Nice Guys Are Worse Than Ever

[@AnnamarieForcino]

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[@letsjustjumpoffacliffshallwe]

Having a vibrator ad in a video about misogynists is a total power move

[@APoliticalConfusionAndMess]

4:15 - don’t worry, those are laugh reactions. People are laughing at him.

[@catboybands]

it won’t let me just get a free whisper… it only wants me to buy it and then get the air for free, but i just want the whisper completely free… can you help me???

[@alyssasanders3786]

just wondering when this offer ends?

[@incantrix1337]

Completely silent vibrator you say...

[@abbyweber39]

I love how the dude who called himself "a wolf amoung sheep" doesn't realize he just called himself a predator

[@RainbyFIN]

A lot of Nice Guys WOULD just call themselves a predator, too, and not understand it doesn't make them sound "dangerous and sexy" or something, just dangerous 😭

[@439801RS]

Exactly, was wondering how that was a good thing to him lol

[@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer]

So he means he's gonna eat us. Like literally, he wants to cannibalize us.

[@robbyjohnstone3256]

Wolfs are cool, that about sums it! :)

[@439801RS]

@robbyjohnstone3256 not to sheep lmao

[@lizzfrmhon]

‘Anyway, when you’re alone in the future, I’ll find you.’ THIS IS WHY WE CHOOSE THE BEAR

[@idi0tsanswich379]

The bear might kill me but it won't stall me and call me a dumb whore for saying no

[@thatonearoace]

Iirc, a trans girl on TikTok said she’d choose the man. After she posted that, men harassed her real badly and she later posted she changed her mind and picked the bear

[@ParanormalEncyclopedia]

I thought it was because they were big and fluffy and adorable :D... I'm being funny I get it the bear might brutally kill you and chow down on your flesh but it wouldn't blame you for it.

[@gh0ul213]

@@thatonearoace omfg I forgot about that 😭 she literally said something like “man because they have feelings too

[@NoOnelollol]

@@gh0ul213 I’m surprised anyone would ever choose a man over a bear but omg, she got bullied for choosing men?? 😭 You just can’t win with men, they don’t know what they want. “ choose me and I’ll bully you” “Don’t choose me and I’ll still bully you”

[@beetothetee]

The whole problem about men being “entitled” to sex is the not-so-subtle implication that women are not entitled to consent.

[@paulhammond6978]

idk if this would feel problematic to people, but aren't there women who make a living by selling sex to men? So, if a man is that horny, he can at least find someone to pay to help him out even if he can't find someone who wants a relationship with him.

[@guavapaste]

@@paulhammond6978 Then we have another problem: most "sex workers" aren't doing this because they want to. And we have other problems these people suffer like abuse

[@rookbirdblues]

​@@paulhammond6978Sex workers are extremely abused, often by these kinds of men. What these men really want is a personal sex toy and emotional support girlfriend whose life revolves around them, which a sex worker will NEVER be.

[@paulhammond6978]

@@guavapaste I mean, sure - but solving society's problems s.t. there isn't a market for women doing this when they don't want to will probably solve a lot of the problems that cause some men to be incels along the way.

[@C.M.Michael783]

It's more than a not-so-subtle implication, that's the motivation behind that belief

[@britsaunders2151]

As someone whose career has majority been bear-related (wildlife conservation and education; I somehow ended up specializing in grizzlies) I gotta say, nobody knows anything about bears and bears are fucking fantastic. Also, I've been alone in the woods with many a bear and I'm still kicking! Go bears! Boooooo "nice" guys. (The first bear I ever worked with also happened to be named Boo so even the bear agrees).

[@AnnamarieForcino]

That sounds like a dream job omg

[@galeforcewindy]

This whole conversation has just highlighted to me that I have an abnormal knowledge of and exposure to bears (camped a lot growing up, now have them in my yard going thru my trash cans if not properly locked up). And yeah - still rando bear over rando man.

[@prettyevil6662000]

@@galeforcewindy It really highlights to me how violent men assume wildlife is (or fantasize it will be). Whereas women seem more generally aware that wildlife isn't violent against humans if it can help it. I'm not sure what to take from it, but it seems really important to the psyche of both genders.

[@mollykelley03]

literally a dream of mine to work at katmai np!

[@mrsayegee]

Everyone else shut up- THIS is the opinion that matters.

[@JohnStover-pd6zd]

I’m a 6 foot tall man and it seems these dudes are more obsessed with my height then any girl I’ve met

[@apocalypse.is.near.]

Good one lmao

[@amberinthemist7912]

You are living in their heads rent free, absolutely.

[@CharlesChristinaWH]

I'm a tall black guy and apparently I'm "taking all their white women" Somehow I have some sort of magical powers that make all white women fall for me I am what they call a "Tyrone" The racism they have is sick

[@hellochildren3780]

Fr tho. Most people don't care as long as you're their type tbh

[@omgitzpaige2013]

fr tall is nice but 100% of guys who completely blame rejection on their height… its not your height i promise. i’ve dated guys that are like 5’4” that are great. but there are some assholes that are 5’11” that i’d love to just tell them they’re too short just to watch them seethe

[@manyratsinatube]

Having a sex toy ad in the middle of a video about guys who are *probably* incels is such a fucking power move

[@andrewkoster6506]

it's based for sure

[@saehtnySs]

its like her 5th time doing that, its so iconic

[@Johnny24-dl3ig]

How's the abortion laws going in america? Women still dying on the streets cause nobody wants to kill their children? 😂

[@TheMrAmras]

Also I love the "now is the perfect time to give this a try " and the Toy dissapearing in a cut 😳

[@smmashups3988]

@@Johnny24-dl3igfreak

[@Montesama314]

"Why do you think you have the ability to reject me?" Well, bro, there is this word called "no," and it's really useful to indicate refusal or rejection.

[@PaulCoyJR]

"Because I have free will?"

[@RefusedToGive]

no these fedora dudes are all philosophy bros, getting sucked into a troglodyte’s free will debate is worse than death D:

[@Archiver_Studio]

@@PaulCoyJR "Because I have a human identity and therefore the capacity to refuse? Dumbass"

[@van_ol1056]

Basic human rights? Oh I'm sorry I forgot we are females not humans

[@kidneystonequeen]

Id love to ask the dude at the grocery store why he thinks she wouldn't be able to get her tubes tied "on her own at that age" and yet thinks shes totally capable of choosing to date this 30+ year old man and carry his children

[@hailey_the_ace_of_hearts4127]

Unfortunately this actually holds some truth. It infuriates me. It’s actually super common for doctors to deny women when the ask to get their tubes tied or hysterectomies because “what if you regret it in the future” or “what if your future husband wants kids” 🙄 my mom had me and my brother in her late twenties (literally multiple kids already ugh) and still had to basically BEG the doctors to let her get her tubes tied and had to seriously fight them on it. You have to be lucky enough to find a really amazing doctor if you don’t want to be questioned as a young woman who knows what she wants

[@kidneystonequeen]

@ this for sure is a huge problem women face! I was just pointing out the flaw in this dudes logic as to why he seems to imply he agrees she shouldnt make the choice not to have kids at her age but she can decide to have them no problem

[@hailey_the_ace_of_hearts4127]

@ oh I see that’s such a good point as well! Sometimes I wonder if men ever hear themselves speak or if they just let the sound of their hypocrisy go in one ear and out the other

[@lv67890]

My doctor cheerfully announced to me he didn’t tie tubes unless the woman was over thirty and had two+ kids.

[@mumpas-1043]

@@lv67890 God, that's disgusting. I'd request a new doctor after hearing that, that's terrifying

[@ShelbyTaylorExists]

I love when they say “we PROTECT you” From who lmfao 🤪

[@PutkisenSetä]

Tigers. We don't like to talk about how safe you are from them since it seems haughty. It's what we're for, you know?

[@p1erc3d_z0mb1e]

@@PutkisenSetäLOL

[@WilliamBrowning]

From the voices in his head? He's protecting women from his impulses?

[@simpa94]

In my experience, from yourselves, sometimes. Lol

[@anyamiranda9452]

In my mid 20s and yet to ever be protected by a male.

[@Scipio0404]

As a gay man I would also choose a bear over a straight man. 💀

[@CarlCoppinger]

Me too bro 😊

[@sejianimates1735]

as a lesbian woman, i too will choose the bear

[@kerii_2167]

Which bear tho, a guy bear or the animal bear (if you get what I mean lmao)

[@sejianimates1735]

@@kerii_2167 both seem like a good time

[@BlueNOrange]

Seriously. Also it's like none of these nice guys actually know what bears are nice, like everyone is saying- they don't attack you as long as you don't go attacking them.

[@tashatrumble6800]

Maybe he's born with it, maybe it's misogyny

[@dpict1088]

Nice, it fits the jingle music despite the extra syllable.

[@AUDHDlucy]

Is it the new dork variety or just regular?

[@MsEmmaloserface]

This needs to be on a shirt

[@moodycrab77]

"Maybe he's born with it maybe it's misogyny," absolute fire❤😊😂😂😂 let out a very loud chuckle at this comment hilarious. Much love to you op

[@moodycrab77]

There is a song by Gary Allan called Sex and there's a line that says, "If you can't get it, you can't get it off your brain." I understand that because I have been "deprived" of sex before, but it's not the act of sex that's missing. It's the closeness, it's the exchange of pheromones and oxytocin and other hormones it's the feeling of closeness, and if you don't have that in your life it can be very difficult.

[@Roadgrundy]

7:30. IT??? IT??? Not "her", IT. And "you don't deserve her", as if you "deserve" a partner. It is actually really difficult to come to terms with the fact that there are people like this out in the world. IT. "before i take IT". I'm actually disgusted.

[@sabrinaleite8531]

NO SAME LIKE?????? HELLO???? WHERE HAS HUMAN DECENCY & RESPECT WENT??

[@clamhammer2463]

That would imply that you've never actually met one. Odd

[@Roadgrundy]

@@clamhammer2463 I have. It's just so unbelievable that even though I've seen it first hand it still shocks me

[@anastasinscreed]

​@@sabrinaleite8531 men like this never have humam decency, c'mon now.

[@Hibisco_Angelita]

​@@clamhammer2463 that's not odd, that's good lol, I wouldn't want to cross paths with people like this

[@ScootsLounge]

I can promise you nice guys don't finish last, because they can never get their partner to finish at all.

[@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT]

HEYOOOOO!

[@elcie04]

So, first AND last

[@tcarroll777]

If they can get partners

[@mercedeswalt6621]

Badum tssss!

[@Johnny24-dl3ig]

Do feminazis know other insults or all you have has something to do with sex? And y'all say about men that all they do is thinking avout sex. Funny

[@jellycatfish]

When the bear VS man debate was around, I spoke about it with my colleague. He right away told me "I'd choose the bear too, WTF is that random man doing alone in the woods?!" He's definitely one of the good ones. He said even if he is a man himself, he'd be scared too.

[@WilhemErnstKranz]

Women being happy about men being scared of other men instead of dissipating hate is so funny to me, it's like no man likes you and you just have to encourage hate to feel better about yourself

[@dangerxbadger2300]

​@@WilhemErnstKranzI'm sorry but do you literally think that the only way women feel good about themselves is by attaining the attention and approval of men? Boy, do I have some bad news for you, champ. 😂

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

What makes him one of the good ones?

[@WilhemErnstKranz]

@@nataliaalfonso2662 did you not read the comment?

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

@@WilhemErnstKranz yeah I did. I don’t see how that makes a man “one of the good ones.” He just said something accurate. That’s a really low bar. Like an insanely low bar. It might even specifically mean he’s one of the worst ones bc he’s acutely aware of exactly what a man alone in the woods would be up to. Or maybe not. Maybe he’s a great Man. But nothing you wrote suggests that. I just cringe every time women laud men for being baseline neutral. It’s so desperate. It also kinda reeks of fear. Like…….. if he’s so good….. Why do you feel the need to flatter him even online when he’s not around for being baseline regular? Reeks of fawn response. Nothing you wrote suggests he’s one of the good ones, even though he very well may be.

[@duckey003]

I WISH I went infertile at 30. I also wish I could give my uterus to someone who would actually use it as intended.

[@megcomb8838]

Fr fr I'd give the whole reproductive set away for free 😭

[@doodlydungeon8576]

Me too, but at the same time, I don't want to give my pcos and endometriosis riddled uterus to some poor folk who just wanted a normal human uterus, lol.

[@kkimsey5866]

Yessss, slightly used uterus available to good home 🤣

[@alim.9801]

I would happily give my parts to someone that wants em!! They're not gonna get much use from me 😂

[@crazyluigi6664]

​@@alim.9801I wish I would remove my sack myself. 😭

[@Allenxoxoxo]

Actual Nice guys: 😁 Self Proclaimed Nice Guys: 😰 (I had to mentally prepare when I saw the fedora come out.)

[@bambismiler]

Literally. An actual nice guy would never proclaim himself as one. An actual nice guy reflects on his mistakes and tries to do better for those around him. He’s there for his loved ones in their time of need. Self proclaimed nice guys call women whores and bitches when they don’t want to sleep with them and then complain on the internet about how “nice guys finish last.”

[@AbbithaKilburg]

I got so much ick from dating (only maybe 2x) and texting and he always said he was a good guy. Never got close enough because it was such an icky. And the day after i cut it off he had a girlfriend

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

My grandfather was an actual nice guy, very manly man. If I had asked him (he's with God now) should I choose a bear or a stranger, he would say bear. He would tell the same to his other granddaughters, daughters and wife (my grandmother whom he loved so much). Why? Because he knows what men do and would want to protect the women in his life. I want a man with that protective instinct, that's manly not this 'pick me' desperate whining of the 'nice guys'.

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

My grandfather was an actual nice guy, very manly man. If I had asked him (he's with God now) should I choose a bear or a stranger, he would say bear. He would tell the same to his other granddaughters, daughters and wife (my grandmother whom he loved so much). Why? Because he knows what men do and would want to protect the women in his life. I want a man with that protective instinct, that's manly not this 'pick me' desperate whining of the 'nice guys'.

[@Addy-ve1yc]

fr. my boyfriend actually IS a nice guy, and he has never said it. he's an actual good person and is very respectful to everyone. And as a hat wearing person who has a fedora, I'm scared to wear it because of this

[@karlyl7616]

24:06 100% the kind of guy making these "women are so shallow" posts would absolutely call a woman he doesn't find attractive a cow

[@fruittypun799]

And act like they did a MAJOR service when they decice to hit on women that they don't find to be a 10/10😐

[@BrinIoca]

And they have a laundry list of what they demand in a partner on tinder, then get mad when they get 0 matches

[@SaintShion]

Dude as someone a 48H cup the amount of gatekeeping my body I had to do against creeps like this just made go full femdom 😂 P.s. it never ends, I hope sincerely that person knows how special she is as a whole person, not just a body.

[@MusouInken]

These guys aren't looking for a partner, they're looking for a status symbol. They want to impress other men. It's depressing that they never seem to be able to see how obvious that is from outside.

[@trebhum_]

Luckily cows are some of the most wholesome and cool animals on the planet 😎

[@BonseyJonsey]

Every one of these dudes misses the point of the man or bear question and then immediately prove why the bear is the safer option It's not "would you rather sit down and try to have a pleasant conversation with a man or a bear" it's "would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear" Bears don't search out people to maul, if you stay away from them, they'll probably stay away from you. Oh, and I can trust a bear not to SA me. I can't say the same for a lot of men.

[@Montesama314]

Guy: "How dare you pick the bear!? I ought to take you out to the woods and kill you with a bear skin on!" Gal: "Well, look at the time, I'm just gonna go..."

[@taryndancer29]

Plus the bear would eat my dead corpse. A man would not...

[@smfreij]

@@taryndancer29a man might do other stuff to it though 🤢

[@SoapyBlubbles]

@@taryndancer29Sorry to say, men have done that, too. At least bears don’t get sexual gratification from it 😮‍💨

[@lexihauer9857]

@@taryndancer29oh I don’t know. Some men might.

[@spicymayo623]

I dated a cop briefly. Holy moly, I ran away from that dude asap. I had to make him feel like it was him that left me so he’d buzz off. Never again.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

They’re actually extremely dangerous. Like INSANELY dangerous. Life ruining. Deranged beyond belief. Never talk to cops.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

@@linglingspacewhales1977uuuuuhhhhhhhhhhh That’s….. a really short time.

[@linglingspacewhales1977]

@@nataliaalfonso2662 it is what it is, idk how else to respond to that lol. I mean, my first relationship was 8 years. Took a couple years off, then found my current partner.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

@ good luck.

[@van_ol1056]

I'm glad you made it out safe. Sorry you had to deal with such a dude.

[@Gabe_wah]

I find it funny that these men will say that women only want sexual pleasure and so they will only want hot men while also saying that they are hot while also admitting that they haven’t gotten any girlfriends. Like, does that not contradict itself?

[@siobhanflanagan4339]

No literally it will be within the same paragraph that they will say they are hot only to say a couple sentences later she’s shallow and only dates hot guys with no personality unlike himself ??

[@aw-2130]

No, I think you're mixing up nice guys with "incels".

[@dangerxbadger2300]

​@@aw-2130those 2 are basically synonymous.

[@aw-2130]

@@dangerxbadger2300 No they're not. Look up the definition of involuntarily celibate.

[@dangerxbadger2300]

@aw-2130 I'm perfectly aware of what it means as a definition, but are you aware of colloquialism and how it oftentimes lumps together words and shifts their meanings? I'd also challenge the initial assumption that these things aren't the same, so, let's examine it. Nice guys are resentful that their preferred partners don't want them. Incels are resentful that they want sex but don't get it. Both of these groups are quite literally blaming external circumstances for issues that are likely internal. Incels aren't hapless victims anymore than nice guys are super nice people who just get shit on by terrible people. Come on, man. Get a grip.

[@oatmilk4breakfast]

2:00 the MTA??? that is.... the railroad system in new york. this dude wasn't even a real cop, bro was chasing down people who didn't pay for a train ticket.

[@AnnamarieForcino]

LMAO so a snitch

[@abbyisablueberry]

@@AnnamarieForcino it’s always the snitches 🤦

[@elliotkaplan3742]

Don't forget the time the NYPD shot 3 people and a cop over a jumped turnstile. We'd be safer with bears on the platforms

[@sagescorner256]

he’s definitely one of them that would pull a gun over $2.90

[@rainyprac]

This guy's job was to harass homeless people and make everyone late for work

[@creativerealm7668]

Just remember that genuinely nice people don't need or have to constantly remind everyone about how nice they are. They let their kindness show through their actions and behaviors. You shouldn't have to tell me you're a nice person, you're actions should show me how nice you are. If you have to constantly remind people just how nice of a person you are, you're probably not as nice as you think you are.

[@thatonearoace]

Also being nice isn’t an achievement, it’s the bare minimum for any type of relationship (edit: typo really messed up my comment)

[@sydneysparksjoy]

Nice/kind people also don’t have an abnormal hatred of, or fury (or, most likely, fear) related to rejection. If you put yourself out there, that still doesn’t guarantee someone will, or HAS TO like you. They are allowed to reject you. If a person truly was nice, kind, they’ll still BE kind to a person, even when that person tells them no. A person doesn’t automatically become a personal punching bag, JUST because they told you no. A truly nice person would take the no, take the little temporary ego hit, and move the hell on with your life!

[@Johnny24-dl3ig]

Just remember that a bunch of women are dating bad men wilingly and they're probably getting beaten and abused right now 😊

[@Johnny24-dl3ig]

​@@thatonearoaceSmartest feminist:

[@kittensruleforever]

@@Johnny24-dl3igbrother the masses are booing you 🍅

[@FlightRiskWizard]

I’m short 5’6, a dork musician with glasses. My girlfriend loves me so much. It’s not about looks, but it is about how you express yourself. As well as how you treat a woman in relation to you. I forget that my gf even is my gf since she’s my best friend first and foremost. We communicate all the time and listen to one another.

[@patricksinger357]

Developing interesting skills helps, too! Musicians are hot!

[@ParanormalEncyclopedia]

Some men, "nice guys", assume women are as shallow as they are.

[@frogsbongs]

Honestly the most attractive thing guys can do is to love and respect their partner

[@lees4416]

What type of music do you make?

[@rafaguelfand6615]

Dorks are the best boyfriends

[@JaraelMoonsilver]

“Sex is a need” No. Intimacy, camaraderie, community, support, friendship, etc IS a need. Being isolated because society teaches men that they’re animals who should only think about sex and are useless without it is tragic, no one should have to go through that. But using that isolation and pain as an excuse to attack (both verbally, physically, or emotionally) women is not the answer. Forming baseline relationships with acquaintances and friends is. Truly, if you can’t love yourself you can’t love someone else-and if you don’t respect yourself you’ll think it’s alright to disrespect everyone else.

[@magnarcreed3801]

Yeah but good luck getting that trough their thick skulls. They’d rather be alone than have platonic relationships.

[@redfrog1628]

​@@magnarcreed3801 yep, I've seen many comments where a guy doesn't see the point in a platonic relationship with women. They have genuinely said there's no benefit, which is them just saying sex. I don't understand it. I've been recommended good songs, games, and shows from women.

[@aw-2130]

Yeah, meanwhile the same women either think something is wrong with a guy or won't be with him because he hasn't had sex. Make it make sense, please.

[@magnarcreed3801]

@ I’ve never met a woman who’s said that. Usually it’s other reasons like they’re weird or creeps. Women don’t mind an inexperienced man if he’s willing to learn.

[@JaraelMoonsilver]

@@aw-2130 If you read my comment, you’d see I mention it being a societal issue, not the individual’s. Men aren’t inherently tied to their sexual prowess-or at least, they shouldn’t be. You’ve left a lot of comments under this video defending “nice guys” and saying they’re separate from incels, but from the experience of the women being harassed, they’re one and the same. Maybe it’s time to take a step back and examine WHY you’re so caught up on the specifics of the language used and not the actual issues that need to be addressed. Namely: men won’t stop being lonely until they’re able to break free of societal conditioning and understand that they’re worth more than how much pussy they get.

[@justaguy.literallyjustaguy]

"Dude I ain't reading all that" is such a powerful response, as far as I'm concerned that's the second Nice Guy truly lost the convo LMAO

[@tinyandtired]

My best friend smashed her back windscreen out. We went to get it repaired, and the guy who fixed it taped a note with his name and number to the old wiper in the back. She doesn't notice until she got home. There were two children's car seats in the back of her car, and she is clearly wearing a wedding ring. Guys have nothing, if not the audacity.

[@korpzmarcelfranca6825]

He thought she was a single mom at best lol

[@Anne-lm2kf]

"Women don't go infertile at the stroke of midnight on their 30th birthday." 😂 We don't? Phew!

[@ButterflyScarlet]

we don't??? damn it

[@TheChaoticRaven]

Men also like to forget that the older they get, the more conception decreases with their little swimmers

[@kkimsey5866]

🤣😅

[@Anne-lm2kf]

@@espartajodesastroso7892 That is absolutely not true

[@derpyslurp8779]

it is more high risk as you get older but like saying high risk at 30 is pretty exaggerated lmao

[@PossiblyCharlie]

29:08 “sex is a need” *every single ace person* : You sure bout that?

[@senmiin]

Literally! And the way this is so hard to understand for some people. I'm ace and people will just bring up the topic to tell me how abnormal it is and how sex is a need and normal and natural 🙄

[@Angieurmom]

"it's unaturaul!" Ok so then what am I mechanic? wtf do they even mean lmao

[@PossiblyCharlie]

@@senmiin or they pull the "oh so are you attracted to other aroace ppl" LIKE HOW HARD IS IT FOR THESE PPL TO UNDERSTAND THAT I DONT EXPERIENCE ATTRACTION 💀😭😭

[@Tifflve12]

Real

[@Tifflve12]

​@@PossiblyCharlie HELP DO PEOPLE ACTUALLY SAY THAT???

[@Grace-er9ep]

For that guy who was blaming everyone for his lack of sex- I thought sex would fix my problems too. It most definitely did not. Sex for the sake of not being a virgin anymore is miserable. I've spent years wishing I could undo it and spend that time doing literally anything else. Your misery will only end when you realize that sex is not the end-all be-all you've made it out to be

[@itsaspiracle]

biggggg time. that guy doesn’t want sex, he wants human connection. he doesn’t know the difference, and that is precisely why he’s not ready for a sexual relationship. make some friends first buddy

[@dangerxbadger2300]

THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS. I spent YEARS AND YEARS desperate for anyone to want me, leaving me open for the worst kinds of men to come slinking on in, telling me exactly what they knew I wanted to hear, taking off the mask the minute they knew I wouldn't leave and breaking me down til I didn't even recognize myself anymore. I spent almost 20 years like that and I wish so much that I had all of that youthful exuberance back to go actually do COOL SHIT like travel and join a band and get way more shitty tattoos and a million other things that 37yo me with kids and 2 therapists just isn't able to do. Would way rather have memories of some pretty beachfront in Thailand than that weird dude who let me know about his pregnant gf as he was kicking me out at 4am after Mardi Gras 2009. 😂

[@Drownedinblood]

It's still something people feel they need to do though, cuz society has expectations of you. Also some people just need it to affirm self worth..

[@sunshine.sunset]

Normally I'd say these men online need to log off and go outside but i don't think we need them roaming around anytime soon🙏

[@Grace-er9ep]

We should give them a special park like a dog park with fresh water and sunshine but a fence so that they can stay in their special space until they grow up

[@CalliNightmare]

Any man who would say "You expect me to protect you." Would literally run away to save themselves. They turn it around on women to hide how pathetic and cowardly they actually are

[@adrienhorrell5612]

The kicker is, most of the time, people who die in housefires are women. Why? They save the kids and the dog. The men run away. Not only that, but according to every available study, men do NOT protect anyone. Overwhelmingly, women are the protectors of women. Because 1. We know what to look out for. We can tell when someone is uncomfortable. 2. We can empathise. We know they want someone to help them. Identifying and empathising are crucial to being able to help when you're needed. And even when men do notice, they are significantly more likely to say it's none of their business and ignore the situation. So yeah, women are the protectors. Men are the cowards.

[@bea4156]

💯💯💯

[@YoMamaSonII-c6m]

I seen it and worse. This silly woman bout 25 was getting beat while her “friends” watched (im at a stop sign and yelling out the window while shes yelling back thats my man 😂😭she meant lame) she left with the lame and no doubt was on her lameass knees for her Classic Man. Idiots. You are who u have sex with. His DNA gets in you. YUK!! Desperation.

[@Romanticoutlaw]

they're also waiting around for their "hero moment." They base their value on whether they'd fight off a home intruder, but not on whether they'd do the small but important acts that keep a couple afloat like housework and emotional vulnerability

[@Montesama314]

The man vs bear question was so useful. Thank you, experimenter, for helping expose so many men as dumbasses so I can learn how to avoid that thinking as a guy.

[@korpzmarcelfranca6825]

But what is the point of this trend? Because on average a man is much less likely to attack someone than a bear, and even if they attack, a bear is like 3x stronger and faster than a man so unless you have superhuman speed or strength why tf would someone choose a bear?

[@Montesama314]

@korpzmarcelfranca6825 Just ask women why they answer "bear." They've given answers throughout the comments here and in other places. It has nothing to do with the literal size and strength of a bear. It's about the nature of humans and the context in which and after which a man attacks. A bear is an animal that is predictable and when it attacks you, it's likely for a discernable reason. You stepped into its territory, you scared its cubs, whatever. A man is much less predictable. A man, unlike a bear, can PRETEND to be nice before harming you. And if he attacks or rapes you, you might not be believed and the man can get undue sympathy. A bear can't use gender stereotypes or wealth or power differential to cover his ass.

[@xspacerose]

@@korpzmarcelfranca6825 bro you got google just google it watch a youtube video about it or something. BEAR everyday all day. because a bear wont SA me and say i asked for it.

[@user67999]

Same dude, nice guys suck, they just ruin your happiness

[@theuntamedleo]

I'm a short, chubby, conventionally meh trans dude and I found the love of my life, the sweetest little cinnamon roll, by... I dunno.... Caring about shit other than her body?? (Not that I don't love that too :P) Like... Grow up, man children. 🤣

[@SoapyBlubbles]

Exactly. My girlfriend likes me because I am kind and don’t take my frustrations out on other people, even if they instigate things. It’s a very low bar and yet it gets me very far in relationships. It’s the foundation that all humans need to develop in order to have a fulfilling relationship. I’m a woman and have had amazing relationships with other women who weren’t even sexually attracted to me (I don’t mind since I’m asexual), all of them initiated by them because they felt safe with me. The therapy I went through to process my trauma has repaid itself a hundred times over because it left me a better person that creates safe places for other amazing people. But these men would rather be selfish and hurtful than ever admit that they’re the problem.

[@theuntamedleo]

@SoapyBlubbles I completely understand. Therapy is such a fucking useful thing, and I wish some people, mostly young men, would seek it for guidance instead of Fresh n Fit or Andrew Tate, or God forbid Nick Fuentes. It would do the world some good.

[@ohokay4663]

yeah for average dudes, it really is as easy as making someone feel safe and *want* to be around you.

[@TheModdedwarfare3]

Happy for you. ❤

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

You know if you post this on the subreddit that is r/short guys, they will invalidate your entire existence. They complain about being rejected by women for their height but always classify desirable women as hot, successful, wanting seggs etc. and don't get me started on how much they put down women over 30 and single mothers. Yet I see short men like you with girlfriends all the time. Maybe because they actually respect them and not see them as objects to own. They will die on the hill that's it's not their attitude and insecurity than their height. And yeah a lot of women do like tall men but it's NOT ALL WOMEN. See what I did there. 😏

[@prettyevil6662000]

As a 30ish woman, I'm so happy teen girls and young women are listening to us when we tell them that any older man approaching you is doing so because women his own age don't want him. You might be mature for your age, but he's immature for his and wants to use you. Don't let the trash catch you with flattery, girls.

[@Pap3rMate101]

I assume this applies the other way around.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

@@Pap3rMate101if some deranged old hag is trying to scheme in a male CHILD??? Yeah it APPLIES. I’d say it applies times 10. It’s why the entire world wants to save Aaron Taylor Johnson.

[@prettyevil6662000]

@@Pap3rMate101 Yes. Anyone older who's trying to take advantage of an age gap is doing a bad thing. As I am a woman, my experiences are clearly going to be about the many men who attempted to manipulate and flatter me when I was a still very much a child. And thus my warnings will be more pointed toward girls and young women. If you are a man, direct your message to young men; don't rely on women to spread awareness of something they have no lived experience with for you.

[@junebugsjukebox]

@@Pap3rMate101 why would it ever not? can yall stop inserting yourself into women-focused issues?

[@ci6516]

@@junebugsjukeboxthat’s a huge reach tho . I’m 31 and the pool of quality girls my age isn’t that great . They exist but for whatever reason most I meet around this age like to party a lot . It’s way easier to meet a 21-25 year old who’s looking to go straight into marriage and children and isn’t interested in partying . But also I’m in college still because i had an untraditional path . Am talking to a junior . But yeah anything under 21 is pretty young too much . But there’s nothing wrong with admitting a younger lady 21-25 are more attractive , and usually the ones who aren’t into “exploring “ all Of the world fall in love around then . And honestly it’s just nice meeting someone who hasn’t been hurt by the world , and god willing doing everything right to prevent that from happening . Our goal is being friends for a few months and seeing if we’re right for a relationship.

[@Heyimjustriver]

Horrified that a “law enforcement officer” believes in calling women who are worried for their life every day in just regular society “bitches”

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

Aren’t LEOs the worst men in the world? Isn’t that so well known it’s a cliche?

[@xspacerose]

not surprised

[@maroonluckyblockgames7062]

not surprised

[@nicolevose3066]

18:35 The fact that so many people want to prevent 19 year olds from getting permanently sterilized is precisely the problem. People that young have kids. If you are old enough to decide that you want kids, you are old enough to decide that you do not want kids. If you get sterilized and then regret it later, you can adopt hire a surrogate or utilize the services of a sperm bank. Even if you do regret having a sterilization procedure, that only affects you. If you regret having children, that does not just affect you, it also affects the child, who did not ask to be brought into this world. Let's address an argument that someone is going to bring up. You have a right to get sterilized, but doctors have a right to deny a procedure. Here is the problem with that. Since Dobbs v Jackson, a lot of states have enacted abortion bans with non exception for rape. If you can advocate for forcing a 13 year old rape survivor to give birth to her cousin's baby on the grounds that she consented to pregnancy by not taking the proper precautions to avoid being raped, why can't I advocate for forcing a doctor to sterilize anyone who wants it (including minors) by saying that the doctor consented to performing such procedures by choosing to work this job?

[@rafaguelfand6615]

If someone is anti abortions, they should've been a dermatologist

[@kaktuskukkarossa]

Tbf... having kids isnt as permanent as sterilization 😅 but I absolutely agree that the logic isnt logicking and that it isnt about protecting women but rather about controlling them

[@theKaraProject]

@@kaktuskukkarossaI fail to see how raising a human being isn’t permanent. Please explain your logic here. Not disagreeing, just confused.

[@kaktuskukkarossa]

@@theKaraProject by being a shit parent and not raising them. Plenty of kids are being raised by negligent parents who might do the bare minimum of providing food and housing until the kids are kicked out when they turn 18. And (this sounds bad but) kids could also be killed 😅 I'm not saying that these are options that should be considered to be an option, but they do make kids less permanent

[@elcie04]

@kaktuskukkarossa Most sterilization procedures are reversible. Actually, I am of the opinion that if a couple wants no more kids that the man should be the one to be sterilized because it is MORE lilely to be successful to reverse than a tubal ligation (and safer/less invasive) but you can technically get both procedures reversed if you truly regret it. Bringing a person into this world is permanent whether or not you choose to raise them. Even if they die, there will still be evidence that they were there and a permanent mark on someone's life.

[@roxywolfe]

Also why do “short/fat/low income” have to be negative physical qualities? Did it ever occur to them that women aren’t a monolith and many of us actually prefer a guy who’s short? My fiancé is 5’5” and I think he’s the most handsome guy in the whole world. It has nothing to do with height and all to do with personality. I know plenty of men who’ve been married for 20+ years who are under 5’7” and don’t make much money.

[@ookamiblade6318]

If they bothered to actually look up women’s preferences the only physical thing mentioned in the top 5 in both stated and revealed preferences is smells nice……mostly it’s loyalty, honesty, supportive nature, good listener….. Oh and good job was in the 21st down the list for both stated and revealed preferences….

[@alejandrozapatacosta9720]

Because these dudes only go for shallow women then complain about It not realising the irony of It , they are a match made in Heaven.

[@KhayJayArt]

Also most broke women are with broke dudes. Ppl mostly marry/date within their socio economic class. Idk why these losers think we're all with rich men.

[@melissam4954]

Seriously, I'm 5'10" and I have dated plenty of guys shorter than me. The only time it was a problem was when the man himself had a weird hangup about it that he refused to work through.

[@aw-2130]

Source: trust me bro

[@angelcake7077]

WE MADE YOU COMFORTABLE IN SOCIETY!1!1!1 -a man, the very type that makes women feel extremely uncomfortable and endangered in society

[@l.ivikk666]

There’s one thing I would add about the men who said they were too ugly to find someone.. while that could be a small percentage of the reason that they are not successful in pursuing a relationship (the other larger percent being their personality) but on top of that they want the “pretty girls” which is very hypocritical of them. To complain about girls having too high of standards, while also wishing for the “pretty girls” attention. I doubt those men would give less conventionally attractive women attention, even if it could lead them to having success in finding a relationship. They wish for someone to love them for their personality, yet never pursue women for their personality.

[@jaxj968]

THIS

[@ChessieChess]

BINGO!!

[@tamarabuchwald507]

You have no idea how many times ive been rejected and even bullied by conventionally ugly guys just for being a fat woman, I honestly have no sympathy for their so-called loneliness anymore.

[@l.ivikk666]

@ im so sorry that you’ve been treated that way, you never deserved that:( men can be so evil

[@FrenkieWest32]

Arent you people guilty of the same hypocrisy? ​@l.ivikk666

[@allisoncarter7421]

The "nice guys" always make a weird point out of pregnancy, like you don't need to date someone half your age for kids, if you want to take care of someone so much there's a shit ton of kids in the foster system that would appreciate the care (Not that these type of guys would even be qualified to raise a child)

[@Ella-g2m]

Gonna take a page out of their book... If these males wanted kids so badly why did they screw around riding the corn carousel through their 20s and then come crawling around wanting to settle down when they're old and busted in their 30s and their sperm is dried up?

[@WarbossGemPlaya]

I think the reactions at 4:00 are actually laughing reactions, meaning those people are laughing at him

[@deliberatelydaedalian]

yup

[@lexibenson380]

💯

[@PrettyLesbian]

Yeah that's exactly what those are lol Facebook doesn't have a happy face react

[@nicolevose3066]

23:45 In a study done by Swansea University of the United Kingdom, women are four times less likely than men to judge a potential mate based on physical appearance, three times more likely to choose a mate based on personality and twice as likely to find a potential mate more attractive based on intelligence. Look as David Cross and Amber Tamblyn. You do not need to meet some box of conventional attractiveness. Most of us women will take being confident and clever over having a six pack any day. What women want more than anything is someone we can talk to. If you are that for a woman, you can go bald and grow a beer belly, because she is your's. Looks fade, but that connection and being able to talk will get you through anything.

[@tiffanyhardin1840]

So true!!

[@boredagain1]

Absolute rubbish, as most sociology studies are..Women are NOT more virtuous than men GTFOH, women just have more options in general to be picky about other additional traits. Men don't typically have the luxury of considering the other criteria you mentioned, both sexes can't be uber selective otherwise there's no human race (well eventually), and men typically go after women within their league looks wise, they may gawk at the super models but realize very quickly that it's just a stupid fantasy.

[@ookamiblade6318]

These studies are also repeatable with similar results. There was a stated and revealed preference study that had a ‘good job’ rate 21st on the list of both stated and revealed preferences… attractiveness was 16 on stated and 8th on revealed, but the only physical thing that made it to the top five was ‘smells nice’ at 4th in revealed preferences. The top in both stated and revealed were mostly about loyalty, honesty, understanding, intimate compatibility, and being supportive as a partner and a good listener.

[@sierraa.bryant9322]

FUCKING! THIS!!!

[@FrenkieWest32]

What study would that be. This sounds very doubtful to me in the sense that it is not very proveable.

[@andrewkoster6506]

imagine some guy randomly trying to give you flowers and demand a relationship on the basis of his decades of sexual frustration

[@possumfrog]

16:25 I have been harassed by a few random ppl before and they would send me my ip address. My dad works in tech and has told me that most of the time there’s nothing to worry about. It’s very simple to get someone’s ip and most of the time they just do it to scare you. Unless you know they live nearby and the harassment gets dangerous then you don’t need to be all that worried. Just make sure you report them.

[@Mouse_amelia]

I dated a short nerd and it was the best decision I ever made. He’s hilarious, fun, passionate about things other than me, endlessly kind and generous. He’s also an excellent communicator. He grew up with his mom and 2 sisters and loves them a lot. See he realized early on that women aren’t some mystical beasts that you need to manipulate into loving you. You just treat everyone like human beings. If you don’t feel that women are deserving of your respect because they’re not sleeping with you, you’re gonna be lonely for a very long time.

[@demariisveryskibidi]

the fedora at the beginning told me everything I needed to know 😭

[@patrickisdumb404]

Neckbeard marie wasn’t something i was ready for

[@Js.solara]

Js love how a "nice" guy calls women shallow but complains he can't get a "cute girl"

[@nailekks]

Annamarie : ''Women don't magically become infertile when they hit 30'' Me, a 27 year old woman who doesn't want kids and hate possessing a uterus : ''I fucking wish''

[@caitlingoins2103]

Men "i want a natural girl, like this (shows picture of Instagram girl with a filter, lip filler, styled hair, and a full face of no makeup makeup) Woman (explains to him that the picture is not at all natural and they're not even bare faced) Him "you're just jealous you don't look like her without make up" 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@ireneinbarcelona]

"Without makeup" which took an hour to apply...

[@caitlingoins2103]

@ireneinbarcelona then another hour styling their hair and they make a tiktok saying "omg i just woke up" like yeah okay girly pop lol

[@ireneinbarcelona]

@caitlingoins2103 Oh, and "natural hair color"...my 8ss. I don't criticize people for tweaking their appearance, but many men really do not have any perception of what is natural (as in unaltered) and what has been touched up.

[@arianam6430]

​@ireneinbarcelona these same dudes can't even tell when guys are on the juice. All the 'fitness' influencers peddling 'supplements' and workout routines to look like them when they're juiced to the gills, some have implants- social media is killing ppl. But apologists will swear you're just jealous, and lack discipline.

[@ireneinbarcelona]

@arianam6430 People are killing people, not the media. It's up to each and everyone to decide what they want, why they want it and when they want it and how they want. The problem seems to be that people have a hard time perceiving what is realistic in the sense of achievable and what is make-believe. That's where common sense comes into play.

[@claratalbot7613]

I want to so badly to give that first "nice guy" a little lesson on the fact that there were many inventions & discoveries made by woman but the credit was taken by men as well as try to get him to understand how only allowing men to work nearly resulted in the collapse of the economy but he probably wouldn't listen to me because I'm a feminist b in his eyes

[@mjewrites]

I see your “perchance” and raise you: “mayhaps”

[@Rechtauch]

I hate I need to say it, but I had my first kid at 31. I have 3 kids. At least in most Europe, average age for having a 1st kid is beyond 30. Which is the reasonable thing to do. Also,I know most guys are genuinely nice guys, but these videos make me so worried for my daughter... 😢

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

Most guys are not genuinely nice guys. Are you okay? Why would you say that? Aren’t you too old and too much of a LITERAL PARENT to be that naive? If most guys were nice guys the world would be nice. It is not. Most people are waaaaayyy worse than anyone can really fathom.

[@artbygilik]

My mom had 4 kids when she was between the age of 30-40

[@maevependragon]

27 and 32 for me

[@DivinityAxo]

The men who throw fits over the bear question are the reason we choose the bear

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

For real. Like when Has a bear ever called women b*tches 8 times in 2 paragraphs???? 😂😂😂😂😂 They literally prove the point for us

[@korpzmarcelfranca6825]

@@nataliaalfonso2662 but a bear is like 3x stronger than a man, even If we assume 100% of Men were sexist Monsters (which is not the case) you are much more likely to outrun or outfight a man than a bear. I Just didnt know what is the point of this.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

@ not all men have to be sexist monsters to destroy us. Just one we encounter in the woods. No bears are sexist monsters. No bears r*pe humans. A bear will either eat me and then I’m done and it’s not my problem Or leave me alone. A man won’t do that. Women are not afraid of the man bc he might want to bite us.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

@ I have a question for you….. Would you rather be with a bear in the woods…… Or with big bubba from Folsom prison who thinks you’re mighty cute??? Hmmmmmm?

[@korpzmarcelfranca6825]

@nataliaalfonso2662 the question is "a Man or a bear" so an average man wouldnt do harm to a woman, and even If the Man is this dangerous prison guy you cited, he is still much easier to run from or beat in a fight than a bear. And also the Bear Will attack you anyway, and you cant say that for all Men. And i am a Man btw, but a small man, which means the average Guy could beat me easily.

[@aDerppyCat]

I used to be a nice guy (I cringe so hard when I think about it) then I discovered I liked men, that changed it

[@taryndancer29]

I've been saying, so many of these "nice guys" are definitely in the closet 😅

[@aDerppyCat]

@taryndancer29 LMAO

[@anbugalactic]

Girl has telepathic powers cause how did she know i needed a new video rn....

[@jaxj968]

no fr 😭

[@myfriendscallmekat]

how sad. “nice guys” really get in their own way, that tinder one was a prime example. disregard for consent and boundaries makes them more creepy but they can’t accept the criticism. often times doubling down with violent undertones or outright threats (if not physical violence). as if threatening a woman would at all endear her to you💀

[@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT]

They feel like ticking time bombs

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

They don’t care about women being endeared to them. They care about controlling women and having unchallenged access to holes and servitude.

[@kuya8329]

I think the worst thing about this kind of rhetoric is that they will always refer to "women". "Women don't like short guys", "women like guys with money". As if all women are dependent on men and actively seek them out. This feels so weird as a lesbian, and I'm sure a lot of other queer people feel the same. I can't imagine ever caring about what a man looks like.

[@user-Zachary123]

You're a lesbian. Of course you don't care what a man looks like.

[@evangedeon2194]

As a recovering Nice Guy, the secondhand embarrassment encourages me to become an actual Good Person

[@squid628]

good for you !!

[@slimyboixd]

My dad was a short nerd with weird facial hair who played in a jazz band in Highschool and my mom was beautiful and popular and absolutely gorgeous. My dad is a great guy and my mom loved him so much. He took care of her up until the day she died. They were married for over 50 years until she passed away, through all the ups and downs. I am absolutely sick of the narrative that men who are actually good guys don't get to have loving relationships. Almost unrelated but, My dad threatened to drive his van through the wall of a nursing home because they refused to let my mom go and she kept calling us at night crying and saying she was scared.

[@jaxj968]

your dad rocks

[@slimyboixd]

@jaxj968 he absolutely does! When he was young (this was the early 60s by the way) he was in a band that got booked for a party. The doorman at the venu refused to let their drummer in because he was black, so my dad hit the doorman with his saxophone. That was before he was married to my mom I think.

[@jaxj968]

@ oh my goodness your dad is amazing!!

[@blehblehs]

i asked my boyfriend the bear question and he said he’d choose the man, because with the bear I’d be much more likely to die. it really hit me that men think the worst that could happen to you is dying. they have no idea of the type of stuff men do to women.

[@redmist2053]

I can understand why someone would choose a bear over a man because of the "type of stuff", but in my opinion, you are more likely to be killed in a forest by a bear than be subjected to this "type of stuff" by another man, which is very uncommon. It's very sexist to think of the worst posible outcomes with men, but not with women, even though they are also likely to do this "type of stuff".

[@blehblehs]

@@redmist2053 it’s not that I think being killed by the bear is less likely, it’s that I would rather experience that, than what one horrible man might do to me. even if it’s one man out of billions, I’d rather avoid the chance. It’s not my responsibility to appease the male ego by choosing the man. And if I did, and that man happened to be the bad one, then people would say “that’s what you get by putting yourself in the situation of being alone with a man,” or “what was she wearing?”. not only would horrible things happen to me, but the blame would end up circling back to me anyway. So yes, the bear every time. it’s interesting that you say women are also “likely” to do those things when 1) the discussion is about bears vs men, never are women mentioned and 2) women are statistically much more UNLIKELY to do that type of stuff than men.

[@redmist2053]

​@@blehblehsI mentioned women because in this discussion the people who choose bears love to say that men are worse by comparing statistics, when if we compare statistics between women and bears, women attack more people a year, that's a fact, but they are not willing to say women are dangerous, and, by the way, women commit far more crimes than people think, search "made to penetrate" for example, but is swept under the rug. Not to mention the fact that a lot of their victims don't have the strength to talk about it. Men doing this stuff more than women doesn't say anything, because at the end of the day, the ones who do are a minority.

[@l.n.3372]

​@redmist2053 Bear attacks are pretty rare. SA is very common and men are the most common perpetrators of SA.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

@@redmist2053I don’t think you understand the premise of the question. It’s asking women if they had to be alone for a while in the woods with either a random bear or a random man, which would we choose? Obviously the answer has to be the bear. Anyone who has ever camped has chosen the bear. A random strange man is terrifying. He might be totally innocent and even kind and helpful…. OR NOT.

[@Trashy_R4ccoon]

The one thing that all woman fear; nice guys

[@Eazypeazy13]

Men too ICKKKK

[@mynameiselvispresleygirlsa5911]

And toilet snakes

[@EmillyOrr]

On the tubes tied and/or hysterectomy front: that's still happening in certain parts of the US, at least. I am well past reproductive age, but for decades, no matter which doctor I spoke to, it was always, "Well, I mean, you might change your mind later." Or "When you get a husband, you should ask him." Upon telling them I lived with two women, I was perpetually told "Yeah, but this could just be a phase, you might find a guy you really like." Infuriating.

[@MM-nt1eu]

I dated a guy who didn't trust women and who was really insecure and jealous cause he was cheated on when he was 16. He was 32 🤦‍♀️

[@TomMinnow]

Oh hey my ex was like that too! It's an excuse to be controlling. Guilt you into neglecting or outright cutting out other relationships to make you codependent.

[@erezin]

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[@theonetruebean8800]

"M'lady, *burp*, erm, I think that FEMALES should be in the kitchen; not making, "commentary content" on KZbin *tips fedora*" Why 😭

[@maroonluckyblockgames7062]

im just picturing the fedora controlling you to type this out like the adventure time ice crown or smth

[@lfsantacruz8703]

M'theydies... thankyouverymuch.

[@suburban-vampire]

Perchance

[@Aroaceenby]

And thank you

[@shirlsj]

the gall that the second nice guy had in order to claim offhand that women look terrible as they age is absolutely mind blowing. like, has he never seen women??

[@pickledspoons]

“All women had to do was keep the house and look hot”. Yeah, except we never got to choose. We don’t want to do that.

[@CheyFrawley]

the omegle story is so relatable except i never got over the fear, my sister and i went on omegle ONCE at like 13&14/12&13 and we were on video and we got connected with 2 boys who then out of nowhere told us that they knew what city we were in and we were like what?? and they said where and we both got so scared and shut it all down, shut down the computer, cried and freaked out to each other and NEVER went back on it 😂

[@chayden153]

16:38 gurl facts! Omegle was a lawless wasteland, definitely shouldn't have been on that site when I was 13.

[@bise_moon]

And I had no business being on it at 8-9.i had some unique experiences and I am glad I knew what to do and would just say "fuck you, bitch" and end the chat 😂

[@kylieschuttloffel1261]

that last one about the oil change tech* is especially terrifying to me and i wouldn't have even warned him. i would have immediately contacted the store, and if the manager didnt seem to be taking it seriously i would contact the franchise owner or take 5 corporate to let them know about this serious breach of customer information. if he's contacting you to flirt either with his own cell phone or a store phone he's definitely going to do it to other women and you may not be the first, and besides, who knows what other information of yours or other peoples' information he's getting off the saved information in the store's computers. like, granted, oil change places only really care about your car's VIN and your phone number and email address, but still. huge breach of confidential information, and it should be treated as such. *hes not a mechanic, he definitely doesnt have the certs or training to be a mechanic - take 5 and valvoline and places like that only do oil changes and a few other relatively easy to perform and hard to screw up procedures like tire rotations. most techs dont have the training to do more extensive work on a cars internals

[@Emily-eq1ts]

I once had a ‘nice guy’ flirt with me when I was eighteen and he was twenty nine, and it was so bad that as soon as I told someone I was thinking of how to turn him down, they physically took me away from him whenever he showed up to shows (it was in a drama soc) and my older friend had to THREATEN HIM to leave me alone rather than risk me actually turning him down bc they were scared of what he’d do

[@shineonsunfish]

The thing is, s3x isn’t rare. It can be bought, it can be found depending on how low your standards are. An ugly broke man can find an ugly broke woman. An ugly short man can hire a s3x worker. What these men want (and what women sniff on them immediately) is thier fantasy of what a relationship is… a submissive, conventionally attractive woman who tends to thier needs. Status among men is based on how attractive thier female partners are. He could look like a literal bridge troll and think a movie star good looking woman was “mid” and attainable. And the read joke is lots of good looking women will date men who are underwhelming because they do think they’ll be treated better, but it rarely works out that way.

[@izzisart]

Honestly, I think you're onto something. They're not looking for relationships with women, they're looking for approval from other men and think women are tools they can use to get that.

[@itisyerdad]

The greatest lie the devil ever told was that he was “Just a Nice Guy”!

[@Eazypeazy13]

I still refuse to believe that anyone ACTUALLY thinks like this😭😭

[@nicolevose3066]

1:15 Not that I would choose the bear, but if a woman chose the bear, chances are she does not want a man to protect her. Besides, women can defend each other (possibly even defend themselves).

[@alanarama]

Right? And like how is a man going to protect you from a bear in reality? Like I assume he'd need a gun or spray or whatever, we can carry those anyway.

[@lxx_jpg]

@@alanaramathe whole point of picking the bear is that it’s non hostile and easy to fend off no?

[@alanarama]

@lxx_jpg no at least I've never thought of it like that, for me it's been about the fact that a bear will just kill you, it won't do a bunch of weird shit then kill you, then maybe do some more weird shit.

[@lxx_jpg]

@@alanarama that would make the man too easy of a choice though

[@alanarama]

@lxx_jpg what do you mean? Too easy of a choice?

[@oozingtulip1534]

12:10 actually legit terrifying trying to decieve someone to get them alone

[@mg.867]

Tbh it’s always bothered me whenever people say “all women are ___” as if there’s not an infinite variety of women. As for being shallow, for me looks are the LAST thing I consider in a partner. But that means a good personality is obviously the most important part. It rly baffles me how some men are looking for a woman with the heart to like them no matter how they look but expect not having respect for women and respect for themselves to not matter.

[@CharlieApples]

When Nice Guys accuse women of only caring about superficial looks, it’s one of the most clear cut examples of projection as a an unconscious psychological phenomenon.

[@ASMRKay_]

The irony of him thinking she’s the shallow one.

[@socks.are.cool.]

how dare you KZbin hide this for me from for 10 seconds

[@faeriestears]

3 minutes ☹️

[@socks.are.cool.]

@@faeriestearshow dare they 😔

[@alexiswagner5388]

8 minutes for me 😢😢

[@socks.are.cool.]

@@alexiswagner5388the audacity of them 😢

[@liamfollett6099]

I lost 9 whole minutes. I could’ve been thirdway through this video by now

[@jasper8293]

All the "nice guys" ive met only do "nice" things as a ploy to get something. I knew a guy like this in high school, he would buy me candy sometimes or offer me rides, but immediately follow it up with requests for sexual favors. Whenever i pointed out i had a bf or that i was uncomfortable, he'd say it was just a joke and i was overreacting. If youre doing something nice just to get something out of someone, news flash! Youre not actually nice!

[@Heyimjustriver]

No bc why do they do this 😭 they hate the term gaslighting and act like they didn’t do it since the ripe age of like 13 years old trying to hit on the pretty girl in their class

[@StrikerEureka13]

Yeah. Genuinely nice people don't expect anything in return for being nice. "Nice" guys are nice just to try to get something, and if it becomes clear they won't get it all of that goes out the window and they show their true selves.

[@Mushr00m._.therian729]

2:53 also, having to deal with domestic abuse, getting used for sex, having to deal with SA, forced to be obedient to husbands, getting sexualized constantly, while also dealing with the pain of having your organs ripped out of your body every month and still having to deal with it, along with being told that “being a woman isn’t difficult”

[@EurypteridFossil]

16:00 oh my fucking god someone mentions it, i’ve noticed that too. So much racism against indian and other desi groups lately its scary

[@jaxj968]

literally!

[@Justapieceofmeg]

As a therapist myself I appreciate the sentiment of wanting nice guys to go to therapy but also don’t send them to us I don’t wanna deal with them either ew 😂

[@sorrowXart]

😂😂😂

[@Johnny24-dl3ig]

You're not a real therapist. A real therapist doesn't laugh at people and their problems

[@vanessajones5752]

@@Johnny24-dl3ig when did they laugh at other people’s issues? you are just making things up to be mad at

[@Johnny24-dl3ig]

@@vanessajones5752 I'm a therapist and I appreciate the sentiment of wanting these people to go to therapy but also don't send them to us, I don't wanna deal with them either ew" So are you acting slow on purpose? A therapist wouldn't say that they don't want to help a certain group of people

[@vanessajones5752]

@ bro i’m sure therapists don’t want to help murderers but a part of the job depending on where they work is working with people that may not be great people. therapists are still humans with feelings bro.

[@ethantolbert1620]

My cortisol level dropped by 70% when I got that notification

[@Acrylescent]

I love watching these nice guy takedowns. Because by their standard I should be just like them, but I have a wife and son and we are super happy. I’m below average looking by the incel standard, have had bad self esteem, but I just treat other people like people and I’ve gotten by just fine. I know my personal issues are my responsibility. These dudes can’t even fathom it’s their selves that’s the problem.

[@andeeharry]

I would rather hang out with animals/ wild or tame than be around any person. With an animal, you know where you stand, with a human, you don;t. With an animal, you know where you stand, see the trouble and can avoid it. With a human, you will never see it coming and when you do, it is too late. It is scary

[@tauntingeveryone7208]

100 percent agree. It is probably also the reason why most animals fear humans too. They are just too unpredictable.

[@maevependragon]

💯

[@superiorpug7708]

For the 10 happy faces on the first post. To gladly inform those are 10 laughing faces towards him

[@jamesmcgrath1731]

Always a good day when Forcino drops a vid

[@lizducharme6219]

Can I just say, these guys make the worsttttt clients to those in the adult industry. So entitled, they think they can get special treatment because they’re self-proclaimed “nice” “fit” “respectful” “good-looking” etc etc. It’s quite possibly the least attractive quality I tend to commonly encounter.

[@r4tz4sn4ckz]

i can't imagine being a male and looking at other males like this and still wondering why women would choose a bear.

[@lilelotus]

2:22 Law Enforcement officer for the MTA…. Massachusetts Transit Association..? He made people feel respected when what.. he was tackling people for fare evasion ??

[@kmlkai]

2:36 protection from what exactly?

[@runaway66]

Other men lmfao

[@pascoto]

Themselves

[@kmlkai]

@@runaway66 precisely.

[@kianamoore5390]

That opening gave me the worst chills. I think we all have trauma from a past “nice guy” 😭

[@freddiefishton]

1:27 "HELP, I NEED DEFENSE" "m'lady" "you know what, i'll be fine"

[@jameshutchins3798]

I really wish that the internet had thought of something more creative than just "nice guy" to describe this type of person.

[@kiayamccuin1500]

NOBODY is asking the man to protect the woman from the bear!

[@Fran_Glass]

Yeah they miss the point no matter how many times you explain it.

[@junebugsjukebox]

i think they just have a saviour complex and get off on imagining that lmfao

[@maevependragon]

We're asking the Bear to protect US at this point!!!