Answering your TABOO penis questions....(ft Rena Malik, MD)

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@starwarsgeek3339
@starwarsgeek3339 10 ай бұрын
Hearing MDJ be called Danielle is like learning my mom’s name isn’t mom
@peachledesma4790
@peachledesma4790 10 ай бұрын
This made me lol😂
@dawnkindnesscountsmost5991
@dawnkindnesscountsmost5991 10 ай бұрын
Lol YES, or as a kid, seeing one of your teachers at the grocery store, and their spouse calls them by their first name. 😂 Back in 1983, _Raiders of the Lost Ark_ was re-released to theaters for a couple of weeks, and my siblings and I went to see it again. I ran into my sophomore-year (year I was in in high school) biology teacher coming out of the previous showing, and she said, "Oh, it's so good, you'll love it!" I said, "I know! We saw it two years ago, and it's great to see it again in the theater!" I introduced her to my siblings (both younger), and we said that we'd see each other in school Monday. Then her husband walked up and said, "Vera, do you want the rest of this popcorn?"
@joseph_b319
@joseph_b319 10 ай бұрын
Only doctors can call other doctors by their first name. Lol
@bobd2659
@bobd2659 10 ай бұрын
Lol. Short story. I was loopy from what a Doc kept me on (Ativan, high dose) for days when I didn't need it (it was a ER drug given, ONE dose only). Mom called the ER doc asking why I was still on it days later since MINE didn't give answers. ER doc showed up when my Doc was assessing me one day, I said "HI Sean", and my Doc went PALE... Oopsie, I gave him 'wrong' (read:accurate) answers and he thought I was delusional and kept me on it for days. "HI Sean" to the ER Doc got it fixed in a minute! (Days to come off it though...). Note: I've 'known' Sean since I was born...at the time of this, I was 38.
@tinkeramma
@tinkeramma 10 ай бұрын
It's even weirder to me because my name is Danielle.
@redhead3322
@redhead3322 10 ай бұрын
Love it when youtubers are like "sorry that my camera is a bit blurry" like we all weren't here in 2008 watching video recording on the world's worst webcams.
@TheYannir
@TheYannir 10 ай бұрын
People that were born in 2008 are now 15 and watching KZbin btw.
@Ariplaygames
@Ariplaygames 10 ай бұрын
It shook my world and made me age 1000 years but, I also had to learn at some point that a lot people we see commenting and watching stuff now, were either too small or werent born in years that dont sound that long ago to us (like 2008).
@chloewangensteen7660
@chloewangensteen7660 9 ай бұрын
I was searching for this comment bc I was like girl don’t worry it’s really not that bad like a lot of us have been here a while and 1000% remember crusty vids from crappy cameras where you bc an barely make out a face but hey that was good quality at the time
@soupsandwch
@soupsandwch 4 ай бұрын
"talk about the plant." -the camera
@veevee306
@veevee306 10 ай бұрын
I'm an ER nurse, and we've had two cases just this year of priapism (an erection that lasts for an unusually long time, usually 3+ hours, or is painful and can't be reversed even after orgasm). Each time the patient is so embarrassed they have showed me a note on their phone in triage instead of saying it out loud. They're also shocked when I make them top priority and get them back to a room right away. Priapism, like penile fracture is an actual medical emergency, especially because that trapped blood can clot and then cause a host of complications. The treatment is pretty simple: We drain the blood so that the corpus cavernosum can relax and the patient goes home that same day. So, listen to the doctors: If your penis is really sick, bring it in! No shame!
@r.b.rozier9692
@r.b.rozier9692 10 ай бұрын
I am not super knowledgeable about this...despite the fact I own a penis...but...ummm... isn't...well...I heard that post-aspiration it is hard/impossible to get an erection again...is this true?
@erikpetto3672
@erikpetto3672 10 ай бұрын
@@r.b.rozier9692 Speaking as not a medical professional, it seems unlikely. They just drain the blood out of your Giant Fiery Greatsword, which shouldn't cause any harm or impede any function. It's just a tiny puncture, like when you get a flu shot. Beside, as the good nurse mentioned, it's a medical emergency. Not draining it could cause some pretty serious issues, and you'd do well to do what the doctor says.
@r.b.rozier9692
@r.b.rozier9692 10 ай бұрын
@@erikpetto3672 oh...I almost always listen to doctors...I listen to Nurses more though.
@JonathanMullany-fx1qh
@JonathanMullany-fx1qh 10 ай бұрын
Can this occur naturally?
@personincognito3989
@personincognito3989 10 ай бұрын
​you can
@BrookeReamsthephoenix
@BrookeReamsthephoenix 10 ай бұрын
D-Danielle?? I thought your first name was Mama, middle name Doctor, and last name Jones? I feel decieved 😂
@moriah93ohio
@moriah93ohio 4 ай бұрын
😂😂
@alyssacowan5050
@alyssacowan5050 10 ай бұрын
if you were really rough with giving oral to a penis and bruised your cheek or roof of mouth then the dentist WOULD be able see the bruising and they will probably ask about it (I know from experience...). They also look for bruising in the mouth with children to look for signs of possible sexual assault. My sister got her certificate in dental assisting and had to learn about that.
@ah5721
@ah5721 10 ай бұрын
omg thats crazy dr/ dental assistants need to look out for this . Also apparently oral cancer is starting to take off because of oral sex too. my dental cleaning assistant told me it after she told the dr no oral / throat cancer and I asked why they noted it as I don't smoke / drink or do any drugs .
@MountainPearls
@MountainPearls 10 ай бұрын
Yeah. As a petite woman…a very, very good friend who is dental assistant has warned me about the bruising…but it takes a trained eye and apparently you having done “A LOT” (quite recently) to notice. That being said, if you are a teen, or an adult, they usually ask about boyfriends and look for other signs of SA etc…but it takes pretty rough stuff to be seen clearly. That being said, as a former teacher, it is so (heartbreakingly) more common than people realize…I’m so glad they look for it (and other signs too). They aren’t going to automatically assume you are being hurt, unless you ate just very, very young. Some kids see very few mandatory reporters a year… dentists, doctors, nurses, etc. who catch such things are rockstars! (I just wish they didn’t have to worry about it at all). And if you are a teen…don’t worry about it…but if they do ask questions about boyfriends, whether you are “dating someone” “how is it going” “what they are like”…” etc, it may be more than just general interest (or it might just the general interest…I KNOW my friend had no room to judge, and doesn’t…she just wants get patients safe!). But, if they ask, don’t assume they have seen anything. Dentists, dental workers, are are covered by HIPPA too…they can NOT tell your parents (or anyone else) if it was voluntary…and are safe people to trust with the info. have been SA’d (or not). They’d lose their jobs and might be prosecuted if they told anyone other than the authorities…or anyone else…(if it was voluntary. If you admitted it wasn’t, they’d make sure you were protected and safe). So unless it’s your mom’s best friend or the town gossip, I wouldn’t be concerned about it beforehand or not. They know other signs to look for if it’s voluntary or not, too…again, no one is going to assume it isn’t without other evidence. (Who can tell I taught teenagers who often had anxiety?)
@bunnyrabi
@bunnyrabi 10 ай бұрын
I would not say that a dentist would notice nor would I say a dental assistant is trained to notice. Dentists are all different with all different specializations they also all have different experiences. Dental assistant school is less and less required these days and a lot of schools don't even teach ad much as they used to. However of course any obvious abnormal bruising would be taken notice of, and may be referred to a specialist if the professional who noticed is not experienced enough to diagnosis it.
@jeddybear5909
@jeddybear5909 10 ай бұрын
​@@ah5721i think it's important to add here: if you're having sex with someone you don't know the history of: use protection. Your mouth can also get STIs from oral sex (P, A and Vs!). So use barriers and don't be embarrassed to seek treatment if you do get an STI (or suspect you might) as who I'm replying to said - oral cancers can develop from untreated STIs.
@felixhenson9926
@felixhenson9926 10 ай бұрын
yeah i've heard dentists can tell that kind of thing
@clairep3688
@clairep3688 10 ай бұрын
It’s giving the last day that boys and girls are separated for health class and we’re all the girls talking about the boys’ health. We spent the past week learning about periods and whatnot, and on Monday we’ll resume regular health class as a group and talk about how to dare to just say no to drugs.
@helenalderson6608
@helenalderson6608 10 ай бұрын
I have had one patient, (I'm a dentist) who presented with, multiple 3-6mm ulcerations throughout the mucosa (gay male). He was taking antibiotics for a presumed strep throat. In addition to the lesions (in excess of 20 in number), he had purplish palate that looked like Kaposi's sarcoma. The small lesions appeared to be primary herpetic gingivostomatitis. He reported that he already got "cold sores." I said its likely a different herpetic infection. Encouraged him to have immediate HIV test. He asked if the purple could be anything else. I said that it could be from very agressive oral sex...which, apparently, is what it turned out to be. Scared him sufficiently to be more consistent with condom use.
@AramatiPaz
@AramatiPaz 10 ай бұрын
😂 That's a good scary
@mariannetfinches
@mariannetfinches 10 ай бұрын
Excellent education as always! Semen isn't plant based, but it is vegan, because no animals are harmed or "exploited", which would be the definition for non-vegan. Strict vegans wouldn't wear wool, for example, because the sheep are farmed. As long as the semen is free range & ethically sourced, of course!
@destyniiskywalker
@destyniiskywalker 10 ай бұрын
I've seen people make "wool" from their pet dog's shedding. Especially dogs like samoyeds. Would that be vegan then?
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname 10 ай бұрын
Am i the one that has to point out People are Animals. That Semen is actually alive. Unlike Ovaries. So its not only not Vegan or consensual..... Its mass genocide.
@tchftg
@tchftg 10 ай бұрын
FREE RANGED AND ETHICALLY SOURCED I'M IN TEARS RN
@daniv8500
@daniv8500 10 ай бұрын
​@@destyniiskywalker It's always going to depend from person to person because different vegans will have different levels and exceptions. Some vegan do consume honey because they don't find it exploitative, same as wool, it can be a mutually beneficial action to shave them. So some might think being in control of the source of their animal products is the best way to go
@SL-gz3dy
@SL-gz3dy 10 ай бұрын
​@@destyniiskywalkerto me it is. It happens naturally. Instead of trowing it out, you use it. No harmed or mistreated animal.
@tomadumas2939
@tomadumas2939 10 ай бұрын
It's really reassuring to hear that curved penises are natural and normal and NOT caused all the time by STDs because that's what I've heard in college and I felt bad for people who suffer from STI or any stigma from having a curved penis like that!
@seandobbins2231
@seandobbins2231 10 ай бұрын
First time I've heard the myth that penile curvature is caused by STIs. It also doesn't make much sense either, especially given that a person is most likely to notice the curvature prior to having sex and potentially being exposed to STIs for the first time.
@EinsteinsHair
@EinsteinsHair 10 ай бұрын
It is common for people to have one side of the body slightly larger than the other. I have done no studies, but have long suspected that this extends to all of the body, and one side being larger causes curvature. Also suspect that babies find one arm to be stronger and learn to grasp with that hand. A long time ago I read somewhere, for whatever it is worth, that the two sides of the body "grow independently" in the womb, causing the slight mismatch.
@seandobbins2231
@seandobbins2231 10 ай бұрын
@@EinsteinsHair one side of a body being larger than the other has nothing to do with curvature. Also, it's not simply one side being larger than the other, but slight asymmetries in pairs of body parts, such as hands, feet, legs, breasts etc. Penis curvature is just about how the penis is shaped, not about size.
@michelleanemily
@michelleanemily 10 ай бұрын
Wow iv never heard of it been due to sti.. it’s not though.. I remember seeing my husbands for the first time thinking crap what is up with it.. it curved to the right and when I talked him it to going to get it check3d out it was due to his frenulum been too tights so they did surgery to snip it and everything was fine.. turns out his birth dad had the same but his ripped during sex😢😢
@disembark
@disembark 10 ай бұрын
What the heck.... I've never heard of this nonsensical myth. Extremely odd
@feliciasjoberg9886
@feliciasjoberg9886 10 ай бұрын
Not super related but please debunk Pam Stenzel's MISINFORMATION about abortion, birth control, STI's and Girdasil in "Sex has a price tag". Apparently a LOT of kids heard this in US schools
@Nan-59
@Nan-59 10 ай бұрын
I’m an old granny type, but I’m just looked at found what you just brought up. I’ll watch it because I want to see what crap they’re throwing out to the kids these days! I was in high school in the 70s after abortion became legal actually. In health class and they had health dept nurses come in and tell us where to go to get on birth control.. told us it would be free. How to use a condom all the things you need to do to keep yourself safe. Back in the day they even had a safe name to be able to call your home ask for you and they would say that they are Julia. If you weren’t there, then you would get the message from your parent and you would call the health department to find out what’s up with the test you took or what have you. It was such a good idea and I actually helped all my friends. Stay safe because some of them were quite clueless. One for instance, had sex and didn’t realize she had done it. Back then we didn’t have the abortion pill or anything easy like they do today. Well, like we used to do today, that is. 😢😢😢
@lawrencesaylol
@lawrencesaylol 10 ай бұрын
@@Nan-59it must be unfathomable to see it be, then see the rights taken away in your lifetime.
@janel.8921
@janel.8921 10 ай бұрын
@@Nan-59I overheard this in a high school girls locker room. One girl had another girl confess that she was no longer a virgin. It turned out the girl and her boyfriend had their first kiss. Only a kiss! This happened in the early 1970s.
@doll9340
@doll9340 10 ай бұрын
​@@janel.8921to be fair she isn't wrong. There are different kinds of virgins and it also depends on your definition of a virgin. Maybe to her virginity ends when she starts getting intimate with a partner like kissing
@Jay_0605
@Jay_0605 10 ай бұрын
Pretty sure you already know this but it's true, sex has a price tag(I don't necessarily mean physically but emotionally, mentally and spiritually)
@MeretrixTricks
@MeretrixTricks 10 ай бұрын
Watching two true professionals having the good laughs and educating at the same time is a very enjoyable experience!
@tommac21
@tommac21 4 ай бұрын
No just laughs. Because it's 2 people who know nothing on the subject. And have absolutely no right even talking about it. You have an ob/ gyn who specializes in women and a family dr. Who specializes in headaches and referrals
@scarlettohara5039
@scarlettohara5039 10 ай бұрын
As a long time vegan, I can confirm that I consider seaman to be vegan. It's more about the consent factor than the animal product factor. Same theory with breast milk. If it's given consensually then it's totally fine
@chloehunter9283
@chloehunter9283 10 ай бұрын
I was gonna comment the same thing - also to add, the reason I don't consume animal products is because of the torture they go through, my man ain't going through torture I can assure you😂
@laurendamasoruiz
@laurendamasoruiz 10 ай бұрын
So (just to be controversial but it probably follows your logic) eating embryos is also vegan
@clawwestfall8799
@clawwestfall8799 10 ай бұрын
​@@chloehunter9283 I hate mistreatment and torture of animals as well, but see nothing wrong with eating eggs that we have in our garden, since there is no mistreatment and they don't get killed when they stop having eggs. 🤷‍♀️ But I absolutely admit that I'm selfish and put the nutrient need of me (and by extenshion, humans) above other animals. It's not realistic that everyone stops eating animal products... Somewhat realistic solution would be to persuade people to consume less animal products and force companies to adhere to strict laws to minimize the mistreatment of animals...
@Jess_talks_book
@Jess_talks_book 10 ай бұрын
@@clawwestfall8799 If you're talking about backyard hens, then that's a vegan grey area. Some vegans are ok with eating eggs from hens that are kept as pets because they are properly cared for and not viewed as a commodity.
@Seek1878
@Seek1878 10 ай бұрын
Seaman?
@StealingTimeAtWork
@StealingTimeAtWork 10 ай бұрын
You know speaking as a penis owner the bit about the popping sound is really where the distressed sound began emanating from my throat. EDIT: And then I kept watching and the word "deglove" came into it. *cry* EDIT 2: AND THEN IT KEPT GOING.
@clairer342
@clairer342 10 ай бұрын
I don’t have one, and I was also disturbed at her use of de-glove 😂 That’s usually how they describe catastrophic machine related injuries 😳
@kailebdv
@kailebdv 10 ай бұрын
As soon as she used the term "deglove" I clenched so hard 😂 and then she described it basically as i thought it would be and then the editor hit us with an image too 😂
@vamonaa
@vamonaa 10 ай бұрын
I'm a female and it was quite shocking to imagine the degloving. how do you keep it down after the sutures for a few days, in order not to wake up in the morning with pulled stitches? layman, I know, but real fear
@mionkathryn
@mionkathryn 10 ай бұрын
I recommend Adam Kay's degloving story...
@Puddlewiggle
@Puddlewiggle 10 ай бұрын
Use the word "avulsion" and perhaps it won't hurt so much.
@6195neenee
@6195neenee 10 ай бұрын
Mdj trying to hold it together during the explanation of a broken penis is my favorite thing ever😂
@cathnz9726
@cathnz9726 10 ай бұрын
It was great!
@douglasboyle6544
@douglasboyle6544 10 ай бұрын
I'm a guy with a penis and I watch your channel because it's just a fun way to learn things about body parts I don't have and I have to say even though I've been the proud owner of a penis for my entire life I STILL managed to learn something new in this video too! I will definitely be giving Dr. Malik a follow 🙂
@artchic528
@artchic528 10 ай бұрын
If something about your body is bothering you, no matter how embarrassing it might make you feel, tell a doctor. They’ve seen and heard it all. They’re not there to judge. They’re there to treat what ails you and get you back on your feet as soon as they can. Trust me. I was 37 years old and had been bleeding rectally off and on for a few months and finally decided to get the courage to tell my doctor. He referred me to a gastroenterologist and they did a colonoscopy where they found a cancerous legion. I was then booked for surgery to remove it within a few months and thankfully the legion was caught super early on so no further treatment needed other than to have regular colonoscopies from then on to keep an eye on things.
@tinkeramma
@tinkeramma 10 ай бұрын
Even if they haven't seen or heard that specific thing before, doctors deal with some wild stuff. There may be a few bad eggs out there, but overwhelmingly, they just want to help treat our concerns.
@amandaflowers95
@amandaflowers95 9 ай бұрын
It's worth it, just for the peace of mind!
@carmenattallah6244
@carmenattallah6244 10 ай бұрын
This was great. I appreciate Dr. Malik's attempts to be gender inclusive. And I didn't mind the focus issues.
@nataliemcmillan2605
@nataliemcmillan2605 10 ай бұрын
I was very confused by her talking about male ,female and all other genders. What other genders exist that Im not aware of?
@janemiettinen5176
@janemiettinen5176 10 ай бұрын
@@nataliemcmillan2605 I have a friend who doesnt feel they are either, male or female. They still feel like they fall into the trans category, but they dont feel like they need to change anything in their body (hormones, surgery). Recently I learned that in India thats normal, they have a third gender, where all trans and genderless peeps belong. Hope I answered your question so it makes sense, Im so sleepy :)
@hailyjohnson407
@hailyjohnson407 10 ай бұрын
​@nataliemcmillan2605 many non-Westernized cultures have a third gender in their culture. As one commenter mentioned, it is present in some Indian cultures, as well as some Native American/Aboriginal tribal cultures. Additionally, biologically, there are several types of abnormalities with hormones vs chromosomes that could result in someone being intersex (meaning their biological sex is not distinctly male or female). Although rare, it is still common enough that medical professionals need to be aware of it and sensitive to it, because it's common enough that they will likely have several patients throughout their career who are intersex. Gender and sex are also considered as two separate things based on modern literature and research, so it is possible to be biologically one sex but mentally identify with a gender that does not match your sex. It's a very interesting topic, and if you want to know more, I would suggest googling information about intersex, two-spirit, non-binary, and trans people to learn more, as I'm certainly not an expert, just someone who likes to read.
@roboslug7582
@roboslug7582 9 ай бұрын
@@nataliemcmillan2605 Technically, even if we accept that gender and biological sex (as determined by genitalia, ie phenotypically) are exactly congruent, with no deviation psychologically or physiologically, there would still be four possible "gender configurations", because two squared equals four, similar to how you would predict Mendelian inheritance with two inputs. In such a minimalist case, there could be people with male genitalia, female genitalia, both (hermaphrodite), or neither (sexually ambiguous). And all of those configurations are real and have been medically documented, which breaks the binary phenotypical classification of sex or gender. And it only gets more complex from there. If we view gender in terms of genotype, there are also more than two, because sometimes people can have multiple copies of either an X or Y chromosome. Granted, virtually all such cases are genetic defects that cause a person to be unable to reproduce. But that said, such conditions do exist and have also been medically documented, which breaks the binary genotypical classification of sex or gender. Lastly, that first assumption I mentioned--that there is no gap between the presentation of external genitalia and the psychological affinity toward one stereotypical mode of sexual expression or another--is just patently false. For starters, there's a spectrum of targets of sexual attraction, with people falling on all different points between straight and gay. There's also a spectrum of intensity of sexual attraction, from hypersexual to asexual. And there's a spectrum of sexual identity, including man, woman, and numerous variants of "I'm not sure", "I don't care" and "None of the above". And that's admittedly a purely psychological thing, but then again, the love that people feel for their partner is also a purely psychological thing. Does that make it fake or imaginary or worthless? In my opinion, no. I think love is a very real thing, even though it's literally "all in my head". So, by that same reasoning, a purely psychological expression of gender, even if it's defined in terms that do not closely match the phenotypical and genotypical definitions of sex, is equally real, and has a similarly profound impact on emotional expression and, consequently, happiness. That doesn't mean I necessarily always agree with every public policy proposal offered up by the non-binary community, but I don't deny the reality and validity of their gender identity simply because is not manifest genetically or anatomically. And if you find yourself disagreeing with them on those points, by all means, try to have that conversation with them in a respectful and meaningful way. Incidentally, for non-binary folks and allies, please be open to such conversations, because there's a lot of complexity here and there are often viable solutions that work for both sides. But the real point here is, don't be so quick to dismiss something just because it doesn't match your own experience. The human mind and body are incredibly complex, and their many features and functions rarely fit into neatly ordered boxes.
@tianahorsey-daydreamer8962
@tianahorsey-daydreamer8962 10 ай бұрын
When I was 6 I saw "sex is good" graffiti'd in the school bathroom. I asked my mom what sex was, she said it was a very special kind of hug that only adults do. When I was 12 or 13 my mom gave me the full, in detail, talk. (I was homeschooled at this point, so I didn't have a class for this.) She took me out for a walk in the woods initially just to explain that I'd be getting my first period soon, I asked more questions and she ended up unprepared. So since she didn't have any materials, she took a stick and drew diagrams in the dirt for me. My first question was to demand that she tell me that she had never done something so disgusting. She reminded me that I exist. I remembered that I have a bother, did some quick math, and exclaimed in absolute horror, "OH MY GOD YOU DID IT TWICE! 😱" My second and last question was "but what if he pees in me??" She explained that it's not really something they can do once hard. I hid in my room for the rest of the day after swearing off sex and demanding that my dad confirm that peeing inside someone isn't an option. 🤣😂 The swearing off it hasnt gone so great. But oh well. I am safe, my mom always had an open door policy for questions and just catered them to our ages so I was well prepared, and its worked out.
@personincognito3989
@personincognito3989 10 ай бұрын
Kids need to learn about sex really young so that they can protect themselves from a good and bad touch. twelve or thirteen's a bit late. I think they should learn it at home though.
@tianahorsey-daydreamer8962
@tianahorsey-daydreamer8962 10 ай бұрын
@@personincognito3989 Oh I knew that people shouldn't touch me. I had a solid idea, and an age-appropriate understanding. I just didn't know the mechanics.
@tianahorsey-daydreamer8962
@tianahorsey-daydreamer8962 10 ай бұрын
My mom was abused by several male members of her family, I didn't grow up knowing pretty much anyone I shared biology with because of it. So she made sure I knew about bad touch, to let her or an available adult know immediately if I ever was ever touched in a way that made me uncomfortable, or if I was ever asked to touch someone else in a way that made me uncomfortable. Again, all age appropriate. I knew the correct names of all my anatomy and my brothers as well. I just never made the "penis meets vagina" or mouth or whatever connection until 12 or 13 when it was broken down for me by my mother in the above conversation. That conversation also included condoms and birth control. I knew vaguely about periods because mom had Endo and thus awful periods, but I didn't know the details so she broke it down for me. Nothing she taught me that day didn't have an already solid foundation which began construction pretty much from the time I could talk. ☺️ Editing to add another thought so I don't bombard you with reply notifications, sorry. 🤣 The earliest I knew people would want to touch me was when I was about 4ish, when I threw a shit fit that my friends that were boys could go outside without a shirt on, but I couldn't. My mom had to explain to me that it was for my safety. Good times. She and I both know it's not about the clothes btw. She was just doing what little she could to try to mitigate if she could. But yeah, people hurting me, and the word "sex" were not connected in my head until later. But I have known practically my whole life that it was something to be aware of. I didn't need details to know that someone touching my body in a way I didn't want was bad. Those can come later.
@SophiaLi-pv9ec
@SophiaLi-pv9ec 10 ай бұрын
Your mom is a very good mom for having an open conversation about it with you!
@roundhouse2616
@roundhouse2616 10 ай бұрын
It sounds like your mom did an amazing job of keeping you informed in an age-appropriate way! Good on her!
@Serenity_Dee
@Serenity_Dee 10 ай бұрын
Learning about penis fractures made my eyes water. When I talked to someone who actually experienced one, he told me it was even more painful than it sounds 😵‍💫 EDIT: oh, and the question about why you'd want a penis in your mouth… I feel like trying to answer that in the comments breaks a rule somewhere 😅
@shoutingfactory3694
@shoutingfactory3694 10 ай бұрын
Reading your comment while it has 69 likes 😵🤣🤣🤣
@miraculous_lady_noir2179
@miraculous_lady_noir2179 10 ай бұрын
@@shoutingfactory3694 Ruining the comment's 69 likes
@KxNOxUTA
@KxNOxUTA 10 ай бұрын
Nah it's fine. It was properly explained. Most people can understand that when you e.g. eat things, some are sensory pleasing an some are not and this will also vary for individuals. And post ppl will very likely have experience of playing around with in their mouth something sensory pleasing or even just sensory interesting. like an ice cube, or lollipops or chewing gum, etc.. Sensory pleasing things are sensory pleasing, regardless of them being sexual or not lol.
@Yummi_913
@Yummi_913 10 ай бұрын
I would love to see a video discussing pelvic floor issues as a result of birth. I think this isn't talked about enough and too many people never get answers because either a) our OB cant/won't help, so we think no-one treats it, or b) we're told theres no use looking into it because insurance won't cover it. Over time I've learnt that this isn't entirely the case but I would love to hear from professionals in the field how this works and what peoples options really are (and probably what it costs people if insurance still refuses to pay). I still see so many people (myself included) struggling with birth-related pelvic floor issues who feel they have no options and its so frustrating and sad.
@vladimirareynolds7217
@vladimirareynolds7217 10 ай бұрын
I appreciate the way you girls talk about sex and sex organs. You are able to communicate seriousness when necessary, but also goofiness as well. The light-hearted, and open way you discuss these topics should be emulated. Sexual health, and the human body shouldn’t be taboo topics ❤
@blu_heron
@blu_heron 10 ай бұрын
It’s so cool to see you collaborating together! Thank you for this video!
@DaniS398
@DaniS398 10 ай бұрын
I'm leaving all optional body modifications for my kids up to them. My boys are not circumcised and when they're older/adults they can make that decision for themselves. And the little girl I'm carrying will decide when she's older if she wants to get her ears pierced.
@crunchevo8974
@crunchevo8974 10 ай бұрын
Yes, we need so many more people like you in the world. I'm super pro body mods but... When someone is old enough to comprehend what something like a piercing entails. Babies are not accessories. They're human beings.
@historical.isolde7918
@historical.isolde7918 10 ай бұрын
Plus, if any of your children with a penis ever comes out as transgender and wishes to undergo Sex Reassignment Surgery (SRS. And no- not all transwomen want SRS, but they are still women), then it will be to their benefit to be uncircumcised. The more penile and testicular skin and tissue is available for the surgeon to work with, the better the outcome will be. In other words, the more skin you have before surgery, the more you will have after!
@L._._
@L._._ 10 ай бұрын
Same ❤
@lancewalker2595
@lancewalker2595 4 ай бұрын
Good on you. I secretly resent the fact that I'm circumcised... secretly of course, what's done is DONE (unfortunately).
@lancewalker2595
@lancewalker2595 4 ай бұрын
@@historical.isolde7918 That is a disgusting reason NOT to mutilate baby boys. How about this instead: STOP MUTILATING BABY BOYS.
@KR-wk8hv
@KR-wk8hv 10 ай бұрын
I appreciate that the question featured in the thumbnail was the first question answered. I didn’t have to skip the whole video in search of the answer for the question that drew me in. I actually enjoyed the whole video instead. Thanks MDJ.
@FloridaNativeKatie
@FloridaNativeKatie 10 ай бұрын
I so appreciate what you ladies said about medical studies & personal experiences❤ this is why we trust you, thank you!!!
@billko867
@billko867 10 ай бұрын
Crossover video featuring two of the most awesome doctors on KZbin. Thanks for this! 😊
@RenaMalikMD
@RenaMalikMD 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ so fun!
@Rachelief
@Rachelief 10 ай бұрын
How interesting!! I’ve heard of a penciled fracture, but I love that she’s going into detail on the medical terminology. As a currently pregnant mom of one who is a biology major on the pre-med track- I am ready for this watch❤ I don’t care if the focus of the camera shifts or is off, I am SO excited to hear this video. I haven’t heard of this doctor online, but I’m about to follow her too.
@5678efgh3
@5678efgh3 10 ай бұрын
This channel is by far the best medical channel I've been fortunate enough to come across! I love your vids and love your guests! Please never stop making content ma'am, you're doing so much good for people!
@MamaDoctorJones
@MamaDoctorJones 10 ай бұрын
♥️♥️
@5678efgh3
@5678efgh3 10 ай бұрын
@@MamaDoctorJones oh and also thank you very much for speaking up for the people of Palestine (as well as other marginalized groups), you weren't obligated to do so and yet still did it despite how some heartless folk could give you a headache over it... 😊😊
@vingyl_lygnivplus3467
@vingyl_lygnivplus3467 10 ай бұрын
I’ve always called it the penis doctor because personally, I had no idea where to go if there was an issue. It was always helpful for me to think of it as an equivalent because if I had a problem with it, that’s where I’d think to go. Appreciate the advice in this video though, very important info for people to know!
@victoriamctague3708
@victoriamctague3708 10 ай бұрын
I LOVE your validation and acceptance of everyone’s experience. Thank you!
@DanielleNicoleMakeup
@DanielleNicoleMakeup 10 ай бұрын
Love that you are spreading awareness about both sexes biology. We definitely need more education. Your channel is great. I wish she would've mentioned the clitorus is the biological equivalent of the penis (not the vaginal canal) which is why most women can't orgasm from penetration. Also that male circumcision is not the same as female circumcision. Just good facts to learn that I didn't understand when I was younger either. Great content! ❤
@personincognito3989
@personincognito3989 10 ай бұрын
Don't most adults know that? one is the foreskin one is the clitoris.
@woedendstewadpier4922
@woedendstewadpier4922 10 ай бұрын
There are differences between male and female circumcision. It is however possible to remove the skin covering the clitoral gland. That would be the equivalent. Of course nobody in their right mind would do that because that would expose sensitive parts to friction and dryness. You have the same effect for the penis and the gland in the penis is way bigger too. I am very disappointed that they talked about cancer prevention (which they say basically almost never happens anyways) instead of the very real protective functionality of foreskin. Just thinking about having frostbite on this sensitive gland dents shivers down my spine.
@DanielleNicoleMakeup
@DanielleNicoleMakeup 10 ай бұрын
@woedendstewadpier4922 totally agree! My point was that female "circumcision" is not "just" removing the clitoral hood though. It is often sewing the vaginal canal almost completely shut and attempting to remove the entire clitorus removing any pleasure and causing serious health problems. This thought alone makes me shiver too. We need more education and respect for our bodies
@thelegioncollective
@thelegioncollective 10 ай бұрын
I'm 31 and just learned from this comment. I was always called broken or abnormal or something because I've never came in my entire life (all 3 of my experiences were piv only).
@woedendstewadpier4922
@woedendstewadpier4922 10 ай бұрын
@@DanielleNicoleMakeup I agree. The stuff that happens during female genital mutilation is horrendous. It is so incredibly cruel and I really do not understand who this keeps being a thing generation after generation.
@meljstephan
@meljstephan 10 ай бұрын
My mom is undergoing testing right now regarding her kidney function and I've been learning a lot about kidneys and they're fascinating
@ingridn0g
@ingridn0g 10 ай бұрын
Great video, and it's awesome seeing women talking about this naturally and spreading great info! I have a doubt/comment about the circumcision part: a few years ago I read an article in a magazine. It was a woman telling a story about how her brother commited s**cide after going through terrible chronic pain that began after he was circumcised. I always wondered if that's a risk for all people who go through circumcision, or if this man was just a very unlucky person.
@Reticence9zen924
@Reticence9zen924 10 ай бұрын
I'm glad to see other arguments here.
@valvadis2360
@valvadis2360 10 ай бұрын
The circuncision question was very important to me, i just had to have this surgery due to a scratch that wasn't closing properly and was located there so it's nice to know more of what this means to me. My Urologist wasn't nearly this open about what this means to my future. (And even mean before the surgery, joking about giving me a sex change surgery).
@animeartist888
@animeartist888 10 ай бұрын
Definitely never go back to that urologist. That is SUCH not okay behavior. Circumcision is absolutely not a gender changing surgery, what the actual hell.
@enchantedwoodsacademy8132
@enchantedwoodsacademy8132 10 ай бұрын
Adult circumcision (edit:CONSENT) is different than infants. Thank you for acknowledging that.
@-.._.-_...-_.._-..__..._.-.-.-
@-.._.-_...-_.._-..__..._.-.-.- 10 ай бұрын
Consent is important, but it's not that important. One of the jobs of a parent is to make life-alerting decisions for their child. Some decisions are better addressed sooner than later. I'm grateful my parents made the decision for me.
@inexordiumest2389
@inexordiumest2389 10 ай бұрын
Adults are responsible to make decision yes, but those decisions must be necessary. Optional surgical interventions do not count. The practice should be banned for infants…anyone who believes in body autonomy but says men don’t deserve it are hypocrites. Both men and women deserve agency over their bodies. How can someone sit there and say men need to respect women’s bodies and decisions thereof and then also say “except men with their penis, sorry you don’t count!” Screw that! Body autonomy for everyone ought to be the gold standard. My opinion on this will not change.
@Drake33333
@Drake33333 10 ай бұрын
@@-.._.-_...-_.._-..__..._.-.-.- Just to have my experience here, I was circumcised as an infant and that is something I wish I could undo. Every so often I'll feel pain on the scar line where the cutting was done. I also don't like the possibility that I could have lost pleasure receptors. Unfortunately there isn't really a way to go back now that it is done, whereas if it hadn't been done, I could choose to do it.
@Raztiana
@Raztiana 10 ай бұрын
Exactly! You can do whatever you feel like to your own body, but operating on an infant without it being absolutely necessesary is at best unethical.
@thelegioncollective
@thelegioncollective 10 ай бұрын
​@-.._.-_...-_.._-..__..._.-.-.- yes, it IS that important. Good for you, but consent IS IMPORTANT.
@ebonyblack4563
@ebonyblack4563 10 ай бұрын
While the circumcised person may be less likely to acquire new STDs, there is some concern they may spread them easier as some levels of circumcision can completely remove what self lubrication and reduce mobility of the skin that the penis has, and thus causes more micro tears in partner's; which can lead to higher infection rates for many STDs. That stuck with me when researching circumcision and foreskin restoration.
@stacybeck2904
@stacybeck2904 10 ай бұрын
When MDJ said that “you are an individual experiencing your own personal experiences. You are not a research study.” was wonderful! I wish all doctors took that train of thought. Instead of just looking at the majority and blowing off very real issues or concerns.
@meganwoehl5277
@meganwoehl5277 10 ай бұрын
Wish there were more urologists that were female. I had to start seeing a urologist at a very young age, and the only ones in our area were male. It was incredibly uncomfortable getting a pelvic exam by a male doctor before I even hit puberty. We had quite a few visits with him but he never identified the issue and all his remedies failed. The only thing that eventually worked was seeing a chiropractor, but that only fixed things for about a week or so at a time and we couldn't afford to keep going every week (plus he did a bad adjustment on my neck once and I told my mom I was never going back. I'll never know for sure, but I suspect that's what triggered my migraines and daily persistent headaches...they started around the same time).
@solar0wind
@solar0wind 10 ай бұрын
A chiropractor should never adjust the neck. That can be very dangerous. In some people with certain health issues it can even lead to stroke.
@meganwoehl5277
@meganwoehl5277 10 ай бұрын
@solar0wind it was not a fun experience. He adjusted the one side of my neck and it was fine. Then he did the other side and I screamed! Immediately knew it wasn't right. Can't remember much, but I'm pretty sure he laughed it off and just said I was really tense in that area. It was weird though, because he just *decided* to adjust my neck that day, even though I was only going to him to adjust my hips.
@solar0wind
@solar0wind 10 ай бұрын
@@meganwoehl5277 Oh wow, that's so messed up. Have you ever let this part of your neck be checked out by a doctor? Idk what the right specialist would be. Maybe an orthopaedist?
@meganwoehl5277
@meganwoehl5277 10 ай бұрын
@solar0wind yeah, I went to an internal medicine specialist for my headaches/migraines, got an MRI, physical therapy, and therapeutic massages. Hasn't helped much, but I'll admit I gave up on the physical therapy stretches.
@felixhenson9926
@felixhenson9926 10 ай бұрын
Eh, I've heard a lot of stories about male patients wanting female urologists for kind of dubious reasons so ngl i'm personally giving men making a big deal about it bombastic sideeye so i suspect that might deter a lot of women from going into the field.
@Keshlynne
@Keshlynne 10 ай бұрын
Honestly, I played the video in the background while I worked. You guys helped keep me awake. The camera didn't bother me at all because I couldn't see it.
@blugreen123
@blugreen123 10 ай бұрын
I literally gasped when she said "deglove" when answering the first question. 😬
@crunchevo8974
@crunchevo8974 10 ай бұрын
The word deglove really is one of the most viscerally violently repulsive words in medicine when it comes to the human body. Blah couldn't they say fold or move out of the way instead. Deglove just paints too clear of a picture
@rose_thyme1254
@rose_thyme1254 10 ай бұрын
Super interesting! And I'm so glad you didnt scrap the video, the focusing issues were completely managable as a viewer
@meowmeowmeowmeowcatoncomputer
@meowmeowmeowmeowcatoncomputer 10 ай бұрын
I will never forget my teenage-hood (ex) BF wanted to play 21 Questions and one of the first few questions I asked was "How do men's penises go in their pants? Like do they hang in the front or the side or what?" I was like 15 at the time. I had been wondering this for a while and did not have the courage to ask any other penis-holder in my life. He thought it was funny. I did not. He did answer my question though. So, yes, I do in fact know where the penis goes inside of the pants. 🤣🤣
@meganwoehl5277
@meganwoehl5277 10 ай бұрын
That's not how you play 21 questions 😂
@SophiaLi-pv9ec
@SophiaLi-pv9ec 10 ай бұрын
I've never had the courage to ask a male so since you did, where DOES it go?
@rizahawkeyepierce1380
@rizahawkeyepierce1380 10 ай бұрын
​@@SophiaLi-pv9ecKinda depends. Some penises get a lot longer when they're erect, so there's not much to worry about when they're not. If not, I guess you kinda tuck it to the side (you can tuck it up and back between your legs, but that's more common among trans women, I think).
@T1MB05L1C3
@T1MB05L1C3 10 ай бұрын
We just stick it on when we're ready to go. /jk
@westzed23
@westzed23 10 ай бұрын
​@@SophiaLi-pv9ecMen can choose how their penis is placed in their clothing. Tight Jockeys will hold it close to the body. With boxers the man has to decide which leg he wants to go with. Tailors and costumers will ask if "Sir dresses to the right or left". I guess a codpiece takes choice out of the equation.
@WeatherManToBe
@WeatherManToBe 10 ай бұрын
As someone with the referenced appendage, I found it quite interesting it's only a 50% chance of ED without early intervention. Can't believe it's not 100%! 😮 And then when the guest started her next sentence, I could not stop the video fast enough screaming, "NO NO NO NO NO NO NONONONONONO". I've heard enough😅 y'all be blessed😂😂😂 Edit: I'm glad I came back after a cup of tea. Video is hilarious😂😂😂!!
@jourdyngroman
@jourdyngroman 10 ай бұрын
i still remember watching the video from my first birthday where my dad and uncle are talking off-frame about how my mom broke my dad's penis a few nights before. they had no idea the camcorder picked it up, and neither did my mom lmao. i got a surprise that day
@danielkennedy8355
@danielkennedy8355 10 ай бұрын
I love this channel. You are so good at education in a very uncomfortable subject. I found your channel when I was trying to learn about female health to prepare myself to answer questions from my daughters and I've learned so much.
@Jess_talks_book
@Jess_talks_book 10 ай бұрын
The camera was like: "That's a really nice plant. I'm going to focus on that plant."
@Shion.U27
@Shion.U27 10 ай бұрын
I love these videos because they are actually so educational, and make talking about "Taboo" topics fun, safe, and interesting.
@sharonealleyne9839
@sharonealleyne9839 10 ай бұрын
This was too short! Totally enjoyed it, and it was very educational!
@makeavoy
@makeavoy 10 ай бұрын
Some great points. I feel the need to reiterate the circumcision stance because that should absolutely be up to an adult to make about their own body. Personally I can't imagine the benefits of circumcising outside of religious reasons because the benefits of NOT circumcising are so many. But when your child is older they can decide for themselves if they should remove it. It's not up to you to decide for them. Period. No exceptions.
@tinkeramma
@tinkeramma 10 ай бұрын
There are limited benefits to some children who are dealing with other concerns involving the penis. Circumcision as a treatment for something problematic that's actually happening seems very different to me than ritual surgery on a newborn who can't consent. Depending on the severity of the problems being addressed, I don't agree that there are no exceptions. I know a mother with a medically complex son who had recurrent UTIs that affected him so severely that the UTIs and fever plus his other conditions became life-threatening. He was young enough that even if he didn't have a developmental delay, there's no way he could consent. At the same time, that decision was clearly made in the best interest of her child, not for aesthetics, religion, or avoiding the minor effort to keep an intact penis clean. Parents need the authority to pursue medical care for their children's conditions when they become reality and not theoretical. Everything else can wait.
@makeavoy
@makeavoy 10 ай бұрын
@@tinkeramma sorry I meant cosmetic circumcision, I should have been more specific. The authority to allow surgery for medical benefits is something that's up to a doctor. A parent doesn't decide if you need your appendix removed, the doctor does. Circumcision shouldn't be any different, but I know that's not going to happen. At the very least parents should be educated on the benefits of keeping it. Because it wont grow back.
@tinkeramma
@tinkeramma 10 ай бұрын
@makeavoy Depending on the country where a family lives, the parents' role varies. Certainly surgery isn't happening without a doctor, but in the US, parents are definitely involved in the decision. Currently, doctors are also consenting to performing cosmetic circumcision. I'm not sure how we address that versus the religious rights people have here, but I agree -- this should not be done to someone who is unable to consent.
@ShannonRochon
@ShannonRochon 10 ай бұрын
The issue with circumcision that the men in my life have mentioned is that the head gets desensitized because it is constantly exposed. So it's constantly rubbing against much harsher material than the inside of soft skin.
@woedendstewadpier4922
@woedendstewadpier4922 10 ай бұрын
When you talk about circumcision, please mention the protective properties of foreskin. It protects the gland from dryness, friction and frostbite. While a circumcised penis will adapt somewhat to the friction part, and a little regarding the dryness, nothing can prepare the gland for cold weather. Sometimes the foreskin is retracted and the gland exposed in the pants (can happen when you have had an erection while wearing pants), I can tell you how uncomfortable that is. It feels like somebody forcefully rubbing sandpaper on my most sensitive body part. Maybe mention that instead of saying something about a cancer that basically almost never happens anyways. And if you get the cancer you can still remove it. I would rather have both my ears and a finger removed, than my foreskin.
@NikolajDiamantKnudsen
@NikolajDiamantKnudsen 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for mentioning this. My thoughts exactly. Also when she mentions circ and sensitivity it seems to me she hasn't done her reasearch, or that theres a degree of confirmation bias. Here's a study that finds that the sensitivity is actually decreased after circ. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23374102/ Similarly a study mapping the sensitivity of both circ and un circ found that circumcision ablates the most sensitive parts of the penis. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17378847/ And heres a study finding how 4/100 circumcisions result in rather severe complications. search-ebscohost-com.ez-jmk.statsbiblioteket.dk/login.aspx?direct=true&db=ccm&AN=150749337&site=ehost-live
@material-cheshirekhatter2413
@material-cheshirekhatter2413 10 ай бұрын
Penile and testicular cancer DOES happen a lot, millions of people are diagnosed every year, wtf?
@woedendstewadpier4922
@woedendstewadpier4922 10 ай бұрын
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 Nobody was talking about testicular cancer. In the video they said that circumcision would prevent penile cancer. That has nothing to do with testicle cancer. For penile cancer they are saying in the video that it is extremely rare. I looked up how rare it is and it is 0.3 to 1 in 100 000 men per year in Western countries. If we say its 1 in 100 000 world wide it would mean a total of 80 000 cases per year. Compare that to breast cancer with 2 000 000 cases per year So yes, penile cancer is extremely rare.
@ouwebrood497
@ouwebrood497 10 ай бұрын
The penile cancer argument to promote male circumcision is beyond ridiculous. By this reasoning it makes more sense to do preventive mastectomies but that would be considered insane and rightly so.
@rozharris6834
@rozharris6834 10 ай бұрын
Your chances of having complications with circumcision also are much higher than your chances of having penile cancer.
@HeartTheBodyMovement
@HeartTheBodyMovement 10 ай бұрын
This video could be waaayyy longer and I’d watch it all ever for the naughtily interesting questions! Please do part 2 of weird penis questions! No one talks about it like this. We need more of this in our society.
@AmarisFrede
@AmarisFrede 10 ай бұрын
So, was the piercing question for another day? Also, if penis cancer is super rare and it starts in the skin, wouldn't it suffice to get cut once it happens? I just think cutting something healthy off that was put there for a reason (otherwise we wouldn't have it) as preventive measure for something rare is unreasonable.
@meganwoehl5277
@meganwoehl5277 10 ай бұрын
It also reduces risk of STDs and infections. If we're talking about grown men who consent to this, there probably isn't much benefit as they should be responsible enough to clean it and use best practices for preventing an STD. For children that have it done without their consent, while there is a huge issue around whether it is ethically/morally right to do this before they can consent, there also is the huge benefit of decreased infections. As babies, parents can clean beneath the foreskin for them. But as the child gets more independent and starts cleaning themselves, there's a good chance they won't be cleaning it too thoroughly and are at risk of infections. So its not just a cosmetic choice, it's a hygiene choice. I'm still undecided if I think it is right or wrong to perform it on someone who cannot consent, but at this point I'm just going to mind my business and let the parents decide. I don't have kids, I'm not sure if I want kids, so I'm not going to judge a parent for deciding either way.
@kittychasesquirrels
@kittychasesquirrels 10 ай бұрын
@@meganwoehl5277 I don't think parents are told to clean under their childrens foreskin as it can cause issues pulling it back too early. Instead they are told to clean it "like a finger" until the child is old enough to pull it back themselves without issue.
@jelatinosa
@jelatinosa 10 ай бұрын
​@@meganwoehl5277 the males in my husband's family are not cut and they've never had a problem with infections that my husband's aware of. I think boys getting utis or other infections like that is very rare. If they are prone to it for whatever reason, maybe then it makes sense to consider circumcision, otherwise it's pretty unnecessary. It only prevents things that are extremely rare to begin with or are easy to avoid with safe practices.
@angelikaskoroszyn8495
@angelikaskoroszyn8495 10 ай бұрын
@meganwoehl5277 In Europe we somehow don't have the issue with infections
@emerald3331
@emerald3331 10 ай бұрын
It's really bad to use penile cancer as an excuse since it's so rare.
@Pearakeet_Arts
@Pearakeet_Arts 10 ай бұрын
This was an awesome video, I wish more of this was taught in school.
@Thomas-ys5jc
@Thomas-ys5jc 10 ай бұрын
Dr. Malik is SO good at explaining.
@3DJapan
@3DJapan 10 ай бұрын
I've heard a dentist on here say yes they can tell. Edit: I did a little more reading and found the head of the University of Pennsylvania Dental Clinic (which is where I happen to go) saying they might be able to tell from bruising or lacerations on the soft palette in the back of the mouth.
@Wraiven22
@Wraiven22 10 ай бұрын
Loved the OMGYes shoutout! I went to IU Bloomington and took several classes at the Kinsey Institute. Always love seeing our school’s output get mentioned. Hoosiers!
@purplexninjamom
@purplexninjamom 10 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for the weird "things might go missing inside your behind" with sound. It cracked me up.
@mrslkw
@mrslkw 10 ай бұрын
I need to follow her because my son has had numerous visits to the urologist (relatively severe hypospadias), as well as 2 surgeries.
@goldug
@goldug 10 ай бұрын
Great video! However, according to Dr. Doe (sexplanations), your dentist *can* in some cases tell if you've performed oral sex. I don't remember the exact reason she stated in her video about it, but it had something to do with bruising in your mouth.
@meganwoehl5277
@meganwoehl5277 10 ай бұрын
Yes. However it's quite rare to get bruising in your mouth from oral, unless it was very rough. It's important that they are able to identify it though because young children who have been forced into doing that are far more likely than an adult to present with bruising. Dentists are also mandatory reporters, so noticing something like this (something that typically doesn't leave much evidence behind and can be easily missed by other mandatory reporters) can literally save lives. If you're an adult, or an older teen who has performed oral consensually though, no need to worry. Dentists are also part of HIPAA so they cannot disclose this to anyone unless they have reason to believe it is part of abuse.
@goldug
@goldug 9 ай бұрын
@@meganwoehl5277 I can neither deny or confirm what you wrote, I only know what I remember from the Sexplanations video she (Dr. Doe) made. She was at the dentist and asked about it and the dentist confirmed that they can see it. It bruises very easily, it can probably happen by eating something like a cucumber too, but probably to a lesser extent. I'd recommend watching the video though.
@r.b.rozier9692
@r.b.rozier9692 10 ай бұрын
Also...straight from the doctors: YOU NEVER GO ASS TO MOUTH!
@D38401
@D38401 10 ай бұрын
Or anal back to vagina you can get a bad bacterial infection. I always use condoms with Anal.
@material-cheshirekhatter2413
@material-cheshirekhatter2413 10 ай бұрын
With either gender, and you also never go A to V if there's a girl I see so many people saying that they do that🤕
@minksrule2196
@minksrule2196 10 ай бұрын
What about orrally ass to vagina? Like what if they lick the ass and then the vagina? Is that bad?
@r.b.rozier9692
@r.b.rozier9692 8 ай бұрын
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 that's gross, soooo many possible infections!
@hollyberberena1208
@hollyberberena1208 10 ай бұрын
This video awnsered all questions I didn't know I had! Very fun and informative.
@lavernedofelmier6496
@lavernedofelmier6496 10 ай бұрын
You ladies are enlightening, crazy questions with great answers.
@rebeccakelly2325
@rebeccakelly2325 10 ай бұрын
Can you do an episode on cosleeping? I feel like there’s such conflicting narratives about it.
@alicecain4851
@alicecain4851 10 ай бұрын
This could have been longer! Fun and informative!
@missnaomi613
@missnaomi613 10 ай бұрын
As always, the inclusive language is very much appreciated! ❤🏳‍⚧
@morganmishel
@morganmishel 10 ай бұрын
Oh we spicy SPICY with these questions. But I LOVE the openness. So SO important.
@thatsuspiciouswhalenut
@thatsuspiciouswhalenut 10 ай бұрын
your dentist might not be able to tell if you've given oral but your lab techs will if you had a sample taken afterwards. I've seen spermatozoa in some strange places that swabs had been taken from under the microscope
@feliciasjoberg9886
@feliciasjoberg9886 10 ай бұрын
YAY! Been wanting this collab for a while!
@savannah4439
@savannah4439 10 ай бұрын
I would guess that generally semen is vegan bc from my understanding, it’s considered vegan if it’s given with consent. Animals can’t give consent so their products aren’t vegan, but breast milk for example is vegan
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname 10 ай бұрын
That only counts if humans are not animals and that the living sperm can give consent. Also if the meaning was only about consent :) So no its not vegan
@itsneuro
@itsneuro 10 ай бұрын
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname Lol what? Sperm cells are not any more alive than plant cells are, which vegans already consume. Why would an individual cell have to give consent?
@jelatinosa
@jelatinosa 10 ай бұрын
​@Areyousayingidontknowmyname that makes absolutely no sense. Sperm aren't animals or living beings that can experience pain. Veganism is not the same as plant based. Veganism is an ethical stance that intends to reduce animal cruelty and exploitation as much as possible by refusing to consume or use products of said exploitation. It just so happens that "plant based" generally fits in with that goal. In the context of consenting adults, consuming or using semen would definitely be considered vegan, even though it's not "plant based" because it doesn't rely on exploitation or suffering and is freely given, or taken with consent.
@Sanity016
@Sanity016 10 ай бұрын
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname sperm is not living per se. its cells are haploid and only contain half the genetic material. i suppose you could say the nuclei could give consent but then you could say plant nuclei could give consent which is ridiculous. if the organism in which the product is produced gives consent it should be vegan. the semen's owner giving consent should qualify the semen as vegan. you could argue that other members of the animal kingdom don't or cant give consent to have their bodies or byproducts used but I'm pretty confident that by all counts semen is unequivocally vegan from a consent perspective. Also humans are animals and can give consent, both statements can be true. I don't think just because humans are animals it voids the consent statement. I really just spent the time and energy to write a whole paragraph to disprove a comment, whose entire thesis is predicated on a completely trivial concept. I have literally no life. I'm sorry for wasting your time and mine.
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname 10 ай бұрын
@@jelatinosa Sperm cells have some characteristics of living organisms: they metabolize sugars to produce energy, they grow (mature), and they move on their own
@learnshareevolve1842
@learnshareevolve1842 10 ай бұрын
Great service taking on these 'taboo' & fun topics!
@_starstuff
@_starstuff 10 ай бұрын
What an awesome video!! I would love to see MDJ do a collab with a sex therapist where they discuss medical AND psychological aspects of intimacy
@pluggedfinn-bj3hn
@pluggedfinn-bj3hn 10 ай бұрын
"We need you to go over there" me as amab enby who's been obsessively watching both channels since I found them :D (few months ago) Great deeper sex/reproductive education from both of you, thanks for your work!
@beccaboo4083
@beccaboo4083 10 ай бұрын
Camera Operator here. To prevent the focus going whacky, frame the person up on auto focus, have them sit still then switch to MANUAL focus. When they move there will be some slight out of focus but it would be WAY better than when it's on auto trying to figure out what is going on. Also, it might have thought the plant in the background was the subject matter. Hope this helps 😊
@nicolad8822
@nicolad8822 10 ай бұрын
It’s weird how accepted male circumcision is in the US. In the UK it’s only Muslims and Jews who do it unless it’s medically indicated.
@blazenfate
@blazenfate 10 ай бұрын
Therefore accepted in UK. What was your point?
@ItsChuckShirley
@ItsChuckShirley 10 ай бұрын
Thank you both of you for answering all the pp questions! I'm a dude who like dude so the explanation about the peach stuff is highly informative! After that placenta video, this is literally an ambrosia for the eyes after that eye-bleach-mandatory video.
@clairer342
@clairer342 10 ай бұрын
I wish they would have mentioned piercings! How do those work, and do they not injure a partner? I would think a Prince Albert piercing would cause a lot of damage in penetrative sex 😬
@Lancer78x
@Lancer78x 10 ай бұрын
Both these Doctors are great.
@patmaurer8541
@patmaurer8541 10 ай бұрын
Most important takeaway: "We aren't embarassed. We just want to take care of you."
@sunamaruna4608
@sunamaruna4608 10 ай бұрын
Well that was some questions answered 😅. Thank you so much to both of you! ❤
@hippowannabe1890
@hippowannabe1890 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for using gender neutral and inclusive language!
@sarahbischoff2375
@sarahbischoff2375 10 ай бұрын
This is a wonderful video! I love how much of the advice is just...explore and listen w/ your partner
@itssteph263
@itssteph263 10 ай бұрын
Don't interact with trolls in the comments spewing hate simply click on the 3 dots on the side of their comment and report them.
@cherryrussell7648
@cherryrussell7648 10 ай бұрын
This was super cool to watch and listen to honestly
@Milkymommy09
@Milkymommy09 10 ай бұрын
It's interesting that she's saying that literally removing nerves doesn't change sensation. It would have been nice if she would have talked about the risk/percentage of penile cancer. Reducing your risk from 0000.000000001 to 0 doesn't seem like a reason to amputate part of your sex organs just in case.
@strawberrybunnyy
@strawberrybunnyy 10 ай бұрын
It's not just about penile cancer though, it also reduces your risk for STDs, like she says in the video
@marthahawkinson-michau9611
@marthahawkinson-michau9611 10 ай бұрын
Whether or not circumcision changes sensation depends largely on what type of circumcision surgery is performed. There are multiple types, some are more invasive than others. The less invasive surgery type only causes a minimal change in function, if anything. More invasive surgery? More problems. The foreskin itself doesn’t really have very many nerves on its own. It’s just a small flap of skin. It’s the structure near the foreskin that has all the nerve endings.
@material-cheshirekhatter2413
@material-cheshirekhatter2413 10 ай бұрын
​@@marthahawkinson-michau9611THANK YOU, sooo many people keep describing it as this barbaric act that is basically abusing a baby for no reason and removing function, which isn't true.
@jelatinosa
@jelatinosa 10 ай бұрын
​@@material-cheshirekhatter2413I only see people describing it as what it is, a usually unnecessary body modification procedure. And it does cause pain and has its own risks. And doing it to a child who can't consent, on the off chance it prevents an unlikely infection or cancer just seems unethical to me.
@material-cheshirekhatter2413
@material-cheshirekhatter2413 10 ай бұрын
@@jelatinosa that's because you're reading what you want to read
@hellosunshine2826
@hellosunshine2826 10 ай бұрын
Going over to Rena's channel now! Excellent video y'all. Happy Holidays!
@cassievining340
@cassievining340 10 ай бұрын
RE circumcision and cancer. If it seems focused in the foreskin anyway, wouldn't that be the part removed if cancer occurred as an adult? And does penile cancer hit a small or large percentage of uncircumcised men? Because unless it's actually an issue that is happening enough to make it a "problem", I don't see why circumcision would be the go-to pre-treatment for an ailment that might never come. It's like taking out an appendix to avoid possible appendicitis at some point in your life. Effective, but most likely unnecessary. Considering most of the world doesn't perform this on their babies, have we checked how many males are dealing with penile cancer in other countries as a result?
@ouwebrood497
@ouwebrood497 10 ай бұрын
It's a ridiculous argument to justify circumcision on children to prevent the extremely rare cases of penile cancer. By this reaoning, it would make more sense to do preventive mastectomies, but we all understand that would be really bad.
@cassievining340
@cassievining340 10 ай бұрын
@@ouwebrood497 I agree completely. Think of all the women who’ve died from breast cancer. It would make far more sense to do preemptive mastectomies as a preventative measure for that then to continue circumcision in the off chance of cancer developing in the foreskin. We all know (if we’re being honest) that Americans generally have an impossible time working through cultural changes, and men who’ve had it done aren’t likely to want to say it’s unnecessary mutilation because it already happened to them. Is it the absolute worst thing that can happen? Not if everything goes right. But odd cuts, infections, and if it’s being done by Mohel, there was one instance (that made it to the news, anyways) of a Mohel that had passed Type 1 Herpes to three babies, one of whom died.
@SootyDreams
@SootyDreams 10 ай бұрын
I like that Dr.Malik kept correcting herself in regards to gender. Very respectful.
@maymontt
@maymontt 10 ай бұрын
Vegan usually reflects the rejection of the commodification of animals. So this has to do with consent of the animal. So if you have consent of the human animal you are taking something from then it’s probably vegan?
@markotnanatkapietruszki
@markotnanatkapietruszki 10 ай бұрын
Yep, that's right.
@isabelleblanchet3694
@isabelleblanchet3694 10 ай бұрын
If you don't have consent of the human, it's SA and a crime.
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname 10 ай бұрын
IF only the meaning was only about consent. .But its not its about it being a product of an animal.. Sperm is also a living creature in its own way. Cant give consent. Awkward hey. All those Vegans out there murdering in the billions ;)
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname
@Areyousayingidontknowmyname 10 ай бұрын
@@markotnanatkapietruszki Nope its not..... a strict vegetarian who consumes no food (such as meat, eggs, or dairy products) that comes from animals. also : one who abstains from using animal products (such as leather) vegan adjective
@jelatinosa
@jelatinosa 10 ай бұрын
​@@Areyousayingidontknowmynameyou are conflating "plant based" with veganism, as many people do and is the reason for this question. Veganism is an ethical stance that intends to reduce harm and exploitation of animals as much as possible by avoiding the consumption of the products that come from said exploitation. If human sperm ever becomes such a commodity that men are rounded up and made to ejaculate against their will to take their semen, then it would not be vegan. If you consume the semen of your consenting adult partner who freely and willingly gave it, it's vegan. Non human animals cannot consent, and to stay on the topic of semen, the way humans take semen from a bull for example, is cruel and disturbing. They put a prod up their anuses and send a painful electrical current through their prostate and the muscle that prevents them from becoming erect, forcing them to ejaculate. In that instance, it's not vegan. Also, the act of using that semen to forcefully impregnate a young heifer is not vegan. Then taking away the calf so that we can collect the colostrum and milk she produces for it, is also not vegan. Buying the milk or consuming it wouldn't be vegan because it creates demand for the cruelty and exploitation to continue.
@NoKidsNoProblem
@NoKidsNoProblem 10 ай бұрын
This channel is great! I'm learning a lot of things. Thank you!
@feliciasjoberg9886
@feliciasjoberg9886 10 ай бұрын
2:10 Immediately thought of THAT Grey's Anatomy episode 😅 Poor Mark!
@fivebooks8498
@fivebooks8498 10 ай бұрын
I know a guy who woke up and had to pee but he had morning wood and couldn’t bend it down to the toilet. He bent it so hard that it snapped. He said it turned black and was bleeding internally. He went to the hospital. The doctor said it was under so much pressure that the meat just snapped. He had surgery to repair it. It healed eventually but He says it still has a knot about halfway up the shaft. I’ve also heard of this happening when a woman is on top and she leans back too far.
@pedanticm
@pedanticm 10 ай бұрын
"Never go ass to mouth." --Clerks 3
@joseph_b319
@joseph_b319 10 ай бұрын
Clerks 2
@js1js135
@js1js135 4 ай бұрын
This was great! Thanks!🎉
@ashbaer319
@ashbaer319 10 ай бұрын
The eggplant disappearing with x-files theme took me out
@hydrangeadays
@hydrangeadays 10 ай бұрын
😂Love the eggplant emoji disappearing with the X-Files as backing music.
@Romanticoutlaw
@Romanticoutlaw 10 ай бұрын
I don't even have the parts but this episode made me clench so hard lol
@shanetaylor3814
@shanetaylor3814 9 ай бұрын
Thank you both
@coolocelot
@coolocelot 10 ай бұрын
Me to my husband: Babe the gynecologist i watch is collabing the the penis dr you watch and penis surgery sounds TERRIFYING
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