An Unforgettable Father's Toast At His Gay Son's Wedding

[@bettymcghee2792]

My son is gone _ he passed away. I wish I could help adult children know how much as parents we love you. We want nothing or No one to hurt you. We can't hold you any more but as parents we forever hold you in our heart and soul. Forever a mom.

[@collinsje5]

I am a 71-year-old gay man. Though life has made me tough, this speech made me cry. That father is a treasure.

[@VivBeyer1111]

@David McClean Much Love, you are Awesome !

[@naomigoldberg6544]

Jerald Collins, I'm too young to be your mama, but everyone deserves a parent who has their back. Many people in this world would accept and support you as you are, and I am one. Gd bless. ❤️

[@scubawrestler]

At 66 I am right there with you.

[@normanjames4867]

@@kerrylord2576 He watched and commented because hate is a powerful drug.

[@kerrylord2576]

@@normanjames4867 do you think its because what people are taught in church about this matter ,not only in church ,my father was a very very hard man ,add a terrible upbringing but their was never hate i was taught if people arnt bothering you dont worry .

[@Berliner7654321]

A straight elderly dad stealing the show at a gay wedding, this is a singular event in history. He would have been one hell of a salesman, one justs trusts him instinctively. I'd bet he did a great job as a father, too.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

+Berliner7654321 He is an amazing leader in everything he does. He is a teacher at heart, but has been very successful in the business world, too. You nailed it...people trust him instinctively. He is an amazing father. Thank you so much! Kris (his son).

[@Berliner7654321]

+How To Feed A Loon He still stole the show ;-)

[@VivBeyer1111]

Because he speaks from the heart and means every word he says DEEPLY.....

[@val13c59]

Berliner7654321 I’m not sold

[@mariusetternavn6214]

@@Berliner7654321 that's not what it's about.. And it was he's speech, if he didn't "steal the show" during he's own speech it would be pritty lame

[@jhalaby1]

Absolutely in tears. Everyone deserves a dad like this. Bless you all.

[@sandyparrott3742]

Yeah for a wonderful dad

[@Lisa_the_Cottage_Witch]

This Dad is just awesome! He should rent himself out to couples who don’t have a supportive Dad. ❤️

[@suttersgolden]

There was this dad who I saw on the news who went to LGBT events and held a sign saying that if anyones parents weren't part of their lives, they could come get a hug from a dad who loved them. He said he gave out hundreds of hugs at a single event, and from some of the videos, you could see so many people were so emotional to have a parent to hug them and love them and it was a horrible mixture of heartbreaking that so many people's parents desert them when they realize there is a quality of their child that the parents disapprove of (one that the child has no control over) and heartwarming that this kind man would go to these events and be a parent to total strangers who needed a hug from a parent

[@ekaterinas8796]

Kaitlin Lucky isn’t he the hero whose son was killed bc of being gay or suicide?

[@John-ro1iv]

Are you calling him a rent boy now? How very dare you!

[@horsecrazyky]

So sad and so true. Everyone deserves a Father like this and yet this man is an extremely rare breed.

[@llouiseboyd4204]

Lisa, what a fantastic idea!

[@concorde9615]

My God. Everyone should be so lucky to have a father such as this man.

[@alanaban1840]

Father do not endorse sin/ marriage is husband and wife / not husband and husband/ that is marrage

[@shanesmith-vn1ri]

​@@alanaban1840 keep crying😂😂

[@alanaban1840]

@@shanesmith-vn1ri you know what I said is the truth/

[@gabbylauren]

Okay not only is he hilarious but he is just such a kind, caring, pure soul! What an absolutely amazing man 🙏

[@VivBeyer1111]

It takes one to recognise one

[@wilkdog1582]

Good speach I agree but that’s a bit of a big call for someone you don’t know, have never met and only seen on a 9 min KZbin video

[@pamw2448]

Wilk Dog you’re making an assumption. Maybe she knows him in real life. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@wz0hjd]

@@wilkdog1582 - you'd be supreised. I read one sentence written by you and it tells me more than you will ever know.

[@19lhernandez]

WELL SAID!!!!👏👏

[@martinwalker3497]

Brilliant! If every child had a father like this gentle man, the world would be a very different place. Respect.

[@davebenny9523]

Just wonderful. I've always remembered a quote from a gay soldier that went like this - "They called me a hero for killing a man , then dismissed me for loving one."

[@enzi4569]

Dave Benny shook

[@Tonithenightowl]

Amen.

That was Leonard Matlovich who said that. He was brave in speaking out for acceptance of gays way back in the 1970's.

[@anitasmaga5684]

Dave Benny P

[@VirtuousWoman-fl6rz]

Powerful quote❤❤

[@kathleenmarchesano7073]

This reminds me of the story I read about a dad who went to a Gay Pride parade and gave out over 700 hugs to people who had been rejected by their parents.

[@joannekenson1488]

What a great Dad. I once bumped into my daughter in the middle of the night and she was wearing a t-shirt that said "Gay ok!" to which I said that's fine. She hurridly explained it was just a free t-shirt but I told her I wouldn't care anyway. She does now have a lovely boyfriend. All I wanted for her was someone who she loved and who loved her regardless of their sexual orientation, colour, age.

[@stephaniesealy9375]

Now I am crying again!

[@naomigoldberg6544]

Thanks for the idea!

[@Bonzi_Buddy]

Narcissists are enabled by that kind of behavior. Just saying, most people are not altruistic. In fact, someone who is altruistic is probably not going to go out there and give out hugs because it is something that can be very self-serving.

[@stephaniesealy9375]

@@Bonzi_Buddy A valid, but depressing take on something that admittedly, I took at face value. Always good to see the opposite view.

[@dnice4335]

MY SON told me he was gay 6 months ago!! HE was ALWAYS THE MOST loving, caring helpful and supportive person I have ever known!!!!! A mere thought of him warms my heart!!! AND nothing has changed!!!!!!

[@bar10ml44]

dnice BRAVO.

[@tonywilson9606]

dnice - your son sounds like an amazing person, I suspect you had a major influence on his loving nature. Tony - 50s straight guy

[@68404]

So why do you refer to him in the past tense?

[@nicoroshan]

Joe Kinchicken wow , you really need love asap cause you are a disgrace

[@IrishPotato86]

@@nicoroshan dont be mad at poor Joe. He is probably in the closet and scared to come out and tell everyone that he is actually gay himself. His hate isnt directed towards others as much as it is directed inwards towards himself. Have pity on him, for he feels no love.

[@arvidsolli7698]

"I can't do both"- Fantastic!! What a father!

[@Subangelis]

Who is this wonderful guy? He's a natural speaker.

[@imthinkingaboutagooduserna8531]

@@FendiYT omg shut up....

[@Shorty5959]

@@FendiYT - If you say that someone is a "natural" at something, you mean that they do something very well and very easily. In this case, the father spoke so eloquently and freely about the subject at hand. I have to say as well that this father used humor well in his speech, which I loved.

[@MrWeezler]

He seems like he was a professor to me

[@dameek47]

@Myrt Myrtle I doubt he is a parent but he sounds like a christian.

[@antoniamills3000]

@@FendiYT 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@feezlfuzzl564]

"However difficult and dangerous this path was...he wasn't going to go it alone." This just moved me so much.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

+Atheist Journey An incredible father and mother.

[@patrickgunter7433]

Happy 10th anniversary.🎉❤

[@bonnierainwater650]

All parents should love their children as this man loves his son

[@johniii8147]

Bonnie Rainwater And loves his son in law

[@jasonking2943]

Everyone should love each other as this man loves his two sons!

[@LeslieGMN]

True that. My parents tuned out after my big fat straight marriage 35 years ago. I would adore to have a dad like this... he’s so happy, and making everyone laugh & love!

[@FredeikPeterstone-lo3mg]

A true father showing how much he loves his son what a dad?

[@1ginner1]

I have a gay son, and I can empathise with this man completely. Its not who your son is that matters, its the person he becomes, and my son makes me proud.

[@Molly-tv5sv]

what a wonderful person you are sir / madame

[@ZoidPickle]

Then you have your Head screwed on Properly. 👍

[@beerbrothers03]

Bless you

[@j-rocd9507]

A thank you a smile and a nod and my respect while raising my gin and tonic to you sir is all I can give you sir

[@tinalouiseking]

❤

[@ktmansfield1016]

That dad OWNS the stage. If he wasn't a public speaker in some capacity, I think he missed his calling.

[@lisas2538]

Who else was laughing at the beginning and choking up at the end? Now that is a toast. What a wonderful family. Great job Dad!! Best wishes to all.

[@elizabethlovelock9613]

What a wonderful man, it seems like this young man had such a great foundation, with loving & supportive parents. This is the best wedding speech I’ve ever heard.

[@shannonstearns5803]

❤so much Love ❤

[@jillstone3424]

What a wonderful Father, what a wonderful speech.

[@gillianbc]

The measure of a good parent is how they respond when their child takes an unexpected route. This father is exemplary. What a lovely family.

[@markmh835]

@@cathybeller2646 -- And so, Cathy, in one sentence you have just condemned all 6 billion non-Christians?? How loving..... "There is nothing more hypocritical than a devout Christian."

[@tammylawson4754]

OMG! Just so absolutely beautiful! No child takes the expected or preferred route of the parent, but a good parent follows along and provides love and support. I love this.

[@markmh835]

@@cathybeller2646 -- Good parenting is not defined by belief in Jesus. That idea, frankly, is ridiculous. Not believing in Jesus does not condemn oneself to eternal damnation. If so, every human born before 1 A.D. would be suffering in Hell. This most certainly is NOT an orthodox Christian belief.

[@markmh835]

@@cathybeller2646 -- Nope, sorry, wrong again Cathy. My definition of love is the family you see at the wedding above. Just as beautiful as the Wedding at Cana, and I'm sure they had wine too. Indeed, the father who gave the toast is an elder in his Christian church in Texas. And my definition of rudeness, bigotry and hate is YOU quoting Bible verses to this loving family trying to condemn them. You give all Christians a bad name. Please keep your bigotry to yourself.

[@brittanybowmaster6503]

"He wasnt gonna go on this journey alone" .... omg what a loving and insightful father ♡♡

[@Kaspen82]

Don’t even pretend that you didn’t tear up when he said that

[@kayfeezell1433]

He's a beautiful person !That speech was awesome 🤗

[@CRAFT7445]

After that speech even the cake was in tiers.

[@Molly-tv5sv]

budumching

[@janasali821]

Lol tiers

[@chasesanders3686]

Barz

[@bb3ca201]

Best line ever

[@sm3296]

Phillip Anderson omg too funny. 😄

[@claudianajera6114]

I am 9 years late, lol, but I really just wanted to be able to run wherever that dad was to hug him. So glad to see you're a really happy couple with your channel. Saludos desde México.

[@marceloalejandrodecon9538]

"We didn't know for sure where the road will gonna lead us, but we knew that if Chris were going on that path, he wouldn't go alone" I'm not crying. Not crying, no, no.

[@ritamcintyre8203]

God made us all as his children. Live and let live.

[@armymanssg508]

Hahaha, that is so typical of your hatred and grievance of God's law against same-gender sex you created nothing in the universe nor do you control anything in it you have no idea of how long you live nor of when you will die yet you have the foolishness to make demands. Since you don't want to be in heaven then you won't be there you and you won't ever exist again anyways which is the good news...😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉

[@mindlight1189]

@@armymanssg508 Fuck off

[@crz_snzy3490]

Yes u are just like I am

[@Hiforest]

Marcelo Decon - that was what broke me - had to pause the video so I could still hear it. Lol

[@adamyourke]

It is just the best wedding speech ever. Period. My husband and I were blessed with such fathers. His has passed. My dad is 92. I wish yours the very best of health and happiness and your mom.

[@michaelroberts9484]

This is without any doubt the most intelligent and heartwarming example of just how amazing a human can be... the most incredible example of what it means to be a dad... thank you so very much for sharing this with us..

[@bobbybyrd1236]

You know context and all aside. This is a classic speech. This was emotional, thoughtful, and eloquent. Many blessings

[@johnnaulu9640]

Which of these two that God Bless the homosexual couple or the one that gave the speech “ speak to me “

[@bobbybyrd1236]

@@johnnaulu9640huh?

[@charlenemack7040]

@@johnnaulu9640both😊

[@SandiByrd]

My heart just exploded. We need more Dads like this one.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

He is amazing for sure!

[@marshagreco8956]

@ true definition of a loving father

[@marshagreco8956]

@ are you even able to respond in a semi-intelliigent manner? Or does your profanity demonstrate your level (or lack of) intelligence?

[@mikaelabowen5781]

My god, there aren't many videos I can genuinely say bring me to tears, but oh wow, this one has. What a wonderful, magnificent, lovely, giant-hearted hero that man is - who could ever ask for a more perfect parent. I am truly in awe.

[@Bassist4AW]

"I can't do both...." Yup....I'm stealing that one.....this dad is hip.

[@Subangelis]

I think it was his hip. Lol

[@hello_lydie]

This father is an absolute gem! He should give seminars. Bless their family ❤

[@keithbassett4988]

This father is truly a loving and kind hearted man. His toast at the end is one of the best wedding toast I have ever heard. God bless him, his family and his son and new son-in-law.

[@lynnmonkres6451]

A very moving story that I feel honored to hear. I am a grandfather with a non-binary grandson. I have never had anything but love for him and our family and extended family are very supportive as well. Educating yourself about pronouns and other issues helps understanding like nothing else can. Thanks for sharing!

[@jasoncarson1043]

This man is CRAAAAAZY, I am booking this dude when I get married. He can be my "grandpa" or whatever, he is awesome.

[@walterheiliger667]

laughing and crying

[@imalrockme]

@@walterheiliger667 Same! 💚

[@mick3765]

If we all could be just like this man, we would have ourselves a great life.

[@robs5620]

How many people come back once or twice a year and watch this!!? I just love it so much.

[@Tony_Hardy]

That was so beautiful. How fortunate you are to have a father like that. Cherish him for all his days.

[@nonob2523]

Omg sir.. you are bringing me to tears...such unconditional love for your son....if everyone was like you the world would be a better place

[@IROKstarINK]

This man had me laughing and crying. Such a sweet and loving father.

[@dianeharris3706]

This Dad is a hell of a great honest person

[@johnnaulu9640]

There will be more crying when life is end so “ stay alive “

[@jetjrflyboy]

Being quarantined these last months I’ve seen a lot of KZbin and nothing made me feel so happy with tears to see this. Happy tears. Being a gay male pushing 50 very soon my dad is still alive also and just love him for being apart of me and my husband’s life. He calls us, my sons. He’s a retired Marine Corp man who is a Roman Catholic and is part of the Knights of Columbus and just loves on us like a regular hetero couple. He even just comes and visits from out of state and stays with us just to give my mom space. They’ve been married 52 years now and going strong. So congratulations on your marriage and thank you for sharing such a beautiful moment. I wish you many blessed years of marriage and enjoy every moment with those beautiful folks of yours. From Texas with love.

[@kellybrentonadams5408]

What a wonderful father . He is elderly and way ahead of many others . I’m sure his son is so proud of him

[@annleslie7826]

To Chris and Wes, it’s 4 years later so wherever you both are, I hope you are together, strong, and happy. Chris, your dad is a remarkable, loving man and thank you for sharing this most special day with the KZbin public. Blessings to you both. ❤️

[@peggyoneal325]

Ann Leslie, what beautiful, inspirational words to this couple...any yes, many Blessings to them...

[@sandraborg4084]

@@michaelspencer1732 really your not going to heaven . Only hateful people don't go to heaven'

[@sandraborg4084]

@@michaelspencer1732 so the fact is your not going to heaven cause of your hate

[@travel4fun003]

@Ann Leslie. They are on KZbin doing cooking shows. I believe their channel is cooking with the loon or some variation of that.

[@Galworld761]

Michael Spencer see you never got past the Old Testament.

[@jcc1451]

Such a beautiful and genuine speech from a loving father.

[@suxbigones4292]

WHAT AN AMAZING FATHER! A MAN WHO LOVES AND SUPPORTS HIS FAMILY IS PURE JOY.

[@davidcooper177]

What a wise man and loving father. I wish I had a father like him so loving, accepting, embracing, and supportive. His speech made me laugh and cry at the same time.

[@davidkarr5119]

Question only? Would he be a loving father, if he loved his child into the pit of hell,? Before you all get crazy mad, think about it first, then answer the question . I can & do love all my children, but I wouldn't be a very loving father or parent to love them right into Hell.🙏🙏🙏

[@davidcooper177]

@@davidkarr5119 I am an atheist! I would have a lot to say to show you the evil nature and practices of Abrahamic religions. But I am not going to waist my time with you. Love wins over hate! Science is God, and God is science!!!!!

[@pamelaconstantine170]

@@davidkarr5119 only a question for you sir: How do you know the religion you were taught is correct? How do you know The bible you follow was interpreted correctly? How do you know there is a hell? Do you truly believe that the one who created us judges homosexuals the same way he judges murderers? And if so does that make him a good creator? Do you believe that we are made in God’s image? Do you believe sexuality is a choice? If so if the Bible said heterosexuality was a sin could you make yourself be attracted to the same sex partner? I would like to hear your thoughts on these questions.

[@davidcooper177]

Reading the Bible gives me a head ache.

[@cindymckenna9910]

@@davidkarr5119 If someone told you there was a Hell and that your homosexual child was going to spend eternity there, and you believe that...then no, you could not be a loving or supportive parent.

[@tls4022]

What a beautiful and loving father! Nothing matters more than the love for his son.

[@davidkarr5119]

Loving a son is one thing, blasphemy is another , People really need to try & understand the difference. God help us.

[@pamelaconstantine170]

@@davidkarr5119 what on earth are you talking about? Love surpasses all. That’s what truly matters in this world. And I cannot imagine a God who feels differently.

[@jimfornando4720]

I love God more than anything.

[@TransMascTrump]

@@jimfornando4720 you put fiction before family? Shame

[@jimfornando4720]

@@TransMascTrump why are you offended? God fiction for you not me.That is my right and my choice.

[@Nubbinsss]

I'm not even gay and I want him to be my Dad

[@ambreenp73]

me too!!!

[@xavierchampion3835]

I can't stop watching this. It bring tears of joy to my eyes. 😢😢😢😢

[@sallietaylor8503]

My son is gay, I love him with all my heart He knows this.

[@dananorris6242]

Many blessings to you and your family!

[@sallietaylor8503]

My one concern is for my sons safety. I have seen first hand at the violence and hatred shown to my brother and his partner [ after a quiet night out] by a gang of men. My brother escaped with minor injuries because he could run faster however his partner not so lucky was very nearly killed , after a 4 months stay in a sanatorium he retuned home. It just breaks your heart.

[@thehashearthasheart7146]

@@sallietaylor8503 i\m so sorry. God bless. Hug hug

[@lillylazer429]

Much love to you. I don't get these parents who turn their back on thier kids for their choice on who they love.

[@sallietaylor8503]

Lily Thank you.xxooxx

[@josephhuynh-janicek3246]

What a beautiful speech. He had me laughing, smiling, crying and in absolute awe.

[@sarahmetzgar]

We could use a million more like you. The love in that room was palpable. With all of the hate around every corner, this made me cry and wonder how long it will be before I see it again.

[@normaowens7340]

That ladies and gentlemen is a DAD.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

+Norma Williams Couldn't agree more, Norma! Thank you!!

[@bb3ca201]

I'm in stitches and in tears watching this. I wholeheartedly agree!

[@bettycourson1691]

Norma Owens /

[@bobshaw4063]

AMEN ! To That Norma !

[@rabkerr5907]

Some classic lines from him lol

[@yolandileroux9358]

What a wonderful father. This brought tears to my eyes. the acceptance and his fantastic sense of humour.

[@sweett5896]

Epic speech. Not only was he witty & funny but the unconditional love & support is so beautiful & amazing!! ❤👬🏼

[@lawendylaa]

There’s no better feeling than having a proud father! AMAZING man and role model! 😭 Unconditional love right there.

[@druid.2290]

I'm not gay but everybody has a right to what they want, and family should always support each other no matter what. Great man to have as a dad it seems and you should feel proud as well as lucky to have him as your dad. Congratulations on your wedding.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

+Drui D. Thank you so much. We feel very blessed and hope his love and support will help to influence other parents who may be struggling with their own child's sexual orientation.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

Thank you!! Love is love.

[@ThcBanaman]

God also says (according to the Bible) that killing slaves (and having slaves) and raping your wife is okay. Cool moral standards you got.

[@margaretfry2942]

Drui D. I. J

[@lillylazer429]

@@ThcBanaman That is why I don't follow that "good" made up book

[@ThugMuffinification]

And THAT is how you be an amazing, beautiful parent. So much love in every word. Wowie I need the tissues.

[@jugg4lo759]

Nicole Slater me too it so beautiful!!!

[@louiscaruso4167]

+Nicole Slater - Very nice - the very best to you my dear.

[@BadDriversOz]

Doing as ANY parent should!

[@ngckemente2487]

Nicole Slater oo

[@khykhy]

I was there. These are two of the most beautiful people you will ever meet. This speech made every tear flow!! Love you guys!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

We LOVE YOU, Khy!!!!! xoxoxo

[@lesleygiles8924]

I was admiring the happy couple even as I reached this comment. They look like wonderful people & I wish them all the joy & happiness in the world. Congratulations to you both 😘

[@denilsonsantoedosantos266]

@@HowToFeedaLoon oi yes amigo

[@annleslie7826]

Wow. What a blessing! Thanks for sharing.

[@Kaspen82]

Not gonna lie, i cried too

[@TheactressCJ]

Clone this man! Clone him! Give him to every kid going through hell

[@missmichelle2201]

The government is still hiding that they can clone. We haven’t gotten to the time where we could just request a clone. Can you imagine that?

[@aussieaussie8313]

CJ Walton, Clone you, you are gorgeous 😊

[@sheenamcguire167]

Absolutely

[@pippasbm]

That Dad was so up for the audience. His participation was on spot, his love...immense...You know why cause he just watched his Son marrying his Husband... xxx

[@horsecrazyky]

As a young Mother of young children I can only hope that I can be even half as good of a loving and supportive man as this. What an extraordinary man. Chris and his new husband are extremely fortunate and I hope will always share the words of his incredibly wise Father. Congrats to the newlyweds! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@julioperes4430]

Husband is a man married to a woman.

[@johnnaulu9640]

Which one is the husband and which is the wife ????? Surely they can’t be both husbands or both wives.

[@Alcagaur1]

A man who both loves his son without limit and has thought profoundly about why that son's life and lifestyle might threaten others, as well as a broad and impish sense of humor - this is a joyous combination to witness.

[@acmerlin100]

I come back to this video every once in a while, just to give me dose of love and a boost of hope. What a tremendous speech, what a beautiful man.

[@denisewilson7095]

That was just beautiful to have his dad by his side to give a beautiful speech for his sons wedding

[@debo3042]

I don’t think I’ve ever heard a more perfect speech. If only all parents could be like this. Its just lovely and hopeful ❤

[@ambreenp73]

That has to have been the most beautiful most loving wedding speech I’ve ever heard. The father was amazing so much love to give I I’ve learned a lot from him. And he’s absolutely adorable to look at and listen to Chris is a lucky man to have a father like him.

[@badpurvis1]

So this speech was now 10 years ago. Chris & Wes, I sincerely hope your dad is still with you and getting the opportunity to show the world how to be the kind of father everyone should have. Cheers! I hope his toast is still coming true to this day.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

Thank you so much! We just celebrated our original wedding anniversary (May, 1992) this past May and it was 32 years. Dad turned 91 this year is and still going strong and making a difference in our world. xoxo

[@DianeStecko]

@@HowToFeedaLoon

[@lilithrogers5204]

Oh, love his description of the founding fathers in their wigs and satin shoes...Ha!!!!

[@bloomerdavid]

Lilith Rogers satin Capri pants, patented leather shoes.

[@PuffKitty]

@@bloomerdavid and adorable little buckles 😅

[@shy-envoon8689]

If only the world could see through this wonderful dad's eyes, how great a view it would be .. prejudice free and acceptance of people for who they are.

[@Imran11432]

So beautiful...Gosh I am in tears. This is what every father should be.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

+Imran Ross Thank you! We love both him and mom mom very much. They are amazing people.

[@marynewton2774]

My 14 yr old recently came to the living room and began pacing and told me she had something to tell me and then burst into tears after saying “I’m gay and I am so afraid of what you will think of me “ I got up, held her tight and said “that’s what you are so worried about? I have known that for years. You are my daughter and you were born this way and you were born perfect” “ I don’t care who you love, all that I care about is that you are happy and treated right. I will never judge you for being you. You are perfect and I am so proud of you for trusting me and being true to you “. She wanted to tell her Dad, my husband, herself. I was worried because I knew, a mother knows and he had been in denial of it. He was in her room a long time and was very nonchalant about their talk but seemed completely ok and normal. The. Next day he came home and was holding a rainbow cake of my daughters favorite flavor. He called her downstairs and I asked what the cake was for and he said “we had to have cake to celebrate Alyssa. It’s not every day that she comes out, we had to celebrate” I was so proud of him and his support to her, I burst into happy tears. LOVE YOUR CHILDREN REGARDLESS!

[@pb4287]

This was one of the most brilliant experience that we've ever witnessed. My husband and I want to express praise and admiration for this man. You had us in tears. Thank you so very much for sharing this video. Cheers mate

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

Thank you so much. He is an amazing man, and father, no doubt. Cheers!

[@freakinfrugal5268]

What a beautiful sweet man. Makes me miss my Dad so much. This really brightened my crappy day. Thank you!

[@Leekipper1983]

As a father myself...this man is everything I aspire to be. Understanding and loving!

[@rwatts2155]

What a wonderful toast...from the ideal father! We all should be so fortunate.

[@TheJoegowdy]

I feel really privileged to have listened to that, what an inspirational, amazing man....thank him for me....and thank you for sharing him to the world, goodness know's we need more like him.....

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

+joe gowdy Thank you, Joe. I am so happy that so many people are able to see and hear his amazing words of love and support. He's 80 years young when he's giving this speech, btw!!

[@fireyflower6643]

How To Feed A Loon he's AMAZING for 80 yrs of age!

[@blockheadgl]

He reminds me of my recently late father. Someone that loved me unconditionally.

[@blockheadgl]

@@malovela thank you

[@cemeterrihaynes4435]

That was just the most beautiful wedding toast I’ve ever heard!

[@cornfloats7004]

Treasure, indeed. This father is an angel sent down from heaven to tell us all what is what!

[@canuckyukyuk9164]

This man should rule the world...it would be a much better place! Well done!

[@110077bd]

Wow- it's all I can say. Wow. I like to think that my Mom and Dad would've handled my Marriage if we had ever done so. Instead they invited my guy into our family and his did the exact same with me. We never even thought about marriage. It just wasn't in our generation. However we've been devoted to each other for the last 32 years and neither of us is going anywhere. May God bless them and their families as richly as He blessed ours...Thank you for sharing that with us.

[@lydialas8756]

@Hello Brian how are you doing

[@Madders23]

That’s made me cry. How beautiful. What a wonderful father. How lucky Chris and Wes are ❤

[@thisorthat7626]

It is nearly 5 years later and this video is bringing love and laughter to a bunch of strangers on KZbin. How powerful is that? Thank you for sharing this with the world. We need this. Blessings.

[@Howiesgirl]

Now this is what parenthood is supposed to be! Unconditional & loving. Bravo Dad! And best wishes to Chris & Wesley.

[@goonerdotcom]

Sir I bet you stole the show. Awesome !!!!

[@2manybooks2littletime25]

Whether one approves of gay marriage or not, this father's funny and touching speech at his son's wedding could apply to any marriage. Very sound , loving and amusing advice and comments. I really laughed, and not just because of the jokes, but because this father loves his son so obviously.

[@barbaracollins385]

Awesome Dad who truly loves and admires his son. I'm sure they are so proud. A great family. Much happiness to you all!

[@travelsouthafrica5048]

really ? you think any of this has anything to do with love ? kzbin.info/www/bejne/p4WnmnttZ5yYjbM

[@jonathanwalker8730]

"I can't do both." The man has comic timing as well as being a great father,

[@dirtyblond2332]

Never cried at a wedding before today... I know very little about the gay community or gay marriage, but hope if my daughter grows up and takes that path, that I handle it half as well as his father has. My hat is off to you sir. That is a true and loving father and a man to look up to.

[@NewZman23]

If your daughter is gay, I'm sure you will love her no less than if she was straight. But it is not a "path to choose" it is a path that is already chosen (by God) from birth. A person doesn't choose to be gay any more than a person chooses the colour of their hair when born. It is just the way they are. It is how God made them. The choice is for the family and friends of the gay person as to whether they accept the gay person first as a human being and then as the way they were born - straight , gay, disabled, blind or sighted, blonde-haired, red-haired, big ears, large nose, small nose, tall or short, blue eyes or black eyes. And i think you are the kind of person who accepts a person as God made them, not as some other people in our society say we must behave and react to someone who is different to yourself. :-)

[@HalfShelli]

Thanks, @NewZMan - I was really concerned about the "if she takes that path" language as well. You gave a great response! So, Dirty Blond, now you can say that you know a little more about the gay community than you did beforehand! Cheers!

[@lisarobinson4238]

@@HalfShelli I have to just say that I agree with everything said other than that people are made by god! Our daughters and sons and all people are made BY THEIR PARENTS - if you want to imagine they are made otherwise - eg by a god - then fine. But that is simply a/your belief - and it is NOT a fact. Which is why I object to people stating it as if it is a fact. I respect that you have your religion and your beliefs. But that is what they are - they are NOT facts.

[@kittmiller2212]

It isn't something to take like a pill, it is that gender is created before birth. He sounds like a wonderful father. Acceptance is beautiful, from a 72 year old straight lady.

[@thehashearthasheart7146]

@@NewZman23 what a wonderful comment. God bless. Hug hug

[@snatched.8135]

This dad is funny, loving, wise, very articulate....... Ugh this guy needs to write a book and show parents how it's done.

[@blobbyblob2573]

Snatched. Speak for yourself. You might have failed as a parent but I haven’t.

[@fb9001]

Snatched. Z you’re so right

[@zxedtexz]

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[@christophermcwilliam4740]

what's the title of his book?

[@julietteraines8256]

EXACTLY!!!!!

[@hadrian62]

Heros are not oddballs in capes. They are everyday folks like this man. The video is old and its star was probably at least in his late 70s at the time. I hope he is still around being a credit to old white men. If not, no doubt his memory is a blessing to all who knew him. ❤

[@jasoncarrizales]

So this is how unconditional love looks like towards his son who is gay. You are worthy of your sons love sir. 🇺🇸🥰 🌈😎🤓🌈

[@jeffjohnson895]

My brother was gay and died of AIDS before gay marriage was legalized. My father would have never given a speech like that but I would have. I loved my brother, my first born is named after him, and not a day goes by that I don't miss him. What a great speech and what a lucky man this man is to have a father that understands.

[@juneneuhoff9357]

I feel your pain JeffI am a Christian and I don’t judge anyone who is gay They are beautiful people

[@geoffdundee]

Jeff Johnson ......that was such a beautiful thing you done naming your first after your brother who passed.

[@mnagatalevu]

Not scriptural. It's sinful.

[@juneneuhoff9357]

@@mnagatalevu Do you not sin The bible said one small or big sin is sinful Reminds me of what Jesus said let the first man who has not sin cast the first stone And guess what happened there wasn’t a person to throw the first sin I am not saying it is not a sin but a sin is a sin So if you have not have sin then you can judge If you have sinned then you can’t judge

[@Starchild42]

I have the same story until you the dad part..my dad would have supported my bro and his husband, but bro died before legalized ❤

[@nayahri]

I died watching this. This is the best wedding Dad speech ever. I would have been rolling laughing if I was in the audience!

[@bianca-sg8zq]

What a kind, loving human, with a sense of humor! This son is fortunate to have such an amazing Dad!! Awww, crying....💕💕 love is love!!!

[@tabtaylor9196]

That was so beautiful! A handbook for parents with open hearts.

[@debragilmore7192]

I scrolled down most of the comments and couldn't find a single hate one. Unless I missed it of course. This is how the world should be. ❤️💛💚💙💜

[@KierrokCyclone]

Shhh, you'll wake the sad lil' trolls with your positive feelings.

[@HowToFeedaLoon]

Couldn't agree more, Debra! It's a beautiful thing for sure! thank you!

[@NonsensicalSpudz]

there is somewhere, even if its not about them being gay.

[@lilhansam]

AMEN❤️💛💚💙💜

[@TheDissmaster10]

You missed one idiot who made it about politics. But i'm happy for you that you did.

[@ripsofia8155]

"i can't do both" had me rolling, very funny...

[@joegonzalez5862]

Wasn't that great! What a wonderful man...

[@JohnGardnerKpt]

The older I get , the more true that comment is

[@greg40258]

you are right, that was the funniest toast that I have ever heard

[@thehashearthasheart7146]

that line made me laugh out loud literally

[@briansquire8825]

I too took a different route than was planned. This speech really makes me appreciate why I put my folks thru, and I’m sure my dad will tell a similar story at my wedding. What an awesome family!

[@raymondpaddy7004]

Two things I wish for in this life: (1) that everybody find somebody to love; and (2) that some of us be blessed with in-laws as wonderful as this!