can... and her not being my life for the moment has made it easier we tried staying in contact but I was too in mature to handle it .... Im just hitting 20s and Im glad I realized it this earlier Ive been following up with Amber since her previous relationship but I think this was the best video I have yet seen not a lot of people talk about mental health Im glad Im seeing more people deal with it now because it could really change your future
@JustMy_Luck
@JustMy_Luck 5 жыл бұрын
(I'm single, single.) Now I'm ready to meet ppl and start dating after 10yrs. Sometimes you have to sit down and grow a relationship with yourself first, then vibe with others. The wrong ex will... well fukk yo sh!t up if you are not right with yourself. **Looking forward to the new topics and videos.
@potakuchip
@potakuchip 5 жыл бұрын
See and I've always been single and when someone tries to get close, I just get annoyed by every little thing because everything could always be my way all the time. Then boom, someone comes along and I have to compromise because I want them to stick around, no matter where you're coming from, change is HARD man😩 Oh well that's life😁
@annishareid
@annishareid 4 жыл бұрын
Break ups are not easy but I learn the samething nothing is forever we have to learn just be by ourselves, heal ourselves, care for ourselves n most importantly love ourselves a lot to enjoy our own company.
@hippienikki8393
@hippienikki8393 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 2 weeks single now and it is very hard and yes I’m realizing the in between is most important same situation the individual growth meditation has been my coping mechanism!
@evec99
@evec99 5 жыл бұрын
this is so relatable, it's definitely what im going through and im doing everything differently too
@carriejoyce8264
@carriejoyce8264 3 жыл бұрын
Girl this spoke to me on another level!! Thank you
@prettyllady
@prettyllady 5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video & your insight, because you’re helping me more than you know ❤️ Thank you!
@amberdiamond5604
@amberdiamond5604 2 жыл бұрын
I been single for 13 years and i survive by doing things i love and my mom brought me to my old place where i grew up to remember all the memories and its help me wit my depression a lot and i agree on this too.
@carmenbarnes2709
@carmenbarnes2709 5 жыл бұрын
I'm single too boo and I love it...try to embrass it
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 5 жыл бұрын
Carmen Barnes I am now😜🙌🏽
@chicacatastrofe4891
@chicacatastrofe4891 5 жыл бұрын
You're amazing amber and you're doing great, I love the way you went through this and still came out smiling and I love that. Thanks for sharing this story with us 🖤
@SheynaLynn
@SheynaLynn 5 жыл бұрын
Glad you were able to work through it. I did the same thing - I’m 4yrs post 🤦🏾‍♀️ (loser status) and I’ve dated (not seriously due to options) & even started doing solo things & stepping out of my comfort zone. Idk but it has yet to completely leave me. 🤷🏾‍♀️ they say choose to let it go and you will. Never has left 🙈🙈🙈 single-hood isn’t the wave for me.
@codecate4451
@codecate4451 4 жыл бұрын
I can so much relate to what you are saying. Therefore I found myself a therapist 😅. And now, 7 months later. I'm fine being alone. Thank you for sharing 💖
@piepsie007
@piepsie007 4 жыл бұрын
Very recognizable story... It's only a few months after a long relationship and being on my own and dealing with my emotions is tough! When I was in a relationship i craved to be alone sometimes and now i am mainly trying to stay out of my head ;)
@Sunnymon3y
@Sunnymon3y 5 жыл бұрын
I LOVED EVERYTHING About This Video ‼️💯💯 Kept It So Real.. For Some Reason I Felt Like You Spoke For All The Gays Out Here Bc We Are Really Are In Tune With Our Emotions So When That Time Comes Where We Realize That’s It Really Over It’s Hard ... But This Was Very True & Eye Opening
@allanamarie
@allanamarie 5 жыл бұрын
I’m just looking at the racc in the background like damn I wish I could raid her closet 😩😍
@Candies1Creations
@Candies1Creations 5 жыл бұрын
I feel you amber. I was always in relationships and the last one I was in lasted 11 years. It has been a weird year being single and tbh idk if I can date anyone anytime soon. Ppl are gross and want to rush. I just want to raise my son and focus on his developmental growth.
@GreeneChakra
@GreeneChakra 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this message, I'm getting over a Emotionally Abusive Relationship so, this is another Road altogether..
@alyssamartinez3022
@alyssamartinez3022 5 жыл бұрын
Finally!! There she be!! Live the single life girl...!
@elle_sparkle9123
@elle_sparkle9123 5 жыл бұрын
I love dis clip million billion times From my hrt... Amber u so real that wat I love about you,I have been single like 4 ever so I relate ....one way or the other ur closet always pass a message across and also encourages..thanks dear.. Greeting from UAE...
@brandibliss
@brandibliss 5 жыл бұрын
Amber's back... Love it ❣️🙌🏽❣️
@CurlyGirlChey
@CurlyGirlChey 4 жыл бұрын
1. This is what you want 2. This is what you need 3. This is what you deserve That's what I needed to hear💚
@toyacry3793
@toyacry3793 5 жыл бұрын
You give some of the best advice!! Thanks Amber! 👍
@cindyholderphotography9078
@cindyholderphotography9078 4 жыл бұрын
Being really “really” single is hard! Being single and messing with whoever is not that hard. But might be unsatisfying after a while.
@marou55ia_
@marou55ia_ 5 жыл бұрын
9:59 “In the lesbian world, is anybody REALLY single?” DEEP TRUTHS
@ellydeawesome8302
@ellydeawesome8302 5 жыл бұрын
Am single, Been single for 7 years it's so hard 😭😭to be single but I have been dealing with it my own way
@firecracka123k
@firecracka123k 5 жыл бұрын
"Being single is REALLY hard" I'm 23 and have never been in a relationship 😔
@disabledaccount292
@disabledaccount292 5 жыл бұрын
Why ?
@firecracka123k
@firecracka123k 5 жыл бұрын
​@@disabledaccount292 because I'm socially awkward and don't know how to form relationships with people. I can't even make a friend.
@olly2027
@olly2027 5 жыл бұрын
bri I’m the same way.
@shanniajoseph4768
@shanniajoseph4768 5 жыл бұрын
Lol. We're in the same boat. Legit never dated.
5 жыл бұрын
I wasn't in a relationship until I was 23. I'm 24 now and still with my bf. We've been going strong for a year. So there's hope girl.
@Vixacious7
@Vixacious7 5 жыл бұрын
It's been almost a year already! Crazy! Forreals tho. Being single has its ups and downs.. But dealing with anxiety when affection is the way to level me out is tough.
@kayway9767
@kayway9767 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly break ups are trash. Habits vs. True feelings.... definitely something to think about.
@dailylgbtqdiscussions3018
@dailylgbtqdiscussions3018 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you uploaded this. I'm dealing with being single as well.
@marthacvd
@marthacvd 5 жыл бұрын
Real talk: I missed your forehead...weird right? Love you 🤗
@tammyellis9277
@tammyellis9277 5 жыл бұрын
marthacvd .. seriously? 😂😂😂 thats different... but it might actually be true luv 😁
@dianamutuku2975
@dianamutuku2975 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@fit3052
@fit3052 4 жыл бұрын
Lol wtf
@dailylgbtqdiscussions3018
@dailylgbtqdiscussions3018 5 жыл бұрын
BEING SINGLE IS DEFINITELY HARD. KNOWING THAT IM CLINGY AND GET ATTACHED TO PEOPLE EASILY. THIS IS HARD FOR ME. IM NOW REVISITING MY PAST AND SEEING WHAT WENT WRONG AND WHAT I DID WRONG...... I FEEL LIKE IM ALWAYS IN TROUBLE FOR SOMETHING. I DONT KNOW WHY.
@rosaliebreedon2924
@rosaliebreedon2924 5 жыл бұрын
That’s really cool amber! You are truely soul mates when you can let each other go with the same love you both had for each other in the beginning! I really hope the universe has awesome plans for both of you with its together or individually ❤️🙌 so much love for you both 💕 keep being strong and an inspiration to many! 🙏🙏
@ronzyvevo2918
@ronzyvevo2918 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this sooo bad...thank you amber ❤ srsly.
@peacejames1706
@peacejames1706 5 жыл бұрын
The truth is I don't know what to tell u but just be urself and be happy with ur self ok
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