answering your most asked assumptions about me... | Kiara Madisen

[@doingdentalschool]

There is NO problem not being in a relationship!! I remember having the same thoughts of "what am I missing" and "what is my problem" when seeing all of my friends happy in their relationships. I actually dated a guy for the first time when I was 20 years old, and he is my forever! It's just about waiting for the perfect guy to come along!

[@KiaraMadisen]

aww giving all of us hope out here!! Thanks so much for sharing your story, so happy for you guys! ❤️

[@JulieBravo]

I personally don’t think your positivity is toxic in fact i find it quite motivating and inspiring :)

[@KiaraMadisen]

Aww thanks for your perspective Julie! Hope you’re having a good week 💗

[@elizabethraber4822]

Same!

[@alainabarnhart9421]

I was just about to comment this, I 100% agree!

[@KeeganActon]

so after watching this whole video i have one thought...every mean girl from my high school is going into nursing so i need to go to portland every time i get sick so nurse kiara can help a girl out

[@KeeganActon]

and i can confirm, kiara is the queen of sharing and gift giving

[@KiaraMadisen]

reading this 8 month later and it made me smile. ily.

[@sarahwood1194]

I think it’s great that you applied this year! Your persistence to go through two application cycles will also show those schools just how determined you are! 💕

[@KiaraMadisen]

That’s what I’m hoping for 🤞

[@sarahsw97]

I honestly appreciate your positivity so much. I always look forward to your videos because of the happy vibes. And yesss every single human struggles with life and all the choices we could make 😂

[@KiaraMadisen]

Aww thank you! So true 💗

[@Zainab-nw4cl]

Awesome video! It's so funny to me that people assumed you were a "mean girl" that's going into nursing! You seem like the sweetest person ever! :)

[@KiaraMadisen]

Haha thank you! You’re making me feel better 😂

[@singleplantparent]

Lovely, honest video! Also thanks for being so honest about not needing a relationship, feel that there isn‘t often good representation for single people but you are definitely making that happen! Love to you and yours

[@KiaraMadisen]

Aww thank you that’s so kind to say! 💓

[@ami_fc]

after this video i can say that you are exactly the way i thought, the sweet, independent, responsible and inspiring woman ❤️❤️

[@KiaraMadisen]

Stop you’re gonna make me cry!!! 🥺💓

[@yangcortes3920]

I honestly aspire to be as positive as you are! Living with anxiety dampens all of my positivity. I go to your channel to escape that part of my life :)

[@KiaraMadisen]

Sending you all my love 💗 you’re amazing girl!!

[@candiceschultz8317]

I actually love the balance you strike with being real when situations really do bum you out but great majority the positive vibes. I think if it was sad all the time I probably wouldn’t follow. Your positivity always lifts me up 😊

[@ruthmcilveen3089]

I can’t believe someone said your positivity was toxic!! Your positivity is one of the reasons I love your channel! It’s totally inspiring and motivating, don’t ever dull your light, cos it is beautiful!

[@vivians.9513]

It's nice to see people value education! It doesn't matter if u didn't apply for nursing school earlier. Whatever satisfies you, go for it! Also, I really appreciate the honesty you show in this video ❤️

[@KiaraMadisen]

Thank you so much for your kind & genuine comment!

[@melinabadillo7304]

I've always saw you like a person who works super hard to get what you want, like no matter what is the obstacle you get through that, you don't accept excuses only results 😎 I truly believe you are a great example of an amazing person. Love your videos 💖

[@KiaraMadisen]

My parents would be so happy to read that assumption! Thank you so much for watching my videos and always lifting me up ❤️

[@agatakraska46]

I found your channel a few days ago and now I am OBSESSED with your videos hah you seem so nice and positive and your energy just makes my day better

[@KiaraMadisen]

aww thank you! Seriously made my whole day!

[@rubabakeer]

your positivity is one of the main things i like to watch your channel for. It's inspiring and motivating and we all need that in life..

[@emilygrace266]

this video is so fun !!! I get you completely by not knowing what you’re missing with a boyfriend 👀🤷🏼‍♀️ hahhaa

[@KiaraMadisen]

one day Emily, one day we will know 😂

[@Anna20009]

Loved this video! Felt like I was facetiming a friend + catching up :) Also, I don't think your positivity is toxic. Yes, you are a very happy/bubbly person but you always share the lows as well as the highs. Sending you hugs ❤️

[@KiaraMadisen]

I really appreciate that Anna! You're the best 💕

[@jessicacobos3635]

When I first started watching your videos, I would get so motivated to do things, which is something I struggle with a bit unless it's school-related. So seeing you being productive would make me want to be productive which made me feel better about myself and feel accomplished like I'm not wasting my time :)

[@slouberiee]

Having a boyfriend definitely has it's pros and cons: pros: - cuddling, hugging, kissing, being gentle with each other, that's just naturally very pleasant and it lowers your stress levels - talking with each other, it broadens your horizons, stimulates you intellectually, helps your ability to articulate your arguments when discussing something - having another buddy to do things with (watching tv, dancing around, going for hikes, playing board games) - gives you a daily schedule (you motivate each other to go to bed early, eat regularly, take vitamins, drink enough) - having someone you can talk to about intimate emotional things - having someone that makes you laugh cons: - it's time consuming, you would like to just chill on the couch and do nothing, but at the same time feel like you should cook or clean a bit (I definitely do the chilling part a lot while dating my BF, but still feel the urge to cook and take care of him as well), going on dates at times when you would rather be at home (you need to work on the relationship and be together, I'm an introvert so being outside is not always tempting for me, however, once you move in with each other, it's so much easier, because you can do nothing and be at home togehter :) this works when you have the same temperament and need similar amount of "social" acitivities). - not much of a "me" and "alone" time - as an introvert it's really important for me to be alone, to recharge, living together can be tough sometimes, but it is much easier over time as you adjust to each other and find ways how to do that (for us, it's me watching Frasier on tv and my BF playing videogames on his PC in our spare room). - that you can not date anyone else - this is a cheeky con, but sometimes you wonder what would other people be like (your exes, your friends), but that's just an idea you get very rarely and always come to the conslusion that this BF is the best and only one :) - you do less hobbies - somehow when dating someone, your time is more occupied and you have less free time for your hobbies. But again it changes when you move in with each other, then you have again almost 100 % of your previous free time.

[@gladdengrace1949]

Thank you for respecting what religion does to people like me! While I have encountered some people who immediately dismiss me after knowing how religious I am, or have tried to talk me out of it, seeing your answer was such a relief. Can I pray for you? 😊

[@KiaraMadisen]

Yes of course! Thanks girl 💕

[@arianacolletti4874]

i have been watching kiara since her college decision video like forever ago and she is still my favorite! her videos are just so interesting to watch and she’s so kind hearted and down to earth! also i too have a lot of stressed about life moments as well

[@amelieggg7865]

I always get so excited when I see that you posted a new video!! I just love how inspiring and positive you are! You/your videos have motivated me so so many times!

[@KiaraMadisen]

Aww thank you for absolutely making my morning!! 💓

[@jeannelle_]

Love watching these types of videos. We get to learn so much more about you! Also, love how you answered the questions quickly, you didn’t go on a tangent haha! 👏🏽 quick & to the point haha!! Love it!

[@KiaraMadisen]

haha I wanted to get through a ton 😂 thanks for watching!

[@madilynmiller]

i loveee that this trend is coming back!!!!

[@lauraicolonmorales4178]

I think you shouldn’t apologize or try to change being positive on social media or in life. Being positive in my opinion is never toxic, so don’t let people’s opinions change who you are because you are AMAZING! ❤️ Greetings from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷

[@aloysiaquiachon9934]

Love seeing this side of you, Kiara! You’re amazing nevertheless

[@sarapadilla1325]

I’m so grateful for you showing your process even tho I’m not in the medical arena because it feels so refreshing and honestly relatable and helpful just because LIFE lol. Truly forever grateful for you!!!!

[@KiaraMadisen]

that's what I'm here for to show it how it is 😂👏

[@WinchelleRoss]

Your positivity is not toxic at all! You are actually inspiring me to become positive myself! 🥺

[@XSemperIdem5]

It's the boat. That's why people assume your family is well off. 😅 As an only child, so many people assume I was spoiled growing up. That is so far from the reality. I've had to work for everything I have and even financially support others in my family since I was younger than you (pretty much since undergrad while also being a full time student).

[@Anita-kv9ji]

Watching this with a cup of coffee, just to forget about college for a bit😋

[@KiaraMadisen]

I love those moments ❤️

[@ReeseMiller]

love this video! you’re the best!! 💛

[@KiaraMadisen]

um but you're the best ;)

[@kendah111]

My best quality is probably my assertiveness and something I want to work on is taking care of my body a little more

[@KimberleyAbeln]

I loved your honesty in this video and can really relate to some of your answers! I love your positivity in the videos, and I honestly believe you are just a positive person, nothing fake or toxic ☺️. Your videos really motivate me to strive to be a better person, so thank you!! 🙏🥰

[@KiaraMadisen]

thank you for your honest and sweet comment! I so appreciate you 💕

[@MarieClark55]

Kiara, my best quality is that I really value my friendships and love them very much. A quality I want to work on is letting go of things that don’t really matter but cause me a lot of worry in the moment. I tend to overthink most things and it isn’t helpful.

[@KiaraMadisen]

Marie I love that quality! I am sure your friends are so lucky to have you in their life! I think so many of us overthink things when it would be so much easier to make a plan and move on rather than dwelling on it! ❤️

[@RoseCandle2022]

My best quality is how much I think of others/how generous I am. My worst quality is sometimes I listen to talk instead of listen to listen and I really need to work on that!!

[@stephanielacoco]

Best quality and one I’d lile to work on: I am very loyal and dedicated to my loved ones. I have really bad anxiety and it tends to keep me from things I want to do/try. An assumption about Kiara: That you don’t get hit on a lot because guys aren’t at your level of maturity in life yet. But that there is someone whom you either are friends with or know by association that is going to finally catch up and you 2 will fall in love sometime in the next 5 years.

[@bhagyak1833]

Already love the video ...❤️❤️❤️❤️love you kiara....❤️and you are the sweetest person who cannot be mean to anyone....like you got so sad when your plants dried up.....you inspire me...❤️❤️

[@KiaraMadisen]

Thank you!! 💗

[@bernierhanae7583]

Heyy Kiara, your video is awesome like always 😁💗

[@KiaraMadisen]

THANK YOU!! Have a good day today 💗

[@bernierhanae7583]

@@KiaraMadisen I'm french so it's actually late but thank you :) You're one of the KZbinrs that helped me improve my English for the past two years so I'm really thankful to you

[@KiaraMadisen]

@@bernierhanae7583 That's so cool wow! Well I hope you have a good rest of your night and sleep well!

[@Abbyel]

Loved this video! I assume that you are a really tidy and clean person - like if you grab something or make a mess you will tidy/clean it up straight away (something I aspire to be 😅)

[@KiaraMadisen]

wow yes this is very me.

[@leoniederegt4756]

I am currently doing my master's internship to become a psychologist in the Netherlands and I have to spend quite some time on reflecting upon myself, my qualities, my actions, etc. A quality of mine that I like is that I am a hard worker, I want to finish what I start and I want to do so in a good way. My challenge here and something that I am currently working on is my insecurity and perfectionism. Most of the time it feels like I am not doing well enough. So annoying 🙃 Anyway thank you for making this video. Watching it felt like catching up with a friend. Stay true to who you are Kiara! 😘

[@addisonswannack]

Yes!! Love the video!!

[@KiaraMadisen]

Yay! Thank you!

[@jukio02]

I use to be in the popular group in elementary school. Then, when I got into middle school my popularity when down the drain. High School, I was non existent, haha. College saved me, finally I could be who I wanted to be and didn't need to worry about anything. I'm not in a relationship either. I don't think I ever will be, it's not for me. Some people are just not into it I guess.

[@gabrielamartinez5478]

You always inspire me to stop fearing the unknown 💖

[@KiaraMadisen]

YESSS 👏 It's so natural to feel that way, but it's also so out of our control, so you might as well enjoy the moment and put trust in your ability to figure it out!

[@gabrielamartinez5478]

@@KiaraMadisen love that for us

[@ambersmeets6736]

Love the video as always! I also wonder a lot about what it would be like to be in a relationship, now I am dating more frequently and really like it

[@KiaraMadisen]

Such a good point...I really need to give it a good shot 😂

[@ishabajaj4155]

In my opinion, your positivity isn't toxic at all and i love watching your videos also you are such a inspiration to me ❤

[@KiaraMadisen]

Thank you so much!!

[@evamaldonado606]

I understand you perfectly with the boyfriend thing. Anyways, one day we're going to find someone perfect for us who's going to make our life better but we don't have to hurry! Haha i love you Kiara😁💞

[@KiaraMadisen]

YES. We must manifest this!

[@ejsamonte1349]

I love how cozy your apartment is. 🥺 Anyway, you look like Supergirl / Kara Danvers. 🥰

[@shannonsolomon8491]

I love your positivity! I got my 1st round of the vaccine today yay!

[@KiaraMadisen]

Okay that is SUCH amazing news! Proud of you!

[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

Nice job, Kiara!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@KiaraMadisen]

Thanks for watching!!

[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

You're welcome!

[@hayleeframe9194]

I totally recommend the podcast by NPR "Up First", it's 10-15 min long and has 3 big news stories of the day!! It's a great way to start the day...10/10 would recommend

[@KiaraMadisen]

I've heard of that! I've listened a few times but definitely need to make it apart of my day!

[@paulpaul8221]

I had no idea that there is a stereotype in which mean girls become nurses. I learned something new today, haha.

[@danielhagel7071]

Are you planting your roots in Portland, or would you consider relocating? Guess that depends on the job offers too.

[@KiaraMadisen]

oh I 100% am trying to stay...we will see what happens

[@alexiscastro425]

Did you consider applying to entry level Masters in nursing programs where if you have a non-nursing bachelors degree, you can get your RN license and masters all in one program? I just got into a BSN program after majoring in psychology and I’m second guessing if I’m making the right choice by getting another bachelors degree rather than getting a masters. Advice?

[@SenecaBrynn]

the "sad girl vibes" comment hit different haha, i so relate to needing to get outside especially in quarantine! 😅

[@KiaraMadisen]

Yes!! I'm like a dog that needs to go on a daily adventure 😂

[@clairesauzel]

Love your hydro flask bottle so much !!

[@KiaraMadisen]

That’s my baby 😂💙

[@elijahp9184]

Were you traumatized growing up in a city where homelessness is prevalent? I imagine it must have been shocking being exposed to some of the harshness of human existence at such a young age, but I think it's really amazing you remain such a positive person.

[@lizpatanders]

I think toxic positivity refers more to your attitude when someone you know is going through a hard time like saying "Oh something bad happened well just get over it" and letting people feel their pain. You don't seem like that kind of person

[@tavien]

Hi! I love your videos! Where did you get your phone case from?

[@KiaraMadisen]

It's a wildflower case from Urban Outfitters!

[@stephdurkee]

i wanna work on not giving ppl the time out of my day they don’t deserve

[@mariahlowry7429]

Buttt we still don't know if guys find you intimidating--- guys pls admit that you find Kiara intimidating bc she is a boss.

[@Sophia-dnbetyt]

I don't think you give of "toxic positivity" vibes at all 😅 there is a difference between that and the general positive attitude that you have in your videos

[@KiaraMadisen]

thanks girl ❤️

[@vvvviiiicccc100]

kiara switching to a british accent is too relatable 😭✋

[@javiervll8077]

¡Hola Kiara! Very good video and very cool channel 😀 Un saludo desde España 🇪🇸

[@KiaraMadisen]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@Danivg14]

HAHA I can't do the dishes after cooking and eating. I get in a really bad food coma and in need of a nap that I clean the dishes at night

[@KiaraMadisen]

Okay sometimes this happens to me too and I HAVE to nap 😂

[@grandline9327]

Along with the news, did you also watch Home Improvement with your Dad growing up?

[@KiaraMadisen]

Oh 100%...only for a little though bc my parents stopped paying for cable when I was in about 4th grade 😂 but we always watched it on the hotel TVs when we went on a roadtrip lol

[@mellamojaviera95]

I also think we would be friends ❤

[@arknal]

Do you watch other content creators from Portland?

[@rileywilson9839]

My best quality is my ambition, 100%. The quality I need to work on is being insecure in my friendships. I'm definitely the friend that needs to be told we're friends, to actually believe it. It's a work in progress ;) Great video!

[@hersnugspace]

Where did u get ur phone case 😍

[@mwahha6965]

Hi guys idk who needs to hear this but the term mental breakdown is very very serious. It would take months to recover from a breakdown

[@KiaraMadisen]

Preach 👏

[@oliviarose1313]

this was such a fun video, I feel like I could be friends with you too. my best quality is being a caring friend, need to work on being more positive. I tend to get in my head a lot. Ive never had a boyfriend and I also think I just don't know what I could be missing because its not something I think I need right now.

[@anniejones958]

I LOVE YOU

[@KiaraMadisen]

love you MORE

[@siskykeane009]

These high school questions made me laugh! Must be college kids asking those questions. I’m in my late 20s and the older you get the less you care about high school haha

[@KiaraMadisen]

facts.

[@XSemperIdem5]

I didn't care about high school the second I was done with it. I didn't even really care about it while I was still in it. I cared about my academics but not at all about prom or games or whatever else. High school was a means to an end to me. When I started university, I was so glad to be out of that silly high school bubble.

[@zafarwestern]

Great job, Kiara! 👏❤️👏❤️👏

[@noyaalon5561]

Hiii!!😍😍😍

[@KiaraMadisen]

Hey hey hey!!

[@noyaalon5561]

@@KiaraMadisen ❤️❤️❤️

[@katester1303]

The dog assumption took me outtttt hahhahah (teacup pig >>)

[@KiaraMadisen]

Oh wait facts that’s what I’m going to do instead 😏

[@davidkoller8403]

Poured myself a big cup of tea before this one ☕

[@KiaraMadisen]

happy tea time *cheers*

[@brendachaves6375]

Hey Kiara!

[@KiaraMadisen]

Good morning! 👋

[@katelynmorales519]

Make Justin Herbert and Kiara happen!!!

[@KiaraMadisen]

A girl can dream 🙏

[@clarabush7623]

I love you and these videos! We are so similar

[@KiaraMadisen]

i love that for us 😂💕

[@tristinhuntamer1735]

I know that you are looking for medical experience and if you are a CNA you should apply for Professional Case Management. It's the company that I work for that provides home care to former nuclear and radiation workers.

[@KiaraMadisen]

Wow what an amazing organization! I will for sure look into it!

[@brittpfundt8431]

I would love to be friends haha you are so fun. Love your lifetyle learning allot.

[@davidparnell4675]

92 degrees in phoenix today

[@KiaraMadisen]

☀️☀️☀️

[@kentlynorthcutt2296]

Ahhh love it

[@rachellllhines]

I feel the same exact way about romantic relationships

[@KiaraMadisen]

so glad I'm not alone...

[@luizmsilvei]

Kiara, você é uma mulher especial e jovem e responde aos interesses da cordialidade. Você é suave e bela. Felicidades!

[@stephdurkee]

i loved this vid hahah

[@noura.Ah.ja_]

❤️👌🏻 yes 😌😌😌

[@countrygirl8425]

Do you live in oregon

[@KiaraMadisen]

Yep!

[@anasofia1115]

Next video vlog university of Oregon

[@KiaraMadisen]

I need to go back soon!

[@elisabethadams1531]

haha I hate the nursing stereotype too, I get asked that question too often 😂

[@KiaraMadisen]

I had never heard it before I went on tiktok one day and was like WHAT?! 😂

[@XSemperIdem5]

@@KiaraMadisen is this a new stereotype? Because I have never heard of that and I'm older than you.

[@elisabethadams1531]

@@KiaraMadisen haha I heard it as soon as I was a freshman in college and had to say I was pursuing nursing 😂

[@elisabethadams1531]

@@XSemperIdem5 It definitely is newer and half the time people are joking but I don't know exactly how it originated

[@gabrielletornow4857]

Mean girl = nurse Nurse /= mean girl

[@marinettesol9613]

Hello!!!

[@KiaraMadisen]

Good morning ☀️👋

[@avamakanui]

Awww I feel like we’re friends and your my older sister hehe🥺💗😂

[@KiaraMadisen]

love you so much Ava! 💕

[@myloveforluke]

I watch you and Hannah Elise back and forth💓💏💓love you guys both! From japan:) @23:07

[@KiaraMadisen]

She is a true queen ✨💓

[@myloveforluke]

@@KiaraMadisen so are you! 💓💏💓♪♪💃

[@natalie-francescawoods639]

CLICKED THIS SO FAST

[@natalie-francescawoods639]

we love you Kiara! I assume thaaaaat you try to do meditation but your turbo mind always gets going on 3 different ideas during it :)

[@KiaraMadisen]

omg Natalie that is spot on....yoga is not my thing 😂

[@dextermorgan1656]

Kiara, are you afraid of the dark ???

[@KiaraMadisen]

Not really!

[@thedetroyter]

i feel like we could be nurse friends 😂 i hope we work somewhere together one day

[@KiaraMadisen]

I would love that. I can’t wait to have nurse friends ❤️

[@hannahway5564]

I would love love love to send you some free items from my small business!! I embroider crewnecks and oversized tees!🤩 I absolutely love watching your KZbin videos:)

[@KiaraMadisen]

Oh my gosh you’re so sweet! Send me a DM on insta!