Most Marriages Fail Because of THIS! ft.

[@moniqueandrews6147]

The difference between Transparency and Honesty👌🏾.. Not everyone's gonna catch it!

[@samuelkalekezi8962]

This is a real gem right here. 👌👌

[@synakareeves9069]

This is miscommunication. Once she said no that’s shoulda been it. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, trust isn’t knowing but believing.

[@javonttewilliams8663]

There is no difference

[@thelmayoung1648]

Four decades in my marriage, and the truth is that your relationship is “curated” with the two of you! I love the word that she used! I will be using that! Keep it healthy in the relationships! 😊❤

[@luvmifro1003lovesfamily]

Congratulations to you both!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@matthewjohnson1643]

The issue I see today is people are more worried about what they are getting out of the relationship instead of what they can put into the relationship.

[@kentwoodpd843]

It's amazing that single people can always tell you how to keep a marriage. Take advice from someone who got the goods! 20yrs married...never divorced.

[@juliansearcie1758]

Nope it not people it's women since they initiate 80 percent of divorces ..only a fool would marry these days

[@mimih23]

I love the fact that she brings up the fact that you must have friends who also help to hold you accountable in your relationship and don't project their insecurities or opposing views to how you move within your marriage. Just as important.

[@trfrierson]

We have to learn not only to be in relationship with people but to study and be intentional. I love how she puts things.

[@Jay-v7y8x]

I appreciate Dr. Bryant’s definition of honesty and transparency. It makes a lot of sense!❤

[@Iamlonndanicole]

Dr. C is absolutely grounded in her maturity, love, and advice! Finally some truth amongst all of the trash filled “dating advice” out here! Everyone needs security-man or woman

[@roolyfe]

Amen 🙏🏿

[@rgtunderworldrgt7773]

True. The difference is that men are Raised to, and expect to, and are Expected to provide women with Security. But our women are screaming to the Mountain tops that they are Independent, Don't need No man and That their men ain't SH💩T. And are saying it more often, and Louder than any other Demographic of women. When they aren't screaming about* DIVESTING ", towards Brad and Chad, lying about White Billionaires preferring them? Because she protects his wealth? Please . Crazy how great you all have become at telling Half truths

[@chantejones7878]

She has all the answers but isn’t married🚩🚩

[@Iamlonndanicole]

@@chantejones7878have you ever been married? Just curious…

[@roolyfe]

@@chantejones7878 I never thought of that! Wow 😯! Like getting parent advice from someone who doesn’t have kids!

[@Missybella92227]

Agree with the Dr. I am willing to do what’s necessary to reassure my partner. If a partner has nothing to hide …it should not be an issue.

[@stonebanton7716]

( If a partner has nothing to hide …it should not be an issue. ) The irony is a lot of women today with bad pasts have a lot to hide and a lot of regrets.

[@justindavid8074]

So true

[@ReverenceGod]

“Control”…that word right there needs to be discussed and defined

[@lincolnward85]

Agreed, it shouldn't be a way to shut down someone else's perspective because you disagree.

[@TheCreditRepairShop]

This is great advice! I hear similarities with what my wife and I use. We've been married for 35 years since we were 20 and 21 years old.

[@arleneaugustahair8393]

I don’t even go out when it’s dark unless it’s an emergency or my husband is going to the store with me.

[@EshaRenee]

Speak it Dr. C👏👏👏 My hubby and I have been together for 23 years and we have been doing this our entire relationship, we enjoy checking in with each other, we are best friends and we always make sure we are safe and good when we are not around each other!!!

[@ReverenceGod]

@@EshaRenee amen

[@missklassy9783]

_Can you stop telling a bunch of habitual lies, your almost 70 years old Maceo?_

[@jewelsjkm]

Dr. Bryant is right. You gotta do what’s best for you and your wife/husband.

[@balebanksful]

Her response was so spiritually focused! I really needed to hear a woman say this so clearly and even a man’s need for clarity. Thank you!!

[@Pure_KodiakWILD_Power]

Good Lord she is gorgeous 🔥🔥 If the girlfriend and her friends were in line someplace, those dude's voices could have been anybody, but the way she reacted when the question was brought up was problematic.

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

She old Stop lying

[@harrisq]

You can’t have a successful marriage without God. It is a covenant not contract. No matter, well you communicate, set boundaries, “heal” pass traumas, without God at the center of the relationship it will fail

[@RC-ww4dd]

The Definition of covenant is synonymous to a contract but i like your message

[@harrisq]

@@RC-ww4dd How so? At their core a contract is devolved of trust and if the terms are broken there goes the relationship that’s why you need a contract. However a covenant is a promise to fully commit no matter what

[@jamesgoodson3430]

Know God know marriage

[@jamesgoodson3430]

The word husband means commitment

[@mjlthepoet4709]

Not just about having God. It's living as Jesus loved.

[@marinevetalexander]

The amount of energy people are putting into these conversations is mind blowing.

[@Nigerianchief]

There is a desire for relationships amongst ppl now, the market has recognized it and the sellers are selling lol.

[@brandonb3711]

whats wrong with it if its helping people and their relationships? there are conversations about everything on YT and social media this just happens to be one of them

[@MsE711]

Not sure how this showed up on my timeline, but every since I've been listening to Tony Gaskins, I'm looking at ALL podcasts differently.

[@valerie4912]

All that picture taking and FaceTime-ing sounds great. HOWEVER, I had one man trick me with all that and another man trick his fiancé (whom I knew nothing about) with that as well. I would get pictures and videos of his whereabouts only to find out he was doing the exact same thing with another woman. The last guy (a celebrity to boot) would leave me to do things like grab me a Starbucks or have a quick meeting, get the car so I didn’t have to walk far etc… but, come to find out that in those moments he’d be FaceTime-ing his fiancé. Both of these ladies and I had no clue about the other. People can be real slick with the “honesty”. Heart breaking, really.

[@deshawnpeterson1538]

This would mean that you haven’t healed from your past. Which also means that you shouldn’t be dating. At this point you will bring your unhealthy ways from your past trauma into a new relationship. Which will result in a failed relationship.

[@valerie4912]

@@deshawnpeterson1538 Help me understand how you got that I haven’t healed from my story.

[@grobbymuleya]

A seat belt does not guarantee that you’ll survive an accident but It 1000% increases the chances of survival. Everything she said is still valid and is simply just basic communication/transparency which people in healthy relationships been doing for years, ain’t nothing new.

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Stop projecting and do the innerwork so you can stop dating cheaters.. it’s so many healthy relationships unfortunately you never had it so don’t project your trauma on others.. a lot of us are here to stay positive and get advice to continue our healthy relationships

[@valerie4912]

@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 I agree with you on doing the inner work. I have been in therapy for about 10 years working on many traumas. I feel your comment was quite mean and I truly hope you don’t speak to your patients like that. I was not projecting. I was sharing something quite painful that has happened to me. Sometimes one person feels they are in a healthy relationship while the other party has a different agenda. I’ll continue on doing my work. Thank you.

[@Adakataba]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[@LilyOlivia-p3s]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@Adakataba]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@LilyOlivia-p3s]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@LilyOlivia-p3s]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@Adakataba]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@Orangesunday421]

What’s wild is taking relationship and marriage advise.. from someone who doesn’t have success marriage or relationships

[@thejoshuadillard]

It’s just interesting seeing this single woman promote life-long love and marriage but she herself hasn’t been able to find nor maintain it. Shes very well-spoken tho

[@stacksondeck515]

Easy….you ever watched basketball with a basketball player? You’re just there to enjoy the game, they’re analyzing and Monday QB the whole game?

[@nikid1561]

Promoting love is for single and married people. It’s a concept for all. Not being married isn’t a failure. It’s not a required benchmark in life.

[@christianhenry4173]

​@@nikid1561she's giving therapy as if she's married. What advice is she giving outside of past broken relationships? God honors marriages. That's like a Married man trying to give advice to single people. The two points of views don't mix.

[@Onlytherealeststays]

​@@stacksondeck515wtf are you talking about

[@candyxoxo19]

That’s right and single people with no children is successful. In society, Being divorced is somehow praised over the choice to stay away from marrying wrong.

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

How would an unmarried/never married woman or man know what makes a marriage work or fail? Impossible. We've been down this road with Bill Cosby and the late Kevin Samuels. Where are they now?

[@Rico-RR]

Honesty vs Transparency 💯

[@charlenehaughton4235]

What’s the unpopular opinion? Reassurance? Absolutely should be part of a strong relationship, not at all unpopular opinion.

[@marthaawoke4623]

Not sure that I would listen to someone’s advice who has commitment phobia. Just my thoughts. I have been married for 24 years. Not easy but it is worth it.

[@Satia512]

I can’t take her seriously after watching her on basketball wives. I’m sorry. After that show she showed her true self and it’s strange that she didn’t present herself this way on the show. . Issa no for me.

[@Cherrybaby12]

I don’t remember her on that show because I didn’t watch it a whole lot. They are all distasteful women in my opinion. But now that you said that, I knew it was something about her that wasn’t sitting well with me. Maybe it’s the lack of authenticity that I can kind of see on the surface. 🤔

[@adeOLUWA]

And how long ago was this? Is it impossible to change? Or once you see/experience someone in a situation you do not like, you choose to blacklist them for life?

[@Satia512]

@ black list ? I don’t have a list. I have choices. & I choose to not take information from her. Just like you chose to comment. We all pretty much do what we want. My preference… is not her. From what I’ve seen. I don’t know where her change is, do you ? Better question. Why didn’t she use that platform to uplift her degree and knowledge? Was it because that platform was about mess and drama so she conformed instead of standing out. Sooooo I should believe her now? No thank you. Changed, not changed. I only know what she’s shown me. From that I’ve decided… to not indulge.

[@timverba4830]

Understanding the relationship is key. It sounded like the gentleman started this clip describing a dating relationship. Whereas, Dr. Bryant was describing a marital relationship. There are different boundaries that get established between the different types of relationships.. But, what should be constant is open communication. I will accept Dr. Bryant's term of transparent communication. You should grow more transparent with your partner as the relationship grows from dating, to a commited couple, to a fiance, to a marriage. Added note: I am reminded of the second stanza of that Donny Hathaway tune - "I know it's you" I tell you nothing's better When there's no need to look 'Cause you know who's there I smile the world over The second stanza says

[@nevillepaul903]

That was intense! But I'm still not sure why most marriages fail...

[@39mack23]

Women is why

[@WiiNV]

L🤥L Hint 😬

[@cjohnson_]

Bc most ppl get married when they should've broke up! People use marriage to "fix" stuff in their relationship. The difference between today and yesteryear is nobody HAS to be married anymore so folks walk away as opposed to staying married out of necessity. And they're not necessarily wrong however folks need to stop getting married like it's just a box you check off.

[@jhartdaspecialist654]

1) Someone choose to become selfish and prideful. 2) Nobody fear God any more and respect vows

[@MarriedZayna]

Whew yes!!! Love this! I make sure to tell my hubby every movement and I don’t mind❤️🥰 even the uncomfortable things ❤️No secrets

[@wilfredpamela5192]

I’ve been blown away, wow. I have to listen to the full session

[@Jay-vv8mq]

She's making her way around😂

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

Trying to avoid the cats

[@melissadclark1979]

This was very very well done. It’s everything she’s saying, and everything she’s not.

[@ericajones6287]

Dr. Bryant shooting her shot. 😊

[@greayeve3035]

That was a beautiful discussion. Both brought good examples and I feel growth upon watching this. This is what I think about when I think of podcasts, the sharing of information and knowledge.

[@papi8303]

Oldest testament DO NOT TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMAN WHO IS NOT MARRIED HERSELF!

[@jvincy32]

This woman is so good!!! Not only she is my age it’s her intellect and knowledge with experience

[@justindavid8074]

This good . I agree with everything the Dr said . We do that and it is a thing for us .

[@willieperry3916]

I’m controlling if I love my woman, that’s my woman and I want a woman that is just as controlling as me because I’m her man I don’t want to be in a relationship where just because she calls me she can go and run with her friends and go out to dinner all the timebecause I’m not

[@h.peters]

If you're in a relationship and the person be talking like the internet, that is, all the "trendy" words of the season or the year, such as narcissist (used many times for EVERYTHING). Run, Forrest, run. They don't have a mind of their own. Their thoughts and feelings about something is governed by what is the trendy "hot topics", along with the associated words.

[@areyoublind2502]

I agree with her on everything.

[@SurrDesSol]

GREAT conversation!

[@cjohnson_]

Divorce rates arent high enough. The truth is too many folks get married when what they should have done is break up and never ever get back together....hence the high divorce rate. People use marriage as a band aid for some odd reason. It doesn't work like that. Staying misrrably married isnt the goal. Being happily married is. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@nathanielhill2533]

Loved this❤❤❤

[@domojordan6284]

Curious…. I’m Feeling What She Sayin But Why Is She Single

[@VerleanHurd]

Yeah, very unpopular opinion. Im not going to lie, and say I wouldnt have felt some type of way. I would have answered his question. Then,when I made it home. We would have had a conversation. If Ive never given you a reason to doubt me.Then,why have doubts? Her response was over the top. Unless, this was a reoccurring thing in their relationship. Ive been married 36 years. What do I know. Every couple is different. Theres no one size fits all.

[@HonestLeighSpeaking]

While I agree in reassuring our partners, Doc should have also spoken to the reality of the fact that he should have been transparent and vulnerable by saying hey I heard some guys in the background and it made me think that some guys were around you and I second-guessed what you said “… After all that is why he asked… if his girlfriend then freaked out and accused him of being a narcissist, then I understand… However, him asking a question and not effectively communicating why he asked a question was also the issue… Vulnerability should be a part of honesty and transparency

[@raynaijohnson5701]

Facts

[@zottida1295]

Shes way too old to be dressing like a city girl. But her points be A1🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@marshellewilson4377]

I think at the time when he asked the question about guys she should’ve immediately gave clarity no matter what said no honey that was other couples beside us waiting for the valet to bring their car as well. I don’t think she should do the FaceTime later down the line unless that’s something they were already doing from the beginning!

[@musaoscer]

I like her idea 💡 ❤

[@stocksxbondage]

8:15 she started PREACHING

[@reemobrooklyn3557]

Yeah she was putting it work there.

[@DerrioTayJohnson-cq1nr]

Name him and claim him sweet heart. Anthony: She's claiming you 🎉❤😂 wide open youngman!!!!!!! All out in the out field; Touch Down..., Anthony Oneal 🏈 .

[@royce1041]

Compatibility is off on major levels

[@OluMentum]

This is gold

[@KennethLAddison]

That was good! Thanks!

[@kimanisamson3814]

That defensiveness shows that she was actually with her male friends

[@mrmoe110]

“Male friends” don’t exist if they’re not a colleague or a childhood friend. All other “male friends” are only “friends” because there’s some level of attraction

[@TheCPerryExperience]

Say what you what she is talking!!! 🔥

[@shayonsmith]

Got the vibe bro... follow your gut

[@mikeanderson9613]

My God i wish i could find me a woman like this

[@trevorc8778]

No, you don't.

[@TinaRoss-y4f]

LORD THIS IS GOOD 🙏🙏💙💙💙 ESPECIALLY WITH WHERE IM AT IN MY 60s💙💙I WASNT CRAZY I WASNT LOVED WOW HAD I SEEN IT 33YEARS AGO SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY AND DIDNT KNOW IT WOW

[@illioillio3123]

This was good and reasonable

[@learnwithjahsun]

I like her. She's solid --- you can tell.

[@rashardstallworth209]

how would a person who has never been married know the answer to that question?

[@candyxoxo19]

Easily since we live in a recession right now of good men to marry for black women. A lot of older childless pretty black women are single bc of lack of opportunity to date.

[@DerekHarris-h7g]

Relationship advice with the sheer shirt on. She came to distract 😂 Anthony can’t even focus

[@thegodblogger3812]

All this from a woman who has never been married. Ladies, unless you want to end up where she is in life (unmarried) I suggest you don't swallow her medicine.

[@thegodblogger3812]

@montyincali The Simpire is awake and sassy 😆 🤣 😂

[@Teewayne]

She was giving some great information until she got to the end with "Woman's Intuition". She went completely off the rails.

[@ifareaged]

Would you have preferred gut feeling?? Because I find that a lot of men only have problems with women's intuition when it's used on them?? Like a mom having an intuition on the person you're dating or friends isn't as looked down upon as a partner doing so

[@julesgordon1109]

​@@ifareagedand women's intuition seem to never be around when it's time to procreate with the right man. Why yall don't blame yall intuition for not letting you know that the man was no good?

[@lyrikalinyoswiminpoo]

Earning a doctorate from an institution that no longer exists is nasty work!! 😂😂😂

[@mjlthepoet4709]

People want to love as the world has described it. Spiritual love, which is loving as Jesus did, requires one to be high functioning!

[@msredd339]

God blessed him to dodge a bullet she wasn't the one for him she blow things out of proportion he asked her a simple question

[@Sadji594]

I video chat my husband all the time. It’s not a thing and he video chat me because I got in a hide.

[@tenneildoe3674]

Definitely not an unpopular opinion. His girl had something to hide based on her reaction. Simple.

[@lalaxo5869]

This woman must be protected at all costs

[@whyworkwhenicanrap6830]

I’ve dated girls who knew how to control there emotions

[@KennethLAddison]

Spin it back! : )

[@agoraconsultingllc435]

No you didn't! Lol. Genius move on the marketing end to bring her in. Smart man

[@canarykaine9072]

If the convo been going in this long it’s time to get your passports fellas

[@CaliforniaAllStars]

Imagine getting advice from two people who are not married! 😂

[@franklinwill22]

Listening to single women give dating advice is hilarious. Serial engagements and still unmarried

[@jmiller9972]

The best coaches usually weren't that great at what they did themselves. Did Bill Belichick even play football in the NFL? There own mistakes and failures become lessons to be taught to others

[@loriell1996]

Sisssss👏🏾👏🏾

[@Epiphanykendell]

Yesss i agree wit her!

[@tekaturnquestcox]

Relationships are work

[@juanlong7374]

Love it.

[@julesgordon1109]

Its amazing that the least married demographic in america will tell you how to have and maintain a healthy relationship.

[@candyxoxo19]

You can’t help your demographic but you can choose to avoid divorce.

[@p9a9r21]

But notice, she said all that was an "unpopular" opinion. That caveat was for millions of black women who feel being held accountable or even being emphatic to a black man is an anathema and preferable to death.

[@Razzbme]

People should understand this and if not then those are the ones full of B.S

[@MrTJHall91]

One thing I was taught, if it ain’t broke don’t fix it. When she said then after we gain this trust we can come to the table and change it around. For what? That’s the problem with women, they feel like they need to change something just because your eye or your knowledge of where they are at is known. What is this need to be free and not known where my location is at has to be presented. Men, be careful with women, they went from being ones that don’t want to be manipulated, to being the ones doing the manipulation. Be cautious with your time, you and your seed.

[@lsimmons24]

Marital advice from a 40+yr old woman that's never been married.

[@Doctor_Ice]

I’m trying to marry her

[@DizzyDDaRealist]

😂😂😂😂

[@mamadyjuniorsane7283]

All I understood is it works for others but not for her. Pffffff

[@conscientiousobserver7444]

Take the Dr. off 😂😂😂😂😂

[@megatron7172]

The biggest reason for divorce is marriage. lol

[@postman9957]

The least married demographic in the United States is Black women, with 26% of Black women married. The racial and ethnic groups with the highest proportions of married people are Asian women (56%), White women (51%), and Hispanic women (43%).

[@candyxoxo19]

That’s why she’s smart bc of choosing to stay single rather than create children with a man who don’t want to marry her.

[@Existentiallynotincrisis]

Now allow history to befriend you and do some research. What is your purpose in saying this? What’s your intent? Are you married? I am.

[@candyxoxo19]

@@Existentiallynotincrisis Its because the youth needs to know these statistics. I was way too naive waiting on a black man to marry me when there is simply not enough black men to go around for every progressive black woman. The demographic that has the most amount of women as mothers is black women however the marriage rate is only 26% for black women is eye opening. I wish someone told me when I was a teenager.

[@loriell1996]

That wasn't unpopular with me at all

[@chriskey7440]

Is she married? Can we get a married guest on this show please haha?

[@YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND]

So, you're saying when she goes out. She has to go where there are only women? Men aren't going to stop talking around her when she's speaking to you on the phone... You did her a favor!

[@adrienneh.1048]

YES!!!

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Everything about Anthony is SEXY do you hear me! He is so articulate, intentional and most of all a man of God.. young ladies (under 35) these are the men you all should be PREPARING to be a wife for.. im tickled because I remember in one of his episodes he spoke about dating a “cougar” LOL., Anthony are you still dating cougars (fine 50 year old cougars) asking for a friend 😫🤣❤️

[@itsicy673]

Why Anthony and Cheyenne just don’t get together and be over with it 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Taylort5]

Deception

[@chickentwo1]

WHAT ARE THOSE THINGS AT THE END OF YOUR FINGERS?😳