So true. I totally agree. These advices(think as your own mother or think as your own daughter) are not practical. Every family is suffering because of these impractical advices.
Oka mage husband ta una, danuth eyage amma karanne eka. Mage marriage eka tiyenne mage iwasima nisa. Nathnam may wenakota kadila. Hama magulatama agili gahanawa. Husband Dan mata mukuth kiyanne na wena dewal. Ai eyata mataka na , e siddi mata kiwada nadda kiyala. Api Australia hitiyath eyage amma nikan puthage girl friend wage. Mama nikan gedara servernt. wisa podda podda oluwata danawa. Eyalage patte nadayo pawa dannawa eka. Hamoma koyanne husband ge amma marenna oney lamaita hariyanna. Anoma Aunty dakke bahirin witarai. Prashnayata muna dena kenai danne eka atta thathwaya
Really appreciate this topic I look after my daughterlaw like my own daughter .She treats me more than a mother .My son is the only son and he is the my life but she never shows anything when he does everything for me I always tell my son to do everything for her .and she makes my son look after us so well .She is a blessing to our family .And both my daughters treat her like there own sister as the sisters and brother are very loving .
Aunty, Thank you so much for your kind message. My mother in law is totally different. She told me not to called her “Amma”, she doesn’t like us visiting them for a holiday. Even if we were in Sri Lanka, she wanted us to visit all the relatives and friends for two weeks. To be honest when we visited last time we booked an apartment to stay. Sad, specially my husband being only child, but nothing else to do…
@leesha70948 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Aunty lots of love ❤ i have been living with my mother-in-law for 3 years now . We are happy eachother.Girls listen...your bf or husband's mother. Look like your mother. Don't listen to what your friends and relatives say. You must love her. Get used to it and live happily with her. Accept anything with joy. Be kind enough to talk to each other when problems arise. I highly agree with Aunty Anoma.Get used to having a cup of tea with her once a day. Go out with her and buy her something she likes. Me and my Mother-in-law are used to it .❤❤❤ Have a Fabulous day Anoma Aunty❤❤ lots of love ❤
@casildarajaratnam91088 ай бұрын
Wow you need a round of applause for this video. Such an enlightenment and truthful situation that you spoke of Anoma . Thanks
@indranigunasekara99538 ай бұрын
Dear Anoma, I am a 79 year old Mother with two sons. My elder son married after a long standing affair of 22 years. Her parents vehemently opposed to the marriage and finally agreed to the marriage when the daughter was 44 years. I gave my consent to the marriage unreservedly because I loved my son and desired only his happiness. She treats me exactly the same way as you narrated. To be precise she said she didn’t marry a whole family, but only my son and went to live with her parents My son is torn between two worlds and it is agonising to see him suffer. They have no children. Her mother encourages her behaviour. Her actions puzzled me as I am a person loved by all and sundry, my family my in-laws my friends and all those who happened to come into my life..
ලමයි ඉන්නම ඔනීද අම්මෙක්ගෙයි/නැන්දමමා පුතාගෙයි බැදීම තේරැම් ගන්න ආන්ටී? I like your advices but not that above statement. Always everything has two side of stories. I feel we all should have less expectations. Then we all can live happily ❤. I personally really like and enjoy your videos. But this one has some points which are not quite right. Anyway good luck with your work.
Mage nandamma mata budukenek wage ❤ eyage puthata wada mata adarei amma mage laga nandamma kiyana wachane na ayath magema amma❤❤❤
@shanikafernando62467 ай бұрын
Thank you Aunty ❤.mama marri karala 18 years wenawa.math ada wenakal mage mahaththayge ammata adaren salakanawa.eyath mata godak adarei ❤️🤗
@asithasudesh898 ай бұрын
Aunty, thank you so much for sharing this episode. Every word of it is so valuable for our lives. We live in London and if you come for a visit next time please please have one day for your fans here..I bet there's so many like me. Thanks again, Aunty, for doing this remarkable deed. Lots of love Ashini.
Whole issue startes when the mother cannot accept that the son she gave birth to has started loveing another female she does not want to share her son. When the son is the youngest in the family or. Only child it becomes very worst . She mother in law thinks she owns the son the wife think she owns the husband thats when the trouble starts and ends ...live seperate away in a house of your own .
@shanisilva63898 ай бұрын
However, the venomous party, won't stop reacting.
@AnomasKitchen8 ай бұрын
@cookiemonstertana297 yes, you made a great point.
@chaturaniniroshika11378 ай бұрын
Now a days that not practical, when live apart from her, she definitely called every time. Even when couple in bed. Some mother in laws have big mental problem specially who having son.
There are two sides of every family problem but that doesn’t mean both sides deserve equal blame. We consider getting married as our second birth. It also means young brides are kind of vulnerable, try to learn everything and everything is new. If mother-in-law who is very established in life try to emotionally harm young bride, then mother-in-law deserves 99% of the blame. There is no exception. This tradition of saying “both side should know “ should be stopped. Generations of young women suffered physically, emotionally and psychologically because of blaming both sides and most of mother-in-laws use it to continue the emotional abuse towards the daughter-in-law. . Their
@priyafonseka83728 ай бұрын
100% true! Exactly my thoughts… 👍👍👍Can tell enough and more stories how mother in laws have done unthinkable harm to very young brides who are just starting their life…
@sakunthalaudugampola12218 ай бұрын
100% true
@isurigamage67038 ай бұрын
100% true. In laws can create a living hell from the day one of a marriage. They never consider the new bride as their own family.
Mage mother-in-law eyata lelila 3 denek innaw podima putha bande mn eya hariyata mage ammala gedr awama podi podi wadraki maha loku karala mage ammalata kiyala hariyata hith ridduwa mata mage baba hambenna innakotwath kema ekak uyala dunnh kotonma eyala puthata ape wardi kiyala eywath manasikawa wattuwa dn api inne wenama godak sathutin nandamma ekka ekata inna ba anoma aunty❤
@dreamsshoeland95318 ай бұрын
Athatama harima sathutui mama kathawa iwara wenakan ahuwa. Oba thumiyage hama wada satahanakma mama balana kenek a wagema godak kama haduwa. Mage. Asama puduin aka thamai annasi puduin aka. Harima nihathamani vedehata hama deyma therenna kiala denawa Api kama hadala gedara kattiyath ekka rasa vedenawa gidak pin budusaranai mama yatiyantota Lalani Priyangika
@sandamalierupika49058 ай бұрын
Dear Anoma ,im very happy your podcast program .its absolutely true .im agreed 100%.go ahead .
@jinibell46497 ай бұрын
Listening from Luxembourg. I shared your video with siblings, nieces, nephews and cousins. I love your cooking videos miss Anoma, and I enjoy the advice you’re giving, which is for the young and old. ❤
@duleekasajeewani55948 ай бұрын
Ow mata pulluwan.mn kawadawath mage nandamma ekka wachenekinwath wenasak karagena na.aya mata salakuwe duwekta wage.math ahemai mage amma taramwath aya mata wachenekinwat banala na.mn ayata kiwe nanda kiyala.ath aya akata kamatei.aya harima hoda kenek.puthatawath mata wachanayak kiyana dun na.mage paththamai gaththe kawadath.ath aya ape awasanawata ikmanatama apiwa dala giya.dan matak wenakotath dukai.ath aya asaneepa wela idi mn ayata mata puluwn uparimayen salakuwa.a ka nisa mata sathututu wena puluwan.mn ayata mage yuthukama kala kiyala.oya kiyana katawa sahatika aththa unti.❤❤
@anujakarunaratne72628 ай бұрын
All these issues are existing Only in Asian countries. In this European countries they are all like friends and sometimes I wonder why our people have this issue. Very advisable explanation
@dindon88498 ай бұрын
Not always. Many of my work colleagues always complain about their inlaws and they are europeans.
@ajanthawickramasinghe73018 ай бұрын
Harima wadagath mathtrukawak. Mamath kamathima na aunty kiyanawata. AMMA kiyana wachanayatama danena senehasa kopamanada ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I will never call anyone else mother than my own mother. That's simply impossible. Just accept that your mother-in-law is not your mother then it's much easier to accept the reality & live peacefully. Treat them right but keep the boundaries😂
Aunty mama mage nanda ammata mage amma wagema salakuwa . Kisima aduwak wenasak kale na Habei eya mata mama karapu kisima deyakata kisima Agayak dunne Naha. Hama welema mama e family ekata Kochchara Honda kalath kochchara Hondin inna haduwath mage nanda amma mata salakuwe pita kenek vidihata.
Dan husband kamathida thawa kenekta husband kiyanawa. E wage me loke eka ammai thathai wadihitiyanta garukirima wenama deyak hamotama respect karanna oni echarai
@shereenjaleel31038 ай бұрын
Thank you v much for the v interesting and informative video Aunty. ❤I agree to all that you said.
@mahindadharmadasa10178 ай бұрын
me kathawanam hugak nandammalage kathawak 😢
@pabodimadumali71008 ай бұрын
Thank you for the valuable piece of advice Anoma Aunty ❤ I wish you for a speedy recovery 🙏❤
@roshanaradassanayake18448 ай бұрын
Thank you aunty for your valuable advices. So enlightening. Get well soon aunty.
@ratnayakamudiyanselage35436 ай бұрын
Mata me katawa sampurnenma ahanna ba unty .mn aurdu 9i masa 7K purawatama mage demaupiyanta sahodarayanta wada eyalata adaren salakuwa eth e ammata ona une eyage puthage salli vitarai mage nandammata salli denakam hamadamat mamat mage mahattayat hodai nodunna data hama dema iwarai..mn wedding eka ganna plan karaddi e amma kiwwe wedding ganna ba mage mahattayata eyage sahodarayanta tawat uthukam karanna ona kiyala e hama demat karala igana ganna kanna bonna hama demat karala tiyana mohotaka .danata aurudu 10k api marry kara habai mata mn hina dakapu manamaliyek wenna bari una e daruwangen eyata wenna ona uthum vitarak eya oluwe tiyan unna nisa daruwektat eyagen wenna ona uthukam kiyala deyak tiyanwa kiyala amataka karala eth mn attama mae mahattayata adarei mahattayat ehemai e nisa mn mage hina mage hita assema hangan mata manamaliyak wenna onna kamak na pote athsan karala nikan imu kiyala hita hadagatta .e kiwwa sahodara sahdariyatat rassa karanna pulwan wayas wala aya .anika e amma gedarata wela nikan inna kenek kisima ithurawak na tatta seaman kenek maseta laksha 6k hoyanawa eth hama tenatama naya ewa beranna ona mage mahattaya .hama nandamma kenekma amma kenek wenna unty e wagema daruwek bihikaranne anagate e daruwagen hamba karan kanna balannm e jivite e daruwata nodi inna eka hodai .aurudu 10kata passe man ada wenakota amma kenek wenna inne e de danagena e amma dan mn ekka kata karanna mokada mage mahataya dan eyage daruwata karanna ona uthukam patan aran nisa .mage hina nathi karan duragamanak avit aurudu 10kata passe chuti patiyek bade tiyan asawen hina mawaddi mage nandamma mata dunna gift eka e .loku katawak keti karala kiwwe unty . puluwannm mekema anit pettatat video ekak danna mn hitanwa mn wage tawa aya athi kiyala