Dr. Allan Schore: How Relationships Shape Your Brain

[@hubermanlab]

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[@LawgicalXX]

Thank You for your incredible work, Andrew! You’ve been a life saver. ❤ 🙌🫶 I would have to agree with you that it’s our early life’s relationship with our primary caregivers that then shape our overall relationships later in life. We model our parents’ behaviors 😅 As much as we may think we are different from our parents… we are not. 😅 not on subconscious level anyway. 😇 Thanks again! 🙌

[@carisimo0518]

You have make science interesting and accessible to everyone so thank YOU✨Best podcast to date ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@Sage_puppets]

@@LawgicalXX I agree! I think one of our greatest spiritual assignments (leave and cleave) is to emancipate and grow into a new creature! This is the very essence of maturity.

[@meriahliciouss]

Thank you for bringing Dr. Allan Schore! Such a stimulating nourishing talk to digest. Can you get Dan Siegel or Steven Porges? Thank you!

[@vizitor0835]

Request to make an educational episode on your insights into gifted brain (rainforest brain) neurological condition and the over-excitabilities(OE)/hyper-stimulatability and the impact it makes in operating at/from a different frequency.

[@gankalsallyka]

Dr. Huberman has become an excellent listener! Just watch how engaged he is, without interruptions and constantly asking questions that only move the conversation forward. It''s an art :)

[@mairhydling631]

In Sweden it's most common that the mother takes the 1st year of parental leave and the father takes the 2nd year, happy to hear it's so beneficial for the child's development 🥰

[@LoftyAssertions]

In my limited knowledge of Sweden, it seems the country is either highly socially progressive, or/and highly scientifically and philosophically progressive. Is that kind of correct? Surely there's some kind of trade-off, like massive taxes haha

[@_cherchez_la_femme8704]

Yet half of the population is so severely depressed? Why?

[@healcptsd6467]

Sweden is a socialist country. It's one of the loneliest and most narcisstic countries in the world. People are afraid of each other. In order to save my mental health I left and moved to Kenya, partly due to knowledge I learned from Alan Schore

[@jessicadora7213]

@@_cherchez_la_femme8704 there is very little sunshine half the year

[@LuxxomannLU]

In Soviet Union and now in Russia the parental leave for mother was and is 3 years. Nowadays not many mothers stay with their toddlers until 3 years old because of the financial pressures. It is by design of the modern world to destroy secure attachment. Nazi Germans found out in 1930-40ss that if you detach a child from the mother as early as possible and put into a daycare - there is a big chance that this child will grow up and it will be easier to manipulate or to change their worldview.

[@cowboyzen]

It should be in the schools. It should be in the handbooks for future parents. Thanks for the top content on relationships and science.

[@crystalng7064]

From Dr Karl Deisseroth, Paul Conti to James Hollis, just when I thought the podcast has peaked in showing what human genius looks like, it surprised me with more brilliant people like Esther Perel and Dr Allan Schore. Please keep doing what you doing as this podcast has been amazing in empowering me to contribute to the world using the knowledge here

[@aprilloft]

I was so overjoyed to see Allan Schore's name on the Huberman marquee today, and I had to watch immediately. As a clinical therapist who has studied Schore since early days, I was so pleased to find this excellently accessible explanation of the synchrony of the therapeutic process. Yes! It's encouraging to see that science can measure these interpersonal factors more and more, and has allowed the therapeutic relationship to be highlighted. Technique based approaches like CBT have gotten a lot of attention because they have been easier to study in a controlled setting than relational approaches that are nuanced and tailored to each individual. The neuroscientific research is catching up to support what has been borne out by years of practice by masters like Schore. How wonderful to see this meeting of the minds, and via Huberman's excellent manner of listening, questioning and participating, go deeper into the understanding of this topic. Just Wow. This was a powerhouse episode.

[@KRCWLN]

Thank you, Andrew! As a mom of two, who was also diagnosed with CPTSD, I am very proud that all the things from Dr Schore’s list have been repeatedly mentioned on my children’s report cards. It’s the power of therapy, especially years of hard work of EMDR. I am changed because of my therapist, she cries when I cry, and she accepted me as who I was. She helped me brake the generation trauma, and now I function better than most people I know.

[@rosenguyen4181]

👏

[@earnestlanguage4242]

same! EMDR made a world of difference for me too

[@LindaAbar]

what a beautiful episode! That right brain list brought me to tears. So affirming to me as I am a singer/songwriter/pianist/teacher that embodies the right brain and all that flows from it. I've spent most of my life feeling like I was on the right path for myself but always very different from most people even my fellow musicians who had a more intellectual take on music and creativity. It's always a boon to get a boost from experts such as you and your guests. My teaching also resembles the therapeutic relationship and my students both children and adults refer to their lessons as therapy. Speaking of ....I think it's complete Rubbish that you think/feel you cannot access the music inside of you. I believe with the right teacher you would surprise yourself with what you can do. I have witnessed 65 year old go from not matching pitches to performing at recital and adult piano students starting from scratch learn and grow and enjoy making their own music. Please don't give up if it's something you really want to do! Please excuse my looong comment but alas your work deserves all the LOVE!!!

[@FoursWithin]

Never shame yourself for a longer than usual comment. For some people it's music to their eyes 👀

[@laramahaffey6577]

i’ve never come across a podcast as good as this channel!

[@deepthymukundan5358]

Couldn’t agree more

[@an0nym0us_01]

Lex Friedman

[@Eurisko229]

⁠@@an0nym0us_01Yep! I like Lex Friedman broadcast as well.

[@Clearingthepathtoascend]

then I guess you have never checked out Call Her Daddy or Talk Tuah. 😆

[@SkinnyMinnie377]

Please please please bring him back. What a wealth of wisdom this man is.

[@henrikelanschuetzer4261]

Precision of Professor Huberman 's diction is staggering. His attention towards his guests mirrors his phenomenal focus.🎉 Equally impressive to watch him well prepared for every interview on a very broad range. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@maryamghaderi1984]

Finally I listened to the first therapist who mentioned the methods into emotional regulation after the attachments are diagnosed as non-healthy… that both child and parent must regulate and how a healthy professional therapist must do their job👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 Thanks Andrew for this episode 🙌🏻

[@Maggieiaconeta]

At the mention of ‘Italians,’ Dr. Schore’s hand understood the assignment 🤌. As a proud Italian, seeing both of you smiling in that moment warmed my heart enormously. This is the reaction I want to see when someone thinks about us: joy and warmth. Beautiful and meaningful conversation! I had so many things I wanted to ask! Sometimes I look back and can’t believe the transformative journey you are taking us on, Dr. Huberman! I am very grateful for everything you’re doing; you are changing beautifully, and we are changing with you. Best wishes for Huberman Lab Essentials. No doubts it’s going to be incredible!

[@shelleydiamond6468]

As a new grandmother to a now 14 month old - just such fascinating and right on observation of an infant’s emotional & cognitive needs in the earliest stages. I felt the energy transfer to my beloved infant when I held and loved her. Very lucky that my daughter in law & son had paternal & maternal leaves for quite a few months. Wonderful podcast , thank you both

[@johannalackie6638]

I am so grateful for this conversation. I have always said that I “feel” my way through life. I love being a mom and passing on as much secure love as possible. My 18 year old son is one of the best human beings that I have ever met…attachment must have played a bigger part than I knew. Thank you for making me feel proud of how I naturally raised him. My gut, I always went with my gut. ❤

[@lucasperry3548]

Thank You Andrew! You’ve given me the tools over the last 2/3 years to turn meand my entire families health around, boosted our general energy and boosted our immune systems to a point where our regular old family with no degrees in anything can look after ourselves and be our best selves without needing advice from lying single minded doctors with money on the mind and nothing else. Thank you brother . ❤️

[@2sweetspot1997]

Dr A H podcast is the most healthiest self care one could do for oneself . If one cares enough to help oneself through life's tiring journey this podcast is one of the best health cares one could do to protect themselves. Greatest respect cos you changed my life for better.

[@ryanscanlon2151]

Extremely enlightening, I think this is pretty strong evidence for what the root cause of today's mental health crisis. It seems to me the less time mothers get to spend with their children in the extremely important first year seems to track pretty closely to the increasing number of people that are disregulated and as generation after generation the time gets shorter and more people parents are disregulated themselves and are less capable of helping their children regulate this problem will keep intensifying.

[@earnestlanguage4242]

traumatized care givers of any gender, parent or not, would not be great at helping babies regulate. improving adult self regulation, safety and health will help most. an unhealthy mother at home is where lots of poor attachment happens.

[@JackLambert-lo9oc]

The pressure from feminists to have women working all the time is exacerbating the problem.

[@KatenJace]

@@earnestlanguage4242gabo mater has a lot on this. How trauma effects infants. It’s important for mothers and fathers to support each other and have support. ❤

[@BrandNameVegan]

@@JackLambert-lo9ocfeminists such as myself certainly don't want women to be working all the time. Feminists want equal pay for equal work. Women want equal rights. We want the right to choose to work or not. Have you ever heard a new mother say she wants to go back to work after only 6 weeks with a destroyed body? No. The government decided that 6 week period, not women.

[@curiouscc]

I've been doing intense and advanced research on parent-child attachment for weeks and dr Schore has been one of my favs in the field. I came to realise how vast, fascinating and pivotal this topic is to being human. This podcast came just as such a nice recap and support! Thank you for your hard, kind and life-changing work ❤

[@pickledxd1026]

Andrew has been an invaluable source of information in my life, i look forwards to every episode! 🙏🏽

[@mindtrainingjourney]

In this episod, Dr. Huberman seemed, at times, like a diligent student seeking the approval of his mentor, with an attentive look and a hint of excitement saying, "I know this," mixed with a bit of anxiety saying, "I should know this." This dose of humanity behind such vast knowledge filled me with a warm spark of hope! Anyway, a true lectio magistralis by dr. Schore🌟

[@estellek993]

Ha ha, I thought he was thinking 'less jargon please, I'm trying to make science accessible to the ordinary man."

[@mindtrainingjourney]

@@estellek993 Our part of the brain outside the skull obviously saw different things, each filtered through our own personal way of analyzing things. But in any case, I'm right... Just kidding, of course, hahaha!

[@NicholasTaitMusician]

I had a bad relationship with my mother since the earliest age. She’d yell at me, insult me, called police on me a few times, used to tell me to get out of the house, locked me out a few times, sanctioned my stepfather to use violence against me. Too much screaming and violence. My sister is mentally disabled and has violent shrieking fits, very difficult for everyone. My father moved out before I can remember and started another family. I had a carer who lived with us since I was born, she was good to me and we were very close but she moved back to her country when I was 7 which was devastating. I went to boarding school age 11 and never felt part of the family life after that. I find all relationships extremely difficult. Mostly I have kept to myself but that is painful too because I still feel the sense of abandonment without any reassurance. It is not a solution. I started dating a year and a half ago. When the relationship ends I find it devastating and am very distressed. No doubt dating is hard for lots of people, but I think what happened earlier in my life causes me to feel like I did as a child.

[@scammersnightmare]

I had similar experience, tho, not as bad as yours. After many years of hardwork, I am very happy everyday. It is almost like conditioning. If you are conditioning with the best, you will become like them as well. Listening to these top minds are kinda liberating, helping me to stay on top of my game given the situation I was in. Also George Washington, Abraham Lincoln, Alexander Hamilton or other famous people, also overcome their difficult childhoods. God bless.

[@QuynhNguyen-hw9ps]

Hope you find a good therapist who can help you and accompany you through your healing. ❤ Anything hard to achieve is the most valuable thing to work for. Don’t give up on yourself. 💪🏼

[@anidmontes]

I saw all of the comments on the long videos, and just wanted to say that I love your long informative videos. There is a lot of information that you and your guests provide. I really appreciate listening to your channel. Gracias!

[@williamwu4758]

😊😊t😂❤

[@shirintobie-paul3501]

Thank you Dr. Huberman, team, sponsors and supporters. ☀️THANK YOU DR. ALLAN SCHORE.

[@wesharethesecret]

Wife of a husband with attachment issues here. Married 25 years. This episode was gold to help me understand. I’m utterly exhausted in trying to make connection all while he doesn’t have the ability (right now).

[@ChristineHansen-v9v]

Good luck ❤ You sound patient, curious and nice which makes all the difference

[@Pompeii123]

If I may, can I ask in what ways the lack of attachment present itself? Is he otherwise good/helpful? How deeply are you affected and in what ways you cope? Have this affected children?

[@jenniferedwards3508]

I’m going to have to rewatch this 5 more times for my left (and right) brain to wrap around it! Thank you Dr Huberman.

[@daniellefishman4325]

My WISH has been granted! I’m thrilled to see this conversation being dropped today. A treasured gift from you to us. For years, I’ve been studying and deeply indebted to Dr. Schore’s work/contribution to so many of the healing science fields. Beyond grateful to listen later today!

[@alona24]

One of the most enriching episode in your channel. I could feel the synchrony between you and Dr. Schore. It's a privilege to be around Dr Schore even if it's virtual. Continue to bring all the fascinating brain researches that only who are in the academic circle can hear about them. Thank you G-d bless you

[@venniece1]

Dr. Schore is taking us to school 🤩 He’s giving such powerful wisdom! ✨✨✨

[@Mindi-b9f]

Compassion for myself, my partner, and all the world came out of listening to this episode. Thank you.

[@alirezafarjad7969]

The best episode so far. Thank you!

[@JessCyph]

Excellent episode, as usual…. A couple comments: A person with true NPD will never be self-aware enough to want to connect to a therapist or to even see that there’s a problem. Instead, they will see the other person (or people) as the problem. Their shame (because they must be perfect) will not allow them to admit that they might have flaws. (There are exceptions, of course, but they are rare, and even then, the autonomic responses are highly difficult to alter. The therapist is seen as someone to manipulate rather than connect with.) In addition, to Andrew’s later point about hating arguing through texting: There are some people will over-talk others as a means of controlling the conversation. In these situations, often the only way to get a word in edgewise is to resort to text messages.

[@phantomtry654try4]

What a beautiful personality the guest is. And certainly the host as well. Thank you for this episode!

[@Asher22222]

I think attachment styles are singlehanded, the most important factor in our relationships with ourselves and others. The amazing news is that if you’re insecurely attached, you can change! I’ve been waiting for this podcast! Thank you Drs. Huberman and Schore! Let’s go! ❤

[@Jamie_Wilson]

Fantastic stuff Andrew. I've got a baby on the way so this stuff is incredibly helpful to me, thank you 🙏 Could you do some more stuff on childhood development, should the right guests pop up? Ways to "future proof" our kids from later life issues, mental health problems, relationship problems etc. Anything you can offer to help us parents give our kids the absolute best chance at a happy, successful and long life mate. Thanks for the content, amazing stuff as always Andrew!

[@zf7174]

For me, the best episode so far. Thank you so much, Andrew and Dr. Schore. It really is unlike like any other conversation in this podcast.

[@aname5241]

Only 30 min into this and already had so many wow moments…😧 This is profound. This is value. This is important. Thank you. 🕊️

[@adrianagNeuroFit]

I can listen to Dr Schroeder and this episode in repeat. Can’t emphasize enough the importance of nervous system and emotional regulation 💜💪🏽🧠

[@DeannaRodriguez-u8r]

In my second year my older (chronically ill) brother died and my younger was born when I was 20 months. I never attached to either parent. Was not allowed to have needs and emotions. While in utero, my father tried to smother my mother. He was the narcissistic disciplinarian in the home. I have been terrified of him my entire life. He left when I was 6 after trying to strangle our mother in front of us. Much more trauma the next 50+ years. At 60 finally safe enough to work on myself. C-ptsd from these traumas plus sexual assaults in childhood, attempts on my life in both childhood and adulthood. No safe person to go to that would listen. I dot know how I survived childhood let alone made it 60 years. The dissociation is strong with me.

[@kevintewey1157]

❤🎉

[@curiouscc]

Your experience matters, even though it was so difficult and painful ! Having reached 60 after all of this is so heroic, can and will give hope to others who are at different stages of their journeys. You are a living inspiration!

[@DeannaRodriguez-u8r]

@ thank you

[@nemishasharma5737]

That's awful. You should be proud of yourself for surviving.

[@DeannaRodriguez-u8r]

@ thank you

[@elmarieleroux3150]

As a therapist I enjoyed this conversation and I was very pleased that Dr Schore referred to Dr Iain McGilchrist and his outstanding contribution in the field of right and left brain functioning. Please invite him for a conversation.

[@HeidiFraser-p3b]

Love these podcasts! They enrich my practice as a clinician and keep me thinking.

[@adrianagNeuroFit]

Can I just say that I can listen to this discussion all day. It is fascinating. Dr. Schore needs to come back. This society accustomed itself to “accountability “ and “personal responsibility “ and blurred the lines of interpersonal connection and co-regulation. After all we are mammals and we need community 💜💪🏽🧠

[@s.chankov]

My friends tease me, saying I'm one of Huberman’s "apostles." I'm excited to dive deeper into Dr. Schore's work so I can positively influence my child's development. Thank you, as always-another golden episode!

[@philippszaruga237]

I hope your kids do well

[@julianaamorim1369]

Huberman community is here... Amazing...

[@mariatranslator]

In order to search for and be able to find humans like your guest, one certainly must be at a comparable level of understanding of things! I am thankful of the chance to be present to listen to this man! Please, invite him again and again, the topic is simply limitless!

[@timmagaling]

Because of this I've discovered that I have Splitting as a common coping mechanism of mine. Ive struggled with relationships from sometime now, realizing I have this tendency to split brings clarity to the unstable experiences and inability to trust fully in my relationships. Now I can be more aware of it and try to develop better coping mechanisms and become better overall. Thank you for the work of both these individuals.

[@manewry66tw]

Great one. Also would love to listen Andrew's conversation with Ian Mcgilchrist about psychobiological aspects of morality.

[@ChristineHansen-v9v]

On texting…doesn’t have to be all bad, doesn’t have to be lazy or thoughtless…I am more thoughtful when I text, I convey my ideas better through writing…one can take the time to find the right word, fine tune the phrasing…it’s akin to writing letters…at least that’s the way I treat it… There’s been a lot of dissing the texting and I get it, it can be bad…but for some, for shy introverts like myself…it’s been a great way to connect and really express myself…so great the guest mentioned that, but don’t understand why texting suits left brained people more…I consider myself to be more aligned with right brained qualities…

[@osana6505]

As a fairly new mom (of a 2 month old baby) this podcast was very helpful and insightful. I was a 2nd year PhD student in Mathematics, but against many of my peers and mentors, advice decided to get married, more forward with having a child and be a stay-at-home mother. It's such a different way of life for me and for the women in my family. So, I am grateful to have heard this podcast. It has encouraged me and challenged me to not be afraid of being present for my child. Thank you, Dr. Huberman for presenting such insightful material.

[@Pompeii123]

You don’t ever think of joining back?

[@ClusterBombed01]

Singularly one of the most impressive and understated clinicians on the planet. If we used regulation theory in practice. We would practically eliminate personality disorders. A true hero of mine!!!

[@ckuttzolt]

This is possibly my favorite episode ever. I can’t wait to listen to it again! Wow. Thank you Drs. Schore and Huberman. Will be sharing this with everyone I love! Thank you!!!

[@rebeccariehle2764]

This is the best 2 hrs I've spent on KZbin in a very long time. Absolute genius! Thank you!

[@Cuyut982]

I’m only half way through and already this conversation has completely blown my mind and helped me understand myself so much. As someone dealing with intense feelings of loneliness I am realizing that right brain synchronization with others is what I crave more than anything else but what I am also incapable of due to my CPTSD. Seeing all human connection through this lens of right brain to right brain interactions feels to me like the key that makes everything about relationships make sense. The moments I was in love, my relationship to my dog, why I don’t get along with my parents, why therapy is helpful, what I should seek from my relationships. It all comes back to unconscious processing developed over millions of years. Of course!

[@andrewharrop6998]

Andy over the last several years I’ve been listening to your podcasts and find them extremely interesting. Keep up the good work it has been invaluable to myself and my family thank you so much.

[@timotokki]

For some reason, Dr Allen’s voice gives my brain the picture of Mike Tyson fighting Paul. I was raised up with a patriarchal stereotype Asian family and throughout the years, I have regulate the shame I have. Until today, my heart beats still raise under some circumstances in my daily life. I had a wife and we got divorced when our daughter was at the age of two. I often think what might impact her as a toddler/ baby. Fortunately, I think my daughter was under good maternal care with what Dr Allen called mother instinct. I also love spending time with my daughter when she was just a baby. Just like what Allen said, talking right brain to right brain. Thank you Dr Huberman for hosting this episode.

[@lekemper]

I’m a huge fan! I started my life over at 50 and you have become an integral part of that transformation. I would LOVE to hear you talk about EDS.

[@court8420]

Of all of your episodes, for me, this is my favorite. Some things really clicked for me. Thanks for all the great questions and conversation.

[@codygarner2095]

This is my favorite episode so far. It's not the usual self optimization which is why i think I'm seeing some negative comments. However, it's nice to have hope that we can also learn how to better treat our own children to help them be more than they might have been. Ideally this would be everyones goal. I loved it.

[@Moshm4n]

The timing on the topic of this podcast couldn't be more perfect for me.

[@wesgreen1161]

Incredible guest Dr Schore! I’d love to hear more about how this work could relate to MDMA therapy, PTSD and type D attachment disorder

[@bithealthier]

This episode needs to be re-listened, studied, and applied. 👏 thank you!

[@GregBendau]

Wow! It’s been a while since I’ve pulled up Hubermanlan and I qm pleasantly surprised to see Allan Schore as your most recent guest! As someone studying clinical psychology and psychoanalysis, I am very excited to listen to this. Allan Schore is one of the giants in the field and he is bridging the worlds of clinical psychoanalysis and academia/research/neuroscience.

[@Laurie.LiveLarge]

Loved, loved, loved this episode. I'm subscribed to your podcast and am an avid listener. This one is a standout for me as was the one you did on learning. A redirect for a relisten to that one would be appreciated. Also, YES to hearing a conversation between you and Ian McGilchrist. Thanks for all you do.

[@Laurie.LiveLarge]

16:18 / 1:41:38 • Focus & Alertness, Sleep, Tool: Active Engagement Optimal Protocols for Studying & Learning GOT IT! The wonders of utube search :)

[@starpiglet1]

Please please please bring him back next time. My mouth was just opening because I forgot to breath while listening to him. WHAT AN AMAZING EPISODE!

[@ShiralSimpson]

That moment Dr. Allen dropped the list of activities with right brain dominance 🔥 This should be taught in schools.

[@australiangirl850]

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1800">30:00</a> This process is exactly what happens at my fortnightly appointment 👀 She gets me talking about my childhood & asks me Questions, sometimes emotions come up & I experience physical symptoms like my hands start shaking, or sickness or a sudden emotional drop & she pauses with me (none of my physical symptoms are controllable, they are automatic fear-based symptoms), then slowly she will draw my attention to what just happened in my body. She watches for the shakes, the instability & makes sure I notice it too, then the conversation gets lighter again to a less dangerous topic, before she gets me talking about my Dad again etc.

[@hikkibee4380]

Amazing! Thank you for this episode. I wish I had known earlier.

[@JerryJimenezOfficial]

I can sit here all day. Beautifully explained! I really appreciate it. Thank you Dr. Allan Schore, Thank you Dr. Andrew Huberman. BTW I felt that you were both communicating with your right brain during the program.

[@sailormoon5760]

Amazing. I am so grateful for this episode. ❤️

[@cristinacobaleda1972]

Such an important subject!. That applies to every single one of our human interactions, at any time and at every level: self-regulation, co-regulation, interactive -regulation, synchronisation... should all be taught. I would have loved Dr. Score to mention a bit more the work of S. Porges, Deb Danna, Iain McGilchrist (or even Lisa Feldman, E. Lebowittz, Lori Desautels...). One could create a multiverse web universe on this subject alone. Thank you, Mr. Hbrmn for all you are doing to make critical, and at times sensitive, information available to us all. And please extend my regards to the lovely team members attached to everything you do. Since I'm sure they are the "blanket" that makes something that was at one time only plausible now magically possible. Also, thanks to your community of followers. Since one of your beauties somehow dragged me into this mess trying to convince me about the good of social media. And now I feel totally compelled to listen to the old podcast episodes. I will search through the library to see if any of my favourite scientists have ever been your guests in the past. They will get priority pass, my complete synchronised attunement, and, of course, my surrender.

[@susie_asado]

Thank you for asking about music and dogs. This is where I've always found attunement in deepest way. Yes, "nothing short of profound"!

[@janvoght5221]

TY for being far and above the most helpful source of the information that moves the needle. Your guest’s knowledge has already brought light to my own personal journey and for that I am very grateful. Thank you! Wishing you continued success in your studies, this is life unlimited.

[@antonietaolguin-cigarroa3040]

How exciting! Thank you for bringing Allan Schore to this podcast.

[@psullivan9769]

The information and research of Allan Shore is so important to the field of psychology. I am so glad you invited him on this channel so others can learn from this man. I would love to see Steven Porges as well. They are important researchers in the field of mental health.

[@rateloveable]

I always wondered why My son barely cried and was generally Happy whilst I was always internally monitoring him before he could ever cry I was there. today he was a very happy child etc

[@punkt_txt]

Thanks to both of you for these very interesting and helpful 2 hours. I will listen to this more then once !

[@drsandhyathumsikumar4479]

Much grattitude Dr Alan and Dr Andrew .. Such podcasts are really helping me to find that i am really grateful for such opportunities to see authentic wisdom being shared

[@GregBendau]

This was my favorite episode of yours so far, by far. I’m a bit biased, because I am obtaining my doctorate in clinical psychology and have been steeped in the world of psychoanalytic psychotherapy for the past 6 years. Schore confirmed from a neuroscience standpoint so much what I’ve learned and experienced in my education/clinical training. Psychoanalysis / psychoanalytic therapy need more good PR like this episode with Schore! I would be absolutely thrilled if you invited psychologist Jonathan Shedler to discuss psychoanalytic therapy and some of the controversies and battles between clinical practice and clinical research. I also think psychoanalyst Nancy McWilliams would be an incredible guest to have on to talk about the structure of personality and diagnosis from a psychoanalytic perspective.

[@Jason_gottx]

Dr. Huberman- You've said that you read every comment- Let me hopefully test that statement! 1. Thank you for having Dr. Schore on. The majority of suffering on the mental health front comes not from lack of information but lack of integration, because we fail to implement that which the edge of science knows into our homes, our schools, & our businesses. This episode with Dr. Schore unequivocally serves your mission to make science & science-based tools available to people in ways that truly matter. Well done. 2. Another vote to get Iain McGilchrist on the podcast. 3. As he shared in this episode, Dr. Schore contributed significantly to the Norton series on Interpersonal Neurobiology. (I.P.N.B. being the consilient field which brilliantly houses Shore's work, Porges's work, & others into a coherent & operable framework for human wellbeing) I've commented on your videos an embarrassing number of times requesting you have Dr. Dan Siegel on! (I even joined your Patreon explicitly to send the same request there :D) Please consider taking a look at the field, & generally consider the urgent need to apply a complex systems approach to our scientific modeling rather than the linear, reductionist approaches that make us all "blind men touching different parts of the elephant." Rob Sapolsky does a stellar job in his online lecture series when he breaks down Stephen Wolfram's beautifully audacious book. "A New Kind of Science." Human beings are complex adaptive systems. Until we modify this fundamental paradigm, the mental health crisis is here to stay. (Brilliant) people like Chris Palmer will generate (often useful) models that showcase the more significant causative factors of mental unhealth, but by remaining linear fail to model how the parts come together to form the function of the whole. (Shout-out right hemisphere processing) If you've borne with me to this point, count be equally surprised and grateful. Take depression, for example- (Again, Sapolsky is a brilliant resource here) There's a CAUSATIVE relationship between each of these variables and ALL of the others. (Interdependent feedback loops, not linear relationships between variables) To name a few major players A. Chronic stress activation. B. Inflammation. (Pesky cytokines) C. Circadian disruption. D. Impeded social connection. E. Brain metabolics. F. ...... Each of these is causative to every other variable. A methodology for scientific investigation that relies on variable control to isolate linear causative relationships is fundamentally incapable of generating a model that matches the actuality of a complex system. I'll leave this irresponsibly large & unhinged comment here for future generations. Again, well done with the cast. I appreciate the hell out of you. -Jason

[@funkymunky]

This episode me smile because of how often I was reminded of my relationship with mom and dad... 🙂

[@janelleetsitty36]

Wow. I finally got to finish this podcast. Thoroughly enjoyed the very last part in speaking on affecting and shaping the personality before the child has formed an attachment or separation. I wish this content was available 29 years ago when I was raising my boys. Did the best I could, but looking back on some areas; could've been more attentive especially with my second son. Too many stresses while I was pregnant with him. Thank you, Andrew for all your efforts in putting this out into the world. I am listening and putting in the work for me and my family.

[@Hanibalbuceo]

Hace poco más de un año retiraron un tumor de mi lóbulo frontal derecho y esta conversación arroja luces para comprender mucho más la manera como se comporta mi cerebro. Muchas gracias!

[@tawanammetle5219]

Thank you Dr Huberman for the time you put in to educate us consistently It goes a long way💙

[@denisrivarola2387]

Bro at this point relationships screwed my brain more, honestly this push for scientist for everyone to go and fall in love, have children and be busy with tons of friends is... a bit unnconfortable. If the science says being busy most of your time with people is healthy, ok! But, I feel fine mostly by my quiet little self.

[@uniqueusername22337]

It’s maybe uncomfortable for you because of trauma.. which is unfortunate because other people provide a unique kind of nourishment that you can’t get from anywhere else

[@tcoom76]

Bro I only have enough energy for like my mom and very small circle of people I keep contact with. I feel good after socializing a lot of times after but there are also 1/5 x I feel more alone. I am a lone wolf that enjoys being social but I mostly protect my energy. It’s a finite resource after all.

[@uniqueusername22337]

@@tcoom76 it makes sense you would feel lonelier after socializing.. when you dont socialize you get used to the loneliness. after socializing there is a contrast. Atleast you have some people. I'm not judging you it's just a fact that social people live longer and have healthier brains.

[@uniqueusername22337]

@@tcoom76 also you are not protecting energy. if you are with people that you trust and love then you will have much more energy.

[@endgamefond]

I feel you. I think it's part of my genetic as well that I tried to connect with people so hard but I just can't. My parents aren't talkative people. My mom has schizophrenia and hates everyone. I mean she hated everyone long before. My brother suffered mental issues back then. He had psychosis and he is fine now. Me now not getting married yet and just living without actually being with someone or people tho I keep good relationships with my siblings but still I can't connect outside of this family in deeper level. I think largely is genetic. The more I think thank God for my siblings to keep sane tho most of the time I prefer being alone.

[@ximenarodriguez5845]

As a mom , thank you for this information.

[@Dani-jo9yr]

As a therapist as well- this is super important, Thank You both 🙏❤️🎉

[@C-Line-m2x]

Okay he’s making it to the ideal dinner guest list. Great interview!

[@JLHDDS]

I Listened to this on Supercast and when I heard the guest, Dr. Schore, tell Andrew about Dr. McGilchrist, I cheered out loud. But my best take on him is to carefully read his book(s) and thrive in McGilchrist's Channel on Daily Poetry, which is the better power!!

[@antzilla525]

Fantastic interview. I shared this with my wife who is a psychiatrist--I look forward to discussing this with her, especially because we are new parents.

[@olgazavilohhina6854]

¡Hola Profe!Fascinating conversation.Sure made me reflect on my own childhood and my parenting journey.And made me extremely grateful that my home country had 18 months of paid maternity leave when my kids were born.Thank You for all Your hard work and care for all of us.

[@lun-uhatic195]

What country is that if you don't mind me asking?

[@seminatarelli434]

Man this episode is amazing l! Thank you so much to Dr Allan Schore and to Dr Huberman for sharing all this valuable information with us

[@godsblackpanther]

How Your Brain... Heart Coherence.. Shapes Your Relationships...and Very Possibly a Happy Vegas Nerve Huge Blessings Professor😊😊😊

[@patakyamika]

This is mindblowing. Simply mindblowing.

[@Supervale111]

I’m absolutely grateful for this conversation. What an episode, absolutely mind blowing. Please Andrew, next time call Peter Fonagy. I bet he would say to us very very interesting things about mentalization and theory of mind. Thank you ❤

[@danettebeavers8193]

Thank you, Andrew, for another wonderful episode. Please use your contacts to get Dr. Schore an interview with RFK, Jr. You might disagree with him on specifics, but I doubt anyone could credibly assert that he isn’t passionate about the health of America. I think he would be keen to advocate for policies that promote healthy attachment.

[@SeekingSiobhan]

Thanks for this information! I listened all the way through on my podcast app. Long time listener, first time commenter. Dr Huberman, would you consider doing an episode specifically on the scientific method itself? Maybe how it's evolved (ha) over time, what it looks like today, and where it might go in the future. Also addressing the "do your own research" commentary -- not that people should STOP doing their own research, but just how to be more effective at finding facts they can trust. Thanks for your consideration!

[@silociconstantza2438]

What a Fantastic Episode! Thank You Dear Andrew and Dr. Allan !So many great tips and things I resonate with ! Definitely have to go back to piano and bass guitar 🤍🖤

[@veebaby5772]

Love Dr. Schore. Thank you for having him on! Such important information. Very Enriching!

[@shnwalla]

Dr. Huberman, I recently viewed your latest guest appearance on Modern Wisdom and noticed a quick comment you made on butterfies. Perhaps this would be somewhat unusual for an episode idea but I would love to see you do an episode on insects and their very important relationship to plants and the rest of the animal kingdom. I don't know him personally but Doug Tallamy would be a great guest to have on the podcast to discuss this. Most of his material on youtube is online lecture based so it would be good to see more of an open discussion format to help spread the word of the importance of insects in our ecosystems. Thanks!

[@jessicadora7213]

Great idea. Most people have little to no healthy connection with the world of insects and arachnids. I find this terrifying! We would not be here without all of the other living and non-living elements of our world. Observing and learning from their interconnectednes With Each Other could be enlightening for most people!

[@ozztenn]

Excited! Looks like it'll be a great episode