Anjelah Johnson-Reyes: Trauma Brought The Gift of Help

[@sherryroberts1821]

The thing I love the most about Anjelah besides her amazing humor is that she is Christian and there’s no vulgarity. And I can just sit back and enjoy and laugh until I’m in tears without hearing all of the other things that as a Christian I don’t want hear. She should be so proud to not have compromised her beliefs. So, yes I’m a huge fan ❤

[@1Corinthians6Verses9thru11]

When she was talking about growing up in San Jose, I was expecting her to do the "urban nature sounds" and the "ghetto bird"..lol.

[@zaldrizo]

And the fact she supports and loves the gays instead of trying to crucify us. It's nice

[@TheRougefish]

Please don't insult us all non believers with the ridiculous claim that all Christians are immune to the use of foul language. There's no correlation between religious affiliation and language use. You are not morally superior to anyone, Sherry.

[@karydiaz74]

​@@TheRougefish wow that's totally NOT what she said or implied 😮

[@saravelasco09]

🙏❤️

[@Brendasmpt]

“My dad does not have the capacity to understand his own trauma, and the trauma he has caused.“ Best statement I’ve heard which mirrors my own father’s behavior in my childhood & even adulthood and what I have finally understood and believe is true. Letting go for me & not having to have him owe what he did is what I had to do. I am soooo glad Anjelah said that bc it just confirms & reinforces what I have done in my life.

[@joleneburchill45]

I agree with Anjelah...except it's my Mom. I wrote a letter too.

[@melanibailey6137]

I'm right there with you! ❤

[@Selfemployedmildautisticperfor]

and my mothers, good to point that out for us again thanks i just sstarted watching listinging to this and the podcast but i feel i may have seen 1 or 2 espidiseo in the past ive heard of this comedian btw , and theres a mini comeidin that reminds me of my mom, also um its intesting they wear headphones only when the guest does hmm and if the mics are really necessary

[@DaniElle-di4ho]

@@joleneburchill45for me it’s my mom and dad 😭

[@leahjagger1309]

So me and my life too. My brother on the other hand, can't let go and that has traumatized him even more....

[@cheezdagratest]

25 years ago a friend asked me "Why do you keep expecting things from people who are just not capable of giving them to you?" Until this conversation I really didn't understand. I didn't get it. This was a big help. Thanks!

[@dawntownsend1465]

This is SUCH a hard truth. It brings a certain degree of peace, but also a deep sadness.

[@shanti888]

It’s like looking for milk in a hardware store!

[@katherine3107]

I am just NOW learning this! My naive thought of everyone means the best for me/doesn’t mean harm changed to a skeptical: “everyone is out to get me” over the years. I still have a hard time noticing when ppl are “walking all over me”, but regardless I don’t want these things to make my heart turn cold. BOUNDARIES are necessary. How to balance this all??

[@TRONwuzhere82]

@@shanti888 Very well said!

[@daniellefuentesjohnson6750]

i adore Anjelah! As a fellow Latina who doesn't speak fluent Spanish, thank you for being a beautiful example of the internal struggle that brings!

[@ivania321]

:) Anjelah Nicole Johnson - i mean her name isn't even in Spanish :D LMAO

[@mamaofboys1503]

Same. I can relate to her in growing up I wish I ate rice and beans, tortillas, etc. I wish I knew Spanish and felt more Mexican.

[@EMVelez]

@@ivania321 The Johnson name comes from her Native American roots. It’s strange she didn’t mention that when Mayim asked what her ethnic background was. She has mentioned it before.

[@Valentina_Lat]

come over! i cook that ALL the time in my household 😉@@mamaofboys1503

[@daniellestanley1547]

Thank You for your honesty. Im latina, hispanic, chicana... . You know, whatever people want to label me.... I grew up in NM, and i don't speak spanish. My husbands family is always asking me why I dont speak Spanish. Ummmm, because o grew up in the US, and like you my grandparents were beaten in school if they spoke in Spanish.

[@ajautolifts]

2 things - 1st my wife and I live in FL and won a trip to see Anjelah in LA a few weeks ago, and got a brief meet & greet. She is so nice and gracious. The trip was a huge Blessing. 2nd and most important. My children are 21 & 18. After watching this episode I now I need to convey to them how important, valued and proud of them I am of them and their journey. Thank You! First time visiting your page, I will be back!

[@dawntownsend1465]

Ok I’m 52, and I have struggled my whole life with not getting the approval and recognition from my dad that I always wanted, and yet would hear from others how he was “so proud of me”…I never could really reconcile that, but what Anjelah just said here made it crystal clear. Thank you. That just made so much sense.

[@karentucker2161]

I just stopped expecting that from my dad. I feel like I am better off for it. I love my dad but I don't think he even knows how to be a dad because of how his dad was and went through some stuff by an uncle of his. He is in denial about things he has done and what has been done to him and his siblings.

[@e0n555]

So many gems in this interview, but that observation about why some people do not praise was such an epiphany…wow.

[@marycain5668]

My Dad lived 95 years and I never in 65 years heard him say anything positive about my accomplishments. Narcissist indeed.

[@elliecourtney777]

It’s so interesting how the parent that caused her much grief also gave her the skills to enjoy the kind of life she has, the means to support herself. The path on which she eventually meets her husband? Isn’t that how life works though? There’s often the most painful and most beautiful things wrapped in the same wrapping.

[@noreendunne431]

Great comment 😊

[@Noeau]

Why I like about this podcast is that it’s not your typical Q and A interview. It’s intellectual and thought provoking because it goes deeper and analytical and helps you to think outside of what you know. And again, Mayim asks questions that brings out the answers from her guests. Normally I hate when the host interrupts the guests in the middle of their answer, but Mayim seems to interrupt with something short and relevant where it doesn’t disrupt the flow of the story

[@shanti888]

Remember our parents had their own traumas. Often much deeper and far more traumatic than our own. Love them unconditionally

[@sjs-stev]

My mother was abusive and neglectful to me. But later, I realized that she was abused worse than anyone I’ve known personally, even trafficked by her own father. So, you are right. We need to forgive our parents for their mistakes and abuses. And sometimes, we don’t realize that there were things we did that probably hurt them deeply as well.

[@22Phantasm]

Love them unconditionally? So if your parents went on a killing spree would you truly love them unconditionally? If you did you'd be just as tainted as them. Just because they are your parents doesn't mean you have to love them come what may. I feel absolutely nothing for the people who were my parents - I disowned them and it was THE best decision of my life. We can choose who we allow into our lives, being a parent does not give you automatic status - moreso if you are a real shit parent.

[@22Phantasm]

I'm happy it worked out for you but we don't NEED to forgive our parents, surely it's a choice we make. You made the choice right for you, which is great but not all parents can be forgiven because you just don't know how they've acted in other families. @@sjs-stev

[@mc6681mc]

I, wholeheartedly, disagree with loving someone unconditionally just because they are your parents especially when there is trauma. This type of thinking and behaving is dysfunctional, cyclical, enabling, and so many other unhealthy things. Children do not ask to be born so parents should be mindful of what they could indirectly unload unto their kids.

[@wannabetrucker7475]

​@@22Phantasm different strokes for different folks, some people can attain unconditional love, and for whatever reason some can't. Agreement or disagreement is contingent on each person's experience.

[@Jah_LEASE_yah]

Just the first few minutes and I can already say this is exactly the relationship I have with my mother. In capable of taking responsibility for their own behavior, but once you accept it and stop letting it define your worth it’s a weight off your shoulders.

[@Jocelyn3756]

I was just thinking the same, sounded just like my Mom.

[@mallynp]

Yes this exactly describes my father. But acceptance doesn't need to = a good relationship.

[@NetsH08]

A 100%

[@antoinetterrel]

This is exactly me. My parents were unable to reconcile their own trauma so they can’t acknowledge what they’ve done to me. However, I released that of them, and I do have a beautiful relationship with them now. Forgiveness is liberating and healing. Thank you for sharing.

[@MayimBialik]

🙌🙌🙌

[@peter_bazinet]

Wow, I can't decide if this interview or the Jewel interview is my favorite. Both two of my favorite performers and such incredibly strong women. Thank you Mayim, for bringing such amazing people to discuss their lives. They have the strength I'll never have.

[@MayimBialik]

Both great episodes!!! 🙌 Thanks so much for the lovely feedback and for watching. We're all on similar journeys and you have it in you too, Peter!! 🧠🫶

[@joyceespinoza9623]

The one with Kelly Clarkson is great as well!

[@matiaspereira9382]

@@MayimBialik I love how you help people

[@sharpesoul9463]

I love ❤️ you BOTH, just so you know, Mayim and Anjelah, you’re my best friend.

[@John3v8]

"Follow peace." I'm writing that down in my journal! Also, I really think intuition works best, as Anjelah says, if we stay living truthfully and with good intentions. We also have to learn to trust that to move forward. That's called FAITH!

[@Whyyougottabethisway]

The more I listen to Anjelah -- her standup and her regular conversations -- the more I find we are SO alike. The perspectives and the small sillinesses of life that she picks up on, etc., the honesty and insights. I did the same thing with my dad years ago. It made all the difference between how at peace I was when he passed versus my siblings who never sought that same closure and ability to just see him in his two versions -- the one who traumatized them and the old man he had become.

[@leticiaperez243]

“Just because someone said it doesn’t mean it’s true” has so resonated with me. I never connected it to my childhood. Im a first generation Cuban American It’s so hard to break that history

[@joyceespinoza9623]

This made me weep when Anjelah spoke about the lack of vulnerability her dad showed to her, and being Latina from a father in his late 80’s I can completely relate!! I had to learn in therapy as well to comfort the little girl in me AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THERAPY LATINOS!!!!😅. Talking to a professional and not just your Tia does not make you weak!! #journal #meditation # faith.

[@darlenesaldana6665]

Thank you for telling your story in such a truthful, heartfelt way with humor. Love both of you! Also, as a Latin female, I truly appreciate this dialogue. 🙏 It's not uncommon for Latinas to be traumatized by toxic masculinity. As a Latin female, we are taught to be great daughters and not talk about how negative patriarchal behavior effected our families. It's generational and needs to be talked about more. #realtalk

[@ivania321]

wow

[@katherine3107]

YES!

[@danaw23]

I clicked on this thinking it was a stand up show and watched the entire episode and am now in love with both of these women more than I already was. Thank you for sharing your stories!

[@osllq9355]

Omg ANJELAH JOHNSON!!! I'm so hoping you get even more stand-ups on! I relate so much to Mayim on what a beautiful escape comedy is when we just need to laugh through the hardest parts of life 💜

[@MayimBialik]

☝️☝️🔥🔥🔥

[@airbendingeagle2358]

Wow! I loved watching Anjelah Johnson on MadTV with her character Bon Qui Qui. It's so fascinating to hear her stories about growing up, becoming an Oakland Raiders cheerleader, then becoming a comedian, and learning to manage her trauma and being able to move forward. So wonderful

[@ivania321]

i freaking LOVE bonqui qui - flight attendant :D

[@claudiaescobar9262]

Two women I admire so much! I cried during Angela's narration of how she confronted her dad with her letter. The deep connection to her faith is something I have experienced as well. Trusting and having faith that everything will work out for our best benefit. There's no mistakes. Awesome interview.

[@stellatarazon6576]

This triggered the little hurt girl inside of me, I cried as Anjelah spoke of her father. Thank you Anjelah for being so transparent, goes to show how what happens in our childhood can traumatize us. My family and I love her.

[@serendipity1237]

Ok, Mayim gets fan-girly sometimes, but her raging girl-crush here was adorable! They definitely need to have Anjela back again!

[@JD-jp2fw]

I'm 45 and finally getting to the same place with my faith, God, and religion that Anjelah so eloquently discussed and explored. Appreciating the good and tradition you were raised with to establish a foundation and then deciphering where man-made concepts impede both your relationship with God and growth as person. I am standing in the truth that faith is ever growing and changing as you evolve.

[@susan8946]

My father said, I cant apologize for what I did. That was when I was in my 30's . Later in life we were close andn I was with him through chemo and his death! He was abused too. He changed. My mother never did. Anjelah is hysterical. She and other females keep me from not ending my life.

[@Tolkienlady]

Been there. I hope that one day you will value yourself enough that YOU KNOWING YOUR OWN IMMENSE VALUE TO THIS PLANET JUST BY EXISTING IN IT will be the reason you don't end your life. Until then, reach out, and stay strong. ❤️

[@marinamaldonado7606]

Anjelah hit the nail on the head!!! This is pretty much exactly the experience I have had with both my parents. And, like you said, Anjelah, it took ME realizing they both don't have the capacity to deal with their own trauma or the trauma they have caused. I had to stop EXPECTING it and NEEDING it from them. Hearing they're proud of me from others but not them was a HUGE eye opener for me too. Thanks for sharing your story Anjelah. So relatable!

[@aracelibelaski4768]

I cant stop crying. coming from a Hispanic home and knowing deep down inside that this is exactly what I need to do..

[@KD-oc7qk]

I am Anjelah Johnson! I love you girl, Navajo/Sioux native here, and got all the childhood trauma as well. Christian roots and healing thanks to a wonderful therapist. Also had a blossom hat in the 90s, that my sister ruined and it crushed me. That being said I was Mayim cringing during the spirit podcast encounter, and now I can't sleep. 😳

[@lenaburns]

This was a great episode. She really inspired me to speak with my dad about my own trauma now that I’ve started therapy.

[@MayimBialik]

LOVE to hear this. Sending you strength Lena, and healing wishes for you and your dad's relationship. You got this!!!

[@TheMagickalMedium]

Interesting how this episode gravitated in my orbit on my Dad's birthday (he passed nearly 8 years ago). He was the same way. This was much needed. Grateful for this episode. GRATITUDE to all 3 of you 🙏🏻 !

[@sharonadair6417]

I love BOTH of you SOOO much!! I love how honest and real you are and say what you mean and mean what you say. That is soo rare in today's society. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.

[@laprofessora64]

I so related to Anjelah's story of her dad. Mine is the same. He's never told me he was proud of me, but would tell EVERYONE else. It never dawned on me that it was a competition, but knowing who he is, it makes sense. I had a lot of resentment toward him until the last time we went to Spain to visit his family. By then I was an adult and could really see the family he grew up in and his own insecurities and trauma. It allowed me to let go the anger. I haven't had the courage to confront him the way Anjelah did her father, however. Maybe one of these days.

[@veronicasv7]

But why dump on our parents? It may make us feel good to dump our negativity all over them but what does it do to them? Just accept them and love them as they are. ❤

[@laprofessora64]

@@veronicasv7 Did you read the whole post?

[@espchica1]

Anjelah is one of my absolute favorite comediennes. She is gold! Her ghost stories with Anjelah saved me in Covid lockdown. ❤🎉

[@LinnaeWillis-pf8ul]

Anjuliah valided my feelings in this interview. My father is the same way. I can remember just wanting him to say something positive to me, then i realized that i needed to be my own cheerleader.

[@Kim-qt7yn]

This interview mined so many nuggets of gold about relationships in life. Mayim your interpersonal skills are fantastic!

[@xtcBEBOP]

One of your best!!! Always admired Anjelah's comic genius, and this conversation between you three takes my admiration to a whole new level.

[@AmyMSantos]

I have so much to get done today, but Anjelah Johnson-Reyes comes first!

[@dharmawannab]

I love Anjelah Johnson. I appreciate how open and honest she is. I learned some helpful things from her on how to handle some things I've been through.

[@dporter-gage9907]

Jonathon was the listening ninja in this episode. He made connections that are going to help me move forward in my creative life. Thank you, Jonathon!!

[@ivania321]

:D

[@ArchitectingHappiness]

Wow! That’s exactly how I felt. Truly inspired comments from Johnathan

[@angelova.nikoleta.design]

"To have a dream was embarrassing." - the power of your environment. Growing up in a small and poor country (referring to myself) really can make or break you as a person.

[@katelynivens3007]

my entire body had chills when she was talking about how she would talk to her dad when she saw him sitting at her table. I get that same visual about the biggest things in life so far. I also feel like my father would react and respond the exact same way. I've written letters, but they sit in a box.

[@katelynivens3007]

coming to the realization that your parents capacity is only as big as it is truly shifts your entire perspective on things. it's healing but also heart breaking. they will never be able to feel as deeply and break those generational walls down that we are. we will always have different views. that makes me sad for my dad.

[@katelynivens3007]

"STOP NEEDING THAT FROM THEM"

[@RJ0321]

"When my dad is telling other about me, he's still winning. But when he's complimenting me, I'm winning. And he's not ready for that. He can't handle that." Wow. This is so helpful. And explains my mother. Thank you for your transparency.

[@karismakris]

I think of her every time I get my nails done. She’s amazing and SO funny!

[@jsetennis9224]

What a beautiful story, both of you ladies are wonderful giving back to our troops ❤️🙏

[@lauravelazquez8403]

That was PURE LOVE, Mayim! You both AMAZE, INSPIRE and DELIGHT! 🙏💕

[@heathert.4637]

Oh my God, I loved this soo much. I’ve been doing her nail salon skit for my friends for years 😂 Also, I love that she is. Christian and a beautiful person as well. Also, I loved Blossom growing up bit never realized that I loved Mayim until I found this podcast. She’s brilliant, and insightful, kind, respectful and inclusive of her guests. I love Jonathan too and them together as well. Love this, guys. Thank you! ❤

[@MayimBialik]

🧠🫶🧠🫶🧠🫶

[@ivania321]

we should all get drunk in a room and do Anjelah back to her :) HONEY WHY YOU DO LIIIIII (k)e?

[@ivania321]

fan girl moments :D

[@heathert.4637]

@@ivania321 Honey…u say to me you not have boyfriend, I just want to hewp you..🤣

[@cal1405]

I really relate to her relationship with her (competitive) father. I have no insights to add, just that I relate, and appreciate this episode.

[@lovev9904]

I'm an Independent Latino. Thank you Mayim!! 1:10:34 This the truth what you Father said, silly girl, this GenX Lady got a hot beating with La Chancla and Thick Wide Belt. I was scared of my Father until I was 16 years old. My Father was said the same thing to me that he doesn't remember. I forgave him but never forget because I broke the "Generational Curse". We are really good friends. He tells me to be patient. My Father's mother abandon him at 2 years old - his older brothers would beat on him. So, I understood even if it hurt. I tell Everyone that has this issue to seek professional help or else they will abuse the next innocent generation 😥. And help break the "Generational Curse".

[@mailleweaver]

I started listening to this last night and heard something that I think has changed my life. "Follow peace." I had to stop the video immediately and process that. I've needed to hear that for years. Not just in pacing relationships, but in my whole life, that's what I've been searching for. That is the direction I've been needing and approximating but never quite recognized. Every memory and experience and feeling I have agree perfectly. Those two words give me something that I know is me and can guide everything that I do. Thank you, Mayim, for hosting this good show that I only just discovered. Thank you, Anjelah, for sharing your story and giving me a part of myself that I've been pursuing my whole life without even knowing. I can finally stop playing Marco-Polo with my life and set a definite heading.

[@marimedgal]

This interview was amazing! Anjelah is one of my favorite comedians. Now I like her even more!

[@lauraellard9941]

I came into this wanting a few laughs and just something to listen to AND I wasn't ready AT ALL! I took notes and everything!

[@Tolkienlady]

Ikr? I hit the rewind button so many times to re-hear a concept or sentence I needed to internalize.

[@Livethelegacy7]

Was so excited to find this video of two of my favorite people to watch in anything. Never before has a podcast made me cry. Thank you for sharing so freely and helping me better understand my Dad. He passed a year ago, so I won’t be able to do the letter thing. But I’m amazed by how much healing I experienced listening to Anjelah’s story. I’ve loved Mayim since she was Blossom and Anjelah since she was getting her nails done. Big Bang Theory, especially after Mayim joined, is my favorite show and Anjelah is my favorite comedian. You two should work on a project together that us civilians can enjoy. Seriously, I am totally there. Thank you again for this session. I’ve laughed, cried, and was just overall blessed.

[@wendylee4221]

So well articulated and so healing! Anjelah's dad is so much like my mom and I think she nailed it in explaining where they come from.

[@prescindaduggan6707]

I just love these ladies, find so much of myself in them. I just recently found Anjelah comedy a couple of weeks ago and am enthralled by her. She is hilarious and I also love that she demonstrates that is indeed a thing that one can be a hilarious comedian without relying on vulgarity or raunchiness, very refreshing. Thank you both for a lovely discussion and now am even more in love with my sister in humanity, Anjelah Johnson-Reyes. She is a beautiful soul. As you are as well, Mayim. Blessed be you both all-ways. 🙏💚

[@louisbonilla6780]

Love Mayim' s technique and entertaining method of presenting her guests in the best light - Love her infectious laugh and the way her voice scales from raunchy laughter and slides to a sexy tenor like a Cabaret singer 🦊

[@matiaspereira9382]

I really love how you help people Dr Bialik! Keep your good job! You're my favorite actress ever!

[@ralonso5866]

I loved this interview because of all the depth and aha moments. Thank you for being so real and sharing all with us.

[@ernestinasanchez5305]

At first I thought, I'm not going to last watching this video, because it's a long video...OMG! I was so wrong. Thank you! for this great interview. Just like her, I use the same kind of "conversations" with God, and I feel that he has sent me "signs" through out my entire life. I'm 70 years old and I give credit to God and to the hard work that I was able to do, in order to achieve what I have, from my own education (REGISTER NURSE) to the education of my one and only child (MASTER IN BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION). We both own our houses. And with the help of God, we are planning on moving down south to Arizona...due to health reasons we no longer tolerate the extreme cold weather here in Nebraska. I'm going to go buy her book. Thanks again for this wonderful video.

[@MayimBialik]

Thanks so much for watching, Ernestina, and so glad this episode resonated with you! 🧠🫶

[@lesliehoard8085]

This interview is THE BEST. I have never heard anyone articulate what I have felt in my relationship with my own dad as perfect as this. God bless you both, and thank you so much for this candid, open, amazing discussion. You have no idea how much this resonates with me (one of your fans). Thank you so much.

[@tammygray]

I love this. I've never been able to separate the trauma from the positive things learned *during* it. I can definitely appreciate the lessons learned from it afterwards.

[@danielafurlan322]

I am more a fan now, she is amazing, Thank You Mayim and Jonathan for this episode.

[@maxinepeel7057]

The one thing among many that stood out for me is when men compete with me - they try and be and do what I do and am - it annoyed the hell out of me in my youth - my father wasn't like that with me but my mom was. Many girls/women did that when I was younger but so did men and one friend now in my 60s is doing that also. When Anjelah mentioned this, I remembered what I usually say that "when someone copies me I should take it as a compliment" and I do. I just wish people would work on themselves instead of trying to be something that doesn't occur to them naturally. That friend of mine has ways I do not own and maybe the difference is I don't want to own them. I'm satisfied with who I am and always live and do my inner work on my spirituality, growth and even welcome my trip ups - but don't need anyone else's gifts when I have my own. Recognizing that we need no one's validation is the door that opens us up to freedom, peace and grace. We are all flawed - no one perfect and no one should discard themselves according to this screwed up society we live in. Thank you Mayim - you are honest, raw, insigntful, well spoken, and help many to not be afraid to be who they are - whatever stage of growth they find themselves to be. We are all a work of art in progress and thank God for that!

[@tabularasa7711]

Huge fan of the voice and person and comedy of Anjelah… gratitude for sharing your father/parent “whose winning here?” story. Super relatable. Painful. Love Mayim’s noticing the step by step progression in A’s deal with god…. Loved the hand in hand surrender. Congrats on your marriage. Sounds like love. Inspiring.

[@toniledford2640]

Wow! I've learned so much about my broken relationship with my own father through this episode. Thank you ladies!

[@mezm3068]

What amazing role models these women are. I love them both so so much. Cheers from Australia 💕

[@MayaRivka]

Love this episode - I so relate to the dad thing. Though mine didn’t turn out so well and the dynamic was somewhat difference. And my last memory of my dad is the look of hatred for me on his face. However, I do realize it came from a place of pain for him because he was dying of pancreatic cancer. But after that “look” he refused to let me see him and he passed away. 😢.

[@Ophelia_Doll]

I actually recently wrote a letter to my deceased mother, and let loose of a lot of trauma from my childhood, at first I felt great, however a few days later I started to feel a lot of guilt, now, almost a month and a half later, I am less with the guilt, and more with the actually feeling like a weight has lifted off my shoulders, so I only have positive things to say about this specific letter writing to release your trauma practice. Thank you for this episode. I think a lot of people need to watch this. ♥

[@Metamets]

Omg!! I am listening to this podcast and I could not stop!! It was BEAUTIFUL!! Thank you for sharing such great messages and memories! 😊

[@heathersdreamhouse]

This helped me so much ladies, I am currently taking care of my dad who has dementia and was also my abuser growing up. I had 6 years of therapy just to be able to look him in the eyes and now I am caring for his every need. It is the most rewarding, difficult time of my life. The just listen part of Anjelah's story is brilliant. I told my Dad everything he ever did to us last Christmas eve and he didn't remember anything he had done. He was also brutalized by his own father. 😢 This interview helped me understand that my dad can't ever comprehend what he did due to his mental and emotional state. He doesn't say please or thank you either. I am going to stop expecting 😊 I want to have more grace with him but some days it's super hard. God help me and Jesus take the wheel!!!!!

[@bearbirdnjungle]

Mayim & Anjelah, thank you for sharing your wisdom, love, strength, and authenticity. Touched me so deeply.

[@earthangel8875]

I am a big Anjelah Johnson Reyes fan. I live in the Bay Area so I considered her a "homegirl". I love this in-depth interview about her. My journey connects with hers on so many levels. I understand it. I admire that Anjelah can speak openly about her journey. It shows courage, yet it's so simple to do yet many people can not, nor will they be open to learning. I admire her and her style of comedy. You don't have to be vulgar to make people laugh. Thank you, Mayim for interviewing such a wonderful human soul. I love her just the way she is, with all her flaws in a brotherly way. May you all be blessed today and for all the days of your life. Make your mess your message homegirl. Gotta buy me a book. Angel from The Bay Area, Silicon Valley, CA USA

[@cathygill764]

Mayim, thank you for inviting Angelah on your podcast. Angelah, thank you for being who you are,. a Christian. Watching you tell your jokes makes me laugh so much and they're clean. I'm going back to therrapy, soon. When I was growing up I was told not to not to talk about what I was going through so I kept it all inside. I didn't know I was going through trama. At that time there was no such thing as getting therapy, no therapist. It was several years ago that I know about therapy. I went to a therapist. It came to a point where she told me I didn't need to see her anymore.But what she didn't know was it takes time for me to get things out. I've stfuffed so much inside me because I don't want to deal with things but I know I've got to continue therapy for me. I'm Christan. It's been a long time since I've prayed but that's changing.

[@messengerofgoodnews]

Childhood trauma hit hard today. 💔 Thank you, Mayim and Angela. 🙏

[@EvesRevenge]

I first saw Angela on a clip famously called, The Nail Salon. Lovvve her and I’ll definitely buy this book, at least on audio if it’s available or when it’s available. Xo to both you ladies!

[@brownbrood5]

I love this, Anjela is one of my most treasured comedians and I have loved Mayim since Blossom so this interview is a real treat!!

[@JungleJoeVN]

It's so nice to see Anjelah talking about so many things about herself. She's an amazing woman of unlimited potential and talent. I feel that she can do anything. Get that 20 year old Angelah's attitude back about although many have done something, they don't do it the same way as you. I think that is what keeps most of us from success. Not trying because something has been done 100 times before or something like that. I don't care how many paintings of flowers there are, NO ONE has painted them the same way as I!

[@erinwalsh8893]

“I’m CEO of me!” Love this!!❤

[@adriannapadilla8005]

I love this conversation! I love how Mayim and Anjelah have such a great rapport.

[@themaggattack]

59:33 Anjelah says it so much better, but to paraphrase: "Just follow peace" (whatever the pace) and intuition.. when you are in allignment with truth of your value... I am all the things enough." PREACH!

[@t.m.a.3665]

❤I didn’t have my glasses on! Didn’t realize not only my favorite comic Anjelah but one of my fav actress , Mayim & Anjelah ! They’re awesome!!! Love you Ladies!!!❤ 💕🥰♥️👵🏼🎉

[@sonydav356]

She’s so great & I’m glad she was able to release that weight off of her shoulders. They are some hurtful things a father does & says that can’t be forgiven, even though he’s been gone a long time it’s still hurtful.

[@pattijaynes2768]

My favorite podcast you have done! I am a HUGE Anjelah fan. Thank you for having her on.

[@AdeF7245]

Anjelah read Helping ghosts,Freeing the captives,Healing lost souls,spirit attachments,and smudging! Important for your family!❤😇 Proud of you!!!

[@95turbogirl1980]

I'd give anything to talk to my grandmother again. I wasn't prepared to lose her when we did. She was my biggest fan and life long best friend.

[@nannielson7790]

I love Mayim! She is so gifted. I love them both. Having watched Anjelah's specials so many times. She is just so real. What you see is what you get with BOTH of these outstanding women!

[@gailridley6963]

What a great podcast! I love Angie! God is so good… He is so in your journey girl!

[@TheModerateMillenial]

There are so many truth bombs, and nuggets that are helpful for someone to listen to even if they don’t go/ can’t go to therapy. I’ve been pausing throughout and just reflecting on my own life and experiences. Thank you for this.

[@ChickSinger329]

What a pleasure to witness two INTELLIGENT, talented women chatting it up.

[@lilatnlups]

Wanted to be actress and ended up a comedian. Love you Angela. The fact you came get from my town of san jose california. Love you much...😂❤❤

[@abeecruz]

1:18:20 Wow! I never would’ve looked at this way ! My goodness, makes so much sense when a parent can’t give compliments

[@lifewithmesarahmarie]

I love Anjelah Johnson SO MUCH. Been a fan since nail salon, bonquiqui, literally everything. It was such a light in a very dark traumatic childhood of my own and I bonded with so many people over impressions of her. This episode was phenomenal and as a Christian afraid of the persecution this society tends to throw (strong enough in the Lord to take it, but you know it’s nice to not have to) I just genuinely appreciate the safe space that this podcast is. ♥️

[@debbeasher-k4764]

Wow! You were part of a USO show? That’s so Fantastic! Thank you for doing that. It’s such a blessing for the Troops. You continue to be more & more an icon for me.❤🎉🎉

[@AllenPortman]

I love Anjelah she is phenomenal and her capacity to present incredible funny content yet so clean and uncluttered with filthy language!! Never change!!!

[@janaleighbaxter4833]

My late husband loved comedy....hearing jokes, telling jokes, writing jokes, repeating jokes, trying out the same joke on absolutely everyone he came in contact with, most of all he loved finding new stand up comics and Miss Anjelah was just a breath of fresh air with her nail salon story.....we both watched that too many times to count. This interview though.....girl, you had me in tears. Good tears, but you are quite comfortable swimming in the deep end of the pool emotionally with big, real life stuff. I was so touched by many of the boxes opened up and the careful examination of the not so funny and not so pretty things that makes up a life. I am definitely going to catch up on all the shows and podcasts of both ladies here, which is great because I was looking for a new hobby ( and I am inspired to give journaling a real shot). Thank you both for being unapologetically faithful to our Creator.....I felt like I was home listening to this podcast. What a blessing!😊

[@lbia5122]

Absolutely LOVE the authenticity of this podcast. Both Mayam and Anjela are GREAT!!! I love how Mayam agrees not just to agree but like has LIVED in those moments also. Thank you for sharing your life story with us. God bless you Both!! Doing great things on earth. ❤❤

[@debrahaberman5592]

I'm a HUGE fan of Anjelah!! Shes such an interesting person. I'm also a HUGE of you, Mayim. Both of you are complicated, intelligent, perceptive, amazingly talented and accomplished women.

[@StudioGMinistry]

Thank you Mayim for having Anj on😎❤️ shalom

[@RA-tj8lv]

The Nail Lady is the BEST!!! MUCH LOVE

[@nancilane5069]

What a great show! Mayim is an excellent podcaster and Anjelah's one of my favorites. Keep 'em comin'!