ANSWERING GOOGLES MOST ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT AUTISM

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@laurawhelan5153
@laurawhelan5153 3 жыл бұрын
"Can autism go away" "Yes. Don't have children"
@queenmeowmeow0983
@queenmeowmeow0983 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@laurawilliamson888
@laurawilliamson888 3 жыл бұрын
Yes they can leave and be adopted by a loving family
@katharinamaerbacher2554
@katharinamaerbacher2554 3 жыл бұрын
„What is normal? Normal is a setting on the washing machine“- my new fav quote.
@novavixon4071
@novavixon4071 3 жыл бұрын
I was looking for thisss yess! I love it !
@ratkid4560
@ratkid4560 3 жыл бұрын
I'm p sure it's an old ashley purdy quote
@maya_is_a_meme7273
@maya_is_a_meme7273 3 жыл бұрын
If she makes merch with that quote on it im going to buy it the minute it comes out!
@sammyw4mmy
@sammyw4mmy 2 жыл бұрын
that’s amazing omg
@FemboyBlake
@FemboyBlake 3 жыл бұрын
"Why do autistic people rock" Because that's how awesome we are.😎
@chloeshayden
@chloeshayden 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely turning ‘feelings are for the weak and for the neurotypical’ into my next merch tbh
@megcoles6390
@megcoles6390 3 жыл бұрын
P L E A S E
@tundraart2693
@tundraart2693 3 жыл бұрын
I would love that.... also can you make some merch that are less girly I would love that! I’m genderfluid but am closeted so to everyone who doesn’t know I’m a man and would love to get some of your merch but it’s all more aimed at girls imo. You are an amazing creator and deserve a bigger platform!!
@nancyhi8357
@nancyhi8357 3 жыл бұрын
Do it
@coragreer4426
@coragreer4426 3 жыл бұрын
Omg yeeeessss I need that
@bowers8242
@bowers8242 3 жыл бұрын
Pre-ordering now; pls accompany it with a pisstake 'Autism $peaks' style promo video à la 'I Am Autism'. WE ARE THE ROBOTS AND WE'RE COMING FOR YOUR FAMILY 😂
@wetboy72
@wetboy72 3 жыл бұрын
My favourite quote. You’ve met one autistic person, you’ve met one autistic person.
@curlypuff
@curlypuff 3 жыл бұрын
"Undiagnosed people know they're autistic, they know they don't fit in, they're different" AAHH SO TRUE AND THE ALIEN THING, BLEEHH. trying to get a diagnosis now at 21, thank you for speaking about this stuff ❤
@SestraVixen
@SestraVixen 3 жыл бұрын
yesss! Never thought I was an alien - prob bc my whole family is like this in some form or another - but not like everyone else, oh yeah. Def understood I was different.
@griffenharbolt5629
@griffenharbolt5629 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite quote ever, said by Chole, "Feelings are for the weak and for the neurotypical" lmao. I kid you not, when I told someone that I'm Autistic, I was asked, "Do you experience emotions"? I was puzzled by that question
@FemboyBlake
@FemboyBlake 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I think everyone is just emotional but some others don't want to express it.
@Dancestar1981
@Dancestar1981 3 жыл бұрын
We do experience emotions it just takes us longer to process them and understand ourselves
@brycewhite2273
@brycewhite2273 3 жыл бұрын
Best response to that question is: Does an all consuming rage to strangle you to death count as an emotion? B.
@fenixmeaney6170
@fenixmeaney6170 3 жыл бұрын
It amazes me that we're the ones thought of as incapable of empathy when it's the neurotypicals who are unable to empathize with us enough to realize that we do
@mayafishman4322
@mayafishman4322 3 жыл бұрын
When I told someone I was autistic, they said “you seem fine”. I ABANDONED that person, I was so mad at them. I was going to try and educate them about autism, but they obviously weren’t willing to learn anything, so I got rid of them.
@galacticmia8371
@galacticmia8371 3 жыл бұрын
When she mentioned that undiagnosed children know they're different, but just don't know why. That's what I've always felt, though I'm not diagnosed with autism I find autism very relatable.
@kaitlincoulter1811
@kaitlincoulter1811 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t get diagnosed with autism until I was 18 after fighting to be tested for 3 years I’ve also been diagnosed with adhd so they were hesitant to say I had autism bc the “symptoms” can overlap
@bowers8242
@bowers8242 3 жыл бұрын
"Can autistic children become normal? I bloody well hope not!" YES MATE ✊🏽✊🏻✊🏾✊✊🏿✊🏼
@evea2553
@evea2553 3 жыл бұрын
I think that the thinking that people on the spectrum don't feel empathy comes from misunderstanding of what empathy is. There are actually three types of empathy: emotional, somatic and cognitive. Belief that we, people on the spectrum lack empathy in general, stems from the fact that we may struggle with cognitive empathy, which is basically ability to perspective-taking, understand another's people perspective. But even if cognitive empathy isn't our strength, we still can feel emotions of others (somatic, emotional empathy).
@sannedebondt7007
@sannedebondt7007 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, alot of people think not having empathy is not having the ability to be kind and caring.
@ViktoriaMagrey
@ViktoriaMagrey 3 жыл бұрын
Emotions are weird. I'm generally quite calm and even-tempered but when I feel I feel STRONGLY. Like REALLY. STRONGLY. To the point where I can't describe it, it's so intense. And it can be a little embarrassing. I just saw computer parts, like, just the boxes I got to see, at a store yesterday (computers are one of my major hyperfixations) and I started _crying._ They were so beautiful
@nietoperzzszafy2996
@nietoperzzszafy2996 3 жыл бұрын
As damn emotional rollercoaster I can confirm, emotions are weird. Few days ago I nearly started crying because ,,oMg I fEeL sO aLiVe AnD tHiS fLoWeR iS rEalLy AmAzInG (trows flower in hair) i'M gReEk NyMpH nO oNe WaTcHeS iT's EvEnInG IT'S SOMETHING LIKE ROMANTICISM". I hope no one saw this...
@aprayingatheist2378
@aprayingatheist2378 2 жыл бұрын
@@nietoperzzszafy29966 months later and here I am seeing this random Greek nymphs confession
@Shana_Fana87
@Shana_Fana87 2 жыл бұрын
I cry for everything it’s so embarrassing. Better when your a girl. People over look it as hormones.
@Phoenix_flame
@Phoenix_flame 3 жыл бұрын
"We're not the ones that need to change, it's society" facts. Also totally relate to the part about normal seeming boring like why would anyone wanna be normal?
@QuidamByMoonlight
@QuidamByMoonlight 3 жыл бұрын
“Can autism be prevented? Yes, by not having children.” You’re hilarious!
@milliem9141
@milliem9141 3 жыл бұрын
I have aspergers and have always felt the out of sight, out of mind thing with people. Thanks for talking about it!
@SestraVixen
@SestraVixen 3 жыл бұрын
Me, when it comes to friends and family dying 😣 "They're just, like, on vacation somewhere, without access to their phone or internet.."
@angharad.9743
@angharad.9743 3 жыл бұрын
Feeling intense empathy and not knowing how to express it is one of the things I hate about being neurodivergent. It's so painful when my friends are upset and I can't work out how to help or even show them that I care.
@sararush6951
@sararush6951 3 жыл бұрын
I recently found out I have ADHD and I was always called weird when I was a kid. I always took it as a compliment because who wants to be “normal”? That’s boring.
@barbarradevlin9111
@barbarradevlin9111 3 жыл бұрын
This has to be my favorite outfit and makeup that you’ve done for a video yet! The soft pinks and soft greens really pop!
@eloisedevant1127
@eloisedevant1127 3 жыл бұрын
I NEED merch that says “Normal is a setting on a washing machine”
@georgerobins4110
@georgerobins4110 2 жыл бұрын
LMAO HER FACE AT “Can autistic people drive?” I could tell she was gonna talk about her various car accidents Love ya Chloe lol
@clarah6318
@clarah6318 3 жыл бұрын
I honestly didn’t think I was different until I found out about my ASD diagnosis.
@aaronexists4308
@aaronexists4308 3 жыл бұрын
You are a more chaotic version of me and it's amazing.
@alexrose20
@alexrose20 3 жыл бұрын
back in 4th grade me and my friend would say normal is weird 🙃
@polygawn
@polygawn 2 ай бұрын
The empathy part is so true, there’s so many times where someone else around me is crying and I just start crying with them instead of comforting them??? Like I just can’t take seeing other people in distress I have to like cry about it
@millicentduke6652
@millicentduke6652 3 жыл бұрын
Me: [wondering if I also have autism or if it’s all just ADHD] Princess Aspian: [just vibing] Me: [vibing along] Wow, I really resonate with this girl. Princess Aspian: I have ADHD and autism! Me: [surprised pikachu face]
@mic6074
@mic6074 3 жыл бұрын
Autism often will have a lot of "comorbitities"! So it's really common to have anxiety, depression, ADHD, OCD, and other things like that that go along with Autism! C:
@missy_bambee_
@missy_bambee_ 3 жыл бұрын
Adhd & Autism can go hand in hand a lot. So you could! I have autism (also ocd) and will be getting tested to see if I have adhd! :D I probably have a lot of disabilities lol-
@ch4lk250
@ch4lk250 3 жыл бұрын
yeah! I think there might be a chance i have both or have autism instead of adhd that i thought it was for a long time
@heatherjosefina534
@heatherjosefina534 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to a lot of people on the neourdivergent spectrum and with a lot of criteria that I’ve researched but I can’t tell if that’s just because of my anxiety or depression🤷🏻‍♀️😂
@hayliecassidy711
@hayliecassidy711 3 жыл бұрын
Me like 8 months ago lol. Then I got a diagnosis and now I'm vibing with both.
@Autistic_Pixie
@Autistic_Pixie 3 жыл бұрын
I 👏🏻 LOVE 👏🏻 THIS! 👏🏻 Own those neurotypicals girl!
@ergiethewormie6167
@ergiethewormie6167 3 жыл бұрын
I love you butterfly shirt so much!!!
@ergiethewormie6167
@ergiethewormie6167 3 жыл бұрын
Your*
@reneem9061
@reneem9061 3 жыл бұрын
not me going off to google all this stuff to see what the people who googled it saw
@hayliecassidy711
@hayliecassidy711 3 жыл бұрын
Can autistic ppl drive? Yes? Can ppl people with autism AND adhd drive? I mean legally we can.
@Jtyoutube2467
@Jtyoutube2467 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I drive everywhere why wouldn’t we
@caitie226
@caitie226 3 жыл бұрын
Like people asking me why I'm not relaxing behind the wheel and just THIS IS A VERY DANGEROUS ACTIVITY OKAY
@hayliecassidy711
@hayliecassidy711 3 жыл бұрын
@@caitie226 I have 1 specific drive that I love and I dont get to do it anymore so now I just barely drive. Or if I do drive I bring my dog to calm me down
@Moana_moo
@Moana_moo 3 жыл бұрын
I got adhd and i’m supposed to get my driver license in summer(turn 18) and i’m terrified. Like i am scared bcuz my focus can shift in any minute
@strictnonconformist7369
@strictnonconformist7369 Жыл бұрын
Like Soylent Green Soda, it varies from person to person for taste: how well do they drive? I got an ASD diagnosis in 2002, an ADHD diagnosis added to that last month, I’ve been driving for about 33 years now, perhaps I lost track a little. Most of the cases where I’ve been a driver and an accident has occurred involved me and my cars at a stop, of all things. Once I got t-boned by a car I turned in front of that was impossible to see as it was coming straight out of the setting sun, so I was blinded. I’ve accidentally minorly scratched some parked cars. Once, driving my sister’s car, someone insisted on occupying the same lane I was in while I was there, I had the right of way, as they turned into me. I’ve done multiple road trips of several thousand miles without incidents so far as any real import, unless you consider speeding ;) September 2022 I put about 6,000 miles on my car on one spanning from the Seattle area to Michigan and back, and points along the way, including driving some interesting ungrated mountain gravel roads 8 miles from downtown Boulder, Colorado: simply ended up with a dirty car. My older autistic sister, whom I suspect may also have ADHD? She has problems with riding a bicycle due to the stresses that she doesn’t handle well. She’s never driven nor (to the best of my knowledge) expressed an interest in trying to learn. She’s more rigid in many ways than I am. She can’t handle stress nearly as well, and is too slow to respond to many things happening for it to make sense for her to drive a car. Myself, when I’m conscious, I don’t think in pictures without a HUGE amount of concentration to reduce the amount of interference from my senses, though I can do it readily in a lucid dreaming scenario, and sometimes I’m in the weird in-between state of incorporating outside senses such as sound into dreams and creating visuals to match, with perhaps a small lip synch issue. I suspect my sister consciously thinks in pictures, but I never thought to ask.
@Princess_Pixie
@Princess_Pixie 3 жыл бұрын
God I love your energy so much. I’m rarely hyperactive like that I’m more inattentive 24/7
@vivir339
@vivir339 3 жыл бұрын
Back in high school, I would actually google stuff about autism to see if other people understood my diagnosis. The results I got was honestly the most depressing stuff I’ve ever read. Seriously, would NOT recommend doing this to anyone trying to find self acceptance. Thank you for spreading the truth to other people who might not understand.
@9crutnacker985
@9crutnacker985 3 жыл бұрын
Oh ! normal is a SETTING on the washing machine - had listen to that a couple of times (for those who find this sort of humor difficult I thought Chloe said sitting...)
@lyricswritinggirl
@lyricswritinggirl 3 жыл бұрын
the one from 7:25 forward: YES GIRL
@elladoggy9946
@elladoggy9946 3 жыл бұрын
Could you do Google's most asked questions on adhd. I love this video
@specterson
@specterson 3 жыл бұрын
I thought that by "why do autistic people rock" they meant like... rock-star rock and was so happy. Life is disappointing.
@nl3087
@nl3087 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@kombiniertanzbekki
@kombiniertanzbekki 3 жыл бұрын
In Germany they are calling it aspergers beacause in germany the Diagnosis criteria is the icd10 wich is the old one with asperger Syndrom and kanner syndrom. That is the reason because aspergers is still in most of their minds because the icd11 isn‘t there yet which will be containing the new definitions.
@lornatw
@lornatw 3 жыл бұрын
This is interesting! I was just comparing the old OCD 10 with 11 recently. Also it's just the USA that use the DSM as a diagnositic tool. Elsewhere we use it only as a research reference. 😊
@Halvale
@Halvale 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I can't wait for 2022 and criterias to change.
@quinnj3296
@quinnj3296 3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to add that as well. I got my formal diagnosis/assesment a couple days ago and it says Asperger's Syndrome.
@delilah4879
@delilah4879 3 жыл бұрын
I love when autistic people make merch. Because I know it will be me-friendly.
@digiscream
@digiscream 3 жыл бұрын
On labelling...my mother (who's also autistic, as was her mother) did everything she could to avoid any kind of diagnosis or other involvement from psychiatric or social services when I was young. She knew full well that we were...different, and although she didn't really have a name for it she had her suspicions. Here's the trick - I'm 43. Back in the late 70s and 80s, an autism diagnosis had one result and one result only: "special" school. I've only recently had the epiphany that I'm autistic (helpfully nudged by my wife), and having asked my mother about it...while it's frustrating that I went through school feeling like an alien, I totally get it. If she'd done the "right" thing and sought a diagnosis for me, there's no way in hell that I'd have had all the opportunities I've had, and I almost certainly wouldn't have anything like the life I do now. It's different now, though; certainly pretty bloody far from perfect, but the world is definitely waking up to the fact that autistic people _can_ (and often do) have a lifestyle similar to the one the world is built for, but it's just a bit easier if the world around them adapts...just a little bit.
@caryslloyd-lewis8565
@caryslloyd-lewis8565 3 жыл бұрын
I love you so much. You have helped me so much through my autism
@andyvan5692
@andyvan5692 3 жыл бұрын
yes, good speech about google misconceptions, I have Autism too, and as a way of clarifying the statements you make on social awareness, yes we have problems with peoples names and numbers, etc, but this is because WE HAVE NO social BRAIN like you do, OUR brain remembers figures, pictures, extraneous details of the car journey, etc, this is what stimulates our brains, WE still love, respect others, ESPECIALLY our families, we just have no clue how to show/ say it, we know what a burden on you we are, we just can't help it, it is who / what we are. also we ARE empathetic, ESPECIALLY towards other disabilities/ disabled people, as we have a fair idea of what kind of a life everyone on the disability spectrum leads, and how essential understanding, respect and inclusion is, what it feels like to be bullied at school, etc.
@erumoicemaxie
@erumoicemaxie 3 жыл бұрын
Asperger's has not been eradicated - it is still being diagnosed in certain places when not using the DSM-5. (It is still under the autism category though and it should no longer be used in a few years).
@bloodfang7980
@bloodfang7980 2 жыл бұрын
"What is normal? Normal is a setting on the washing machine." "Whats normal to the spider is chaos to the fly."
@supermario35327
@supermario35327 3 жыл бұрын
cutest youtube thumbnail ever
@auroraswarriors
@auroraswarriors 3 жыл бұрын
Me crossing my fingers that I get Princess Aspien merch for Christmas 🙊
@ratkid4560
@ratkid4560 3 жыл бұрын
Did you?
@auroraswarriors
@auroraswarriors 3 жыл бұрын
@@ratkid4560 I got a “different not less” pin! 💗
@ratkid4560
@ratkid4560 3 жыл бұрын
@@auroraswarriors that's awesome! I remember the kevin chapman different not less merch. Merry Christmas (:
@QlueDuPlessis
@QlueDuPlessis 3 жыл бұрын
I knew my brain worked differently to 'normal' people forty years ago. I said as much to my parents and teachers but they just told me I was lazy and to try harder.
@rebekahcarley941
@rebekahcarley941 3 жыл бұрын
"Drink up!" hahaha i died at that matcha bit!
@heikanaomi4426
@heikanaomi4426 2 жыл бұрын
Omg your energy!! I just love it😂😂💕💕💕💕💕
@lillianellington7505
@lillianellington7505 3 жыл бұрын
You are so amazing, Chloe!!
@pw510577w
@pw510577w 3 жыл бұрын
A lack of empathy is a trait of psychopathy, not autism. Autistic people may be less expressive emotionally than neuro typicals, which can be misinterpreted as being aloof.
@clairejones624
@clairejones624 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been recently been diagnosed with ADHD and Autism. My psychologist told me about you. I love your channel!
@skooma6829
@skooma6829 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome!! I love your videos omgggg I watched the video where you showed your blanket fort bed and Im getting so much inspiration from it!! Keep up the epic work :)!
@allisonacosta5368
@allisonacosta5368 3 жыл бұрын
It took me way too long to try to figure out when you were being sarcastic or giving an actual answer lmao I can never tell 😂
@elliemay9334
@elliemay9334 2 жыл бұрын
I'm literally obsessed with your videos
@kylenoisegriffin
@kylenoisegriffin 3 жыл бұрын
on the note of working! some autistic ppl might actually thrive better than neurotypical ppl in 9 to 5 jobs bc we love structure and routine, and a 9 to 5 job can give us that. i work in retail and i love it bc of how repetitive it is
@randemmy8795
@randemmy8795 3 жыл бұрын
I got sooo excited when I saw on your Insta story that you posted a YT video! I was like yaaaaass queeeen!
@sierrachantell
@sierrachantell 3 жыл бұрын
Your giggle is the sweetest!
@coffeebeanz1220
@coffeebeanz1220 3 жыл бұрын
I love your energy
@username99171
@username99171 3 жыл бұрын
The whole object permanence bleeding into your relationships is so true 🤦🏾‍♀️😭🤭 Thank you for talking about it 💕💕
@Drakeblood97
@Drakeblood97 3 жыл бұрын
I have something that some would call mirror-pain synestesia, but it's coming to just be known as "vicarious experience" in literature. If I see people or animals in pain then I will feel a strong constricting, electrifying pain in the back of my thighs, calves, and glutes. This isn't just vivid imagery, it's visceral pain that makes me yelp, cringe, and shudder, and has been directly linked to higher empathy. Of course, I'm only autistic-suspecting at the moment. That being said, I am actually terrible at showing sympathy or empathy because being vulnerable makes me deeply uncomfortable and it is difficult for me to imagine how another person feels if I have not felt that same way before. Crying faces and voices sometimes register as funny in my brain even though I know they aren't, so I might even have a knee-jerk response to laugh when I first see someone crying. Wow, I may have less empathy than I previously thought. I also don't really "miss" friends and family the way that I feel like I should.
@Phoenix_flame
@Phoenix_flame 3 жыл бұрын
BRO I WAS DIAGNOSED WAS ASPERGERS AND LIKE BRO I THOUGHT I FELT THE MOST EMOTIONS EVER 😭 My empathy is also through the roof to the point where its a literal problem! My emotions, mostly due to my anxiety, are very extreme, in both good and bad ways.
@nobodyimportant5789
@nobodyimportant5789 2 жыл бұрын
You’re my favourite KZbinr, i found you like a week ago and you have already raised my confidence 📈📈📈📈
@andyvan5692
@andyvan5692 3 жыл бұрын
yes, we do have emotion, just not the ability to show / control it sometimes. for example, just the thought of a soundtrack of a movie, sometimes gets us teary, just because it stimulates us in that direction so strongly we have no control, we just cry.
@larsha01
@larsha01 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I love matcha! ❤️ It's so good (well prepared right)
@Le111f
@Le111f 3 жыл бұрын
CONGRATS!! Your on an offical KZbin playlist for Women’s day! Also, I love your flower crown!
@aliciab.b.1837
@aliciab.b.1837 3 жыл бұрын
Quick question! I know you're not going to see this but what do I do if I think I'm autistic, ADHD, or both but no one believes that there is anything wrong with me and I'm just quirky. I'm speaking with a psychologist and she refuses to test me because I "don't look autistic" and "don't act ADHD" when I literally have almost all the symptoms of both.
@mannuzan8791
@mannuzan8791 3 жыл бұрын
If you live with your family and feel confident enough to do it, try to explain everything to them! If they don't understand, you could try to talk to someone else. And if you live alone, seek another psychologist. She may even be good in other aspects but if you're seeking for a diagnosis, someone who thinks Autism/ADHD is something someone can "look like they are" is probably not the one that will help you about this.
@auroraswarriors
@auroraswarriors 3 жыл бұрын
I think it is odd that your psychologist would be disregarding your questions and for saying something so blunt and uneducated as “you don’t act autistic”, so if you think a diagnosis will help you get further in life, it might be a good idea to speak to another psychologist or councillor to seek their opinion on the matter. It is quite a long process to get tested for ASD (at least it was for me) and took over a year for me to get my diagnosis because my physiologist was completely booked and I can’t leave the house so she had to drive to my house. But if you find you relate to a lot (most even) of the diagnostic criteria and autistic traits, then you very well could be. I was tested because my severe anxiety, meltdowns and lack of social skills pointed straight towards ASD. my mum was the one who asked if I wanted to be tested because she thought I could be autistic (which I am). I don’t know much about ADHD or the diagnosis process, but I presume it would be very similar to ASD testing. I am very grateful for my ASD diagnosis, because it means I can now get an assistance dog to make me more comfortable leaving the house, and I am exempt from wearing masks out (I haven’t left the house for a long time anyway) So if this would help you then a diagnosis or test would be super beneficial. I hope this is of some help to you and you can get tested! Good luck!
@aliciab.b.1837
@aliciab.b.1837 3 жыл бұрын
@@auroraswarriors Thank you so much for the advice
@aliciab.b.1837
@aliciab.b.1837 3 жыл бұрын
@@mannuzan8791 Thank you for the advice
@annikazehm6589
@annikazehm6589 3 жыл бұрын
There are tons of autistics out there who have no diagnosis. I got lucky and got a sketchy one when I was seven, but that was after five years of fighting, denial, family who say I don't look autistic, and psychologists who say I'm just really bright. Having no diagnosis doesn't mean you're not autistic and you don't have ADHD, it means you don't have proof. You're valid whether or not your family believes you and whether or not you have a diagnosis to prove it. That being said, if you really want to pursue a diagnosis, you should know that it's more common than people think for psychologists to do what yours did. It's odd, but it happens quite a bit. This is because you're masking, and unfortunately, psychologists can't see through that. The best way to get around this is to start writing down everything in your everyday life that makes you think you're autistic and have ADHD. It doesn't matter how miniscule it is, if it's even remotely relevant, write it down. Take your time on it, this might actually involve writing it down as it comes to you over the course of a couple weeks, or even a few months. Then, when you see the psychologist again, show them that list. This way they have something concrete to look at, you don't have to defend yourself on the spot as bad, and they can't just base it off of looking at you. Good luck!
@d.leighannbatemon3192
@d.leighannbatemon3192 3 жыл бұрын
I actively reach out to my family that is spread all over the U.S. now because they have accused me of not caring about them. It's exhausting. But I've learned it's how they feel love, so it's worth the hard effort to me... My friends understand I come and go, and if they can't understand that, I've learned it's okay to let them drift away.
@ReaTank
@ReaTank 3 жыл бұрын
I have adhd and watch all videos on x1.75. Not yours. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ So glad I found you!!! You're amazinggg
@comedyblastYT
@comedyblastYT 3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry about the car thing, I've been driving for four years and I've totaled three cars. 1 arguably wasn't my fault and the last one DEFINITELY wasn't my fault, but my point is it that it's just part of life sometimes
@zeevagale3604
@zeevagale3604 Жыл бұрын
Tags bother me so much so I get really excited for your merch
@crustycarpets
@crustycarpets 3 жыл бұрын
6:01 wow. That hit hard. I would love to have that label. It would explain everything
@Kapplerartbloomingdale
@Kapplerartbloomingdale Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as normal. You are right.❤
@junenovae
@junenovae 3 жыл бұрын
I can totally see how talented you are as a motivational speaker.
@sukinano9433
@sukinano9433 3 жыл бұрын
It should be noted that when people ask this questions they are usually thinking about level 3 autism, a lot of times they don't know about the mild and light flavors.
@tzagg1314
@tzagg1314 2 жыл бұрын
I usually miss people right after I’ve said goodbye and I know I wont be able to see them for a long time and right after meeting up with someone after not seeing them for a while. But in between I really don’t
@Ericthereddy1
@Ericthereddy1 3 жыл бұрын
So glad I found your channel. I'm currently in the process of getting a diagnosis at 25 and your videos are helping me understand myself more. I never even knew people ask these things! Shows just how socially unaware I can be at times lol.
@sophiekerr8964
@sophiekerr8964 3 жыл бұрын
Hey. I know the autism diagnosis process can be long and overwhelming, so here's some virtual hugs for you! (Or if you don't like hugs, good vibes!) Also if you have any questions about the process or anything else then this community is pretty much perfect!
@heedmydemands
@heedmydemands Жыл бұрын
Your shirt is awesome
@TheGuroLOLITA
@TheGuroLOLITA 3 жыл бұрын
Your shirt is too cool
@paigejohnson9201
@paigejohnson9201 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THE SHIRT
@laurenleeonethree
@laurenleeonethree 2 жыл бұрын
I came across one that asked if autistic people can have kids... Uhhh, okay let me go ask my five kids if I can have kids lol
@sjulian147
@sjulian147 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video. Also best thing in my life is watching your videos in 1.5X speed :)
@lh3517
@lh3517 3 жыл бұрын
“Also regularly cry about one direction” same
@wantingoneangel8976
@wantingoneangel8976 3 жыл бұрын
Chloe, I so LOVE your "Beauty in Neuordiversity" Butterfly T-Shirt:)!!! And I so LOVE your floral headband, your locket, and your choker necklace:)!! And people do ask the craziest questions. I know people with Autism have "feelings\emotions" because I dated a Boy in High School who was in my L.D. Class and he is Autistic. When I went to High School in the 80s, nothing was known about Autism. My Ex-Boyfriend is now a Psychologist. Well, I happened to read a story that involved him. He helped an Autistic Teenager in England who was about to "commit suicide because he was so badly mistreated" because "he is Autistic". My Ex-Boyfriend told the Young Man that he can have "free Therapy" and my Ex-Boyfriend got help "to raise the money" for this Teenager's Plane Fare to America. Our relationship did not work out because we were young, my Ex-Boyfriend had a lot of anger, and we were not right for each other. However, As an Adult, I am happy the my Ex-Boyfriend as a Psychologist had the "feelings of compassion" to help this Young Man from England:)!! For this reason I can truly say yes, people with Autism have emotions and I also know because Chloe has emotions!! God Bless you Chloe for all the good you do:)!!!
@stesj4
@stesj4 10 ай бұрын
I'm so jealous and happy, jealous because I'm not even half as smart as Chloe, happy because I get to learn from someone smarter than me. I'm not diagnosed but I'm more than 100% sure that I am, I am to start the process of getting a diagnosis.
@krissahduncan791
@krissahduncan791 3 жыл бұрын
I love love love your sense of style. It reminds me of a pastel pixie meets Stevie Nicks/Fleetwood Mac vibe? Like you would own a pastel tambourine and endless ribbons to meet with your pixie energy.
@krissahduncan791
@krissahduncan791 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry if it sounded weird, I'm a first time poster but a long time viewer.
@coragreer4426
@coragreer4426 3 жыл бұрын
Where are you getting your flower crowns I love them!!!! I seriously want one for my horse lol
@auroraswarriors
@auroraswarriors 3 жыл бұрын
You can find them online or even in two dollar shops, or you can make your own! I made my own one inspired by Chloé
@coragreer4426
@coragreer4426 3 жыл бұрын
@@auroraswarriors That’s really cool!!!
@larsha01
@larsha01 3 жыл бұрын
I am such an empathetic, emotional person like I just feel so incredibly deeply. I can't lie I cry so so so much and easy
@Kennedypotato
@Kennedypotato Жыл бұрын
That’s always what I look for in clothing zero tags they are the bane of my existence 😂
@leslielonsu
@leslielonsu 3 жыл бұрын
You remind me of Björk. Btw I love how fast and precisely you speak. I normally listen to videos on 1.5 because people just speak too slow haha
@rfishrfish4242
@rfishrfish4242 3 жыл бұрын
Love it GOGEL MORE Thanks...
@jusgodsself-insertoc
@jusgodsself-insertoc 3 жыл бұрын
I never understood having been in a wreck to be an indicator of good driving. I've been in 3 or 4. But how many times have I safely driven? Like a thousand times, literally. So that's an almost 100% success rate with less than 1% rate of failure. In my opinion that's pretty good (pls dont point out that even horrendous drivers most likely have a low ratio of wreck vs no-wreck driving instances lmao)
@foreverrobloxtime1793
@foreverrobloxtime1793 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for helping me
@ellab273
@ellab273 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Chloe!!!! 😊😊😊
@persie9276
@persie9276 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, Chloe! I'm relatively new to your channel and I'm loving your aura. ❤️ I'm a suspect autistic and your videos helped me understand autism better. Hope you are well!
@maddykrantz
@maddykrantz 3 жыл бұрын
You should get tested for it. I got tested for ADHD and it took me a while to get diagnosed. I was not diagnosed until 3rd grade and I HIGHLY recommend that you get tested. (If it’s safe and worth it in these times.)
@persie9276
@persie9276 3 жыл бұрын
@@maddykrantz Hey there! Thanks for your concern. I do want to get tested but right now I'm just seeking to learn as much as I can about ASD. Consultations are pretty expensive in my country, and I want to make sure I sufficiently understand ASD (if that's even possible) before getting into testing. I'm quite afraid that I'd be seen as a hypochondriac...
@chrisgrimstad9985
@chrisgrimstad9985 3 жыл бұрын
omg I want that shirt so bad 💞💞💞💞
@elvira4393
@elvira4393 3 жыл бұрын
I love this
@pasteldoll2756
@pasteldoll2756 3 жыл бұрын
I love ur flowercrowns c:
@finnius_winnius2508
@finnius_winnius2508 2 жыл бұрын
My mum says dumb stuff like “most parents who have kids at 40+ have autistic kids” it’s kind of really weird, and I don’t get it because it doesn’t make sense
@Thor22396
@Thor22396 3 жыл бұрын
In my opinion a lot of the "problems" that show up with autism are caused by too much empathy as opposed to too little. The problem is to neurotypical/sociopathical onlookers the results of too much and not enough empathy are very similar. When 2 people fight a third party person with too much or too little empathy will do their best to ignore it. If they have too little it's because the fight is an annoyance. If they have too much empathy they dont want too feel the fight inside themselves. Now the biggest problem is sociopaths(those lacking empathy) will do their best to pretend to have too much instead. So to the neurotypical psychologist what is the difference?
@Kornmanl
@Kornmanl 3 жыл бұрын
We love u
@laurenmcintyre4062
@laurenmcintyre4062 3 жыл бұрын
omg i love u ur so lovely!
@ribenaroobear
@ribenaroobear 3 жыл бұрын
Ivr always known I wasn't normal. But I also know that there isn't such a thing as normal. No one is really normal. We're all a little weird in our own way
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