the woman against women's rights

[@damejanea.macdonald2371]

"If only we taught young women conservative values" some of the most progressive people in the world were rebelling against exactly that.

[@Mud.lemons]

Also girlies gotta realise that she wouldn’t be able to say the even back then because she’s a woman 💀💀💀

[@the_mulattos]

LGBT in particular because they are gender atypical

[@kyoka1528]

@@the_mulattos As an LGBT person, I'm not LGBT because I'm rebelling against conservative values. I just like people regardless of their gender. I assure you sexuality and gender is not anyone's way of rebellion. If it was a form of rebellion it would be a choice and I can assure you: Most of us would not choose to be LGBT. Just simply existing as an LGBT person can make you the target of hate crimes, homophobia/transphobia, etc. So, yeah, in short LGBT people are not LGBT as a form of rebellion. That's the main point.

[@alicebthegachaweirdo8378]

@@the_mulattosThat’s not how it works.

[@justanidiotmk2749]

​@@kyoka1528one can argue you merely expressing the fact you exist is rebellion, but I have to agree with you.

[@roseball4176]

I’ve been loving the fem/women-centered content, it - to me - feels very appropriate. You keep a really good balance between “girlies let’s do better” and “good grief look at this clownery” - not tearing women down, but not holding women up as incapable of doing any wrong. Again, a good balance.

[@brooklynninnes5883]

I just wanted to say that this is true, and the phrase “good grief look at this clownery” is the funniest thing I’ve read all day

[@dillpickle5616]

I agree as a survival of SA from both men and women. Women can do evil. But society as a whole has always been extremely focused on tearing down women in every type of social setting. It's good to have a positive space

[@sarahallegra6239]

Agreed!

[@brayermoth]

​@overlordfemto7523no we can. You just don't like our definition

[@the_mulattos]

Lesbian centered.

[@rapha_kol]

almost all the women in my family are against women’s rights and it’s deeply troubling.

[@Beck-zn9eh]

Mine too

[@rhymerlegend2717]

What like the right to murder your unborn child? Cause that is not a right

[@thiefpotato2759]

​​@b4ng1nY0M0MSomeone who wouldn't touch you with a 10 ft pole.

[@ettaetta439]

Hey guys just to remind anyone looking into this reply section, report these two commenters, don't fall for their transphobic and anti-choice bait.

[@yourleftkidney6105]

​@@rhymerlegend2717why are you watching this video if you're anti-choice, buckaroo?

[@kn1f3.p4rty]

the fact that women like this exist is scary and saddening :/

[@starsofthestorm]

thought this said "the fact that women exist is scary and saddening" for a moment tbh

[@naturesgale]

@@starsofthestormsame

[@USSAnimeNCC-]

And they enforce patriarchy too

[@Gamingpandacat]

its just the ebb and flow of authoritarian ideas, things are bad in the world hit the embrace tradition button, things were good in this nebulous back then period of time, surely everything will be fixed if we had the divine right of kings!

[@kn1f3.p4rty]

@overlordfemto7523 ur so funny haha good one bro 🙂

[@celestialspartan1176]

I’m a Christian, and even I know that God wants his people to be happy. What these crazy people, who wanna take women’s rights away, want is to make marriage and love a boring chore. It’s pathetic.

[@The_Ruf_Rud]

Right. He also doesn't want his people to be hating on each other as it makes everyone either sad, mad, or frustrated

[@celestialspartan1176]

@@The_Ruf_Rud yet people do it anyways. But, we all make mistakes. Humanity isn’t perfect and God knows that. However, the key is to make sure that we don’t dwell on our mistakes, let them rule us, and turn us into vile creatures, like those red pill fools for instance.

[@TeenageDirtbag8]

Agree

[@GayforShiver]

As a Christian, I 100% agree. God would want all His people to be happy no matter who they are or who they love and it's Sad to see people teaching and forcing the opposite of what God would want

[@bunnycraycrayola]

You are the kind of Christian I have respect for!! Everyone who is Christian and agreeing with you I also have respect for! Thank you for using your religion for your own well being and not as an excuse to hate people for just existing. I appreciate you!

[@theveryhungrycaterpillar2768]

As a queer almost- woman myself, I'm very scared for me and my girlfriend and the future of our lives, especially with people being against womans rights and gay rights. I am 16, and should not have to worry about whether or not me and my girlfriend will be separated and hate crimed. I should be worried about school, a career in my future, and finding stability with my relationships :)) thanks for reading

[@fernandaph8405]

I am 21 and in colllege, but same feeling over here

[@Reed5016]

I’m a 19-year-old queer person, and I’m in a similar situation. I’m trying to get out of the US as soon as possible. I don’t see a future for myself or other queer people here.

[@nyastalgiakitten]

​@@Reed5016my boyfriend and I are trans, along with most of everyone I care about, and the US is literally in it's quirky little transgender genocide era right now, sooo, yeah

[@Reed5016]

@@nyastalgiakitten I feel you. I’m wishing you the best. I’m leaving after the election in 2024, so that I can still vote.

[@nyastalgiakitten]

@@Reed5016 I wanna get the hell out of here too but really where am I gonna go? Nearly everywhere is horrible for trans people, and if not for trans people then there's the fact I wish to marry my boyfriend, or the fact that I have a vagina, or that I'm disabled, or that I'm poor, and if it's none of those then they're probably horrible to native people (Canada and Australia) which in that case I wouldn't want to support that

[@kimcarter129]

These “trad wives shouldn’t be on the internet because they’re going against their own beliefs, they are suppose to be taking care of their children and husbands and keep quiet ( according to their own beliefs).

[@TeenageDirtbag8]

Exactly

[@divestdreamer]

Ikr they should be in the kitchen barefooted 8 months pregnant making breakfast for their 2 children while her husband is sleeping on the couch (which they always tell women to) instead of telling women to give up their lives to be in a potential drastic marriage and give up everything they fought for

[@Hypnos132]

@overlordfemto7523buddy you keep saying this as if you know

[@larasynthwave5052]

@overlordfemto7523 Maga? You mean my ass got arrested??

[@larasynthwave5052]

For being a traitor to america? It doesn't need much explaining @overlordfemto7523

[@burmessafox3939]

I guess the reason she says she loves cuddling her grandkids and having trouble loving her own kids is because she doesn't have to actually raise her grandkids. Theyre kids that come to visit while her daughter or daughter in law does most of the work.

[@burmessafox3939]

Also reminds me of a quote from Daddy Daycare 2 "Do you know why grandparent and grandkids get along? It's because they're connected by common enemy (child's parent, grandparent's child)

[@xilj4002]

It probably doesn't help that her kids are a result of ongoing marital gRape. She wasn't violated and forced to have her grandkids. It'd probably be easier to love her kids if having them was a free and informed loving choice and making them an at least okay experience. And that's a pretty wild assumption (or is it?), but I think she had a mini breakdown on camera trying to convince herself she's not an SA and abuse victim and it was scarier than any horror movie

[@Abby-gx4qi]

@@xilj4002 I think she also stopped using birth controlwithout talking to her husband and she got pregnant by "accident" so she could quit her job and stay home

[@kyoka1528]

What I find so ironic about women like The Transformed Wife is how they're using the rights that feminists fought for. Being able to state your opinion on Twitter or in general? That's the right known as freedom of speech. Before women were allowed that right, they weren't really allowed to express their opinions openly. Yet, these women so publicly express their opinions. Like, make it make sense - if you believe women shouldn't have rights, don't use them 🤦

[@Valfara770]

If I were on Twitter I would be sooo tempted to quote the bible saying about women not being allowed to preach and should be silent under every single one of her tweets...

[@ruby-fx2eo]

​@@Valfara770people have quoted that exact verse to her, and she just shoots back that, well, her target audience is women, she doesn't teach men, so it doesn't apply. Because there's always a loophole. 🙄

[@Valfara770]

@@ruby-fx2eo Thanks for that info and I can't say I'm suprised. Somehow they are always special and exceptional.

[@DimaRakesah]

Because they derive a sense of higher status from putting other women down.

[@wayln2591]

​@overlordfemto7523it's the truth. That lady is a cu** and must be exposed. Religion is 🗑️

[@hawkeyescoffee6399]

What's also funny to me, is if while they are going on about abstinence until marriage a person says "oh, I don't want to have sex anyway, I'm asexual," they freak tf out. They want you to have the temptation, you _have_ to suffer, no matter which way you put it: it is only right to them if you are suffering or hating your life. They see queer people who are finding their places and loving their lives and it pisses them off (same with those of us who choose to be child free) because _they_ hate their own lives and have been taught that is how it is meant to be...so everyone else has to be that way too. Can you imagine if every wkman stopped working?! What a fucking catastrophe that would be for society. As for "useless degrees" she shojld tell that to women like Marie Curie and Rosalind Franklin, etc. Not to mention all the nurses, doctors, teachers, social workers, and lawyers, etc, all of whom have necessary degrees 9sometimes more than one) and are essential to society, without women in those fields, there would absolutely be a crisis (hell, we're already struggling in the UK because not enough people are training to become nurses, doctors & dentists). People like the transformed wife are always full of hypocrisy though and hold ideas/beliefs that are against their own interests, yet always seem incapable of seeing the irony.

[@suspiciousstar7547]

People like this just need to stop being this invested in someone's personal or working lives 😭. Women can work, be queer, or be single and unmarried. It's not like these women have to do the same thing lol.

[@WolfSpirit_777]

These people are in a pro suffering, bigoted death cult. That's the u.s. is in the shape it's in right now.

[@Hypnos132]

@overlordfemto7523You clearly have lost your marbles

[@Hypnos132]

@overlordfemto7523Buddy you can’t be serious right now 😂

[@Hypnos132]

⁠​⁠@overlordfemto7523 yeah that’s not 100% true. Women actually make up a lot of health care, education, Childcare, ect. Women continue to level out the workforce playing field and dominate specific professions compared to fields of work dominated by men. Men need women to work because without them society would most likely crumble especially in the US.

[@twitchy_bird]

I always want to ask these type of women, which rights are you willing to give up first?

[@desireesmith862]

I’m so confused with these women. What if they are in a situation where they need to get divorce? Or what is for some reason or somehow their free speech is legitimately taken away. Do they just sit down like “Welp, this is the way?”

[@unicorn73212]

​​​@@desireesmith862see people think that's how it would be but if that were the case every man would be forced to pick a wife and pay her rent they forgot that the way the patriarchy is set up it's not going to benefit men the way it did before because most women weren't alive during the days when women didn't have any rights there basically telling me come wash a few dishes, fold the laundry, make some dinner then come take a nap in my house rent free while I slave away at a warehouse for pennies on the dollar having to support you and my family. You know men wouldn't agree to this because they would look like a sucker and eventually they would complain about having to support us. You could also cheat on him while he's gone too and when he gets back act like nothing happened and go back to cooking. If you want to bring down the patriarchy remind them who would have to go fight in a war if all the men got drafted then they just gave you a 12 month vacation away from them by the time they got back men would some how not have any human rights either but it would only be a temporary hold until they find out who's responsible for it.

[@Valfara770]

@@desireesmith862 That reminds me of the wife of the commander in The Handmaids Tale, where she pushed for that and years later is totally powerless since that's what she pushed for.

[@katherinehertel1360]

It's the Just World Fallacy. They think that as long as long as you're a good person that does everything right, then nothing bad will happen to you and you won't need the protections afforded by equality. "I would never need a divorce because I'm a proper submissive, godly woman that won't emasculate my husband, unlike those liberal feminist!" This is obvious nonsense to anyone with a passing interest in reality, but it's how they rationalize all the failures of the system they uphold. They cling to this because otherwise that means they're vulnerable 24/7 and bad thing can happen to them for any reason or no reason at all and holy fuck that's terrifying. It gives them a false sense of control over their lives.

[@myaren0101]

They need a reminder, we women let them have opinions they have today 😂 back then they wouldnt be even let to speak their minds.

[@jako_the_maned_wolf3133]

Hello, I'm one of those kids (now adult) that wished and still wishes my parents got a divorce. I can't say for sure but I believe that my childhood would've been much less traumatic.

[@TiffWaffles]

My mum divorced my bio dad because of abuse but went on to date, have a common law relationship with, and then marry another abuser. I wished my mum left that relationship because now I have lifelong trauma associated with a narcissistic abuser who financially abused, verbally abused, emotionally and psychology abused and controlled us. Sometimes he even physically abused us. He had me cornered by the kitchen sink one day when I was thirteen years old and was shaking me as he screamed obscenities into my face. I punched him to get him away from me, but how strong is a thirteen year old girl, really? He was worse to one of my other sisters.

[@jako_the_maned_wolf3133]

@@TiffWaffles Im so sorry that happened to you. I hope you can heal, and who ever hurt you rots .

[@kimcarter129]

I don’t understand these “ trad wives “, they say they are supposed to stay home and take care of their house and kids but these same women are dressed in fancy clothes and jewelry, you don’t see them teaching their kids;at home, you don’t see their kids when they are grocery shopping and you don’t see them scrubbing the floors and washing clothes and washing dishes and doing the rest of the housework. They say that they want things like they used to be in “the 1950’s and when women stayed home “;but you don’t ever see these women making their families food from scratch.

[@DimaRakesah]

Plus the 1950's house wife image is 1) Overblown, most working class and poor women still had to work to some extent and 2) Was not the norm throughout the vast majority of human history. Working class and poor women have always had to help outside the home with farm labor, running small businesses like doing laundry or sewing for neighbors, helping with the family business, working in service jobs, or had a regular job themselves. The housewife who never works and only cares for the home and children is absolutely not the norm. the vast majority of families today couldn't afford to live off o a single income, so expecting this is just expecting families to be poor for god or whatever. On top of that they expect women to pop out as many kids as possible. Can you imagine the poverty this country would have if minimum and low wage workers had to support lots of kids? It would be like the damn Depression all over again. And they claim people shouldn't get married and have children till they can afford it bust MOST FAMILIES cannot afford it, so should the population suddenly just plummet because only the wealthy marry? It's just ridiculous.

[@lilly1389]

I remember being about five and BEGGING my dad to divorce my mom....she was unmedicated back then and I was her black sheep....I now understand my dad was scared to do that since he was the only one working and she was home always. He may have lost custody of us.... thankfully when there was a bad physically abusive episode when I was 17 and I left that week my mom finally accepted she needed help

[@turntechgodbeheaded]

I’m glad you’re okay, and she’s getting/gotten help

[@ttintagel]

The best thing my parents ever did for us kids was to get divorced.

[@lilly1389]

@@turntechgodbeheaded I'm not sure I'm 'okay'. C-PTSD is hell to live with. I get bad panic attacks and dissociate a lot. I've never been in a relationship despite CRAVING love. My self esteem is basically non existent. Every time I start to think a good thought about myself it's like I get a flashback to a moment when my mom was telling me the opposite. I do therapy but sadly I also have trauma towards therapists....

[@turntechgodbeheaded]

I understand. I have C-PTSD too and it's always bad this time of year. I hope peace is upon you soon, and your life changes for the better@@lilly1389

[@meganmarie4208]

Can we all just appreciate the CHURCH used to perform abortions? As the bible clearly states multiple times that life begins at first breath and even has instructions on how to end pregnancies. Purity culture and controlling women was the only reason this changed

[@TiffWaffles]

Also, I read that bible front to back (I went to a Catholic School) and there's actually detailed instructions on how women can terminate unwanted pregnancies. It's been practiced for over a millennia- and the fact that we now have it so that women can go get one done by a licenced medical professional where the risk of dying is not as high as it would have been in the 14th century should be something that is applauded not taken away from us. It's clear that many people who claim that they are diehard Christians like the Transformed Wife do not actually read the Bible they preach to others. Also... Also... There's detailed instructions on how to commit and ethnic cleanse/genocide in that holy book but let's not mention that. That book advocates for war rape...

[@aralornwolf3140]

@overlordfemto7523, "You're quoting the Torah, not the bible" . . . why does the New Testament quote the Torah in multiple locations? Why did Jesus of Nazareth say "I came to uphold the law (Torah)"? The Torah _is_ the bible... and if you dislike that section... then maybe you should be honest and convert to a new religion (or simply deconvert).

[@haywoodjablowmi1427]

Yeah, on consent to marriage too. In medieval Europe ( or just france idk) the church was on of the major sources of law. And the woman’s consent wasn’t really considered for a while until the church said that for a marriage to be official the two spouses need to give consent ( it’s probably more nuanced than that but i learned that a long time ago sorry )

[@sugarm1860]

@overlordfemto7523 the Bible is just an expanded version of the Torah… build off of the Torah, and into the era of Jesus. If God didn’t want us to something, he would have explicitly said so in the Bible or not have it in the Bible at all.

[@meganmarie4208]

@overlordfemto7523 you're misinterpreting this. As stated he breathes life into you on first breath. It is the moment of birth that he gives you your soul according to the bible. Aka. if you are born you were always meant to be born. The point is you can't villianise a woman ending a pregnancy by using a book that explicitly allows it.

[@samjensen392]

20:21 Not to mention, in the one song she’s released about him post-breakup, she implied that he was the one that never wanted to take it further (“And I wouldn’t marry me either, a pathological people-pleaser who only wanted you to see her”). She was fully committed (see lines like, “I like shiny things but I’d marry you with paper rings;” “I’ve loved you three summers now, honey, but I want ‘em all;” “I want to teach you how forever feels;” “I vowed I would always be yours;” etc.), Taylor was never the one keeping them from getting married

[@gllrycruz]

“All they keep asking me is if I’m gonna be your bride, the only kinda girl they see is a one-night or a wife” I don’t think she really wants to get married

[@samjensen392]

@@gllrycruz That’s more a criticism of the media than elaborating on her own feelings. There’s also a difference between not wanting to get married and being okay with not getting married, and I think, for a time, at least, she aligned with the latter if that was what it took to keep the man she loved, but I don’t think she ever felt the former

[@awryarbi9902]

​@@gllrycruzit's about the pressure to get married rather than whether she wants to or not

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Boomers are like “Kids these days should get off their phones and go outside.” like I’m sorry but it’s giving projection and I’m not the one gobbling up conspiracy theories on Facebook.

[@FeministCatLadySpinster]

"Woman against women's rights" - That's a succinct summary of The Transformed Wife.

[@Abby-gx4qi]

Exactly. Her FB page is cringe to the max

[@neverquiteeden]

​@overlordfemto752 Friend, you are under so many comments on so many of Kiwi's videos. You doing ok? Your hobbies going well? I recently started crochet and "olympic" weightlifting, do you do any creative hobbies or sports? There's a bunch of other things you could be doing with your time other than ineffectual trying to start arguments on the Internet with strangers. I don't agree with everything I see either but since realising the important things are building up our own lives and producing our own "value" and joy, and having compassion for other people, my life has got so much better. You've got this bro and I hope you have a great life

[@neverquiteeden]

​​​@overlordfemto7523Glad you've been investing in your physical health for so long, that's great! Hit any PRs recently? I notice you didn't mention a creative or social hobby - have you tried karate? Been doing that for a while now and it's great fun. I just don't see the point of being negative towards people who are just living their own lives - who cares if someone's being delusional, you're not going to bring any actual value to your life by asking bad faith questions on the Internet. I've found a lot more joy in supporting the people I want to be around, I used to be like you and make fun of people for differing opinions all the time, but honestly that mindset wasn't good for me. Have you read Marcus Aurelius's "Meditations"? (Edits: spelling)

[@zannis5441]

@overlordfemto7523yeah that sounds like somebody is crying in the bathroom ,going to 4chan.

[@beanids]

@overlordfemto7523bait used to be believable

[@Th4tP3skyC4lic0]

“Woman against woman’s rights” Oh what a title 😀

[@witchyenvi]

Yayy..

[@witchyenvi]

@overlordfemto7523 shut.

[@witchyenvi]

@overlordfemto7523 I can, but it's just a bad faith question. A woman is a person that identifies as a woman, simple as that. However, the question "define a woman" is just a cheap trick because it just makes it so easy to make fun of people that disagree with you, whether or not you are wrong. Also, chill out

[@professorfoxtrot]

I guess women don't have the right to their own bathrooms. [Enter Dylan Mulvaney]

[@josephdavis9234]

​@overlordfemto7523Could you please grace us with a definition?

[@RPGLover87]

The most fun type of wikihopping is reading scientific articles, then finding a term you don't understand and clicking it, reading as far as you can until another unfamiliar term comes up then rinsing and repeating. Like "Pentanyl Sutafate is a hydrobomination...." (looks up hydrobomination) "A hydrobomination is a molecule that rips open a tear in spacetime on reaction with water due to the streisand reaction" (looks up streisand reaction) etc

[@espeon871]

Does she not know that she has a platform because of feminism??? Especially a woman who wasnt an aristocrat or anyone special??

[@diamondgirl698]

Ah yes the hypocrisy thickens, equality funny and horrifying

[@Horus-Lupercal]

Marriage is an absolute scam. I've been with someone happily for 6 years, zero intention of going through that ritual. My Catholic mother keeps asking "when" we're going to get married, lmao, no.

[@Tropicanine]

where I live a lot of people only get married nowadays cause it saves so much in taxes

[@vanessacallahan3515]

My best relationship was unmarried. 14 years until his death 2 years ago.

[@clutterbot7279]

@@Tropicanine had no idea that was a thing, suppose i should start looking into that lol

[@RandomLyneysimp]

I'd like to get married just because it's something I want, but it annoys me that people try to pressure others into wanting it to. Like, live and let live

[@thxwanderer]

6 years in and marriage is just not on our list of priorities.

[@jello9739]

neither me or my partner really cared about the idea of getting married when we were single but then we met each other and were like nah yeah lets have a big party one day and invite all our friends we can still see us being together forever whether or not marriage is involved but it just seems special to have that party with everyone there and wear fancy clothes and have a few drinks and a good time marriage should be a celebration, not a chore

[@awryarbi9902]

Marriage as a constitution and contract- overrated Marriage as a cool party that celebrates love- fantastic!!

[@ELPages]

The fact that this woman wants to take away women's voices and seems to believe it won't affect her reminds me of the Handmaid's Tale series. With Serena Joy's backstory. She was a big advocate of the new regime and got all sad and surprised when the anti-women-rights policies affected HER.

[@ra_spero]

Just let women live there OWN lives... oh my god

[@dixitwastaken]

I was around kindergarten age when my parents divorced. Obviously it wasn't a breeze to experience, I was very young and it was very scary and hard for me to understand. I was lucky enough for the whole thing to be a relatively civil process and yet it still took a very long time and a lot of counseling afterwards to emotionally heal. As bad as it was though, looking back on it I would not want them to have not divorced. Even if we chose to take their own feelings out of the situation, there are so many people (including the entirely new family I got through my stepmom later on!) that I wouldn't have met and things that never would have happened if my parents hadn't separated. Hell, in a weird way divorce made the whole covid aftermath easier to experience since for a long time the regular switching between houses was the only new stimulus I got regularly since I wasn't really going there besides that. Obviously divorce is never going to be a fun and easy thing to go through for the parents or the kids, but in the grand scheme of things it's basically a hiccup in comparison to the constant misery that would come out of people forcing themselves to stay together.

[@Junosensei]

"The Transformed Wife" is a mouthful tbh. Just like how we shorten "traditional wife" to "tradwife", I say we do the same to her name. =)

[@Junosensei]

;)

[@loserchips1112]

Everyone rally up for the transwife!

[@FirstNameLastName-oz5ij]

Oh that’s a good one XD

[@thespagooti]

AHHAHHHA OMGG

[@aerinaceleste]

LMFAOOO YESS

[@giuliacrespi8425]

I hope they go live in a commune and try to grow their food, in a place without the internet. They would last 6 months at best, but it's 6 whole months without them.

[@atreq]

That point drives it home. They wan't women not to have a voice but THEY want to have a voice. It's not about tradition, it's about power and control.

[@Reed5016]

I guess we know the kind of people Taylor Swift was referring to when she sang “All they keep asking me is if I’m going to be your bride. The only kind of girl they see is a one-night or a wife.”

[@lilaboxx]

That's the first thing that came into my mind too

[@momusufan964]

Does she have a background with any cult ?

[@lilaboxx]

@@momusufan964 who, Taylor?

[@someonethereQ]

@@lilaboxx im assuming they mean the transformed wife ??

[@momusufan964]

@@lilaboxx Yes, I didn't get who you were referencing to with OP, before someonehere6081's answer.

[@JoyceElFer]

"I personally never felt comfortable in the workplace. So that can only mean all women aren't suppose to work".....

[@teacatsbooks1294]

It's so funny to me when they talk about parents destroying their kid's lives by divorcing lmao until my parents got divorced our relationships were so strained, it felt like living with strangers. Thankfully they separated and now they are friends and it feels like my brother and I actually have a family. Crazy how letting people be happy actually helps them!

[@DimaRakesah]

Same. My dad became an alcoholic after marrying, and it was extremely difficult for my sister and I to live with him. Divorcing and getting out of that situation brought much needed stability to my life. My father is still an alcoholic to this day, and I am now 38. I have no doubt that if we stayed I would be incredibly unstable as an adult. People who insist that children "need fathers" are really only concerned about preserving the nuclear family, not what is actually best for the children.

[@lekiscool]

I'm working on being an ethnomusicologist. Literally I just need to collect enough degrees until people recognize me as an authority on my chosen subject.

[@onlinewhy]

Recently married man here who lived with his, at the time girlfriend, for 2 years and dated for a year before that. Also previously had happy relationships far longer than that, then moved in and broke up within 3 months both times. PLEASE live with your partner before promising them your life. Marriage feels the same as before. Living together changes everything, for better or worse.

[@Cerealkillerfish]

3:50 I’m a teen and have an abusive mom but recently my parents got divorced and I get to be with my dad most of the time. Me and my loved family literally threw a party in celebration of the divorce and went to the park and had a calm peaceful moment for once and soon will be the 1 year anniversary of the divorce, i have been wishing my mom would leave for my hole life

[@PaolinaGrosser-it3fl]

tbh as a child of divorce i couldn’t imagine how much worse things could’ve gotten had my parents stayed together

[@Eclipse210]

5:12 My aunt always knew she wanted to be a SAHM but went to college anyway because she wanted to learn. There’s nothing wrong with that and don’t listen to anyone who says otherwise.

[@lexidarling]

Hear hear. I'm a SAH, but I also have a college degree, because having options is a good thing in case I'm not able to stay home forever. Most people are are not these black and white extremes, there is middle ground between godly tradwife and educated girlboss.

[@vanessacallahan3515]

The whole point is the choice. Every human needs to make their own choice how to live and love.

[@sreyanandhini3944]

​@@vanessacallahan3515 choices arent good always there are lots of people who regret their own choices

[@sreyanandhini3944]

​@@lexidarlingyou are housewives so u shouldnt have right to speak on u tube real housewives are submissive

[@TincyM-z2m]

@@lexidarling no you should go back to kitchen rather ranting here

[@LadyRobinLockheart]

"loving your children isnt natural" UHHHHHHHHHHH you okay gramma???

[@moonlighthowling666]

for someone against abortion, she really won't shut up about it

[@bloodgutsandangelcake6079]

Despite what they will go out of their way to claim, most "pro-life" people don't actually believe abortion is murder any more than I do. Informal survey data almost always shows that "pro-life" people and pro-choice people don't differ greatly in their social reactions to abortion. Most pro-choice students in one study said that they would offer support to a friend who had an abortion, while most "pro-life" students said the exact same. Both groups also said they would not do the same to a friend who committed real murder. There also wouldn't be so many who make exceptions for rape (unless those same people would argue it also doesn't count as murder to kill like. A 20 year old. After you find out they're a product of rape, which I doubt very strongly). They also wouldn't be focused on abortion, because of maths. In the US, about 600,000 abortions are performed yearly. But 2.5 million rounds of IVF take place. Per round of IVF, an average of 8 eggs are used but only 80% get fertilised (for 80% of 8 to get fertilised, it'd have to be 6.4 fertilised eggs, but we'll round it down to 6). So 2.5 million rounds of IVF but only 500,000 births a year. 2.5 million times 6 is 15 million, meaning about 14.5 million "babies" are "killed" (according to "pro-lifers") by being discarded as part of IVF. If they were all that serious about abortion "killing innocent babies", surely they should be equally as opposed, if not more, to the industry that "kills" over 24 times more "babies", right? But no, most will never utter a single word about it and plenty of them even partake in it. People like Abby Johnson wouldn't be hailed pro-life heroes either. Abby Johnson used to work at a Planned Parenthood in Texas and had an abortion herself. Now she's supposedly a "pro-life" "advocate". Now let's think about Maxine Robinson, a woman who committed actual murder on all three of her children. Imagine if she kicked up a fuss in court about how she's "so opposed" to killing babies, preached the gospel and went on about God having mercy on her, then she tried to rush an anti-child homicide organisation (like POMC) like Abby Johnson did to Coalition for Life. Firstly, she would NOT have gotten off scot-free, she got 13 to life. At MOST she maybe would have gotten a reduced sentence, maybe 5 to 20. But secondly, do you think an organisation like POMC would take her seriously? Hell no. At MOST, they wouldn't idolise her and hail her a figurehead like the "pro-life" movement does to Abby Johnson. Unless the "pro-life" movement treats women who have had abortions the same way an organisation like POMC would treat someone who commits real child murder, take it with a grain of salt when they claim abortion is murder. Now how would you treat someone who has committed murder? Probably with fear, right? You're scared of them because you know what they're capable of. 1 in 4 women will access abortions in their lifetime, so unless "pro-lifers" are scared of all women, knowing there is a 25% chance that any of them have "committed murder", they're definitely not very convinced that it is actually murder. Be real though, how many "pro-lifers" are refusing to enter an elevator with four women in it, since statistically one of those four women has "committed murder"? How many refuse to have more than four female friends? Get real.

[@Hypnos132]

@overlordfemto7523not the same thing at all

[@Hypnos132]

@overlordfemto7523 It’s not it’s basically the opposite. It saves lives

[@bloodgutsandangelcake6079]

@overlordfemto7523 Slavery involves grave violations of the slaves' bodily autonomy. If anything, banning abortion is more similar to slavery, since both require forcing someone to use their body for a purpose to which they don't consent. Also, you definitely don't actually believe abortion is murder.

[@bonniebellebunny3414]

You’re in every single comment I’ve read, I understand that this is the only way you can get attention but this is low-key kinda pathetic lmao.

[@Stardropletwhoareyou]

🥲I can't do this no more

[@apparentlylivin]

You okay?

[@Hhhhhhhhhhhhghhhh]

i feel u, i wish u nothing but the absolute best in life❤️

[@Stardropletwhoareyou]

@apparentlylivin I meant with all this hatred, it's so sad, I'm over it. Thanks for checking in, though. I hope you're doing alright too:) Happy Thanksgiving if you celebrate it!

[@Nine_Crows_Down]

You got any good news or fun things you want to share?

[@Stardropletwhoareyou]

@Nine_Crows_Down I got a new candle, which makes me feel happy:D you happy?

[@rosecandy117]

I've stitched a few of her videos on tiktok, and a lot of her videos are just basically excusing predatory men. Like, its so hard to understand why people still think like this in 2023, where there is so much support for everyone who doesn't fit this out of date standard. Also, I'm sending good vibes and hoping you'll be alright

[@isabellaakl6794]

I’ve heard about her before and I can’t understand how she thinks like that while being a woman

[@nondescriptcat5620]

easy, she isn't a woman, she's a demon wearing a poorly fitting human skin suit.

[@professorfoxtrot]

You mean Kiwi? She doesn't do a lot of thinking

[@isabellaakl6794]

@@professorfoxtrot Looks like you are the one not thinking. I obviously didn’t mean Kiwi. Also, if you disagree with her that’s fine by me but it’s a complete lie that she doesn’t think, her points are pretty rational, logical and well thought out.

[@DimaRakesah]

Some women only know how to get approval by bringing other women down.

[@professorfoxtrot]

@@isabellaakl6794 Her points are erratic and emotional - opposite of rational. Case in point - "girl math" is the opposite of math. In fact, it refers to decision making devoid of any math whatsoever.

[@kaya7661]

13:48 "Love skips a generation" xD I want that on a shirt

[@DocKrazy]

Not all women's wrongs deserve support. Example: the transformed wife.

[@beastofburdon]

My entire life I have said that I’m grateful that my parents divorced when I was 2. I have zero memories of them arguing and I never missed my life when they were married, because I didn’t know any different.

[@cynny_mini4927]

Hearing you talk about how relationships are so much more than just trying to find your marriage partner is so validating ❤ I've been trying to explain to my friends how some relationships are just meant to be short and you learn so much from another person that even if you don't marry them, the time you spent together was worth it and it will change you forever !

[@alejandracervantes7837]

Hearing all their xtweets sound so annoying. I'm far better without a dad cause he only left me anxiety and depression. Like they blame women for divorce, but heck at least I'm happy cause my future is coming on.

[@remember_this1336]

3:45 this is a point that hits me really hard because my parents' marriage really sucked and they tried to split when I was 10 but decided to stick together for the kids. Ever since then they hated each other and oozed with passive aggression all the time they were in proximity to each other. To say this affected me is an understatement, I avoided staying at home and I still feel uneasy at times when I stay at a new one, even when nobody is around. My parents only separated when I got into university at the age of 17. I grew up walking on eggshells and unable to deal with conflict of any kind. Divorce would be so much better than this

[@kierstenburtz8442]

I misread the title as "Women's Rights and Women's Wrongs" (I know that is nowhere near the title of the video. Due to a lot of things, mostly ADHD symptoms, I often mix up words in a sentence or letters in a word and/or autofill what my brain thinks the sentence should say etc. I realized after clicking the video that's not the title. Just thought it was funny so I thought I'd share.)

[@NoNeedForLungs]

if she was a “trad wife” she wouldn’t be speaking on social. I think she has to walk the talk not only talk the talk

[@thatcreepyfangirlstalkerch3572]

I would like to remind everyone that Lori has, or has had, a brain tumor. This should explain her wack back tracking tweets.

[@Mud.lemons]

You know, I think it’s so funny that these “women” are against having rights but these women need to realise that if they didn’t have rights that they wouldn’t be able to be on these podcast and shit like that 😂, I mean we still barely have any rights but it’s a little bit better then from back then

[@Atlas__Orion]

I got an ad for a 50% off a daily wire subscription on this video😂

[@realsmosher53]

Response to the beginning: TALK ABOUT WOMEN!!! It's not weird for you to make more videos talking about women bc you are presenting fem(?) but it's very important to talk about the wrongs we do to each other as women in order to strengthen and solidify our female societal bonds.

[@The_Ruf_Rud]

I believe in the fact that not everyone should have the right to tweet because theyre tearing others down. But thats just me 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@pinkgiraffe378]

Thank you for talking about "useless degrees", I think as a society it's so sad that we've boiled education and especially university down to solely be for getting a job. There's so much value to be found in learning and studying something that you're passionate about.

[@redredrumxo]

My parents didn't divorce until i was 18 and it was absolutely awful. Constant screaming, my mom was an addict, both parents were neglectful and i lived in basically a hoarder home. My dad was able to learn and grow after they finally split, but my mom never could and succumbed to her addictions eventually. I wish my parents had divorced before the point where my mom confided in me that she wanted to split, and chose not to.

[@emilythomas9157]

I’m so tired of Christian or “traditional” women claiming that people who had to make the difficult decision to terminate their pregnancy, didn’t do it out of love. So many people put their own feelings aside just to make that decision. People make that decision to avoid putting trauma and difficulties on a child that didn’t ask to be born. People have made that decision because they know they cannot give that future child the life they deserve, and that so often means not being selfish. No child would choose to live in poverty and a bad environment or without their needs being met, if they had the option to have a different life, but the ONLY people who can make that decision is the person bringing that life into the world. The women bringing others down for making that hard decision are way less loving and way more selfish than they accuse others of being.

[@kellyolson5547]

I normally agree with most things you say, although I’d like to point out that not all parents (even women) have an easy time loving their children. It’s not natural for everyone, I know some women who have children and their journey of post partum depression is having a hard time innately loving the creature who caused their body and mind immense trauma. Many women struggle with the secret they keep from the majority of society the regret in having their child. Not to say they abuse them if they feel the regret, but it’s just not the most loving relationship for ALL parents across the board.

[@SarastistheSerpent]

That’s a great point

[@exhaustedmomfriend342]

She did say that tho

[@jordanb3778]

bring back learning just for the sake of learning and having it not be able to financially cripple you for life!

[@claffert]

Totally agree. Education is never a waste of time. The problem is we've turned it into an investment (and requirement for employment) and the value of an education based on what its economic returns are. Education has great value to people personally and to our society as a whole. It seems foolish to me for us to gatekeep education based on cost, as well as to say some types of education are more valuable than others based on the income they can help create. Bring the cost of education down so that there is no such thing as a "waste" of education.

[@geraintthomas4343]

So many of her tweets fall into the purview of "conservatives threatening us with a good time, again" 😂

[@Laralikesstuff]

19:37 This makes me so mad Like, Tay is a strong, independent, rich woman and she can date whoever she wants for as long as she wants, its none of our buisness

[@kirstennn_k]

i’m honestly loving all the like women videos (if that’s how you’d put it😭) bc like personally why talk ab men unless it’s ab kpop idols like…

[@feliciasjoberg9886]

"Divorce is very difficult, especially on the kid. Of course, I'm the result of my parents having stayed together, so you never know." - George Costanza

[@Amely2014]

Honestly, I don`t think your videos became worse or anything and I wish u a quick healing from ptsd episode! Have been there and reflecting a lot, neuro-art helped me a lot and Yoga, I just hope you will give yourself good care now~ I definitely will support your patreon when I get stable income, I love your voice and your videos are perfectly neutral, u don`t trying to offend anyone or be dramatic on camera and it giving such a bestie discussion at book-coffee shop vibe sort of thing! We love you!

[@Scatscar1985]

Don't worry about it, QW! No one expects you to talk men all the time!

[@xXendless_shrimp_tourXx]

I love the femme centred content, i don’t see it as bringing women down more as defending femmes from shitty people

[@Elle_Like_The_Letter]

My childhood was ruined cuz my parents didn't divorce!!!!!!

[@thelonelygamer361]

I'd say that having a wholesome/positive subject matter would probably make making videos easier, but I also know that apparently the algorithm doesn't tend to spread those as far :(

[@bluuezythree]

why are women against women? i've never gotten this

[@catrakitten]

Me neither. Maybe they're insecure or are desperate for male validation.

[@MohammedAli-hl4mr]

sadly malinchism is found among all communities

[@aceclop]

It's either they have super deep insecurity or they know they can make money off of appealing to sexist guys.

[@LunarArsonist]

prob internalized misogyny

[@nondescriptcat5620]

pick-me shit mostly.

[@elizawright1168]

If my mom had divorced my dad i might not have settled for such shitty relationships as an adult

[@DimaRakesah]

"I don't want to vote because I am a woman, so no women should vote!" Or like... you could just not vote and leave the rest of us alone? Less conservatives voting is fine by me if this is the kind of shit you're going to push for.

[@DimaRakesah]

@overlordfemto7523 Are you ok?

[@DimaRakesah]

@overlordfemto7523 Sorry to hear things are not ok. Not sure why you feel women shouldn't vote or why you seem so hostile about it but hope things improve for you.

[@DimaRakesah]

@overlordfemto7523 Sorry to hear things are not ok. Not sure why you feel women shouldn't vote or why you seem so hostile about it but hope things improve for you.

[@DimaRakesah]

@overlordfemto7523 I can obviously read, since I am responding to you. I am just not really interested in playing into your anger. It seems to me like it's warping your views. Whatever has made you this combative and desperate to justify removing voting from half the population I really hope you get some help with that.

[@DimaRakesah]

@overlordfemto7523 I thought we were discussing women's voting rights? Why are you changing the topic?

[@Fallout2Forever]

I wanna thank you for the intro explaining why your videos are this way right now. Mental Health is indeed a factor in so many things.

[@brexvz]

i just really wanted to say how much we all appreciate you, i always love every video you put out and you’re just such an amazing person that i look forward to watching and supporting every day! you work so hard to put these videos out and i just wanted to tell you how much of an impact that you have on the queer community and just every person out there that enjoys commentary. boots the house down mama all day

[@oceanspace7671]

I'm so glad my mom divorced my dad because it was terrifying. Him being with any woman (and alcohol) is terrifying. Things weren't magically fixed immediately but things got better

[@Spookky_cereal]

The kiki has posted it is a very good day

[@witchyenvi]

I saw that you said hi first before editing your message 👁 👄 👁

[@Spookky_cereal]

@@witchyenvi i did you caught me there

[@Castkett4ever]

My parents separated when I was 9 but I wish they had done it sooner because I saw some shit that has damaged my view of love and relationships. Divorce is far better than seeing abuse

[@pinkgiraffe378]

Thank you for calling taylor and joe's relationship loving as far as we can see based on the songs she wrote about him, bc you're so right and sometimes relationships end and that's fine. It doesn't make them a bad person. As a swiftie, I'm fed up with switfies hating on joe lately.

[@Songmorning]

I almost spat out my water when you said "love skips a generation" in reference to her talk about what's "natural" 😂

[@freckledsunshine333]

I like your content very much and appreciate the things you talk about. Sending loving vibes that this hard time is soon a memory.

[@emmimagers8807]

i got a daily wire ad during this video 😭😭

[@SarastistheSerpent]

Make sure to report the ad to KZbin if you see it again

[@rolfs2165]

I think there absolutely are worthless degrees. They come from degree mills whose only purpose is that you can say you got a degree (but you didn't actually learn anything) - or are in utter humbug fields like homeopathy. Probably not the "useless degrees" Bob Wallace thinks of, though.

[@ohnoohno25]

slugs for salt :/

[@RayzOfMelanin]

She's giving Mrs. White from CARRIE(1976)

[@sava-smth]

"we were created to be keepers in our homes" well maybe _you_ were but I'm built different 🪰

[@sarahallegra6239]

I’ve been enjoying the women content! It’s a good balance to the more male-centered content. There are things to critique and are worth discussing all around. Please take care of your mental health and do whatever kind of videos you need to!

[@net_has]

gotta love when people say that having sex or cohabitation before marriage will make the man not want to get married because he's already getting "wife privileges" because all it takes is a single example of a man who still wanted to marry his girlfriend after moving in/having sex with her to prove them wrong lol

[@janel.8921]

There was a saying, “Why buy a cow, if you can get free milk?” Yes, people said that.

[@LilSlushVamp]

I'm enjoying these transformed wife vods. So no complaints from me. I'm sorry you are having a hard time currently. Hope you rest well and keep taking care of yourself. ♡♡♡ 🍵

[@saamnoorally1604]

im so distracted by the stuffies slowly falling in the back 💀💀💀

[@diamondgirl698]

I just noticed the Star Burst crochet granny square 🤩🤩🤩 I been crocheting those for days now

[@476f7474]

I actually love that your change in subject because I really enjoy your channel but, well, (c)ptsd is a fuckboy.

[@XxPrettyBoyCosplayxX]

Holy Cow- Here with in two mins!

[@williamschaefer282]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@williamschaefer282]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

[@williamschaefer282]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@technicallyrickylol]

I think the funniest part is, not in the video, but the fact that I got an ad for memberships for the Daily Wire before starting this video LMAO

[@PenneyLan]

These women feel like respect and support a very orange, blonde political figure

[@suspiciousstar7547]

Hmm I wonder who 🤔...

[@PenneyLan]

@@suspiciousstar7547 it’s quite hard to guess isn’t it

[@diamondgirl698]

I just love your pfp I love possums so much 💞

[@PenneyLan]

@@diamondgirl698 tysm !!!!

[@alexisplatt4550]

I’ve been a subscriber for over a year - or so I thought. Ever since you’ve been mentioning that 60% of your viewers are unsubscribed, I have been double checking to make sure I’m subscribed, and to my surprise, I’m not! At least five videos in a row now, I have to re-subscribe 🤔 so hopefully that’s some kind of glitch KZbin can fix and get those numbers where they’re supposed to be 😌

[@ratking9568]

Just wanna say that I LOVE your hair, how did you get it done like that?

[@arcadiaberger9204]

If loving your children doesn't feel natural to you, hand them off to someone else. I'll take them. Try having a career instead. If your career doesn't work out, try a different career. Maybe try having children again, or try being an auntie. People are all different.

[@hodgepodgemagic]

I would love to see videos from you about happy lighthearted wholesome things! Not everything has to be awful all the time 😭

[@professorfoxtrot]

She should shave her armpits 🪒