Are Modern Women "Delusional"? w/ The Queer Kiwi

[@TheQueerKiwi]

wow, what a cool guest you have today. the collab i have been waiting for 😍

[@smurfspeak26]

1. Same!!! Love the vid 😁 2. Where did you get your shirt I’m obsessed?

[@Sevynsativa]

😂😂 I love you guys

[@AnnamarieForcino]

same!!!

[@brennadavies2716]

THE SKZOOS!!!!

[@sleepybaby8218]

OMG besite your a stay!!??

[@ginger_nspice]

Fatness and paleness used to be a sign of wealth, whereas skinniness and tans used to signify the working class. The "beauty standard" will continue to change over time.

[@froggy5748]

Yes! I also hate when these people are like “Omg fatness was never a thing in the past!!” When we’re literally taught in elementary school that being overweight used to show that someone was wealthy because they could afford to eat whatever they wanted and they didn’t have to work or exercise at all. Paleness showed that you never had to go out into the sun and do hard labor. The changing of beauty standards is really interesting tbh

[@ginger_nspice]

@@froggy5748 Agreed, it's so fascinating!

[@deriendarling]

LITERALLY my first thought when she brought that up! Like yeah, fatness meant that you didnt have to slave away in the fields all day like the fucking common folk?! Bestie has never visited history class and it shows.

[@wooogie672]

@@froggy5748 right like literally look at King Henry VIII (VII?) from Tudor England times

[@FIRING_BLIND]

@@froggy5748 also uhhhh has she never seen pictures of King Henry the VIII

[@iheartquestionmark1313]

"if you walked into a bar with lizzo you would get more attention than her" ..... lizzo is literally a celebrity bffr 💀

[@froggy5748]

Fr if you think you’d get more attention than a huge celebrity then you need to go get your ego checked lmaooo

[@iheartquestionmark1313]

@@froggy5748literallyyyy she’s delusional 😭😭

[@SaintShion]

Exactly plus you know shed turn a party. Srsly What is the point of constantly excluding fat people. Like you want everyone to agree their gross? That they can't be beautiful or feel pretty? Than what that's your big end game? Like FFS did her ex leave for bbw??

[@dajiyahmcae1880]

Bsffr

[@nataliee5236]

Literally and you don't think a lot of those ppl in the bar would be trying their best to ignore Lizzo bc of her fatness? Sounds like they're Literally paying more attention to her.

[@AmelieKaren7_13]

Bold of Annamarie to assume that female Ben Shapiro isn't fatphobic

[@agjul]

lmao that's what i was thinking 😭

[@S0m3thingab0utp0is0n]

Fr

[@maxsern]

FEMALE BEN SHAPIRO

[@Delthefunkyhomosapienscousin]

I thought we were calling Brett Cooper female Ben Shapiro??

[@estheromoyele3321]

@@Delthefunkyhomosapienscousin he has a sister that makes trad wife content

[@reykaye6096]

Her guests are trying to have an open and honest conversation and she’s just unashamedly gaslighting them.. a true hashtag girlboss moment

[@Sam-mx6yh]

She’s truly the worst host. Invites people on, interrupts them, then chastises them when she disagrees… horrid.

[@AnnamarieForcino]

fresh&fit core!

[@espeon871]

@@Sam-mx6yh no fr just talk to a bot or something

[@Madame_Enyo]

@@espeon871 honestly you'd have a more interesting and valuable conversation with a bot, you'd probably be smarter by the end of it too.

[@koii319]

She the type to say “the truth hurts!” while not giving any real evidence to her argument

[@MT-lk7qt]

The sneering, willful ignorance displayed by Pearl is just astounding. She's really devoted to being cruel.

[@foreverwander0320]

She has no charisma (or good takes) and yet Dave Chappell likes her just bc she… is a woman who hates other women? Actually that makes sense.

[@firstnamelastname-nk4ut]

I'm sorry to say, but her need for validation at any cost, is truly pathetic and sad

[@stephaniecourteoreille5972]

Man- what a f*cking just- *_perfect_* sentence.

[@LS-im6uc]

She's probably autistic...it's fine to call Pearl cringe, we see what's occurring, but if this isn't 'nurodivergence'....

[@elmoworld850]

Mmm, she is awkward.

[@HLT23456]

Pearl: “Would you date a guy who is 3 inches shorter than you?” Most of the girls: “Yes” One girl: “No” Pearl:* to that one girl* “At least you’re honest” As someone who dated a guy who is short, who is she to insinuate that those girls are *lying* about their own dating preferences?? Girl, you are not the spokesperson on people’s’ dating preferences wtf 😱

[@wetsockfullofhotmeat]

@@markprice5651 That is because... get this... men are generally taller than women. By that logic, women only like dating men with brown eyes

[@HLT23456]

@@markprice5651 ….What does that statistic have anything to do with dating preferences though, Mark?

[@morganwilliams5591]

@@markprice5651 Hey buddy you do realize that women are not a hive mind, right? That we do in fact have varying preferences and don't just all like One Single Type Of Man, _right?_

[@HLT23456]

@@markprice5651 Wait so if I have this right: you’re saying because these women don’t fall into those irrelevant statistics you just stated before, they’re just generally lying to themselves? They’re just labeled as liars just because women generally marry taller guys?

[@HLT23456]

@@markprice5651 Also none of them specifically said they’ve dated shorter guys, they said they *would* if given the opportunity. I just had to clarify that

[@Saltwater_Oasis]

The fact she asks if "overweight" women where ever desired really shows she didn't pay attention in basic history classes. In recent-ish history, women being "overweight" was considered attractive, desirable, and a sign of status, meaning yes, men wanted to date women on the heavier side. I was taught that when we where learning about old time royalty in middle school. It shows she *really* must do her research! /s

[@froggy5748]

I was taught about that almost every year from elementary to high school when we were doing our history classes!

[@jadecoolness101]

It also made them better for having kids. If you suddenly couldn't get food, a woman with bulk can go longer with less horrible effects of starvation.

[@bethswiftie]

Yeah, women who were fat were considered wealthy because they weren't starving 💀

[@ourladyofperpetualskepticism]

The very concept of “overweight” is pretty new in terms of human history, as weight wasn’t really conceptualized as it is in the modern consciousness. It’s incredibly arbitrary. For example, in 1997, a panel of nine doctors arbitrarily made millions of people “obese” overnight simply by changing the definition from a BMI of 27 to 25. And not for any medical reasons, literally because they thought 25 would be an easier number to remember. And human beauty preferences have always been arbitrary and changing, even within an individual person. Several studies indicate that the more familiar you become with a person’s face, the more “beautiful” you find them.

[@Thatgenderconfused3mo]

No bc I was absolutely baffled hearing her ask that like did you not go to hs?😭

[@jrmckim]

The fact she met Erykah Badu, a woman who paved the way for many female artists in the music industry, makes me cringe so hard 😬.

[@BabySharque]

The fact that she met Erykah Badu, had no idea who she was, and was just like eh whatever EVEN AFTER LOOKING HER UP

[@meagan.868]

@@BabySharque thissssss

[@kyiamack]

Very Insecure White Woman of her.

[@LacroixboiMarx]

@@BabySharqueunsurprising as she’s a white woman with main character syndrome.

[@sseraphim2818]

Well, she's white womaning. It's very typical.

[@SpaceJunk07]

It’s hilarious how she tries to diminish Lizzo’s looks with whether or not she would be hired as a model. As if Lizzo isn’t already famous and have done modeling for products already???

[@froggy5748]

Right? She’s like “oh yeah if you and lizzo applied to the same modeling gig lizzo would never get the job” as if lizzo isn’t a fucking celebrity that would almost always get the job over a random normal person?

[@espeon871]

So bold of her to go oh yeah my opinions based off reality and then act like brands wldnt want a celebrity on their payroll 😭 and some rando just cuz she's like a diff body type 😭 also plus sized models exist?? Like does she not know? Then again she's not the brightest

[@lifeofiva]

Bold of her to comment on other peoples appearence while looking like the naked mole rat from kim possible 😒

[@DeathnoteBB]

@@espeon871 She knows, what she’s doing is called fatshaming and gaslighting

[@reynaldojaquez2995]

The point is lizzo is overweight, unhealthy and not at her best at the size that she is.

[@jojol.2630]

“Beauty is subjective” “well yeah but no it is objective and deep down you know that” oh boy I love it when people tell me what I think and feel !!!!

[@monicajones6827]

She loves to say that. “Deep down you know it’s true.” Ugh. She’s just truly truly awful.

[@Kyiecutie]

@@monicajones6827 which is really just shitty manipulative code for “deep down you know I’m actually right so just agree with me already so we can move on and I can stop pressuring you to agree with me”

[@vb2806]

Beauty is subjective but health risks are objective. So no, not everyone hates Lizzo for being overweight but I do dislike her for promoting being overweight.

[@Kyiecutie]

@@vb2806 how much do you weigh, buddy?

[@vb2806]

​​@@Kyiecutie more than I should, I mean I have more fat than I should have.

[@arih_rih]

it’s sort of jarring to see someone be so open about caring purely about fame and not who the famous person actually is??

[@singularity___]

It's so clear that she thinks celebrity status + looks directly correlate to someone's worth as a person

[@saturngirl3748]

True she chases after status so when guys say women chase men too then she would be one of those few women that would chase after men, while telling the rest of us not to be promiscuous. Did these guys inject her with a shot that would brain wash her? Just wondering because she does have a habit of interrupting all the women that go on her shows I'm not sure what these guys see in her to be honest. Is she just a spy for Andrew Tate?

[@manderly33]

@@singularity___ which is why I think she might hate herself a little

[@singularity___]

@@manderly33 Absolutely agree

[@Werezilla]

So Pearl brought on a bunch of people to her podcast and they all disagreed with her and have no idea what she was trying to accomplish.

[@J_Lynn]

it seems more like she brought a bunch of people onto her podcast so she could see how many people she could successfully interrupt and talk over at once.

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

​@J_Lynn going for a world record, perhaps?

[@Joshua-eo5hr]

"You people have worms in your brains" 😂 😒 seriously what is wrong with the people in the comment section

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

@@Joshua-eo5hr you, from the sound of it

[@abbyz13]

It’s wild that she said “if you walk into a bar with Lizzo you know you’re going to get more attention” as if literally every real living woman I know who is tall or larger in general doesn’t get mad attention, everywhere.

[@froggy5748]

Also if you walk into a bar with the actual Lizzo there’s no way in hell you’d get more attention than her, she’s a mf celebrity lmaooo

[@SaintShion]

I watched a video by the ppl who do the button rank women. They ranked themselves and then men ranked the women and the woman who looked like Pearl was almost last cause men kept saying their not into tall women. By her logic she herself has no clue what "today's beauty standards are". TBH She seems super insecure and by putting others below her she can live her model fantasy cause can't handle not being right.

[@EroticInferno]

Someone did the dog whistle to me yesterday while I was with my husband because I’m 5’8 and I was wearing heels. The attention you get just for being tall is astounding. It’s not always positive but you’re always turning heads.

[@arih_rih]

she chose a very specific scenario there. when i was younger i thought like that, i remember feeling tinges of jealousy and insecurity if i went out with a friend who got a lot of attention and i didn’t get as much. it’s okay to feel that way, but you gotta grow around it and work on what you love about yourself. you can’t sit in it forever and make podcasts about it and try to convince ppl there’s an objective beauty standard. it’s not easy to live in our society but like imagine if she put her seemingly endless energy into breaking down unattainable and unhealthy norms around hyper focusing on and overvaluing beauty standards instead of her tryna convince everyone that she fits them better than Lizzo.

[@artgenix8052]

it’s wild that she thinks a random person would get more attention in a public area than a literal celebrity like lizzo not even talking about perceived attractiveness

[@froggy5748]

This is my first time hearing someone say “lit” in six years. I last heard it when my classmates were saying it in sixth grade. Her constantly saying that and “goat” is giving me physical pain

[@agjul]

She's trying so hard to be seen as cool...pick mes are pathetic lol

[@anitachamberlain3391]

This is how lingo dies. It fades until it's eventually spoken by people like this, then people gotta disown the terms.

[@LangkeeLongkee]

People still say those terms, just like people said then decades before you were in 6th, it just became and stopped being mainstream for people outside of those circles cause it wasn't meant for mainstream use to begin with. Soon people are gonna day that about saying child with the d silent, it didn't stop being cool, my great grandma talks like that. It's not "trendy lingo" cause certain choice people discovered it and started using it. The way she's using it is awkward it's not that it's being used in 2022. To white Americans calling people "dawg" unironically is cringe or whatever, that's just how people in my country talk. Since I was a kid, since before and still.

[@mollykircher3104]

And she said lit sooooooo many times

[@jordanrayne3585]

It's screaming hello fellow hip folk, you can tell that I'm cool and relevant right?

[@bambismiler]

I’m literally with a man that’s 7 inches shorter than me, and for the most part, I prefer men shorter than me. Pearl is just gross and doesn’t understand that everyone has different preferences.

[@kuuderepanda4207]

Ikr I'm not a woman (t-guy) but before transitioning this sort of thing just made me really mad Like how dare she say I'm lying to myself? Lying for what??? That's such an inconsequential thing to be in denial about I wasn't crying and shitting on the floor thinking "I WON'T date a tall guy, I WANT a short guy, EVEN THOUGH REALLY I DON'T!!!!!!!!" I've always been insecure about my height and thought I was too short so I've always preferred guys who are shorter than me (which unfortunately is really hard to find) - And I'm the only one who would know if I'm telling the truth because it's my PERSONAL PREFERENCE.

[@dklee.01]

ugh honestly!! it’s like she’s never met a real couple out in the wild before…people love each other?? 😰😰😰

[@tahahagar7664]

You are an anomaly then... You love to dominate and u are masculine it seems

[@kuuderepanda4207]

@Wynn I'm curious; Why do you think that?

[@mako3951]

I'm a 6ft tall woman and I much prefer dating people shorter than me. I always felt uncomfortable with the concept of being with someone who is physically bigger and more able to hurt me. Being taller just feels right to me

[@unseenmolee]

i absolutely hate when ppl try to rate other ppl on a scale of 1-10 and act like its some definitive thing..... its so gross to act like everyone fits on a lil hierarchy of beauty. why cant we all find the beauty in each other yk? like not everyone looks the same and thats amazing; we shouldnt be forcing ppl into boxes based on their looks, i hate it sm also lizzo is gorgeous and no one can change my mind

[@froggy5748]

Personally I’m not a huge fan of lizzo (her music just isn’t my thing, y’know?) but she’s gorgeous, her confidence just makes her extra pretty. Plus rating people on a scale of one to ten is so nasty because literally everyone has different opinions on it, a 10 to me might be a 1 to someone else

[@SaintShion]

It's so weird how Pearl acts like her view of beauty is the universe standard. I find it gross when ppl try to put others below them out of their insecurity. Like she's talking* about the standards of the modeling industry but didn't know who Naomi Campbell is?! Girl, bye.

[@dajiyahmcae1880]

It’s almost a defense mechanism, like ppl keep up these guards to filter whom “deserve” their time or attention. *N e w s f l a s h*: ain’t nobody studying you, so quit studying them!

[@dajiyahmcae1880]

@@SaintShion 🤬🤬🤬

[@Becks-and-books]

yes! I tried to rank someone as I was watching this and genuinely couldn't think of a metric I would rank on?? Like, what would I even rank?

[@DiMagnolia]

It's so funny that she invited all these guests on her podcast to ask their opinions of stuff only to then tell them they're wrong based on no evidence

[@hanatemonstas4485]

Not only that. She interrupts and talks over most of them, unless its one of the men speaking.

[@Hollyberrystreats]

She can churn out content like that because she has half a dozen employees, you know...like all traditional, submissive women!

[@UlexiteTVStoneLexite]

Lol yeah really

[@lorenedwards6427]

She completely fails to understand that literally EVERYONE has different preferences for what they find attractive. I have a guy friend who has a skinny and athletic build himself and his wife is very beautiful and she is over 300 pounds and he loves it. That’s his type. I also had a roommate who was average size/weight and exclusively dated bigger girls. I am a woman with really small boobs and that’s not the beauty standard currently but all the men and women I’ve dated have preferred that. Everyone is different.

[@froggy5748]

This reminds me of how once I told someone I preferred small boobs when they asked me and then they straight up told me I was lying

[@DMO-DMO-DMO]

It's sooooo simple and people like her REFUSE to believe it. Willful and purposeful ignorance to make sure their dumb beliefs aren't challenged

[@CheshireCesare]

As someone who is not the skinniest and has relatively small boobs that I’ve felt self conscious about at times: Yayy!!! :’))

[@metoo3342]

His type is a handicapped woman?

[@DMO-DMO-DMO]

@@metoo3342 who cares what his type is, that's the point

[@TheSaneMongrels]

"Would you date somebody that's 3 inches shorter than you?" She thought she had a gotcha but then all but 1 answered an unequivocal yes lmao

[@TheSaneMongrels]

​@KC Yeah, that checks out. Sorry to hear you had that experience! I feel like shorter guys often develop a complex/reactionary personality as a defense mechanism against our tendency as a culture to accept a certain amount of short shaming (is that a term? lol). In my experience, it's pretty uncontroversial in most spaces from popular culture to political commentators to reaction/commentary channels to take jabs at short men for their height. I could see how this might lead some short men to seek comfort in places that purport to accept or go to bat for them... Unfortunately, one of those places is the red-pill community. It's not a good place, but it's a place. There are, of course, spaces on the Left that promote body positivity and support "short kings", but I can't count the number of times I've seen content creators in those spaces praise short kings then turn around and take jabs at people like Ben Shapiro for being short. There are A LOT of things to criticize about Ben, but his being short shouldn't be one of them. I bring this up not because it makes these leftwing spaces worse or equal to the red-pill misogynists, but to illustrate how it can be difficult for short men to find a community where they feel respected. Either way though, there's no excuse for poor behavior-we short kings have to be bigger than that (pun intended 😉)

[@alicine-sims8988]

​@KC Yeah 100% depends on the guy, the shortest guy I've dated was also super insecure about being the same height as me, and tried to make it my problem. Like he didn't want me to wear heels, and was always trying to take photos in a way where he could look taller, would generally avoiding standing photos with me, etc. He also turned out to be very abusive after his transactional niceness wore off so there is that too. 😅

[@howinnocentistheday]

​@KC I totally agree, but as a short guy I have seen a LOT of women saying they wouldn't date a guy under 6' or 5'10 or 5'9 or whatever. I honestly think that's a case of those women's views just being louder and they are often pushed by men (those street interview type channels for example) but a lot of women definitely do care about height. I think short men's insecurities come from rejection, especially with height being such a big thing on dating apps, as well as competition with other men.

[@howinnocentistheday]

@KC I think the insecurity comes from like 30% competition between men, 30% women not liking shorter men, and 40% men *thinking* women don't like shorter men. I honestly hadn't seen it that way before but that totally makes sense - if I was a taller girl and I was insecure about it I for sure wouldn't like guys that only made me feel taller. I guess the conclusion here is that beauty standards just suck for everyone lol

[@karayanna8119]

The whole type thing always gets me. It's just a generalized, overly simplified version of what you're attracted to typically. I wouldnt even say I had a "Type". Because it's not actually that simple.

[@anitachamberlain3391]

Thank You

[@gayfrogribbit]

It always weirded me out, too. A lot of the time it really overlaps into fetishization of people when people talk about their "types" that are really specific. I'm also aro/ace and generally don't care for thinking of people in a romantic or sexual manner, so I might have just been thinking too hard on it when I heard it.

[@monicajones6827]

She completely erases the part of the equation that has to do with people’s personalities. As if we’re ALL out here picking partners purely based on looks. I DO think that’s how SHE operates but I don’t and I know a lot of other people who don’t either.

[@doukzu]

@@monicajones6827 Literally- when people ask about type my first thought is... I don't know, what are _they_ into? Because my first thought is I'd be with someone with similar interests who enjoys similar things. Looks come way after enjoying someone's company.

[@Eibarwoman]

JustPearlyThings sounds like the name of a YT channel that should be wearing a pearl necklace at all times and clutching the necklace.

[@abbyz13]

or one of those clam-shucking channels where all they do is open clams, show the pearl, and that’s it. bit of a waste of time not unlike her channel

[@Becks-and-books]

it honestly just makes me think of an*l beads gdhfskjagf

[@anitachamberlain3391]

That's exactly what it would be if this channel existed in the 50s, I feel.

[@nohintshere]

reminds me of those pearl mlms that kill oysters

[@bethswiftie]

JustPearlyThings sounds like a kids channel change my mind

[@PokhrajRoy.]

It’s always a wonderful day in the KZbin neighbourhood when you see the Annamarie-The Queer Kiwi Collab for the 2nd Time running.

[@talkingtochapri]

Dude I see your comments everywhere 😅

[@PokhrajRoy.]

@@talkingtochapriNot the first person who said this lmao and also, hello!

[@VerushkaPillay94]

Definitely not surprised her unseasoned self didn't know who Erykah Badu or Naomi Campbell are.

[@PatienceMarie88]

Absolutely baffled me 😱. She is definitely not musically cultured 👀😂.

[@HartleiStansbury7]

Blew my freakin mind

[@sillyd0g]

i'm not surprised she doesn't know who erykah badu is but i can't fathom ANYONE not knowing who naomi campbell is even if they are as translucently white as pearl

[@TheKateconner]

1: this is toxic of me but i want her to rate herself since she’s the judge and jury of all beauty 2: so sinful love this collab

[@dajiyahmcae1880]

An Ohio 5

[@anitachamberlain3391]

Pearl constantly bringing down others and judging looks forces you to focus on Her flaws.

[@childx81]

She does rate herself alll the timee and omg the comments are like "she may be a 4 but the things she says makes her a 8 😍" its so funny 😭

[@jrmckim]

Well considering I'd never know if she was looking at me or the ceiling.. I'd say she's a flat 4. She loves to make fun of others so I don't feel bad pointing out she has a cock eye.

[@whutcat682]

@@childx81 a 4? I She is no that ugly, what is wrong with them? 😭

[@franfrommn]

I experienced a lot of attention as a fat woman when I spent time in Western Africa (Cameroon, specifically). I was proposed to twice while there for 1 month. Every time I would meet someone they would tell me I was "a beautiful fat woman" which I found kind of unsettling until someone explained that they were calling me fat as a compliment.

[@Fran-le5pk]

I'm so intruiged on how she doesn't wait for a natural pause before she takes a sip of whatever she's drinking

[@monicajones6827]

I swear everything she does is annoying. Even sipping tea. I wouldn’t last five minutes in a room with pearl. I’d be looking for unlocked windows.

[@user-ku1hn3kg6i]

I find her mannerisms and body language very childish, like almost pre-teen, it's oddly fascinating

[@TwelvetreeZ]

Also hearing the metal spoon clinking every time she took a sip 😬

[@onelovelylilidiot4959]

@@monicajones6827 Love how that implies Pearl might have locked the doors to prevent you from leaving just to talk more

[@shakirashipslied9721]

@@monicajones6827I would probably end up fighting her if we were stuck in a room together tbh.

[@Becks-and-books]

her obsession with ranking people is... so telling. Also, fat women used to be seen as the epitome of beauty some hundred years ago, and about 100 years ago skinny women took pills or supplements to GAIN weight edit: ha, this is what I get for commenting before finishing the video, just after I commented this you brought it up in the vid ha

[@pelise240]

Well alot of things were seen as good a 100 years ago that are completely seen different today. Times change, social rules change with it

[@Becks-and-books]

@@pelise240 pointing out the obvious are you?

[@pelise240]

@@Becks-and-books if it's obvious why would you bring it up as counterargument to people being fat. Who cares how they were viewed 100 years ago? I'm not defending the girl either just that counter was dumb

[@Becks-and-books]

@@pelise240 bc she said no one has ever thought fat people looked good

[@bal9944]

You know what is funny? Pearl calling modern women fat and unattractive when she doesn't look like Scarlett Johansson either lol. She's not even fit

[@sliceofpie1741]

ily guys for being the voice of women who don't want to limit themselves to current beauty standards and want to have some real genuine emotional connection with their partner.

[@monicajones6827]

Agreed. And I love you guys because I’ve been in Pearl’s comment section and it’s just so disgusting. So it’s nice to be here and remember that there are nice, intelligent people still left in the world. I feel like if we were all in a room together, we’d all get along very well.

[@maddiemajcher1640]

Everytime she said lit I lost an hour off my lifespan

[@froggy5748]

Fr! It’s the first time I’ve heard it since elementary school and I’m literally about to graduate high school in a couple months

[@twiggledowntown3564]

You have a timestamp?

[@ThePegasiPony]

There's a statue known as "Venus of Willendorf" that depicts a fat female figure believed to represent a fertility goddess. It's believed to have been carved in 25,000 BC. People LITERALLY had a goddess in the form of a fat woman, tell me more about how skinny has always been the standard.

[@jasperjazzie]

not only that but aphrodite, literal goddess of beauty and love, is often depicted as being plus sized if you can look at the goddess who represents beauty being plus sized and still say that being plus sized has never been a beauty standard, i dunno man i doubt anything could convice em

[@Rainjojo]

Venus of Willendorf is my favorite artifact!

[@airacummins5076]

​​@@jasperjazziewell most statues of aphrodite id describe as more "a bit chubby" then "fat" because what they considered "thin" was someone who had barley anything to eat, and their "fat" was someone who could eat till their full and do things at their pleasure, but she Still wasn't modern beauty standard, you know? Plus in most of history a "chubby" person was someone who could afford to not starve to death in a famine

[@mosasaurusrex1815]

I can't handle this whole thing about Erykah Badu and Naomi Campbell. I feel like my insides are collapsing. Like I'm not even a fan of them or anyone who would should up to a Dave Chapell show, but this is so horrible. And the way she's objectifying these Black women???? The racism!!!! It's more than a hint of mysognoir. And the Lizzo thing is HORRIBLE.

[@sliceofpie1741]

what are you talking about? like I wanna know

[@mosasaurusrex1815]

@@sliceofpie1741 in the video being commented on. It's just so deeply embarrassing. It's like she met Taylor Swift and then made a video about how she didn't know who that is and she wasn't that pretty. Except there's this whole layer of combined racism/sexism (misogynoir) on top of it. There's a book called Fearing the Black Body which talks about racism, fatphobia, misogynoir, etc. if you're interested in understanding better than I can explain in a youtube comment.

[@dajiyahmcae1880]

thank you

[@dajiyahmcae1880]

No, because how DARE an Ohio 5 come out here calling World Renowned Fashion Model Naomi Campbell an 8. Ma’am!

[@mosasaurusrex1815]

@@dajiyahmcae1880 an Ohio 5! I laughed till I cried. This is so true. All of this.

[@chanyanyanya]

I’m 302lbs, 5’11”, with a “small” cinched in waist line. Just runs in the family but it definitely exists. Being taller definitely distributes the weight differently Plus you can be over 300 and be mostly muscle because muscle weighs more than fat. She just makes herself sound uneducated

[@linglingspacewhales1977]

Umm... Lizzo would 100% get more attention then anyone else at a bar. Not only is she a famously talented singer and performer, she is beautiful.

[@seraphim9090]

Tbh I have no problem with women who are republican or far right winged, but she seems like a pick me girl. I watched a podcast where she said it’s okay for a man to leave the wife if she’s fat but it’s fucked that a women leaves a man bc she makes more, and she stated it’s because marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment. So I guess the lifelong commitment thing doesn’t apply if a women gains weight? There wasn’t even a “well if she didn’t try to lose weight”, it was just point blank if she got fat then he could divorce her. And the fact she constantly rates other women just makes her seem really incel-y and a bit sexist.

[@seraphim9090]

@@Andykyoshi lol that's ridiculous, honestly it seems like deep down she doesn't like other women and/or deeply wants male approval

[@Rose-cq3bf]

@@seraphim9090 I saw a TikTok video of her saying she would rather be a pick me than a skip me

[@noturbuttercup]

She also said it’s selfish of a woman to leave her cheating spouse. She’s got all kinds fucked up takes 😂

[@ourladyofperpetualskepticism]

“If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face. And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until it gets so ugly you can hardly bear to look at it. A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.” - Roald Dahl “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” - Antoine de Saint-Exupery “When I close my eyes, I see you for what you truly are…which is UGLY!” - She’s The Man I’d rather be a kind, thoughtful, interesting person then this bitter, angry, and boring.

[@espeon871]

That's y her hairline starts from the middle of the back of her head

[@milenamilena9664]

Yeah, I tend to romanticise how people I like look, and demonise how people I hate look. I literally had a crush on a girl once which ended when I heard some of her opinions, instantly her face started annoy me and she stopped being so beautiful to me. If Pearl wasn't so cruel she could be even cute, but her believs and way she carries herself will throw away people that make a good partners/friends

[@hanatemonstas4485]

The first quote is BS tbh. I’ve seen it get parroted in conservative circles to justify why its ok to mock and harass fat people or people who don’t fit society’s view of beauty standards. “They look ugly to me and my group of friends which mean they are bad people because their bad thoughts are showing on their face, so we’re justified to bully them.” I wouldn’t be surprised most of the rating rhetoric Peal peddles was hearing simple and reductionist takes like this. Not to say chronic *stress* tends to diminish a person’s appearance. But that’s a lot more accurate and nuanced rather than using skindeep and subjective traits to determine someone’s character.

[@ourladyofperpetualskepticism]

@@hanatemonstas4485 I think it's a fundamental misunderstanding of the book and quote to take it that way. It's not about an actual physical beauty, it's about how our familiarity with their kindness and goodness makes the things we traditionally think of as "ugly" endearing to us. It's how someone can be traditionally "attractive" but utterly repellant to you once you have seen their cruelty and meanness. The point is that the physical appearance *doesn't* actually change. The point is that you love with your heart--that when you really know someone, their outward appearance doesn't matter because you are seeing with your heart and not your eyes.

[@Rose-cq3bf]

Lmao I read that in Amanda’s voice😂😂(she’s the man)

[@coronato7988]

it’s an honor to arrive first to this sinfest

[@adjjal]

I read this as 'it's a horror to arrive at this sinfest' lol

[@haunted2882]

"You'll get more attention than Lizzo if you walked into a bar." Lizzo would get 100% of the attention because she's a famous, talented singer. Not because of her weight.

[@hoofyrider]

I like how when all the woman said they would date a shorter man and the one said no, pearl said "well at least your honest" sounds like she just flat out called all the other woman liars. Like damn pearl not everyone is as shallow as a dinner plate settle down. On a different note I love your videos, but they are so hard to watch. Only because of the content you cover, I have to take breaks so my blood pressure doesn't spike. That being said, I still watch them eventually even if it takes me a few rounds haha. Merry Sinmas!

[@whitalleys5893]

“There were not fat women in history!” The Venus of Willendorf disagrees.

[@wolvie1618]

While the Venus of Willendorf might not have been an actual person, it still shows that that plus sized bodies were desired enough to be portrayed in art. There have been multiple Venus sculptures found at different locations with the same or similar body types, so it was a much more common thing.

[@AnotherQueer]

Artemisia Gentileschi also disagrees

[@shamedgeeky]

As a fat person the ppl who think this stuff are baffling to me because they completely ignore how much fat women are fetishized. Like as a 280 lb woman I probably got more matches on dating apps than pearl. Lots of hot guys in particular love to have s*x with fat women, they just don’t want to be seen dating them. I get a lot of like, muscle daddies and cishet twink guys in their early 20s asking if I date younger men 🙄 if anything I struggle with finding partners who can see past the sexualization and view me as a person

[@GodheadNee]

This is the realest. People like Pearl equate the social status of thinness to attractiveness when those are frequently totally different spheres for people. They pare everything down to some abstract "currency" bc they want to pretend their opinions/preferences are somehow scientific and that they're justified in their own self-disgust. Men who won't be seen in public with someone they sleep with are weak.

[@PrxciseAim]

Delusion 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@thycaltrist]

girl, true. I was overweight and went to underweight. I don't do apps, but irl I got hit WAY more when I was overweight than when I went under and even now as I am on a medium range. I just laugh at these 'truth tellers' when they say men don't find fat women attractive. Bro, why you lying? The hypocrisy is baffling. That only served to show me you *really* have to take care of your physical and mental health so you don't fall prey to creeps.

[@Joshua-eo5hr]

This is not true

[@shamedgeeky]

@@Joshua-eo5hr not every man is as insecure and emotionally immature as you and not everyone is attracted to the same things. Bbw is an entire category on p”rnh”b. I bet no one has a f”tish for your sad ass

[@dedoubecool]

She reminds me so much of like a 14-15 year old boy. Her face, the way she talks... and frankly a lot of what she says

[@SamanthaCZimmerman]

this is my toxic femininity coming to play but did this girl age from being the tomboy "not like other girls" to the fan of alpha podcasts "not like other girls?"

[@galacsinhajto]

she tries to out misogyny the misogynists , thinking that will save her from it. It won't.

[@hanatemonstas4485]

Given that her family is her growing up with mostly brothers and a father who only gave her attention for her most recent work, it’s not surprising how down bad she is

[@jettski3391]

The answer, is yes. We are all delusional, we all think men are gonna change and they won't 🤭

[@abbyz13]

yesss everyone knows women date based on how psychologically malleable the person seems, not on common interests! duh

[@jettski3391]

@@abbyz13 someone didn't catch on the obvious sarcasm

[@Stormflame]

@@jettski3391honestly I didn’t find that sarcasm obvious 😅 since there’s people that actually think that way, hard to tell… I mean Kay, I’m neurodivergent but I really didn’t realize it till I saw your reply 😭

[@abbyz13]

@@jettski3391 sis you missed MY sarcasm.

[@abbyz13]

@@Stormflame especially bc the video is about women who fully say those things sincerely lol. it’s funny bc i was being sarcastic but someone missed that 🙃

[@KittyCatCocoPuff]

i would not be able to hold a conversation with Pearl she’s wayyyy too egotistical to be treating people with basic respect

[@childx81]

@Tara Allen And the men be eating that shit up too no crums to be found 😭

[@KittyCatCocoPuff]

@Tara Allen exactly! she is very close-minded, which is going to get her nowhere in life. she may think she’s getting to be at her peak right now, but i can tell from that group podcast that these people won’t be associating with her anymore. word spreads around fast and the more she interacts with people like this without common decency, the more people are going to know her for all the wrong reasons. i had a roommate last year who was a lot like her: very egotistical, a pick-me-girl, and barely treated people with respect. a year passes and now several people throughout my university know about her, but for their terrible interactions that they’ve had with her and how’s she’s treated their other friends as well. i have a huge feeling Pearl’s going to end up like this girl bc acting like this is only going to bite her in the ass in the future. obviously, i’m not saying to be nice for the sake one’s public image, but being nice and respectful is a core element to creating everlasting relationships with other people. she’s also becoming a figurehead for bigots who are going to project the same type of hate onto her, which is very unfortunate.

[@faeshyye6193]

i love when people debate about the whole men’s height issue bc my boyfriend is literally 4’11 and i barely even think about it

[@samtae6217]

that's so cute! I'm like 5'1 and have a preference for shorter guys but I've already given up on that because I've never met anyone shorter than me (I live in Western Europe though) but this does give me hope hahaha

[@anyasea10739]

21:52 if you look at statues of Aphrodite, the literal Ancient Greek EMBODIMENT of beauty by their standards, you can see she is not stick-thin, and while she isn’t obese or anything, her body to an extent does not fit the beauty standards today(e.g. there are statues of her with body rolls, she doesn’t have a crazy hourglass figure). This just goes to show different societies have different beauty standards

[@cjjinx99]

Many fat women go to South America for example and say they clean up there. It really is just based on an area's beauty standard and preference

[@Widdekuu91]

Also, Aphrodite (when she was born) was supposed to be beautiful and everything, but I've painted her a few times and according to modern standards, she is nót attractive. She has dark lines under her eyes, slight exotropia (eyes looking a different way) and a very long neck, hanging shoulders with very thick upper and lower arms, a bit of a belly, very small titters and most importantly gigantic clownsfeet that look more like bridges than feet. With massive toes. Edit; I am highlighting how stupid modern standards are, because she's obv. beautiful.)

[@MIMI-tf9hv]

I just wanna point out that the people like plastic surgeons who speculate what procedures celebrities have gotten done are doing a GOOD thing. They're teaching people what's real and what isn't. It's fighting against people comparing themselves to celebrities and thinking they're ugly in comparison because they don't know how to tell if the celebrities are "natural" or not. It's a really good thing. If no one asked then I'm asking, please keep doing it. It's not a bad thing, and we shouldn't have to stay silent about these procedures. For as long as people are getting them, we need to normalize the conversation around them as well so people will hopefully start comparing themselves to celebrities less, because they know it's likely they've paid for their looks.

[@MIMI-tf9hv]

@@froggy5748 no one said it's not pretty? There's nothing wrong with getting procedures done. And no one is also claiming anything so even if it was wrong, it wouldn't matter because it's speculation anyway. However some procedures are very easily detectable to the trained eye, so it's not a big possibility for the speculation to be wrong in many cases. Sometimes it's easy to tell, and it's good to teach anyone how to be able to tell. I don't think it's gross at all as long as you don't have any negative intentions which these people don't have (at least the ones I've seen).

[@AnnamarieForcino]

i totally agree with this! i didn't elaborate enough in the video, but this video by @RobertTolppi explains this matter a lot better than i did. kzbin.info/www/bejne/q3Kri2WHar-hftk

[@froggy5748]

@@MIMI-tf9hv ahhh okay i misinterpreted your comment, I thought you meant it’s fine for plastic surgeons to speculate about surgeries that aren’t even visible, which I’m against lol. I misread the comment as you being against plastic surgery in general. Sorry about my comment, I agree with your opinion.

[@s_h_o_o_b_y]

i think she meant more like the type of people who make those videos don’t need to call out celebs or people who’ve had work done. like it’s cool if they did or didn’t, but bringing attention to specific people who might not want that pointed out isn’t cool. and it can be obvious they’ve had work, but like if i did, the last thing i would want is a video showing what i’ve had done and bringing attention to it, ya know? but yeah regardless, there’s nothing wrong with it, though it can portray negative standards set by society or feed into people’s insecurities and self esteem, but at the end of the day it’s nobody’s business.

[@MIMI-tf9hv]

@@s_h_o_o_b_y To be honest I dont really see why someone wouldn't want people to know they've had work done

[@trinplays9032]

Fun fact from a band kid: A flute takes as much air to play as a tuba does

[@espeon871]

really?? Damn lizzo's such a good performer

[@trinplays9032]

@@espeon871 yep if you want a good in tune sound. When a flute is out of tune you’ll hear it. Trust me you don’t even have to play an instrument or even listen to music, it will squeak and squawk.

[@ReaganDodge51166]

As a tuba player, it actually takes more.

[@singularity___]

The "Pear of Mounts" is such a dumb joke, I love it so much

[@sophiaisabelle027]

We appreciate this channel for giving us different perspectives on certain matters. Somehow we gain a little more insight each passing day.

[@Eibarwoman]

I swear I see you in all of my favorite channels.

[@abbyz13]

21:12 girl needs to research more history, “Rubenesque” refers to the body ideal of the 17th/18th century, which was CURVY. Of COURSE skinny hasn’t always been an ideal 😂

[@dangerliesbeforeyou]

i think she should rename her channel 'justpickmethings' lol all jokes aside though, it's so clear that she thinks that her opinion is the only opinion anyone can have & just immediately shuts down anyone with a different opinion as 'false' (like when she asks the other women if they'd date a guy shorter than them and claims they're 'lying' lol?) like... girl please, get help lol anyway loved this collab!!

[@deltaloraine]

IF she was right, NO one would be in relationships except for the top 1%. Like girl, not all of us are 8/9/10s out here on the standardized beauty scale and we’re still having a grand old time hooking up, dating, marrying, etc. life is good, and I bet our relationships are a hell of a lot healthier because of the deeper connection.

[@ro_pp]

i get "if you agree with me you are honest and if you don't you're delusional and lying" vibes from her

[@NoYeahNah]

There is a LOT of creepy reasons (to do with misogyny, obsession with youth and naivety, power over frailty etc) as to why models are required to be so thin, but a lot of people don't realise that's it's also to do with money. Designers can use far less fabric, and save time and energy by literally just creating clothes that only look 'good' on a hanger. Or one size and type of dressmaking mannequin. Having wide shoulders is actually a bonus for models, because they want a 'walking coathanger'. Designers will tailor a dress for a celebrity, or a very wealthy client, but any other woman will just be told that their body is the problem if they look like shit in a sack.

[@lindenm.9149]

I always joke about like “being hot” and being “an LA 10” but like actually rating people is so gross imo. If anyone asked me to rate anyone I would just deny to do so. So weird. Also everyone should think they’re a 10, whether that’s looks based or otherwise. Attraction is aesthetic but it often is wayyyy more than that in my experience. Idk.

[@mcbby7]

"I don't want the people from my real life to perceive me...ever" I felt that

[@noemie13x]

She's an awful person, genuinely.

[@ayo3181]

The beauty standard should never define your individual definition of beauty

[@FantasticaB]

Pearl is someone I wouldn’t even waste my breathe on because she’s not actually looking for personal opinions, she just wants to be right and have people agree with her awful opinions. She’s a brat. 🤷‍♀️

[@Sunflowerfilledlake]

People like Pearl are the reason that people who look like me go about their days feeling like they’re worthless or unworthy because of their weight or the way they look.

[@gibememoni]

Then go on a diet

[@PiaPancakes]

I know what it’s like to base my worth on how I look and weigh. I’m sorry I don’t have much advice as it is still an ongoing struggle but just know you are not alone. You are worthy and I am rooting for you!

[@Sunflowerfilledlake]

@@gibememoni thanks why didn’t I think of that? 🙄

[@shannon2123]

People like Pearl are extremely insecure deep down and have to shit on other people to feel good about themselves. She sounds like she’s obsessed with people’s perceptions of looks. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, the way most people look is often the least remarkable thing about them. I struggle with self esteem as well and it’s truly helped me to focus on a few qualities I really love about myself. You’re deserving of love, acceptance, and feeling comfortable in your own skin. If other people don’t agree, they’re trash humans that aren’t worth your time. I hope you have better days ahead, you matter as a person!

[@ReiAnikaAyanami]

@@gibememoni what a revolutionary reply! i'm printing this out and putting it up on my wall 💖😩😱😱

[@kierstenburtz8442]

Hi! She's dead wrong when she says you can't be 300 lbs and still have a visible waist. I'm 6'3" and approx. 300 lbs due to a medical condition. That weight fluctuates but that's where I'm at now. And sure I got thick thighs and a belly, bit I also have a pretty snatched waist. I have an hourglass figure. Granted, it's a bit of a wider hourglass, but it's an hourglass nonetheless. She's just delusional and stuck in her own biases.

[@LocoGeorge123]

Humanist Report had a piece recently that roasted Classically Abby because one of the things she said she hates most is when women feel good about themselves. Lol.

[@wolvie1618]

It's giving jealousy. The only reason I can think of why someone would hate confidence in others is when they have none themselves.

[@avacadotoast5492]

If she is going to "rate" women then I feel fine rating her. Her appearance is a 2 and her attitude is a -10. So she is a -8 ☺️☺️☺️💅💅💅💅❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@grosebud4721]

Hard agree

[@LangkeeLongkee]

Also, the ideal model body isn't due to "objective beauty" or anything. Modeling isn't about the model, the model is a vessel for what they're promoting, whether it be hair, clothing, accessories, make up or whatever. The average person cares about who they're seeing so the average person focuses on the model. But the people who actually attend elite fashion shows and stuff aren't there for the models, they don't come for who's going to be wearing the clothes, they come for who is designing and making them. They don't care about who is wearing, they care about who you ARE wearing. The ideal figure for a model is the ideal figure for showing off the clothes without their body getting in the way. Because if you have larger breasts or a bit of a tummy or whatever, nothing is wrong with that, I'm like that, but obviously the clothes will warp around your body. Them being tall, slim and flat chested helps the garment rest in a way that makes everything clear and readable. Like a sweater with text on it would be harder to read on someone with a large bust like myself than someone with a flat chest. The model physique is often not healthy, and it's not about them. It's about what product they're advertising. Face models for example, full lips works for them so you can see the lip colour and lip liner clearly. That does not reflect on beauty standards in anyway shape or form. The current beauty trend is the slim thick baddie, yet the ideal model physique remains the same cause they are separate things. The tall skinny thigh gap ideal came from that phase where people were obsessed with models, it wasn't the models reflecting the trends, the trends temporarily reflected them. But the trends changed. As they do.

[@espeon871]

YES THANK U! So sick of people who dont understand modeling and fashion and beauty trying to use models as a way to gatekeep who has access to representation and even feeling joy regarding ones body like pearl.

[@LangkeeLongkee]

@@espeon871 truly! Is it sad that people of certain body typed won't really make elite runways? Yes. But you can still model, you can model for companies that sell clothes for your body type, for people to actually wear. People often forget fashion is an art form, they talk about runway clothes being ugly and unwearable but they're not meant to be wearable they usually tell a story, at most they're for the red carpet/entering an elitist function (where people often change after), or taking elements from, not the whole ensemble. But you can model for actual clothing brands that market to people for every day wear and such, because in that scenario models of different body types is very useful so people can see how the clothes will fit them if they have a similar body type before they buy it.

[@thatberryboyo9856]

I replayed the intro like 3 times to figure out if Kiwi had a Stray Kids fan and I am pleasantly surprised. Besides that thoooo, I’m so glad this collab happened.

[@thatberryboyo9856]

Oml stop I didn’t see Wolf Chan, Leebit, and BbokAri! Ahhhh I’m so excited lol

[@Abbieskz0325]

I DIDNT NOTICE THE SKZOO IN THE BACK AND GOT A JUMPSCARE WHEN THEY SAID STRAYKIDS😭ANYWYAS GREAT VIDEO AS ALWAYS

[@HelenaIsis616]

I don’t know why, but the way she talks about not knowing who Erykah Badu and Naomi Campbell feels low-key anti-Black….

[@meh458]

Fr. Like how do NOT know these queens???

[@kittenmittons_]

plus the way she interrupts all the black women and doesn't let them talk

[@froggy5748]

Tbh I had no idea who they were before this video but that’s because the only celebrities I know are the ones that KZbinrs like Annamarie mention and the fuckin Kardashians because they’re impossible to ignore. I looked up Erykah and Naomi after hearing their names and they both seem pretty talented tbh

[@kidneytransplantwarrior21]

@@meh458 ok, I have a genuine answer for my side of the story with me on not knowing who they are. I am terrible at remembering celebrity names and also remembering what they look like. I also have problems remembering movies and the name of the movie. I also have trouble remembering songs I've listened to multiple times on the radio, when I hear the song I know I've heard it multiple times I just cant remember the name.

[@arih_rih]

it’s one thing to generally not pay attention to celebrities and not know many of them but she was drooling over fame while not knowing these pretty famous ppl? it made so much sense later in the context of her insisting on “objective beauty standards” cuz she was like one step away from just saying thin white ppl are the epitome of beauty for the whole world, which is mostly not white..but she wants her subjective experience and privilege to be everybody else’s reality.

[@artisticbeautybyhanako6801]

For a girl that wants to be traditional and champion femininity, that little 'I'm GOAT-ed!!' moment was very masculine behavior. The boys theyre pandering to would not appreciate that😏

[@FeministCatLadySpinster]

These folks do enjoy playing fast and loose with "delusional". Anyway, Annamarie *and* Queer Kiwi covering Just Pearly Things??? 😳 My day is made. 🍿

[@BernieLovesSomi]

The Queer Kiwi is a Stay! ♡

[@josieshanklin89]

I almost died when I saw the plushes and when they started talking about Chan 😄

[@rebelrebelramblings1217]

Also a lot of times skinny models aren’t chosen because they’re “prettier” than less skinny people, they’re chosen because they’re basically hangers, as they’re there to show off the clothes. It doesn’t mean a skinny person is prettier just because a modeling agent would book them. Also sometimes people who are “weird” looking look the best and most interesting in photos

[@yungguattari4924]

The sorriest issue about Pearl is that even to criticize her fairly you have to assume that her opinions and arguments come from a place of good faith and are somehow informed ─regardless of being ill informed─ but they're absolutely not. When she said that she rather be called a "pick me girl" than a "skip me" she authentically outed herself as someone that will say whatever she needs to say to be validated by the alpha male gang.

[@SourSalty]

21:22 in the renessance, being overweight was considered desirable because it would mean that you're rich. Proof that beauty standards change over time and that no one should judge ppl on their appearances.

[@paulina4705]

I think both of you should have a podcast. You sound realny nice together and i found your points realny interesting and fun ❤

[@Zeffer32]

I second the hell out of this idea, yall have a great rapport!

[@thefrostyslime]

I'm 5'3 and have dated a man my height. His height? Not a problem. Perfect hugging height. Buuuuuut we broke up because he cheated.

[@Im_Merobiba_]

I am very insecure about my height, as a trans woman, so I have to date someone taller than me else I feel uncomfortable. But it’s patriarchal beauty standards’ fault that I feel the need to be shorter

[@Im_Merobiba_]

@@markprice5651 buddy… do you not understand that beauty standards cause insecurities? It’s just like how overweight people feel insecure about their weight because the beauty standards only represents thin short white women?

[@Im_Merobiba_]

@@markprice5651 buddy? How did you end up on this side of KZbin?

[@espeon871]

Yep, i get it, i hope ure doing gud tho

[@Im_Merobiba_]

@@markprice5651 When I graduated high school, my senior essay was about the impact of beauty standards on the lgbt+ community. I did my research. Your turn

[@angelaschone2847]

@@markprice5651 insecurities are because of society not because of being alive, comparison is hurtfull, people born without standards, society make them

[@AUSomeOpossum]

"At least you're honest" 🤢 I can't even..... love all your videos!!!

[@dontbelame]

one thing about dating short men, which trust me, i've dated all sorts of heights from 6'3 to 4'11 (i'm 5'2), is that THEY think it matters even if you don't. short men tend to be more insecure, insecure men are prone to toxicity and toxic people can be abusive. Now as i've been in horrible abusive relationships with a guy who was 6'3 and a guy who was 5'4, height isn't always the issue, but being short can make a guy feel like he's a put-upon underdog which is never a recipe for success. for those non-toxic short kings, keep doing you, you'll find the perfect person for you, but if you're insecure, that is not your partner or anyone else's fault. (not your fault either, but it is your responsibility)

[@genericname8727]

I like the “i am useless and gay” shirt. First saw it when AmazingPhil wore it in a video so I kind of associate it with him lol, but that just makes me like it more. Now I’ll associate it with Queer Kiwi too, and that’ll make me like it more. The dog is super cute and the message relatable. Made me smile. The video was good too.

[@bethswiftie]

Even tho we don't like her, there's something very sweet and childlike about her happiness. I was smiling the whole time (maybe it's just because I work with kids idk). I'm at 8:10 rn but ik she is an absolute menace, I've seen her other content, but it was very sweet the way she's so happy about meeting someone she looks up to. /Gen /LH

[@nopelahoma]

She only thinks people are "being honest" when they agree with her.

[@caidalee1994]

She really is so certain that her way is the right way, that as soon as she’s in danger of being proven wrong, she insists that all people at least secretly agree with her.She just wants to be right.

[@Moral0Fixation]

I still don't understand why she is always talking about how other women look when she looks like......that. And honestly I am really not that better off in the looks department. But I'm not telling other women they need to be thinner and prettier when I'm a chunky mess.

[@timus4993]

omg so true 🤣🤣🤣

[@NightmaresWonderland]

12:55 Omg just before you said it, i was just thinking „oh no if i ever met skz on the street, i would freak out and run away.“ and then you mentioned them 😭 tbf i was just listening so i didn‘t see the skzoo plushies. Chan is also my bias, i wouldn‘t be able to speak a single word if i ever met him 🫣

[@Ara_Arasaka]

That Lizzo comment aged like fine milk

[@jamesfv1]

Also really loved this collab, would watch so many more videos of you both together! I also find it so weird how important our body sacks are for people like this. Also loved how it felt like everyone wanted to scream at her in the podcast haha.

[@Fluffio347]

Was so excited to see your end of the collab! You both have great energy together!!

[@nes4933]

Yessss I loved both of your collaborations so much! You're both so wonderful! :> ✨️

[@pusheenqueen519]

Even if the nonsense she said had a single grain of logic....who cares? Seriously why does she care so much about, what, proving certain women are ugly? What does it matter to her if anyone finds Lizzo or literally any other woman attractive? There's almost this weird desperation she has to convince everyone she talks to she's right.

[@roxywolfe]

I’m literally engaged to a man who is 5’5”. Height matters to a small handful of women but certainly not all of us!! I love my short king

[@sarenswiftfoot9811]

I never understood the whole "only skinny people are attractive" thing, there are so many beautiful people in so many different shapes and sizes. I personally find either vary thin or heavy set people attractive, but that's just my personal preference and there are way more factors that go into me being attracted to someone then just their build.

[@Maya_Ruinz]

16:12 “it’s based off of reality which a lot of women don’t live in” that’s rich coming from a KZbin influencer as if she isn’t creating her own reality with every single video.

[@childx81]

No because shouldn't she be at home cooking and cleaning for her husband and three and half kids? she criticizes women for choosing to have a career over a family yet here she is at her big age...

[@83croissant]

Phyllis Schlafly type

[@DanasGoneCrazy]

the fact that this pearl girl refuses to believe there are people out there who disagree with her and implies they are lying, like when she told then girl who said she wouldn't date a guy shorter that "at least shes honest." That's so weird.

[@Phara3on]

Nah she needs to hold her tongue when it comes to Lizzo because I will throw hands. She's a Godess.

[@wolvie1618]

I have some shoes you can throw too

[@justsomethoughts519]

When someone's shown their personality and I've not liked it. I've found I am more likely to notice aspects of their appearance that I don't like and vice versa.

[@ohlordd-431]

I was cooking while listening to this and I literally dropped my spoon when y’all started talking abt Straykids- thought my head was messing with me LMAO

[@estheromoyele3321]

ikr ❤ AND in the beginning Samantha has the maniac fan 👹❤ screaming-❤