My ENTITLED MOTHER is a COMPLETE NARSSICIST and REFUSES to take NO for an Answer - Reddit Podcast

[@AmItheJerk]

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[@ChickinSammich]

Story 2: Replace the contact name from "Scam Likely" to "I Know You're Cheating." Take some pictures with your own phone of the chat logs, just in case. Pack your stuff, head out, and don't come back.

[@shrubman3422]

I love your style. That is genius!

[@Unknown457jk]

or just screenshot an send it to parents and say I'm still thinking on marrying my gf even thought I did this

[@ChickinSammich]

@@Unknown457jk Oh that's evil. I love it.

[@Unknown457jk]

@@ChickinSammich mwa hahaha I got more evil plans

[@brianna.m.1482]

​@@Unknown457jkDude, 😂 we gotta be friends. Cause that sounds like something I would totally do. My screen name (besides here? ) : EvilGinger

[@mysticmom616]

For #2- dump him. You deserve better. If he’s cheating and lying to you now, it won’t change if you get married.

[@The.S.M.Evans.91]

Story 1: I have family members like that too, and the best thing to do is to enjoy the silence. OP's mom isn't a good negotiater, but a bully.

[@terra4822]

I don't give shit about that kind of person If they ever target me, they are done. Sorry for my garbage English

[@TheDarkLink7]

The story about OP checking the phone. I'm sorry but those are big red flags there and she needs to turn tail and get out fast. I had a friend who was doing illegal substances. At first the person didn't do it near me. It eventually spiraled to where not only was the person doing it in front of me but getting me to pay for it. I've distanced myself from that person. It had left me struggling even to this day. Even with me having my car down needing a lot of repairs. To OP..... she needs to get away from him.

[@holstorrsceadus1990]

Let's not forget her red flags. Dude asks her permission to go out.

[@Coombenderr]

@@holstorrsceadus1990 that’s not a red flag at all, I ask my wife and she asks me, especially if it’s not planned, when your living together and do everything together you wanna ask so you know if they have plans tonight or need help cleaning the house or not. It’s completely normal

[@holstorrsceadus1990]

@@Coombenderr that's called codependency bro. Get some hobbies. Learn to be your own person. Do you even have you own friends anymore or is it just all other "nice" couples?

[@Coombenderr]

@@holstorrsceadus1990 I play football every Monday night, basketball Wednesday night, me and the buddies gamble sometimes. I ask to game most night, and I do every night. Sometimes I ask to go Friday night and it’s almost every time a yes. She asks me just the same it’s communication

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

This sounds like my relationship with my ex-husband. When he relapsed, things went downhill from there between our finances, my car, my job, etc was all at risk. He didn't have a job, a vehicle or anything in his name. Eventually we divorced and at some point I did get back on my feet. It's a long and hard journey but I did learn a lot from those experiences.

[@Ironica82]

For the woman in a relationship with a drunk. Tell him to either choose the bottle or you and accept whatever answer he says. Your safety is your top concern as it can only escalate from yelling.

[@carlrood4457]

I'd say she knows and trusts her boyfriend more than her family, so she should lean in his direction. "Controlling" is one of those buzzwords people like to throw out to others on the defensive.

[@simonainc.1475]

Came here early, glad to see another amazing video. Poor op in the first story for having to put up with a mother like that. Hopefully the mother stops harrasing them and their brother

[@dutchvanderbilt9969]

The story about bf drinking. The bf is just trying to avoid taking responsibility for his actions. And he can't use drinking or being drunk as a get of jail free card for the things he says. A drunk tounge speaks a sober mind after all.

[@ramencatbattlecats]

Story 1 ending reaction: Well... theres only ONE way it isn't rude.. its if you have dementia and if your asking every day because you forgot yesterday, but yeah in other cases its so toxic and just upright disgusting how people without dementia can manage to ask so much!

[@Blaque_Dahlya]

I feel you said it best about OP that ran away.

[@tammysmith567]

Story #4: this triggered me into a panic attack! OP was describing my early marriage. At first it was EXACTLY what she was describing, but it changed into him punching a wall right next to me when I was hiding the car keys from him. After that incident he stopped drinking for a long time. Then he joined the military, where social drinking was the norm, that’s when things got a lot worse! He started beating me and sexually assaulted me. Every time he started drinking I would go to a safe house. I finally told him I wanted a divorce at the same time he got orders to go to Korea, so he asked me to wait until he returned. I agreed. He came back from Korea sober and was the man I fell in love with again. Then one weekend while I was out of town he went on a bender. When I arrived home he was this angry drunk (just like before Korea) , when I wouldn’t get out of the truck for him to drive off to help his drunk friend he punched the window right in front of my face. Needless to say I opened the truck door and hit him between the eyes and broke his nose. I got out of the truck walked into the house dead-bolted the door and called his Sargent. When my husband got back his Sargent was there waiting. I kicked him out. He asked to come back 2 weeks later to talk and get more of his things, I said yes. When he arrived at the house he was sober and hadn’t had a drink since the night of the incident. We talked and he FINALLY admitted to be an alcoholic, which he had never done before, and told me he was just like his biological father. I am happy to say he has been sober since April of 2003. Recently we have been going through a rough patch with him yelling at me a lot and being angry, I left for two weeks. He came up to see me where I was staying and I told him that every time he yells it brings back bad memories and makes me feel like he is going to start beating on me again. He admitted he has no memory of ever hitting me or sexually assaulting me because he was so drunk, but he apologized for putting me through it for the very first time. He has agreed to join me in my counseling session to work through the issues. We have been married for 32 1/2 years. Even though it worked out for us, I think it is very rare. My advice to the OP in regards to her boyfriend, she needs to get out before he turns on her. My husband was very loving and never treated me the way her BF does when we were dating. He never treated me the way her BF does when he was sober. My husband always treated me like I was his world and like I was precious when he was sober (he was sober more than drunk except during his first year in the military).

[@Micegift]

On the last story, don’t cancel the trip, if he wants to be a jerk about not going fine, still go and take somebody else with you that will actually appreciate it and then see what he does? If he’s okay with you still going with someone else that’s fine but otherwise it’s his loss and his problem, not yours and it’s certainly no one else’s. As far as I’m concerned the OP’s fiancé is a ungrateful a***hole.

[@laurenstoner1908]

Exactly what I was thinking . Go with someone else and leave his sorry but at home

[@hosterian6568]

In the fourth story the boyfriend is acting like the OP is forcing him to drink when OP is trying to help him honestly OP should dump as if she stays with him it may turn out badly

[@maxc.2411]

People in the original post were able to figure out that OP had mentioned her boyfriend had some kind of addiction. So they think it might be because he was afraid of not having access to said addiction

[@mgaus]

Just from the intro... Ditch the witch and if she shows her face, use a hickory switch

[@redpyro9952]

3:32 Wait... does OP in all the stories I've been listening to means original poster? 🤔

[@amandahunter9186]

I remember the one time I was upset with someone who does not care about me because he's always drunk and is working and never has time for me because I am never a priority to him aka Mike Wheelock and when he asked me why I can't get pregnant I told him that I didn't want to so he asked me how I feel about adopting children even though I hate children and he already knows that after I told him that many times and I remember a movie with a scene that had to do with a child being returned to his biological mother and he cried my dad radio cried but I didn't and I remember the moment that I told him that I hated children that I told him no I don't want to adopt children but after I said that he yelled at me demanded that I allowed him to be a father and I had no choice but to adopt children but the argument turned into a heated argument against each other because I don't want children and he does but after I told him that I was not going to sacrifice my happiness for his and if he wanted children he could raise them without me because I am never going to sacrifice my happiness for his. I broke up with him because he stopped wanting to spend time with me

[@rebeccamurphy7804]

For the first story, OP needs to learn that "No" is a complete sentence and to stop explaining herself. And each time Mom asks again, end the conversation... and stop feeling guilty when Mommy Dearest sulks.

[@spydersoup8447]

I've always heard that people think the word 'no' means they won't get what they want and that's why they refuse to take it as an answer.

[@ratoneJR]

no contact with mother, damn the consequences

[@mrarroyo1990]

Last story - fiance had to have wanted to break up already. Even if you didn't wanna go to France its a trip over seas rhere is no other reason to freak out.

[@granmammy6889]

This is to the op with the drinking partner. I have been the drunk and also been with drinks. The anger Will get out of hand. You need to give an ultimatum, period. Get help and stop drinking or you need to leave. Period. And if he doesn't stop and doesn't get help, leave. Because if he just stops, he will start again. He can't do it alone. No way. He would have to hit rock bottom. The best way you could help him is by leaving. Support him from living apart from him. But if he won't get help, there is nothing you can do, but if you stay you are enabling him. Becoming his excuse to drink. And if he he is aggressive, it will end in violence. So many women willingly become victims of their abusers because they love that person and don't want to leave. You are already a victim. He is abusing you by saying you are the cause of his drinking. It it very typical and happens all the time. You are already questioning if you did something. You didn't. If you don't do all you can do now, it will be too late. Please follow thru.

[@DragonCommand]

I love these videos while play video games keep up the good work

[@TDC1104]

Let’s go congratulations to 400 thousand subscribers

[@lloydgordon5958]

Story about trip to Paris. If you know a person does not like surprises why surprise them? My girlfriend does the same thing all the time and then apologises afterwards it's annoying

[@jessicataylor4071]

I dont wanna go to Paris but if you're willing to take me to Le Mans and the fields of Verdun I'd happily go with you!

[@melodym6419]

Paris is overrated. I've been and while it's pretty enough, the people in France are just rude, the roads are really narrow, and nobody knows how to drive. We were there for a few days and parked our car and just walked everywhere.

[@kiwibuddy5341]

"When my boyfriend drinks, he gets aggressive" Congratulations, end of story, you need to leave. He's an angry drunk and that's not healthy, even if he enjoys it he should drink tea instead. "I like beer" isn't an excuse, explanation, or reason to get angry. "I get angry when I drink" is a reason to go see AA

[@cassandrafruhling5679]

Yeah experience the drinking one with my mom’s ex. He becomes physically abusive as well and thinks he’s better than everyone when he’s drunk. I thought maybe it was only him (he’s been this way since high school and he’s now in his 40s) but at least we know we’re not at fault now

[@NinjaBoy641]

Mom who won't take no for an answer: ask her to help you with something, and keep asking no matter how many times she says no. See how SHE likes it.

[@Quarterbackyjones]

great video as always

[@mysticmom616]

For the girl whose boyfriend drinks…run as fast as you can.

[@bombdotcom2168]

I think the narrator telling the boyfriend he needs to learn boundaries is BS tbh. He's only defending his partner, and the fact that the parent is so outraged by that is concerning.

[@TheDarkLink7]

The drinking story. Yeah that is a big no she is not the jerk for worrying about his drinking. To me personally it sounds like with him saying that what he said up front. That it sounds like a subtle cry for help.

[@Dave-bu6bc]

story 1, send her a text every 15 minutes for about 3 days, all saying no. If asking 3 times causes the answer to come back 250+ times, she'll learn not do do it.

[@n1ck816]

Frankly I’d get psychotic with the texting just a repeated no with each no being a separate text.

[@gent2205]

The alcoholic one you've just got to leave. If he thinks you're the reason for his drinking then then remove the reason and save yourself the trouble.

[@tinabrock758]

Op your SO has a drinking problem. Leave him now. It want get better until he stops. NTA LEAVE

[@Blaque_Dahlya]

It sounds like OP doesnt know him at all. This is sad. She needs to leave.

[@tinabrock758]

I'll go with you girl. He's an a hole

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Take some pictures for me

[@markkoops2611]

So go no contact, including don't msg them

[@YourShadowKeeper]

Story 4: Addicts who refuse to address their addiction and refuse to seek help are some of the worst people to be around, especially when they are addicted to something that potentially inhibits their ability to think rationally, and know when they should stop doing something deeply toxic or harmful. No one deserves to be abused or blamed for someone else's poor life choices. I hope OP moves out and fully educates themself on the reality of being in a relationship with an addict from the many support groups online and in person that can share their knowledge and story with OP, and that enables OP to make an educated decision on whether they want to stay in the relationship. Either way, I hope OP moves out to protect themself.

[@masvrashrekgeal4883]

Leave him and tell you're parent to help you

[@sarg6867]

1st story just be happy and not be upset

[@purplebanana6420]

Bro getting cheated without a doubt and dont know what to do 🤨 like she better leave and leave fast dont even tell him just let him wonder wtf happened let that guilt eat at him

[@tinabrock758]

Op go NC with this crazy women.

[@pranavmahendran5982]

If you refuse to take No as an answer, you'll get a No when you wonder if your family visits you on your deathbed.

[@CoraErickson-cz3zp]

Story 2, you need to talk to him about it. Pretending everything is fine. Isn't going to help. He may need rehab for the illicit substances and you definitely need couples counseling.

[@bbdiablo8407]

Story 1: I get that's it's toxic to ask over and over but what if it was about dishes is that ok to keep asking to get done?

[@haydencutrone6443]

Now I see why she can’t hire people

[@kagome1000o]

I cancel marrying the Guy who wanted to go to Paris because that is just awful to treat somebody like that

[@fenikeizu3392]

Scam Likely? My dude be lookin at Dungeons And Daddies XD

[@fenikeizu3392]

Scam Likely is a proffesional Scammer from a DND campaign made by the team behind the DNDaddies podcast

[@yourface7179]

Man I hate being stuck in the middle of my mom's bull sh!t like with my uncle I can't see him anymore or I'm apparently betraying her and she talks shit about my boyfriend and he gets irritated at me even tho I tell her she's wrong about him he wants me to argue with her which never goes anywhere because my mom is always right I'm scared he will say something to her about it because then she'll get mad at me for telling him what she said like throwing her under the bus I told my boyfriend I shouldn't have said anything because now I'm stuck in this crap and he said well if my mom was talking shit about you you would want to know too yeah but now you hate her And now there is a dinner we are invited to because my mom's birthday he didn't want to go but on that same day is our 11 months of being together I thought we could kinda celebrate both After I got sad and wouldn't talk to him he said he'll go on one condition if I argue with my mom about her talking crap he said get your point across which is arguing but I told him most I could do is tell her she's wrong but goodluck with that I'm honestly thinking about not ever telling him anymore things she says because he will only get more mad and I can't just poof change her way of thinking anyone know what to do?

[@mushmello526]

For story 2: he gave you his passcode which means that „Checking my phone“ isn't your problem at all

[@allenfox7186]

Story 2: The op needs to leave her boyfriend, not just the cheating but the illegal substances as well. Find somewhere else to live without him noticing and quietly leave him but not before changing the other girls contact info to show him that she knows what he’s doing behind her back, then block him on everything. On top of that do an anonymous tip to the local police about the friends activities as an extra FU. Drunk BF: Op needs to leave him, I have an Aunt who married an abusive drunk and trust me it doesn’t get easier. Once out of rage he hit my oldest cousin with a 2x4 and was verbally abused my aunt. My mother and father had to kick his butt out of my grandparents property because of his drunken antics after my grandfather (who is my mother and Aunts father) passed away she later left him but I couldn’t get why it took her so long especially after the 2x4 incident.

[@brianarnold8666]

I hate how many of these "my husband/wife/bf/gf is cheating on me, what should i do?" Easy, leave

[@mrarroyo1990]

Story 3- your family is abusing you right when you start talking to them again, your bf defends you, and you don't know what to do? The man loves you so much he's protecting you and instead of defending him you're trying to get him to forgive your family? They are trying to get you to break up because he loves you? Come on OP...

[@tinabrock758]

Op go back to NC with your family. Their trying to control you not your boyfriend. He loves you & defends you. If your mom is still talking bad about you, she will always treat you bad.

[@Wrixchanger]

The second story has a lot of updates for those who wanna know

[@ayyan08yo]

how does she not no the reason why she says no

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

As someone who HATES surprises, I understand the boyfriend in the last story. But this guy was over the top with his reaction and sounds like he's very controlling. If someone gave me a gift, I wouldn't blow up and get upset at them. Most of the time people would give me things I don't like, but I always say "Thank you!". Also, I hate it when people constantly buys me gifts, which ties in with my issue with not liking surprises. If I want or need something, I'd rather buy it myself. My ex boyfriend would constantly buy me gifts and most of the time it was stuff I didn't like. Even though I told him over and over to stop buying me gifts, he wouldn't listen. After a while I just couldn't take it anymore and it was one of the reasons why I broke up with him. I know for some people that's a strange reason to break up with someone about.

[@BROUBoomer]

The second story... Get tested for STDs. Pack up your stuff while he's at work, and get out. He's not going to change. But let his parents know what happened, the drugs, the cheating, and the “I love you text”. Then move on with your life, move back to the town with your family in it for support. What you should have done with that “I love you” text, text back, “this is his wife, who are you?”. This woman might not have known he has a live in girlfriend, AKA common law wife. She might be just as surprised as you were. Then the little cheating bugger can get yelled at by both of you. But seriously get out, and see a doctor to get tested. You don't know what he might have brought home. That's how a dear friend of mine got AIDS... Her cheating husband. It's no longer the death sentence it once was, but there's still no cure. There isn't a cure for herpes, and several others as well. And, nobody wants you after that either. 👵☮️🖖

[@julielove8846]

For the last story: honestly just cancel his part of the trip and go on vacation FROM HIM all jokes aside there's a huge question u got to ask yourself: if you're fiancee got angry over the fact that you took the time to plan a surprise trip to France and assume that it's just for you, y do you want to marry him. Not many girlfriends/wife's do that for their boyfriends/husbands. OP please take this as the first red flag and LEAVE

[@jessicah3782]

Don’t respond lol or be a slow responder. Narcissts hate that

[@theconfederacyofindependen7268]

Wait, "Scam Likely"? It is the same number that mentally drives me off the cliff, I don't know how it got my number, not only my old but also my NEW Phone Numbers, so the OP GF of the BF who is called by Scam Likely is the same number that regularly calls me, but it don't matter, it's a whole Red Army of flags to me, not Scam Likely but the OP GF of a BF that has Scam Likely among the Contacts, you need to Block Scam Likely OP, like, IT IS THE SAME CONTACT THAT INTERRUPTS ME!

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[@becbusman7721]

I got it easy solution for that first story for yourself on KZbin say no and this is the reason why and I know you're going to ask again and when you ask again this video is going to come up and I'm going to do the same thing instead of having myself explain myself over and over and over again I'm just going to come here in this video and you can hear me as often as you want but you don't have to say anything I'll just do it in the video

[@Mikailjaffer]

Let’s go.The most early I’ve been

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[@nws6146]

Last guy was completely justified. You can’t expect somebody to be okay leaving work for 2 weeks and only give them 3 weeks notice before the trip begins. Should’ve surprised him 6 months in advance. The fact that he talked about “really wanting to go to Paris” in the past is completely irrelevant, but it’s how she keeps trying to justify it in her head.

[@jorelnavarro]

Three weeks notice is way too short of a notice for an international getaway. People usually plan this out at least three months in advance. She clearly didn't think this through.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

I don't give a s*** the way he reacted was way too unreasonable

[@somerandomidiot7738]

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[@madambutterfly1997]

That’s just BS. People are their most honest when inebriated. Because when they’re inebriated they don’t have the filters so anything that comes out of their mouth is the truth and how they feel

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Sorry but I had to but why does he sound like quandale Dingle 💀 (No hate did not watch the video I just clicked on it cuz why not and decided to comment this)

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