StoryTime: Dating Gone Wrong

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AmbersCloset

AmbersCloset

Күн бұрын

I just wanted to share a few situations with dating that made it really difficult for me lol
It’s really hard to understand the dynamic when people are playing games with you, talking about others or giving you the run around. Overall...I gotta say...Communication is KEY!!
What weird dating situations have you been in? How did you handle it?
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Wassup....I'm Amber! I make a range of videos from motivational videos, activism and politics, fashion, everyday life topics, LGBT topics, and more. I first started my channel to help others that may be struggling with their identity, to break stereotypes, as well as to showcase my unique androgynous/tomboy style, but now has become more. I believe in changing the world by changing within. My goal is to empower everyone through positivity, self love, and self confidence; so they feel inspired to show their true authentic self to the world and to show up as the best versions of themselves.
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@survivingthetimes7584
@survivingthetimes7584 3 жыл бұрын
Dating has gotten the rep of being more about “winning” or trying not to get played, instead of genuine connection. The best piece of dating advice I have is to focus on finding the connection. If its not there, don’t force yourself to entertain someone just to be nice. I think this idea of being nice can really put people in unfulfilling dating situations that can be avoided.
@Channel66678
@Channel66678 3 жыл бұрын
I know that was intended for amber, but I really needed to hear that. Thank you for your enlightenment.
@alexxaandraax33
@alexxaandraax33 3 жыл бұрын
If we hang out and you bring up other individuals that you happen to be talking to, I'm gunna think I'm friend zoned. I feel you on that.
@shhhake
@shhhake 3 жыл бұрын
GUI I. Gggood
@alexxaandraax33
@alexxaandraax33 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love the way you tell stories. Your great! 😂 thanks for sharing🙏🏻
@stacistaje
@stacistaje 3 жыл бұрын
I don't have the patience anymore for dating. Most people can't hold a conversation beyond texting these days. I friendzone quick asf.
@bornfree51
@bornfree51 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 3 жыл бұрын
Have you guys been in any weird dating situations? What happened and how did you handle it?
@danielleo4852
@danielleo4852 3 жыл бұрын
Girllll how much time you got? 😂
@AngeliqueVoices
@AngeliqueVoices 3 жыл бұрын
A guy brought his friend to a first date (he said the friend invited himself 🤔😒) and the friend STAYED for the whole date.
@stephaneg.9451
@stephaneg.9451 3 жыл бұрын
@@AngeliqueVoices whattttttttttt
@stephaneg.9451
@stephaneg.9451 3 жыл бұрын
I had a date with that masculine women that went litteraly crazy because I paid for my bill. And she was like OK I don't like that I'm a Daddy and I take care of my girl so I had to tell her first I don't need her to pay for the food I ate and that I wasn't her girl yet so. She was used to really pay for everything. I had a date with another girl with a really bad hygiene so she didn' t made it to the kiss part. I I invited her at my place so she was ready to eat and I had to make her understand that noooo that ain't gonna happen she was really mad
@kiantejohnson6684
@kiantejohnson6684 3 жыл бұрын
Me and my homegirl who got feelings for me not being in the room is fucking up the chemistry. Like she can't see her boyfriend who she thinking of leaving cause he a antimasker but can't see me either cause I live with my grandmother. Not even gonna lie I'm a broke bitch (art major) but I still get my stacks up enough to do things for the women in my life. So I think even though he's better at adulting I came out looking more mature and compassionate. She's still figuring out her sitch and I refuse to pressure her cause realizing you into girls is enough of a paradigm shift. But at this point I kinda feels like we gone get together before one of us die or naw 😅. Like Covid is making me look good and texts you gotta take a cold shower after sending but I can't even capitalize on it. Like we soul mates as friends or lovers but if things get as bad as I think they'll get we may never get the chance to find out. Then with isolation thirst I wanna talk to other people but ion like lying. It'd be 'hey I'm totes into someone else but can I rub on ya'. Then the other layer is that hookup would be my ex who I'm still very good friends with. We only broke up cause we was young and jealous, afraid to admit how intense things had gotten. Fast forward we done got therapy and shit, still close but we thinking we finally can move on as friends. Then this week she hits me up saying she left her man for the SAME THINGS as the friend I got all the chemistry with. She's already told me I'm the guy (gender fluid/ lesbian) she compares most men to a few years back so this is kinda like woah for me. I'm terrified if I accept the incredible comfort she offers it will be a Covid fueled manipulation. Like now doesn't seem like the time to be making big isolation tainted decisions like sparking things back up with an ex no matter how close we are. Like she was ENGAGED to this man and I'm the guy she compares guys to. She asking to hang when the desire to be gassed up is at an all time high. Like I'm a depressed so do I just accept this reason to live or just tread carefully knowing the history. Some real 'To be or not to be' drama in my head RN
@laurajuarez1570
@laurajuarez1570 3 жыл бұрын
It’s 2am and I’m binge watching amber!!!! You have me entertained lol.
@sounique1992
@sounique1992 3 жыл бұрын
I'm honestly tired of dating. Ppl just want to casually date and hook up and I get so many ppl trying to either hook up with me, without even knowing me. I'm just not into stranger intimate relations lbvs or I get ppl constantly trying to just text and never finalize plans and then say I'm too busy. Like yea the day off last minute , I am busy 🙄 . We got to make plans at least the day before. Covid making things suck more. I feel like more ppl trying to meet online now but it's made them more emboldened. Just straight say, I need to get laid. I'm not the one 😤
@kenyajohnson7957
@kenyajohnson7957 3 жыл бұрын
Wow are you going for the wrong girls? Maybe you should step out the norm and look from the inside out.
@sounique1992
@sounique1992 3 жыл бұрын
@@kenyajohnson7957 both guys and girl's and I think I am . Although I shoot down anyone who comes at me reckless. I need to meet someone who' soul I vibe with. I'm open to advice , please. What I've been doing hasn't been working for me . I'm so ready to meet my life partner.
@kenyajohnson7957
@kenyajohnson7957 3 жыл бұрын
@@sounique1992 I hope you find your life partner every one deserve ❤.
@queenmashamba1008
@queenmashamba1008 3 жыл бұрын
I hate to make people uncomfortable by overstaying or when they overstay at mine, girls who seeks unnecessary attention it’s the biggest turn off for me, my work schedule makes it impossible for me to date or a serious relationship coz I’m always on the go so I’ve been happily single going on 4 years now.
@tourainejefferson5456
@tourainejefferson5456 3 жыл бұрын
Amber you’re so adorable! I love your videos because you’re so open and honest and so darn entertaining. No matter what type of day I’m having whenever I watch your videos you make me smile or laugh. Thanks Amber for being you and sharing. I adore your positive vibe. Dating? Eh, last on the list of priorities. But then I’m a Capricorn so we don’t really need to date date.
@kid23idkjkjk7
@kid23idkjkjk7 3 жыл бұрын
my pov with dating during covid depend on your living situation some times its not worth it or its hard af. I moved back home after college so im living with a high risk person (my mom) and i started to date this girl and she wanted to go places and do things and I just couldn't.(I didn't want to risk it) and that put some stress on the relationship. So I gave in after a while and invited her into my home (her place was off limits) and like she would come over and ish a few times a week. Then I got a call from her on day and she was like"im going to get tasted for covid cause i dont feel good"....shes been in my house around my fam with out a mask. the 5 day to wait for a test result was so stressful cause only the worse thoughts ran through my head. basically cried my self to sleep those days. All in all Find out if someone is taking Covid procedures as seriously as you are.
@owlislike
@owlislike 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh. I am so sorry that happened to you. I help my mom out a lot, she is 73 year old house cleaner with arthritis. I started feeling bad and and immediately isolated myself from everyone while I waited for my test ( negative result thankfully) but I felt like I was having a panic attack the entire time I was waiting for those results. Navigating any relationship is very hard right now, I have had to have some pretty blunt conversations with friends, family, and co-workers about my boundaries and it can be very frustrating to just make people see that this whole situation is no joke.
@TownAvon
@TownAvon 3 жыл бұрын
What's the morale to the story? Did she have covid and infected your family?
@dalelenamarie7257
@dalelenamarie7257 3 жыл бұрын
Yea don’t leave us hanging.. what happened???
@kid23idkjkjk7
@kid23idkjkjk7 3 жыл бұрын
@@TownAvon I guess the moral of the Story was to find someone with the same values as u. And luckly nope family was safe.
@kid23idkjkjk7
@kid23idkjkjk7 3 жыл бұрын
@@dalelenamarie7257 she ended up just have a stomach bug. We broke up shortly after that cause we didn't have the same values. She got married to another girl 3months after breaking up with me.
@VertellDavis
@VertellDavis 3 жыл бұрын
That “really good for my friend” 🙃 wow! Friend zone MUCH! Unbelievable
@Candies1Creations
@Candies1Creations 3 жыл бұрын
Lawwdd dating is the worst ugh
@taylorpryor9293
@taylorpryor9293 3 жыл бұрын
Dating during COVID has been WILD! I’ve gone on a couple of distance dates and I think I’m feeling a vibe, then when I try and get in there these girls keep friend zoning me! It’s so hard to gauge a vibe over apps! Can you give tips or speak to your experience with dating apps?
@jazzyjane6508
@jazzyjane6508 3 жыл бұрын
How can someone friend zone you . Girl your GORGEOUS !
@taylorpryor9293
@taylorpryor9293 3 жыл бұрын
@@jazzyjane6508 thank you 🥺
@tamaradayaram7534
@tamaradayaram7534 3 жыл бұрын
during covid i always facetimed the person the first day we start talking, because people are so different texting and theres no use pursuing something if the vibes are off face to face.
@danniewaterford2241
@danniewaterford2241 3 жыл бұрын
Covid dating has been a interesting in my opinion. Where as before F-Boi Vibe at Thirst on a Saturday night they came all too coo for school. Now those same individuals are coming at you REAL! No pick up lines which is so nice. There’s no rushing, genuine conversation it’s been a breath of fresh air.
@MultiDaisy1995
@MultiDaisy1995 3 жыл бұрын
Amber I really feel for you. That shit is crazy! ❤️
@lJuJuBee11l
@lJuJuBee11l 3 жыл бұрын
You really referenced "body": Megan thee Stallion🤣🤣
@skaywest1772
@skaywest1772 3 жыл бұрын
I can kinda relate to her frustration w girls....for REALS!!!!girls be playing games and im to the point where I can peep at what they're doing or why they're saying and doing what they doing....
@mansiashley
@mansiashley 3 жыл бұрын
STORYTIME WITH AMBER? YES YES, always here for it 😁
@danniewaterford2241
@danniewaterford2241 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha yessssssss winning in every aspect of my life, then dating motto “Why Does this Always happen to me”. 😂😂😂
@Beyourself_dope
@Beyourself_dope 3 жыл бұрын
“ so when we going out “ Yes I like the friend energy , she don’t care she go for what she want
@valentinadonkor7163
@valentinadonkor7163 3 жыл бұрын
Did she break up with Ava
@famouzsandra1014
@famouzsandra1014 3 жыл бұрын
I learned u have to teach ppl how to love u- cuz they r gonna treat u how they did wit their prior relationships! So i feel its always gd to be upfront ask questions of thngs u kno u vibe wit n dont vibe wit! N juz b honest n let em kno! Cuz if u let it slide eventually dwn the road its gonna pop up n its gonna b drama!
@ronellasaunders3148
@ronellasaunders3148 3 жыл бұрын
Dating during quarantine just reminded me to stay single and focus on my business and projects for the time being. All dates were tough to reconsider . I struggled to understand the heavy Ebonics pouring out of five of them instead of clear convo. I’ll emotionally suit up before I go back out there… woah
@TheLyrical1985
@TheLyrical1985 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Amber, I appreciate your videos and sharing your experiences. I WILL ONLY ACCEPT WHAT I AM WORTH. Time for Time. Must be equal in all aspects of a relationship.
@CarolinaVasquezEnglish
@CarolinaVasquezEnglish 3 жыл бұрын
I literally always look forward to your videos !!! I enjoyed them so much ! Keep it coming ☺️
@MsAaannaaa
@MsAaannaaa 3 жыл бұрын
CW: physical abuse (& a lot of text) I broke up with my ex gf at the beginning of covid (unrelated to it though). I started dating someone else a couple of months later during covid but more towards summer. she was very sweet at first, very considerate and funny. I really liked her. but she started acting quite....performative? Idk how else to describe it. it felt like she was playing "relationship" like little kids play "family" sometimes. and she didn't fully respect my boundaries, but I only realized that later. she'd be very subtle but basically try to push me further up the relationship escalator. after 3-4 weeks of seeing each other she already asked "what's the point if we're not exclusive now?". back then I was happy to have someone who is ready to commit, because that was what I was missing from my ex gf. in hindsight, I know better. she's not very experienced in relationship matters. that's not a problem per se, but can become quite exhausting when you have no idea who that person actually is because you feel like they're playing a role all the time. am I making sense? she never was pushy in that masculine "every space belongs to me and everyone has to follow my rules" kinda way, but more in the helpless little child kind of way. it makes me cringe so hard when I look back at all the red flags. but I was happy to have met someone who's not suuuuuper non-committing and aloof all the time. oh well. long story short: I broke up with her after we had a fight and she would not let me leave her apartment . she held me in place repeatedly, despite me asking her to let me go and leave. she tried to take away my stuff to stop me from leaving. she would block my way towards the door and finally she would block the door. with her own body. I never felt that helpless in 30 years, ever since I was physically abused as a child. I knew she wouldn't let me go no matter what I said. then I snapped. I hammered on her shoulders with my fists and screamed at her to let me leave. doing so, I must have brushed her glasses because they went flying at some point. when she went to pick them off, I went for the door and left. she didn't follow me. I broke up with her via text on my way home, shaking. it took her a few weeks to accept it. and it took me a few weeks to forgive myself that I raised my hands. the excuse "oh but she pushed you so far" didn't sit well with me because that's exactly what my abuser told me when I was a child. I know it's not the same, but it was hard to get over that. to top it all off: she told her best friend that we had a fight, I wanted to leave, she hugged me and I beat her. and then had the audacity to tell me that and to send me her friends to pick up her stuff after she told me it's okay if it takes me a minute to send it to her (because I was struggling with my mental health because of all of this). I'm still full of anger towards her (and full of old anger that was triggered by all of this), especially because she knew about my past. and I know she also has her reasons for why she acted the way she did. but that's not my fault either. so... yeah. although I still feel incredibly lonely and really wished to have someone to share things in life with, I really don't feel like dating at the moment. but I want to be ready for it. :)
@VertellDavis
@VertellDavis 3 жыл бұрын
Amber scrolled past my DM 🙄 I’ll wait though 😁
@Channel66678
@Channel66678 3 жыл бұрын
Lucky she had that verification checkmark THOUGH 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🤦🤦
@arshgill3132
@arshgill3132 3 жыл бұрын
It happened to me and it’s not a good feeling to be lead on. I feel like I going to be single forever.
@Princ3s51
@Princ3s51 3 жыл бұрын
I met my girlfriend during Covid through online speed dating, then I got to know her more through a combination of virtual and real life dates, I deffo lucked out with her 🤗 But there are soooo many fellow womxn out there who haven’t done enough self exploration & work to truly be ready for anyone in their lives 🙈
@JL-Breaks
@JL-Breaks 3 жыл бұрын
OMG when they wont leave.. legit anxiety. Like do you NOT know hints that its TIME TO GO?? Like do you really lack any kind of self respect? My body will eventually shut down and then Im rude when Im like YOU HAVE TO LEAVE NOW. .
@angelicalejandra1
@angelicalejandra1 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like dating has definitely migrated to more impersonal platforms, lots of texting, zoom dates, etc. And the fact that you can't -or shouldn't- go out to places has kind of sped things up for me, i found myself going to this girl's house much earlier than i would have before covid
@alunoodalmheiri7028
@alunoodalmheiri7028 3 жыл бұрын
Stop being a Virgo! Stop being too polite and nice.
@deanderamcknight1649
@deanderamcknight1649 3 жыл бұрын
How can I stop being a virgo?🤔
@alunoodalmheiri7028
@alunoodalmheiri7028 3 жыл бұрын
@@deanderamcknight1649 Figure it out, u are a virgo!
@deanderamcknight1649
@deanderamcknight1649 3 жыл бұрын
No, I like being a virgo and i am not stopping for never one
@billmilligan1705
@billmilligan1705 3 жыл бұрын
At least no one has read you the poetry of Paula Nancy Millstone Jennings while on a date
@aimeedove2348
@aimeedove2348 3 жыл бұрын
I was lucky with dating during covid went on tinder for like 2 days and met my gf on there and we still together
@fiddlhead
@fiddlhead 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like COVID made me value connection more in general. I ended up moving in w my girlfriend during Covid after over 6 months of on and off long distance and now it’s like super serious... we’re both graduating in a few months and i have no idea what we’ll do, but I do think covid changed the way i think about her/us
@unique6852
@unique6852 3 жыл бұрын
Yo, people are wild! People are weird af. I know theirs a thing during the fall and winter season where people are dating for a place to stay. I definitely had some wild moments, dating disasters and great ones during covid and before that. I can really write a book....lol. Right now I'm in a great space with dating, Dating advice, be vocal and notice red flags and don't brush them off.
@bdejurnett
@bdejurnett 3 жыл бұрын
How about we talk about maintaining your relationship through COVID and quarantine. That has been a HUGE struggle for me.
@iisely
@iisely 3 жыл бұрын
People who don't know when to go home...ugh!
@outsidethebooth2166
@outsidethebooth2166 3 жыл бұрын
To answer your question on dating during Covid. I recently got in contact with the ONE THAT GOT AWAY. we hadn't spoken or seen each other in 10 years but we were both still very much hung up on each other. We live about 2 hours away from each other by car, and because of Covid we are only gonna be seeing each other next week after 10 years. It's been rough but honestly, Covid gave us an opportunity to learn more about each other and see if we were still as compatible, I think I would have moved to rush things between us too quickly because my feelings for her are still very much intense. I think dating during Covid helped us, but I do know that not everyone feels the same
@mothgirl_exe
@mothgirl_exe 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this thank u...
@lexslookbook
@lexslookbook 3 жыл бұрын
I try dating, but I never connect with them. Because they always ruin it and tell me that they are beginning to fall in love with me. I try to put myself out there, but it never works out. Like with certain friends they tell me that I'm the perfect someone for someone that they know. You know what, I can't do it. I want it to up to me to find that person. Just like I try talking to this girl, she didn't get it. So I unfollowed her, im over it. But one thing I learn from dating is make sure that the person that you are in to, is into you, test her, if she brings up friends. Just think of her as a friend and find someone else. If I could and live in the same state as you, I probably ask you out. Cause I love the vibes you brings and I love the atmosphere you have. You are upfront about lots of things. But then again I am not really sure how you fell about Sagittarians. I hope your dating life comes easy for you. Happy Thanksgiving.
@carbonxkiwi
@carbonxkiwi 3 жыл бұрын
ain't gone for dating for a while, especially given the turn toward tech (not my bag) & quaratimes - I'm here for camaraderie/companionship with whatever chemistry is natural. if dating Stresses Me Out but having natural human relationships with peeps I'd otherwise be dating then that's what I'm gonna do. though being poly-minded probably helps eases that some. with an extra serving of 'stable couples+ who want a wider ecosystem of engagement' for some fun & fulfilling times.
@Moglieish
@Moglieish 3 жыл бұрын
I like this video. good to talk about things.
@ChristLyK1
@ChristLyK1 3 жыл бұрын
The busy girl Was hella funny
@Gxldstrategy
@Gxldstrategy 3 жыл бұрын
Does social publicity play an important role in your search for a partner?
@topad7779
@topad7779 5 ай бұрын
😃😃😃😃don’t know why am laughing loud 😂truth be told you’re a good story teller😂😂on a date talking about individual is a off for me.I prefer you flirting😂😂 will be good with that energy 😅😅
@evolvedliv.ing.
@evolvedliv.ing. 3 жыл бұрын
Damn Amber stay going through it 😂
@gabbyglover8220
@gabbyglover8220 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh!! Dating during Covid sucks especially for someone who really hasn’t dated in like 7+ years! Learning how to date online and avoid the creepers but then also where do you go when your city is on lockdown. I can say that I have stepped out of my comfort zone for sure. Am I like it!
@daniphilpot9415
@daniphilpot9415 3 жыл бұрын
Only halfway through this video but knew 30 seconds in that you were 1000% empath ranting. It always happens because you are an empath wether you knew that or not. That means that you attract that sort of thing to you by your energy. That’s all good but you have to learn how to recognize it sooner to guard yourself. It is draining. Don’t over invest your energy to bring up someone else’s. 💯❤️
@1STAMPER1
@1STAMPER1 3 жыл бұрын
I’m getting secondhand embarrassment from hearing these stories oh my god
@phililemtshali9828
@phililemtshali9828 3 жыл бұрын
Hi amber ,I really appreciate your videos, just started watching them yesterday and I love them.
@DiMagnolia
@DiMagnolia Жыл бұрын
Some of these are weird or unfortunate but definitely not scary like dating men lmao. There’s a reason I actively choose not to date men despite being attracted to all genders.
@jadygirl100
@jadygirl100 3 жыл бұрын
Omg yes on the last one!! I was dating this girl and she was the one that pursued me, and I was super understanding about the fact that she had a lot on her plate. I was even the one to bring up taking it slow, she didn’t want to. After a month of a couple dates she asked me to be exclusive and I agreed. Then she just never made time for me, EVER. I would go weeks without hanging out with her. Then when I break up with her due to this, after many conversation about it, she still as the audacity to be upset with ME every time she sees me. Like what!? This was also 2 years ago and she still dogs me and my current girlfriend all the time.
@anadd6195
@anadd6195 3 жыл бұрын
Girl no2, yeah I agree, friend zone
@MegaChrisie
@MegaChrisie Жыл бұрын
mate this video had me in stitches coz i swear it's all facts! :)
@debbiepowell3749
@debbiepowell3749 3 жыл бұрын
Dating sucks amber I feel you girl, hush yah. 😔
@ChangeIsGood7775
@ChangeIsGood7775 3 жыл бұрын
Playing games with people who are seeking to connect and build a relationship* ain’t the wave. You only play yourself. Some of those games they were playing is what a lot of these “dating experts” say to do... 🤦🏽‍♀️
@cynthiar1977
@cynthiar1977 3 жыл бұрын
I have done dates via zoom. We would dress up, have drinks, and talk. It's a good time.
@ShewannaCreativeCircle
@ShewannaCreativeCircle 3 жыл бұрын
I love your story time keep them coming
@Twelly93
@Twelly93 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Amber how old are these girls???
@Ash_Nichole
@Ash_Nichole 3 жыл бұрын
Great vid Amber!
@cococp5218
@cococp5218 3 жыл бұрын
The criteria of lots of followers and a boss may have something to do with it. I look for a good soul, most other things are negotiable from there. Keep at it, real love will come when you are ready.
@stefaniesaavedra5688
@stefaniesaavedra5688 3 жыл бұрын
Love your stories, so relatable!
@serendipity0628
@serendipity0628 3 жыл бұрын
Amber , your vibes are of higher frequency.... your intentions are always good and I think you attract people that wanna suck all your good energy Lol...nah but serious...I think you have impacted so many people along your path so the universe keeps sending you people to help....it's unfortunate that they're being sent as potential dating partners....what if....hear me out....what if you were meant to stay single because you're suppose to grow and experience many people?!?
@aniokay
@aniokay 3 жыл бұрын
Let me say Amber - you reacted in the best possible ways and assumed the most natural things. You have just been persued by unhealthy people (the 2 first women at least). Good that your radar is functioning well.
@whitleybaker1599
@whitleybaker1599 3 жыл бұрын
Dating during COVID, I have 2 scenarios and both ended abruptly. 👀
@cecilia8015
@cecilia8015 3 жыл бұрын
Omg,🤦🏾‍♀️ I be guilty of at lease one, all we do is text, does that mean I’m low key uninterested.
@stacistaje
@stacistaje 3 жыл бұрын
That is now your text friend lol
@anadd6195
@anadd6195 3 жыл бұрын
Loved it! X) 🙏❤
@DebraWilderMeditation
@DebraWilderMeditation 3 жыл бұрын
I’ll just hire a matchmaker I guess cuz I need a nap after all those stories. Never had women act like that way back when I dated in 2019.
@pampj8501
@pampj8501 3 жыл бұрын
I came out during Quarantine. It is so difficult to meet women. I am Femme so that makes it even more difficult. I swear we need a mating call or something.
@AuthetnicEpicBoom
@AuthetnicEpicBoom 3 жыл бұрын
#FIRST I left you a comment on your IG page! So unsettling! The word dating doesn’t seem to exist anymore. In general it’s not the norm!! Level of maturity in a lot people , very absence A lot of games in the dysfunction! Where in the era, rushed after two minutes and each other. I’m lonely I don’t care I just want to be with somebody. The first buckets 🪣 I have been lurking and waiting! Play some SPARKLETTS, Dasani, Fuji, Flash water etc. For me, too many particular I’m Louie’s are not open. I feel like it’s not you it’s them!! Your videos are always awesome! I hope you find somebody that ,you cconnect with on a deep level. Stay cautious & carefu!
@TorEtCetera
@TorEtCetera 2 жыл бұрын
You're a great storyteller! Thanks for sharing
@whatupbro1192
@whatupbro1192 3 жыл бұрын
Hello amber the best piece of advice I can give you is ask ezee if there is one of her friends that she can date
@iknowyouwanttofly
@iknowyouwanttofly 3 жыл бұрын
Please talk attachment type!! :D
@BkWellness
@BkWellness 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! Were these women young? 🤔
@xoxoNicholeLove
@xoxoNicholeLove 3 жыл бұрын
Missed u Amber!!
@hillarysantana1133
@hillarysantana1133 3 жыл бұрын
It was hard for me and my girl because both our mental states were fucked up. I lived with my parents and she does too and we both live in a Christian household so it put a toll in our relationship when your only hangin with family that don’t accept who you are.
@Pinki351
@Pinki351 2 жыл бұрын
i love you and you're videos❤️
@nontobekomajola3334
@nontobekomajola3334 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 these stories were awesome, too bad you had to go through that.
@karrotine
@karrotine 3 жыл бұрын
Lol, I know how annoying it is about dating someone who always tells you that they busy instead of saying "hi how are, hows your day" but would text "im busy, i cant talk, im doing this and that"! omg Then those that always tell you about who wants them and their dating history and ex drama 😴😴😴🥱😴🥱😴🥱 are you even ready to start something new with someone lol Then the ones who want to meet up once in 2 weeks 🙆🏿‍♀️🙆🏿‍♀️🙆🏿‍♀️
@daphnied.5497
@daphnied.5497 3 жыл бұрын
I’m screaming lmao amber what the fuck?
@Channel66678
@Channel66678 3 жыл бұрын
Omfg.... My "Friend" did Exactly the same, even kissed me and cuddled (Only) in bed! Then, apparently I misread the signals, she said. NOPE ‼️ SHE EVEN KISSED PLUS with me, Obviously I was her "Trisexual" experiment!🤬 I actually fell in love with her, honestly. Then 10years go by and guess who asked me on a date,?‼️ I said "Are you for real, right now?" She says she didn't understand..... when does anyone kiss, then cuddle all night with a friend? NO ONE.... I FELT IT, WHEN YOU SAID "I KNEW IT WAS HEAD GAMES", my pet peeve. I'm an extremely Blunt person, at least People know that way. I cannot stand People, who beat around the bush and don't ever get to their point. Great video ONCE again. p.s. I love your production quality 💞 Do you do it all Yourself? Btw, my dating life has sucked for years now🤣🤣🤦
@tinalaws7506
@tinalaws7506 3 жыл бұрын
I bet you are amazing to be around. Your energy is fire! If I were single you would definitely be getting DMs from me! Best of luck to you on finding the one. She will be lucky as hell!
@aniokay
@aniokay 3 жыл бұрын
Testing people is not good sign.
@antoinettemottley5646
@antoinettemottley5646 3 жыл бұрын
I hate dating 😭😭
@bodajahsmith3899
@bodajahsmith3899 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I like to talk as well on the phone... but I don’t appreciate the bullshit... dating itself is hard. But amber I love that you shared this ... I think they are scared in a sense I don’t know if that makes sense. I love your videos Amber keep them coming
@lotusnegra100
@lotusnegra100 3 жыл бұрын
Gurl...dating is hard. Hardddddddd
@GirlGeekLovesStampin
@GirlGeekLovesStampin 3 жыл бұрын
Did you ever try dating in VR? The biggest challenge is figuring out when you’re ready to meet. But it’s safe fun during COVID especially if you have a ‘friend with benefits’ that you can trust for, well you know 😊
@moniecmac
@moniecmac 3 жыл бұрын
Yay stories 😃
@aniokay
@aniokay 3 жыл бұрын
You just need a person that knows what they want and is comfortable with their own sexuality.
@barbarajohnson1131
@barbarajohnson1131 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, Amber!!!
@ashleyweberyoga93
@ashleyweberyoga93 3 жыл бұрын
Is it true that LA dating sucks? It just sounds like you want someone down to earth and respects your boundaries.
@dorothylane7959
@dorothylane7959 3 жыл бұрын
Amber?.. do you wear makeup and lashes? You are something really pretty 😍😍😍
@yo4522
@yo4522 3 жыл бұрын
If someone isn't willing to go on a virtual date with you, cut that off.
@dorothylane7959
@dorothylane7959 3 жыл бұрын
I also noticed that your wearing dangling earrings 😍
@PrincessA-eu5xy
@PrincessA-eu5xy 3 жыл бұрын
Same girl 😫😭
@jessilaine5334
@jessilaine5334 3 жыл бұрын
Your experiences are crazy! I feel for you! lol. Question, do you only date people in the industry or other influencers? Seems to be a crazy dating world lol.
@GarlicKiss
@GarlicKiss 3 жыл бұрын
Only thing you can really do for dating during Covid is find ways to communicate online or over the phone. As you would be presumably talking to someone outside your normal exposure. It sucks. But until that vaccine comes out... gotta find other ways to show your interest is there. I wouldn't mind seeing what other people are doing though.
@thandolwethuduma6650
@thandolwethuduma6650 3 жыл бұрын
Im only one minute into the video and I already relate so much 😧😢like why da fuck meee I be hoping for the best and shit escalate
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