Spoiled Brat’s Mother tries to SUE ME cuz I put her kid in TIMEOUT - Reddit Podcast

[@wendigo2520]

This is the part that the toxic side of the body-positivity activists don’t get into their thick head. Yes you should love yourself in any shape or weight (body standards can be ridiculous and denigrating) but you CANNOT deny facts when it comes to your health. Also.. I suspect the parents right away. Ugh, what toxic family. I’m so happy this little dude learned his lesson and now is on his way to a better life

[@iamhungey12345]

@Righty's Creative Corner Don't give up, it's never going to be easy and it takes dedication but you can do it.

[@juliusnebulus7303]

Story 2: The parents wanted to help him but were desperate since he was a completely dumb and ignorant idiot. And since he did not care and refused their help they had no other choice then trying to shame him into getting better. The op was the idiot and the jerk. The parents were just desperate, forced to take more drastic actions by the op.

[@JRSping]

Lose weight then, you chose to be fat and its a parents job to make sure their kid isnt obese and unhealthy. Fat isnt healthy.

[@juliusnebulus7303]

@@JRSping the parents did try. But you can't control all aspects. The way the child acted shows his mind was infected with all the shit you see in the internat, that acceptance and human and childrens rights shit. The op clearly isn't the smartest, he is easy to manipulate and extremly rebellious towards his parents. He wouldn't have listened,no matter what they would've done. That's one of the cases where "this damn phone" probably was a part of the cause. Probably also a low IQ, otherwise he would've realised they wanted to help.

[@Coira2]

I was so excited that he stood up for himself at fat camp, but he took everything too far afterward. Fat positive stuff feels like an incredibly small line you can only toe if you're never sick.

[@kaiathon]

2 Story: Y'all gotta remember he was 15 when this started. Tell me you know of a 15 year old who doesn't have a stick up their ass who knows it all. And if you do, that's because they were forced to grow up faster because of their environment, which most of them realize later in life, and that isn't right. Of course he was kind of narcissistic. He was 15. I was a MASSIVE narcissist when I was 15. I was a very different person a mere 4 years ago. You change a lot, and yea, sometimes it takes a health scare to wake someone up. That's how the world works. What do you think COVID was for a lot of people? His story makes sense. He was young and dumb, grew up, and matured. I'm proud of him for that. Don't know why so many of you are hating on him.

[@gillerdaduck]

THIS. Like I think half of these comments forgot the fact that he wasn't even old enough to be able to drive like bro at that age I'd still be playing video games. Like he was 14, and that's honestly pretty amazing for how he matured in a toxic environment.

[@smiley4995]

I mean he's still an ass. It seems as though he's trying to share the blame when really it was on him solely. Sure they went to extremes, but clearly they tried before with trying to get him to go to the gym and get him some healthier stuff, yet he claims they only went to extremes. It's sad. I mean an apology that tries to lay the blame also on the person you're sorry to isn't really an apology. Op sucks and should do an actual apology and make up with his parents.

[@worldspam5682]

He was still stupid for throwing fit (politely) ower someone trying to save his life. He was a giant hypocrite for telling that his overweight is a good thing to show who really cares about him when he to the end refused to take care from the only two peraons who really wanted to help him over some "internet studies" and reddit nerds and sjw community. He literally tried to find way to sue (or at least threaten to sue) his parents for trying to help him. And in the end when they lost all faith in him and come to terms with the fact that their kid would die horrible death or become a fat vegetable. As a conclusion when he got his head from ass he just said: "Oh, this stupid parents don't want to talk to me and they did so much horrible things to me, so I just run away from them as soon as I turn 18" He didn't change mentally. He's still a narcissist, but now his condition got through his stupidity. Only that got through, nothing else. His parents are still bad. Guys on reddit that said that he should lose weight are bad as staff of a camp, doctors and school are as well. And 15 isn't an age for throwing fit not to attend events and talking to new people in camp. He literally went on reddit to ask if there are any legal ways to stop parents. It's the age when your critical thinking should be at least near done as there are only 4 years to adulthood. Trying to imply that it's normal to be stupid narcissist at the age of 15 speaks for itself.

[@gaara3276]

I agree but it is his life maybe he'll change

[@mariankaikai350]

thats character development😊

[@LuccaRPG]

Man, the 2nd kid...like he takes NO responsibility for his health at all. It took a literal health scare to get him to do anything. I'm glad he finally figured it out, but maaaan.

[@lucasrodrigues-ew8ii]

He was a kid, thats normal the parents did a shit job of raising him

[@flodareltih4832]

Yeah he really thinks that he doesn’t have responsibility’s, like how hard is it to try to and lose weight. Like op really was 255 at 14. That’s not healthy but hey diabetes gonna hit him like a dump truck

[@yuvalweissman9490]

Also he is really surprised that his parents won’t talk to him? He searched how he could call the police on them for them trying to save his live(!) why would them talk to him if they know they can get in serious trouble

[@LuccaRPG]

@@yuvalweissman9490 Right? I'm not saying the parents weren't toxic themselves, but the kid was also, again, not taking any responsibility for any of his actions.

[@riccardocalosso5688]

I'm just glad he overcame the obstacle. I'm still in the process, and shits hard.

[@dutchvanderbilt9969]

Well the kid went from being a know-it-all kid with his head up his butt to finally realizing that he had to do something about a situation. At least he changed towards the end.

[@lfztomwes]

100th like

[@daganplaysgames6114]

He is Gandhi

[@jaydavis155]

​@@daganplaysgames6114 or H.D.Thoreau

[@TheAdrift]

I feel bad that a lot of people are blaming him, but like… his parents neglected him like crazy. How do people learn to take or not take responsibility for their actions? Well, when you’re his age, you learn that from your parents primarily! Honestly, his parents set him up for a rough life of hard adult lessons, so it’s kinda cool that he wound up learning to take responsibility for himself by accident at 17. There’s a KZbinr named Megan Anne, who also learned these health consequences at a young age, got WLS and got her shit together, and now she makes videos talking about that, and about the damage that the fat acceptance movement can do to society-she also says she was grateful that she didn’t have to wait until she got older for negative health outcomes to present themselves, so there was still plenty of time to fix it in her youth before irreversible damage started happening.

[@calvinmeier1662]

Don’t be a fatphobe

[@marklindjr.2017]

The second story seems to be getting a lot of hate from people because the kid wasn’t except responsibility, which yes is a major problem, but he also makes it clear in the future that he was in a bad relationship with his parents due to them being off and on parents. I’ve had a couple of friends who had similar situations and it took them several years to get their lives together. Maybe not with the weight thing, but one of my friends almost failed school because of it. Off and on parenting is not helpful to a child going through their toughest years. The child clearly saw this as a spite against him and probably got some bad advice from his friends at school which I think most of us can relate to. Realistically he’s being a dumb 8th/9th grader who thinks he knows more than he does. I think most people have that stage in life where we think we know everything. Rather than be mad at a kid who was being dumb, we should be inspired by a kid who turned his life around for the better. It may have been a hard road for him, but he’s improved his life and that’s what’s really important. I just hope someday he can have a civil relationship with his parents, which again only feels like it’s partially his fault, but majorly neglect on the parents fault.

[@Pikachu150]

Tbh I'm not really buying it. I think that he left out a lot of stuff to try and make himself seem better then he was. The fact that he admitted he reacted to screams so quickly makes me think that he was basically a Dudley Dursley.

[@Mana7Origin]

@@Pikachu150 I wholeheartedly agree with you. A big piece of evidence is that this story wasn't told in one go, but slowly updated over the years. All the new bad details about his parents only came up when he wanted to change his image for a perfect redemption arc. From the start, he did not hold back on sharing any details, so I don't believe he was withholding anything in the past. Plus, if they were such bad parents, they sure kept feeding, clothing, and schooling him during the no verbal communication period. They lost hope for him, but did not give up on their parental duties. And it's more likely that there were attempts to start a conversation, but it always ended up badly because of OP. So yeah, I don't believe it one bit when OP is labeling his parents as toxic. He's just too arrogant , egoistic, and narcisstic to bear the blame all by himself. He doesn't even want to share the blame 50/50. He probably just wants 5.

[@HonklerUnitedInc]

Yes blame parents not him refusing to stop eating so much

[@aluralovell6829]

​@@Pikachu150 Finally someone said it. I could be wrong but he came off as someone who thought Reddit would be on his side and then when he got flamed suddenly now they were bad people who neglected him but before they weren't bad people and took good care of him?

[@Bushido-road]

While his parents were partially to blame for his lack of understanding, OP is just as much at fault here. I get that he was happy with being fat, but he was so full of himself for thinking his parents couldn’t legally force him to go to a health camp for the summer at 14 or that he didn’t need to take his heart medication because of the side effects. While he did manage to change in the end, his story isn’t anything to be inspired by, especially since he only started to better himself when his poor health finally started to affect him.

[@dracko158]

OP lost weight by himself but his parents refused to talk to them anyway? Bruh, I would be so proud of my son if he lost weight on his own!

[@OKAYOKAY420]

Probably because they brought it up for years and he didn't care until it finally started affecting him. He said himself that he wasn't pleasant to be around.

[@SMDoktorPepper]

The OP was an entitled brat, crying because his parents were being "mean" for wanting him to be healthy. Sure,he FINALLY lost the weight, but for years bitched and moaned about it, driving everyone near him away.

[@belaize6905]

Bro burned every bridge of his with his parents and now blames them for why they don’t talk

[@christina1764]

@@belaize6905 what have he done for his parents not talking to him. They were the problem only be home 3 days a week for taken on holidays for month without him, they did all they could to ruin this boy. The parents were the problem, and in my eyes they are disgusting people.

[@blaze10283i]

@@christina1764 i think i had a stroke and a half reading this xd

[@cybercat7851]

The 1st story: I would want to know what the lawsuit record is. someone threatened to sue me for punching her son… We were sparring. I’m a martial arts instructor.

[@lnsanity2]

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@tetothehearthunter1072]

God I relate to the first story Private schools are really a breeding ground of Entitled Karens and their spoiled Hellspawns When I was a neophyte teacher in a private school where rich and snobby kids go to with their entitled parents Parents would always gawk and bs that their crotchspawns is a star , a genius , a gift to mankind that won't lie or do mistakes etc. I've never been happier teaching in public schools sure there are still Entitled parents but at least not as psychotic as the rich ones.

[@Lillith.]

That guy grew so much in 2 years. Going from a child saying no to someone who takes responsibility for his actions. He literally got a wake-up call and did what he needed to. It's sad to see his parents neglected him. No child deserves to live like that. As a child your parents are responsible for your eating habits, when you buy your own food it's your own. It may be hard to break those habits, because you've probably been stuck with them for ~18 years. If you're trying to lose weight remember that every single change you make, even a single cookie per week less, is progress. The reason many people fail when they diet is doing everything at once. Try small steps you feel comfortable with. If you know you can't have snacks in the house because they will get eaten, leave them at the store. If you know you're not going to eat those apples, don't buy them either. If walking past snacks in a store is too difficult for you, try doing your groceries online. The items are in sections, and fruit, veggies, meat, dairy, and bread are at the top. If you don't have an online store try asking someone else to go for you or with you. And never ever go without a list, keeping to a list is way easier than looking for things you want to eat, because the lure of delicious easy things are way less tempting when you don't see them.

[@davefenner3328]

ESH

[@jellysquid8077]

I'm proud of that OP in the end. He went from "There is NO reason to get healthy!" To "I'm gonna get healthy for myself!"

[@Chrissy85308]

I am so happy the young man turned his life around and sounds so good. I feel bad about the way his parents left him for weeks and sometimes months alone. That is so wrong. He is definitely doing better and I am proud of him for working so hard.

[@monroerobbins7551]

Here’s the thing about the second story; I used to be forced to exercise every day, for 30 minutes. I hated it cause I have flat feet, and it hurt like hell, and I had an eating disorder for a hot minute, so didn’t help me very much. It led to me getting to 180 pounds, and for a five foot man, it was bad. I hated my body, and i hated the idea of exercise cause it was intrinsically linked with the other trauma i had as a kid. But then I began getting healthier slowly over time, exercising and boxing, things that made me happy, not something someone was forcing me to. I wasn’t shamed for my weight at my new house, and I wanted to lose weight so I could be healthier, and do the things I loved. Plus, I just like boxing. That’s the thing about weight loss; it can’t be something you’re forced into, especially when you’re young, like this guy was. Yeah, he was a know it all, but most folks are at 15, and the fact that those parents are just stonewalling communications with him now… to me that doesn’t feel right. I’m glad OP is doing better, and I hope the relationship with their folks get better, cause while the OP was being obstinate, those parents went about their good intentions in the worst way possible.

[@isaidajhooks7631]

Op#2 Being ok with being overweight doesn’t make it ok. Caring about your body is not shallow. Not being ok with being overweight is NOT shallow. It won’t make a huge difference as a kid… But it definitely will as an adult. Thinking that it’s shallow of people who work hard on their bodies to be proud of what they’ve earned is low level thinking. Your mother did you a disservice letting it get this far. I hope you get healthy because you’re worth the work! You truly are

[@Thao-nathos]

Honestly i am glad the kid in the second story changed his mind over his weight for his own health but also yeah health camps do not do shit and in public schools they cannot legally force you to take medications, and his parents just straight up deciding he doesn't exist anymore after he refused to do as they say kinda left me like???? That's literally the crappiest thing they could do

[@HonklerUnitedInc]

Can only care for long until you give up. They gave up got sick of watching self destruction... I don't blame them

[@Thao-nathos]

@@HonklerUnitedInc i do actually, i really do A thing is giving up on pushing him for the better and a thing is cutting him off entirely as if he did not exist even after he changed his mind One is actual desperation the other feels like they cared more about his and their image eather than his health

[@johnnymcneal5914]

I wouldn't worry much about these brats because as soon as they're ready for society and they still acting up like this they'll get a reality check very quick when they're find themselves in handcuffs

[@mafcapetillo]

The girl of the first story really was about to ruin someone's life for... getting a time-out at school? Gosh, how can people be like this??

[@kateparent366]

That kid and her mother deserve a good ass beating.

[@SpicyCarrot-gt2ud]

"The yOUng yArD dUtY hIt Me, And cAlL Me nAmES" 😂😂😂

[@BreadFlavorSpots]

For the story two OP I can relate to the “it seems like my parents don’t care about my opinion”

[@cheshirecat3845]

The 2nd story is super relatable… ouch… my mother was like his parents . I wasn’t even that fat in hindsight, but I was unhealthy still. I didn’t have health issues like that, but she acted like I did. I was depressed and her constant remarks about my size didn’t help. I didn’t start losing weight until I moved out. Then I had to move back in and like magic, the weight came back. Then I moved out again(have stayed gone this time) and the weight dropped off in less than a year. In less than a year, I went from about 300 lbs to 180.

[@RainPark-vn2bx]

what did you do to lose the weight? just curious bc im trying to figure out what works for me

[@cheshirecat3845]

@@RainPark-vn2bx I really wish I had an answer. Only thing I can think of is that I wasn't as stressed when away from her. Aside from that, I didn't eat much bread, or much of anything for that much. Food is expensive

[@kaitlinklassen6527]

I was 250lbs by age fourteen myself at a measly 5’2” in height. Losing weight has so many more benefits than just the way people around you perceive you to be. I had so much more energy after the first 100lbs came off. You don’t realize just how much strain your body is under until the burden is lifted and then you start to wonder why you waited so long to feel this good.

[@blackpaladin3339]

When it comes to the second story, I can relate to a degree. I also suffer from weight issues as well. At my heaviest, I was at 375 lbs. Now, I've lost as much as 75 pounds. (There was a point where my weight was at 285 lbs., but I had gained about 15 lbs. later... either it was because of excess water, foostuffs, muscle... or possibly slipping in my dieting. The pandemic has been, and still is, very difficult for anyone who's trying to keep the excess weight off.) Now, the question about OP being the jerk? Well, yes. His issues about his girth isn't an issue of vanity. It's an issue of health. (I can defintely relate as I had sleep apnea due to obesity, even using a CPAP machine for awhile to help me sleep. I don't need the machine anymore now.) Also, the parents were jerks. They were pretty much neglecting their child and only involving themselves few and far between and using unrealistically harsh methods. The "fat camp" may sound like a good idea at that time, but you cannot force someone to lose weight unless the person (OP in this case) wants to lose the weight. Anyway, I'm glad OP in the second story did decide to lose weight for himself and is continuing to improve himself. I hope he keeps up the good work and continue to better himself in the forseeable future.

[@gavinweaver5177]

That kid is so unbelievably adamant about sacrificing 5 to 15 years of his life, and his health and just doesn't take any responsibility for himself just vehemently shitting on his parents because they don't want his life to be worse because of his health

[@tiffanym1108]

I had a boyfriend who had a quadruple bypass at 30 and refused to stop eating junk. I was there for his 4th and I made him meals, tried to set him on the straight and narrow and come to find out he was eating all the fried stuff from the deli he worked at. I had enough. I loved him but I couldn't watch him kill himself anymore. I broke up with him. Not amicably. I hadn't talked to him in years and mutual friend of ours called me a few years ago to tell me he died of a heart attack. At that point, I had moved on and was engaged but it still hit me hard. There were conflicting emotions of I could have helped him and he did this to himself. I still love him to this day. But you can't fix someone who gave up on themselves

[@iLikePlanes16]

In story #2, if the doctors believe that he's having a heart attack, they're going to take him to a cath lab to remove the blockage, but if they see that nothing is there, then why are they giving him medication? Also, if he's been having heartburn for a while, why wouldn't they prescribe him something for gastroesophogeal reflux disease? Because, y'know, if he was having a heart attack for several months, he would be dead.

[@loganfox7306]

Some karens act like they will sue you for LITERALLY BREATHING lol

[@Gladis-no3ks]

When I was in childs/youth Psychiatrie I met a few people who also weren't very... Cooperative, to just shove someone into something and telling them to do something will most likely do the opposite. To change something you need to want to change something and as we heard, it can take a near death experience to get that to happen, especially if it's a teenager who's already somewhat rebellious. Honestly at least he did it without harming anyone

[@jellyinkysplash8415]

3:17 this made me laugh 😂

[@shawndenisecoley2670]

In the 2nd story: This young man was very overweight and he was only 15 years old. I understand that his parents put him in Fat Camp without talking to him first and that they were concerned about his health. He was a narcissist and a know-it-all kid. I feel that you only get a mom and a dad in this lifetime. His parents should've been there for him instead of doing their own thing and not doing things with him to help this young man get the help that he needed. Shame on the parents! I'm glad that he woke up and realized that he made major mistakes about his health. Sleep Apnea is a scary thing when you trying to breathe and you're gasping for air. I'm glad that this young man got his life together and I pray that he stay healthy for all the right reasons. Kudos!

[@iamhungey12345]

OP in story 2: *gets send to fat camp* Mah rights! Also OP: *gets heart attack* I should have seen this coming!

[@TheDarkLink7]

The second story. It sounds like also a psychological thing as well. Like ya know how people over eat cause X Y or Z? From what it sounds like and I'm not no psychologist here but it sounds like OP, was using a lot of what they were eating as replacement for the parents and didn't realize it.

[@jasoncarpp7742]

*Story 1:* Some children are undisciplined. Just because their parents are wealthy, they seem to think they can get away with anything and not get punished for wrongdoing.

[@YourAverageProgrammer1]

That has nothing to do with the US education system. Thats just either the School or the entire district being filled with people who never got an elementary school degree

[@aeslynsmoy9994]

For me personally I dont mind being overweight, but it does have its cons. Like being tired quicker, health issues, and a.. certain fun things can't be done as easily.

[@Nockgun]

like parkour parkour is easier with slim body as its in getting over obstacles

[@alpha-sama]

While the parents in the second story behaved awfully, yes, OP definitely was the jerk at first. This is what's wrong with most teenagers nowadays: They know nothing, yet claim to know everything. Anyone with a brain could tell you a 14-year old shouldn't weigh 275 pounds, bu mister know it all here thought he was in a position to refuse his parents' and the camp's attempts to help him. At least he learned from it.

[@StopMotion-Dann]

how would you like it if someone told you that you were gonna spend your last summer as a child talking about a problem that wasnt a problem yet

[@Kkfcvjrd]

Im so proud of the 2nd kid

[@CodingOfficialZEAL]

The last story is so much respect. You go man.

[@markdee6470]

He was body positivity up until he had a heart attack at 15.

[@unkownbeing5420]

That's how it usually goes for everyone

[@simonndys]

I’ve never been so invested in a story as much as the last one

[@IridescentFalcon72]

Yeesh, glad that kid finally wised up. Huge difference between "you have value no matter how you look" and "uwu you don't need to change anything about urself". Then again the parents were a huge part in messing this poor kid up. Shocker, being hugely overweight is *not* "fine" or okay for your body, it destroys your body and joints and everything. Relieved that it sounds like this kid got a lot better. What awful parents... . Proud of him for getting out and getting better.

[@Happy_garry]

When I was in the 4th grade I was being called names at recess so I told the recess monitor who called me a tattletale and did nothing about it.

[@richardlong314]

I had just over 30 lawsuit threats and countless death threats as a bouncer

[@Scarene]

This family needs a serious intervention

[@edwin7788]

The facts Hannah almost fixable by saying the truth, but her parents make it worst ....

[@lunalilicomarch6767]

I relate to that last story, but my issue is I've been bigger my whole life where even with EDs I never lost, but never gained either. I stayed at the same high weight no matter what I ate, if I didn't eat, if I exercised or didn't, etc for 10+ years. The only time I lost weight was over a year when I was turning 18, my parents stopped buying me food saying they couldn't afford it, and so I was only eating once to twice a week by either art commissions or sneaking small amounts of pretzels that were too little to notice go missing. I was also exercising on top of it, but over that whole year or maybe more, with barely eating and exercising I only lost 40lbs, and promptly gained it all back once I moved out and was eating one meal everyday. My new doctor in my new state has concluded me not being able to lose weight is related to some type of MEDICAL CONDITION that currently is unknown due to starving way more than normal was the only way I really lost any weight at all. My parents have shamed me my whole life basically with my mother even commenting things like "you wouldn't even fit smaller than a size 20 or higher" at that time I was a size 14. Parents seem to shame their kids for being heavier even when its entirely out of their kids control, it's awful. Some people *really* cannot control their weight due to medications, or not being on medications, or other undiagnosed problems that they need help with, not shaming, it could even be addiction for all you know, it can be caused by depression, anxiety, etc. You NEVER know! Moral of the story is basically never body shame and never assume a bigger person is just lazy, some of us are trying super hard to lose weight.

[@shadlin6839]

Love how this 15 year old can choose weather or not he's doctor misdiagnosed him or not

[@gillerdaduck]

Maybe that's what the story meant, but from what I got from the story it was professionally figured out it was just heartburn, and for some reason he was still put on the medication. Though yes I believe the professionals are the ones who know their stuff, I think a heart attack is a pretty big thing and at least slightly easier to tell the difference from then something compared to leg cancer versus skin cancer

[@benjaminneal8050]

It does seem weird that parents will neglect their child on purpose just to get away from them.

[@LOLtz1]

It sounds like that was already happening before. Except after the whole fat camp thing OP parents stopped even trying the bare minimum anymore.

[@Helloig2929]

Story #2 13:00 I'm sorry but they took THE BOOKS away 😭🤚

[@madelineryan548]

As a librarian’s daughter I find that offensive

[@Tontteman]

Story 2: he calls girls who don't want to date a fat guy as shallow, that is quite possibly one of the most narcissist comment i have ever heard. No one is obligated to date you, no one is obligated to date anyone, period. You have no right to criticize anyone who doesn't want to date you, it's every persons right to choose who they date and you are not part of that decision making process. He is only bitter. If he "owns" the fact that he is fat, then he should be man enough to "own" the fact that he is bitter. Fat and bitter, who would want to date that. If you judge people who don't want to date you as someone who is ugly in the inside that actually makes you yourself ugly in the inside. He clearly have some issues, he need to fix.

[@dylanclay2741]

I agree. No self respecting person would put up with that

[@Tontteman]

@@dylanclay2741 In the end part of the story he comes little closer that realization, that he himself is the problem, but he still got long way to go. People should come to that realization before they got heard attack. Big ego is really bad defense mechanisms, you only start pushing people away and judging them, even when they are trying to help you.

[@davefenner3328]

I was just about to comment that. Which girls are shallow?? Dude. 99.9% of girls wouldn't date a fat guy because being fat just isn't good, socially. Not to mention the biological danger of being fat. You're more likely to get a heart attack if you are fat, than if you are not. This guy sounds like one of the people who loves fat culture because it helps them to accept that it's okay and perfectly safe being fat. Like, NO. It is not. Fat and bitter. Perfect statement. He is like those women in woke culture who rate themselves as a 10, while being f-ing 200 lbs. Lol. Get over yourself, OP. Or just keep playing into your insecurity that the world is cruel and fat shaming you. LMAO

[@NikkiAkaNlg]

​@@davefenner3328 Wtf are you even talking about lol? He changed in the end. Do you need a little drama in your life or something?

[@davefenner3328]

@@NikkiAkaNlg Yeah he did, I was talking about when he was a teen. He didn't even acknowledge that he was wrong

[@RapidHockeyToastsss]

Wow this story is crazy

[@Zajdo3]

yeah fr (idk which one)

[@Automaton_unit]

Sounds like a movie

[@princessmarlena1359]

My family only used our lawyer if the school punished me or my siblings for fighting back against a bully or for standing up to a bad/belligerent teacher. We didn’t sue just because the teacher yelled at us or punished us when we actually deserved it (sneaking out, chewing gum, going “out of bounds”, disrupting class, horseplay, etc.).

[@LOLtz1]

Story 2: you can't force someone to lose weight and basing on a kid for resisting is wild. Let's not pretend going to a fat camp is a healthy choice when we know most places can boarder line on torture for forcing kids to have "results". Plus last update shows OP was dealing with bigger problems outside of weight like a stable home life. How is everyone brushing past that initial fact because it would explain why he was to depressed to doing or became overweight from stress. The parents are in the wrong in this situation for being neglectful and dismissive to push everything to the extreme.

[@Crazyunicorn66]

My mom was a glorified baby sitter in my elementary school from when I was in kindergarten to about 4th grade. My whole school loved her. Everyone knew her, no one knew she was my mom. We didn’t look alike she had curly hair I had straight, she had short darker brown hair, I had long medium brown hair. My mom had A LOT of freckles, I had freckles in the summer barley any in the winter. I got bullied a lot by this kid Lily (7) I was 8 I have two older sisters R (12) and N (11) I am the youngest. I started to tell my best friend who is my sister about it. A few week in to this kid bullying me N told me to tell mom when it happens. I as a naive 8 year old I did not. She continued until I told my mom and my friends. She continued until the end of the year. I forgot to say it was her first year in our school, so she didn’t have a lot of friends I was her ONLY friend. She was over protective and that lead to bullying. I got revenge in 4th grade when I was 10 I had my favorite teacher ever and Lily kept stealing from me. So I told the teacher on her it started with her reaching into my desk and taking a pencil, I did mind because she didn’t give it back. Then she took my DOG ASH NECLACE, and a few bracelets, she didn’t know that it was a dog ash necklace but it fell out of her bag and I grabbed it off the floor. I planned to get even more revenge than that I was gonna help my friend who she bullied in 4th grade to report her to the principal. She moved in 5th grade, only to a new school she was still in the same school district. After this kid moved I became friends with kids on my bus. I said my full name to him and he said ‘you are not related to Mrs.(my last name)and became like a rudder kid but we became friends. Anyways I don’t have anymore time to type so bye. I hope you have a good morning/evening/afternoon.

[@dwyer1964]

I love these goddamn stories, and this goddamn channel!

[@jorelnavarro]

Ah yes, the age old "I have a gf in Canada" bit.

[@NikkiAkaNlg]

The first story.. there's something very wrong with that child, I mean it definitely goes past being entitled.

[@smeechoo]

I’ve now listened to every AITJ video except this one!

[@VenomousRobert]

How did you comment 3 minutes before it got uploaded

[@VirginiaWeber-d2z]

Sierra (1st story) good kid Hannah (also 1st story) MENACE TO SOCIETY

[@kunfussed213]

That A Christmas Story reference. 😭🤣

[@vhypnotic6968]

You know they are serious when the have the "delinquents table"

[@dizzy_dino9052]

I once woke up gasping for hair. I had already been trying to lose weight but I was in a similar situation as the kid in that last story. Not because I didnt want to lose weight, because I did and I still do, but I was trying to hard and I didn't like myself. Now I am successfully losing weight and it's been about a year or two since I woke up gasping for air like that. I'm still over 200 pounds but I am getting better, and one of the reasons I'm still over 200 pounds is because I've been gaining muscle.

[@silentscorpio2286]

2 Story: Respect for that kid. The kid handled it so calmly and was still respectful to the people at the camp. Also very admiring how the kid is happy as they are even when everyone shamed them. 🫡

[@kellithompson7686]

What he searched: "What happens if I take heart medicine and I don't have a heart condition?" Google: "You are going to die"

[@Lingeringwill4784]

2nd kid is the equivalent of an older Eric cartman

[@kanelovec4315]

The parents went about this the wrong way. You don't force someone to change. You should respectively educate them and support them. There should be support like joining in activities or diets if possible, also if a person is questioning why this stuff is happening or why they need do this then explain things respectively. Even if they don't want help then leave a door open so they can come to you.

[@The1stBeanCouncilMember]

Bro was reading stories while Speedrun ing FortOhio in the background wth☠️☠️☠️

[@AllySimCraft]

I just imagine that the first story is set in a school that looks sorta fancy like a castle or very very modern

[@amyludington8478]

Love the Christmas Story reference!

[@mushroomgamer7650]

The kid on the 2nd story needed a health scare to start his training arc

[@holyherb4203]

No electronics, lock on the fridge, just clothes and a bed in his room.

[@schruboderso6162]

im glad that the last person figured out how to not hate himself and starting to eat healthier and even lifting he turned his life around, i respect that

[@ChelseyIsATotal5SOSFan]

As a heavy person as well I don’t at all condone this behavior. This kid is 15 and he doesn’t have a say, I don’t enjoy being fat. I’m trying to lose weight to feel better and it’s been working and I’m seeing a difference. So this kid is one of those people who think being fat is healthy when it’s definitely not.

[@yourlocalcoffeeaddict9603]

Listen to the rest of the story, it's not his fault.

[@ChelseyIsATotal5SOSFan]

@@yourlocalcoffeeaddict9603 I mean whether it’s his fault or not his fault he still shouldn’t have thought it was okay to be heavy, I listened to the whole story but I still think he was somewhat to blame for his own actions.

[@MarsJenkar]

@@ChelseyIsATotal5SOSFan Honestly, I think the parents totally bungled their approach to the OP's health issue. By sending OP to the fat camp against the OP's wishes, they only prompted the OP to dig in their heels. (I suspect this may well be a major factor in the low success rate of these camps.) While an intervention may have been necessary they needed to find another way to deal with it, preferably more hands-on on the parents' part (given the previous parental neglect). I honestly think that the parents' decision to send OP to fat camp only entrenched the OP's behavior deeper, which may have contributed to the OP's later resistance to the medical interventions, and then the later health crisis.

[@meluddin2770]

I love your content!!! These stories are great. Hey KZbin you’d be losing an asset if you shut this channel down. You know they have never made a violation.

[@cameronmcgreanor7796]

The two girls from story 1 remind me of three characters from a certain superhero show that takes place in france (Hannah being the bully and liar, and Sierra being the crony).

[@jillianbetts4306]

How did he have the motivation to keep exercising? I've been doing intermittent fasting that is supposed to work for my body type (20/4) and when I do eat, it's healthy foods like egg, spinach, and ham omelettes. I have scoliosis and minor arthritis in my hip and knee, so most exercises like walking and running are extremely taxing and somewhat painful, but not in a good way. I'm 5'11" and about 235+lbs and I want to get back to my swim team weight 175. I can't believe I thought I was fat back then.. All the swimming pools here are heckin expensive, and I can't afford a membership. Maybe I just need to bite the bullet and work more so I can afford it. Any advice would be great Edit: the arthritis is from a surgery I had when I was 16 and I'm almost 21

[@Iron_GNR]

The 2nd story is the laziest person ever and has no regard for his health at all

[@madelineryan548]

Did you not hear the updates? He’s a changed man and has dropped 100lbs!

[@Coira2]

Poor kid, I was all for him standing up for himself until he took it too far. I hope his health improves.

[@azazellon]

"Sierra is not important to the story" 😭

[@dogwood8675]

The fortnite in the background 😂😂😂😂

[@Mini-hq1kz]

3:15 made me laugh 😂

[@Mocaforlife]

What I would talk to her like she would talk to me 😂😂

[@Mocaforlife]

Because I can talk like a baby 😂😂

[@NinjaBoy641]

"Jumping into the future, there's an update" "Jumping into the future, there's an update" "Jumping into the future, there's an update" "Jumping into the future, there's an update" But fr glad that kid turned his life around.

[@carpocarpo1986]

The last story hit home quite abit with me i get that when people try to force you to lose weight never works and people are stubborn know this as a fact just he turned his life around and alot of people like me regret the help they was trying to offer but they went the wrong way about it

[@elijahwe5900]

For story two, legally he can be forced to go to (I think he called it) fat camp in fact parents can do a lot of things because minors have very little rights one of the things your parents can do is force you to go somewhere. Also another thing a parent can do is give you unfair and harsh punishment so no it’s not abuse (unless it is) and that’s coming from a 13 year old, that’s saying a lot about how little people know the law, I don’t really want to talk about what I think and technically is legally correct mostly because so many people would get mad (Just saying I learned this from my civics teacher who was in the military he also has the funniest stories).

[@HeyWhyAreYouHere]

Found this when I pressed “gaming”, nice.

[@HeyWhyAreYouHere]

The Karen be gaming

[@claytonsellers2180]

Love the video

[@KittyGotClaws666]

Yeah none of the kids who picked on me during my lunch hours got punished yet I got punished for sleeping during lunch and lashing out at the bullies

[@fetor2597]

Some people just have to learn the hard way

[@lssweet]

Man the second story could be made into a motivational film or something... that was a very long rollercoaster!

[@YourLocalBed]

I swear, if these stories came from your life, you have the most interesting life in the world

[@dootdootskellybones3540]

In story 1: we used to call the “lawn monitors” lunch monitors

[@q9_gamer418]

congrats on 1 million

[@debrafellers9356]

Honestly, story two's summary sounded like an cruddy anime plot

[@soren_1514]

HE SAID "WE CAN GET MUCH HIGHER" (so high)

[@SenseiRaisen]

the 2nd story i was thinking the entire time: Why now? i mean you need it ASAP. Not because of look at all but because been fat is really dangerous, considering how your body react to that and as well how much your grease in blood affect. Since you can get a cardiac arrest any any point of your life because of that too. Maintain a balanced body is better. But everything comes from your mind as well since you had to have the mindset to pull it through as well. I always try to maintain a balance too since i found myself with high cholesterol last year, and manage to lose 10kg in 3 months by only doing 1 hour of gym bike per day. In the end this affect me good too. SO, i can said: "Do this for yourself and not for others, your will thanks me later". But that not excuse what the parents did either, because they should show him the bad side of been fat too and what cause in adults. Also they don't need a camp since a Gym make that one better. EVEN SET UP A FRIGGING GYM BIKE ON YOUR HOME. Again, because i had that in my room, since this was a gift for my mother, but she use her mountain bike more than the gym bike too, and my room has space for store it, so i said "WHY NOT?". And even i set it in front of my PC when i had to do exercise and watch something or play games while I'm on it. Also i recommend it to play racing games too, since enhance the experience of "running" much better. Also i think it was more the parents not been parents and push it when OP was teen without the proper care as well. I was on other hand really skinnier but had a metabolism high. I gain weight around 2016 to 2018. I had a belly. It wasn't much but then my work start to decline due tireness and laziness cause by cholesterol high. That was last year and i began to make a routine to keep my weight around 70 kg , plus the body shape that as well.

[@Wemby73]

I agree

[@LeviHartz]

The person on the thumbnail almost looks like that vegan teache😂

[@Suirioujin]

What a pleasure to always hear people having amazig ambiton, like " oh I'm gonna do nuclear engineering" or things like that No I don't feel like a failure :)

[@pureevil8]

I also was a very fat and tall kid,i always thought how he thought but now i go try to be fit enough because being fit makes me more energetic and world not peaceful enough for me to be fat and slow

[@The_Lazy_Slime]

If his parents left him alone in the house for months than his parents are guilty of child abandonment and neglect.

[@renepeters945]

As for the weight one, I do feel better mentally after losing 40 pounds. I'm on a special diet for my epilepsy... The keto diet. All I keep track of is carbs. Less than 20 grams a day. I don't count calories, fats, protein, or anything. JUST carbs. I work with a nutritionist and have blood work done regularly. I enjoy the diet and it makes it easy to feel good. There's pride due to my success, less physical pain, and so much more.

[@windowsreplicate8691]

1:44 what's a crony?

[@YTisactuallydecent]

A friend/companion