Answering The Questions I've Been Avoiding

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Cam&Fam

Cam&Fam

Күн бұрын

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@kiwidreamskiwi8959
@kiwidreamskiwi8959 Жыл бұрын
never answer questions you don’t want to answer, you may be a public figure but your personal life is still yours!❤️
@louisevandermaat-peeters1927
@louisevandermaat-peeters1927 Жыл бұрын
So tru
@pinkloverag2776
@pinkloverag2776 Жыл бұрын
True but I guess she was annoyed so she was like let’s just answer these
@katetomlinson1638
@katetomlinson1638 Жыл бұрын
we aren’t entitled to your life, but if its part of your healing, absolutely here for it all!
@tiffanykai
@tiffanykai Жыл бұрын
Your response to the “ I’m sure you weren’t perfect in the relationship either” comments was articulated so incredibly well. I was in an abusive marriage with my kids father for 10 years and his entire family would say these things quite often.. it made me believe at the time that his abuse was not as bad as it really was.. that I was a bad person who deserved it, etc.. I am 5 years out of that relationship now, but I wish I had this video to watch back then.
@MB-jn1sx
@MB-jn1sx 4 ай бұрын
ugh i’m so so sorry that happened to you. i don’t know you, but i can guess you’re an amazing person, and you def did not deserve it! people are so IGNORANT and stupid, like how dare they say something like that?! “im sure you weren’t perfect either” like wtf?! i have SO MUCH i could say about this 🤬🙄 i’m so sorry 💔
@lanasmyth5384
@lanasmyth5384 Жыл бұрын
I think a book is an ideal format for you to tell your story - you can write something that your girls can read in the future to hear your perspective directly from you with no misinformation. Plus you can always make videos about the book (reading extracts perhaps)
@goodgoly.missmolly
@goodgoly.missmolly Жыл бұрын
@CAMANDFAM this is mis information
@lvasquez2978
@lvasquez2978 Жыл бұрын
I'd love to read it!
@jodoodlyboi2963
@jodoodlyboi2963 Жыл бұрын
A documentary could also be good
@christinem9280
@christinem9280 Жыл бұрын
We love you Camryn!!! You don't ever need to answer questions you feel are personal or anything! But you are amazing and an amazing mom!
@godsend877
@godsend877 Жыл бұрын
22:00 this is such an important message. thank you for saying this. it’s really crucial that people realise that a victim is also a human. they don’t sit there like a lifeless doll just being abused. we still had lives and we still made mistakes. however to compare a standard human action compared to violence is not fair. to make excuses for the abusive person by bringing up your actions is not fair. anyone can be a victim of abuse and we must listen to those who come forward but also keep a better eye on those who haven’t come forward yet and create a safe place for them
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
But the judges don't give a f*** about the victims they don't even side with the victims they let the lawyers lie and call the victim's the abusers
@Alinasinging
@Alinasinging Жыл бұрын
Cam, you don’t owe us anything. I’ve followed you for years, I’m 27, it’s amazing to see how you’ve grown. Don’t feel bad that sometimes you feel like you regret having kids. That’s completely normal, no matter what age you are. You are very strong woman, you can finish high school online! It’s never too late ❤
@hayleygrimes8804
@hayleygrimes8804 Жыл бұрын
I thought she did, maybe not?
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Her actions are unstable
@Beautyandthegeek08
@Beautyandthegeek08 Жыл бұрын
I would 100% buy and read any book you wrote about your life. You are incredibly articulate and have a beautiful way of looking at life. Sadly I can relate to a lot of things you have been through and i think writing a book would be therapeutic for you to finally get to say your side of everything.
@SuzanneWaltimyer
@SuzanneWaltimyer Жыл бұрын
You have nothing to be shamed about. You are doing the best you can. Your speaking abilities are amazing, and you appear very confident and mature for 22. Continue to do you, your girls will pick up on your confidence as you grow.
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Pan n bi gay gross
@bill_396
@bill_396 Жыл бұрын
Every time I watch your videos I am so moved, your maturity is so evident. I wish you all the good things this world has to offer...
@Suitable_audience
@Suitable_audience Жыл бұрын
I can 100% relate to your issues with your mom. I'm going through something similar. Even if you let go of the resentment its so hard to have a relationship if the other party is still actively triggering you and does not put in any effort to meet you half way.
@ehliefrancis4142
@ehliefrancis4142 Жыл бұрын
me too. Everything she said sounds like my dad and how I feel about him
@rosalozano434
@rosalozano434 Жыл бұрын
we're the same age and I've been following you since coco was born and I just LOVE seeing you like this and your evolution as a person. I relate to you on so many levels and I think life forced you to mature at such a young age, but you did amazing with what was available to you at the moment. you are such a wise and inspiring woman and it's great to see you help the world the way you do
@lilliansara6768
@lilliansara6768 Жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you
@morganfirestone7136
@morganfirestone7136 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching you since you were pregnant with little bean and it’s honestly insane to see your growth over the past years. You are my safe space and I absolutely adore you and your videos, you don’t understand how much I look up to you ❤ you’re such a strong, independent woman and I am so happy for you and I wish you the best in life
@greyskiesartify
@greyskiesartify Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you have to deal with people invalidating the abuse you went through!
@alizapalmer303
@alizapalmer303 Жыл бұрын
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@Tig3rQu33n
@Tig3rQu33n Жыл бұрын
The real MVP
@bfox5284
@bfox5284 Жыл бұрын
When you said your kinda expecting someone just to come along but you don’t ever leave your house or put yourself out there, literally same. I’m soo glad someone else gets it. I am a survivor of domestic violence And still to this day my family has an idea but doesn’t know half of what I went through.
@brittneebarnett5943
@brittneebarnett5943 Жыл бұрын
I know you may not know me, but Survivor of DV is here too! It definitely takes courage to go out and to talk to someone when you don't know if they can understand what you've been through, I have learned that my family unfortunately will never understand what too went through. Praying for you girl, I am so happy to hear you got out when you did!
@bfox5284
@bfox5284 Жыл бұрын
@@brittneebarnett5943 thanks girl! I’m also soo happy you made it out! Takes strength. I’ve learned that I dealt with it by forgetting. It seems like something I’ve made up in my head almost when I think about it. Like that didn’t really happen to me. But it did. And it’s my coping mechanism to try and get through it. It’s like I’m filled with trauma and I often ask myself what from, and then I remember that I did go through soo much and it’s a valid reasoning for why I deal with some of the mental things I deal with.
@Lscherer4
@Lscherer4 Жыл бұрын
Camryn, have you ever considered going into therapy as a profession? (Apologies if you’ve already answered this previously). I think you’d make an amazing advocate as a therapist, or school/community outreach worker!
@lvasquez2978
@lvasquez2978 Жыл бұрын
Her video explaining coming to a conclusion with her womanhood really helped settle so many thoughts I had about being a woman as well... i think she would do amazing!!
@sydneybraswell9849
@sydneybraswell9849 Жыл бұрын
i really needed to hear that even though people mess up and aren’t perfect, it doesn’t mean that they deserve abuse
@saturn7618
@saturn7618 Жыл бұрын
Maybe an audiobook would be a cool way to combine a book and a KZbin video together to spread awareness
@Imjustkayhaha
@Imjustkayhaha Жыл бұрын
I swear, I could listen to your thoughts, ideas, opinions and reasoning for hours. You're two years younger than me. We have been through some of the exact same things. Only I'm pregnant with my 4th. And I learn so much from you about the world.
@Tayy-Ann
@Tayy-Ann Жыл бұрын
I think those who genuinely care and can connect to your story will get the message even if you told it through parts on KZbin. No matter how you tell it there are always some who can’t relate and don’t understand the message and that’s okay. You’ll reach the right audience you’re supposed to regardless❤
@MrsAlmaTrumble
@MrsAlmaTrumble Жыл бұрын
I hate that you have to explain yourself. We love you, Cam and girls. I understand you not having a close relationship with your mom. I didn't have one with my father. He physically, sexually, and mentally abused me growing up. He denied it up till the day he died.
@mmeadows1014
@mmeadows1014 Жыл бұрын
Wow I am so sorry you went through that. Many prayers and hugs. I have gone through something as well
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Any Excuse is not ok ever
@leonakusnirova6979
@leonakusnirova6979 Жыл бұрын
You don't need to label yourself. Love who you want to love and be happy!!!
@bethechange1226
@bethechange1226 Жыл бұрын
Cam, aside from everything in this video I just wanna say..u look absolutely stunning!! You are seriously glowing, the hair and everything suits u SM!! I love how comfortable ur getting with physically expressing yourself, and I think that’s beautiful + U are an inspiration to SO MANY WOMEN ALL OVER THE WORLD I hope yk that.
@jessicaandfidgetsandmore
@jessicaandfidgetsandmore Жыл бұрын
We love you Camryn you don't need to answer the questions ❤❤❤❤
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
They will be punished from God
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcnot before you are, trash
@loribillings3810
@loribillings3810 Жыл бұрын
Your looking extra beautiful in this video. Keep loving yourself eveything else will work out. Love to see you smile 😊
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
It's bad to make up excuses
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcwhat are you even talking about?
@breannastammel8580
@breannastammel8580 Жыл бұрын
“It’s a label I’ve been trying on” love that!
@Agnesinos
@Agnesinos Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about your mom, it's okay, all problems have solutions and make us learn from that.❤
@krasimirayaneva551
@krasimirayaneva551 Жыл бұрын
cam you're incredible. I've been watching you since coco's birth and your growth inspires me.
@rosebojorquez1237
@rosebojorquez1237 Жыл бұрын
You owe no-one an explanation when it comes to your sexuality. Clearly you're still trying to figure it out. Remember you love who you love...period. Just live your life.❤
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Why a Man she had married then
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcALL of your comment have been reported for bullying and harassment.
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
@@dearleah7299 Sowhat I don't care
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qc learn how to spell, dumb twat. *somewhat
@ShockResistor
@ShockResistor Жыл бұрын
Rachel Sexuality is a spectrum. Please do research.
@oliviapinter9478
@oliviapinter9478 Жыл бұрын
I feel you Camryn I had my ribs broken by my current boyfriend last year and I am hoping nothing that bad ever happens again and he knows I am not okay with him being rough with me. It helps me feel not alone hearing you talk about what you've been through too, and you're 100% right how can you speak out if you're still in that fight or flight state where you could be put in danger i understand that. Love you 💕
@river8760
@river8760 Жыл бұрын
Please do not stay with him. You deserve so much more than this, and he is clearly dangerous. Please get the help and support you need to move forward. Rib fractures are so painful, I’ve had three broken in a t bone accident (I was hit) and it was brutally painful. I am so sorry he hit you 🥲
@jd4262
@jd4262 Жыл бұрын
Leave while you can! Although it looks impossible still force yourself to leave. Getting married to that guy will be a much harder life than leaving him. Find supportive people to help you through it! Any kind of abuse is wrong and shouldn't be allowed... but a rib fracture is pretty rough, save yourself while can can!
@brittneebarnett5943
@brittneebarnett5943 Жыл бұрын
Olivia, please leave this guy! I know we are strangers but as someone who is a survivor of Domestic violence, it will get so much worse, think about yourself and get out while you can. Thinking of you!
@river8760
@river8760 Жыл бұрын
@@brittneebarnett5943 💜
@magnolia6968
@magnolia6968 Жыл бұрын
Please, do not stay with him. Unless he’s been non contact with you, and going through therapy. He is not getting better.
@hannahortiz1629
@hannahortiz1629 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you and how open you are when you feel comfortable! I’m so sorry that people have to ask so personal questions! I just hope everything was ok and that you are doing good!❤
@dannechavarria
@dannechavarria Жыл бұрын
maybe a podcast of a few chapters could be a good way to share your story, it could reach a lot of people, is comfortable to listen to and maybe also more comfortable for u ❤ you're doing amazing
@Chey.foleyy
@Chey.foleyy Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss about Landon always here for u
@mmeadows1014
@mmeadows1014 Жыл бұрын
You do you girl, that’s ALL that matters. No one is wrong when they choose who they want to be or be with❤
@BeccaTheWreckahhh
@BeccaTheWreckahhh Жыл бұрын
If you haven’t gone back to school yet… do it NOW! There’s never going to be a right time. There’s always something happening that will make you doubt yourself. The perfect time IS now. You can do it!
@itsbellafromtwilight
@itsbellafromtwilight Жыл бұрын
you do not owe the internet any explanation about your life. and even if you say that you planned to speak about it, you don’t need to rush it or even feel obligated to speak on it at all. in terms of the abuse you entailed, i think that good side of landon you knew would be proud of you for being brave and speaking for yourself. he couldn’t forgive himself, he would want you to seek this as an opportunity to not only help people that were in your shoes but his as well. you knew him with and without the camera, you saw things you did not deserve but you also saw the parts of him that were beautiful and what he had inside. your time will come to heal and accept and forgive not only him and your daughters but yourself as well. keep it pushing babe❤
@georgiawilby25
@georgiawilby25 Жыл бұрын
Remember kids are resilient! Yes they need stability but you have to taking care of yourself (within reason) has to be top priority otherwise how can you take care of them best. You’re doing a great job
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Bad to keep moving around
@katherineking5279
@katherineking5279 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcI grew up as an army kid and moved around all the time. I don’t even remember the moves when I was super young. Don’t be ignorant, it’s ridiculous
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcthey’re not your kids so shut up.
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
@@katherineking5279 U are not smart
@Rose-ro6bg
@Rose-ro6bg Жыл бұрын
You are doing an amazing job! ❤Keep going and never give up. Never listen to people about what they think is best for you and your kids because you are the one that knows them and yourself best. Love you!
@river8760
@river8760 Жыл бұрын
Your Mom is like mine, obsessed with image. I picked up on that immediately bc of my own situation with mine. I get the feeling your Mom doesn’t truly get who you are or embrace it either. My Mom is a narcissist and emotionally abusive and I still hold her at arm’s length bc of that.
@ilovesunsets234
@ilovesunsets234 Жыл бұрын
i love you cam. I’ve watched your channel with my mom back in elementary and now I’m a freshman. You have inspired me so much and I look up to you a lot, you’re amazing.
@panic.catherine922
@panic.catherine922 Жыл бұрын
I also identified as gender fluid as a young teen (im 21 now) and came to realize it was internalized misogyny. I also started questioning my sexuality around 12, had my first girlfriend at 13-16 years old and it was very validating (also very heartbreaking for a few reasons). But it really helped me realize it wasnt a "phase" and i genuinely did adore women, i was just afraid of the social repercussions. (My parents on the other hand were very supportive) I wanted to edit my comment to say if you feel like you need medical marijuana dont feel like its a crutch! As a texan myself you have every right to enact the compassionate use act! I have been looking into it for my epilepsy and anxiety ❤
@alhsa
@alhsa Жыл бұрын
Have you ever read jennette McCurdy’s “i’m glad my mom died”? If you haven’t i think that this format would be good for you. It’s a very blunt title and of course i’m not saying you have to feel that way in any shape or form at all & of course jennette’s situation may be very different from yours but i wanted to mention it because i think that jennette’s story telling format was super impactful. I read it like 4-5 times. She really does a great job at highlighting how difficult it is to love somebody for so long who happens to be your abuser, and what it’s like when they’re gone & to have to rebuild your life. She tells her story from a few moments where her mother was close to passing, to the beginning moments of her childhood, through her teenage years, and the eventual passing of her mother. She goes into the aftermath of how the loss has affected her, going to therapy, realizing her abuse & her picking up the pieces. It wasn’t just about her mother, but it goes into how her childhood specifically family dynamics shaped her situation in adulthood. It was such a good book, and if you haven’t read it yet, highly recommend. Also Great video Cam ❤️
@river8760
@river8760 Жыл бұрын
Great book! I personally love the title bc it’s so genuine and relatable for anyone who experienced life with a narcissist parent.
@alhsa
@alhsa Жыл бұрын
@@river8760 of course! but some people hear the title and they’re scared of it. but the content was very powerful.
@alhsa
@alhsa Жыл бұрын
@@jandaniluk4465 Can you just leave? like i see you all over her comments section being such a rude and disrespectful person with absolutely awful grammar. Like what do you have to gain? do something better with your time.
@alhsa
@alhsa Жыл бұрын
@@jandaniluk4465 you know nothing about their mother. get outta here.
@alhsa
@alhsa Жыл бұрын
@@jandaniluk4465 also her name is CAMRYN, she isn’t JUST a mother. She’s a person so when she speaks she is CAMRYN. stop reducing her down to her motherhood.
@kk-iy3fr
@kk-iy3fr Жыл бұрын
The way that you speak is so eloquent and mature. Love listening to you
@amandajustice013
@amandajustice013 Жыл бұрын
With nothing but love as a straight female. Why does one feel pressured to label themselves? I feel like you should be able to love you you are without the pressure of a label. Someone help me understand
@Sitcomic
@Sitcomic Жыл бұрын
Mostly as a sense of community I’m assuming. I’ve identified as different sexualities but going forward I’m just saying I like what I like. It’s also difficult to explain that to someone that doesn’t understand sexuality and it’s easier to use a term that they have heard about.
@TinyPigy282
@TinyPigy282 Жыл бұрын
There just feels like so much pressure to know who you are, how you identify etc. A bit like how you're supposed to know how your life will play out, the career you want etc.
@souliewrld
@souliewrld Жыл бұрын
as someone who doesn’t go by labels i still feel like i don’t belong anywhere. i guess people just want people to relate to
@ShockResistor
@ShockResistor Жыл бұрын
You label yourself too. Straight is a label..
@OwnBestFriend
@OwnBestFriend Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry about your relationship with your mom. You deserve to feel safe and I’m glad you can give yourself that now and your girls. Awful she can’t take responsibility, but unfortunately some people will never. Glad you have the strength to back away.
@britg8567
@britg8567 Жыл бұрын
Hey Cam! Just an FYI for Texas, we do have CURT, and PTSD is one of the few qualifying medical issues. I know you're not currently interested in using marijuana for medicinal purposes, but it is available to you in Texas.
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
It's illegal to Have in Tx
@britg8567
@britg8567 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qc this is not entirely true. Texas has a compassionate use program for certain medical conditions. I am enrolled in CURT and legally buy from a dispensary in Austin that provides for users like me. I think my comment keeps getting automatically deleted because I've been adding a link, so please Google Texas CURT and read the information there.
@JuMixBoox
@JuMixBoox Жыл бұрын
I think books reach a different audience and have a different impact than KZbin videos. They let you sit with them and reflect on your own life and take you out of your routine a bit. When Louise Pentland, another KZbinr whose videos I knew well, published Mom Life, her autobiography, she could talk about different topics in different ways in it and it touched me differently. Knowing about your story what I can know from watching you on KZbin, I am pretty sure a book, especially one that will reach people outside of KZbin, would have a lot of value. I don't think it would be any less responsible or effective than doing a KZbin series.
@hannahrodriguez8118
@hannahrodriguez8118 Жыл бұрын
When she makes a video about answering questions but doesn’t answer thing haha
@moodypeacock
@moodypeacock Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being an advocate for domestic violence survivors. When you feel better, I hope that you open up more about your experience. What you were saying about being able to still be a victim despite having done things wrong is a very important thing for many people to hear.
@moodypeacock
@moodypeacock Жыл бұрын
DM on what?
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@moodypeacockit’s a scam. Ignore it.
@cassidyflanagan3592
@cassidyflanagan3592 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you cam keep trying to get your life together and be there for those girls
@harleychermak846
@harleychermak846 Жыл бұрын
No matter what we always love you cam! (And the girls too ofc)
@sophiaisabelle01
@sophiaisabelle01 Жыл бұрын
We will always support you all. God bless everyone.
@briholmes25
@briholmes25 Жыл бұрын
I’m So proud of you! You’re doing amazing! Don’t let anyone tell you different! ❤
@abigaillee5835
@abigaillee5835 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I know it's helped so many people already. Hopefully, this is a lighter question, but what was Landon going to school for? I've always been curious since the vlog you both talked about it but said you couldn't discuss it until after he graduated.
@miliajoy2727
@miliajoy2727 Жыл бұрын
All I could think was how her makeup slayed and she looked so good and mature
@beverleyblair2678
@beverleyblair2678 Жыл бұрын
Happy pride month and i personally go by i like who i like and that is that no need for labels for everyone
@elizabethpackard6904
@elizabethpackard6904 Жыл бұрын
Moving shame is ridiculous! You are the stability that your kids need and want, moving doesn’t hurt them or make it less stable. You have a place to live period there should be nothing else to it. I’m so proud of you and I’m sorry you get hate for literally everything!
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Kids need to stay in one place
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcthen keep your kids in one place. If she has to move her and her kids, she will.
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
@@dearleah7299 She's a unstable mom to them kids
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qc if you think she’s unstable then what are you doing about it? 🤔 I bet nothing.
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
@@dearleah7299 Not my problem
@kellylyncottrell6191
@kellylyncottrell6191 Жыл бұрын
As long as they have food in their bellies, roof over their heads and clothes on their backs does it really matter what state you're in? Jeez, like you're a 22 year old mom with two little girls you're still trying to figure out where YOU want to be and the housing market is freaking crazy right now. You are doing your damnest. That's all that matters. 💕
@jjslivia40
@jjslivia40 Жыл бұрын
You can be Cam who loves people for who they're. ❤
@juliedavis2996
@juliedavis2996 Жыл бұрын
You are so brave.! It’s tough for anyone at any age to answer Q & A straight up. You are an amazing person!! Hopefully you know how important you are to your daughters .. I can tell you always do the best you can for them !! Also as parents we always have the best intentions for them !! We all are trying to figure things out every day, every year as we grew through this thing called “life” Keep being you-you are amazing!! ☀️🐝🤗🐞☮️🩵
@shebacat565
@shebacat565 Жыл бұрын
Great video Cam. You are an articulate, thoughtful, intelligent young woman. I do hope you find a fulfilling, well-paying career using all your wonderful skills. It must get tiresome having to share your private life on social media in order to make money. : ). I'm rooting for you!
@gummydragon7455
@gummydragon7455 Жыл бұрын
Me: -ben fallowing for years- Also me: YOURS THE SAME AGE AS ME? How did i not know that
@marciejade1408
@marciejade1408 Жыл бұрын
The moving shaming question, believe me I know it! I get labeled this way and honestly it really isn’t even the reason people think. In the end it’s NONE of anyone business, close or not, why you move. News flash, millions move every year! We pay our own bills so no need to answer to anyone!
@becs7715
@becs7715 Жыл бұрын
The best thing about life is you have no obligation to justify yourself. if what you say comes from truth and integrity you will be happy with yourself everyday 💛 life is hard on a good day and reflecting on what you share, you are wise beyond years and well reasoned in your comments. You should be proud of you - Strong woman 🌻
@felicialuca6553
@felicialuca6553 Жыл бұрын
Respectfully, I think every life experience can turn into something good for a child. I would even dare to say a child needs everything God gives them. 🤗For instance, I think of several good things about moving so often - such as being comfortable with change (SO necessary now and in the future), not being afraid of the new, trusting yourself to adapt and make the best of every place and situation, rooting your identity in yourself rather than external circumstances, starting over, the courage to explore etc. etc. The same goes for any other life experience. Nothing means just one thing. Nothing is either black or white. There is so much more to life than what we come to understand or make of it. Every experience equips you with something valuable. Life is not perfect in the way we understand perfection. I doubt there is a parent out there who can give their children everything they want for their kids, and, if they do, it doesn't mean they're also giving their children everything they need. Trust your love for your kids, be kind to yourself and go on with your life❤
@Roz-mb8bq
@Roz-mb8bq Жыл бұрын
maybe a short documentary or like a cinematic type video to tell your story!! it would be a lot of work but i think it would be more engaging than a sit down :) of course i would watch your sit down anytime but more people would watch some type of short film
@connorframe9221
@connorframe9221 Жыл бұрын
Maybe instead of a book you should put your filmmaking skills to the test and do a documentary:)
@megan-elizabeth2407
@megan-elizabeth2407 Жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if you normally script your videos but if you want the book to be accessible both to your youtube audience and to people outside of this community in written format maybe start by writing the scripts for videos. Childhood, teen years, having kids, etc idk exactly what you want to talk about but writing a book doesn't necessarily mean you deliver it in a traditional format or start writing it in a traditional style. Good luck!
@emdino8418
@emdino8418 Жыл бұрын
its crazy to watch this now bc i at one point used to watch them all the time and haven't really in awhile and like i started watching them in like 2017 and so much had changed but its still great to come back and just watch some of the newer stuff and the older ones i usest to watch
@allymarie2024
@allymarie2024 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad your answering these questions
@popyNcorny
@popyNcorny Жыл бұрын
Can someone name the video in which she speaks about the domestic abuse she went through? I must have missed it.
@lucysherm
@lucysherm Жыл бұрын
It’s a mix of videos where she talks about it, but the one that has that “theme” is the video called ‘saying the thing I’ve been afraid to say’
@kaileyjade3895
@kaileyjade3895 Жыл бұрын
I’m not straight and I have thought sm about labels as well and I have came to terms that you can JSUT say you like who you like you don’t have to label yourself !!
@ivanamulovic1774
@ivanamulovic1774 Жыл бұрын
We love you, Cameron, and you have a right to pick what you will share with us it is your life. ❤ And so what if you love girls there is no shame in that. Always be yourself don't change for no one. Landan loved you he gave you too beautiful girls to love for the rest of your life.
@emilymcdonald4040
@emilymcdonald4040 Жыл бұрын
I wish I’d heard someone talk about labels and sexuality the way you do when I was 14
@alvamariia
@alvamariia Жыл бұрын
Being domestically abused feels lonely. It feels like you can’t find the way out. It’s mental imprisonment. Then people with no empathy or intelligence come up and ask why we didn’t say anything. Like yes let me go tell the whole world about it, like it’s great news. Ugh. Lord forgive those ignorant people.
@goodgoly.missmolly
@goodgoly.missmolly Жыл бұрын
love you so much cam ❤ very very proud of u
@maddieschumann2101
@maddieschumann2101 Жыл бұрын
You should do your book in more of a public speaking (at schools, colleges, rehabs, and womens shelters) format to raise awareness about the topics included
@jenjacobs4197
@jenjacobs4197 Жыл бұрын
I hope you always know how strong you are 🤍 I don’t know what teen parenthood is like because I don’t have children myself, but I am 22 years old and have been through extensive trauma and I have PTSD from childhood trauma & abusive relationships. I’ve also battled suicidal depression for a long time, so in a lot of ways I can understand a lot of what you’re talking about. But you’re strong 🤍 you’re going to do amazing things in this world
@abbybow57
@abbybow57 Жыл бұрын
I’m sure you’re aware of her but there’s another teen mom, alex (deargreyson youtube) who is in her 20s now, has two sons, and was in an abusive (as far as I know) relationship/marriage with her sons’ father. She’s now openly out as lesbian and with a woman, so just mentioning her as someone to confide in
@elleneastwood7435
@elleneastwood7435 Жыл бұрын
Wow, these questions really shock me. It could be because I'm older that I just understand that you're a young woman figuring life out and it just happens to involve a camera. Many people move a lot when they're young. Many people take time to figure out their sexuality. Many people struggle to figure out how to negotiate an abusive relationship. Maybe it's because you present such a put together persona that people have no concept that you could be struggling. Hugs to you. You're doing your best and those girls have a wonderful mom.
@Salma.lgs.
@Salma.lgs. Жыл бұрын
Love watching your channel! 💜
@racheltfisher
@racheltfisher Жыл бұрын
I hope you are ok after this video and I hope your kids gave you lots of hugs after this ❤
@christinafinn2714
@christinafinn2714 Жыл бұрын
You’re so awesome Cam!!!
@audreykim3474
@audreykim3474 Жыл бұрын
thank you for this video, Cam
@sarahdooley1776
@sarahdooley1776 Жыл бұрын
You didn’t do nothing wrong 😑 so just ignore them . Just do you be yourself . I love you , remember that daddy always watching over u guys ❤❤
@sophiakph
@sophiakph Жыл бұрын
You could also make a documentary about your life instead of a book, you know, something very professional (maybe look for a team to help you, people with experience on directing documentaries). Your story is very interesting and i'm sure a lot of people in the field would want to help you to make it happen.
@laurenklahm5776
@laurenklahm5776 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story ❤
@bubabubinha7036
@bubabubinha7036 Жыл бұрын
Tô be honest 😊 we moved a lot when I was a kid and I never had problems at all. Now having a stable apartment I kinda miss moving 😂😂
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
It's still not healthy.
@katherineking5279
@katherineking5279 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcshut up nobody cares about your opinion
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcno one cares what you think. Shut it.
@Silvergirl_23
@Silvergirl_23 Жыл бұрын
Good for you, Cam!
@vegasgirl7O2
@vegasgirl7O2 Жыл бұрын
I realize that your generation needs to label everything but your sexuality is not meant to be labeled. Just be you and know that you don't have to explain yourself! Even as a someone with a youtube or social media platform. We will deal with childhood issues our entire lives. Growth is the best way forward. Loving yourself and learning to move forward in growth is the greates and hardest relationship ever. I wish you the best Cam. ✌❤🌍
@francisjaramillo4650
@francisjaramillo4650 Жыл бұрын
🙏
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Their ways are not from God .
@brandeberryb84
@brandeberryb84 Жыл бұрын
and that what would Landon think is pushing every single boundary. I dont care if you put every second on the internet. Boundaries grown ups!!
@quagmira
@quagmira Жыл бұрын
cam i feel the exact same way about the sexuality stuff, i think you explained it so well!
@tahliajayde261
@tahliajayde261 Жыл бұрын
okay. but im in the exact same like the EXACT same situation as you regarding sexuality! I've tried th exact same labels and age wise all the same here except im 23. that's nuts, thanks for sharing honestly you don't owe it to us, I couldn't imagine being strong enough to share with everyone, but just know its made a difference at least for me. im back to square 1 where I'm pretty set on who I like its just finding a label to commit to, I was just a lesbian for a few months but it felt restricting almost. so as I keep saying, exact same boat im just existing at this point haha thanks cam
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Excuses are non sense n dumb
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qconly thing here that is dumb is you.
@krasimirayaneva551
@krasimirayaneva551 Жыл бұрын
Did your relationship with Landon change or was it always entwined with abuse? You're resilient and an incredible motivator to all in similar situations!
@kandishumes5121
@kandishumes5121 Жыл бұрын
Just answer the question as I love love!!! ❤
@kandishumes5121
@kandishumes5121 Жыл бұрын
We don’t need labels!
@wrenl2944
@wrenl2944 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing! Keep doing you❤
@amylee0870
@amylee0870 Жыл бұрын
Dating apps are weird, but honestly once the first couple meetings, it doesn't feel weird anymore
@fatimaslifeline
@fatimaslifeline Жыл бұрын
No matter what you do, there’s no justification for abuse period, please don’t listen to them
@RachaelNelson-si3qc
@RachaelNelson-si3qc Жыл бұрын
Judges let it still go on
@dearleah7299
@dearleah7299 Жыл бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-si3qcwhat is that supposed to mean?
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